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"Little black men" is wild!!! 😂. Ima just sit back and eat my popcorn..this a fight that don't concern me 🤷🏽♀️
Same! 🍿 😂
@@Only1QueenOfEverything 👏🏾..lol
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Same sadly 🤷🏿♀️
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You hit the nail on the head with this one. My ex-husband once asked me why I don't encourage him & stroke his ego because he gets up and works hard at work every day? My response, "you want me to motivate you to do what you should be doing anyway?" I would thank him all the time, cook for him, do whatever he needed including taking care of his kids. He didn't reciprocate much. Paid all the household expenses for a year; then demanded we go 50/50. He rarely helped out around the house or with the kids saying it was woman's work. When he did do something, it was because he wanted s*x later. The relationship was very transactional. I later found out that he was cheating on me with multiple women, including while I was pregnant with his only son. I divorced him as soon as I could. Every now and then he'll ask for s*x. I always turn him down. I told him before we got married, "if this doesn't work out and we divorce, I will never come back to you. I don't do second chances. I give it my all the first time. So, once we are done, I'll move forward, not backward."
I’m glad you moved on from him, hope someone better comes your way ❤
You sound like a very strong and sound minded lady. I'm sorry you experienced that but props to you for having the integrity and self-respect to bow out.
Giving your all means you have no regrets and thus when you gone you gone. I concur. Forware always. Backwards never.
This is sad because I it sounds so similar to my ex minus the kids because I refuse to give any of them kids just to inevitably end up as a mama. It’s will either be in the beginning or end. I have come to the conclusion I think black want to be worshipped by the women they are with. If you are not constantly stroking their ego and treating them like literal kings then they don’t feel like you are “worthy” of their minimal effort and presence. I also think black men think they should be worshiped because they have this inflated idea in their minds that they have the bigger penises (which is not always true) so that’s all they need to be respected and worshiped. I give up on them at this point I don’t see this problem resolving itself.
The following source traces the history of the term black. The Old English blac was used, like blanc, to refer to a fair person, someone “devoid of colour”.
It was only in the 16th century that we saw the semantic change of blac to refer to something dark (night-colour):
The word ‘Black’ can be traced back to its proto Indo-European origins through the word ‘blac’ which meant pale, wan, colourless, or albino.
Your wife is so blessed to have you at the head of household. You always articulate the nuances of these issues so well. She sounded like a teacher😂smh
Worst, a parent
Yes, nice to see someone who is not lost in all this craziness. I commend Sumake
I APPRECIATE the mirror he's holding up to Afro person's ESPECIALLY men..I APPRECIATE ur voice and the consistency it offers..
And I love how he made the decision to be a father figure to the men who need it by checking them in attempt to create more men in the black community who do better for the black community!
@@samyahknotts4728 tru and HONESTLY ladies if we take note...he's teaching MADDDD game 😏
I love the "imma sit back in my feminine energy and let y'all handle this" attitude in here. Girlies, stay burning the cape and let's mind our own business and enjoy the infinite blessings from the most high.
TMH deals with men
Amen
And women, who are naturally spiritual. Just saying dude!🤷🏾♀️
“Feminine” and “masculine” eagerly talk is cringe. Leave that in 2023💀 gross
@@cryaboutit7499 that's YOU my guy. Cuz there are certain things that women tend to be overly involved in and has absolutely nothing to do with them... THAT'S what's cringe. So hell yeah, Imma use my feminine energy on this one and let the men handle their own battle as I mind my own business.
She’s doing this for attention! It clearly works for her with those specific black men. I just went to her page and the men in the comments are loving it smh 🥴
Kinda like an only fans!
Simp BM thirsting for a snow bunnies kitty.
this shit so sad- this is the validation they feel like they need?
No, trust me when I say this black man are desperate for attention from non black women. Every time I tell a black man I only date black women they all tell me I’m crazy for only dating my race.🤔
MEN? No she is talking like she is encouraging a under 10 year old child. The only thing that makes it look like she is talking to a Black "man", is her outfit where showing her cleveage and midriff and she knows that is how she will get their attention. What a sad state of affairs.
I’m glad you as a black man recognize this.
The following source traces the history of the term black. The Old English blac was used, like blanc, to refer to a fair person, someone “devoid of colour”.
