Pour Minds - Episode 170 - The Art of Being Mysterious

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  • Опубліковано 19 вер 2024
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 364

  • @anisworld1410
    @anisworld1410 2 роки тому +221

    “Imagine wearing a coat on your birthday” I’m deaddddddd girl!!!

    • @tanyavenus16
      @tanyavenus16 2 роки тому +27

      Me wearing a coat cause my birthday is in December 💔

    • @brittanyb5942
      @brittanyb5942 2 роки тому +3

      💀💀💀

    • @EverydayGworl
      @EverydayGworl 2 роки тому +4

      Right! Can’t show your fit or birthday pin and money 🥴

    • @mskila
      @mskila 2 роки тому +5

      Only females from the south can say that ! Smh 😂😂
      NY born & raised 😌

    • @prettystreetchic
      @prettystreetchic 2 роки тому +4

      I’m a December baby and I hate it here! Ever year I say ima throw myself a half bday in June just so I can have I a pool party…

  • @hansjean-gilles603
    @hansjean-gilles603 2 роки тому +40

    Drea is sooooooo protective of Lex. I love it! Lex, cherish your friendship w/Drea 🙏🏽

    • @krystalrenay8461
      @krystalrenay8461 2 роки тому +7

      She really do! Lol even when lex try and talk “down” on herself, drea be like “ aht aht “

    • @hansjean-gilles603
      @hansjean-gilles603 2 роки тому +1

      Haha facts!!

  • @Thatboycj2232
    @Thatboycj2232 2 роки тому +63

    I’m 36, I ended a friendship of 20 yrs about 4 years ago. At first I was like “ damn…smh” but then I analyzed the situation and did some self-reflection and reflected on the overall friendship and yall.. I should have been cut that girl off smh.

  • @rochellesutton9823
    @rochellesutton9823 2 роки тому +60

    I wish y’all could do 2 episodes a week . I literally love seeing y’all episodes pop up in my notifications every Friday

  • @tamichristine8560
    @tamichristine8560 2 роки тому +66

    I definitely have PTSD from friendships and I'm still friends with these people. I'm working on letting them go and letting the trauma go mentally.

    • @jung4020
      @jung4020 2 роки тому +2

      Me too 😪

    • @antanaehumble5086
      @antanaehumble5086 2 роки тому +2

      just had this happen to me, let them go! you’ll feel so much better after you stop watering dead plants. it will hurt tho! but you got it

    • @tamichristine8560
      @tamichristine8560 2 роки тому +2

      @@antanaehumble5086 Thank you girly! It's so difficult for me to let the friendship go because I feel like I'm going to miss out on something (if that makes sense).

    • @sherrianbrown4828
      @sherrianbrown4828 2 роки тому +3

      Me too.....separating yourself from old, tired friendships is so hard and making new friends as adults is so awkward.

    • @Ms.lovelyxixi
      @Ms.lovelyxixi 2 роки тому +4

      I been there before too hun❤️❤️ Slowly letting them go and working on your mental health and healing is the best thing. God will place new friends around you.

  • @BigBankBon00
    @BigBankBon00 2 роки тому +48

    Drea was most definitely feeling herself this episode. 😍😂

  • @KeishannaMichele
    @KeishannaMichele 2 роки тому +35

    I would LOOOOVE to see you ladies on the podcast “Lip Service” - that would be epic 🤗

  • @dejapalmer5982
    @dejapalmer5982 2 роки тому +87

    Lol Drea the sneaky one. And Lex the liar. We all got our own tips and tricks to get ahead.

    • @amandar8699
      @amandar8699 2 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂

    • @KarmenAli
      @KarmenAli 2 роки тому

      I’m weak af bc it’s true!!! 😂😂😂😂

  • @taykoolie
    @taykoolie 2 роки тому +48

    Y’all look better every episode.

