Chris Housman - Guilty As Sin (Official Music Video)

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  • Опубліковано 17 кві 2024
  • Check out the official music video of Chris Housman's "Guilty As Sin"
    "The idea for this song was inspired by the one and only time I truly tried to "pray the gay away". It took a long time to get there, but this song is about my journey to accepting that there is absolutely nothing wrong with loving someone else."
    Stream "Guilty As Sin": ffm.to/guiltyassin
    Presave 'Blueneck' the album out May 31st: ffm.to/blueneckalbumxchrishou...
    KEEP UP WITH CHRIS HOUSMAN
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    LYRICS
    Tried to fight it
    To deny it
    But every single night it’s the same desire, same damn fire
    Smoked a little
    Tried to pray
    Knew it was you the moment I felt this, baby I’m helpless
    I can only resist for so long
    I gave it my best
    But this halo don’t fit
    If I had to spend forever in heaven without you might as well be in hell
    My verdict is in
    Cause baby if loving you is wrong
    Then I’m guilty as sin
    I’m done pretending
    Cut the tension
    Ain’t no use in us acting like, this ain’t right
    I need your body
    Heavy on me
    I’m always falling back to your gravity, it’s pulling me
    And I can only resist for so long
    I gave it my best
    But this halo don’t fit
    If I had to spend forever in heaven without you might as well be in hell
    My verdict is in
    Cause baby if loving you is wrong
    Then I’m guilty as sin
    I can only resist for so long
    I found holy right here in your arms
    I gave it my best
    But this halo don’t fit
    If I had to spend forever in heaven without you might as well be in hell
    My verdict is in
    Cause baby if loving you is wrong
    Then I’m guilty as sin
    Yeah I’m guilty as sin
    Guilty as sin
    #ChrisHousman #GuiltyAsSin #Blueneck

КОМЕНТАРІ • 1,8 тис.

  • @kmarklandes8630
    @kmarklandes8630 Місяць тому +2333

    I grew up gay in a rural small town in Colorado during the 70s and 80s listening to country music. It is impossible for me to imagine what my life would have been like, if I had the chance to hear a song and see a video like this growing up. Thank you Mr. Housman. Keep up the great work!

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +431

      This just made me cry a little. 🥲 Same here but in Kansas and the 90s and 00s, so I can’t even imagine what you went through. I definitely wanted this to be the song/video I wish heard/saw when I was growing up. Thanks so much for sharing this. 💙

    • @egalitarian-rex
      @egalitarian-rex Місяць тому +59

      @@chrishousmanmusicFantastic voice, song, and video! Wish I could’ve heard the reaction from the crowd the first time this got played at the Round-Up Saloon in Dallas. I bet they raised the freaking roof! Yeehaw!

    • @bayouboy8744
      @bayouboy8744 Місяць тому +84

      ❤ I grew up in the Deep South in a very little town in a military family. I wish I could have seen a video like this when I was 13 so I wouldn't think I was the only person in the world that was gay. Good job my friend

    • @thorstenberninger
      @thorstenberninger Місяць тому +28

      Beautiful song and video ❤

    • @FirstLast-dy4gt
      @FirstLast-dy4gt Місяць тому +17

      @@chrishousmanmusicvery sweet of you… great song too

  • @Wuulfie
    @Wuulfie 28 днів тому +219

    THIS.
    Came out at 41 with country roots, gunsmith NRA president father...
    And I was deemed... Guilty as Sin.
    Now... At 50..my husband and I live what life should feel like. Loved

    • @OhhState
      @OhhState 27 днів тому +9

      🫶 from this queer oklahoma girl

    • @martylovellmusic.
      @martylovellmusic. 25 днів тому

      NRA is the worst

    • @DAVJULART
      @DAVJULART 15 днів тому +3

      Better late than never mate😀

    • @dianewalters4851
      @dianewalters4851 5 днів тому

      because you are.

    • @Wuulfie
      @Wuulfie 5 днів тому

      @@dianewalters4851 troll troll troll your boat down that self righteous stream. You seem more fixated on homosexuality than most homosexuals I know... I wonder if your god forgives someone so judgemental and pious?

  • @adiknyasingto
    @adiknyasingto Місяць тому +484

    I'm a simple guy. I see two guys, I click it

    • @vibewithtrey4046
      @vibewithtrey4046 Місяць тому +13

      Me too me too

    • @xxkarlosxxxxxx7233
      @xxkarlosxxxxxx7233 29 днів тому +4

      😂😂😂 I mean u gotta right lol

    • @Cruisetravelers
      @Cruisetravelers 29 днів тому +1

      Me too!

    • @tonyaasher2675
      @tonyaasher2675 28 днів тому +2

      I pray all the people that are watching this and thinking this is the right path to take finds God. Because this is a sin...

    • @heidimartell4800
      @heidimartell4800 28 днів тому

      @@tonyaasher2675didn’t ask, don’t care. Stop wasting your energy on things that don’t concern you.

  • @FlyLikeDove
    @FlyLikeDove 29 днів тому +253

    I'm a straight woman, wondering why UA-cam recommended this so had to click, and here is this absolutely beautiful song and story. The comments have my heart. Love to all of you who found connection here. I'm hitting subscribe and can't wait to hear more of this man's music!

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  29 днів тому +34

      Omg - well I’m so glad you stuck around to find out! The algorithm seems to be finding wonderful positive souls regardless of gender or sexuality. 🫶🙏❤️

    • @FlyLikeDove
      @FlyLikeDove 29 днів тому +6

      @@chrishousmanmusic yes indeed!! ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥 you are so talented!!

    • @maggiedk
      @maggiedk 28 днів тому +2

      I think maybe it got picked up by the algorithm because Taylor Swift just came out with a song of the same name? Either way, happy to be here!

