ngl, I was feeling a bit uncomfortable watching the first part because I thought she was trying to bait Fear& drama but it’s probably less that & more the empathy you mentioned. don’t think she knows the dynamic between the cast & was probably genuinely worried
as an avid podcast watcher, I love both Wine About it and Fear&. QT and Maya are so close in a cozy, familiar bestie way while the boys’ dynamic with QT is pure chaotic gold in the form of sibling vibes so I (respectfully) am going to need for them to get their shit together on the backend for QT and Marche’s sanity please 😂
@@lilchillinlindzshe’s also said she loves the boys and looks forward to actually recording the pod every week so the backend organizing must be MISERABLE lmao
@@TheSanndwichh Nope. She dates men and women. So if your male equivalent of a red pill guy does that then maybe. But if not then about as far as you could get from that.
@@derschmusetigger4220 yeah, that puts that question to bed 😂 but she seems really fun so far, she just never seems like she has much good to say about guys lol. But I still haven’t seen a full episode yet either
That last shot of QT staying was editing genius!!!!! I love this podcast so much. Getting Lisa as a cohost was such a smart move. That's what makes this podcast different. We have never seen her interact with these guests so it brings a breath of fresh air to see new connections being made. And she's so well spoken. We obviously love Rae and we learned to love Lisa too!
I really do feel that in some pods QT is often talked over and she doesn’t get the chance to finish her thoughts, but Rae and Lisa’s attentiveness and amazing follow-up questions allow the conversations to flow so organically and wonderfully. Also agree with the comments that this is one of their best episodes. Keep it up, “girlypops”!
I'm glad QT has stayed with Fear&, I'd be so sad to see her go. Just her presence and energy there is such a big thing. I've followed Will Nef since the G4 reboot (RIP), and found QT from his content. She instantly became one of my favorite people in podcasts/streams.
Don’t worry about the comments- you guys are making so many other neurodivergent people feel so seen, supported, and loved just by your authenticity. Please keep being yourselves! Lisa, you are not too quiet! You are calm, soft, wise, and the perfect balance to Rae’s dynamic. Rae, you don’t talk about yourself too much and you don’t interrupt too often- you balance Lisa and we are starting to see a much more emotional and open side of you that we don’t get to see via streams. You are both magnificent, trail-blazing women that I look up to. This podcast has been one of the greatest things I’ve gotten to experience this year, and the insight from you two (plus the guests) is so refreshing. KEEP BEING YOURSELVES, you guys are doing fantastic. Much love and sending all the hugs/support to you both throughout the holidays ❤️❤️❤️
Every deep episode where they talk about stuff like QT did, i always notice how Rae almost gets teary when hearing these things people go through. She feels it so deep and feels so bad for them. I feel you, Rae
14:59 I was looking for this comment. Despite all the recognition Rae’s gotten for her contribution to the gaming community, it’s nice to see this other side of her too
This is the most wholesome comment section I've ever seen (as of writing this comment). QT is such an example to follow, so strong and authentic, and Lisa giving her space to speak and sharing her experiences too, and Rae complimenting QT and highlighting her achievements... this episode was such a nice and refreshing time. Absolutely loved it. It reminded me that I myself am not as much of a failure as I feel, even if I don't see it
This was such a great episode! QT is such an interesting person to listen to-I learn something new about her every time I watch her (and I watch her a lot). Rae and Lisa, you guys absolutely killed it with the interviewing!
I always appreciate how open QT is about her struggles. I'm a couple of years older than her, but I've learned some things about my own mental struggles from her. The chemistry with her on this podcast in particular is so great. There's been a lot of openness and relatability with each guest, but QT really just opens up about everything. And then, with all of the empathy from Rae and Lisa, and their relatability to a lot of the things QT says. The whole thing is just so engaging.
i love qt. just started and as someone who also has ocd, ptsd, and a dissociative disorder it is so refreshing to feel seen. seeing someone with these same struggles persevere and become so successful is truly inspiring.
Qt talking so freely about her ocd makes me feel so seen and like not crazy ??? And I hate feeling like I’m crazy. And I bet many people feel comforted by her. I never watch QT but I instantly adore her after these recent podcast. I understand why she’s such a favorite to people 🥹
You should watch "Wine about it"!! Qt and Maya (her co host) both talk about their mental health issues a lot in the first episodes of the zoom estructure of their podcast (where they stopped the irl episodes and started the zoom episodes 😅)
I like when qt on different podcasts as a guest, eventho they're generally taking on the same topic, she'll have something new or different to talk about. She matched the podcast host's vibes too.