It was only in the 16th century that we saw the semantic change of blac to refer to something dark (night-colour):
The word ‘Black’ can be traced back to its proto Indo-European origins through the word ‘blac’ which meant pale, wan, colourless, or albino.
@Tomgood1984 OK replace those words with Asiatic and it still applies. Stop the foolishness.
Exactly
It’s called pandering he didn’t even provide one valid argument
The funny part is all of my white friends wear weave (including this “fit” woman presented today). They just call them “extensions.” They get Botox, lip filler, eye lash extensions, the works. Bm still think they are “all natural” 😂😂😂😂
Same with my white friends 😅. They do more fake stuff than I do! It's okay when they do it. It's just a cope, because they don't want to admit that they worship Becky. I wish they would just be honest, so black women can get over them.
Thiss!!!! HAHAH it is really funny😂
All my white gf are not natural 😂
It’s painful to hear this, like why are we hated so much? We are woman and we do what all women do but yet we get gaslighted and singled out, it’s bullying at this point.
@@Iyonndadon Because blk xys hate themselves. We remind them of how much they fail.
Some black men don't respect themselves so others don't respect them
Exactly
And they don’t respect BW, so why should we respect them?
*most
It's only most when it comes to a specific environment. The troublesome low income and crime ridden environments where success is not well known
This applies more to black women than black men. Complaining about being sexualize or left as single mothers but they do it to themselves.
“My little black men” 😂
She's a cougar 😂😂😅
😂😅😢
she tell no lie lol haha
They like being spoken to like this by Becky.... 😂😂😂
When I tell you I am crying laughing 😂😂😂😂😂
Oh she’s going to be rich rich! She knows what she’s doing
Exactly
Black men will always give their money to Becky. Quickly.
EXACTLY! Get your money girl!
Bad built Becky is hustling 😂😂😂
My sentiment, she has found her niche and she will be making bread 😂😂
Black men don’t need to be uplifted by this Caucasian woman nor the black woman. No brothers need to turn back to the most high. That’s the only source we need and once we do that the black woman will follow us and the other races will respect us. It’s supposed to be the most high, his son, the black man and the black woman. That’s the chain of command.
Love that...chain of command ❤
True
That's Biblical!
PREACHHHHH!! If Becky can’t come they don’t want to go!
Sometimes we do need encouragement and we need the Most high. We need both. Heck I still need my mom. I need a hug every now and again. God created us to be in relationships. It all matters.
My step brothers are WM and I showed them this video and they agreed with they need no encouragement to perform what’s expected of them for their families, also she’s the type of WW they reject. She knows she has no choice but to appeal to bm.
EXACTLY‼️
Ooop😅😅
Girl stop the cap 😂😂😂
@@kingstrong5351spotted glocktavious😂 everything is a lie to bm, EVERYTHING that tells the truth about them
@@chorizoramen93 This is what lack of accountability looks like, they will deny everything, even when that what women told her boyfriend that being with a Black man is not a badge of honour, they still wanted to say she was talking nonsense.
BM are so easily amused sometimes. Easy as heck 🤦🏽♀️
If they were grown ups they would be offended.
The kindergarten responses from them are embarrassing.
@@tessw9744Exactly. They’re just looking for a non-black savior
It not hard to tell why our ancestors ended up where they did! These men are sad
Haaaaaaa lol 😂
This has nothing to do with me. This is a blk mans thing peace to all of you.
The disrespect that Black men have for themselves and each other is being reflected right back to them. To be respected, you must respect yourself, and that self-respect gives birth to self-confidence that no one can ever take away because it is rooted in who you are as a person and who God has made you to be. More of us men and women must choose everyday to conduct ourselves with the highest respect and dignity because we are worth it. We show people how to treat us, and right now, sadly, we are being mistreated because we mistreat ourselves and each other.
This right here !!!! They did this to themselves! And need to Man up like the other men on this Planet 🌎
I have to agree
Amen
Have that same energy for bw who twerk and act ignorant all day
Sorry Sista I focused on your first couple sentences. The last part of your statement applies to ALL OF US EQUALLY and is spot on
The men in the comments said bw don't uplift or ride for black men. But bw are they main ones marching, bailing out, etc etc.
Brick Lady anyone?
the one thing i will not do is uplift a loser or a man that doesn't take care of himself or his seed. Who in the streets all the time and not taking care of business.
BW really need to stop and see where that leaves them...