    • @FlyLikeDove
      @FlyLikeDove 28 днів тому

      @@maggiedk I'm Gen-X so not really Taylor demo either, but I do appreciate her work. Either way I'm glad this came across my feed. He's got such a beautiful voice!

    • @FD1111Ministries
      @FD1111Ministries 28 днів тому +1

      I had to click too; although I love country 🎵 but it was meant to be

  • @Rayoflight1975
    @Rayoflight1975 Місяць тому +1196

    Holy hell! I never thought I’d live to see the day when a gay country artist so boldly & courageously burst onto the scene. Thank you, Chris. I’m in tears or joy. Thank you!

    • @jodieblake7398
      @jodieblake7398 Місяць тому +22

      Me either I love it!!

    • @pernchen8847
      @pernchen8847 Місяць тому +42

      You should check out Orville Peck too! Fantastic voice

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +139

      Hey thank YOU for this. To be honest, I wasn't sure it'd happen either - even though I grew up doing music and as country as it gets. Thank you

    • @nespressoman
      @nespressoman Місяць тому +19

      @@chrishousmanmusic I am am so proud of you. This helps others so much and your videos are amazing. x

    • @Aroundthefire77
      @Aroundthefire77 Місяць тому +14

      Never heard of Orville Peck?

  • @halmatjabbar
    @halmatjabbar 25 днів тому +141

    I am from Iraqi Kurdistan and our government approved a law to ban homosexuality and death penalty for LGBTQ+ members!
    As a gay man living in such a hopeless world this song made me cry. The song showed me I’m not alone
    Thank you Chris❤️

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  24 дні тому +30

      Ughhh I’m so sorry! You’re definitely not alone, as much as it can feel that way! 🫶

    • @armanabelino7517
      @armanabelino7517 24 дні тому +18

      The world is big enough for everyone. Move to Europe or USA don’t torture yourself dear. You should enjoy your life to the fullest 🔥

    • @halmatjabbar
      @halmatjabbar 23 дні тому +8

      @@chrishousmanmusic thank you so much 🌈

    • @halmatjabbar
      @halmatjabbar 23 дні тому +8

      @@armanabelino7517 I wish it was that easy, I almost tried all options I know and no chance to do it in a legal way

    • @spyrex9986
      @spyrex9986 19 днів тому +5

      @@halmatjabbar Maybe try a go fund me or something if it's a money issue

  • @GenXJoker
    @GenXJoker 4 дні тому +3

    I’m a 1968 Gen Xer who grew up gay in a teensy tiny rural Texas town, so I listened to a LOT of country music. It does my heart good to see our LGBTQ+ community being represented in this genre. Also, I dunno if the artist and the other man in the video are just acting or if they’re together irl, but that chemistry was 🔥🔥🔥. Biggest props to you Chris Housman!

  • @oceanbreeze1
    @oceanbreeze1 Місяць тому +195

    Huh. Just discovered that I like country music

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +23

      Yesssss

    • @TrentWalker
      @TrentWalker Місяць тому +5

      lol, Yes! I can totally see why!

    • @DefinitelyNotAFerret
      @DefinitelyNotAFerret 21 день тому +1

      This was me a few years ago until I first heard of Kane Brown 😭 lord his voice does something to me

  • @andrewbishop5828
    @andrewbishop5828 Місяць тому +136

    It's about time we have a Country singer that's not afraid to represent our Community.! Keep up the good work.!

    • @rudolphmcneill515
      @rudolphmcneill515 Місяць тому +1

      Yiu are so right! 🥹🥹❤❤❤

    • @QuincyDisneyVegan
      @QuincyDisneyVegan Місяць тому +3

      Actually he's not the first! Offhand I can think of at least 2 other country singers that came before him: K.D. Lang who's been recording for at least 40 years and Lil Nas X who began his career fairly recently around 3 years ago.

    • @mototoad1242
      @mototoad1242 28 днів тому +1

      Orville Peck just released a song with Willie Nelson. He's not my style but he's been trending for a minute now. Check him out!

    • @littlemikeism
      @littlemikeism 9 днів тому +1

      Ever heard of Ty Herndon? Chely Wright? T.J. Osborn? Orvile Peck? It's awesome we have Chris Housman, but he's there because others kicked the door open.

  • @bgmoon8930
    @bgmoon8930 Місяць тому +192

    My hope is that there will be a day that this song doesn’t need to be praised for showing the love of two men, but praised for just showing love between two people and sounding good.
    At the risk of sounding like a fortune cookie here. The world needs more love and less hate.

    • @leauxunique
      @leauxunique Місяць тому +3

      THISSSS I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS COMMENT 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🎯

  • @DaddyRodey
    @DaddyRodey Місяць тому +153

    Every time I find a new gay country music artist my heart swells. I needed this in my middle and high school years but I’m happy for it now all the same

    • @chlosworld644
      @chlosworld644 Місяць тому +6

      I just sent this to my friend and asked him that question! imagine if we had this in high school? would the bullies have not been so happy to pick on him? he still talks about how that experience ruined him, he's in his 30s now. Happy, MARRIED!!, a great job... he made it out and FLOURISHED. Just wish it hadn't been so hard

    • @TrentWalker
      @TrentWalker Місяць тому +2

      Amen to that!

    • @ForgeMasterXXL
      @ForgeMasterXXL 28 днів тому

      It’s also a really great song, gay or not (though speaking as a gay man phew he is hot) it stands on its own merits.

    • @DefinitelyNotAFerret
      @DefinitelyNotAFerret 21 день тому

      Have a list of the good gay country songs?

    • @Carlossantos-wg8rs
      @Carlossantos-wg8rs 18 днів тому

      Get help

  • @Pewit35
    @Pewit35 Місяць тому +307

    I'm not a big fan of country music but my husband died in January 2023 aged 89. After 15 years long distance we had 15 years together when I moved from the UK to Australia to be with him. I'm now 66 and thanks to the internet, I've met someone who lives in South Carolina who loves country and will love this. Love is love and 'aint it grand!

