Mimi i was asked by coart what i want from my husband i said i want absollutelly nothing i want peace he had bought a car for me i told him ill park it in his compound he was ashamed and left it for me because my kids were small then . Let me tell you i bought every thing new without money . I went to furniture Shop they gave me and we agreed what they will be dedacting end month. Now we are friends with that guy but am stable and Single and am not looking because God provides , you dont need man to servive you need God.
Somali 2022 badboy.😅. This is why i prefer to fall back when it comes to marrying outside. When honeymooon ends, the real marriage begins. Utateseka na hakuna mtu atakusaidia juu hatujui mira za wengine. Niliona mwingine akilia akiuliza atatokaje kwa wa western africa juu amelapitia na mira zao. But women, when they decide they can't reason until its too late.
Around 90s twaikaraga na my late shosh mwena wa ruguru, reke ngwire andu acio me uiru muingi na kuhatika cucu mugunda, So my late shosh alikuwa anasema kwake ndikwenda nduriri, my cuzo married a dude kuma western lkn walikuwa wanakaa mombasa, wakati alipelekwa ushago wazazi wa mwanaume wakamkataa, kurudi mombasa my cuzo aligonjeka upere akafa.... Kaba ndure single a korwo ti mundu wa ruthiomi rwakwa
thats common waschana wengi hupelekwa huko wanakataliwa instead of getting out anakaa na huyo bwana tu ati mapenzi upuzi, kwanza unakataliwa na mama yake kabisa na mko na mtoto better to get out early before menopause ukazae wazazi wako
This lady is depressed and needs help before it's too late, please tell her that her life and her children's life is more valuable than that home, atoke tu aweke Mungu mbele otherwise that man anaeza kumfanyia mbaya yeye na watoto wake.
Her children she should hav investigated about wakale na watoto wao before jumping on that ship she will not be allowed to leave with them even some of those kids turn on their parents its you cut your loses and go give birth to other children
@@krissmbugua5126 so whats the option to stay and be deleted there's nothing holy about matrimony our ancestors were wise you know some of us whose parents got married in the 70s no ladies got married without the approval of their parents even if they were pregnant, you have to stay at home till the day your father agrees if he never agrees you had to find someone else he approves and thats how gikuyu people should continue this one would not be here if thats what we are sill doing everyone who listened still has a good home those going to other tribes they suffer then your children are suffering even in their 40s
My dad would say gwake gutikanario githweri and he was right, wanawake olekeni pahali mnaelewana lugha, tiganai na nduriri , ona kana ni graduate ya UON.
Although love is blind now i understand most of our fore fathers were against intermarriage, i remember even my grandmother used to say not to marry other tribes,maybe they knew something we don't. I am not here to say all intermarriages have failed there are some doing well.
There is a tribe you hav to avoid plz am not tribal bt kuma tribe zingn nyinyi kama wakikuyu hamfai kuolekea coz wako na mila mbovu hadi ,wivu na witchcraft, avoid kalenjin,luo, luhya,kisii hizi trube nne achaneni nazo kabisa ,marry from gema community like Embu, kirinyaga,meru and kamba ,this tribe haina tofauti kubwa na Kikuyu
@@sijisiji8100 bora msiende kusumbua watu wengine kwetu watu wameoa hizi kabila halafu anataka kuinvolve other family members me some of this nduriri nliiwambia wasi wahi nipigia simu sio mimi niliolewa na nduriri
Mimi ile kitu nanjua when another tribe marry kikuyu 98%of them not love but to be in the mission in quote amsaidie kujidevelop ,or to mistreat a kikuyu lady for what they always claim of us n jelous of kikuyu tribe so mostly can be in revenge
@@estherenk yah na imagine am having a girl trying to convince her ,yes wazazi wake wanamkataza aolewe apart from kikuyu naye anamusimamo wa afadhali akae single na asiolewe na kikuyu ati wanakuanga irresponsible ilhali babake is very responsible yaani family man ,sasa mimi inafika mahali namwambia ajue any decision has consequences
Please, those who are able help this lady,I feel her, she should leave her 19 years matrimonial home with something to start life afresh. She deserves something. Please God intervene.being a Kikuyu is not a crime.They are hardworking and deserve better.
You are such a beautiful lady what are you doing there? Ngai ni arathimire mugikuyu na hakiri na gwetha, uma na ihenya inene numo utanakua ugethe ciaku, icio itiari ciaku. Mundu ete ciana ciaku mungiki? Witwo maraya? Na uikare kuu? You can't be serious!! Witereire gikuu uma uthii biu!!