I think this is my favourite episode so far. QT is so funny and such a interesting and unique person I honestly could listen to you guys talking forever. It was also interesting to hear all the things QT struggling with i didn't know it was that much and it just make me respect QT even more. Its inspiring she manages to do all that she does even tho she have so much with her mental health she has to struggle with. And I hope you realise its not just for the girlies that it seems you guys think sometimes. I am a 35 year old man and I love this podcast and this episode was the best and most interesting so far. It doesn't matter if it's all women or all men if it's interesting people and interesting conversations it could appeal to any gender or age never forget that.
omg can we just all appreciate when QT was talking about her shop Deco Deco she literally said "I'm very proud of it" !!! that's HUGE! especially for someone who struggles to feel those emotions
Absolutely loved this episode! QT genuinely doesn't get enough recognition for the amount of work she puts into all of her projects. Fear& definitely has a scuffed edge to it that makes it endearing, while this and Wine About It are much more organized that makes it more digestible and easier to watch. Such a great pod!
Lisa is so funny intentionally and unintentionally. Plus, she's able to connect with people so well about personal experiences. I love her on this podcast. Great episode all around, I didn't know a lot about QT despite having so much respect for her
QT saying “how can I make this better?” and not knowing what exactly is the meaning to be proud of something she accomplished is relatable to my life, this was such a great episode :) very informative!
22:18 this was refreshing to hear, I’ve felt awful in the past when I’ve said something to similar to someone but it wasn’t cause I thought they were a bad person or that I “deserved” someone better, but really I understood I could not personally handle it due to my past experiences with others who had similar baggage, so thank you for understanding it isn’t meant to harm you but really a reflection of one’s ability
I want to sincerely thank y'all for this podcast. Being empathetic and understanding and caring people. Also talking about real issues especially for women because women often don't get diagnosed right etc.
i genuinely hope qt finds an amazing therapist. as someone with some similar issues and experiences, i spent a lot of time bouncing in and out of therapy but for the last 3 or so years my current therapist has helped me SO much with things that i was similarly saying "i'm just never going to have that experience" whether it's emotions, or friends etc and i'm only going once a fortnight! so if someone could afford once or multiple times a week, incredible.
Hey Valkyrae and Alyssa, this is press esc core and please don’t lose it. You guys are always leaving us with pondering thoughts. It is amazing how you guys make a complicated discussion so casual and full of information. Kudos!
love randomly stumbling into a conversation about OCD. thank you for being so open, girls 💞 i've done a lot of work but also cannot shake "the OCD" when it comes to my cats, QT! just letting you know you're not alone. 😊
Genuinely one of the best episodes, so natural, so informative and most importantly fun !! Qt was so open, enlightening, informative and entertaining!!!
I’m only 20 minutes in and I relate so much to the Dissociation Disorder. Hearing more people talk about something I struggle with is validating because no one else understands (my therapist rocks tho). I wish the absolute best for them and everyone struggling with mental illness.
Loved hearing more from Lisa! Also as someone who has struggled with OCD for years I always love hearing other people talk about it and explain what it actually means.
I appreciate how much you talk about mental health and disorders. You’ve taught me a lot on top of what I’ve realized about my own disorders in the past couple years. I have severe OCD with the super fun magical thinking lol amongst other things. It really sucks! I truthfully thought I was insane before I learned that other people experience that.
Qt saying "I've always been okay at a lot of things but I've never been great at one thing." SITS WITH ME. Turning 26 next year and I look around at all I've done and it's empty. Sure I can do a bunch of little things but I can't tell you every single detail about one thing. I see people that KNOW what they're meant for, a passion or knowledge for one thing. I wonder if I'll ever have something like that or if I'll just be collecting these little skills along the way. Also an OCD girlie, thanks for talking about it so openly. A lot of people tend to just call us dramatic or crazy, it's incredibly helpful to know my thoughts are had by others.
qt's also a goddamn liar because she's at that level with baking - i don't know you but odds are you've got something that you're that passionate about but downplaying, and if not, a friend once told me 'you'll find your dharma one day, jit' and i'll say the same thing to you
Man I have never felt more seen than hearing them talk about dissociation. Idk if i have the disorder persay but i have dealt with bad episodes of dissociation that last for days or weeks and it is the most terrifying experience every time feeling like you are not real or in your own body, even your family will seem like strangers while it's happening. Appreciate them being so vulnerable 💜
I discovered lisa from this podcast and I adore her so much. She seems so empathetic and radiates so much good energy. I love how she’s always so calm, it matches Rae’s energy. You both are doing amazing.
1:22:40 from QT wanting to stay, lights not dimming and QT saying 'Hey!... what the' all set up perfectly with amazing editing to end off this amazing video is just perfectly.
