Women have D&C’s for many reasons, not all of which involve killing a living human being. The ultrasound revealed that I had a missed miscarriage. My baby’s heart had stopped beating 3 weeks before I had a D&C. (Btw, this was not my first D&C- it was my second. My first was 2 weeks postpartum Ivy’s birth for retained placenta.) Each person is created “in the image of God” (Gen 1:27), and to purposefully destroy a baby in the womb is an affront to the God who created that life. There’s a world of difference between someone dying and someone being killed. To equate one to the other- and to a mother grieving the loss of her baby no less- is severely distasteful. There is a world of difference between a mortician and a murderer. Even a child understands the difference between the two.
Beautifully said, we have 3 beautiful babies on earth with us and 3 beautiful babies in heaven that God took home before we met. 1 D&C and 2 natural passing, people assume the worst when I say I had a D&C they don’t understand a little life was gone before that procedure. God bless you and your journey to healing.
Fetuses are not living human beings. They cannot live outside of the womb until 24-ish weeks gestation. Very unfortunate you would use this type of language. And I am so very sorry you suffered a loss . Sending love.
@@bluesamg It's not the same thing! D&C is done when the baby is already dead. Abortion is when you choose to kill your baby because you don't feel like taking responsibility for your own actions.
Jessa, please continue with your videos. Don't let criticism of your brother, family or the procedure you had after the miscarriage stop you. Your family is unique and Charming. I know I look forward to your videos and thousands of others do too. Hope you are feeling better.
I had a miscarriage at 11 weeks as well and then a D&C. 💗. It is truly heartbreaking 😢. I am glad you are still able to say God is good. He's also close to the brokenhearted, Amen ✝️.
I miss you, Jessa. I hope you won't give up on making videos because some people were mean to you. I imagine they're a small minority compared to those of us who admire you.
Ivy’s excitement over the dollhouse was precious!! How she keeps thanking Daddy🥹 SO sorry for y’all’s loss😢 praise Jesus we have the hope of eternity ❤
As someone who’s suffered from infertility for 20+ years, never able to have children, watching every single person around me receive blessing after blessing…. I have to say this is probably the most meaningful and moving sharing I’ve seen. My heart breaks for you and my prayers are with you. Thank you for sharing your heart and showing how real and raw this is.
I lost my baby in 1998. Never was able to conceive again. Recently diagnosed with Lupus & MS. I think both we're hiding in my body back in 1998! I know how you feel!
I understand and feel for you. I wanted children since i was a child and i never had them. Breaks my heart, so i follow many families here and on instagram. I am blessed with 5 siblings who allowed me to spend as much time as i wanted with all my nieces and nephews.
Thank you for sharing. More women need to be like you, it's hard to open and share the hurtful parts of life but sharing helps so many others. I know your video made me feel that I'm not alone in my experience! Bless you
I’ve been battling infertility for the last 5 years. I lost my first baby at 11 weeks last summer and it still hurts so bad. I’ve questioned whether I’d ever become a Mom but then I remember Gods promise. He promised I’d become a Mom & that’s what I’ve held on to. ❤
my brother had a friend that said she couldnt have kids because everytime she got pregnant she would lose the baby and i told her something that rose up in my spirit that God reminded me of is that my mom told me that when my sister and me get pregnant, since we have B negative blood, were gonna have to get a shot at i think 4 weeks. because if you dont get that shot, your body will fight off the baby and think its a virus. when i told her that i think she said i think i do have negative blood and said she needed to get checked by a doctor. i think two years after that she got pregnant and the baby stayed, shes a mom of two now . i dont talk to her anymore because my brother and her boy friend had a falling out
Oh my, I paused the video and zoomed in to see Spurgeon's drawing and tears started flowing. That beautiful picture is one of the sweetest, heartwarming things I've ever seen. God bless him and your whole precious family. You are doing such a good job mamma.
I am SO sorry for your loss Jessa!😢. I am also so thankful for you sharing and proud of you for having the courage to do so! Love seeing a new side of you that we haven’t ever seen! Thank you for being so real, raw and vulnerable!! ❤️❤️
Ben and Jessa, My heart goes out to you for your loss. I’ll be praying for you. Thank you for your transparency. You just never know who you might be helping along the way. God bless you both, and your precious family. Keep shining for Jesus 🌟
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I am soooooo sorry for your loss. This video made me sob and reminded me of my d&c after my third child. It is such a difficult experience and I while I struggled, I was amazed at the strength that the Lord gave me. I’m so glad you found comfort in Job’s story and hope that you are blessed with a sweet rainbow soon! You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers!! 💜💜
I’m sorry for your loss and I appreciate you sharing this to others that have lost a baby during pregnancy. I hope your soul can heal asap because it’s a pain that is indescribable.
What a powerful video. So many of us can relate. Quite literally to every single word you said. Very brave of you to share. Thinking about you and Ben, the kids. Keeping you all I prayer.
My heart breaks for you and your family... You are such a wonderful Mommy and Daddy... I'm happy that you told they little ones that way they had time to fall in love with their little sister and brother... I feel confident that you will lead them properly with their grief. Prayers and Love being sent your way!
