Saddest one yet😢 All the teens are growing up and moving out. Hope everything works out for Harlan and that he is able to visit as much as possible. You have both done such a brilliant job as parents, Shelley and Jared. Will miss Harlan so much. Love from the UK XX
I don't usually get emotional but this one got me. I've enjoyed seeing Harlan grow into a handsome young man. Keep at your goals Harlan. Shelley and Jared you are an inspiration to what can be done with love and work.
I’ve always felt like Harlan, Addison, and Aubrey had a very strong bond as a sibling unit. He’s such a good big brother and I hope they are able to stay connected. Best of luck, Harlan!
We’ll definitely miss seeing him in vlogs! I hope he does amazing with his new job! I started crying as well! Good luck on your next adventure, Harlan!❤️
How Harlan looks at his foster dad restores my faith that there are still genuinely good people left in this socially enept world. Thanks for sharing. I love this.
😭 I know everyone is crying now… I can’t be the only one…! Harlan, you’ve always seemed to be the “quiet one” in my book, but it’s always been apparent how much love you have for your family and them for you! Praying that your new transition works out well for you! ❤️🙏🏻 I know that mom and dad / Jarod and Shelly are very proud of the man you’ve become!!!
harlan seems like the he gives the best hugs. i’ve noticed that he’s always been especially protective of aubrey and addison which makes sense after everything they’ve been through together
Aubrey staying back and watching the little kids- she reminds me so much of Lacey. So responsible. I feel like when I was her age, I would have gone even with the stomach ache 😂
The thing I noticed throughout the whole video is whenever someone felt upset you could see them taking a deep breath, you two as parents have taught them all so well ! This isn’t goodbye this is see you later and seeing how all the kids are able to get through it together is so heartwarming ❤️
Such a fantastic plan to become an electrician! So proud of Harlan, it's a huge step. I hope we will get some updates on his life if he wishes and is ok with sharing. Lots of love to the whole family!
This one has me balling 😭 I think the first Crazy Middles video I ever watched was called “Whose at the door 4 more” when Harlan moved in. In that video you guys asked him and his bio siblings what they wanted in a family and I have been so moved by the love, happiness, and precious memories that you all have created! Congrats Harlan, you will be so missed.
What an exciting and emotional time for everyone. To think that until 2 years ago Harlan thought his bio father had passed away and now he's going to live with him is nothing short of amazing. He will be missed so much but this new chapter is so exciting. All the best to you, Harlan. I look forward to updates knowing you will be doing great things.
I know it's sad but such a great oppertunity for Harlan to do something he loves while getting to know his birth dad better. He will always appreciate how you guys raised him and loved him. It is a good thing as they all grow up.
So sad that Harlan is leaving, but really happy too that he will be with his bio dad and has a great job opportunity! Shelly and Jarod, you raised a fine young man. Good luck Harlan!
Ill say it again, love how much these kids care for each other! Its so moving! My heart is exploding! Best if lucky on your new path Harlan! You are going to do well!
That was so sad, made me cry too, good luck on your new adventure Harlan we will all miss seeing you but look forward to catching up with you in the future, sending love and hugs from the UK x
You 2 are amazing. As a former fosterchild who was separated from her siblings, im blown away that u keep familes together. My heart burst when I heard your family story. My life could have been so different if we could have had found a family like yours . Thank u
I watch both Crazy Middles and Crazy Pieces, I've watched as these amazing kiddos grow and move out. I've followed many of them on their new life journeys. I've been happy and a little sad to see them go, but for some reason this one... Harlan moving out broke my heart. Please don't get me wrong, I'm so happy that he found his biological father and that he has found a career choice. I know that he will do amazing, but I just cried and cried while watching this. My heart hurts for Shelly, Jared and the other siblings. Truthfully Addison crying for her brother really got me. I wish you nothing but happiness and I know you will do great. Big hugs Harlan, until we see you again.💜
I feel the same... Maybe it is because Harlan so clearly blossomed in this family. I remember he was kind of reserved and insecure when he arrived. Now he seems so comfortable in his skin and clearly in touch with his emotions. I will miss him but I can't imagine how his family must feel now.
I'm glad you are happy for him reconnecting with his biological dad.it shows you are kind human beings and doing what is right fir these kids.you have always demonstrated that it is about the kids and that is more than alot would do.you will reap good rewards in life for helping life.