This episode was so nice! It truly felt like a girl get together and just hanging out and chatting. I felt everyone meshed well- the vibes were just immaculate! The topics and transitions were so natural and smooth. Everything flowed well! It did not feel like an interview at all. Wonderful ep!
all of lisa's prep for this episode really paid off! she is so natural discussing the ins and outs of the streaming space, big kudos! also, i 100% believe that she is ride or die and will keep prioritizing the podcast no matter where she ends up xD let her follow her dreams and forage tasty mushrooms
When QT started talking about having to see every animal before she leaves I can relate to this so much. I didnt know it was OCD but I have to see every animal of mine ( i have 6) otherwise while im gone im anxious and im like omg i hope there okay etc. glad im not alone.
Just like Sweet n Sour, I loooove QT as a guest rather than being the host like she usually is!!! I thought it was gonna be the same sort of conversation but it was so different and I just can listen to her story all the time.
Okay but the lowkey reveal that Rae is a Fear& fan is kinda hilarious. I would be devastated if QT quit fear& but also I am a hardcore QT defender so pop off queen.
I relate to Lisa so much. I listen and ask questions when I have them or when I feel like I am adding on to the conversation. Not everyone needs to be happy yappy all the time. This is a perfect balance.
I feel like Fear& wouldn't work if it was more organised. The chaos is part of the "charm". Although I guess it's less fun for QT and Marche who has to deal with it but as a viewer I'm oddly drawn to the dysfunction that is Fear&
I think they are talking about the bts stuff not the actual pod itself. Marche was the one who really is stressing out especially in the early days where they film in sundays and released on mondays. He said he usually doesn't sleep just to edit all night but I think they already figured it out. That is the main reason why the og fear and mald didn't worked out.
love the episode i swear i always learn something new about me like when qt talked about not being able to feel proud of herself and not knowing it there were so many moments where i was like "they get it" or " im that way too!" thats what i really love that about this pod they make you feel not alone cause yk its normal. Qt was an awesome guest it was such a comforting episode to watch on Christmas eve!
Hey shes a business woman man lol plus Lisa didn't tell her she was moving. Hopefully Lisa doesn't get tired of traveling because they bounce off eachother other so well!!! Maybe adding 1 other host in the future to give Lisa a break. But I love rae and Lisa dynamic so much well see!!!!
I didn’t know much about QT before this episode, but she is genuinely that woman. It’s real that SHE is your favorite streamer’s favorite streamer. I get it now. 😅
I have so much more respect for QT now, thank you for having her on!! This episode was fantastic, loved seeing all your energies bounce off each other :)
I've struggled with depression for the majority of my life, and it has been a nightmare to try and explain to family, friends, and even medical professionals that I know deep in my heart that I am not wired to be 'happy' without pharmaceutical support. To hear QT say something along those lines is genuinely comforting.
I resonated sm when QT mentioned her dissociative disorder. Over the yrs, I have yet been able to catch myself in episodes- I'm only able to realize im going through eps when ppl close to me call me out on it. I didn't even know this was a thing until a close friend of mine (work friend), told me she was concerned that i dont make an effort to make friends.. I was in my mid 20s and i instantly broke down- its almost like she woke me up and i finalize did realize how much i've isolated myself over the years. It's scary.
Im same like you,i don't just feel the need to reach out to make alot of friends and i have dissociative personality ..it's insanely scary realising how hurtful it is when you start to catch up with time and reality in general.
@@seasyrenn agreed. I feel like, its so time consuming to make sure im managing my life and accomplishing things on my agenda- then months and months go by and i realize how much ive put loved ones on the back burner.
I spent my 20s looking for happiness and when my dad passed i realized i had it. I now spend my 30s living and making sure i appreciate the people in it now. It’s hard to imagine being happy again but every time I make someone happy or laugh. I can feel it fully again.
aww that’s so sad that the yarn was supposed to happen 😭 the let me know podcast with just sam and caroline is SO good, but having qt would elevate it even further 😢
I feel so heard hearing about QT Cinderellas experience with OCD. Absolutely love this podcast and how it shines a light on such real and relatable topics.
it’s my first time watching this podcast bc QT is in it but I enjoyed the hosts so much. thank you for bringing QT in and the conversations is what I appreciate the most.