Oh Jessa , I am so sorry to hear this!! This made me cry. My heart is hurting for you and your family!! Thank you for sharing your heart about this !! I am sure God will use this to help others in many ways!!! I am praying for all of you 🙏!! I lost my first baby, and like you said, I am so grateful to God and Jesus that we will get to meet and spend eternity getting to know our son one day!! It is so painful, but we have such hope in Christ !!!
Hey Jessa, I know you’ve been through a lot these past 3 months……But I want you to know you are greatly missed!! Please post a new video so we know how you’re doing! Worried about you & praying for you too! ❤
A loss is never easy…..I’m so sorry you had to experience this especially over the holidays. Your openness and transparency was so heartfelt. I sat here and cried with you as I watched this. I have lost 4 babies and it’s not easy, but nothing you did caused it. Please don’t blame yourself. Heaven is going to be that much sweeter when we get to go hold our sweet babies we never got to me. Praying for you and your family during this time.
So VERY sorry for your loss... may God surround you with His LOVE, His PEACE, and healing. THANK YOU for sharing such a personal ordeal with us. Love you!!!
I am so sorry Jessa!! My daughter went through this in November and had all the same thoughts. I kept reassuring her that she could have done nothing more or less than what she had done. Bless you and your family!
Also, I just want to add that your vulnerability is precious before the Lord and such a beautiful display of honesty! Additionally, Ivy's verbal expressions of gratitude to her Dad for her doll house touched my heart! Every inflection in her voice and every word of gratitude was precious!
I am so very sorry Jessa. My 27.5 year old daughter went home to be with the Lord 12-24-21 after battling Metastatic breast cancer. Sending you all of my love and hugs and prayers ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing this and for being so vulnerable.❤️ I am so, so sorry for your loss. It is one of the most painful things you can ever experience. I appreciate you talking so openly about your spiritual experiences through this. I have always been encouraged by the verse in Scripture where David says (in regards to his first son with Bathseba) “he will not return to me but I will go to him.” I will be praying for you and your sweet family.
Oh Jessa ❤️ You put this together soo beautifully 💕 I felt this while watching, as I've been there too. Your positive words are very inspiring. It's hard to see God's plan when we go through these things, but there's love and purpose in everything we go through ❤️ Hugs to you and your beautiful family 🤗 Thank you for sharing this 💕💗
I’m so so sorry for your loss Jessa. I cried right along with you. Praying for your broken heart. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your story.
I am so sorry for your loss, truly. Thank you so much for sharing this with us in a very raw and real way, it is such an honour to be able to hear what you had to say during this time. I hope you are okay and healing alright. Also, the part where Ben brought in the doll house and Ivy was like "thank you Daddy, thank you" was honestly just the sweetest!
My heart breaks for you. That same verse I quoted over and over during the final days and hours of my 10 year old sons life. I’m so glad you have Jesus. Y’all are in my prayers.
I am so sorry sweetheart. May God comfort you all and give you peace. Take time for yourselves- as much as you need. Thanks for sharing and being so brave 😢🙏🙏❤️
So sorry you & your had to go through this sad experience. So grateful to hear you still know that God is good even when we are going through the valleys. I know I could not do life without Jesus by my side. Prayers for much comfort, peace & strength for all of you. Also sending big hugs. Remember He turns our ashes into beauty, our graves into gardens. He is just oh so faithful. 🙏🙌💜
I was going thru a tough week last month and Job’s story also strengthened my faith during that time. Thru everything always praise the Lord! 🙌🏼 Blessed be the name of the Lord. Praying for strength and peace in your spirit ❤️
Just popping in after having watched this video the day it was posted a while back… I want you to know I have been praying for you and your family. I really hope you continue videos! I loved seeing all your house plants and would love tips/tricks to care for them. ❤️
Jessa your story has brought me so much comfort! Thank you for sharing your story with all of us! Our family loves to follow your family. I started spotting with my first miscarriage on my birthday in 2020 (my 6th baby) and I had a second miscarriage in March of 2021 (twins; babies 7&8). With the second I hemorrhaged and had to have an emergency D&C. It's been two years on March 5th and I'm still grieving due to so much trauma. I just want to thank you for sharing the hymn that you guys sang, Day by Day. Thank you for reminding me that I didn't do anything to intentionally harm my babies because I've asked myself a thousand times what I should've done differently. Last, thank you for reminding me of Job. I've thought of him a lot throughout this but I appreciate the reminder again. A really cool song in relation to the scripture of Job's conversation with the Lord is Where Were You by Ghostship. A fellow brother in Christ shared it with me and it's a beautiful reminder of who is in control. I'll be praying for your family as you continue to walk this healing journey! We love you guys as brothers and sisters in Christ.
I am very sorry for your loss! I hope that you use your platform to advocate for other women in this situation. There are many states where a woman would not have this option anymore . Women need to be able to access these life saving treatments!