I love how much love is in your family. Harlan is one lucky young man to have had you as his parents. It will be hard on the girls to have their brother leave. I’m sure there will be as many visits as you can get. Wishing Harlan a wonderful new life experience. You guys gave him the platform to succeed . Love you all xxxx
Talk about bawling! 😭😭😭 Good luck, Harlen! You are going to make a good electrian! Everyone is going to miss you! ❤ You are so lucky to have the chance to have bonding time with your biological father. Your mom and dad have raised such beautiful humans ❤️
Harlan I wish you the best and am so proud of the amazing young man you have become. You will go far in life. Will definitely miss seeing you in the vlog as you have always been one of my favorites (shhh lol). Enjoy getting to know your dad and learning a valuable skill of being an electrician. Love you 😍
Pray the best for him and you all. Thank you for opening your home to these kids . They might be moving out but they will Always Love you. And I am so glad at least with his real dad. And I wish them the best.
Best of luck Harlan!! You’re my favorite Crazy Middle Member :) I’m so happy cos I’ve been watching a while now and all those surprises and emotional videos, I feel like I’m already part of this Crazy (Middles/Pieces) Family. ❤️❤️
Oh my heart ❤️ 3 yrs ago my son moved from Illinois to scottsdale! We drove a truck with his belongings behind his car the whole way! I still cry and wish he wasn't so far away lol he's 31! Y'all are an amazing family!
Fare-thee-well Harlan, safe journey into adulting. Happiness with your Bio-Dad. Don't forget your Wallace family, rules & all. Shelley & Jared have given you dynamic training to becoming a good man. As a family they are wonderful.
Praying for Harlan and Cynthia as they go on in these next big adventures in their lives. Proud of them. They are going to do amazing. These kids are going to do great things because of all the love and support they have. Y'all are doing an amazing job raising such great kids.
Seeing all the kids from Crazy Pieces and you guys growing up and moving out lately had been so hard! I think this is the saddest moving out video though. Cynthia, Alex, Halie and Jaime, they all moved so close to home. I think for me it’s so bittersweet, because he does have such a GREAT opportunity and it’s so sweet he was able to connect with his biological dad and bond with him in this way. You guys will always be his family and you raised him right as you do all your kids. He knows if he ever wants to mov back, you’d welcome him with open arms ♥️
Harlan would not be the man he is today without all of you. Your unconditional love has given him the confidence to blossom. His reunion with his bio Dad would not happened without your help, and that is the most special gift you could have given him. He really came out of his shell after that. 💕💕
Wow this was emotional, I definitely cried a lot. Seeing Addison get upset was so heart breaking, it must be so difficult for her and Aubrey especially, being bio siblings, to be separated again and being so far away. I'm so proud of Harlan for being able to move out and start this electrician job, good luck to him and everyone will miss you so much Harlan!! ❤
THANKYOU SO MUCH FOR BEING ANGELS ON EARTH.AND GIVING THESE CHILDREN A SAFE,SECURE,LOVING HOME AND KEEPING SIBLINGS TOGETHER. WATCHING YOU GUYS MAKES MY HEART HAPPY AND I CAN RELATE TO THE EMOTIONAL SIDE OF THINGS.BEING ADOPTED MYSELF, AND COMING FROM TRAUMATIC BEGINNINGS❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ GOOD LUCK HARLAN! AND REMEMBER TO LOOK AFTER YOUR MENTAL,PHYSICAL,EMOTIONAL,SPIRITUAL HEALTH.
this video brought tears to my eyes . he’s going to make awesome new beginnings & adventures with his dad . he will be missed ! hope life treats you great where you’re at harlan !🤍
from th bottom of my heart i thank you fro proving these kids with the stability they needed . you guys r awesome and he is gonna be a epic electrician xx
I held it together until the end when Shelly started crying when she and Harlan hugged. What I would have done to get Shelly and Jared or even Aaron and Crystal from Crazy Pieces as parents. You must be so proud of having Spencer, Cynthia, Destiny, Kaeli, Cody and now Harlan grow up and move out. Oh and Lacy and Jonathan. Same thing with Aaron and Crystal seeing Alex, James and now Hallie and Jamie move out on their own. You four are some of the most wonderful parents I've seen and it shows in the way your children grow up and eventually move out. It's nice we get to see Spencer, Cynthia, Cody, Lacy and Jonathan even though they moved out. It's going to be weird not seeing Harlan in the videos. Hopefully soon you can get back together and catch up. I want to know how this new job goes for Harlan. Love you all!