“You have potential to literally have shows on NETFLIX” to QT was soooo REAL and ACCURATE. Like omg, I hope QT acts on that and something inspires her. A seed was planted!! lol 55:08
I tried watching some previous episodes and i struggled to get through it. But this episode was so grounded, the conversation was interesting and educative. It feels so much more refreshing to listen to a podcast which is intellectually advanced too
The 1st podcast of press esc Halloween then spicy epd then hook in when y'all started the special guest. Out of the 4, Mark and QT are my favorite on the pod
Hearing them talk abt fear& and them saying "is nice as it is" was understandable, cause I think what differentiates them out of other podcast its the amount of caotic energy(?? there's a lot going on, sometimes there's nothing going, sometimes no one knows whats going on that is funny
As a neurodivergent person I honestly love this podcast because the pace is like how i interact with my friends and how our converations go so it feels confortable to watch/listen, there isnt a wrong or right way to make a podcast unless it feels authentic and you girls honeslty have an amazing vibe together and not to be parasocial but it does feel like we are just hanging out talking about stuff. KEEP IT UP BESTIES YOU GOT IT AND YOU ARE DOING GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!!! There's ppl that love to criticize everything and think that they are giving constructive criticism but they are only being a hater honestly so dont mind those comments too much
I’ve experienced a lot of similar mental health struggles especially when I had severe depersonalisation. I think Qt might relate to alexithymia! It’s a phenomenon associated with autism (which I have) that makes it difficult to identify feelings in your body (also associated with poor interoception). Before I knew I had alexithymia I thought I couldn’t experience happiness and struggled to understand emotions but there are many tools and cbt (the app how we feel is good) that can help you to identify emotions by explaining what they feel like in your body. It also helped me greatly with dissociation as I learned to feel rather than escape from negative emotions like anxiety
"no matter how dark my skies get, no matter how gray my days are - the sun will always be up with him" is so fucking beautiful icl
fr i’m crying
Fuck I'm crying
She is such a talent, her words need to be heard in every corner of this planet. Beautiful beautiful words ♥️♥️ wow
Damn all that for ludwig
W lud
Lisa is so empathetic and understanding. She meshes well with every guest. She is an amazing co-host.
It’s funny, Lisa will come out and connect and relate and Rae is there like, “what!?!?”
@@PvtDonutDJ88 Love her so much!
This is sooo tea!!! I’ve been loving Lisa sm and from not knowing of her previous to this pod, I’m so happy for this exposure! ❤
ngl, I was feeling a bit uncomfortable watching the first part because I thought she was trying to bait Fear& drama but it’s probably less that & more the empathy you mentioned.
don’t think she knows the dynamic between the cast & was probably genuinely worried
She truly is a gem of a human being!
I didn’t know Lisa before the pod but she’s 1000% so important to the vibe of the show. So engaged and endearing with every guest. She’s doing great!’
This has been the most cohesive episode so far. More conversational rather than interview and so enjoyable
Yea this is probably my favorite episode by far. Qt is so cool
agreed!!! such a nice thing so listen tooo!!
absolutely the favorite
Yeah it felt calmer and less jumbled.
“Sorry, I lied for attention” lmao, QT is the best 😂
Just now discovering her and she is toooo funny!🤫
@@musenaadiai very much recommend her podcast Wine About It! Her dynamic with her co-host/friend Maya is a great 😊
“No matter how dark my skies get, no matter how grey my days are, the sun will always be up with him.” BARS 🎶 🥹
When QT brought up Ludwig's golden retriever nature it was really sweet, you can tell how much he loves her and celebrates her.
as an avid podcast watcher, I love both Wine About it and Fear&. QT and Maya are so close in a cozy, familiar bestie way while the boys’ dynamic with QT is pure chaotic gold in the form of sibling vibes so I (respectfully) am going to need for them to get their shit together on the backend for QT and Marche’s sanity please 😂
omg yessssss, I’m also a big fan of both!! when QT mentioned quitting fear& I audibly gasped😂
@@lilchillinlindzshe’s also said she loves the boys and looks forward to actually recording the pod every week so the backend organizing must be MISERABLE lmao
Same xd
This!
i couldn’t imagine any of them not being on the pod and i even wish Marche had his mic there too 😭
Lisa is so funny lmaooo "I dont know if id be able to do this with three guys" with such a serious face
lol I don’t know much about Lisa, is she like the female equivalent of a red pill guy? 😂
I chuckled out loud, I loveeee Lisa
@@TheSanndwichh Nope. She dates men and women. So if your male equivalent of a red pill guy does that then maybe. But if not then about as far as you could get from that.
@@derschmusetigger4220 yeah, that puts that question to bed 😂 but she seems really fun so far, she just never seems like she has much good to say about guys lol. But I still haven’t seen a full episode yet either
@@TheSanndwichh well she’s not gonna sit here and praise men 24/7, and tbh, there’s not much good things to say abt men in general
Rae mixing up powerhouse and workhorse and inventing the word "powerhorse" lmao 1:21:40
as a non-native speaker, i was immediately like "oh okay, i guess this word exists" lol
ngl, I like it. It's what horsepower comes from.
I feel like qt caught that but just didn't say anything and took the compliment lol
That’s funny 😂
That last shot of QT staying was editing genius!!!!! I love this podcast so much. Getting Lisa as a cohost was such a smart move. That's what makes this podcast different. We have never seen her interact with these guests so it brings a breath of fresh air to see new connections being made. And she's so well spoken. We obviously love Rae and we learned to love Lisa too!
