MIL- My son should be thinking about me and not somebody else's parents. I'm his mother. DIL - Well if that's how it is, I'll go see MY parents instead of helping you since you're not my mother.
What enmity do you have with those Poor Cats, for you to wish such misfortune upon them 😢😂 ? Also, Cats are damn intelligent ; they would stay away from such People.
I find it funny parents feel entitled to their grown children’s holidays. If I ever get a daughter in law I will never pressure them for holidays. It’s so rude and cringey. If you are a good parent and loving they will visit.
My MIL never paid any attention to her family unless it was to demand everyone be there on Christmas Eve. My kids work so we have our Christmas whenever it’s convenient for them.
We a,ways did eve at his and Christmas day with mine. It worked out fine. Not like the chosen day truly matters since it was a holiday born out of jealousy of the other religions having holidays at that time of the year.
Susan thought that she was the Supreme Commander of her family and rule over them with an iron fist like a wannabe Mussolini or Trujillo until she messed with the wrong person in Natalie and when Susan was knocked off of her pedestal the last words that she heard was Natalie whispering into her ear, "Sic Semper Tyrannis."
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My son died right before thanksgiving. My husbands family decided the best way for me to recover was for me to fix the entire thanksgiving meal for his family in my double wide trailer. My FIL was so disgusted he bought two ten foot sub sandwiches and some soda and told his family to deal with it. FILs are gold.
A birth certificate or a marriage certificate does not give you ownership over people. She can take her party and expectations, roll 'em up, stuff them into her crackpipe, and smoke them.
Me: 🎵When Natalie first got married / she didn't expect to carry / everythin' like a slave🎵 Natalie: 🎵But I'm not the only one / Susan always got her fun / treatin' everyone that way🎵 Connor: 🎵And Mom expected me to be a mama's boy / but I've got news for her / yeah she's the one who can expect the worst🎵 All: 🎵She's the one who can expect the worst🎵 (to the tune of "Man Of Me" by Gary Allan)
I would never tolerate the mother snapping orders at me. It is the mother’s party not hers. Also, if she expected me to pay for the party goods I would tell her that it isn’t my party and the cost is on her.
Susan can have a bunch of cats 🐈 as her new family since her real family hates her now for how she treating Natalie. And Susan exposed herself on her own without Natalie having to tell them anything.
I can’t imagine keeping my address secret from my family, or even thinking I had to do so. I have had 2 MIL’s and 1 step-MIL, and all three treated me wonderfully. They were all lovely in their own ways, and we had great affection and respect for each other. Thank goodness I never had to deal with issues from any of them. Rest in peace, Rowena, Jean, and Jane.
My mother-in-law recently looked me in the face and said it was hard for her to think of nice things to say about me. I have to dig that out of my spirit where it keeps trying to take root. I'm glad to know there's good relationships out there
My mother in law was a mean, miserable, nasty creature. She took photocopies of my journal, wrote nasty letters to my mom, told my daughter I was a bad mom (daughter was 3) and did so much more. Not all MIL are good people.
So here's the thing . I would've never went to her party in the first place.. Why would I knowing she don't like me and was going to use me as her unpaid personal chef, maid and party planner?.. I would've went to my parent's house.. "exercising her rights as MIL?" umm what rights?!. She has no MIL right🙄... There's no such thing..
That’s the problem with parents, sadly, let alone some family members. They think they’re “in charge” and can boss or order others around like their minions or slaves, the power going to their heads and such. And instead of actually being family members, they just act like entitled big wigs, drunk on power and straight up bullying others into doing what they demand. And I hate those kinds of people. We’re family, NOT your low paid minions and underlings! Oh and NOW that Susan found out the hard way when they found out how Susan treated Natalie and left the party, she’s trying to “convince” everyone that she’ll change and be a better person, but with the intent of going back to her selfish and entitled ways. What a cow.
It's any wonder why family members don't want to visit their mom/mil. She's under the impression that all family members need to cater to her every whim.
My parents and my in-laws swapped holidays each year and it worked like a dream. And neither set of parents made us work like slaves.😮 We did help, but on our terms!