Those BM are lying! And that is why a lot of us refuse to ride for them another day! They neither appreciate nor deserve it! BM have to man up and stop looking for others to do for them!!
@@Bornagainvillain….white lady crying grape anyone? You see how that don’t work? Bw are the most supportive to black men by a large percentage of them dude. Stop naming a minority and making it about race when women regardless of what they look like lie, etc etc. Get over yourself. Some things are not about gender or race
This lady isn’t stupid, she knows exactly what she’s doing.
I'm glad they have other women to depend on. Black women need rest and their efforts to help bm have gone to no avail. Helping folks who do not care, respect, love or like you is complete insanity. Just saying.
💯👍🏽I’m so happy they got their passports and preferences!
Men r an independent creature. They dont need anybody to depend on besides their mama, aunts and or grandma.
@@jhimpcaca5718 Every guy has there own definition, some guy down in the comments said that's what women are supposed to do and it's their place sooo 🤷♀️.
What efforts? List them
@@amw7828 Well, that is going a little awry in Colombia for them.
Black women been trying to uplift black men since the 40s 50s 60s 70s 80s 90s early 2000s. I don't see a lot of videos of black men uplifting women for decades. I know blk women today that stick by men thats don't love them. Ive seen older women in and out of my family carry the family even when married. Theres a lot of men that don't have anything to offer. Even when they're broke, they are to broken to be there emotionally for you. So whats the point dealing with a broke broken man. Whether you're a woman or a man if you're broken work on yourself this is not the time to be distracting yourself with ideas of dating. "If you need someone to talk to you like this you a kid". Yep and grown women DO NOT WANT TO MOTHER a man who wants to be in her bed.
That's because you are looking at it from a bias perspective. You guys disrespect bm on a daily basis as well. You just cherry pick what you wanna pay attention to.
The only “disrespect” I’ve come across from BW is them expressing their grievances that they’ve individually or collectively experienced from BM. Not being upstanding fathers and husbands or being leaders in their careers, homes, and communities. Calling out what we all can see is just not the same as belittling and disrespect. Yes I I know BW can work on things as well but that’s a separate conversation.
Breath life into these menz😂
@nicolem5626 you can tell that she has been done wrong. She is projecting her experiences onto everyone. No good man would want to deal with that mindset.
@@mrbrave29 again another Black man is in his feelings and thinking someone is attacking them without seeing . hey if you want to stay a victim stay being a victim or you can rise above and push through
I see so many black women saying some of the same things and not in such a condescending way. Black women make songs about how much they love black men but that falls on deaf ears.
Taken for granted.
Facts. Angela Stone created an entire anthem for blk men and had the whole world sing it. They still show disrespect to blk women.
Facts!!!
@vanityposh6348 As BW should. They are the ones birthing ‘em. BM are BW sons , brothers, dads etc. No contradiction there
Name 5 of the songs where woman uplifting the black man
She’s being condescending.
Not only is she being condescending, but the name "Booty Pri", is that supposed to appeal to Black Men?
Lol, good
Very much..caught it from the first video. And she sounds like she's talking to children
Men have to act like kings to be treated like one. We as black women get blamed for everything 🤦♀️.
The following source traces the history of the term black. The Old English blac was used, like blanc, to refer to a fair person, someone “devoid of colour”.
It was only in the 16th century that we saw the semantic change of blac to refer to something dark (night-colour):
The word ‘Black’ can be traced back to its proto Indo-European origins through the word ‘blac’ which meant pale, wan, colourless, or albino.
Like what?
@@moonianfoster790 like whatever goes wrong
@@annmorrow7112 which of the things black women are accused of are lies?
We are blamed for every single thing that happens incorrectly.
White men and white woman are DEFINITELY airing their grievances as well. I see ALOT of it on TikTok.
The problem, in my opinion, is SOME Black men got real nasty, demeaning and downright disrespectful to Black women. Many Black men 'that didn't agree' but stayed quiet. The disrespect got louder and grew. Then Black women began to defend ourselves (which is typical) verbally and out loud. Now all of a sudden, it's a Black gender war and it needs to stop. It should've BEEN CHECKED by the 'Leaders' to maintain respect and order but that didn't happen. So now, we're here.
Yep, it's about algorithm.
Just like you guys demonize and say disrespectful things towards bm 24/7. It's not normal. It goes both ways.