Women have D&C’s for many reasons, not all of which involve killing a living human being. The ultrasound revealed that I had a missed miscarriage. My baby’s heart had stopped beating 3 weeks before I had a D&C. (Btw, this was not my first D&C- it was my second. My first was 2 weeks postpartum Ivy’s birth for retained placenta.) Each person is created “in the image of God” (Gen 1:27), and to purposefully destroy a baby in the womb is an affront to the God who created that life. There’s a world of difference between someone dying and someone being killed. To equate one to the other- and to a mother grieving the loss of her baby no less- is severely distasteful. There is a world of difference between a mortician and a murderer. Even a child understands the difference between the two.
Oh honey I am so sorry. Heaven is going to be wonderful. My husband and I lost our 1st baby, a girl. We have since been blessed with 3 wonderful young men. Hug's and Prayer's
Jessa (and Ben), thank you so much for sharing such a private experience. I’ve had my own loss and it took quite some time to really heal from. My wish for you is that with each passing day, you feel more healed. I’m so sorry for your loss. With love from Michigan, Annie ✨
Jessa, I lost a sweet boy to a stillbirth and another sweet boy to SIDS. I was given this poem when I lost my first one and it really helped me with the grieving process. I truly hope it brings you some peace as it did me. Keeping you all in my thoughts & prayers! LAND OF HEAVEN When God calls little children to dwell with him above We mortals always question the wisdom of his love. For no heartache compares with the death of one small child. Who does so much to make this world seem wonderful and mild. Perhaps God tires always calling the aged to his fold and so he picks a rosebud before it can grow old. God knows how much we need them and so he takes but few. To make the Land of Heaven more beautiful to view. Believing this is difficult, still somehow we must try. The saddest word that mankind knows will always be good-bye. And so when little ones depart, we who are left behind must realize how much God loves little children, for Angels are hard to find.
YES! One day you will get to see and hold your sweet baby in your arms. That is one of the things that helped me so much many years ago when I had my miscarriage…. Was having the knowledge that one day I would be able to have this beautiful moment of meeting my precious little one and never be separated again. Lean into that knowledge and the comfort of our Heavenly Father for that peace that surpasses all understanding. Prayers for continued healing for you and your whole family as you walk through this season. 🙏 🕊 💔❤️🩹❤️
It’s difficult to see your pain, but your faith is very inspirational! My prayer is that you & your loved ones strengthen each other. Father God will bring you through. What courageous it took to tell this story. TYTY for sharing. ❤️❤️🙏❤️❤️
I lost my first right after the first trimester as well. It was so heartbreaking. I’m so sorry for your pain. Thank you for your willingness to share, and help other women in doing so. The Lord gave me five babies after that devastating loss. My oldest is also Named after Charles Spurgeon.. Riley Haddon. God bless you Jessa! You are in my prayers today.
I’m so sorry you went through this. I feel you ❤. Sometimes we don’t listen to our bodies but luckily you did. This is your time now sweetie. You are precious. 🤗
Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable moment. Your strong faith is so inspiring. I've never gone through what you have, but I've been battling serious health problems for months. How you explained your suffering and tied it into faith really brought me to tears. I'm praying for you and your family 🙏❤️
17:40 minutes. “I felt His presence, I felt His peace”, powerful words dear Jessa. I am so sorry for your loss, this made me cry. I had my two daughters when you had yours (same year) March 2019 and July 2021. Fern is born on my husband’s birthday and just 5 days after our youngest. Maybe a bit silly but I have felt a bond with you over that.❤Struggled to have children. I am so glad you were not alone. You keep saying God is good. What a wonderful testimony, especially because this is hard! You are helping so many by sharing. I am glad you have help and take good care of yourself, no self blame. You are so loved by your Heavenly Father!❤
I'm so deeply sorry for you and your family's loss!! I pray for you and your family to get through this difficult time. Thank you for sharing because I know it helped comfort someone in some way. Thank you for sharing all that you do. I enjoyed your videos and seeing you and your beautiful family . ❤️🙏🏼
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So sorry for your loss, we’ve been there. Pastor Jack Hayford wrote a book, “I’ll Hold You in Heaven”. Helpful with this type of loss. Praying for you. 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.🙏🏼❤️ My son and his wife are pregnant with their first child and are going through a rough time with the pregnancy. This video and your news is extremely heart breaking but your faith is strong and shines through even through this difficult time. It’s a reminder to me to be faithful and have trust in God even during uncertain times. Thanks for that reminder Jess.❤️❤️❤️
Rewatching this video my heart breaks all over again for you and your family. I still can not believe people actually attacked you over the decision you and Ben made. Makes me so angry people would do that during your time of loss. ❤ and truly miss you all.
Oh Jessa, I just cried with you. You showed your true self and feelings and I appreciate that. One thing that I always have to remind myself through struggles is that everything is God's timing, not ours. He needed another little angel.
Thank you for being so willing to share your life with the world. I’m sorry for your loss and I want you to know that your mom recited the same scripture when they lost Jubilee and hearing you recite it impacts me today as it did back then. God is good, please continue to share your story ❤️
I'm so sorry!! Let your family go through the grief time, This happened to me too, your family will comfort you, I found it to be time to be closer together as a family too, but very emotional 😢 ❤️ yes, thank God for your family and our Comforter!!! It softens us for sure!! Praise God!! Thanks for sharing such a hard experience!!