    • @ragedknuckles4611
      @ragedknuckles4611 Місяць тому +2

      I'm from SC, we are good people down here❤

    • @baddogcustoms7496
      @baddogcustoms7496 Місяць тому

      Born n raised at the Crystal Coast of North Carolina. I have to say the Carolinas are a piece of heaven don’t let anyone tell you any different but we don’t get down with the gay shit

    • @xxkarlosxxxxxx7233
      @xxkarlosxxxxxx7233 29 днів тому

      @@baddogcustoms7496first of all it's not gay shit.... That's so homophobic and disgusting behavior to call it shit... If u were actually gud people u wouldn't express urself of gay people like that so don't pretend to be nice but then call a group of people that... Hypocryte

    • @Pewit35
      @Pewit35 10 днів тому

      @@baddogcustoms7496 You may say you that but you've just been watching a gay themed video - I bet you have a grindr profile too.

  • @dominicflorio5708
    @dominicflorio5708 Місяць тому +434

    I never thought I would see the day that our love, our desires, our humanity, would be openly displayed in entertainment. Now, all we have to do is fight to keep it.

  • @whitecrow1949
    @whitecrow1949 Місяць тому +283

    I'm an old, bisexual man. I grew up in the 1950s-60s. Our music was both rock and country. I love this.

    • @josepha.r5839
      @josepha.r5839 Місяць тому +14

      I'm an old gay man who also grew up in the 50s-60s and was blown over by this video. At first I thought it was some kind of 'joke' that he was really talking about the old car but it got better. Just glad that I got to see some good old boys loving each other in the 'out' before I pass on.

  • @rhenestofel
    @rhenestofel Місяць тому +222

    I'm 40 years old and I grew up on Garth Brooks, Alan Jackson, Shania Twain, and Reba McEntire (among many others) and this is the first time I feel like there is country music for ME! I can't say this enough THANK YOU Chris Housman!!! Also your song Nobody fits me to a T, I found the love of my life and lost hm 4 years ago and can't imagine being with anyone else. 😢

    • @wearlbl88
      @wearlbl88 Місяць тому +1

      There have always been rumors about Reba McEntire that she’s gay and her husband is a beard

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +24

      This comment fits ME to a T! And I feel you on "Nobody" in a way I can't even express. So glad my music found you and welcome aboard - can't WAIT for you to hear the whole album!

    • @TomMaxwell756
      @TomMaxwell756 Місяць тому +1

      Garth, Shania, and Reba are allies. Jackson not so much. This song is a thing of beauty.

    • @rhondahunt8080
      @rhondahunt8080 Місяць тому +1

      @@wearlbl88and we care because?

  • @victorfubi2922
    @victorfubi2922 Місяць тому +84

    This is so beautiful. Seeing two gay men show romance in country music. Love love love it! 🥺😍

  • @daveholt2157
    @daveholt2157 Місяць тому +132

    Chris as a 62 year old gay man, who has seen his share of terrible things way back in the day and one who had to fight just to be here I thank you. My partner and I have been together now for 37 years, we both smiled so big when we saw this video because again we realized what an amazing long way we have had to come just to be a human being on this planet. Thank you for continuing to just pave a path of happiness for people, never realize your cup as full continue to want more. Amazing job Sir

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +23

      Gahhh thank you SO much! You're absolutely right and I definitely won't stop wanting more, for my community and especially others less privileged than myself. Sending all the best to you and your husband! ❤️

  • @sterratogrecale9265
    @sterratogrecale9265 Місяць тому +76

    Queer Country on the rise!

    • @AtoMicEyeScream
      @AtoMicEyeScream Місяць тому +2

      Nothing queer about this.

    • @lewisbreland
      @lewisbreland Місяць тому

      It sure is. Got Dixon Dallas and this sweetness. 😊

  • @njerost
    @njerost Місяць тому +51

    Hey just a quick thank you for writing this song. I'm 30 this year but grew up in very small town Kansas and went through all the praying and "therapy", lost my family, and honestly still navigating my way out of it all. There's a lot of trauma. But you're saving lives with your music, truly, and helping those of us still caught up in the mess. Brought me to tears, in a good way :)

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +12

      Grew up in a small town in Kansas myself, so literally have been there hahha. Thank you 🙏💙

    • @njerost
      @njerost Місяць тому +3

      ​@@chrishousmanmusicawesome to see great country talent coming out of Kansas :) and thanks for replying, must be crazy overwhelming hearing all of the ways you're helping people and giving us a voice, look after yourself 💙

    • @zackzeman6449
      @zackzeman6449 Місяць тому

      sup

  • @derekalmquist1537
    @derekalmquist1537 Місяць тому +62

    I never thought a day in my life I would cry from a country song. It has not ONCE happened. But this country artist and song did just that. Chris Housman, if you see this, I mean that as a compliment. I’ve always been very picky when it comes to country artists and songs. How I’ve always been. Thank you I now have another country artist to listen too.

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +11

      Omg that’s incredible! I’m honored to be the first one to do that 🥹 thanks for sharing

  • @sarmaxsam
    @sarmaxsam Місяць тому +151

    It's people like you that are changing country music and breaking down the stereotype of what people think it is. I'm not even a fan of country music but I love seeing what this new generation is bringing to it. Your courage is gonna help alot of people. Be very proud of that.

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +40

      Thank you so much. Reading comments like this is SO validating that all the vulnerability is worth it. 🙏💙

    • @sarmaxsam
      @sarmaxsam Місяць тому +11

      @@chrishousmanmusic I truly hope you find that it is worth it. Don't let the haters bring you down. You make the world a better place and nobody can take that away from you.

