How the heck did it make sense to you when your younger sister said that she would split every year's profits with you (if you put in 50% of the initial cost) even though you and your husband can't put your own sweat & time into the "business"?! Would you do the same without being upset while someone else is just sitting back waiting on their profit while you work your butt off?! You should have known it's NEVER a good idea to lend out money that you cannot afford to lose! Oh well, you were in the right and your younger sister was in the wrong since she was the borrower who not only did NOT pay you your share of the profit which she promised but then refused at first to return your money once you realized you were never going to ever get any profits. She can hate you all she likes, but she's the one in the wrong! AND she did call Karma onto herself when she tried to hide the fact that she had been lying to you. So sit back, wait and watch. And go about your life as always since you were not in the wrong, just naive to think that money would not bring out the worst in people you know!
Your sister and her husband are the ones putting in the labor. It's a lie from the beginning when your sister said she would give you half. You should know better.
Your sister isn't lying when she told you she's not making any money. There are people who have been doing this type of farming for a few years and are still in the red. Some ended up abandoning their farms, and the dumb ones continue to do it even if they are beyond broke.
Tu viv ncau ua yog tu niam lau hauv zaj neej neeg no nas raw li mloog koj zaj no mas koj hai lus ntau thiab yws ntau zos lawm koj yeej paub zoo tia koj tus niam hlua nkawv lub siab hloov lawm tsi ua raw li hai lawm ces uv es ua twj ywm txhob hai2 lus ntau2 rau neb tu tub tu nyab ces nej yeej tsi muaj teeb meem li os. Vim tu niam hlua nkawv yog tu mus ua teb ho koj yog tu nyob pem tsev es koj tau 5k nws muab rau koj ces zoo kawg os. Koj yeej hai ntau2 li ub li no nes tam li mloog koj hai tuaj rau suav daws mloog no nas. Vim koj yeej tsi ua li koj tu txiv hai thiab uv es nkawv thiab tsi them lo uv vim yog viv ncau. Vim koj nyob tsi tau koj tsim teeb meem tas li xwb.
Ntuj aw koom ua dabtsis naws. Ruam los ntse es koom nyiaj noj quav ua dabtsis naws. Vivncaus twb sib sib hlub ces sib uv mas. Nej tsis paub xwb cov xas ntawv mas nej koom mas cov xas ko xam maj ua kom nej sib cav sib ceg sib tog sib rhuav sib ntxub 100%
If you think you'll be profitable in your first year of doing business, everyone who runs a business will be rich. Putting money towards a business and actually running the business are two different things. Remember that money will split your family's relationship.
Why in the world would anyone split their profits 50/50 with u when u did not go and help out at all at the farm and instead sit your pretty little behind at home in your ac/heater all year long???? Of course they lied to get u guys on board, but at the same time u should have brain to not fall for their tricks as well. If it were u I'm sure u won't give your hard earned profit 50% to someone who did not set foot on your farm either. Smh.
My sisters are in the same issue as ya too. They stopped going around each other for 3 to 4 years until they realized that no one will love them as much as sister. So now they are good again so it will take some time until ya get along again. If u think about it ya only lean them some money to get the garden but to buy the product and everything is them and u expect to get 50/50 I think that's wrong at least 25/75.
No they shouldn't even get any profit bc they didn't put anything into it. The money was borrowed from them and should just be repaid. That's it. No profit should be given to them when they haven't done a single thing.
You borrowed her some down payment for the land, but you didn't do the work. What do you expect? You can't expect her to give you half of the money. Lessons learned for you...never do business with family. Business is business. Can't do verbal agreements. Business agreements need to be in writing and signed by both parties.
Neb ruam los neb ntse nas 2 niag niam laus txiv laus ko es txais nyiaj rau niam hluas txiv hluas yuav teb es neb zaum puag pem tsev es niaj hnub tsib nyiaj noog nyiaj tas zaj tas zog naws ntuj aw npab vwm aws.