I'm so sorry for your loss, Jess. Praying for you and your family. 🙏💗 Thank you for sharing your story and helping all those who've gone through similar pain. 💔
Thank you so much for sharing so much of yourself with us today. I cried right along with you. I know how hard it is to lose a baby, as I lost one right about the 3 month mark. The sadness and sorrow somehow made me closer to God and it made me appreciate everything I did have so much more. All of the trials we experience in this life, make us into the person God wants us to be. To God, who numbers the hairs on our head, nothing is a surprise and all are designed to work for our good. You did nothing wrong. I admire your courage to share what you are feeling and going through. I’m sure countless women will be helped by your story and your tears. Take comfort in knowing your testimony will soothe the hearts of many. God bless you, Jessa. ❤️🙏❤️
I’m so sorry Jess!! I feel your pain. I lost a baby girl at 16 weeks last year and ended up with a D&C after I delivered her. I wasn’t able to push out the placenta. I cried through so much of your video. I felt all of those same things… also the peace that comes from God alone. Thank you for sharing! It means a lot. 💕
Jess , I’m praying for you right now. You are absolutely amazing. Even though you are going through a very painful difficult time, you end up encouraging me and reminding me that God is right there with me while I am grieving over a loss. Thank you. You are a Blessing to me. 🙏💕
I'm so sorry, Jessa! This was so difficult to watch, and at the same time your vulnerability was so beautiful! Your love for the lord shines through you and it is beautiful to witness. Keeping you and your family in my prayers as you continue to process and walk through this difficult season! May God continue to bless you and your family and make his face shine upon y'all!
Deeply sorry for your loss Jessa & Ben! My husband & I struggle with infertility. So it's been hard, but like you said God is still good. We get to be an adopted aunt & uncle to a special little boy. So we get to have kid time with him (he is our best friends' little boy). I pray God will continue to give you peace & comfort during your grief. 🙏
Women have D&C’s for many reasons, not all of which involve killing a living human being. The ultrasound revealed that I had a missed miscarriage. My baby’s heart had stopped beating 3 weeks before I had a D&C. (Btw, this was not my first D&C- it was my second. My first was 2 weeks postpartum Ivy’s birth for retained placenta.)
Each person is created “in the image of God” (Gen 1:27), and to purposefully destroy a baby in the womb is an affront to the God who created that life.
There’s a world of difference between someone dying and someone being killed. To equate one to the other- and to a mother grieving the loss of her baby no less- is severely distasteful. There is a world of difference between a mortician and a murderer. Even a child understands the difference between the two.
Beautifully said, we have 3 beautiful babies on earth with us and 3 beautiful babies in heaven that God took home before we met. 1 D&C and 2 natural passing, people assume the worst when I say I had a D&C they don’t understand a little life was gone before that procedure.
God bless you and your journey to healing.
Fetuses are not living human beings. They cannot live outside of the womb until 24-ish weeks gestation. Very unfortunate you would use this type of language.
And I am so very sorry you suffered a loss . Sending love.
@@bluesamg The fact that you could say such a thing says it all.
@@John-pt4xv Abortions and D&Cs are not the same thing. Abortion is when you choose to kill a baby. A D&C is when you remove a baby who already died.
@@bluesamg It's not the same thing! D&C is done when the baby is already dead. Abortion is when you choose to kill your baby because you don't feel like taking responsibility for your own actions.
It is so refreshing to hear a child say thank you, with enthusiasm as well. You have beautiful children, inside and out.
Those kids are just precious! What good parents
Jessa, please continue with your videos. Don't let criticism of your brother, family or the procedure you had after the miscarriage stop you. Your family is unique and Charming. I know I look forward to your videos and thousands of others do too. Hope you are feeling better.
I do too I love the videos ❤
I had a miscarriage at 11 weeks as well and then a D&C. 💗. It is truly heartbreaking 😢. I am glad you are still able to say God is good. He's also close to the brokenhearted, Amen ✝️.
“I didn’t get to hold you in my arms, but I know The One who does” ❤
i love that you and Ben both have faith in God and can share that together.
I miss you, Jessa. I hope you won't give up on making videos because some people were mean to you. I imagine they're a small minority compared to those of us who admire you.
I came here to tell her the same thing. 😢
Me too ❤
Ivy’s excitement over the dollhouse was precious!! How she keeps thanking Daddy🥹
SO sorry for y’all’s loss😢 praise Jesus we have the hope of eternity ❤
That was the picture of gratitude. She was so thankful
Right...so much gratitude!
Why did she get a medical intervention instead of letting it happen naturally as God intended??
@@DeFausti so is chemo for a cancer patient wrong since that’s medical intervention?
@@DeFausti because of her past hemorrhaging.