    • @kalilrichardson2504
      @kalilrichardson2504 Місяць тому +1

      Thank you, sir. I grew up in New Jersey and I came out in my 20s. Been listening to country music all my life. This was awesome, amazing, bold and brave. Your voice is beautiful. Keep going

    • @rondoe7300
      @rondoe7300 Місяць тому

      Fantastic song! I hope I am wrong but I doubt it will experience mainstream airplay because of the video....which I personally liked.

  • @KnijMagz
    @KnijMagz Місяць тому +116

    I'm a simple guy. I see two men in an embrace, I click. Period.

  • @scottgryder
    @scottgryder Місяць тому +138

    I'm a total mess watching this! 🥹Growing up in West Tx, this kind of love just wasn't talked about. I moved away and made my way, MY way, and I'm proud for it. Thank you, Chris, for opening the door for country fans to share in this love in the tradition of country music. 💗🤠🎶🎤

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +9

      Yessssss

    • @tvmasterc
      @tvmasterc Місяць тому +2

      What part of West Texas? I live in Lubbock. Just asking, as I have been celibate for nearly 20 years. Besides, my first love is dead. He committed suicide when we were fourteen. It took me decades to come to terms with it because the idea of being gay is so repulsive around here.

    • @GianVersace
      @GianVersace Місяць тому +1

      West Texas? Like El Paso? Lubbock? Midland? I don’t think West Texas as people make it out to be. Now, East Texas is a hellhole for gay people.

    • @tvmasterc
      @tvmasterc Місяць тому

      @@GianVersace Well it has gotten a bit better here in Lubbock, but it still sucked growing up. And we won't talk about my best friend who killed himself at the age of fourteen.

  • @TimGamble
    @TimGamble Місяць тому +118

    Love this. Thank you for representing me. You are making a difference on this planet. My husband and I have been together for 32 years, still going strong and Guilty as Sin!

  • @123uniquea
    @123uniquea Місяць тому +189

    As a proud 45 year old gay man who spent most of his late teen years and early twenties going to country western dance clubs. This makes me want to put back on my boots and do a slow waltz with Mr right if only I had him. Thank you for your continued music for our community and others who need to know that music can touch everyone for many reasons.

    • @chuckdieselkicksdisks2380
      @chuckdieselkicksdisks2380 Місяць тому +1

      Same 44 yrs. Haven't been to country dance club- sounds like fun. Still looking for that guy to steadily be with.

    • @rickboyd6231
      @rickboyd6231 Місяць тому

      Here l am in NZ and just love country music. It stirs some good emotions, a pity my partner of 30 years just don't like it.

    • @mannyv.3171
      @mannyv.3171 Місяць тому +1

      Love it! And surprised with it….

    • @danielperezcvnl6975
      @danielperezcvnl6975 Місяць тому

      45 años! No es mucho en realidad, sigue con fé y es muy posible que logre hallar ése chico grande en edad con el que no solo puedas bailar ésa canción, también bailen juntos por buen largo tiempo las canciones de la vida en pareja.
      Él está allí y tú también, ahora solo falta que se encuentren.😃👍❤️

  • @XxwhosrightxX
    @XxwhosrightxX Місяць тому +270

    I never had the courage. Biggest regret. I'm 35. Really glad to see how accepted we are now. My advice to anyone... Be who you are and follow your heart. Don’t give a damn what anyone thinks.

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +57

      ^^ THIS. Took me a long time to get there. 💙

    • @justinsaraguard5130
      @justinsaraguard5130 Місяць тому +36

      you are 35 not dead. There is still time. Don't be too harsh on yourself.

    • @scoobysnax5389
      @scoobysnax5389 Місяць тому +32

      You’re only 35 - I came out when I was 45, married with children - I regret a lot in life, but not finally living my truth. That was 7 years ago and yes, I still sometimes struggle, but songs and videos like this will make it easier for younger generations to land on their feet a lot sooner. I wish you all the best

    • @antoniomromo
      @antoniomromo Місяць тому +13

      Bro 35 is not too late for anything. Take it from someone the same age as you who took longer than most to realize that. You do you!

    • @attomicchicken
      @attomicchicken Місяць тому +18

      I started pursuing guys recently (at 32). Neither me (bi) nor my boyfriend (gay) is out but COVID put a lot of things in perspective.
      I got tired of being alone and wondering the "what ifs".
      The world doesn't need to know what we are. We have each other and are taking day by day.
      I'm also not afraid to say that this is my first true relationship.

  • @denver0102
    @denver0102 Місяць тому +119

    Grew up in South Texas. Escaped that environment and moved to Colorado to be Free. Free to be me. Married my husband in 2015…We just both listened to this song and tears of joy are in our eyes. I cannot tell you how much this is a reflection of our life and many LGBT+ Country folk out there. This is a life line and a life saver!! Please keep making songs and we will keep on keeping on!! ❤️🌈🤠

  • @micks3737
    @micks3737 Місяць тому +32

    Chris,, dude... The voice, the looks, the charisma,, the world is changing little by little.. Married out of highschool,, 13 years two sons later and divorced her, got custody of my boys and two years later jumped the fence to be who I was in my heart... I've not been a huge fan of country because,,, well,, yeah it's a social circle who has never been all that inclusive... My hope and wish for you is you blow the roof off the good ole boys houses and become so damn main stream that NO ONE will ever be able to deny your talent, life and humanity!!! Well done sir!!

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +8

      Wow, thank you for sharing. And would LOVE to make that happen, sounds fun and gay - I’m in! 😅

  • @steverdms
    @steverdms Місяць тому +98

    Not a big country music lover, but this song is amazing.

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +9

      Thank you!

    • @FireFoxxy
      @FireFoxxy 28 днів тому

      Same. I'm also an atheist but this is an amazing song! Love is love. Keep it up! ❤

  • @DerrickJohnson56
    @DerrickJohnson56 Місяць тому +80

    Im not a very avid country music listener but UA-cam recommended it for me to watch and i honestly enjoyed it. Just reading the comments this is gonna help a lot of people but also probably heal a lot of people as well. As a gay man this is truly appreciated.