The sweet letter at the end.....😪 I'm over here bawling my eyes out like he's my child! This is such a bittersweet moment but Harlan we wish you all the best!
💕💔😥 It's hard when our kids leave the nest. The way he held onto each of you had me in tears. You've done a wonderful job raising Harlan to have the strength & confidence to go out into the world. I'm happy to see him back now tho 🤗
Good luck 🍀🤞 Harlan with all your future endeavours. I wish you all the best for the future and may it be blessed with positive energy and happiness. I'm sure you'll see everyone really soon xoxo
Omg! I cried like a baby! So sad to see Harlan go, but happy for what's ahead for him at his dad's. Hope you can visit him or he can come to visit soon. The best of luck to you Harlan. Now, no one else can move out!!
Wow the kids are growing up to fast. Harlan and Cynthia are going to be missed but she's only down the street. You guy's are awesome parents so they will do great. All the crying got me crying here too.
This was a hard one. I can’t believe I cried so much. Just seeing how close all the kids are, regardless if they are blood, they love each other so very much! ♥️
My Heart is breaking!! I will miss seeing both these lovely young adults 😢 ❤ 😞 please keep us updated about Harlan. Harlan please take care of yourself.
Good luck, Harlan! You have an amazing journey ahead of you! Never give up on yourself and don’t forget to reach for those stars! There’s a special one waiting just for you! ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻 Jared and Shelly, he’s going to make it far in this world! You taught him so much! Love to you all!❤️🌹💝
You Harlan are an amazing young man. I will miss seeing you in the vlogs. I've said this before and I'll say it again, you are truly my favorite. God bless you as you embark upon life's journey.
I was trying not to cry until the very end. But I failed especially after seeing/reading Harlan's message. You grew up and become a good man, a good brother and a good son. Wishing you all the best in your next journey.
I really enjoy watching your videos and your family! You guys are amazing! It makes my day when you guys post videos! Your going to be missed Cynthia and Harlan
Oh, my mama heart can’t take this! I teared up during the video, but when the note from Harlan came up, I lost it. I’m going to miss his sweet, sweet spirit, and his genuine love for you all. God bless you, Harlan. Do well, and, come home soon! ❤️
I held off watching this until today because I knew I’d sob my way through it. I was right. So emotional. You will be so missed, Harlan! Good luck on this new chapter in your life…your family set you up to succeed for sure!
Goodness, I have cried more in the last 2 days between Cynthia and Harlan moving out! Jared and Shelly, you two have raised such amazing kids and I absolutely love that you encourage your kids to mend relationships with their bio families, what a blessing all the way around. Love you all so much! 😊
Heartbreaking, but good for Harlan. Prayers that he is happy and successful wherever life takes him. Prayers for all as you start another chapter. Blessings♥️🙏🏼
Thank you for making me cry before going to bed...Harlan I wish you the very best in what this journey is going to bring, study hard and learn everything you need to know miss you already ...
I can’t imagine what you guys as the parents are feeling. You raise the kids and just have to let them go. I’m sure sometimes the kids move out because they want their freedom and no longer want to follow by the parents rules but at the end of the day I’m sure they’re beyond grateful for you guys. Harland good luck, you’ll do great, good luck 🍀❤️😊
Good Luck Harlan on your new journey. That was a very hard goodbye for you, you will be missed by all the family. You guys do such a good job in raising strong independent loving young adults ❤️
Happy for him and his dad to be able to bond, and for him to learn a good trade. Sad for you guys to be apart, especially Addison and Aubrey. Best of luck Harlan! We all have to grow up and move out sometime.
I knew I was going to cry when this video went up.. Harlan is one of the most quiet sweet loving boys.. I know he's going to do great .. Shelly I know this one was especially hard for you as you and Harlan had a special bond.. makes me realize just how times fly by.. good luck Harlan. Good thing you all have phones n FaceTime lol
All your kids are truly so great. But there was something about that particular sibling group that just immediately got me when I started watching your videos. What an utter privelege to get to see those three grow into the people they have become. Many Christian adoptive families seem to only talk about God's healing but you understand the importance of therapy. You truly make sure to have the kids covered on all sides. You show them so much love and I respect you for it. I have always dreamed of adopting but here in Sweden they hardly ever allow national adoption. Instead, foster kids often spend their entire childhood in the system. The rights of biological parents are too strong within the legal system. There have been protests lately though, as this has immense consequences for the kids and laws may (hopefully) be changing to strengthen the rights of the children.