hakuna watu wazuri una githii thena ata coast ni shiana ithilamu shida wote kwanz coast ni dictator na hafanyi kazi mwnamke anashinda aki hawk alipe bill ya mnazi , alafu revenge zingine we niliona juzi kaschana kamemwagiwa hot oil juu aliacha jamaa sio lazima mtu aolewe ata mbegu ya mwanaume huuzwa
@@user-lr5gf1xm4q we are only allowed to get married to gema according to our older people even wakamba walikuwa wamekataa its only for politics because the goal of gikuyu wa go create harmony no conflict sasa if your own kids from this mn wanfunzwa kutusi mama zao theres no harmoney ata wakisii niona mmoja anambia mama yake ati mkikuyu wanatusi aunti zao now there theres no harmony thats what they did not want
@@user-lr5gf1xm4q our ancestors said tuwachane nao magongona mao ti mo maitu and its still true , becaause no matter how good a person is kwingine ati mzee akiaga ukae na mwili yake wiki mzima and then you go through cleansing ceremony ati ulale na jamaa ambaye hio ndiokazi yake na wakuwanga na ukimwi, alafu watatumia gikuyu vibaya hao wanaume they use them gutee gikuo so hawa waschana wa rodi hupenda kusema oh wanapenda hao watu but actually they are the ones being misused sometime they approach even ladies minding their bussiness ofer them money ati mulale na yeye ndio watupe hio kifo sasa hio ndio nini kunayrara and
@user-lr5gfxm4q its not about been good magongona mao ti mu ma mugikuyu wengine wanakaa na mili ya wafu which is not only dangerous fo health its unclean, cleanisng ceremony ya bwana akiaga ni chafu pia unalazimishwa kuulala na jamaa ambaye hio ni profession yake ambaye anakuanga na ukimwi by the way, alafu hawa wakale wameuwa watu wetu sana na wanaoga na damu ya wafu sasa hizo laana zitakufuata na watoto wako, ata kulala nao haukubalishwi wengine hukuja kutupa kifo na kabila zingine mu akikupatia pesa nyingi ulale na yeye na ulikuwa shughuli zako usiwahi kubali utahitaji cleansing ceremony ya kifo
one does not need consent of the other party to be granted a divorce .If the other party(respondent) does not respond to the divorce petition, then the matter will proceed as uncontested divorce.
Sasa wewe, kwani huna akili? What are you doing in that man's life? Leave as soon as possible. Infact your continuing stay in that home, you are risking your life. Take off as fast as you can.
Itīkia Kana ūrege Tugen nomakūrage. Gīkūyū türī anyarare. Twara chiana kwanyu, wethee wīra mafüri ma jaa. Ono gūkorwo Ena mūkingo. Tūmenetwo nīdūrī chiotho kenya.
rumena rware ruru makiria miaka eyo ya 2005 athire kugira ki?Mendaga mugikuyu wa guthie kurima kuri wa njerire uguo ati arenda mugikuyu ati tondu me migunda mene ne anyway wanakuonyesha unaona dalili so awa our ladies are not wise and they are still getting married andu aya maratunyarara aciari ni maregire gutara airetu mamere tene ni tene matigane na nduriri
Mimi nilijaribu kuoleka na mkalejin tulikaa 4 yrs but vituko nilifanyiwa wee very stressful juu hata watoto WA ma brother zake na masister zake walikuwa wananitusi ati wakikuyu ni wezi na saa hio hujakosea mtu nakumbuka nikienda huko vile kulikuwa remote nikainua hiyo mboma ikakaa vizuri kila mtu alikuwa anatamani
@@melisamburu1215 but the good thing Mimi vile nilianza kuona redflag nilikanyangia kuzaa so sina mbegu Yao juu ATA ningezaa huyo mtoto sijui kaa ningempenda juu vile nilitreatiwa vibaya na ndio nitoke huko nilienda kwetu nikipata ati ameoa mwanamke mkubwa kumliko ako na watoto wakubwa it was very hard Ku claim everything belongs to me nilipata huyo mtu nyumba matope nikafanya business ya kuku mpaka tukajenga ya mawe nili regret sana
Wewe hujapendwa kamwe to siku za Kwanza za kuolewa na wazazi na hata bwana yako. Umekili na mdomo yako ulikuwa unasaidiwa na jeshi wenzake , kwanini umevumilia hiyo miaka yote na sasa baada ya 18 years ndio unataka kutoka, ulivumilia shinda toka mwanzo kwa hivyo jitoe vile ulijipeleka na uache complain, what did you expect when nobody wanted you from the word go? Even your so called husband never loved you 😢😢😢
Ww hujielewi nashuku ww ni Mmoja ya wanawake wake ..hatuna shida na family yake , nlisema hawawezi kunipeda sababu mm Ni kabila tofauti na shida na mwanaume , kamchukue YY ako ready kuoa yeyote yule ,tena wale wote hutoka Kwa waume wao wanakuaga hawapedwi?mbuzi ww,ujue watu sio wajinga kama ww nmepigiwa Simu na wengi Sana zinaingia Hadi saa SITA ya usiku
Reekee kuu advice free if charge God help you so that when you get something usindanganywo na masafari ikoshe kukuzaidia.tanzania guthiii guthambiaa indo..kaa utangiikara mucii ma umarugiiree please
my friend people do not divorce while living together go and finalize the divorce while living very far, filing of matters depend with the jurisdiction of where you live
Please leave achana na property otherwise you will die and leave your children hopeless. Hii mambo ya kuvumilia kwa ndoa eti itakuwa sawa ni nonsense. One red flag, call it off, If possible, marry a partner from your own culture and traditions
Ukikubali kuolewa na kabila nyingine ukiwa mkikuyu , kuwa tayari kuletewa wanawake wengine either kama make mwenza ama side chics . Hivyo mtii na umombe mungu akuonyeshe njia . Devoce isn't the solution
You need not fight for your almonds right while in his proximity. Run whilw you are ständig. Your life and children's life should be your highest priority. You claim to have been self relient. Put yourself together and run for it !!