My. Mom in law was the best , my. Mom loved my hubby, she him 💗💗💗💗 together in heaven i can hear them talking ,laughing ,even now . We miss them .nanas, dad and our girl . God bless them always. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I noticed MIL’s vitriolic tantrum over how her son visits his in laws and when they are to show up at her home to work for her is all happening over the “Group Text”…🤦🏻♀️
Oh please, this MIL is a drama queen, my Mother's had arthritis for over 18 years (hips, knees, and spine), and she still plods along. What's her excuse? My Mom is in her late 60s.
Heck I do everything with fibromyalgia, arthritis, four bulging disks in my back and one in my neck but I push through because I love my family and they know they a investigation for some time during that day. I don't have any of them help me either it's rude to do what this lady is trying to do
@@tiaa668Yeah I have family with fibromyalgia, so I can understand their pain, but for that MIL? Ugh, she's rather lie through her teeth so she doesn't have to do anything.
I consider myself so lucky for never knowing someone like this. (Susan) And I am elated with myself to never becoming someone like this. I am not in this world to be a show off, but to enjoy the life I was given. Not religious but I am thankful for this life I was given. Will enjoy sharing with my family till the end.
My kids alternate between me and their in-laws for holidays. It, all but once, resulted in at least one kid being with me. One year it worked out that no one came to my house. I didn’t let them know I would be alone because I didn’t want them to feel bad. When they called they were shocked to realize I was alone. Each thought the others would be with me. The next year I had the whole fam damly for Christmas😀
In all these stories where the women are younger they get alimony and the house and all kinds of things, but when it’s an old lady who has been a stay at home wife and not worked, that woman gets kicked out of the house and never says they get anything. It always makes me sad.
Cooling a few days early is always helpful but shes being such a witch about it. Plus anyone worth their salt can make at least four dishes by dinner time. I can
Review: DIL spent last New Years as a guest at her parents' awesome party. This year MIL thought it was appropriate to nonstop harass DIL into being the help at her party this year, not even a guest. Why didn't DIL block this crazy woman's # the minute she started talking about needing "help" and go to her parents house? Let the husband deal with his own ungrateful, abusive mother
That woman is a nightmare. I would tell that MIL that’s the first and last time you’ll help. If she continues being a dictator, you’ll never see her again. Better yet she needs to cater the party herself.
My Dad's parents passed fairly early, so most vacations were with my mom's family. Holidays were the immediate family because the extended family lived +5,000 miles away.
Another ungrateful mother in law she only wants her to do everything now she has back pain these mother in laws are so disrespectful disgusting degrading i dont know why they put up with their mother in law i hope karma gets her really good she will only be rude with her
Gives me flashbacks. In the worst way. Every holiday at HIS parents house. My parents are long gone and his mother is still here. Divorced years now and my kids Still go there for holidays. I sit at home alone. Maybe I'll have a chance when she's gone. But I still want her here for a long time for my kids. I just wish I had fought to go to my family's house a long time ago.
I find it funny how slow this girl is. Like she was talking crap about u ur marriage and ur parents and ur still volunteering. Smh they remind of the kdramas i be watching like wheres the back bone stand up sooner please
My first marriage on holiday I get there early and help with everything and clean all dishes. Mil behind my back talked nasty about me.... even to my kids.
Susan found a new powerful man and is now mother to new children. Connor regrets letting her go. Natalie is in a protection program with her family and the rest of susan's former children moved to another state and changed their names. they are afraid of their mom's new found power as her lawyer will start demanding GRANDPARENTS rights soon. Natalie, don't ever mess with susan ever again.
My back is bad , I sit on a tall stool to cook, wash dishes and clean my kitchen. I sit in a wheelchair to mop my floors with a Swiffer wet mop. I don't like depending on others to do my work. And I certainly wouldn't force my daughter in law to work for me. Susan, make your own damn sandwich!