Each person in the family really brings a different but beautiful vibe that when they start to leave the nest it feels almost equally sad for myself and many others who have been so invested in your family's channel. I've loved watching each one of them grow up in the couple or so years that I've been following and I'm so so sooooo proud of them all for doing what they're doing and learning to grow in their new places. Love you guys so much, and Harlan.. all the very best to you man, I know that you will go on to do great things! Stay safe bro 💙
It’s so crazy how i watched the video where Audrey, Addison and Harlan arrived to their home. Little kids with do many dreams that have come true because of you guys! Love this! Did i cry? YES!
Jarrod and Shelly, what a wonderful life you provided Harlan. He is confident to go out on his own. He loves you more than you even know. This vlog was so so sweet.
✨✨I wasn't ready.✨✨ So I can just imagine how all of you are feeling. The love, lessons and memories is something Harlan will always carry with him💜 His letter at the end just proves that. This was a tear jerker for sure. Thank you for sharing your family with us. May god watch over Harlan and guide him on his journey. ❌⭕❌⭕
I knew it was going to be sad, but I so needed some tissues to get through the end... On to your new adventure in life Harlan... Good Luck with where life takes you my friend.
Watching Harlan hold Addison as she cried broke my heart. He’s such a good brother!
same
same i was crying with them 😭
Same
Made me cry!
Gosh I was gone! Addi is my favourite so to see her cry broke my heart!
Saddest one yet😢 All the teens are growing up and moving out. Hope everything works out for Harlan and that he is able to visit as much as possible. You have both done such a brilliant job as parents, Shelley and Jared. Will miss Harlan so much. Love from the UK XX
Yeah it’s what teens do.
I don't usually get emotional but this one got me. I've enjoyed seeing Harlan grow into a handsome young man. Keep at your goals Harlan. Shelley and Jared you are an inspiration to what can be done with love and work.
Why u cry if u usually don't get emotional
Same here
@@syniahthomas977 girl- cause obviously she’s emotional attached to him somehow or something
SAME. This one has me crying like a baby.
@@m.adrien5744 don't" girl" me ur white and white people dont say that and she not emotional 🤣
I’ve always felt like Harlan, Addison, and Aubrey had a very strong bond as a sibling unit. He’s such a good big brother and I hope they are able to stay connected. Best of luck, Harlan!
We’ll definitely miss seeing him in vlogs! I hope he does amazing with his new job! I started crying as well! Good luck on your next adventure, Harlan!❤️
Me too 😅
I too cried 😭
Me too
Me too
I cried twice 🥲😂❤️
How Harlan looks at his foster dad restores my faith that there are still genuinely good people left in this socially enept world. Thanks for sharing. I love this.
Adoptive dad not foster he’s legally their son
Harlan is going to be missed so much ! same with Cynthia, i'm super excited for them both in their new journey of life :) xx
Cynthia will be back to visit a lot because she is two doors down
@@juliamclane8319 i know that, it's just nice to wish them both luck lol
Poor Addison good congratulations Harlan
🤣 I think Cynthia's closet door was broken off too lol, what's with the closet doors haha?? 🤷🤦😄
@@janelleogden451 miles now goes by she/her and her new name is jordyn, harlan visited her not long ago, she posted a tiktok about him
Seeing Harlan crying at the end made me start. He's such a sweet son and he'll be missed horribly.
Best wishes Harlan in your new adventure. Glad you have a life plan. Remember to keep your family close and stay in touch.
😭 I know everyone is crying now… I can’t be the only one…! Harlan, you’ve always seemed to be the “quiet one” in my book, but it’s always been apparent how much love you have for your family and them for you! Praying that your new transition works out well for you! ❤️🙏🏻 I know that mom and dad / Jarod and Shelly are very proud of the man you’ve become!!!