"'" unapikiaa mzeee? Alafu mupunguze masafari,,retire is kufumiliana na mzeee awache kuooa oa akaeee na one ditto .mzeee ukichezaa niuguthuiii kwaa huko...
We were warned by our ancestors, tigana na nduriri,kwa ja rumbwa muraga andu aitu maithe maitu makuhetithia ciana ciaku ni ikwo icio sasa mtu anarudi kwao after menopause huwezi zaa watoto wengine wakukusaidia in your old age
divorce can be granted even in absence of the other party depending on the petition filed. Hii kukataa kusign papers nikwaihali yako but you can't prevent divorce process to take place. the lawyer will just file application to use substituted service
As long as service of the divorce petition/notice to appear has been effected upon the respondent and there is prove then divorce will granted as uncontested divorce.
when your in love thats when your supposed to stop and think do everything to get out sleep with another man it will help end the confusion you get over it otherwise you are done for, but i dont believe this love nonsence because everyone seems to love someone with at least a job providing something even though some are young and stupid they might accept any amount like someone who can buy them chips kuku and chrome but still its because of the small things that person provides i never see anyone in love with someone with nothing if its love we should be seeing jobless people too
Wewe mama toa ujinga kwa hio boma,what are you doing with that man.....mwanaume hana kazi yako from the start...he will waste your time till death na finally family members watakufukuza
Ww tafadhari sikiza story kwanza kabla uongee ,mm naishi Kwa plot yenye tulinunua na yy ,family Yao ata hawashughuriki na hiyo case ata baadhi ndo wananiabia vile kunaeda sababu hawamtaki, nkisema watu wao wanamsaidia kuna vile namaanisha,unasikiza story alafu uongee
Madam Mzee anaongea hayo yote na bado uko huko, unangoja utolewe huko ukiwa Maiti, jipende na Watoto wako , Songa mbele ujikalishe ulee watoto wako tafadhali.
@@gracewanjiru8716 mnafanya nini huko and i noticed even mtoto umezaa anaeza kukugeuka huko jameni, si utoke mapema ukazae mtoto at least mmoja ana akili wakukusaidia ukizeeka
Hi this story doesn't add up is she legally married without her parents consent.Why has she taken all this time with a man who does not respect her.I don't believe her.I have been married to a Kalenjin for 30 years and we are very ok.We have children and property together.If a person is God fearing they will treat you well.
I agree with you. Sasa anashughulika tu na wasichana wadogo,akizeeka, hawatamuangalia instead watakuwa wakimtesa. Wacha, hii dunia itamfundisha na atalia! 😭
@@andrewmuigai6573 bora wakae na shida zao huko but they dont they involve even innocent people like those in embu walichomwa na bwana ya neigbor mlughya alikosea nyumba God help us
tiga wana rumbwa rwothe wankuanga on the wrong male chauvenists on steroids, support our ladies please ongeza mabibi watu wawache kwenda huko I lived with many tribes many people from many countries i concluded gikuyu are the best even they are better than wazungu juu hata wazungu wanatuoa because alikosa mtu wao ama anataka jungle fever ati mrembo wa kiafrica but not a real reason although i guess people usually dont care juu mzungu antoa pesa
Mycousin was married to a luo man ,let me tell you 😢,wakati wa election anafukuzwa akiambiwa vile watu wakwao ni wajinga wana vote for thieves after election anaenda anamchukua ,iliendelea hivyo for long but later shosh akasema atoke kwa hio ndoa
Woman leave! Your life and thst of your children is more important. File divorce, where he signs or not time and evidence are against hjm. Move on with life. Trust God is your provider not the hand of man
@@melisamburu1215 unless you leave in your 20s its a loss juu watoto wa wakale sio watoto ata wa kabila zingine mtasumbuana ata afathali kumdanganya ulirapiwa sio wake story iishe, anyway you lose if those are the only kids yo have you have to have kids wakikuyu wakukusaidia uzeeni
If that man harms you ukifikia mali who will you blame,I just see a lazy woman and someone who doesn't trust God of the weak here😢,it's such a shame to talk about the whole scenario, ukiachwa achika
As a mother the moment you start engaging with men who are not good examples of what is a husband, father and a decent human being. And making children to suffer and the common sense of looking at unhealthy environment and actively making conscious decisions to adding misery to children by having children with men who are not accountable. This lady continue to add trauma to children who have gone through such difficult times and not sure why women take me who are irresponsible.
Mimi i was asked by coart what i want from my husband i said i want absollutelly nothing i want peace he had bought a car for me i told him ill park it in his compound he was ashamed and left it for me because my kids were small then . Let me tell you i bought every thing new without money . I went to furniture Shop they gave me and we agreed what they will be dedacting end month. Now we are friends with that guy but am stable and Single and am not looking because God provides , you dont need man to servive you need God.