I really do feel that in some pods QT is often talked over and she doesn’t get the chance to finish her thoughts, but Rae and Lisa’s attentiveness and amazing follow-up questions allow the conversations to flow so organically and wonderfully. Also agree with the comments that this is one of their best episodes. Keep it up, “girlypops”!
Rae aggressively saying I LOVE YOU at QT while glaring at her to accept it is my favorite thing.
holy editing 1:45
That was so smoothhh
and the one at the end 1:22:35
Yes! My god that was jaw dropping
w samson
he is SOOO talented!! wow
I'm glad QT has stayed with Fear&, I'd be so sad to see her go. Just her presence and energy there is such a big thing. I've followed Will Nef since the G4 reboot (RIP), and found QT from his content. She instantly became one of my favorite people in podcasts/streams.
Don’t worry about the comments- you guys are making so many other neurodivergent people feel so seen, supported, and loved just by your authenticity. Please keep being yourselves!
Lisa, you are not too quiet! You are calm, soft, wise, and the perfect balance to Rae’s dynamic.
Rae, you don’t talk about yourself too much and you don’t interrupt too often- you balance Lisa and we are starting to see a much more emotional and open side of you that we don’t get to see via streams.
You are both magnificent, trail-blazing women that I look up to. This podcast has been one of the greatest things I’ve gotten to experience this year, and the insight from you two (plus the guests) is so refreshing. KEEP BEING YOURSELVES, you guys are doing fantastic. Much love and sending all the hugs/support to you both throughout the holidays ❤️❤️❤️
Yesss,more acceptance 😌 ✨️ happy holidays everyone!!
Exactly this. The target audience, feels seen. You guys don't need to change at all
YES, clap clap
I love this podcast for a lot of the reasons here! But also I love the idea of carrying forward positivity & understanding into the new year
This comment is so precious and I 100% agree with every word ❤
Every deep episode where they talk about stuff like QT did, i always notice how Rae almost gets teary when hearing these things people go through. She feels it so deep and feels so bad for them. I feel you, Rae
14:59 I was looking for this comment. Despite all the recognition Rae’s gotten for her contribution to the gaming community, it’s nice to see this other side of her too
This is the most wholesome comment section I've ever seen (as of writing this comment). QT is such an example to follow, so strong and authentic, and Lisa giving her space to speak and sharing her experiences too, and Rae complimenting QT and highlighting her achievements... this episode was such a nice and refreshing time. Absolutely loved it. It reminded me that I myself am not as much of a failure as I feel, even if I don't see it
This was such a great episode! QT is such an interesting person to listen to-I learn something new about her every time I watch her (and I watch her a lot). Rae and Lisa, you guys absolutely killed it with the interviewing!
the way qt talked about ludwig "the sun is always up" made me cry i'm ngl ): i hope everyone who's struggling is able to find that someone
yes 😁
I always appreciate how open QT is about her struggles. I'm a couple of years older than her, but I've learned some things about my own mental struggles from her. The chemistry with her on this podcast in particular is so great. There's been a lot of openness and relatability with each guest, but QT really just opens up about everything. And then, with all of the empathy from Rae and Lisa, and their relatability to a lot of the things QT says. The whole thing is just so engaging.
I know Qt and Marche have a hard time with fear& and maybe it’s not all they want it to be, but mondays are my favorite day bc of it🥺
Same! I look forward to it after a no podcast Sunday!
i love qt. just started and as someone who also has ocd, ptsd, and a dissociative disorder it is so refreshing to feel seen. seeing someone with these same struggles persevere and become so successful is truly inspiring.
Qt talking so freely about her ocd makes me feel so seen and like not crazy ??? And I hate feeling like I’m crazy. And I bet many people feel comforted by her. I never watch QT but I instantly adore her after these recent podcast. I understand why she’s such a favorite to people 🥹
You should watch "Wine about it"!! Qt and Maya (her co host) both talk about their mental health issues a lot in the first episodes of the zoom estructure of their podcast (where they stopped the irl episodes and started the zoom episodes 😅)
I like when qt on different podcasts as a guest, eventho they're generally taking on the same topic, she'll have something new or different to talk about. She matched the podcast host's vibes too.
lol the most accurate description of dissociation "so like, how do you deal with..?" "I don't" 🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣
1:21:50 i love how every girl doesnt know how to express their admiration to QT other than threatening Ludwig’s life
The conversations were good on this episode! Feel like Lisa could contribute a lot more than usual because she could relate.
I think this is my favourite episode so far.
QT is so funny and such a interesting and unique person I honestly could listen to you guys talking forever.