As someone who’s suffered from infertility for 20+ years, never able to have children, watching every single person around me receive blessing after blessing…. I have to say this is probably the most meaningful and moving sharing I’ve seen. My heart breaks for you and my prayers are with you. Thank you for sharing your heart and showing how real and raw this is.
I lost my baby in 1998. Never was able to conceive again. Recently diagnosed with Lupus & MS. I think both we're hiding in my body back in 1998! I know how you feel!
I understand and feel for you. I wanted children since i was a child and i never had them. Breaks my heart, so i follow many families here and on instagram. I am blessed with 5 siblings who allowed me to spend as much time as i wanted with all my nieces and nephews.
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God has a plan LMMFAO
I am so very sorry. 😢🙏💔
Hey Jessa. I'm so very sorry for the loss of your baby. My heart is with you and your family during this time.
Thank you for sharing. More women need to be like you, it's hard to open and share the hurtful parts of life but sharing helps so many others. I know your video made me feel that I'm not alone in my experience! Bless you
I’ve been battling infertility for the last 5 years. I lost my first baby at 11 weeks last summer and it still hurts so bad. I’ve questioned whether I’d ever become a Mom but then I remember Gods promise. He promised I’d become a Mom & that’s what I’ve held on to. ❤
my brother had a friend that said she couldnt have kids because everytime she got pregnant she would lose the baby and i told her something that rose up in my spirit that God reminded me of is that my mom told me that when my sister and me get pregnant, since we have B negative blood, were gonna have to get a shot at i think 4 weeks. because if you dont get that shot, your body will fight off the baby and think its a virus. when i told her that i think she said i think i do have negative blood and said she needed to get checked by a doctor. i think two years after that she got pregnant and the baby stayed, shes a mom of two now . i dont talk to her anymore because my brother and her boy friend had a falling out
The excitement and enthusiasm and gratefulness of your children was so amazing to watch! Great parenting right there !
Oh my, I paused the video and zoomed in to see Spurgeon's drawing and tears started flowing. That beautiful picture is one of the sweetest, heartwarming things I've ever seen. God bless him and your whole precious family. You are doing such a good job mamma.
I am SO sorry for your loss Jessa!😢. I am also so thankful for you sharing and proud of you for having the courage to do so! Love seeing a new side of you that we haven’t ever seen! Thank you for being so real, raw and vulnerable!! ❤️❤️
Ben and Jessa,
My heart goes out to you for your loss. I’ll be praying for you.
Thank you for your transparency.
You just never know who you might be helping along the way. God bless you both, and your precious family.
Keep shining for Jesus 🌟
I’m so sorry you had to go through all this. Thank you for sharing your story with us. ❤
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Your kids are adorable! So well mannered. I love how they share and are so grateful for their gifts. Love your family Jessa. ❤️
I am soooooo sorry for your loss. This video made me sob and reminded me of my d&c after my third child. It is such a difficult experience and I while I struggled, I was amazed at the strength that the Lord gave me. I’m so glad you found comfort in Job’s story and hope that you are blessed with a sweet rainbow soon! You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers!! 💜💜
Thank you for sharing your deepest feelings. I’m sure this will help so many others. I’m sorry for your loss.
Sorry for your loss and im glad you were able to get a procedure some women fight to have
I’m sorry for your loss and I appreciate you sharing this to others that have lost a baby during pregnancy. I hope your soul can heal asap because it’s a pain that is indescribable.
What a powerful video. So many of us can relate. Quite literally to every single word you said. Very brave of you to share. Thinking about you and Ben, the kids. Keeping you all I prayer.
So glad that you could get the care you needed without complication or delay. May your baby's memory always be for blessing.
My heart breaks for you and your family... You are such a wonderful Mommy and Daddy... I'm happy that you told they little ones that way they had time to fall in love with their little sister and brother... I feel confident that you will lead them properly with their grief. Prayers and Love being sent your way!
I'm so sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing in a real way the thoughts and feelings that you're going through, and the Lord's comfort and peace. 💕
I’m so so sorry Jessa 💔 I really think you’ve made an extremely healing video that will help others more than you’ll ever know. 💙
Ugh, this is so sad. I am sorry for your loss. That looks like a beautiful hymn, I will have to check it out. God bless you, Jessa and fam 🩷.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I know how you feel and you’re so brave to share your story. You’re a beautiful person.
Oh Jessa , I am so sorry to hear this!! This made me cry. My heart is hurting for you and your family!! Thank you for sharing your heart about this !! I am sure God will use this to help others in many ways!!! I am praying for all of you 🙏!! I lost my first baby, and like you said, I am so grateful to God and Jesus that we will get to meet and spend eternity getting to know our son one day!! It is so painful, but we have such hope in Christ !!!
Hey Jessa, I know you’ve been through a lot these past 3 months……But I want you to know you are greatly missed!! Please post a new video so we know how you’re doing! Worried about you & praying for you too! ❤
A loss is never easy…..I’m so sorry you had to experience this especially over the holidays. Your openness and transparency was so heartfelt. I sat here and cried with you as I watched this. I have lost 4 babies and it’s not easy, but nothing you did caused it. Please don’t blame yourself. Heaven is going to be that much sweeter when we get to go hold our sweet babies we never got to me. Praying for you and your family during this time.