Wow..this is what we call.. Taking a step of faith..
Somali 2022 badboy.😅. This is why i prefer to fall back when it comes to marrying outside. When honeymooon ends, the real marriage begins. Utateseka na hakuna mtu atakusaidia juu hatujui mira za wengine. Niliona mwingine akilia akiuliza atatokaje kwa wa western africa juu amelapitia na mira zao. But women, when they decide they can't reason until its too late.
Around 90s twaikaraga na my late shosh mwena wa ruguru, reke ngwire andu acio me uiru muingi na kuhatika cucu mugunda,
So my late shosh alikuwa anasema kwake ndikwenda nduriri,
my cuzo married a dude kuma western lkn walikuwa wanakaa mombasa, wakati alipelekwa ushago wazazi wa mwanaume wakamkataa, kurudi mombasa my cuzo aligonjeka upere akafa....
Kaba ndure single a korwo ti mundu wa ruthiomi rwakwa
@@monienjeri3042 Kuna video naweza taka uone alafu give me a reply
thats common waschana wengi hupelekwa huko wanakataliwa instead of getting out anakaa na huyo bwana tu ati mapenzi upuzi, kwanza unakataliwa na mama yake kabisa na mko na mtoto better to get out early before menopause ukazae wazazi wako
This lady is depressed and needs help before it's too late, please tell her that her life and her children's life is more valuable than that home, atoke tu aweke Mungu mbele otherwise that man anaeza kumfanyia mbaya yeye na watoto wake.
Her children she should hav investigated about wakale na watoto wao before jumping on that ship she will not be allowed to leave with them even some of those kids turn on their parents its you cut your loses and go give birth to other children
Mama ondoka huko wachana na mali ni yakuisha.
Love yourself.
Take your children.
Kindly take your matter to judge mkuu aliye ni bwana wa mabwana.
Watoto wakale utaenda no wapi? Pengine uzae wengine she should leave now and have 2 children at least to honour her parents mother and father
Malachi 2:16 says, "I hate divorce! Pray Gladys, the Almighty God will rule in your favor
@@krissmbugua5126 so whats the option to stay and be deleted there's nothing holy about matrimony our ancestors were wise you know some of us whose parents got married in the 70s no ladies got married without the approval of their parents even if they were pregnant, you have to stay at home till the day your father agrees if he never agrees you had to find someone else he approves and thats how gikuyu people should continue this one would not be here if thats what we are sill doing everyone who listened still has a good home those going to other tribes they suffer then your children are suffering even in their 40s
Gikuyu mwakanirio muno muno niaciari ate mutikana hikere nduriri.. reu rora
My dad would say gwake gutikanario githweri and he was right, wanawake olekeni pahali mnaelewana lugha, tiganai na nduriri , ona kana ni graduate ya UON.
We also have marriages amongst kikuyus and are terrible, also aired on these youtube channels
@@purityfrancis813yea, it's not about tribes .
I agree cz ata mkikuyu mwenzako atakufanyia tu Mambo...mm Karibu mkikuyu aniue...he was swearing vile ataniua😂😂...it's not abt tribes
Wirute kwandika gikuyu😞😂😂
😂😂😂😂 Gutiri itathekagwo bt pole mama huyu anafaa canceling kwanza Vila anaongea ako under depression
Neno depression tulilijua juzi Kenya.
True
I agree with you she's dippressed
Although love is blind now i understand most of our fore fathers were against intermarriage, i remember even my grandmother used to say not to marry other tribes,maybe they knew something we don't.
I am not here to say all intermarriages have failed there are some doing well.
Yes..many tribes have their own ills..like those from western tend to practice polygamy n witchcraft..
Which affects marriages
There is a tribe you hav to avoid plz am not tribal bt kuma tribe zingn nyinyi kama wakikuyu hamfai kuolekea coz wako na mila mbovu hadi ,wivu na witchcraft, avoid kalenjin,luo, luhya,kisii hizi trube nne achaneni nazo kabisa ,marry from gema community like Embu, kirinyaga,meru and kamba ,this tribe haina tofauti kubwa na Kikuyu
Me I want all the tribes 😂😂😂
I think it depends on the person you meet.......
@@sijisiji8100 kikikuramba ndo utajua hai depends, those tribe ni dangerous Sana ,marry tribe zenye mko close nao,acheni kukimbilia nduriri
True I agree
@@sijisiji8100 bora msiende kusumbua watu wengine kwetu watu wameoa hizi kabila halafu anataka kuinvolve other family members me some of this nduriri nliiwambia wasi wahi nipigia simu sio mimi niliolewa na nduriri
Mimi ile kitu nanjua when another tribe marry kikuyu 98%of them not love but to be in the mission in quote amsaidie kujidevelop ,or to mistreat a kikuyu lady for what they always claim of us n jelous of kikuyu tribe so mostly can be in revenge
Sure💯
True, I totally agree with you
Gikuyu nimakugia mutwe
@@estherenk yah na imagine am having a girl trying to convince her ,yes wazazi wake wanamkataza aolewe apart from kikuyu naye anamusimamo wa afadhali akae single na asiolewe na kikuyu ati wanakuanga irresponsible ilhali babake is very responsible yaani family man ,sasa mimi inafika mahali namwambia ajue any decision has consequences
I agree with you✅️
Please, those who are able help this lady,I feel her, she should leave her 19 years matrimonial home with something to start life afresh.