Now I’m crying even more you said that so well 😭♥️
Bawling😭
I'm crying too
Oh yes water works definitely happening
When Addison started crying I lost it on the train too😭😭😭 EMBARRASSING
harlan seems like the he gives the best hugs. i’ve noticed that he’s always been especially protective of aubrey and addison which makes sense after everything they’ve been through together
Aubrey staying back and watching the little kids- she reminds me so much of Lacey. So responsible. I feel like when I was her age, I would have gone even with the stomach ache 😂
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The thing I noticed throughout the whole video is whenever someone felt upset you could see them taking a deep breath, you two as parents have taught them all so well ! This isn’t goodbye this is see you later and seeing how all the kids are able to get through it together is so heartwarming ❤️
Such a fantastic plan to become an electrician! So proud of Harlan, it's a huge step. I hope we will get some updates on his life if he wishes and is ok with sharing. Lots of love to the whole family!
This one has me balling 😭 I think the first Crazy Middles video I ever watched was called “Whose at the door 4 more” when Harlan moved in. In that video you guys asked him and his bio siblings what they wanted in a family and I have been so moved by the love, happiness, and precious memories that you all have created! Congrats Harlan, you will be so missed.
What an exciting and emotional time for everyone. To think that until 2 years ago Harlan thought his bio father had passed away and now he's going to live with him is nothing short of amazing. He will be missed so much but this new chapter is so exciting.
All the best to you, Harlan. I look forward to updates knowing you will be doing great things.
Wishing you all the best Harlen, I've watched you grow over the years into the amazing young man you are. Will miss seeing you in the videos xx
These people are true Earth Angels!!! You are people that I admire! Good job!!!
So proud of you Harlan. Continue to reach for your goals. You will be missed.
I know it's sad but such a great oppertunity for Harlan to do something he loves while getting to know his birth dad better. He will always appreciate how you guys raised him and loved him. It is a good thing as they all grow up.
Wishing him the best. My heart is breaking that we won’t see him. He’s so awesome!
We'll see him but not as much anymore
They said they will see him sometime
So sad that Harlan is leaving, but really happy too that he will be with his bio dad and has a great job opportunity! Shelly and Jarod, you raised a fine young man. Good luck Harlan!
So proud of you Harlan, you will be missed by everyone for sure. Good luck, can't wait to see you in the vlogs again.
Laser tag looks like fun
Ill say it again, love how much these kids care for each other! Its so moving! My heart is exploding! Best if lucky on your new path Harlan! You are going to do well!
That was so sad, made me cry too, good luck on your new adventure Harlan we will all miss seeing you but look forward to catching up with you in the future, sending love and hugs from the UK x
You 2 are amazing. As a former fosterchild who was separated from her siblings, im blown away that u keep familes together. My heart burst when I heard your family story. My life could have been so different if we could have had found a family like yours . Thank u
I watch both Crazy Middles and Crazy Pieces, I've watched as these amazing kiddos grow and move out. I've followed many of them on their new life journeys. I've been happy and a little sad to see them go, but for some reason this one... Harlan moving out broke my heart. Please don't get me wrong, I'm so happy that he found his biological father and that he has found a career choice. I know that he will do amazing, but I just cried and cried while watching this. My heart hurts for Shelly, Jared and the other siblings. Truthfully Addison crying for her brother really got me. I wish you nothing but happiness and I know you will do great. Big hugs Harlan, until we see you again.💜
I feel the same. 😭 Thank you for putting it into words.
@@Elizabeth-aka-Pippi that goes for me as well !! such a bitter-sweet moment 🙁
I feel the same... Maybe it is because Harlan so clearly blossomed in this family. I remember he was kind of reserved and insecure when he arrived. Now he seems so comfortable in his skin and clearly in touch with his emotions. I will miss him but I can't imagine how his family must feel now.
I'm glad you are happy for him reconnecting with his biological dad.it shows you are kind human beings and doing what is right fir these kids.you have always demonstrated that it is about the kids and that is more than alot would do.you will reap good rewards in life for helping life.
I am currently in a homeless shelter watching you guys and your keeping my spirits up while I work on getting back to normal and on my feet
You can do it!!!! Sending you positive vibes!!!
So many people to Love, Harlan is very blessed…!!! Your video made me misty eyed… such a good vlog…🥰❤️🥰❤️🙂
I cried from the beginning to the end. The hard part is watching them grow up and move out. I wish him the best of luck on his new journey
The tears are rolling. Wishing him a life filled with as much happiness as is in your home. Always.