So VERY sorry for your loss... may God surround you with His LOVE, His PEACE, and healing. THANK YOU for sharing such a personal ordeal with us. Love you!!!
I am so sorry Jessa!! My daughter went through this in November and had all the same thoughts. I kept reassuring her that she could have done nothing more or less than what she had done. Bless you and your family!
Also, I just want to add that your vulnerability is precious before the Lord and such a beautiful display of honesty! Additionally, Ivy's verbal expressions of gratitude to her Dad for her doll house touched my heart! Every inflection in her voice and every word of gratitude was precious!
I felt the same exact way. I rarely watch this channel but watching Jessa speak from her heart was precious ❤️ and God honoring.
@@naomi8097 its abortion what she did
I am so very sorry Jessa. My 27.5 year old daughter went home to be with the Lord 12-24-21 after battling Metastatic breast cancer. Sending you all of my love and hugs and prayers ❤️
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Im so sorry.
I lost my mom to breast cancer. I can’t imagine losing a child to it. You are in my prayers.
I’m so very sorry for your loss. ❤
Prayers out to you 💜
Thumbs up for the sweet video. 😢 For your loss. You have a beautiful family ❤
Prayers for your family. What a beautiful Homecoming that miraculous gift had! Sorry for your loss.
Thank you so much for sharing this and for being so vulnerable.❤️ I am so, so sorry for your loss. It is one of the most painful things you can ever experience. I appreciate you talking so openly about your spiritual experiences through this.
I have always been encouraged by the verse in Scripture where David says (in regards to his first son with Bathseba) “he will not return to me but I will go to him.” I will be praying for you and your sweet family.
Oh Jessa ❤️ You put this together soo beautifully 💕 I felt this while watching, as I've been there too. Your positive words are very inspiring. It's hard to see God's plan when we go through these things, but there's love and purpose in everything we go through ❤️ Hugs to you and your beautiful family 🤗 Thank you for sharing this 💕💗
I’m so so sorry for your loss Jessa. I cried right along with you. Praying for your broken heart. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your story.
So sorry for yalls loss!🙏🏻 Y’all have a beautiful family!
I am so sorry for your loss, truly.
Thank you so much for sharing this with us in a very raw and real way, it is such an honour to be able to hear what you had to say during this time. I hope you are okay and healing alright. Also, the part where Ben brought in the doll house and Ivy was like "thank you Daddy, thank you" was honestly just the sweetest!
My heart breaks for you. That same verse I quoted over and over during the final days and hours of my 10 year old sons life. I’m so glad you have Jesus. Y’all are in my prayers.
I’m so very sorry for the loss of your son! ❤
@@mmoore3743 thank you
Thanks for sharing something so vulnerable Jessa. I really appreciate the knowledge sharing so that I'm not extra shocked if I ever go through it.
I'm so sorry for your loss Jessa! I'm sending love and praying for you and your family.
I just melted when Ivy was so excited to get her presents. It is so nice to see a child actually feel greatfullness for the things they receive.♥️
Ivy is so cute!! I cried, because she genuinely was thankful 🥺❤️👐
Could little Ivy be any cuter I think not beautiful children
I agree, that was such a cute moment seeing the children so happy! ❤
I am so sorry sweetheart. May God comfort you all and give you peace. Take time for yourselves- as much as you need. Thanks for sharing and being so brave 😢🙏🙏❤️
@@irenelala I cried because they aborted it
So sorry you & your had to go through this sad experience. So grateful to hear you still know that God is good even when we are going through the valleys. I know I could not do life without Jesus by my side. Prayers for much comfort, peace & strength for all of you. Also sending big hugs. Remember He turns our ashes into beauty, our graves into gardens. He is just oh so faithful. 🙏🙌💜
Hugs, prayers and love to you Jesse and the whole family 🙏😢🌸🌼🌺
Thank you for sharing. I'm praying for healing and peace in your family 💕
Spurgeon is a wonderful big brother! He finds so much happiness in other people's joy 💖
I was going thru a tough week last month and Job’s story also strengthened my faith during that time. Thru everything always praise the Lord! 🙌🏼 Blessed be the name of the Lord. Praying for strength and peace in your spirit ❤️
Just popping in after having watched this video the day it was posted a while back… I want you to know I have been praying for you and your family. I really hope you continue videos! I loved seeing all your house plants and would love tips/tricks to care for them. ❤️
Jessa your story has brought me so much comfort! Thank you for sharing your story with all of us! Our family loves to follow your family. I started spotting with my first miscarriage on my birthday in 2020 (my 6th baby) and I had a second miscarriage in March of 2021 (twins; babies 7&8). With the second I hemorrhaged and had to have an emergency D&C. It's been two years on March 5th and I'm still grieving due to so much trauma. I just want to thank you for sharing the hymn that you guys sang, Day by Day. Thank you for reminding me that I didn't do anything to intentionally harm my babies because I've asked myself a thousand times what I should've done differently. Last, thank you for reminding me of Job. I've thought of him a lot throughout this but I appreciate the reminder again. A really cool song in relation to the scripture of Job's conversation with the Lord is Where Were You by Ghostship. A fellow brother in Christ shared it with me and it's a beautiful reminder of who is in control. I'll be praying for your family as you continue to walk this healing journey! We love you guys as brothers and sisters in Christ.
