To be childfree or not to be

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  • Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
  • “I do not intend to have kids.” If you’re also weighing that option, this chat might be for you. ‪@nikhil.kamath‬
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 115

  • @tanyachauhan6129
    @tanyachauhan6129 3 місяці тому +36

    Well said.. child free is a choice for couple.. people don't interfere in it..they have also many benefits people can easily travel explore new type of skill..and can live without tension .. also can save environment..waise bhi itne pollution mein rehna mushkil hi hai.. unemployment, competition everything is very challenging for offspring..global warming se waise bhi jeena mushkil ho gya hai.. lots of pressure 😢😢

    • @lonelysailor2434
      @lonelysailor2434 3 місяці тому +1

      But i am afraid what will happen i am alone at my old age, how will i live alone, will be in deppression! probably i won’t be able to walk on my own, would not have more money to hire someone to take care of me. How will i avoid these don’t know. My inlaws needed a surgery, we managed everything. Who will do that when i will be there age! I have an aunt who is childless, she lives alone, doesn’t have much money. Her sister who has children takes care of the aunt during her illness. Seeing these i am worried

    • @anonkni8
      @anonkni8 3 місяці тому +4

      @@lonelysailor2434 there's no guarantee your children would look after you in your old age

    • @lonelysailor2434
      @lonelysailor2434 3 місяці тому

      @@anonkni8 right, but if u have children there is a chance they might if you don’t have there is at all no opportunity.

    • @theblueheart199
      @theblueheart199 3 місяці тому +2

      @@lonelysailor2434 no one's pressurizing you to NOT have kids; you can have kids you want, we're just asking people to stop forcing those beliefs on people who really don't want kids

    • @lonelysailor2434
      @lonelysailor2434 3 місяці тому

      @@theblueheart199 have i forced anyone in my comments ? Which part made u feel that? Its not a good habit to answer without reading the context properly. Keep yourself calm. I raised a concern for mine only if someone could share the experience so that i can decide.

  • @rmedhi4501
    @rmedhi4501 3 місяці тому +4

    It's your life your rules...ppl criticising her should focus on their own lives. If you want kids then go and produce a dozen of them. Nobody will interfere, afterall they are your liabilities...not others.

  • @anonkni8
    @anonkni8 3 місяці тому +55

    One only gets lifelong suffering through kids!

    • @Rudra-rf5cn
      @Rudra-rf5cn 3 місяці тому +10

      Apne papa ka experience share Kar rhe ho kya😂?

    • @rehanalam5111
      @rehanalam5111 3 місяці тому

      ​@@Rudra-rf5cn😂😂😂😂

    • @anonkni8
      @anonkni8 3 місяці тому +14

      @@Rudra-rf5cn yes, in a way I'm. True for your father as well.

    • @DipanwitaDas9
      @DipanwitaDas9 3 місяці тому +3

      ​@@Rudra-rf5cn same situation with your father as well

    • @Rudra-rf5cn
      @Rudra-rf5cn 3 місяці тому +1

      @@DipanwitaDas9 Isse Acha koi comeback nhi mila😂? 4th class ki "Same to you" Wali bakchodi se kabhi bahar nhi nikli kya😂?

  • @santhisreeni
    @santhisreeni 3 місяці тому +4

    Well answered...

  • @dreamer-bs1ur
    @dreamer-bs1ur 3 місяці тому +69

    I think many people should opt to be child free . Considering unemployment and paper leaks in India. Why do we need to make innocent souls to suffer?

    • @sunnymeee
      @sunnymeee 3 місяці тому

      Most people are fcking poor they ain't never having one and even if they make one they can't protect him from natural causes because lack of money cant solve a lot of problems, Americans are already going child fee because of high inflation and doing 2 jobs on average

    • @kartikeygupta4241
      @kartikeygupta4241 3 місяці тому +5

      That's seriously one of the most cynical argument i have seen

    • @anonkni8
      @anonkni8 3 місяці тому +3

      @@kartikeygupta4241 nothing wrong with cynicism!