I love how much love is in your family. Harlan is one lucky young man to have had you as his parents. It will be hard on the girls to have their brother leave. I’m sure there will be as many visits as you can get. Wishing Harlan a wonderful new life experience. You guys gave him the platform to succeed . Love you all xxxx
Talk about bawling! 😭😭😭 Good luck, Harlen! You are going to make a good electrian! Everyone is going to miss you! ❤ You are so lucky to have the chance to have bonding time with your biological father. Your mom and dad have raised such beautiful humans ❤️
Aww such an emotional video. Good luck Harlan. Learn lots of great thing’s. Hopefully we’ll see you soon.
Mum and dad to these kids......HEROES! Must break your heart to see them leave. Well done to you both
I love how Landon has always been Jared’s mini me but find it hilarious that Jared loves hugs and Landon reacts the exact opposite
You two are so awesome!!! Your love for the children is very rare. May the Lord Bless you always!!!
That was a tear jerker! So excited for Harlan, I know you will visit. Best wishes for the future. God bless you!
So happy this young man connected to his biological Dad. So glad he had a great foster family. Love the happy ending.
With so many at the same ages, these milestone come so close together. You have done your job well. You have given your children the wings to fly.
Prayers for that sweet caring young man. May he be safe and loved always...pray he has happiness he deserves it.
Harlan I wish you the best and am so proud of the amazing young man you have become. You will go far in life. Will definitely miss seeing you in the vlog as you have always been one of my favorites (shhh lol). Enjoy getting to know your dad and learning a valuable skill of being an electrician. Love you 😍
Pray the best for him and you all. Thank you for opening your home to these kids . They might be moving out but they will Always Love you. And I am so glad at least with his real dad. And I wish them the best.
Best of luck Harlan!! You’re my favorite Crazy Middle Member :) I’m so happy cos I’ve been watching a while now and all those surprises and emotional videos, I feel like I’m already part of this Crazy (Middles/Pieces) Family. ❤️❤️
Oh my heart ❤️ 3 yrs ago my son moved from Illinois to scottsdale! We drove a truck with his belongings behind his car the whole way! I still cry and wish he wasn't so far away lol he's 31! Y'all are an amazing family!
I think this was the saddest move out of them all. Harlan good luck on your new adventure.
I agree!
Such a loving son and brother. Best wishes for your future, Harlan.
Fare-thee-well Harlan, safe journey into adulting. Happiness with your Bio-Dad. Don't forget your Wallace family, rules & all. Shelley & Jared have given you dynamic training to becoming a good man. As a family they are wonderful.
Praying for Harlan and Cynthia as they go on in these next big adventures in their lives. Proud of them. They are going to do amazing. These kids are going to do great things because of all the love and support they have. Y'all are doing an amazing job raising such great kids.
Seeing all the kids from Crazy Pieces and you guys growing up and moving out lately had been so hard! I think this is the saddest moving out video though. Cynthia, Alex, Halie and Jaime, they all moved so close to home. I think for me it’s so bittersweet, because he does have such a GREAT opportunity and it’s so sweet he was able to connect with his biological dad and bond with him in this way. You guys will always be his family and you raised him right as you do all your kids. He knows if he ever wants to mov back, you’d welcome him with open arms ♥️
Harlan would not be the man he is today without all of you. Your unconditional love has given him the confidence to blossom. His reunion with his bio Dad would not happened without your help, and that is the most special gift you could have given him. He really came out of his shell after that. 💕💕
Wow this was emotional, I definitely cried a lot. Seeing Addison get upset was so heart breaking, it must be so difficult for her and Aubrey especially, being bio siblings, to be separated again and being so far away. I'm so proud of Harlan for being able to move out and start this electrician job, good luck to him and everyone will miss you so much Harlan!! ❤
THANKYOU SO MUCH FOR BEING ANGELS ON EARTH.AND GIVING THESE CHILDREN A SAFE,SECURE,LOVING HOME AND KEEPING SIBLINGS TOGETHER. WATCHING YOU GUYS MAKES MY HEART HAPPY AND I CAN RELATE TO THE EMOTIONAL SIDE OF THINGS.BEING ADOPTED MYSELF, AND COMING FROM TRAUMATIC BEGINNINGS❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ GOOD LUCK HARLAN! AND REMEMBER TO LOOK AFTER YOUR MENTAL,PHYSICAL,EMOTIONAL,SPIRITUAL HEALTH.