She deserves something.
Please God intervene.being a Kikuyu is not a crime.They are hardworking and deserve better.
This lady sounds confused.i think depression is creeping in.pole sana mom.ama umuondokee aki😢😢.for your peace of mind?
You are such a beautiful lady what are you doing there? Ngai ni arathimire mugikuyu na hakiri na gwetha, uma na ihenya inene numo utanakua ugethe ciaku, icio itiari ciaku.
Mundu ete ciana ciaku mungiki?
Witwo maraya? Na uikare kuu?
You can't be serious!!
Witereire gikuu uma uthii biu!!
Avoid these tribes luhya,kalejingas,joluo, 😅 otherwise utatii
hakuna watu wazuri una githii thena ata coast ni shiana ithilamu shida wote kwanz coast ni dictator na hafanyi kazi mwnamke anashinda aki hawk alipe bill ya mnazi , alafu revenge zingine we niliona juzi kaschana kamemwagiwa hot oil juu aliacha jamaa sio lazima mtu aolewe ata mbegu ya mwanaume huuzwa
You have some of those men who are really good men, point taken ❤
@@user-lr5gf1xm4q we are only allowed to get married to gema according to our older people even wakamba walikuwa wamekataa its only for politics because the goal of gikuyu wa go create harmony no conflict sasa if your own kids from this mn wanfunzwa kutusi mama zao theres no harmoney ata wakisii niona mmoja anambia mama yake ati mkikuyu wanatusi aunti zao now there theres no harmony thats what they did not want
@@user-lr5gf1xm4q our ancestors said tuwachane nao magongona mao ti mo maitu and its still true , becaause no matter how good a person is kwingine ati mzee akiaga ukae na mwili yake wiki mzima and then you go through cleansing ceremony ati ulale na jamaa ambaye hio ndiokazi yake na wakuwanga na ukimwi, alafu watatumia gikuyu vibaya hao wanaume they use them gutee gikuo so hawa waschana wa rodi hupenda kusema oh wanapenda hao watu but actually they are the ones being misused sometime they approach even ladies minding their bussiness ofer them money ati mulale na yeye ndio watupe hio kifo sasa hio ndio nini kunayrara and
@user-lr5gfxm4q its not about been good magongona mao ti mu ma mugikuyu wengine wanakaa na mili ya wafu which is not only dangerous fo health its unclean, cleanisng ceremony ya bwana akiaga ni chafu pia unalazimishwa kuulala na jamaa ambaye hio ni profession yake ambaye anakuanga na ukimwi by the way, alafu hawa wakale wameuwa watu wetu sana na wanaoga na damu ya wafu sasa hizo laana zitakufuata na watoto wako, ata kulala nao haukubalishwi wengine hukuja kutupa kifo na kabila zingine mu akikupatia pesa nyingi ulale na yeye na ulikuwa shughuli zako usiwahi kubali utahitaji cleansing ceremony ya kifo
With proper grounds, a divorce can be granted even without the consent of the other party.
Yes
True
one does not need consent of the other party to be granted a divorce .If the other party(respondent) does not respond to the divorce petition, then the matter will proceed as uncontested divorce.
Hakuna mali iko hapo dear mimi niliwasha mali mingi na sasa niko na my own plots work hard you will enjoy choose life or death.
She is depressed 😢😢😢take heart ❤ wewe waachie vitu zake you start again sio too late .....
Sasa wewe, kwani huna akili? What are you doing in that man's life? Leave as soon as possible. Infact your continuing stay in that home, you are risking your life. Take off as fast as you can.
Sasa midia ita solve????
..reke aceneneke 😂😂....the minute people disapprove you by tribe or background, you have no business being there
Wewe ulipenda mwanaume KDF mama
Wewe ulipenda mwanaume KDF mama
Tribalism is real K DF my foot kiura ruga
Unafanya nini huko Toka huko you are hard working lady
Don't judge her coming out of marriage is not easy unless God intervene
So the lady is 40 yrs, and the man 62 yrs..
Itīkia Kana ūrege Tugen nomakūrage. Gīkūyū türī anyarare. Twara chiana kwanyu, wethee wīra mafüri ma jaa. Ono gūkorwo Ena mūkingo. Tūmenetwo nīdūrī chiotho kenya.