    • @mr.x2870
      @mr.x2870 3 місяці тому +5

      Most importantly global warming. Save your money to get ac and pay electricity bills for the rest of your life rather than having children.

    • @DaniDani-eo2vk
      @DaniDani-eo2vk 3 місяці тому +2

      Also overpopulation

  • @CordeliaWagner1999
    @CordeliaWagner1999 3 місяці тому +44

    4B
    I don't feel the urge to be the mother of a nuclear family = I don't have to date.
    I took myself out of the game called "procreating to give capitalism more customers"

    • @spacecowboy5274
      @spacecowboy5274 2 місяці тому

      @@CordeliaWagner1999 what nonsense
      Customers are what makes an economy function. Besides children also grow to work and contribute to society not just consume.

  • @theblueheart199
    @theblueheart199 3 місяці тому +4

    idk why people just want to poke their noses into other people's business. like, they don't want kids. how does that affect your life. why do you care so much. what is your purpose. why are you in my house.

  • @Nature90313
    @Nature90313 3 місяці тому +22

    Adopt me!

  • @sandeep9bansal
    @sandeep9bansal 3 місяці тому +5

    And then many times in the rich person’s old age the so called caretaker ends up inheriting the wealth . Somehow they become the friend / kid who deserves everything

    • @snowwilliams5871
      @snowwilliams5871 3 місяці тому +14

      Cause your own kids feel entitled to your money without doing anything, and these people who inherited it work form them, cared for them.

    • @SupriyaAN
      @SupriyaAN 3 місяці тому +12

      What's wrong if the caretaker inherits the wealth for doing an honest job?

    • @dannystilleo363
      @dannystilleo363 3 місяці тому

      ​@@snowwilliams5871 took care because of money. No one is doing it for free. But a good son or daughter will do it without any expectations.

    • @snowwilliams5871
      @snowwilliams5871 3 місяці тому

      @@dannystilleo363 how many good sons or daughters are left? Even if there are, kids hardly live with their parents, they die old and lonely, I have seen so many cases live.

  • @frangipani.19
    @frangipani.19 3 місяці тому +16

    Yup I'm #childfreebychoice #childfreeforlife 🥰💖🌷💕

  • @rajibdeka2207
    @rajibdeka2207 Місяць тому

    I was born in a lower middle class family. Suffering and pain are the two things I know. My parents could not even afford quality education for me.

  • @dhyeysuvagiya7250
    @dhyeysuvagiya7250 3 місяці тому +1

    Make a video on neet scam

  • @wheatstonebridge
    @wheatstonebridge 20 днів тому

    Shes awesome

  • @Shimo2130
    @Shimo2130 3 місяці тому +2

    If our population declines and there are not enough employees then we might see many foreigners migrate and work in india. So, I don't think economy will be harmed. We will just see an increased number of foreigners in our society.

  • @Lilli_love200
    @Lilli_love200 3 місяці тому

    All her properties will go to whom then?

  • @lbsnaadiaries1432
    @lbsnaadiaries1432 3 місяці тому +1

    She is 36😂😂😂

    • @yournightmare12
      @yournightmare12 3 місяці тому +6

      Yes and?

    • @CordeliaWagner1999
      @CordeliaWagner1999 3 місяці тому +11

      Perfect age to enjoy life without being the caretaker household worker cook live in for a man.

    • @shahabazshaikh7113
      @shahabazshaikh7113 3 місяці тому +28

      You need to check your attention, 36 is nikhil's age not that lady.

    • @paraynikisku
      @paraynikisku 3 місяці тому +7

      *He
      Nikhil is! Listen and watch carefully !

    • @theblueheart199
      @theblueheart199 3 місяці тому

      and a billionaire

  • @parminderjssahni-jh4hk
    @parminderjssahni-jh4hk 3 місяці тому +2

    .... anything to stay relevant...

  • @905Modis
    @905Modis 3 місяці тому +8

    But you missed it.. the joy and aliveness.. i empathise...