Had a feeling that random group chat moment would come up again. Susan got what she had coming, if she doesn't want to be alone she should make herself useful & be nice instead of bossing people around while claiming she was "tRyInG tO mAkE tHeM bE bEtTeR" when in reality she's just a jerk. Susan better hurry & make plans instead of mopping around for the holidays since the divorce papers are being worked on after being submitted. I get the feeling she doesn't have any friends willing to help her now that her family disowned her.
If i get a daughter in law i would hope she stops by once a week to pick up sweets because i bake a little to much but dont really eat sweets i take a small piece to taste to make sure it tastes good but then i give them away to my neighbors and friends
Where are the rules for terrible in-laws written? Are they etched in stone like The Ten Commandments? Does a representative drop by on the day of your child's wedding to hand you your shiny new copy of "The Rulebook for the Newly Evil: In-Law Edition"?
Yeah, it's verry smart to yell at the person who does everything for you. And since when do you force guests to do everything for your freakimg party?You sem to be very capable and perky and as capable as a fresh daisy when you are yelling at your DIL or plotting a scheme against her Dont screw with people who prepared your food
So nice to hear real people talking in the video.
No stupid bot readers here that I can tell.
Certainly makes the story more interesting.
MIL- My son should be thinking about me and not somebody else's parents. I'm his mother.
DIL - Well if that's how it is, I'll go see MY parents instead of helping you since you're not my mother.
MIL - "Blah blah blah my party" "my party" "my party"
Me - If it's YOUR party then you do something towards it, lazy mutt.
Ohmygod I wouldn't work that hard and be spoken to like that even if you paid me
I would have dropped off the stuff on the door and said “have a good party”
Good morning, everyone. Good video
The only family Susan will have from now on, are a bunch of stray cats.
I doubt.... Believe it or not, cats can sense a mean person...
Susan: Here, kitties!
Cats: *growl and hiss*
😊😂Im the neighborhood cat lady..
@@rqstuv9336yes they can, they can sense good or evil in somebody.
What enmity do you have with those Poor Cats, for you to wish such misfortune upon them 😢😂 ? Also, Cats are damn intelligent ; they would stay away from such People.
Loved This Storyline .
She really walked the plank in this one!😂😂😂
Even pirates wouldn't go near her booty!
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Oooh... I'd have noped out of this about the first time she didn't ASK and opted out of helping because of her "back".
I find it funny parents feel entitled to their grown children’s holidays. If I ever get a daughter in law I will never pressure them for holidays. It’s so rude and cringey. If you are a good parent and loving they will visit.
My MIL never paid any attention to her family unless it was to demand everyone be there on Christmas Eve. My kids work so we have our Christmas whenever it’s convenient for them.
Rather than pressure them, I would invite.
We a,ways did eve at his and Christmas day with mine. It worked out fine. Not like the chosen day truly matters since it was a holiday born out of jealousy of the other religions having holidays at that time of the year.
A bit like 'if you build it, they will come'. Build a good relationship, they will visit.
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Susan thought that she was the Supreme Commander of her family and rule over them with an iron fist like a wannabe Mussolini or Trujillo until she messed with the wrong person in Natalie and when Susan was knocked off of her pedestal the last words that she heard was Natalie whispering into her ear, "Sic Semper Tyrannis."
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I like the fact that the OP have a shiny silvery spine!!! No crying, begging, projecting weakness!!! I like them HBIC!!!
Gross why would you like Hairy Butt Ice Cream, thats GOTTA be the worst flavor EVER!!!!!!
……why was *that* the first thing on your mind…?!
@@linda-0587 my thoughts exactly! Someone had a weird breakfast or something.
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My son died right before thanksgiving. My husbands family decided the best way for me to recover was for me to fix the entire thanksgiving meal for his family in my double wide trailer. My FIL was so disgusted he bought two ten foot sub sandwiches and some soda and told his family to deal with it. FILs are gold.
A birth certificate or a marriage certificate does not give you ownership over people. She can take her party and expectations, roll 'em up, stuff them into her crackpipe, and smoke them.
Sounds good to me!
Yes!
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Perfect voice for an irritating mother-in-law!
Susan (MIL): “I’ll never forgive you!”