It was also interesting to hear all the things QT struggling with i didn't know it was that much and it just make me respect QT even more.
Its inspiring she manages to do all that she does even tho she have so much with her mental health she has to struggle with.
And I hope you realise its not just for the girlies that it seems you guys think sometimes.
I am a 35 year old man and I love this podcast and this episode was the best and most interesting so far.
It doesn't matter if it's all women or all men if it's interesting people and interesting conversations it could appeal to any gender or age never forget that.
omg can we just all appreciate when QT was talking about her shop Deco Deco she literally said "I'm very proud of it" !!! that's HUGE! especially for someone who struggles to feel those emotions
Absolutely loved this episode! QT genuinely doesn't get enough recognition for the amount of work she puts into all of her projects. Fear& definitely has a scuffed edge to it that makes it endearing, while this and Wine About It are much more organized that makes it more digestible and easier to watch. Such a great pod!
Lisa is so funny intentionally and unintentionally. Plus, she's able to connect with people so well about personal experiences. I love her on this podcast. Great episode all around, I didn't know a lot about QT despite having so much respect for her
QT saying “how can I make this better?” and not knowing what exactly is the meaning to be proud of something she accomplished is relatable to my life, this was such a great episode :) very informative!
Always feel like I should or have to do better than the first time, possibly multiple times.
22:18 this was refreshing to hear, I’ve felt awful in the past when I’ve said something to similar to someone but it wasn’t cause I thought they were a bad person or that I “deserved” someone better, but really I understood I could not personally handle it due to my past experiences with others who had similar baggage, so thank you for understanding it isn’t meant to harm you but really a reflection of one’s ability
omg I LOVE this woman! The part when lisa mentions "painting her cat" and qt's responseeee lmaoooo🤭
I want to sincerely thank y'all for this podcast. Being empathetic and understanding and caring people. Also talking about real issues especially for women because women often don't get diagnosed right etc.
i genuinely hope qt finds an amazing therapist.
as someone with some similar issues and experiences, i spent a lot of time bouncing in and out of therapy but for the last 3 or so years my current therapist has helped me SO much with things that i was similarly saying "i'm just never going to have that experience" whether it's emotions, or friends etc
and i'm only going once a fortnight! so if someone could afford once or multiple times a week, incredible.
Hey Valkyrae and Alyssa, this is press esc core and please don’t lose it. You guys are always leaving us with pondering thoughts. It is amazing how you guys make a complicated discussion so casual and full of information. Kudos!
love randomly stumbling into a conversation about OCD. thank you for being so open, girls 💞 i've done a lot of work but also cannot shake "the OCD" when it comes to my cats, QT! just letting you know you're not alone. 😊
Genuinely one of the best episodes, so natural, so informative and most importantly fun !! Qt was so open, enlightening, informative and entertaining!!!
19:47 this moment between Rae and qt
23:04 Ludwig golden retriever energy
I’m only 20 minutes in and I relate so much to the Dissociation Disorder. Hearing more people talk about something I struggle with is validating because no one else understands (my therapist rocks tho). I wish the absolute best for them and everyone struggling with mental illness.
Loved hearing more from Lisa! Also as someone who has struggled with OCD for years I always love hearing other people talk about it and explain what it actually means.
I appreciate how much you talk about mental health and disorders. You’ve taught me a lot on top of what I’ve realized about my own disorders in the past couple years. I have severe OCD with the super fun magical thinking lol amongst other things. It really sucks! I truthfully thought I was insane before I learned that other people experience that.
Valkyrae’s intensity contrasted with QT’s “
easy now” reactions is hilarious to me.
OMG yassssss!!!!! QT on her girlie podcast tour!!!! I’m so excited for this one!
Still trying to catch up on these.
Enjoyed this learned a bit more about QT. Event planning is flippin HARD!!!
Qt saying "I've always been okay at a lot of things but I've never been great at one thing." SITS WITH ME. Turning 26 next year and I look around at all I've done and it's empty. Sure I can do a bunch of little things but I can't tell you every single detail about one thing. I see people that KNOW what they're meant for, a passion or knowledge for one thing. I wonder if I'll ever have something like that or if I'll just be collecting these little skills along the way. Also an OCD girlie, thanks for talking about it so openly. A lot of people tend to just call us dramatic or crazy, it's incredibly helpful to know my thoughts are had by others.
qt's also a goddamn liar because she's at that level with baking - i don't know you but odds are you've got something that you're that passionate about but downplaying, and if not, a friend once told me 'you'll find your dharma one day, jit' and i'll say the same thing to you
@ We often appreciate what we see in others but can’t see in ourselves. Thanks though homie 💛🫡 I need that. Much love!