    • @OPEN-LISTEN-ACT
      @OPEN-LISTEN-ACT 3 місяці тому +3

      He doesn't need your low-grade empathy! He has his own way to get what you got from children! It's simple!

    • @satoyamascoop
      @satoyamascoop 3 місяці тому +28

      Even a pet can give equal joy and aliveness... I empathise to your unawareness

    • @Rudra-rf5cn
      @Rudra-rf5cn 3 місяці тому +4

      ​@@satoyamascoopBhai teri ma majak meh tujhe kutto se compare kar rhi thi, Dil pe nhi lena tha tujhe....

    • @shubhamraj5140
      @shubhamraj5140 3 місяці тому +2

      Read david benatar

    • @CordeliaWagner1999
      @CordeliaWagner1999 3 місяці тому +14

      I don't want that Kind of Joy because it comes with to many very negative side effects

  • @tarunsharma7744
    @tarunsharma7744 3 місяці тому

    Ask her the same question in 20 years from now

    • @nagarajpn9279
      @nagarajpn9279 3 місяці тому +16

      She’s already old enough

    • @Snowball0300
      @Snowball0300 3 місяці тому +23

      A person with kids spotted

    • @DaniDani-eo2vk
      @DaniDani-eo2vk 3 місяці тому +6

      As if old people dont get abused by their kids....

  • @parminderjssahni-jh4hk
    @parminderjssahni-jh4hk 3 місяці тому +5

    What if his parents felt the same way??!!

    • @CordeliaWagner1999
      @CordeliaWagner1999 3 місяці тому +20

      They made the choice to orocrrate, with all the consequences.
      Don't blame the Victim

    • @theblueheart199
      @theblueheart199 3 місяці тому +4

      why would anyone want to mourn a person who doesn't even exist?

    • @manjularathaur9712
      @manjularathaur9712 2 місяці тому +4

      gods, i wish my parents had felt the same way

  • @parminderjssahni-jh4hk
    @parminderjssahni-jh4hk 3 місяці тому +2

    Just an attention seeker....

    • @sugasui1103
      @sugasui1103 3 місяці тому +20

      It's her choice
      Everyone has different opinions..
      If u want children no one is forcing u not to have so shut up

    • @parminderjssahni-jh4hk
      @parminderjssahni-jh4hk 3 місяці тому

      @@sugasui1103 I meant the guy.... not the lady....

    • @spacecowboy5274
      @spacecowboy5274 2 місяці тому

      @@sugasui1103 its a dumb choice everyone has different opinions and some of those opinions are nonsense.
      also how ironic how u say everyone has different opinions then tell him to shut up........

  • @Rudra-rf5cn
    @Rudra-rf5cn 3 місяці тому +1

    Ye sab karne se pehle make sure karna koi bhai behen tumhara hai ki nhi😂, Pta chala ye sab ke chakkar meh tumhara vanshaj hi dub gya😂...

    • @snowwilliams5871
      @snowwilliams5871 3 місяці тому +21

      Vamshaj dunne ko konsa samrajya hai. Kahi ke raja hai kay? Hote bhi to bhi aaj tak sare vanshaj dube he hai

    • @snowwilliams5871
      @snowwilliams5871 3 місяці тому +4

      @LearnSK85 history teaches a lot right. 😂😂

    • @Rudra-rf5cn
      @Rudra-rf5cn 3 місяці тому

      @@snowwilliams5871 Sirf raja hi vanshaj ka dhyan rakh sakte hai? Aisa kaha likha hai😂?

    • @Rudra-rf5cn
      @Rudra-rf5cn 3 місяці тому

      @@snowwilliams5871 Aur vanshaj ka Raj gharane ya rajya se kya taluk hai? Vanshaj ka matlab bhi pta hai😂?

    • @Rudra-rf5cn
      @Rudra-rf5cn 3 місяці тому

      @@snowwilliams5871 Jab tak tum ho, tumhara vanshaj kaise dubega, agar tum usko age badhaoge?