But they stick together..we don't
@@joybrooks564 How they sticking together, when they arguing just like us? We just always let them banboozle us to believe that our issues is 'black on black' while generalizing theirs. White people commit crimes against each other all the time but the media just simply calls it crime. Why isn't it called 'white on white' crime?
@@mrbrave29stop it, its childish man, if we’re men, its time to stand up. This is true for many of us and making excuses will continue the “war” and excuse those among us who bring in the divisive, destructive, disgusting, behavior.
She couldn't even say "My black men" she had to add "little" in that sentence. Smh. Disrespectful.
Those BM love it!!
But bm don't care!
@@sassybull501 Not all Black men
@@elysiyah3364 Not all
@@historyisthebestmyfans2094 That goes without saying! I don't need to point out the exceptions or the minorities to make a point!
If someone called me perfect, I would be so creeped out
Exactly, to say perfect is disingenuous. Everyone has room for improvement. But, the men that follow her want this. Men should lead.
She's treating these men like children.
They act like children.
BM are child like.
That's what makes it extra cringey...Not to mention she comes off desperate and exploitive.😮
@@joyell821when children experience trauma, they get stuck in some places mentally, CPTSD is a heartbreaking phenomenon.
@@Iyonndadon But they can choose not to be stuck! We all have free will out here from the Most High! Ain't got time for stuck people. BM, suck it up and get it together 'cause I'm not taking any prisoners or hangers-on.
the day black men finally show the world that black men have respect for themselves, then....
You are a good black man. People do not mean all black men or all black women there is a type. The ones that don’t care about how many baby mamas they have or how many baby daddies. Pimping women that is very low the calling of women bitches. We have hit the wall.
Yep
This part! This part!
They did. They got called misogynistic for it.
@@Bornagainvillainbeing disrespectful to bw is not the same as respect for yourselves. Go back to the drawing board because that’s not it.
They want us to treat them like men but talk to them like this!!! 🤣🤣🤣
Right…😂like boi sit yo childish axx over there 👉🏽
She sounds like a kindergarten teacher....
She might as well put mats on the floor with the Girl Scout cookies and activity books🤣
is that what you got from the video?
Not all men regardless on their race talk to them like this also.
This Video Accomplish Exactly What She Wanted it too!! There's Not One that Said Anything Positive About Black Women, And She knew that's how would be!!!!! Thanks for Your Content Shumake, Blessings!!
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She know who the easy target is lol she in ha bag
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“Now get out there and be somebody Jamal” 😂😂😂I’m done 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yea that took me out!!
😂😂
😂😂😂
@blessed3779 - That’s funny 😄 😄😄
Lol 💯💯💯😒
Black women STAND DOWN…this NOT our business…let Amy and Marisol go rescue them!
This is really disturbing if you really think about it. We are a failure community. Smh! Every black man I’ve ever dated I encouraged them and constantly stroked their egos guess what it got me, cheated on, abused, used and ran over. It was never enough so I give up.
Tbh it will never be enough. They just don’t have smh respect. It’s disgusting
This is the story of the majority of black women that don’t even care anymore the exact, same story you can’t fix internal hatred. It’s going to take some really deep intensive therapy for that and most of them do not want to help themselves enough to go get the therapy and help they need.
They are gonna say "You should've chose better"......wild ain't it😢
@@PranaChi369 they are making it obvious that the only way that you can choose better is you choose a non-black man?
Right! What about the baby mamas they have made out here and complain about. None of the guys say you should have choose better they blame the woman for becoming a baby mama. Chile I can’t with them.
This woman is treating black men as less than and some of these men can’t even see it. I’m praying for my brothers.
I AM NOT!😊
Girl save your prayers- they’re looking for a mommy.
They aren’t praying for us.
Girl. These are their counterparts. They been done told us that they don’t want us in word and actions. We prayed for them for hundreds of years and look where that got us. They are literally online in groups planning to take us out and ACTUALLY taking us out EVERY 5 hours. Stop praying for the fallen angels. They are doing what they were created to do and this is coming from a woman married to a BM but I’m not blind,dumb or deaf
@@deasyastarr we don’t need these ones to pray for us.
I agree because the black men in my own family are terrible.
Unfortunately mines too.😞
you too..literally nightmarish..i am working so hard with my son so he doesn't activate those evil genes of the men in his bloodline..so far so good
so true lawd have mercy!!