Waria maa wanyina
rumena rware ruru makiria miaka eyo ya 2005 athire kugira ki?Mendaga mugikuyu wa guthie kurima kuri wa njerire uguo ati arenda mugikuyu ati tondu me migunda mene ne anyway wanakuonyesha unaona dalili so awa our ladies are not wise and they are still getting married andu aya maratunyarara aciari ni maregire gutara airetu mamere tene ni tene matigane na nduriri
Yaani umekaaa tu hapo mpaka saa hii ,c uede tanzania ukae huko uachane kwanza na divorce itajileta kwanza utulie ujijenge
Mimi nilijaribu kuoleka na mkalejin tulikaa 4 yrs but vituko nilifanyiwa wee very stressful juu hata watoto WA ma brother zake na masister zake walikuwa wananitusi ati wakikuyu ni wezi na saa hio hujakosea mtu nakumbuka nikienda huko vile kulikuwa remote nikainua hiyo mboma ikakaa vizuri kila mtu alikuwa anatamani
Naye mwanaume kumbe alikuwa anaambianga workmates wake ati Mimi ni maid
😢😢😢people can be stupid
@@melisamburu1215 Mimi hata my generation siwezi taka kusikia mkalejin karibu na Mimi
@@melisamburu1215 but the good thing Mimi vile nilianza kuona redflag nilikanyangia kuzaa so sina mbegu Yao juu ATA ningezaa huyo mtoto sijui kaa ningempenda juu vile nilitreatiwa vibaya na ndio nitoke huko nilienda kwetu nikipata ati ameoa mwanamke mkubwa kumliko ako na watoto wakubwa it was very hard Ku claim everything belongs to me nilipata huyo mtu nyumba matope nikafanya business ya kuku mpaka tukajenga ya mawe nili regret sana
@@Mieye788 watalipia tu
Run for your life and your kids mama juu you can work please
Wooih this lady is depressed,may God help her.
Wewe hujapendwa kamwe to siku za Kwanza za kuolewa na wazazi na hata bwana yako. Umekili na mdomo yako ulikuwa unasaidiwa na jeshi wenzake , kwanini umevumilia hiyo miaka yote na sasa baada ya 18 years ndio unataka kutoka, ulivumilia shinda toka mwanzo kwa hivyo jitoe vile ulijipeleka na uache complain, what did you expect when nobody wanted you from the word go? Even your so called husband never loved you 😢😢😢
Ww hujielewi nashuku ww ni Mmoja ya wanawake wake ..hatuna shida na family yake , nlisema hawawezi kunipeda sababu mm Ni kabila tofauti na shida na mwanaume , kamchukue YY ako ready kuoa yeyote yule ,tena wale wote hutoka Kwa waume wao wanakuaga hawapedwi?mbuzi ww,ujue watu sio wajinga kama ww nmepigiwa Simu na wengi Sana zinaingia Hadi saa SITA ya usiku
If you see red flag think twice
what first red flag kukataa watoto wako better to be single desperation ilikufikisha hapo
Unacheza na moto there kikuyus before you.hang on and be a hero.una ngonja kuuwawa kwa sababu ya plot.
She is not okay
Wewe toka huko kama watu wata kusaidia
Wooiii Ma, she needs help .. wasted her 19yrs..
@@joycemaina2126 shauri yake kwa kabila zingine alikuwa ameenda kufanya nini
Wewe madam kaa watoto wako ni over 18 eda ujipange
Uma kuu utatiga ndakora..onanoucinìrwo nyumba ìyo
Ndume kuo kari kuohwo wohetwo na mukanda? Muthenya uria ukagerwo ngero nirio ukehera? Nyumba niyo iratuma wuikare hau Nonsense tiga urimu!!!
You just leave..it is never too late to start again..
Ndukamake mugikuyu ni mwaki was burururi aya angi nikuanga makama ngombe matamituiriire. We hoya Ngai...niaguguteithia.
Genziiiiii60yrs😂😂😂😂 2019badboy
Achana na kesi mama,toka na watoto wako ujipe shughuli achana na mkale
Reekee kuu advice free if charge God help you so that when you get something usindanganywo na masafari ikoshe kukuzaidia.tanzania guthiii guthambiaa indo..kaa utangiikara mucii ma umarugiiree please
my friend people do not divorce while living together go and finalize the divorce while living very far, filing of matters depend with the jurisdiction of where you live
Please leave achana na property otherwise you will die and leave your children hopeless.
Hii mambo ya kuvumilia kwa ndoa eti itakuwa sawa ni nonsense. One red flag, call it off,
If possible, marry a partner from your own culture and traditions
Ukikubali kuolewa na kabila nyingine ukiwa mkikuyu , kuwa tayari kuletewa wanawake wengine either kama make mwenza ama side chics . Hivyo mtii na umombe mungu akuonyeshe njia . Devoce isn't the solution
Mnapendea jesi nini garathuaaa ...even my daughter will never
You need not fight for your almonds right while in his proximity.
Run whilw you are ständig. Your life and children's life should be your highest priority. You claim to have been self relient. Put yourself together and run for it !!