@@xBlueBalls and remember always that comparison is the enemy of happiness
Man I have never felt more seen than hearing them talk about dissociation. Idk if i have the disorder persay but i have dealt with bad episodes of dissociation that last for days or weeks and it is the most terrifying experience every time feeling like you are not real or in your own body, even your family will seem like strangers while it's happening.
Appreciate them being so vulnerable 💜
I discovered lisa from this podcast and I adore her so much. She seems so empathetic and radiates so much good energy. I love how she’s always so calm, it matches Rae’s energy. You both are doing amazing.
1:22:40 from QT wanting to stay, lights not dimming and QT saying 'Hey!... what the' all set up perfectly with amazing editing to end off this amazing video is just perfectly.
I really appreciate how empathetic and thoughtful Lisa is. She is such a great interviewer.
This episode was so nice! It truly felt like a girl get together and just hanging out and chatting. I felt everyone meshed well- the vibes were just immaculate! The topics and transitions were so natural and smooth. Everything flowed well! It did not feel like an interview at all. Wonderful ep!
all of lisa's prep for this episode really paid off! she is so natural discussing the ins and outs of the streaming space, big kudos! also, i 100% believe that she is ride or die and will keep prioritizing the podcast no matter where she ends up xD let her follow her dreams and forage tasty mushrooms
When QT started talking about having to see every animal before she leaves I can relate to this so much. I didnt know it was OCD but I have to see every animal of mine ( i have 6) otherwise while im gone im anxious and im like omg i hope there okay etc. glad im not alone.
Im telling yall QT needs to start getting into theatre by becoming a stage manager, i feel like she'd kill that position
Or even a props or set designer omgg
you're not wrong, but it also feels like she's already just doing that with the plays and music shows and whatnot she's been putting on
Just like Sweet n Sour, I loooove QT as a guest rather than being the host like she usually is!!! I thought it was gonna be the same sort of conversation but it was so different and I just can listen to her story all the time.
I'm anticipating the great podcast wife swap.
I really enjoy hearing from Marche on mic. He says he doesn’t like to interrupt, but I think we can all agree he adds so much to the conversation!😊
Okay but the lowkey reveal that Rae is a Fear& fan is kinda hilarious. I would be devastated if QT quit fear& but also I am a hardcore QT defender so pop off queen.
I relate to Lisa so much. I listen and ask questions when I have them or when I feel like I am adding on to the conversation. Not everyone needs to be happy yappy all the time. This is a perfect balance.
i am loving the podcast exchange going on!! can't wait to see one of them on wine about it eventually
I love QT, and this was such a real conversation 🔥 Banger episode
Lisa to QT: What kind of genre music do you make?
Rae: Depressing! 😂
THE POD IS AMAZING AND I CAN WAIT FOR MORE
I feel like Fear& wouldn't work if it was more organised. The chaos is part of the "charm". Although I guess it's less fun for QT and Marche who has to deal with it but as a viewer I'm oddly drawn to the dysfunction that is Fear&
to be fair, I think it’s the scheduling behind the scenes that drives them crazy rather than the chaos we actually see
I think they are talking about the bts stuff not the actual pod itself. Marche was the one who really is stressing out especially in the early days where they film in sundays and released on mondays. He said he usually doesn't sleep just to edit all night but I think they already figured it out. That is the main reason why the og fear and mald didn't worked out.
Alyssa is really good at asking engaging questions I love you guys please keep this podcast alive for as long as possible 🫶🏼
love the episode i swear i always learn something new about me like when qt talked about not being able to feel proud of herself and not knowing it there were so many moments where i was like "they get it" or " im that way too!" thats what i really love that about this pod they make you feel not alone cause yk its normal. Qt was an awesome guest it was such a comforting episode to watch on Christmas eve!
i cant believe rae just asked qt to join w lisa right there, she is crazyyy for that 😂😂😂
Hey shes a business woman man lol plus Lisa didn't tell her she was moving. Hopefully Lisa doesn't get tired of traveling because they bounce off eachother other so well!!! Maybe adding 1 other host in the future to give Lisa a break. But I love rae and Lisa dynamic so much well see!!!!
11 episodes in and this is slowly becoming one of my favorite podcast ever.
I didn’t know much about QT before this episode, but she is genuinely that woman. It’s real that SHE is your favorite streamer’s favorite streamer. I get it now. 😅
That transition was goated, flowers to samson!
IM HOLLLERINGGG SHE SAID "she did it too, but it doesnt count" LMFAOOOO I LOVE QT ALREADY
I have so much more respect for QT now, thank you for having her on!! This episode was fantastic, loved seeing all your energies bounce off each other :)
i love both of yall and i love QT!! also a big fan of marche and it adds a lot to the pod to have a marche cam tbh
This is my new favorite podcast, to speak on such hard subjects with such authenticity is so great ❤ Thank you for all the work y'all do!!