- Oh no! How will I summon the strength to go on?! 🤪
Me: 🎵When Natalie first got married / she didn't expect to carry / everythin' like a slave🎵
Natalie: 🎵But I'm not the only one / Susan always got her fun / treatin' everyone that way🎵
Connor: 🎵And Mom expected me to be a mama's boy / but I've got news for her / yeah she's the one who can expect the worst🎵
All: 🎵She's the one who can expect the worst🎵
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I would never tolerate the mother snapping orders at me. It is the mother’s party not hers. Also, if she expected me to pay for the party goods I would tell her that it isn’t my party and the cost is on her.
Susan can have a bunch of cats 🐈 as her new family since her real family hates her now for how she treating Natalie. And Susan exposed herself on her own without Natalie having to tell them anything.
I guarantee that even cats won’t have anything to do with her.
Susan would wind up with a broken neck after they deliberately tripped her. Cats can be vengeful with demanding and controlling people.
@@paden1865ablecats aren't dumb, they know who does and does not like them. They'd probably run away like her family did because of her cruelty.
I wouldn't subject cats to that meanie.
OMG i would have fun with a mother in law like her! I would show her what hell on earth would be! But sabotaging the food was a brilliant idea 💡👌
I can’t imagine keeping my address secret from my family, or even thinking I had to do so. I have had 2 MIL’s and 1 step-MIL, and all three treated me wonderfully. They were all lovely in their own ways, and we had great affection and respect for each other. Thank goodness I never had to deal with issues from any of them. Rest in peace, Rowena, Jean, and Jane.
My mother-in-law recently looked me in the face and said it was hard for her to think of nice things to say about me. I have to dig that out of my spirit where it keeps trying to take root. I'm glad to know there's good relationships out there
My mother in law was a mean, miserable, nasty creature. She took photocopies of my journal, wrote nasty letters to my mom, told my daughter I was a bad mom (daughter was 3) and did so much more. Not all MIL are good people.
“You should let someone else cook if it was going to be this bad” 🤭🤭
Pity it wasn’t her throat hurting everybody would be so much happier
Natalie got some great karmic revenge, which was made a lot easier because of Susan's hubris and stupidity. 🤣😁
Susan can go to Hell!
So here's the thing . I would've never went to her party in the first place.. Why would I knowing she don't like me and was going to use me as her unpaid personal chef, maid and party planner?.. I would've went to my parent's house.. "exercising her rights as MIL?" umm what rights?!. She has no MIL right🙄... There's no such thing..
That’s the problem with parents, sadly, let alone some family members.
They think they’re “in charge” and can boss or order others around like their minions or slaves, the power going to their heads and such.
And instead of actually being family members, they just act like entitled big wigs, drunk on power and straight up bullying others into doing what they demand.
And I hate those kinds of people. We’re family, NOT your low paid minions and underlings!
Oh and NOW that Susan found out the hard way when they found out how Susan treated Natalie and left the party, she’s trying to “convince” everyone that she’ll change and be a better person, but with the intent of going back to her selfish and entitled ways.
What a cow.
Exactly so rude😢
"To make help me with this task" not "Ask you to help me"
Cough, cough, I'm feeling really sick unfortunately I can't make it. Darn!
Cue Regina George from Mean Girls:
"Boo! You whore!"
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How many people is Susan expecting to show up to this party? Will it be a buffet or sit-down dinner?
For me, 25 or less is no big deal.
Oh hell no your party your house she just wants you to do all the cooking
Soooo, delivery isn’t a thing in this story? Catering? Why are you out running around getting things?
So tey can text each other for the sake of this clip instead of standing in the same room just talking...
Natalie is a savage. 😏👏🏾
It's any wonder why family members don't want to visit their mom/mil. She's under the impression that all family members need to cater to her every whim.
So deluded😅
My parents and my in-laws swapped holidays each year and it worked like a dream. And neither set of parents made us work like slaves.😮 We did help, but on our terms!