Ces kuj kom nws them neb qhov nyiaj rov rau neb xwb los moj. Yog tsis muab ces seb nkawv puas xav pom teeb liab teeb ntsuabuab txiav pov tseg xwb las as.
Neb yeej ruam thiab !! Leej twg qhia neb thiab neb mus kawm ntawm leej twg tias muab nyiaj rau lawv mus ua xas es yus nyob tos collect nyiaj half money na !!! Ob tug mus ua los hnov xwb tsis tau nqis tes yeej tsis zoo li xav , sib zam txim cia ua kev kawm .
It's hard work, no one will go half half when the other one just sit at home to collect.
Family betray you quicker than friends and outside people. I have learned that the hard way too. It's sad, but true.
Never do business with family. Never hire family members to work for you.
Nco qab ntsoov tias txob sib koom ua lag luam ua ke nrog txheeb ze, txhob pub viv ncaus nus muag tej me nyuam sib yuav, yuav tus sab nrauv zoo dua.
Zoo npam koj me ntsis lawm thiab. Vim koj yeej hlub Cai tsawv es thiaj li ciaj yeeb ncuab.
How the heck did it make sense to you when your younger sister said that she would split every year's profits with you (if you put in 50% of the initial cost) even though you and your husband can't put your own sweat & time into the "business"?! Would you do the same without being upset while someone else is just sitting back waiting on their profit while you work your butt off?! You should have known it's NEVER a good idea to lend out money that you cannot afford to lose! Oh well, you were in the right and your younger sister was in the wrong since she was the borrower who not only did NOT pay you your share of the profit which she promised but then refused at first to return your money once you realized you were never going to ever get any profits. She can hate you all she likes, but she's the one in the wrong! AND she did call Karma onto herself when she tried to hide the fact that she had been lying to you. So sit back, wait and watch. And go about your life as always since you were not in the wrong, just naive to think that money would not bring out the worst in people you know!
Tseev txheeb ze pom nyiaj ces yeeb ncuab tawm plaws
Our family also did the same thing. Crazy how ppl change over money
Business and Family DON'T mix😊
Never do business with anyone. Money changes most ppl. Just like power changes most ppl.
Txawm yog 2 kwv tij los sis puas 2 viv ncaus identical twins kiag los yeej tseem muaj teeb meem rau kev ua lag luam ua ke yog nquag tsis sib xw, hais lus tsis sib haum, thiab kev sib ntseeg tsis muaj.
Never go into business with family. Never let family and friends borrow money from you. All adults are at fault here.
First cousins dating? Gross 🤮
Neeg txais nqis ces yeej zoo li koj zaj dab neeg ko. Kv twb muaj tej teeb meem li ko tseem tsis tau them kuv ib yam koj li os.
Your sister and her husband are the ones putting in the labor. It's a lie from the beginning when your sister said she would give you half. You should know better.
Your sister isn't lying when she told you she's not making any money. There are people who have been doing this type of farming for a few years and are still in the red. Some ended up abandoning their farms, and the dumb ones continue to do it even if they are beyond broke.
Tu viv ncau ua yog tu niam lau hauv zaj neej neeg no nas raw li mloog koj zaj no mas koj hai lus ntau thiab yws ntau zos lawm koj yeej paub zoo tia koj tus niam hlua nkawv lub siab hloov lawm tsi ua raw li hai lawm ces uv es ua twj ywm txhob hai2 lus ntau2 rau neb tu tub tu nyab ces nej yeej tsi muaj teeb meem li os. Vim tu niam hlua nkawv yog tu mus ua teb ho koj yog tu nyob pem tsev es koj tau 5k nws muab rau koj ces zoo kawg os. Koj yeej hai ntau2 li ub li no nes tam li mloog koj hai tuaj rau suav daws mloog no nas. Vim koj yeej tsi ua li koj tu txiv hai thiab uv es nkawv thiab tsi them lo uv vim yog viv ncau. Vim koj nyob tsi tau koj tsim teeb meem tas li xwb.