  • @theiadavis
    @theiadavis 2 роки тому +33

    Drea is my Taurus Sister and we are not sneaky, we are definitely mysterious and withhold information 💯

    • @krystalrenay8461
      @krystalrenay8461 2 роки тому

      Exactlyyyyy! Thank you lol

    • @_forevergrateful1
      @_forevergrateful1 2 роки тому

      I’m a Virgo, as a earth sign, I agreeeee 😭

    • @R0yALtyS
      @R0yALtyS Рік тому

      @@_forevergrateful1 y'all both are most definitely sneaky & with holding info is lying by omission 🤣

  • @annep7602
    @annep7602 2 роки тому +42

    The topics are maturing and I really like seeing the growth in you guys 🤞🏾❤️

  • @chyonnaclayton6663
    @chyonnaclayton6663 2 роки тому +15

    “I think you’re a certain level of mysterious”
    “I think I’m a Liar” 😭😭😭😭

  • @michelletburke
    @michelletburke 2 роки тому +19

    Felt when they said if your birthday in the winter why are you celebrating 😭 nah fr, summer babies we littt 🔥

  • @BeLikeNyaTV
    @BeLikeNyaTV 2 роки тому +13

    When lex said “ Hey boo 👻” boo!! I screamed 😭

  • @jstlivwell
    @jstlivwell 2 роки тому +4

    Friendship breakups hurt more to me because you get to know your friends in a different kind of intimate way. When you learn your 'friend' is walking around being weird it hurts because it's like damn, I thought we were on the same team. I agree with Drea, I don't let it stop me from making new friends, but I do proceed with caution.

  • @Lexi-ol6yy
    @Lexi-ol6yy 2 роки тому +11

    It's not a episode until Lex says "Okay well I'll say / let me say this.." hahahahaa

  • @photogelic3135
    @photogelic3135 2 роки тому +3

    She said “Srry to that first man🤷🏽‍♀️”😂😂

  • @Kaos_Magazine
    @Kaos_Magazine 2 роки тому +45

    OK, I'm a winter baby but don't do us!!! 🤣🤣🤣 we stressed tf out already...we can still get to the area and turn up in the heat!

  • @jenoviarealle
    @jenoviarealle 2 роки тому +29

    My feelings is so hurt! She said “imagine wearing a coat on your birthday” my birthday is in the winter 😭 but luckily I live in California it was 75° out here 😜

    • @P_Pbeauty1111
      @P_Pbeauty1111 2 роки тому +2

      Me too mine is tomorrow 🙈😩 I live in Chicago it was 25 degrees yesterday 😭😭😭

    • @jenoviarealle
      @jenoviarealle 2 роки тому +1

      @@P_Pbeauty1111 damn!!! Sorry girl! happy birthday thou !!! 🎊

    • @P_Pbeauty1111
      @P_Pbeauty1111 2 роки тому

      @@jenoviarealle thank you !

  • @dillow25
    @dillow25 2 роки тому +18

    “That’s what we need to name the episode ‘the blue whites didn’t snick’ “
    The episode: the art of being mysterious 😂😂😂

  • @BiigKewi
    @BiigKewi 2 роки тому +2

    Drea's laugh should be the notification tone for new episodes. It's a perfect way to tell us what's dropping on Friday, a good laugh.

  • @tayway2225
    @tayway2225 2 роки тому +8

    “Even if I am sneaky I don’t think that’s a flaw” -baby face drea & she said what she said 🤣🤣😭😭 stand on it sis!!! 🤣💰

  • @alexandriastephens
    @alexandriastephens 2 роки тому +8

    Ended multiple friendships this month and now I’m in a good space. People who secretly don’t mess with you drain your energy.

  • @dejapalmer5982
    @dejapalmer5982 2 роки тому +11

    I’ve definitely been a horrible employee in the last 6 months. My coworker and friend passed & I hate my job for how they acted like nothing happened and its just not the same. We started together. We were real close outside of work. So work is just a drag. I hate it.