Same 😢
Fr, this woman is a clown, she has no idea what blk women endure 😣
We been trying to uplift for years. Not saying BW are perfect but we try. We only have to be strong and independent because we’re busy raising kids alone
Yy are yall breeding with black men who leaving yall to raise children alone? 🤔
I agree with you with that video.... Just weird, disturbing and not genuine at all.
I just don't want black women to be baited into entering her comment section.
😩💯
It's not our fight
The mammies always come out eventually to fight for their kangz.
@yzmaspotion - Exactly! If Big Body Bri wants to make big bucks, let her make ‘em off the Black Bucks. I’m not mad at her though. They say get in where you fit in - so that’s what she’s doing; if Black men buy what she’s selling, that’s on them. Black women, stay out of it. Don’t even visit her page because you’ll be tempted to comment, which will boost the algorithm in her favor thus promoting her videos to even more people. Don’t do it.
Her inbox blew up, I'm sure! Chocolate all over the place!
Sad part is the unhealed ones are eating this up from Big Becky
Big back Bernstein Becky 🥲
There is some definite Mommie talk here, cause Mommie loves you sooo much.
They love that shit, I swear. With white women and other races there are so submissive and polite 😂.
They love that sh#&, I swear. With white women and other races bm are so submissive and polite 😂 smh.
She have the confidence to do this because the way black men talk about black women. We just need to focus on healing ourselves within our communities. We don’t need a snow bunny to save us.
“Now get out there and be somebody Jamal” 😂💀 Man bye
"Lil Black Man"... I am unbothered by her. 😂
Not "little black men" but 😂😂
Her name booty pri says enough
All yours sis!!!
okkkkk..good luck!
Not “little black man” whew chile that was so belittling but I’ve noticed how black men are VERY preyed upon. I know what that feels like 🙏🏾🙏🏾 I love yall and stay strong
Preyed upon by their own communities at that.
@@Bornagainvillainby “own communities” do you mean other black men? I bet you don’t consider the promotion of red pill manosphere mess amongst y’all as being preyed upon
@@Bornagainvillainyou do know the BM deletes another BM quicker than any other community
They love Becky treating them like this.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 girl bye
"Go out and be somebody, Jamal." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
lets talk good about eachother . Gods watching! this topics been hurting my heart lately! when i see people talk bad about blk woman or men i try to say something nice in the chats to bring unity. this aint right.
i appreciate what you said about the coddling part. If you are an adult no one needs to coddle you or baby you. You need to stand ten toes to the ground and take care of business I am a black woman and the only one working at my engineering firm. Somedays get overwhelming and no one tells me good job you can do it or hey that design you did was the best we had. i do my job because I am an adult and I take care of business, I don't need someone telling me anything, My satisfaction comes from my bonus .
Keep rocking it girl, same story here. ❤
@camiba6773 keep making them mad just for being awesome! 🙌🏽
Sis, you need someone to tell you you're doing a great job! We don't hear that enough. I'm proud of your accomplishments.
Omg❤This!!!💯why they always need pats on the back like you're their mother🤔🤣
Great job goddess...
Your right, the devil has succeeded in turning black women and men against each other
Black men turned everybody against them.
Definitely!!! And it started with The YT DEVIL. That’s what 400yrs torture and brain washing do to an entire race of people. And then years of segregation, favoritism, and colorism on top of that. The self-hate runs deeeeeppppp within the subconscious. It was taught in spread like wildfire.
🙏🏼 God always have the Last Say-so. #Only he knows what the future holds And whatever He choose We have to have TRUST It was for a reason 😔 … 🤞🏽
No. Black men succeeded in turning black women against them.
God will reconcile the situation ❤
For a while my husband kept coming to me reminding me that he needed to hear affirmations from me. He said it was his love language to receive thanks and praise in the form of words. And sooo.. I tried to accommodate and affirm how grateful I was for him by speaking it all the time. It started feeling a little unnatural because I usually just thank him when I'm ready to say it or show my appreciation with other gestures. Long story short our marriage fell apart and one major contributor was him stepping out and having a baby by someone else, she was white. Recently we try to work on our marriage but when I had questions and spot it out any hypocrisy he blamed it on the fact that I'm black. He said black women are the only women who won't just shut the F up. Soo yeaaa
Damn. I hope you find healing from that cuz that's tough.
