"Ppl cant just live for setting up family, right? Two ppl of different paths who get married will be even more lonely than being single." THIS! 🙌 Just live your life the way you want it...not by how society or your parents want you to...n its not childish, because in the end its you alone who live your life, not them Everyone has their right to choose their own path Anyway, i love uncle Yu, hes so wise ❤
You can really feel the pressure of everyone expecting her to get married since everyone in her her culture marries at that age . I think it was a mistake that she went through the match-making date so early when she didn’t even know what she wanted in life yet. But I’m glad she talked with everyone before leaving.. that scene with her parents was so sad, they just wanted their daughter to settle down buy Nini still wants to prove herself in Shanghai.
Oh no ..she is not weak,she just won't settle for society expectations-her getting married to anyone because she is 30-she wants to build her life and live life on her own terms.
Yes!! Wow. I actually got a little emotional watching this clip. People will really have you thinking that there is something wrong for you when you are self aware enough to know that you can't "settle" for what is considered societal norms.
Parents should give their children wings so they can fly. You have one life to live and you should live it the way you see fit. As a parent, you shouldn’t expect your kids to be your retirement. Give them life and let them fly.
Oh he llorado y he vivido este Drama. Como si fuera mi propia vida...disculme hay sentimientos encontrados en esta Serie...muchas Gracias por Compartirlo en Español Un Abrazo Fraterno desde Sonora 🌵 🌵🌵 México 🇲🇽🇲🇽🇲🇽
When a woman wanted to get out of her stereo type life and build a life by her own she is called a social climber...But if a man does he'll be praised, everyone will say that he's doing for his parents or family Such a hypocrite mentality 🙄 But I'm lucky to have an understanding and supportive parents who always wanted to see me to build my own life,to experience by my own , a self dependent person when I am their only child..They didn't bind me into old fashioned mentality...But I am such a lazy person who knows the advantages of living with the parents I have never left them behind 🤭🤭🤭🤭
she is feeling suffocated on the expectations of marriage and maybe the friendliness of the town. i mean she does know she will have to start from beginning when she heads back to Shanghai.
Que emotivo capítulo llore con Ni Ni y sus padres, hacer lo que quieren tus padres, casarte aunque no lo ames solo para vivir una vida tranquila y segura noo, Ni Ni sabe que no quiere eso aunque le duela dejar a sus padres.
Yeah but she let this poor man fall for her and she knew he was never going to make her happy she is use to watching the rich and wanting a lifestyle not a life!
Que bueno! es triste por los padres, pero nuestro destino no es casarnos porque la sociedad lo quiere...así debe ser seguir nuestro camino y solas podemos!
I understand that she doesn't want to settle yet. But I can't help but to feel bad for her parents. They're already old, you don't know what will happen.
Siempre las madres de chantajista sentimental con sus hijos dejelos volar descubrir otros mundos si tropienzan fracazan se vuelven a comenzar de nuevo hasta que al final les llega su suerte
What's wrong in loving a luxurious and modern life. At least she is honest and upfront about it to everyone and willing to work hard herself to live that life rather marrying a poor guy and nagging him rest of the life for not fulfilling her desires.
She wants a luxurious life,but she works hard for it and knows her capabilities.She regain her focus from the setback in her life when she went back to her province,realizing it was not the life for her. In time with hard work and perseverance,she'll attain her goal.It doesn't mean she's a social climber just because she wants luxury.She has vision and focus....and for her,now it's Shanghai, next it's the world.
This girl is so weird. She is a sales rep in Shanghai. She helps her customer wears shoes. She thinks it's a good life. She wants to work harder and make something of out being a sales person in a shop? or find a rich guy? She is a taker, her parents and work mates cooked for her, she is not appreciative. She seem to look down on them, their tradition and their food. I don't see her cooking for them. She is only a sales rep, don't think so highly of yourself Miss! When she found out she is the third person with the rich guy, she insisted on staying and as long as the guy will leave the first women she is fine... the guy wanted to keep both women that's when she gave him the ultimatum... so to me, she is a very nasty women.
She is too ambitious for her own good. She doesn't know how to be contented. She is somewhat a social climber. She will never learn to be happy if she can't appreciate the simple achievements and be contented with the blessings she gets.
Ok. She happily except a man that wont marry her but has a problem with a good guys the offers her happiness. What happened to "I want to marry a guy I like and never a married man. She does not know what she wants. That's why she will end up with cats.
Man Ni stop being a social climber. Appreciate the good things and achievement that you worked hard for. Stop being too ambitious and learn to be content and grateful for everyday. That will give you clarity and peace of mind which will help you find your own purpose.