Ntuj aw koom ua dabtsis naws. Ruam los ntse es koom nyiaj noj quav ua dabtsis naws. Vivncaus twb sib sib hlub ces sib uv mas. Nej tsis paub xwb cov xas ntawv mas nej koom mas cov xas ko xam maj ua kom nej sib cav sib ceg sib tog sib rhuav sib ntxub 100%
Txawm Yog nus muag viv ncaus koom roj koom ntshav los thaum phem mas tseem phem tshaj tus qhua sab nrauv os lawv aw.
First cousins getting married is illegal and wrong. That's why it shouldn't be a thing.
Its not illegal😂 it's TABOO
If you think you'll be profitable in your first year of doing business, everyone who runs a business will be rich. Putting money towards a business and actually running the business are two different things. Remember that money will split your family's relationship.
How in the freakin world do you expect to get half for doing nothing?
When u do business like that, u have to be siab loj and if in the end they never return ur money, need to just let it go and not say anything.
Here’s a lesson…you maybe related but your money isn’t. NEVER do business together.
This little "nyab" has a mouth on her....😂😂😂
If the daughter in law can get upset over handing over her 401k then how does she expect you to feel that you handed your money over.
This story was a waste of time. Blood ain't always thicker!
Why in the world would anyone split their profits 50/50 with u when u did not go and help out at all at the farm and instead sit your pretty little behind at home in your ac/heater all year long???? Of course they lied to get u guys on board, but at the same time u should have brain to not fall for their tricks as well. If it were u I'm sure u won't give your hard earned profit 50% to someone who did not set foot on your farm either. Smh.
My sisters are in the same issue as ya too. They stopped going around each other for 3 to 4 years until they realized that no one will love them as much as sister. So now they are good again so it will take some time until ya get along again. If u think about it ya only lean them some money to get the garden but to buy the product and everything is them and u expect to get 50/50 I think that's wrong at least 25/75.
No they shouldn't even get any profit bc they didn't put anything into it. The money was borrowed from them and should just be repaid. That's it. No profit should be given to them when they haven't done a single thing.
You borrowed her some down payment for the land, but you didn't do the work. What do you expect?
You can't expect her to give you half of the money. Lessons learned for you...never do business with family. Business is business. Can't do verbal agreements. Business agreements need to be in writing and signed by both parties.
Neb ruam los neb ntse nas 2 niag niam laus txiv laus ko es txais nyiaj rau niam hluas txiv hluas yuav teb es neb zaum puag pem tsev es niaj hnub tsib nyiaj noog nyiaj tas zaj tas zog naws ntuj aw npab vwm aws.
Wow same thing different ppl. Same result
Ces kuj kom nws them neb qhov nyiaj rov rau neb xwb los moj. Yog tsis muab ces seb nkawv puas xav pom teeb liab teeb ntsuabuab txiav pov tseg xwb las as.
Ntxaj muag dhau lawm paub yus twb cheated thiab them lawv li nqi rau lawv xwb los tseem rhuav tus ntxhais lub neej thiab seb puas ciaj huab tais os lo
Koj yeej zoo tsis tas thiab vim ib los lo tsis ntshai npam ob los lo npam thiab ne
First cousins… eww, farming isn’t easy, your lucky making a profit first couple of years, but eventually you will make money.
Always keep in mind that money is the root of all evil. No matter family or not.
It's not the money, it's the person!
Neb yeej ruam thiab !! Leej twg qhia neb thiab neb mus kawm ntawm leej twg tias muab nyiaj rau lawv mus ua xas es yus nyob tos collect nyiaj half money na !!! Ob tug mus ua los hnov xwb tsis tau nqis tes yeej tsis zoo li xav , sib zam txim cia ua kev kawm .