My. Mom in law was the best , my. Mom loved my hubby, she him 💗💗💗💗 together in heaven i can hear them talking ,laughing ,even now . We miss them .nanas, dad and our girl . God bless them always. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I noticed MIL’s vitriolic tantrum over how her son visits his in laws and when they are to show up at her home to work for her is all happening over the “Group Text”…🤦🏻♀️
I didn’t, lol. 😝
Which came back at the end of I didn't need to say anything you outed yourself
Oh please, this MIL is a drama queen, my Mother's had arthritis for over 18 years (hips, knees, and spine), and she still plods along. What's her excuse? My Mom is in her late 60s.
Heck I do everything with fibromyalgia, arthritis, four bulging disks in my back and one in my neck but I push through because I love my family and they know they a investigation for some time during that day. I don't have any of them help me either it's rude to do what this lady is trying to do
@@tiaa668Yeah I have family with fibromyalgia, so I can understand their pain, but for that MIL? Ugh, she's rather lie through her teeth so she doesn't have to do anything.
That lol after those covert/overt insults is even more disgusting ! The “that was a jokes”too. Love the ending !!!
What kind of life did Natalie's husband and sister-in-law had to deal with? And the Dad? Just imagine the marriage...
The Dad probably thought it was cheaper to keep her than divorce her :(
I consider myself so lucky for never knowing someone like this. (Susan) And I am elated with myself to never becoming someone like this. I am not in this world to be a show off, but to enjoy the life I was given. Not religious but I am thankful for this life I was given. Will enjoy sharing with my family till the end.
I want to make 2024 the year of party's at my house
Great voice actor.
this should be the last time you prepare the entire meal for the toxic M.I.L.
My kids alternate between me and their in-laws for holidays. It, all but once, resulted in at least one kid being with me. One year it worked out that no one came to my house. I didn’t let them know I would be alone because I didn’t want them to feel bad. When they called they were shocked to realize I was alone. Each thought the others would be with me. The next year I had the whole fam damly for Christmas😀
Love the stories but if you're going to put the recipes up there please share the ingredients!
Where was her husband while they were eating dinner?
He was watching football until dinner was served.
In all these stories where the women are younger they get alimony and the house and all kinds of things, but when it’s an old lady who has been a stay at home wife and not worked, that woman gets kicked out of the house and never says they get anything. It always makes me sad.
Yes that STINKS.
A very sweet revenge, bon apeti lol
The only party taking place is the celebration of Connor, Michelle, Natalie & EVERYONE
cutting Susan out their lives!
Happy New Year!!!
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Susan learns first hand that you reap what you sow. Parties are expendable since they're a waste of money and resources; I decline every invitation.
If I knew that someone just intended to make my holiday a misery, they would not be seeing me there.
Natalie shouldn't have warned her MIL about her FIL's plans.
EXACTLY WHAT WAS SHE BUSY DOING?!!!!!!
If no one wants to spend the holidays with you…. You might be the problem, Susan.
Cooling a few days early is always helpful but shes being such a witch about it.
Plus anyone worth their salt can make at least four dishes by dinner time. I can
Many people work on the 30th. A lot of people work on the 31st as well.
"Look before you leap"
All the help I need? What is that? It’s all the help I can get.
Using family's chat.. could be backfired..
Natalie please stick to your guns and don't back down no matter what
Review: DIL spent last New Years as a guest at her parents' awesome party. This year MIL thought it was appropriate to nonstop harass DIL into being the help at her party this year, not even a guest. Why didn't DIL block this crazy woman's # the minute she started talking about needing "help" and go to her parents house? Let the husband deal with his own ungrateful, abusive mother
Ooh, goody... I'd make really crap food of my own choosing!
That woman is a nightmare. I would tell that MIL that’s the first and last time you’ll help. If she continues being a dictator, you’ll never see her again. Better yet she needs to cater the party herself.
The moment I noticed that her explosion started in the group chat, I knew Susan was done.
If my family did this to my wife I would no longer be seeing my family.
If the food was so horrible how was it all gone when she got back from the store?
Reminds me of the husband or wife who 'rates' their spouse's cooking as awful but is really doing it to be a tool.