i'm starting to see a pattern here. why do so many black men need to be coddled in this way? it's as if they don't have their own ambitions. they need to be constantly told what to do like a child. as a woman, no one needs to tell me to go to work everyday. everybody has to work. it's like the majority of them are naturally lazy.
man as a black man this was a super cringe video. I'm lucky that the BM in my lineage were working professionals. My Great grandfather first generation freed slave was a Mechanical Engineer and Green Beret. My grandpa was a Accountant and Army Ranger. My dad Logistics Manager for Dennys Coorp and myself a Sr. Data Engineer. I was taught to Love God, Marry one woman, and dont look for anyone to understand you as a black man rather establish a solid reputations as A MAN. Any other personal concers talk to God. God help our brothas and guide us to God.
This is fantastic! Thank God for your great parents!
Yessir
I have seen a Yt Woman insult BMs intelligence, called him poor and being with a BM was terrible, etc. She constantly belittled this Blk guy, but the BM found the Yt Woman's comments uplifting. I was like,...what?! Can u imagine if a BW said that?? Honestly, most BM self worth is so far on the ground that they don't know or realize that they are the joke. I agree with u. A Yt woman comments can be belittling but to a BM,..he hears a love song. Go figure 🤷♀️
That’s not blk men who accepted to been infested to hiv at high scale by DJ Kidd…
I don’t even think it’s about black men not feeling valued, I think it’s about black men valuing white validation over black validation and I say that because historically/ presently there is not one group of women who has publicly demonstrated the amount of love, support, sacrifices, and protection for black men, besides black women. The black woman who went off on Courtney Clenney after the death of Toby obumseli is a prime example of this.
So when they criticize our behavior as to why they prefer non black women I can’t help but wonder what it is about the women who birth and raise their oppressors that’s so appealing to them if we’re as bad as they say we are.
And I don't understand why some Black women came to the defense of Toby Obumseli after social media comments revealed his extreme dislike for Black women in general. It was tragic and unfortunate what happened to him but that shouldn't have been the concern for Black women since he didn't favor us in any way!🤷🏾♀️
@@user-hy4ff5mz7r That was my exact thoughts but I understand that black women have been socialized and conditioned to praise/ defend black men on autopilot even when it’s to our own detriment while black men are socialized to associate success to non black women. In their eyes, we represent the struggle which is why the starter baby mama’s, wives, and girlfriends of black male celebrities look drastically different from the ones they get after they gain access and wealth.
A few years ago a tweet asking black men to compliment black women went viral and literally all the comments were about black women’s strength and ability to endure pain and disrespect while still thriving . We’re nothing more than the sacrificial lambs in our community but the irony in a black woman publicly condemning a white woman for a black men who publicly degraded us is sadly on brand because that’s our relationship dynamic with black men collectively. It’s similar to a DV relationship with a splash of stockholm syndrome.
I saw a commercial for Ukrainian women marketing them for American men here on UA-cam. It was extremely disturbing.
Now for ole girl… I can only imagine that if she was 50lbs lighter she wouldn’t be concerned about black men.
Exactly 😂
Yes.
Maybe 150lb lighter lol
Interracial dating is not the problem. It's how people view it tbt
so true!
I just wonder if people that look like me will no longer exist if we keep mixing 🤷🏿♀️
Very true
@@ShaeDailydumb black men won’t exist and I’m okay with that.
Black women are the most rejected. It starts by our men. Most wealthy men choose someone outside the race as that’s a trophy wife. These are men other’s look up to. It’s sad 😢
Black men and women are the most disrespected sadly
Can you really blame them. We're constantly at war with each other so races just follow the example we set for them.The amount of times I've seen black men kill each other or black women competing against one another or over-sexualising themselves in songs etc. The change needs to start with us but we ain't changing as much as we should. Our actions invites disrespect from races outside our own to an extent.
@@luash5073It’s sad tbh
If we’re being honest, the sexualized image if BW in entertainment was brought to its heights by BM/rap music videos.
So when we weren’t and we were United …they still did it so … like what’s the point we are always giving people an excuse to disrespect us. What ever happen to judge someone by their character not the color of their skin …I guess it’s only a cool like nobody abides by it
@@ebonymay7906 that doesn’t exist these days. Your race speaks for yourself apparently
I’m sure she don’t “hey little yt man” her own ppl. Because she respects them more
“Yt” 😂😂😂😂😂
She’s definitely talking to grown men like they’re children.
