PRACTICAL Advice from a Mum of 2: Tips on How to Transition From 1 to 2 Kids That ACTUALLY Work
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- Опубліковано 28 чер 2024
- These are my practical tips that actually worked for us to make the transition from 1 to kids as smooth as possible(it probably won't be smooth, but that's okay!!)
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00:00 - Intro
02:39: Prepare your toddler
03:29: Gift from the baby
04:22: 1-1 time
07:14: What they can do
08:48: Get them involved with tasks
10:31: Huckleberry app
13:03: Art of distraction
16:03: Praise from the baby
17:27: Teach the baby
19:15: Avoid blaming the baby
21:24: SANDTIMERS
22:34: Screentime
24:15: Use the same language
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Mum of 2 boys here! 27 months and 8 months old. I find including my eldest in everything and positivity and praise is key. We deal with quite a lot of jealousy so I make sure we have some special 1 on 1 time too.
2 under 2 was sooooo hard but the days are getting better xx
I just found out I’m pregnant with baby no:2 2 weeks ago! My 1st born is 2 tomorrow, this is so helpful! Thank you so much for sharing these tips xx
Aw amazing!! How exciting 🥹 I hope you found this useful ♥️
My C section is Friday … this will be my 2nd. Perfect timing ! ❤
Omg how exciting!! Good luck for tomorrow darling, sending you all the positive vibes. Get ready for your heart to double in size 🥹♥️
@@HomeWithShan we fly at 7am
I've got 4 kids and at one point had a one year old 11 days later had a new born. Its hard work, but it gets so much easier! I find being easy on yourself , get out the house. Find mum friends , use the dancing fruit if you need too! Embrace the messy play , loads of snacks , it doesn't last long and when it's done you actually miss those days. Xxx
Perfect timing - my two are fast asleep in bed! Mum to two boys here (three and two) 🙋🏼♀️
Feeling a lot of solidarity with this video, thank you 🥰
My 2nd child was born in September 2020 and my third born July 2023. Both times i was following your content and pregnancy updates etc
Aw I love this! It’s so nice to know we’re going through the same things at the same time!! ♥️
Thank you great advice! My baby boy just turned 1, this will be so helpful when we have another one some day :)
Loved this thanks so much ❤ I am expecting my second in a few weeks so this was really useful xxx
These are all great tips. Another one that works with my two year old is giving her a choice of two options (both options are ones that I want!!) for example “who’s nappy should we do first, yours or the baby?” and without fail she always wants to do everything first! Great content as always Shan x
I love this one!! The two options is a great one for bedtime stories, pjs and stuff to get George excited about getting to choose something without it being open ended!! 👏🏼
I have a 3 year old and would love to have a second child, however we've experienced so many health issues with my daughter and I'm afraid a second one would have the same problems.
I never actually thought about challenges about having 2 children, outside of health concerns, so I really look forward to watching your video( paused it at the very start).
I really admired your strength and positivity with George , you had to do pretty much everything on your own. I always wondered How can she do it? Your house was clean, your skin was radiant and your hair was curled , on top of taking care of a child and working.
I haven't followed you in a while ( sorry), so I'm new to hearing your experience with your daughter.
Oh bless you, I hope everything is okay ♥️ nothing else matters other than their health, it puts everything into perspective doesn’t it. I hope you’re all doing well!!
The only thing I’d say is although I try to be realistic and just my normal self on here, not everything is exactly as it may come across on a 30 mins video sometimes, the internet is just a lil snippet of life, rather than an exact true reflection! Thank you so much for your support, it means a lot ♥️
Great video 😊 for a mum to a 3 year old boy & 3 months away from birthing the 2nd... this was perfect timing! ❤
Found this so useful Shan thank you❤
I love your channel ❤ thank you
Aww love this! I have two already lol.. but I wish I had watched something like this before 😂 the transition has been wild but I feel like now little boy is 9 months we're slowly adjusting 😅
Love this video Shan! I actually found 0-1 harder than 1-2 in a lot of ways (apart from my toddlers behaviours lol) 💖
Same! I found 1-2 much easier than 0-1 xx
Just became a mum of 2 under 2 a few weeks ago. I was going to message you and ask for tips 😂
Today was the first day we had to get ready and leave the house by a certain time. You forget how long it takes to feed and wind a newborn while the other refuses to get ready and flinging food everywhere 🤦🏼♀️
Chid care today and tomorrow Moring for work 😂
Ahh congratulations lovely, I hope you’re all doing really well ♥️ it’s a WILD time isn’t it, especially with having to get somewhere on a schedule!! Those first few weeks and months were brutal for me but I look back now and I’m so proud that we all did it and have come out the other side! Women are fucking incredible if you ask me!!
My biggest thing I’d say looking back is to GIVE YOURSELF GRACE and BE PROUD OF YOURSELF everyday for everything you manage to do, however small or big!! You’re doing so much better than you allow yourself to realise ♥️
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@HomeWithShan Thank you, it is so wild haha! It now takes me about 4 days to watch a UA-cam video.
That is great advice and probably something alot of people could hear. Thank you 💜
Women are incredible. You are doing an amazing job as well 🥰
Woohooo first one here 💕 kids are in bed , and I’m all cosy on the sofa with my cuppa tea 💕 wish you would upload every night 😂😂😂xx
Yay! SO glad the kiddos went down well for you! Mine are both asleep too!! I'll stick to twice a week i think haha!! Thank you so much for the love 😚xxx
❤❤ I love watching your videos
@@menamaro4906thank you so much!! ❤
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