My Dad's parents passed fairly early, so most vacations were with my mom's family. Holidays were the immediate family because the extended family lived +5,000 miles away.
Making everyone the best they can be. By being the worst she could be and wondering why her kids dont like her.
Great party, Susan.
Another ungrateful mother in law she only wants her to do everything now she has back pain these mother in laws are so disrespectful disgusting degrading i dont know why they put up with their mother in law i hope karma gets her really good she will only be rude with her
Gives me flashbacks. In the worst way. Every holiday at HIS parents house. My parents are long gone and his mother is still here. Divorced years now and my kids Still go there for holidays. I sit at home alone. Maybe I'll have a chance when she's gone. But I still want her here for a long time for my kids. I just wish I had fought to go to my family's house a long time ago.
If the mother-in-law is the one throwing the party why is the daughter-in-law paying for everything? Not to mention doing all the work...
The MIL basically wants to take the credit for the party but refuses to take any sort of responsibility for setting everything up.
They're training is part of the problem. They are talk to take command instantly, start out acting like a tyrant. That's no way to earn respect.
Babyyyyyyyy Susan is to damn much
I’m a mother n law & I don’t act like that . My grandkids love me also.
At about 31:50….. the food prep in the background looks interesting. I wonder what it will be.
I find it funny how slow this girl is. Like she was talking crap about u ur marriage and ur parents and ur still volunteering. Smh they remind of the kdramas i be watching like wheres the back bone stand up sooner please
My first marriage on holiday I get there early and help with everything and clean all dishes. Mil behind my back talked nasty about me.... even to my kids.
Susan found a new powerful man and is now mother to new children. Connor regrets letting her go. Natalie is in a protection program with her family and the rest of susan's former children moved to another state and changed their names. they are afraid of their mom's new found power as her lawyer will start demanding GRANDPARENTS rights soon. Natalie, don't ever mess with susan ever again.
8:26 oops. 😂😂😂
My back is bad , I sit on a tall stool to cook, wash dishes and clean my kitchen. I sit in a wheelchair to mop my floors with a Swiffer wet mop. I don't like depending on others to do my work. And I certainly wouldn't force my daughter in law to work for me. Susan, make your own damn sandwich!
Realistically he can’t kick her out the house
He can if it's in his name.
If Susan's back is bad, which I doubt, she can fix a peanut butter sandwich!
Had a feeling that random group chat moment would come up again. Susan got what she had coming, if she doesn't want to be alone she should make herself useful & be nice instead of bossing people around while claiming she was "tRyInG tO mAkE tHeM bE bEtTeR" when in reality she's just a jerk.
Susan better hurry & make plans instead of mopping around for the holidays since the divorce papers are being worked on after being submitted. I get the feeling she doesn't have any friends willing to help her now that her family disowned her.
The moral of the story is: the world doesn't revolve around you.
If i get a daughter in law i would hope she stops by once a week to pick up sweets because i bake a little to much but dont really eat sweets i take a small piece to taste to make sure it tastes good but then i give them away to my neighbors and friends
My goodness, that MIL is psychotic 😳😳
You're so selfish....you don't think about meee....meeeee...MEEEEE..
Where are the rules for terrible in-laws written? Are they etched in stone like The Ten Commandments? Does a representative drop by on the day of your child's wedding to hand you your shiny new copy of "The Rulebook for the Newly Evil: In-Law Edition"?
If my Mil did that to me, I'd say do it yourself because I'm not coming. For goodness sake the dil has a toddler.
My first ex MIL was like this. Everyone hated her.
All I can say after watching alot of MIL videos. Thank God I never had a MIL ..
I'm glad my MIL was never like this. Wow.
Omg Natalie just go home this woman is a tyrant shes just lazy why cant she get caterers in😮😮
Shorter stories
I wish I could submit a story, here. I have a real doozy.
Why would she agree?
Yeah, it's verry smart to yell at the person who does everything for you.
And since when do you force guests to do everything for your freakimg party?You sem to be very capable and perky and as capable as a fresh daisy when you are yelling at your DIL or plotting a scheme against her
Dont screw with people who prepared your food