Tafathali wakikuyu mtu atafute kabila yake this people they don't respect us no matter what ,lazima atafute kabila yake yake ataakikuoa
Kwani kwenu uliua nani ati ndungicoka? Wake up before you die. Jipende mama
Its not the intermarriage that has brought this problem ...ni maamuzi ya mme ...waganu na mbaara na irumi kihiko..ini ni matua ma mundu
Sufuria na viti ndizo zimekukalisha huko , ebu acha ujinga , toka ukatafte another life , huyo bad boy asha kusoma akili
Naona Mama ako na nyanya ako wanapeda sufuria na viti Sio lazima uongee ujinga kama maisha imekushida
"'" unapikiaa mzeee? Alafu mupunguze masafari,,retire is kufumiliana na mzeee awache kuooa oa akaeee na one ditto .mzeee ukichezaa niuguthuiii kwaa huko...
We were warned by our ancestors, tigana na nduriri,kwa ja rumbwa muraga andu aitu maithe maitu makuhetithia ciana ciaku ni ikwo icio sasa mtu anarudi kwao after menopause huwezi zaa watoto wengine wakukusaidia in your old age
Nilitoka kwa yangu in the 19th yr.
Wewe mama hujui vle unafanya mm bwana yangu alikua ana sema hivyo hivyo tu nlikua klimbu kuniuwa mim na watoto wangu.
Nie ndingihikio ni mukabi makoragwo matigitie itheruka.
Na kuna mtu mahali anadhani ruto anapenda Kikuyu .mkale ni mkale very tribal na hawapendi wakikuyu
POLE SANA MUHIA this woman is under depression she needs counseling ..................................
divorce can be granted even in absence of the other party depending on the petition filed. Hii kukataa kusign papers nikwaihali yako but you can't prevent divorce process to take place. the lawyer will just file application to use substituted service
As long as service of the divorce petition/notice to appear has been effected upon the respondent and there is prove then divorce will granted as uncontested divorce.
@@catherinemuriuki7254 definitely yes
Ngai wewe mama kwani huji penda aki???? Mm mtu anliambie hivyo alafu nkaaa tena
Red flags were all over but she was in love. Rem you can't advice anybody in love I pity you 😂😂😂
when your in love thats when your supposed to stop and think do everything to get out sleep with another man it will help end the confusion you get over it otherwise you are done for, but i dont believe this love nonsence because everyone seems to love someone with at least a job providing something even though some are young and stupid they might accept any amount like someone who can buy them chips kuku and chrome but still its because of the small things that person provides i never see anyone in love with someone with nothing if its love we should be seeing jobless people too
Wewe mama toa ujinga kwa hio boma,what are you doing with that man.....mwanaume hana kazi yako from the start...he will waste your time till death na finally family members watakufukuza
Ww tafadhari sikiza story kwanza kabla uongee ,mm naishi Kwa plot yenye tulinunua na yy ,family Yao ata hawashughuriki na hiyo case ata baadhi ndo wananiabia vile kunaeda sababu hawamtaki, nkisema watu wao wanamsaidia kuna vile namaanisha,unasikiza story alafu uongee
@@gladysnyambura3947 ooohkey tunakugonja ukuje na proof after one month
This kwanyu kana ukue tuhu.
Madam Mzee anaongea hayo yote na bado uko huko, unangoja utolewe huko ukiwa Maiti, jipende na Watoto wako , Songa mbele ujikalishe ulee watoto wako tafadhali.
To me i think divorce is for legally married couples....ama kunaendaga aje
@@ngethewamuthoni76 she has a marriage certificate
Sasa hata wewe nini unafanya huko kwake siutoke huko
Walk out of 😢😢😢😢
I know those people...stop those lawyering thing...
This lady is not serious. what the hell is she still doing with this man? jinga la mwisho, stop wasting our time
Please nipatie number for this lady. I understand and feel what she is going through lm married this people. I have gone through the same predicament.
True, I have been there for 22yrs its hell on earth, am alive by God's Grace these people are heartless.
@@marywanjiku8929 Thanks sis, utakanyuireire duii kerita. Please how can we connect to assist our sister.
@@gracewanjiru8716 true we need to support each other am still there planning on a way out coz am just fed up.
@@marywanjiku8929 can we connect through our sister coz l have already called her or you get my number from her
@@gracewanjiru8716 mnafanya nini huko and i noticed even mtoto umezaa anaeza kukugeuka huko jameni, si utoke mapema ukazae mtoto at least mmoja ana akili wakukusaidia ukizeeka
That's why am single tondu urimu ta ucio ndigukiya
Hi this story doesn't add up is she legally married without her parents consent.Why has she taken all this time with a man who does not respect her.I don't believe her.I have been married to a Kalenjin for 30 years and we are very ok.We have children and property together.If a person is God fearing they will treat you well.
Toka ata mm nlitoka hivyo kuna mungu.
Mzeee after retire utaona mbaya...God have mercy
I agree with you. Sasa anashughulika tu na wasichana wadogo,akizeeka, hawatamuangalia instead watakuwa wakimtesa. Wacha, hii dunia itamfundisha na atalia! 😭
Atajipata kwenye streets homeless.
You went into a house where there were already two wives and now you are insisting on a division of property?