this video brought tears to my eyes . he’s going to make awesome new beginnings & adventures with his dad . he will be missed ! hope life treats you great where you’re at harlan !🤍
from th bottom of my heart i thank you fro proving these kids with the stability they needed . you guys r awesome and he is gonna be a epic electrician xx
I held it together until the end when Shelly started crying when she and Harlan hugged. What I would have done to get Shelly and Jared or even Aaron and Crystal from Crazy Pieces as parents. You must be so proud of having Spencer, Cynthia, Destiny, Kaeli, Cody and now Harlan grow up and move out. Oh and Lacy and Jonathan. Same thing with Aaron and Crystal seeing Alex, James and now Hallie and Jamie move out on their own. You four are some of the most wonderful parents I've seen and it shows in the way your children grow up and eventually move out. It's nice we get to see Spencer, Cynthia, Cody, Lacy and Jonathan even though they moved out. It's going to be weird not seeing Harlan in the videos. Hopefully soon you can get back together and catch up. I want to know how this new job goes for Harlan. Love you all!
What a good kid …he’s going to be doing great things in life . All those kids are precious
The sweet letter at the end.....😪 I'm over here bawling my eyes out like he's my child! This is such a bittersweet moment but Harlan we wish you all the best!
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It's hard when our kids leave the nest. The way he held onto each of you had me in tears. You've done a wonderful job raising Harlan to have the strength & confidence to go out into the world.
I'm happy to see him back now tho 🤗
Good luck 🍀🤞 Harlan with all your future endeavours. I wish you all the best for the future and may it be blessed with positive energy and happiness. I'm sure you'll see everyone really soon xoxo
Omg! I cried like a baby! So sad to see Harlan go, but happy for what's ahead for him at his dad's. Hope you can visit him or he can come to visit soon. The best of luck to you Harlan. Now, no one else can move out!!
OMG I cried so much. It's so hard watching them all leave home, although I know they'll do great. All the very best Harlan xx
Wow the kids are growing up to fast. Harlan and Cynthia are going to be missed but she's only down the street. You guy's are awesome parents so they will do great. All the crying got me crying here too.
This was a hard one. I can’t believe I cried so much. Just seeing how close all the kids are, regardless if they are blood, they love each other so very much! ♥️
Wishing you Health and Happiness and Good Luck on your New Journey. Will miss seeing you daily. 🙏 💙
I was fine watching the video, until Harlan's note at the end. Special kid raised by exceptional parents. Blessings to all from Iowa
My Heart is breaking!! I will miss seeing both these lovely young adults 😢 ❤ 😞 please keep us updated about Harlan. Harlan please take care of yourself.
Harlan I'm happy that you ate pursuing a career, and hope everything works out for the best , I know you will be great . But you will be missed
ANGELS EVERYWHERE. SO CUTE. GREAT PEOPLE. GREAT FAMILY🙏🏼🕊
Good luck, Harlan! You have an amazing journey ahead of you! Never give up on yourself and don’t forget to reach for those stars! There’s a special one waiting just for you! ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻
Jared and Shelly, he’s going to make it far in this world! You taught him so much!
Love to you all!❤️🌹💝
Amazing Parents Amazing Kids God bless you ❤
Ya'll had me sobbing, wishing Harlan and Cynthia both the very best on their new life adventure. Cant wait to see where life leads them.
Omg!!! I cried and cried. Harlan, Many blessings and good vibes to you!! Your mom and dad are just a phone call away. 💖💕
Aww congrats Harlan.. good luck Hun and i knew Shelly would get emotional and Harlan. Cause he's a momma's boy.. ❤️
You Harlan are an amazing young man. I will miss seeing you in the vlogs. I've said this before and I'll say it again, you are truly my favorite. God bless you as you embark upon life's journey.
Wow! Such a sweet kid! Ya’ll will miss him but I’m sure you are proud of him too!
I was trying not to cry until the very end. But I failed especially after seeing/reading Harlan's message. You grew up and become a good man, a good brother and a good son. Wishing you all the best in your next journey.