  • @thisiscait
    @thisiscait Місяць тому +57

    Just played this to my country music producer father here in Australia and he loved it to bits. "It's just so good!" - reminded him of country in the 60s in the best way. You've got new fans in both me and my dad, he's in his 70s and country through and through and loves your message and songwriting! 💙💙💙 Spent this morning discussing queer country artists across the decades with him and it was such a special conversation that wouldn't have happened without you.

  • @knjjah2776
    @knjjah2776 Місяць тому +48

    its times like this that i remember i actually love country music

  • @annabarr1304
    @annabarr1304 Місяць тому +35

    Cis woman here, dont even like country, but love that this video was in my algorithm. Stuck in my head now ❤

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +6

      Amazing! I tried to write this song in a way that it could apply to anyone honestly. Thanks for being here! 💕

    • @byMidnyt
      @byMidnyt Місяць тому +2

      Also a cis woman, and I've been avoiding this one for the past few days because I was afraid it was going to be an anti song for some reason. Maybe because I've never heard a country song like it? Has there ever been a country song like it? I don't think so. But I finally broke down and clicked today and I'm so glad I did. Beautiful song.

    • @taylor3950
      @taylor3950 26 днів тому

      Same! It’s just so warm and catchy and honest. You can’t help but settle in and get cozy.

  • @Lou-bg1xc
    @Lou-bg1xc 17 днів тому +2

    Wow, daring for country music.
    Congratulations, it takes courage.

  • @ZoxoBear
    @ZoxoBear Місяць тому +43

    It's difficult for people to realize the impact something like this would have on a kid growing up in Rural Southern Louisiana. 43 now, married to my husband of 21 years. I truly hope you younger folks appreciate the place were in where something so beautiful and relatable as this can exist on a platform like this. It may seem like a little thing, but things like this are a catalyst for people struggling with their identity, fighting against their own upbringings and beliefs to be their authentic selves and give themselves the opportunity and allowance to be happy in their own skin. I'm sure this artist recognizes what this could mean to so many who grew up in these small towns, but if you don't consider yourself notified. Keep up the great work despite my compliments on the message make no mistake you are a wonderful singer and the song is fire. WOOFS to both of you Bears :)

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +11

      Absolutely wrote the song and took the video in the direction with my younger self in mind who would've had his life changed by seeing a video like this. So glad it's resonating with folks like you, thank you for the kind words.

  • @kingbee44
    @kingbee44 29 днів тому +36

    Gay chick here who grew up in the South listening to music that wasn’t about me. What a time to be alive! Thank you, cuz!

    • @Comfortdoll
      @Comfortdoll 27 днів тому +1

      You might also like Lily Rose

  • @HomerMann-tw7ci
    @HomerMann-tw7ci Місяць тому +21

    I love country music and sit here eyes full of tears of joy for this affirmation, thank you Chris for your courage

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +9

      Sitting here with my eyes full of tears right along with you ❤️

  • @arlinnthelover152
    @arlinnthelover152 Місяць тому +19

    You just redeemed country music for me, to be honest.

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +7

      Yesss come along. It doesn't ALL have to be problematic

  • @ericf5675
    @ericf5675 Місяць тому +91

    Seeing a country video with this theme fills my heart with pride, joy, and gratitude! It's so amazing to see! I've been hoping for something like this for many decades.

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +11

      You and me both! So glad you like it! 🥹🙏

    • @jasonclendennen9731
      @jasonclendennen9731 Місяць тому +2

      .As a guy raised in a small north texas town and moving to dallas , texas in the 80's for exceptance. Really proud to see this video at age 57. Its more excepted in Hillsboro now , About 10 miles from Willie Nelsons home town 😆

    • @DianaM.-ht8ls
      @DianaM.-ht8ls Місяць тому +4

      74 yo AA straight women here and this song feels me with so much hope and joy. May I live my life in a way that inspires a grander sense of freedom and joy for others. Thank you for your music and message.

    • @jwb52z9
      @jwb52z9 Місяць тому

      @@jasonclendennen9731 My late paternal grandparents lived in Hillsboro.

    • @jasonclendennen9731
      @jasonclendennen9731 Місяць тому +1

      @@jwb52z9 oh lord! lol! We probably ran into each other in Hillsboro or the roundup saloon in oaklawn! 😳

  • @hg82met
    @hg82met Місяць тому +5

    I saw the thumbnail and I thought, nah, can't be. What a pleasant surprise. Now I'm going to start listening to country music for the first time. Thank you!

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +1

      Yesss! Be careful hahha it’s still not always great 😅 but there’s actually several of us out here doin really great queer country stuff! 🤠

  • @jc6594
    @jc6594 Місяць тому +2

    I grew up on Hee-Haw & The Grand Ole Opry, and will turn 57 this June. I came out in the Fall of '97 at the age of 30 after Ellen did and threw it to the wind. What a great song & video

  • @peter2344sfvd
    @peter2344sfvd Місяць тому +115

    I’m a retired military veteran from Ohio and a lifelong country music fan and FINALLY they made a country song about me! Me. When Trace Adkins sung Songs About Me, while I liked the song, all I could think, was, “No, they don’t.” Love is love and I love this song and this video. My heart is bursting.

  • @bears3107
    @bears3107 Місяць тому +16

    Can’t hardly believe my eyes and ears! Admire your courage man!! I’ve been an upper midwest rancher and country to the core my whole life and have definitely experienced the walls of shame put up by the thought that being gay while also being a hard working ol country boy isn’t acceptable.
    Thanks man!!!🤠

    • @peter2344sfvd
      @peter2344sfvd Місяць тому +5

      I think there are tons of us who were raised redneck and are country to the core and are Queer. However, raised in those environs we sure do have to overcome a lot of self-hatred, shame, and even internal homophobia to accept who we are. That said, safety is still an issue for many of us, so stay safe. Even if you’re passing for a bit, I see you and care about you.