I’m so sorry for your loss Ben and Jessa. I’m praying for your family during this time of grieving. Lean into God even more!
I am very sorry for your loss! I hope that you use your platform to advocate for other women in this situation. There are many states where a woman would not have this option anymore . Women need to be able to access these life saving treatments!
Women have D&C’s for many reasons, not all of which involve killing a living human being. The ultrasound revealed that I had a missed miscarriage. My baby’s heart had stopped beating 3 weeks before I had a D&C. (Btw, this was not my first D&C- it was my second. My first was 2 weeks postpartum Ivy’s birth for retained placenta.)
Each person is created “in the image of God” (Gen 1:27), and to purposefully destroy a baby in the womb is an affront to the God who created that life.
There’s a world of difference between someone dying and someone being killed. To equate one to the other- and to a mother grieving the loss of her baby no less- is severely distasteful. There is a world of difference between a mortician and a murderer. Even a child understands the difference between the two.
@@JessaSeewald Are you aware that this very reason is being denied to many women in states with strict abortion bans?
Oh honey I am so sorry. Heaven is going to be wonderful. My husband and I lost our 1st baby, a girl. We have since been blessed with 3 wonderful young men. Hug's and Prayer's
Jessa (and Ben), thank you so much for sharing such a private experience. I’ve had my own loss and it took quite some time to really heal from. My wish for you is that with each passing day, you feel more healed. I’m so sorry for your loss.
With love from Michigan,
Annie ✨
Jessa, I lost a sweet boy to a stillbirth and another sweet boy to SIDS. I was given this poem when I lost my first one and it really helped me with the grieving process. I truly hope it brings you some peace as it did me. Keeping you all in my thoughts & prayers!
LAND OF HEAVEN
When God calls little children to dwell with him above
We mortals always question the wisdom of his love.
For no heartache compares with the death of one small child.
Who does so much to make this world seem wonderful and mild.
Perhaps God tires always calling the aged to his fold
and so he picks a rosebud before it can grow old.
God knows how much we need them and so he takes but few.
To make the Land of Heaven more beautiful to view.
Believing this is difficult, still somehow we must try.
The saddest word that mankind knows will always be good-bye.
And so when little ones depart, we who are left behind
must realize how much God loves little children, for
Angels are hard to find.
YES! One day you will get to see and hold your sweet baby in your arms. That is one of the things that helped me so much many years ago when I had my miscarriage…. Was having the knowledge that one day I would be able to have this beautiful moment of meeting my precious little one and never be separated again. Lean into that knowledge and the comfort of our Heavenly Father for that peace that surpasses all understanding. Prayers for continued healing for you and your whole family as you walk through this season. 🙏 🕊 💔❤️🩹❤️
So sorry! Praying for you and your sweet family.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you, Ben and your beautiful family.
Jesse,I can't even imagine the pain you're going through. I said a prayer for you and your family. Hugs.
It’s difficult to see your pain, but your faith is very inspirational! My prayer is that you & your loved ones strengthen each other. Father God will bring you through. What courageous it took to tell this story. TYTY for sharing. ❤️❤️🙏❤️❤️
Oh i'm so very sorry to hear of your loss Jessa. Praying for you guys in this challenging season!
I’m so sorry for your loss ty for sharing with others so they may hav help in healing.
I lost my first right after the first trimester as well. It was so heartbreaking. I’m so sorry for your pain. Thank you for your willingness to share, and help other women in doing so.
The Lord gave me five babies after that devastating loss. My oldest is also Named after Charles Spurgeon..
Riley Haddon. God bless you Jessa! You are in my prayers today.
Oh Jessa, thank you for reminding us all that no matter what, God is good. I'm praying for you sweet mama. Keep shining for Jesus.
Jessa! Ur daughter is so adorable and well mannered and grateful, so cute!
I’m so sorry you went through this. I feel you ❤. Sometimes we don’t listen to our bodies but luckily you did. This is your time now sweetie. You are precious. 🤗
Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable moment. Your strong faith is so inspiring. I've never gone through what you have, but I've been battling serious health problems for months. How you explained your suffering and tied it into faith really brought me to tears. I'm praying for you and your family 🙏❤️
17:40 minutes. “I felt His presence, I felt His peace”, powerful words dear Jessa. I am so sorry for your loss, this made me cry. I had my two daughters when you had yours (same year) March 2019 and July 2021. Fern is born on my husband’s birthday and just 5 days after our youngest. Maybe a bit silly but I have felt a bond with you over that.❤Struggled to have children. I am so glad you were not alone. You keep saying God is good. What a wonderful testimony, especially because this is hard! You are helping so many by sharing. I am glad you have help and take good care of yourself, no self blame. You are so loved by your Heavenly Father!❤
but it wasn't a loss. who knows what would've actually happened if she didn't abort her baby?