I really enjoy watching your videos and your family! You guys are amazing! It makes my day when you guys post videos! Your going to be missed Cynthia and Harlan
Oh, my mama heart can’t take this! I teared up during the video, but when the note from Harlan came up, I lost it. I’m going to miss his sweet, sweet spirit, and his genuine love for you all. God bless you, Harlan. Do well, and, come home soon! ❤️
Awww. Will miss seeing Harlan, especially he's moving to another state. Goodluck on his new adventures though.
I held off watching this until today because I knew I’d sob my way through it. I was right. So emotional. You will be so missed, Harlan! Good luck on this new chapter in your life…your family set you up to succeed for sure!
I adore Harlan. It has been such a pleasure seeing him grow up. He will really be missed in the videos. Best of luck Harlan. ❤️
Goodness, I have cried more in the last 2 days between Cynthia and Harlan moving out! Jared and Shelly, you two have raised such amazing kids and I absolutely love that you encourage your kids to mend relationships with their bio families, what a blessing all the way around. Love you all so much! 😊
Heartbreaking, but good for Harlan. Prayers that he is happy and successful wherever life takes him. Prayers for all as you start another chapter. Blessings♥️🙏🏼
Thank you for making me cry before going to bed...Harlan I wish you the very best in what this journey is going to bring, study hard and learn everything you need to know miss you already ...
I can’t imagine what you guys as the parents are feeling. You raise the kids and just have to let them go. I’m sure sometimes the kids move out because they want their freedom and no longer want to follow by the parents rules but at the end of the day I’m sure they’re beyond grateful for you guys.
Harland good luck, you’ll do great, good luck 🍀❤️😊
Thank you love family for returning him to his rightful family
Congrats to your next chapter however Harlan you will be so so so missed. Wishing you the best always. 💞💞💞
Good Luck Harlan on your new journey. That was a very hard goodbye for you, you will be missed by all the family.
You guys do such a good job in raising strong independent loving young adults ❤️
Happy for him and his dad to be able to bond, and for him to learn a good trade. Sad for you guys to be apart, especially Addison and Aubrey. Best of luck Harlan! We all have to grow up and move out sometime.
Their dad clearly cares about them so how did he lose custody?
@@nancyfarkas3592 you’ll have to go back in the videos and find the story.
Wow, I am blubbering. Not ready but I know this will be a great learning experience. You have given him a great foundation.
I knew I was going to cry when this video went up.. Harlan is one of the most quiet sweet loving boys.. I know he's going to do great .. Shelly I know this one was especially hard for you as you and Harlan had a special bond.. makes me realize just how times fly by.. good luck Harlan. Good thing you all have phones n FaceTime lol
All your kids are truly so great. But there was something about that particular sibling group that just immediately got me when I started watching your videos. What an utter privelege to get to see those three grow into the people they have become.
Many Christian adoptive families seem to only talk about God's healing but you understand the importance of therapy. You truly make sure to have the kids covered on all sides. You show them so much love and I respect you for it.
I have always dreamed of adopting but here in Sweden they hardly ever allow national adoption. Instead, foster kids often spend their entire childhood in the system. The rights of biological parents are too strong within the legal system. There have been protests lately though, as this has immense consequences for the kids and laws may (hopefully) be changing to strengthen the rights of the children.
Each person in the family really brings a different but beautiful vibe that when they start to leave the nest it feels almost equally sad for myself and many others who have been so invested in your family's channel. I've loved watching each one of them grow up in the couple or so years that I've been following and I'm so so sooooo proud of them all for doing what they're doing and learning to grow in their new places. Love you guys so much, and Harlan.. all the very best to you man, I know that you will go on to do great things! Stay safe bro 💙
It’s so crazy how i watched the video where Audrey, Addison and Harlan arrived to their home. Little kids with do many dreams that have come true because of you guys! Love this! Did i cry? YES!
Wishing Harlan all the best as he embarks on this new adventure!
Jarrod and Shelly, what a wonderful life you provided Harlan. He is confident to go out on his own. He loves you more than you even know. This vlog was so so sweet.
✨✨I wasn't ready.✨✨ So I can just imagine how all of you are feeling. The love, lessons and memories is something Harlan will always carry with him💜 His letter at the end just proves that. This was a tear jerker for sure. Thank you for sharing your family with us. May god watch over Harlan and guide him on his journey. ❌⭕❌⭕
I knew it was going to be sad, but I so needed some tissues to get through the end... On to your new adventure in life Harlan... Good Luck with where life takes you my friend.