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +13

      That's amazing! I grew up on a farm outside a tiny town in Kansas and YUP, basically raised being told you can't be country AND gay. Trying to change that narrative for folks like us

  • @oonzbib6962
    @oonzbib6962 Місяць тому +74

    I am so grateful I now live at a time when men are encouraged to express their affection to each other -- both as really good friends, and romantically. Thank you to everyone who made this reality.

  • @T-Rus
    @T-Rus Місяць тому +73

    I just recently came out of the closet 2 years ago after being in it for about 15, 16 years and it still scares me, especially living in a small, religious town. I grew up to old school country music and I would hope to hear a country singer like me in the future. Thank you for being you and for making this music!

    • @desmeisme
      @desmeisme Місяць тому +6

      I’m happy to hear you came out 👏 scary it definitely can be but I support you and admire you for being honest. I’m glad to know you’re being true to you. Stay safe. I’m proud of you for telling your truth ❤️

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +13

      Thank you for sharing that, and proud of you for coming out! It's terrifying but sooo important

    • @Thecyberknight1
      @Thecyberknight1 Місяць тому +1

      Trust and believe if you just act normal most people any where, don't care

    • @MH-bw9zt
      @MH-bw9zt Місяць тому +2

      ​@@Thecyberknight1unfortunately that's just not true

    • @raffitosveroneze
      @raffitosveroneze Місяць тому

      Caramba, você é incrível, cara! Além de ser um músico talentoso, você é super atencioso com os fãs. Tô impressionado! Mais um fã aqui pra você! Te desejo todo o sucesso e muitas bênçãos! Parabéns! 🩵🩵🩵🩵

  • @neonnknightt7246
    @neonnknightt7246 Місяць тому +33

    Love this! My husband and I are two country gay boys! Words can’t express how much a video like this means! And love is not sin! Love this song and video!

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +9

      Amazing! Sending you and your husband all the best

  • @mlm628
    @mlm628 28 днів тому +3

    I feel so fortunate that I live during a time when a song like this can be shared with such a large audience.

  • @Lightweaver-ov4qc
    @Lightweaver-ov4qc Місяць тому +42

    Proof that if a song is titled Guilty as sin it's gonna be an amazing piece

  • @tminter61
    @tminter61 Місяць тому +48

    Thank you!!! Need more of this vibe out in the world. LOVE IS LOVE 🌈🌈🌈

  • @galenstone9097
    @galenstone9097 Місяць тому +34

    This is beautiful, and tells my truth as well as any Country song ever written.

  • @poethammer
    @poethammer Місяць тому +42

    Thank you, Chris Housman, for such a ground-breaking good song. What a marvelous voice! I have listened to country music my whole life: Willie Nelson, George Jones, Merle Haggard…. I am 57 years old now, living in the Netherlands with my Mexican husband. We’ve been together for 20 years and are your latest fans. Thank you for making meaningful music. I wish you all the best on your musical journey! 🎶 🌈 ❤️

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +10

      That's incredible! And congrats on 20 years together for y'all. Thank you

  • @happyfan7984
    @happyfan7984 3 дні тому

    Chris, you are a HERO. Thank you from so many of us who need this.

  • @honestabe3100
    @honestabe3100 Місяць тому +45

    I never liked most country music until I heard this song.

  • @user-km4rk5sg5c
    @user-km4rk5sg5c Місяць тому +92

    Not a country music fan at all, but as a gay man I have tears in my eyes listening and watching to this. I wonder if all of my past and current straight (in their minds) lovers are seeing this.

    • @jackieraulerson2005
      @jackieraulerson2005 Місяць тому +1

      Amen

    • @TremendoJP
      @TremendoJP Місяць тому

      "Str8 lovers" 😁😁😁

    • @shibba2517
      @shibba2517 Місяць тому +1

      So they deny their sexuallity? That's sad

    • @user-km4rk5sg5c
      @user-km4rk5sg5c Місяць тому +1

      @@TremendoJP Yeah, Over the years, I have hundreds of straight guys who come over for fun. They believe themselves to be straight and do it just because it's fun. So they are my straight lovers. I am not going to try to change their minds, (they would stop coming over). So whatever they want to think is okay with me as long as they continue to come over and let me have my way with them.

    • @user-km4rk5sg5c
      @user-km4rk5sg5c Місяць тому

      @@shibba2517 It's whatever they want to believe. I don't care as long as I get my way with them.

  • @piperyoung9546
    @piperyoung9546 Місяць тому +38

    I married a country boy and im glad this song exist

  • @cybercowboyz
    @cybercowboyz Місяць тому +3

    I just found out about you yesterday as UA-cam suggestion. I’m glad I found you. I always love country music but never been in any concerts because I didn’t feel that would be a safe place for a gay man like me. Now knowing you’re are there doing your songs brings me hope!! Thank you for being there! I wish you all the best in your life!!❤

  • @jacobstoner208
    @jacobstoner208 Місяць тому +15

    Growing up in a small town, I could have never imagined a song and video like this in my lifetime. I got a little choked up watching it with my husband. It's the first time I felt included in the music I love, instead of like I'm on the outside looking in. Thank you for this 💙🌈

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +4

      That means so much. So glad it found you and your husband!

  • @dianemarieevans9145
    @dianemarieevans9145 Місяць тому +12

    Just reading the comments and you have definitely touched alot of 'Good Ole' Souls" with this song. As well as mine! It is beautiful!