Baringo side gani mummy niko huku kabarnet
@@dorcasgathoni580 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 mnakuwanga na mchezo Sana kikuyu women anyway nihanyu
@@andrewmuigai6573 nafanya job huku sikuolewa
@@andrewmuigai6573 ni maa wanacheza kou nu nduthoki
@@andrewmuigai6573 bora wakae na shida zao huko but they dont they involve even innocent people like those in embu walichomwa na bwana ya neigbor mlughya alikosea nyumba God help us
Lete mzee tumsikie huyu mama anandanganya
tiga wana rumbwa rwothe wankuanga on the wrong male chauvenists on steroids, support our ladies please ongeza mabibi watu wawache kwenda huko I lived with many tribes many people from many countries i concluded gikuyu are the best even they are better than wazungu juu hata wazungu wanatuoa because alikosa mtu wao ama anataka jungle fever ati mrembo wa kiafrica but not a real reason although i guess people usually dont care juu mzungu antoa pesa
Na mlifanya harusi kama bwana hajaenda kwenu?
Hii ndo shida ya kutoelewa vitu ,jeshi ndo walimwambia anipublish nadhani umenielewa na pia kuna faida ya kupublish mke na watoto
Nani anajua huyu aki huyu mama ako na depression tusaidie na lawyer ama tumchangie kakitu atafute lawyer
Nani alimwambia akaolewe na wakalee akwende kabisa😂
Walk out,!
😂😂😂Somali badboy
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Mycousin was married to a luo man ,let me tell you 😢,wakati wa election anafukuzwa akiambiwa vile watu wakwao ni wajinga wana vote for thieves after election anaenda anamchukua ,iliendelea hivyo for long but later shosh akasema atoke kwa hio ndoa
Kikuyu women never learn
ata kwa wakale ni hivyo ndoa inategemea politics marriage is not a must itabidii watu wakae na gikuyu wenye wanataka mabibi wengi ama wakae pekee
Woman leave! Your life and thst of your children is more important. File divorce, where he signs or not time and evidence are against hjm. Move on with life. Trust God is your provider not the hand of man
Pole sana kabila 😂😂 nilinunu gari 70000k + 50000k akajegea mama yake ati mimi wangu wamekufa after that nilifukuzwa kama ubwa ati mkikuyu ni mwizi
😭😭
Tuna suffer sana ugenini but its okay uzuri mtu akisonga anaenda kujijenga hata ikitake tym
What!!! A kilo of Gari is khs400.
@@melisamburu1215 unless you leave in your 20s its a loss juu watoto wa wakale sio watoto ata wa kabila zingine mtasumbuana ata afathali kumdanganya ulirapiwa sio wake story iishe, anyway you lose if those are the only kids yo have you have to have kids wakikuyu wakukusaidia uzeeni
Wee kila mtu aolewe na mtu wao
@@wanjiruwanganga5707 good girl me am with my shiro siezi date kabila zingine and I treat my woman like a queen
If that man harms you ukifikia mali who will you blame,I just see a lazy woman and someone who doesn't trust God of the weak here😢,it's such a shame to talk about the whole scenario, ukiachwa achika
Ww ni wale watu hufurahia mabaya Kwa wengine subiri apo sababu ntarudi apa na ushidi
@@gladysnyambura3947aren't you afraid of your own life,mali ya dunia na pesa unaeza tafuta,mbora uko na uzima wa mwili
Woman just move out or mtakufa na watoto wako Mungu atakusaidia.Rubwa muruendelie kii kafa mgikuyu wanyu.
matiguaga kwanja a naikuru nuria mana rwona ni kwi mena,
hukuwa somesha kwa sababu wewe ulimkula hadi akatilisika
Women women surely u cant leave
Shida ya huyu mama ni nn?
Agikuyu tutihakagwo mature were hutaki kufanya kazi run away with your kids you don't need his money
Umedanganya 60 na hajaretire
kwani general kahariri ni wa miaka ngapi ni wa hio ata ogola
Kikuyu women mulikatazwa na hamusikiangi anyway shauri yenu
Tulikanywa na nani.... rimwe miario itari maguru hatiri bata tondu urongerera ruo rungi
Ngai na mm niko huko
@@monienjeri3042 mulikatazwa na wazazi wenu anyway shauri yenu
@@monienjeri3042 do you want to know vile mumepangiwa na hizo kabila mnashindanga mlisema wako romantic
😂Bure kabisa!
ondoka
Move out don't be foolish
Jinga hii
As a mother the moment you start engaging with men who are not good examples of what is a husband, father and a decent human being.
And making children to suffer and the common sense of looking at unhealthy environment and actively making conscious decisions to adding misery to children by having children with men who are not accountable.
This lady continue to add trauma to children who have gone through such difficult times and not sure why women take me who are irresponsible.
Mogylager ky kwy nyamu easyioh… anga totly mytweh. Matiendeteh andle aitle ny waaner moodheeri
Respect the language bana,go learn how to spell first. Tiga kwandīka mathogothanio nīūratūconora ūgīconorera oho.
Tamaka tiga wana, ni kii giki urandika 😂😂😂
Hii typing imenbamba,,mogylager😂😂😂
When I say no intermarriage
I am called tribalistic
Okey