Like they're still wearing diapers
Kings with no kingdoms.
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I'm glad you went over those comments.... Why are they all talking about black women??? Obviously A lot of hurt men.
They can't keep us out of their mouths
I don’t think it’s hurt anymore. They just want to be perpetually victims. She is cuddling them they like it and they need to keep telling her about the bad that the bw did. It funny when a relationship does not work you are told to dust yourself off forget about it and move on. But they don’t seem el be able to do that .why? Brcause they have someone to listen to their bullshit. A bw wouldn’t tolerate all that whining.
@@cmk2278Exactly 🎯
why are they hurt?
A lot of men just don’t want to grow up
You don't know what most of us men is like also.
You💯💯. Black men and women deserve the best from eachother❤. Your accountability is the characteristics of a strong man🔥. I hope other men find their equally as accountable woman to help be an example of a successful relationship for the next.
This lady has some of the wildest content I’ve seen on the internet. Just mind blowing. I need to go pray 🙏
Thank you, thank you, thank you for keeping it all the way 💯. What you said was SPOT ON. Especially them not seeing the subtle disrespect, while they hate black women who have done NOTHING to them. Finally, speaking about the desire to have a second mother out of us. It's terrible. They need to grow up.
That's wild,it seems to me she is trolling and mocking men in general,especially black men
All imma say is "Johnathan Majors" is a perfect example and guess whose picking up the pieces (cleanup crew) of his downfall....you guessed it a bw "Meghan Good." 🙌💯
Y'all know better y'all the same 🧢🧢🧢
@@benaiahavery8850 And Im not pointing the blame at anybody...bc blk ppl as a whole are a disappointment within itself. Lol
@@benaiahavery8850 Blk ppl as a whole are twisted & doomed anyway.
@@benaiahavery8850 We all know better but dont do better excluding myself bc Im not a "y'all".
Karma is real. Let them keep doing what they're doing. It doesn't miss an address. They will pay! Self hate is real smh
I literally was just talking about “men” who can’t control themselves sexually.
Sexually active SINGLE men are not for me, and I’m not for them. I said what I said. And meant it.
sexually active unmarried people in general
We dont date women, so its MEN.
This makes no sense lol
Not all people that's unmarred or married is like that on this planet also.
So What. Besides, there's some single and some married women like that on this planet also.
Blackmen are being disrespected because they've done nothing to earn respect.
The following source traces the history of the term black. The Old English blac was used, like blanc, to refer to a fair person, someone “devoid of colour”.
It was only in the 16th century that we saw the semantic change of blac to refer to something dark (night-colour):
The word ‘Black’ can be traced back to its proto Indo-European origins through the word ‘blac’ which meant pale, wan, colourless, or albino.
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@@Tomgood1984omg shutup
Except fight in every United States war revolutionary war, civil war, ww1, and ww2, what have you done for this country? Nothing so stop typing clown 🤡
Who is ‘black men’ exactly? You don’t know me🤔
I Love Your Representation, Shumake! I shared with Family & Friends! 😂❤
I work with WW who speak this way all the time about BM. We as a people must ask the most high for forgiveness and getting back to the covenant we have with him. Your integrity, self esteem, and self respect comes from the most high and no one else. You are awesome Shumake, keep on doing the work that Yahweh has for you. God bless you and your family
She is actually very smart. Like you said. She is making money of of this. And BM who follow her are too delusional to see it. It legit is scary omg. I have no words. This is so shameful. How is it that they themselfs dont see that? God, help them🙏🏾 Bless your hearts.
isn't this channel doing the same?
@@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot you really did not ask this question forreal......🤦🏾♀️
@@AJD7233 Isn't this channel's main point that black men are bad and black women are the victims who've done nothing wrong?
This is just another
Pearly things, capitalizing on lost black men
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And those dummies fall for it every time😂😂
@@aleayhI commented that her inbox has had a chocolate explosion by now. With the "Hey quuen."
Pearly and many others did the samething they ran up the bag, disrespected them, and they were still supporting these women.
I used to support her but I was tired of the pandering and shots at women. I'm glad I stopped watching her when I did. She's a fraud.