The baby had already passed away what are you talking about
@@hannahhasan2752 that's not true, the baby was non viable but not dead...
I'm so deeply sorry for you and your family's loss!! I pray for you and your family to get through this difficult time. Thank you for sharing because I know it helped comfort someone in some way. Thank you for sharing all that you do. I enjoyed your videos and seeing you and your beautiful family . ❤️🙏🏼
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So sorry you and your family are walking through this. It's more common than anyone knows, but still such a shot to the heart. Take care of yourself.
So sorry for your loss, we’ve been there. Pastor Jack Hayford wrote a book, “I’ll Hold You in Heaven”. Helpful with this type of loss. Praying for you. 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.🙏🏼❤️ My son and his wife are pregnant with their first child and are going through a rough time with the pregnancy. This video and your news is extremely heart breaking but your faith is strong and shines through even through this difficult time. It’s a reminder to me to be faithful and have trust in God even during uncertain times. Thanks for that reminder Jess.❤️❤️❤️
I am so sorry, Jessa. Sometimes there just are no words. Thank you for sharing this heartfelt video.
Rewatching this video my heart breaks all over again for you and your family. I still can not believe people actually attacked you over the decision you and Ben made. Makes me so angry people would do that during your time of loss. ❤ and truly miss you all.
Oh Jessa, I just cried with you. You showed your true self and feelings and I appreciate that. One thing that I always have to remind myself through struggles is that everything is God's timing, not ours. He needed another little angel.
Thank you for being so willing to share your life with the world. I’m sorry for your loss and I want you to know that your mom recited the same scripture when they lost Jubilee and hearing you recite it impacts me today as it did back then. God is good, please continue to share your story ❤️
Yes I remember when that happened. I too think of that scripture because my dear Mama went to heaven 2 yrs ago and my heart is shattered 💔 🙏🏻✝️🕯️
I'm so sorry!! Let your family go through the grief time, This happened to me too, your family will comfort you, I found it to be time to be closer together as a family too, but very emotional 😢 ❤️ yes, thank God for your family and our Comforter!!! It softens us for sure!! Praise God!! Thanks for sharing such a hard experience!!
You are sweet as can be. I hope things work out well. You make your family so happy. It takes a special lady to do that. ❤
I'm so sorry for your loss, Jess. Praying for you and your family. 🙏💗 Thank you for sharing your story and helping all those who've gone through similar pain. 💔
Thank you so much for sharing so much of yourself with us today. I cried right along with you. I know how hard it is to lose a baby, as I lost one right about the 3 month mark. The sadness and sorrow somehow made me closer to God and it made me appreciate everything I did have so much more. All of the trials we experience in this life, make us into the person God wants us to be. To God, who numbers the hairs on our head, nothing is a surprise and all are designed to work for our good. You did nothing wrong. I admire your courage to share what you are feeling and going through. I’m sure countless women will be helped by your story and your tears. Take comfort in knowing your testimony will soothe the hearts of many. God bless you, Jessa. ❤️🙏❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss! I'm praying for you and your family ❤
Jessa I pray you are healing from this . Thank you for being so vulnerable. My heart goes out to you. 😢
I’m so sorry Jess!! I feel your pain. I lost a baby girl at 16 weeks last year and ended up with a D&C after I delivered her. I wasn’t able to push out the placenta. I cried through so much of your video. I felt all of those same things… also the peace that comes from God alone. Thank you for sharing! It means a lot. 💕
I’m so sorry for your loss. We lost our first baby back in 2020 and the pain is still very real and present. I’m praying for y’all’s peace.
I'm so sorry for your loss! Many prayers for your family.
Bless your heart, I'm so sorry for your loss...Prayers for u and your family🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Jess , I’m praying for you right now. You are absolutely amazing. Even though you are going through a very painful difficult time, you end up encouraging me and reminding me that God is right there with me while I am grieving over a loss. Thank you. You are a Blessing to me. 🙏💕
I'm sorry for your loss. This book has been comforting to others who have lost children. "I'll Hold you in Heaven" by Jack Hayford.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Praying for all your family and friends. 🙏❤
So sorry for this loss. So glad you had access to the medical care you needed.. some no longer have this chance.
I'm so sorry, Jessa! This was so difficult to watch, and at the same time your vulnerability was so beautiful! Your love for the lord shines through you and it is beautiful to witness. Keeping you and your family in my prayers as you continue to process and walk through this difficult season! May God continue to bless you and your family and make his face shine upon y'all!
Deeply sorry for your loss Jessa & Ben! My husband & I struggle with infertility. So it's been hard, but like you said God is still good. We get to be an adopted aunt & uncle to a special little boy. So we get to have kid time with him (he is our best friends' little boy). I pray God will continue to give you peace & comfort during your grief. 🙏
So sorry for your loss. Praying God’s comfort and Love over you all.
So sorry for your loss! Thank you for being vulnerable. You are so strong and I admire your openness and faith. ❤