  • @i.washere
    @i.washere Місяць тому +2

    Came for the thumbnail, stayed for the whole damn song. That was one of the most honest, genuine, and beautiful songs I have ever heard! It couldn't be more better with that voice of yours and that MV 👌

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому

      Ahhh the thumbnail strikes again!! So glad you stuck around! 🙏

  • @Justin-ww8xk
    @Justin-ww8xk Місяць тому +4

    Ran across this on your TikTok and came here to listen/watch. This song hits home to me and it’s such a powerful message. Grew up in a small farm town in NC & always held back my curiosity till I was 33 & learned that I’m possibly Bi. I’m 35 now & still trying to process it all & accepting it. This song is gonna help a lot of people. Well done man and what a great voice!!!

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +2

      Hey we’re all trying to figure it all out! Glad you’re here and thanks for sharing!

  • @sethkamon
    @sethkamon Місяць тому +17

    I’m so here for this new chapter of country music! Makes me so hopeful! What a lovely song too!!!

  • @desmendixon8642
    @desmendixon8642 Місяць тому +12

    That voice is nothing shy of amazing...and the lyrics and the music video 🙌🏾. Where is my country man?!!

  • @tigaron02
    @tigaron02 Місяць тому +2

    Being from Mississippi, with family from the more rural areas it is truly hard to believe there is a song like this now, but thank you for it. It was beautiful and I can't wait to see more!

  • @alvarohernandez-torres2528
    @alvarohernandez-torres2528 Місяць тому +4

    I’m literally crying tears of joy. My inner child is beaming with joy. Thank you for being bold and making this beautiful song. 🥹

  • @armandogonzalez4647
    @armandogonzalez4647 Місяць тому +10

    The only thing that should matter is that even two people believe in love, because love is love❤️❤️

  • @kevinrolfs8851
    @kevinrolfs8851 Місяць тому +14

    I’m in not only in a gay relationship but an interracial relationship in Oklahoma. It’s not easy at times (because, well, people and such), but it’s songs like this that help me and us along our journey. Plus it helps that my man’s a singer/songwriter too, and writes/records songs about our journey 😀. And we just got engaged during the eclipse in Dallas, love is real y’all, always follow your heart ❤️

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +5

      That's amazing. It can't be easy at all times, but people there also need to see your love and I'm so glad they're able to. Congrats on the engagement!

    • @kevinrolfs8851
      @kevinrolfs8851 Місяць тому +3

      @@chrishousmanmusicThank you sir! It’s true, so many need to see that love is love no matter the form, and we’ll continue to do what we can to make sure the world knows it too. And thank you for your great music!! Your music represents the best of what love is supposed to be 😀❤️

    • @Cruisetravelers
      @Cruisetravelers 28 днів тому

      I understand. I’m a bisexual man also in Oklahoma.

  • @johnjeanjuan
    @johnjeanjuan Місяць тому +9

    This song is as good if not better than anything on country radio right now. Congratulations on a job extremely well done

  • @theverdantfern
    @theverdantfern Місяць тому +26

    I'm not one for modern country but damn if this ain't a breath of fresh air, right alongside Orville Peck's recent duet with Willie Nelson. Keep up the lovely work, Chris!

  • @charlesejacksonjr1780
    @charlesejacksonjr1780 Місяць тому +6

    After 57 years, I still haven't found the courage to live my life out loud. But WOW!! Your song is AMAZING AND BEAUTIFUL!!❤️ You have a gift. Thank you for sharing it🔥💯😊

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +2

      You'll know when and if the time is right. Thanks for the kind comment - you've got this! ❤️

  • @babydollers9110
    @babydollers9110 Місяць тому +77

    My 12 years old daughter is fangirling and shipping the two of you so much she is still squealing “OMG I need them to be sweeties in real life!!!”

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +25

      Awhhh that is SO adorable! 🥹 I imagine I’d have felt the same way if I’d seen a video like this when I was 12! Thanks for sharing

    • @denisewood4817
      @denisewood4817 Місяць тому +4

      Love this 😍 #loveislove

  • @darkgirl131313
    @darkgirl131313 Місяць тому +24

    Best song and video in country music. Thank you God finally got something awesome like this. New top fav.

  • @gbrooks_1187
    @gbrooks_1187 29 днів тому +2

    Thank you for this . Grew up in TX and was taught to live for others and not myself. Happily living and waiting patiently for this 🥰🏳️‍🌈.

  • @CaiCamden2742
    @CaiCamden2742 Місяць тому +2

    I can’t scream “Well done” louder or long enough!!! Not only is the message legit, the vocals are fire! I can both freedom and angst in your voice! POWERFUL!

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +1

      So much freedom, so much angst! 🙏💙

    • @CaiCamden2742
      @CaiCamden2742 Місяць тому +1

      I loved it! One of these days I’ll shake your hand, but for now, thank you! You definitely have a new fan. I’m glad I stumbled upon this video! #noCoincidences 💙

    • @CaiCamden2742
      @CaiCamden2742 Місяць тому

      *I can hear both freedom and angst is what l meant lol

  • @biguy47905
    @biguy47905 Місяць тому +5

    Chris, what a beautiful song! May all of us be forever guilty as sin. ❤

  • @mohammedabdul-mugheethpete6456
    @mohammedabdul-mugheethpete6456 Місяць тому +15

    Thank you so much for creating this kind of country music. My heart is melting! Literally the 3rd time today watching this video. PLEASE RELEASE MORE MUSIC!!!!

  • @thatsmysherman
    @thatsmysherman Місяць тому +2

    You know for the past year, I have discovered some amazing artists that have caused me to add a little bit of country to my daily playlist. You sir have just been added. Great song and video. I felt every word of it. I'm hoping to find my special person soon. Currently getting over a three-month relationship breakup and this song really made me smile. Thank you.