其实我觉得漫妮不是虚荣，能理解她的心情。过上安逸的日子确实好，但是像我们这样独立的女人就是得自已拼。漫妮是个有志气的人，而且事业心很强。她是不会满意当个家庭主妇，而张志要找的却是一个贤妻良母，能看家护院的人。所以他们兩真的不配。妮妮格局大，张志的比较小。这没有谁对谁错，是两个人目标性格不一样。那既然不一样了那就好聚好散吧，各自怀上对另一方的祝福。漫妮说的对：“两个不同路的人在一起会比一个人更寂寞。”
"Ppl cant just live for setting up family, right? Two ppl of different paths who get married will be even more lonely than being single." THIS! 🙌
Just live your life the way you want it...not by how society or your parents want you to...n its not childish, because in the end its you alone who live your life, not them
Everyone has their right to choose their own path
Anyway, i love uncle Yu, hes so wise ❤
You can really feel the pressure of everyone expecting her to get married since everyone in her her culture marries at that age . I think it was a mistake that she went through the match-making date so early when she didn’t even know what she wanted in life yet. But I’m glad she talked with everyone before leaving.. that scene with her parents was so sad, they just wanted their daughter to settle down buy Nini still wants to prove herself in Shanghai.
太寫實的劇情了，外出打拼遠離家鄉的孩子應該很能感同身受....
两个不同路的人在一起比一个人更寂寞
爸爸妈妈演的真好
尼尼見過大場面過過奢華日子，看過繁華虛幻城市，回到小鎮聽著閨蜜👭們時髦日子點滴，她是不甘心的。心態上確有虛榮，但她不因人情親情鎖住自己的一輩子卻是勇敢的。是鄉愿的我們做不到的
贊同
Oh no ..she is not weak,she just won't settle for society expectations-her getting married to anyone because she is 30-she wants to build her life and live life on her own terms.
Yes!! Wow. I actually got a little emotional watching this clip. People will really have you thinking that there is something wrong for you when you are self aware enough to know that you can't "settle" for what is considered societal norms.
If only she had siblings, the guilt would be much lesser.
I think I understand Nini. The peaceful life is not for everyone.
Parents should give their children wings so they can fly. You have one life to live and you should live it the way you see fit. As a parent, you shouldn’t expect your kids to be your retirement. Give them life and let them fly.
Oh he llorado y he vivido este Drama. Como si fuera mi propia vida...disculme hay sentimientos encontrados en esta Serie...muchas Gracias por Compartirlo en Español
Un Abrazo Fraterno desde Sonora 🌵 🌵🌵 México 🇲🇽🇲🇽🇲🇽
😂so bogan very pure 😂❤❤ he is a simple cue boy 😂 when he laughs 😂so bogan omg
然而张志说的对的，每年一堆外地小姑娘不要钱似的往上海，北京冲。现实中的大城市女生，要么趁着年轻找个本地人结婚生子，或者回老家趁年轻相亲，当然还有就是一直飘在北上广深，30多了既找不到对象也不适应老家的生活（年龄大了老家也找不到对象了）。
可惜了 小張主任是可託付的，但不夠帥到讓漫妮留在小鎮
而且感覺小張主任不愛出國，不夠國際化，如果他能瘋狂帶妮妮出國玩多見識，感覺妮妮是可以接受的XD
When a woman wanted to get out of her stereo type life and build a life by her own she is called a social climber...But if a man does he'll be praised, everyone will say that he's doing for his parents or family
Such a hypocrite mentality 🙄
But I'm lucky to have an understanding and supportive parents who always wanted to see me to build my own life,to experience by my own , a self dependent person when I am their only child..They didn't bind me into old fashioned mentality...But I am such a lazy person who knows the advantages of living with the parents I have never left them behind 🤭🤭🤭🤭
Your parents are great
she has the right to live her life
有些孩子太優秀，注定是沒辦法留在父母身邊，過平淡的生活。
she is feeling suffocated on the expectations of marriage and maybe the friendliness of the town. i mean she does know she will have to start from beginning when she heads back to Shanghai.
Que emotivo capítulo llore con Ni Ni y sus padres, hacer lo que quieren tus padres, casarte aunque no lo ames solo para vivir una vida tranquila y segura noo, Ni Ni sabe que no quiere eso aunque le duela dejar a sus padres.
Sometimes you can't go home. Such a nice man but she is a strong woman who solves problems, need challenged.
Zhang Zhi, marriage is partnership. You decided everything on your own without consultation with Nini.
Ikr..he never care about hers, tho ni ni already told him before
Yeah but she let this poor man fall for her and she knew he was never going to make her happy she is use to watching the rich and wanting a lifestyle not a life!
Que bueno! es triste por los padres, pero nuestro destino no es casarnos porque la sociedad lo quiere...así debe ser seguir nuestro camino y solas podemos!