I've struggled with depression for the majority of my life, and it has been a nightmare to try and explain to family, friends, and even medical professionals that I know deep in my heart that I am not wired to be 'happy' without pharmaceutical support. To hear QT say something along those lines is genuinely comforting.
I resonated sm when QT mentioned her dissociative disorder. Over the yrs, I have yet been able to catch myself in episodes- I'm only able to realize im going through eps when ppl close to me call me out on it. I didn't even know this was a thing until a close friend of mine (work friend), told me she was concerned that i dont make an effort to make friends.. I was in my mid 20s and i instantly broke down- its almost like she woke me up and i finalize did realize how much i've isolated myself over the years. It's scary.
Im same like you,i don't just feel the need to reach out to make alot of friends and i have dissociative personality ..it's insanely scary realising how hurtful it is when you start to catch up with time and reality in general.
@@seasyrenn agreed. I feel like, its so time consuming to make sure im managing my life and accomplishing things on my agenda- then months and months go by and i realize how much ive put loved ones on the back burner.
I spent my 20s looking for happiness and when my dad passed i realized i had it. I now spend my 30s living and making sure i appreciate the people in it now. It’s hard to imagine being happy again but every time I make someone happy or laugh. I can feel it fully again.
aww that’s so sad that the yarn was supposed to happen 😭 the let me know podcast with just sam and caroline is SO good, but having qt would elevate it even further 😢
okay wait QT and Marche talking BTS on Fear&
Edit: just in general i really appreciate Marche cam
the patreon announcement back to podcast edit was mind-bendingly awesome
I feel so heard hearing about QT Cinderellas experience with OCD. Absolutely love this podcast and how it shines a light on such real and relatable topics.
35:10 QT apologising to mika is hilarious
I thought I was the only one who caught this 🤣🤣
it’s my first time watching this podcast bc QT is in it but I enjoyed the hosts so much. thank you for bringing QT in and the conversations is what I appreciate the most.
1:22:35 *_LOL_* i love the little click and drag away with QT 🤣
The deco store hype is real. Good chapter specially if you are a Marche fan
“You have potential to literally have shows on NETFLIX” to QT was soooo REAL and ACCURATE. Like omg, I hope QT acts on that and something inspires her. A seed was planted!! lol 55:08
I tried watching some previous episodes and i struggled to get through it. But this episode was so grounded, the conversation was interesting and educative. It feels so much more refreshing to listen to a podcast which is intellectually advanced too
i learned a lot this episode :,) super enjoyable as always!! also loved the editing at 1:46 and the outro at 1:22:46 it fits the aesthetic so well lol
The 1st podcast of press esc Halloween then spicy epd then hook in when y'all started the special guest. Out of the 4, Mark and QT are my favorite on the pod
There is a QT/Ludwig clip that was posted recently that defines what Rae is talking about. It involves them sitting together eating stew.
The ending was so funny, qts spirit is gonna stay in the press esc studio😅👼
QT looks like Meghan Fox in this episode. I kept trying to figure out who she was reminding me of throughout the video😭
Im going to lie to myself and pretend this came out on my birthday which is dec 26 😂 makes me feel happy and happy birthday to anyone this week
Happy bday!🎉🫶🏼
@@Yourgardengemsthank you ❤😊
This episode was so good, I could listen to QT talk to them forever.
god i love these girlies !!❤️❤️ favorite episode so far😊
Hearing them talk abt fear& and them saying "is nice as it is" was understandable, cause I think what differentiates them out of other podcast its the amount of caotic energy(?? there's a lot going on, sometimes there's nothing going, sometimes no one knows whats going on that is funny
As a neurodivergent person I honestly love this podcast because the pace is like how i interact with my friends and how our converations go so it feels confortable to watch/listen, there isnt a wrong or right way to make a podcast unless it feels authentic and you girls honeslty have an amazing vibe together and not to be parasocial but it does feel like we are just hanging out talking about stuff. KEEP IT UP BESTIES YOU GOT IT AND YOU ARE DOING GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
There's ppl that love to criticize everything and think that they are giving constructive criticism but they are only being a hater honestly so dont mind those comments too much
I’ve experienced a lot of similar mental health struggles especially when I had severe depersonalisation. I think Qt might relate to alexithymia! It’s a phenomenon associated with autism (which I have) that makes it difficult to identify feelings in your body (also associated with poor interoception). Before I knew I had alexithymia I thought I couldn’t experience happiness and struggled to understand emotions but there are many tools and cbt (the app how we feel is good) that can help you to identify emotions by explaining what they feel like in your body. It also helped me greatly with dissociation as I learned to feel rather than escape from negative emotions like anxiety
51:50 qt just shutting down 😂 rae and lisa just doubling down 😂