  • @lokiiago_x0x
    @lokiiago_x0x Місяць тому +2

    I grew up in rural NH when even finding someone to have a fleeting moment with so hard, emotionally but also practically. It’s so nice to have music I grew up with finally reflect my experiences 💜

  • @charlesprice925
    @charlesprice925 Місяць тому +25

    I lived something similar, years ago, without the country music. But we stayed faithful to objectives greater than our own and we moved on. My heart never changed. I till love him. But I'm here to tell you, straight or gay. men need men. And the divisions thrust upon us are the greatest crime.

  • @user-oo6jb6jt8l
    @user-oo6jb6jt8l Місяць тому +27

    Nice to see LOVE take center stage, thanks Chris.

  • @fredvomlehn8457
    @fredvomlehn8457 7 днів тому +3

    You know, it is refreshing to see "Normal Looking" men in love! Really awesome song and how my life would have changed if I could have seen this when I was, say 16 years old. Almost all my guy friends looked just like this BTW! I am now 70. Found the man of my dreams at 33 and never have let him go. Guess that makes me Guilty as well!! Thanks!!!!

  • @lilnbigman
    @lilnbigman Місяць тому +10

    Never been a true listener of country music. Yes Shania, a couple females, finally a song about "Love" and not being ashamed. Brava.
    Growing up with a Perto Rican Dad Mom country and Cherokee Indian. We we always told never to be ashamed of who we are because we're all made in The Image of God.
    Dad a monster always said you are all my Blessings and God made you. Go live find true Love Joy Happiness and it will bring me Joy no matter who you find it with. Great song the Light shines bright knowing Love is Love.

  • @TaylorCks03
    @TaylorCks03 Місяць тому +18

    Small town, Kansas here. I felt this. 🧢

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому +6

      I’m from a small town in SW Kansas originally! 💙

  • @ron4501
    @ron4501 Місяць тому +35

    This has to be one of the sexiest country music videos ever. My heart is pounding.

  • @BeaXRSmith
    @BeaXRSmith Місяць тому +5

    Thank you for helping steer country music back to sanity.

  • @dpparkas
    @dpparkas Місяць тому +2

    I too grew up in the rural south during the 50’s & 60’s and always felt that there was something wrong with me. It has taken a long time and lots of work in therapy 3:01 , but the shackles are loosening each day. This frees my heart, my mind, and soul. From the bottom of my heart - THANK YOU!
    Good fortune and prosperity to you and yours.

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому

      Wow. I can't even imagine what that was like. And we looove therapy. So happy this resonated with you and allowed you to feel a little more free. From the bottom of my heart thank YOU for sharing! ❤️

  • @scottrhodes8160
    @scottrhodes8160 Місяць тому +6

    Went thru this same kind of thing-thinking I was sinful for my feeling-all it did was take my sweet relationship wih Jesus away from me for many years and that hurt but when I was in my forties I found out Jesus always loved me and never turned his back on me. I embrace him and worship him--he is and always was my lord avd savior.

  • @jayceepangan2299
    @jayceepangan2299 Місяць тому +11

    I was like taken back to 2013, listening to a country music while staring at my high school crush.

  • @FD1111Ministries
    @FD1111Ministries 28 днів тому +2

    I love country 🎵 this is a vibe. 🙌🏽 Live your truth 💯🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @Jimpipecigarbear
    @Jimpipecigarbear Місяць тому +6

    Thank you for the music, brother. Born and raised in NC. Mother side was supportive. Father side was weird.

  • @lazlomattachine8334
    @lazlomattachine8334 Місяць тому +2

    Just beautiful- love the minor chord in the chorus too- great tune, great video!

  • @rodneythomas8813
    @rodneythomas8813 Місяць тому +2

    Absolutely beautiful song and video. I'm not your typical country music fan, but there are several artists and songs I sincerely appreciate, and this is certainly one. The passion is apparent and the story is so familiar. Their movements from one scene to another seems natural, organic and authentic. I kinda love it.

  • @eddieharrison3801
    @eddieharrison3801 Місяць тому +52

    My new favorite county song and singer

  • @kalelperry958
    @kalelperry958 Місяць тому +5

    Chris. Thank you so much for this. I’ve always loved the feel/sound of country music but couldn’t get past the politics around most of it. I completely gave up listening to country radio when they black-listed the chicks.
    To have this country sound with this inclusive message…. Just WOW.
    Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Keep it coming.

  • @mosey708
    @mosey708 Місяць тому +1

    Damn. Country music has never felt very accessible to me. I’ve rarely felt this intrigued to dive deeper into a country artist’s work. Thank you for opening that door and making a small corner of the genre for people who haven’t traditionally felt welcome to it. 🥹

  • @Artlesbi
    @Artlesbi 29 днів тому +4

    Beautiful song. You can feel the sincerity of his feeling. I think I do like country music.
    ;]

  • @molliegann8107
    @molliegann8107 Місяць тому +2

    Everything about this is beautiful. The song, the video, but surprisingly even the comments. It does my heart good to see people rooting and supporting one another from all ages and walks of life. That is the power of music done right, well done, sir! I can't wait to witness what's next and all the amazing things you accomplish. 💙

    • @chrishousmanmusic
      @chrishousmanmusic  Місяць тому

      SHOCKED at the comments! I was so prepared to see so much hate, and it’s been the opposite 🤯🥹🙏 I love it so much

  • @dannybee5
    @dannybee5 Місяць тому +36

    Well alright, I think I'm a fan of country music now. Thank you algorithms...😅😍

  • @KathrynCeleste79
    @KathrynCeleste79 Місяць тому +26

    I'm IN LOVE with the song and video🌈🤗🌈🤗🌈 It's beautiful♥️

  • @firesong83
    @firesong83 Місяць тому +1

    You don't have any idea how much. this song has meant to me.. I am 75 years old. I just wish. that we had music like us when I was growing up. Thank you so much. My only real regret is I will not live long enough to see the incredible journey you're taking.

  • @cjbrown5075
    @cjbrown5075 29 днів тому +2

    Damn, wish this song was released before my wedding day😄