天啊!! 完完全全是我的是故事!! 雖然30了但是我不服輸也想要闖蕩更多!! 不是你不好，只是想法不同
Самый лучший эпизод из этой серии , пусть все родители всегда будут здоровыми и счастливыми!
What he propose is good, is what everybody want in life, but is not what Nini want, do he cant force that shit on her.
唉，你说去打拼，你英文，学历咋样？我这里留学回去懂三门外语的硕士文凭都只能挣18000一个月，再看看上海房价，你去了也租房，你说你有雄心壮志是好的，快三十了你去好歹有个存款傍身吧，工作了这么多年，结果去的资金还是父母准备的结婚用的钱，唉
that date n his self centred manner forced her to leave again
I understand that she doesn't want to settle yet.
But I can't help but to feel bad for her parents. They're already old, you don't know what will happen.
Now this is a situation where everyone is right in their own way.
Yes theyre old already..but she doesnt have to get married to a wrong man just to fulfil her parents dream, she has her right to choose her own path
@@morgan_baldwin I didn't say that she should get married. Can't she stay with her parents without marrying the guy?
Nombre del drama
how can I find the song played when Ni Ni leave back to Shanghai?
Por favor ... esta es la 2da parte ❓❓❓ Cual es el titulo❓
Alguien me puede decir el nombre de este drama x favor??
She's actually clueless what she wants in her life
这个女的太物质了，特别爱慕虚荣
他嘴上說不愛慕虛榮，但身體很誠實
Como se llama esta serie, se ve interesante
Siempre las madres de chantajista sentimental con sus hijos dejelos volar descubrir otros mundos si tropienzan fracazan se vuelven a comenzar de nuevo hasta que al final les llega su suerte
Где можно посмотреть всю дораму с титрами на русском,пожалуйста?
You can make someone live a empty life
It just not for her!!!
And he looks so creepy 😂lmao
she's still love her ex I understand nini because her heart is in Shanghai, she wants to finish her business there.
True
Brave!
Ni Ni follow your heart.
除了逼結婚以外 我滿羨慕曼妮家鄉的感覺
這是相互的 不可能要關懷又要自由
呢個女正仆街
Like my story, I move to another city, while my parents didn't agree
28歲了...真的會越來越焦慮.....
我也28，但我們女人一個人也能活的精彩過的好啊，找個穩定工作、安穩度日、喜歡的興趣、快樂的生活、健康的身體，沒什麼不好的☺️
😥😥😥
In fact she loves luxury and modern life. I feel bad for her parents.😭
What's wrong in loving a luxurious and modern life. At least she is honest and upfront about it to everyone and willing to work hard herself to live that life rather marrying a poor guy and nagging him rest of the life for not fulfilling her desires.
@@kapilshastry I know.. exactly..eveyone has the right to choose the way they live..She's upfront about wanting luxury and that's a great thing :D
She wants a luxurious life,but she works hard for it and knows her capabilities.She regain her focus from the setback in her life when she went back to her province,realizing it was not the life for her. In time with hard work and perseverance,she'll attain her goal.It doesn't mean she's a social climber just because she wants luxury.She has vision and focus....and for her,now it's Shanghai, next it's the world.
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She really stubborn woman,, but she really weak
That's a strange way of saying she is resolute and even stranger way of saying she needed time to recuperate.
I haven't seen any weakness in her character.In fact she's driven and very independent.
Sad
虛榮心作祟
This girl is so weird. She is a sales rep in Shanghai. She helps her customer wears shoes. She thinks it's a good life. She wants to work harder and make something of out being a sales person in a shop? or find a rich guy?
She is a taker, her parents and work mates cooked for her, she is not appreciative. She seem to look down on them, their tradition and their food. I don't see her cooking for them.
She is only a sales rep, don't think so highly of yourself Miss!
When she found out she is the third person with the rich guy, she insisted on staying and as long as the guy will leave the first women she is fine... the guy wanted to keep both women that's when she gave him the ultimatum... so to me, she is a very nasty women.
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If parents are toxic its understandable but hers are good folks....I feel she is abit inconsiderate and abit selfish.
I kinda understand Ni Ni here.
agree
She is too ambitious for her own good. She doesn't know how to be contented. She is somewhat a social climber. She will never learn to be happy if she can't appreciate the simple achievements and be contented with the blessings she gets.
@@howtotrainyourwaifu968 Exactly
In fact the man is not handsome lol
Ok. She happily except a man that wont marry her but has a problem with a good guys the offers her happiness. What happened to "I want to marry a guy I like and never a married man. She does not know what she wants. That's why she will end up with cats.
Cats🤣🤣🤣🤣
吹牛膨風
Man Ni stop being a social climber. Appreciate the good things and achievement that you worked hard for. Stop being too ambitious and learn to be content and grateful for everyday. That will give you clarity and peace of mind which will help you find your own purpose.