It’s soo clear what she’s doing smh 🤦🏽♀️ Some BM are actually falling for this pandering? 😵💫☹️Something kind of cringey about it.. Good advice, but seems verrryy disingenuous
Great Video!🤍
Thanks for keeping it real
💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 IT IS EXTREMELY EMBARRASSING AND IT SPILLS OFFLINE! Other ppl are literally laughing at us, both online and around their dinner tables. What a tragedy.
Who is us?
They have a festering “gender war” of their own so not much room to laugh at anyone.
I stopped caring about other peoples opinions a long time ago kid….
They're Def laughing at us in the black community
I’m sooooo happy someone covered this. I wish more folks realized this! When I see these kinds of things online I hit the Not Interested or Don’t Show Again etc. Like regardless of my perception of any topic, I practice not participating in ANYTHING that involves the conquer & define tactics. Which includes Gender war, colorism, Diaspora wars, age war, classism. It’s just ridiculous & yes absolutely embarrassing. Even if I may agree with the topic, my pride won’t allow me to publicly join in on those convos because they’re generally not intelligent enough to actually come up with real solutions. It’s just a bunch of outlandish back & forth as if folks are more interested in attacking one another rather than finding a common ground. Yes, also. The world sees this. I’ve traveled for 12yrs & folks’ are seeing this & talking about it. Some super negative & others are intellectual enough to examine real issues. 1 of which you’re speaking of today Mr. Shumake.
You are a wise individual.
This reminds me of one of the slogans from George W's campaign "The soft bigotry of low expectations" as they described the way some in the Democratic party cuddled black people. I don't know about other folks, but I NEVER forgot that, and I tell my brother ALL the time, when people keep commenting on how nice you are, it means they don't have anything else to give you credit for. As a man, the motivation to get things down depends on me, not my woman. She keep me motivated, but it's never been the women's job I have been with. You're right, if any woman talks to me like that, I would walk away and/or change the subject. I got what I needed from my parents already.
I used to own a daycare business, and this is how I talked to my preschoolers😂
She sounds like she is speaking to children and not men.
Why she's not talking to her own race?
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This video was so on point! Thank you for posting it.
Now say it with me ..... I is kind, I is smart and I is important 😊. Thats the energy i felt from her... condescending much? 🙃
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I is not amused 🤣
It’s just pathetic smh sad
I’m not religious like you but I agree and I learn so much information from your videos that helps me . you keep the good work going. I also been feeling the same thing about how our community, we only ones that bash each other on the net
God bless you! He loves you so much. remember that💜
@@AJD7233 thanks
@@Briasafforld ofcourse! Only love over here🙏🏾🌹
are you atheist?
YES SIR, My Brother, You Have To Come Out Of ALL SIN!!! Just OBEY The HEAVENLY FATHER!!!!!
Brothers are down bad when men like you have fo make warning videos like this
To be honest, profiting from others pain is nothing new. The western, eastern, and entire world was built on that action
This was a great assessment on how vulnerable the black community when it comes to divided and conquered! She really putting black men down as if they are low and the bottom of the barrel
Those bm are going to love it though. Being vulnerable and gullible are two entirely different things.
Love this brother!
My brethren, I agree with you on many points. Addressing the problems to find solutions is the key. Let’s come together as family and fix our issues. Black men and women.
Ewwwww that was cringe city.
Thank you so much, brother, for sharing. The last 8 minutes of this video is exactly what black men should be listening to. Thank-you brother
Condoling! Exactly!!
You took the word right out of my mouth !
It seems so contrite! I feel sorry for men who need to listen to this woman’s unsolicited remorse for them
They talk to the men like they are children.
Let's be real a lot of black men act like children
She knows that black men are not little and she is fishing knowing exactly what she is doing...at least its not a black woman saying that...well am off to bed 🛌 😴
Ain't no big mommas no more just old ladies that's in competition with the youth!!!!😢
I have noticed that too. That just goes to show you how messed up things are nowadays. This modern day culture has influenced our elders who we are supposed to look up to but sadly we can't cause they are no longer trying to be good role models and set an example for us but instead they would rather indulge in immaturity just to one up the younger generation. So sad!
@lonigibson2797 well Said the truth shall prevail
This is sad but true, I'm seeing this more & more everyday.
Proper points brother! I could easily see her response like, Not at all! I would never, I see right through it too.
PS WE LOVE YALL FROM THE cradle to the grave just show us love and you’ll get love❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Speak for yourself. Only black man I love is my son. The rest can kick rocks.