    • @kvngdree407
      @kvngdree407 2 роки тому +5

      paying for you & i’m so sorry for your loss

    • @dejapalmer5982
      @dejapalmer5982 2 роки тому

      @@kvngdree407 thank you ❤️❤️❤️

    • @DreaAndLex
      @DreaAndLex  2 роки тому +8

      I’m so sorry for your loss. Praying for you ❤️❤️❤️

    • @kpacshakur6969
      @kpacshakur6969 2 роки тому +2

      Sorry to hear that ❤️😣that’s the workforce for you they don’t care about anyone at all

    • @amieklein6043
      @amieklein6043 2 роки тому

      My condolences❤️❤️❤️

  • @EverydayGworl
    @EverydayGworl 2 роки тому +13

    Y’all talking about Boosie and he gone get y’all fr
    “Them Pour Minds bitches…”💀💀💀😭😂😭😂😭😂😭😂😭😂😭

  • @wordym.3435
    @wordym.3435 2 роки тому +8

    Y'all are my sun sign & my moon sign so watching y'all is literally like hearing the conversation in my head lol

  • @ericaporter7679
    @ericaporter7679 2 роки тому +6

    i love the lip combo on Drea, i need it

  • @apreecemashae2589
    @apreecemashae2589 2 роки тому +10

    Drea is a true Taurus cause mysterious is THE way of life. Lol privacy at the top of my list and ain’t nothing wrong with it.

  • @EverydayGworl
    @EverydayGworl 2 роки тому +13

    As a Taurus, I’ve been told all my life that I’m “sneaky” 🥴😑…😌🤣

  • @keilabazile2016
    @keilabazile2016 2 роки тому +1

    Literally one of the worst feelings knowing that your best friends betrayed you . Like it’s so hard for me to wrap my mind around that

  • @ldkea05
    @ldkea05 2 роки тому +6

    I'm here for Drea's laugh at the end of the song ..... that made me laugh!!!! Thank you ladies for allllllllllways coming thru in the clutch with the podcast at the end of a looooooooong week!!!! Love y'all !
    Ohhhhhh I can't leave out Drea's "them bitches is bitches !!!!"
    Lex's "sssssssssssssssssneaky" lol 😂

  • @nomusamsiza1357
    @nomusamsiza1357 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you for the consistency. It’s a real pleasure to wake up on a Saturday morning (South African time) and find a new episode. You guys set the tone for the rest of my weekend.

  • @tumonniejohnson8711
    @tumonniejohnson8711 2 роки тому +7

    “How do you look!?🤨”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you guys are too funny!

  • @somethinnifty7897
    @somethinnifty7897 2 роки тому +8

    I'm one of the 6...but if I show up @ a show, please don't call me up on stage Sis, my government name is Karen. I'm not your key demographic but real; recognize real and you ladies are funny, irreverent and real AF.
    I have PTSD from everything at this point. Ive realized Ive never actually had a friend or family for that matter, which because i'm not crazy has me looking at myself! LOL The whole world can't be ambivalent or hostile to me! But yea...I have no one, my circle is a period and you ladies are my girl talk, have a little sip and laugh besties and I'm grateful for you LOL Don't judge me now.

  • @brittdabee5278
    @brittdabee5278 2 роки тому +5

    Forget y’all Capricorns are lit 🤣🤣 I love my birthday New Years Eve and I’m always off work 💁🏾‍♀️

  • @KNicoleLux
    @KNicoleLux 4 місяці тому

    This was goooooddd. Lmao come on Drea with the “missing youuuuu” note 😂😂

  • @Nadia-ej7fr
    @Nadia-ej7fr 2 роки тому +5

    Lex you in trouble hun, Drew definitely been coming for the singing crown the last 3 episodes 😂

  • @nyabuomchuol5028
    @nyabuomchuol5028 2 роки тому +1

    The outro song got me weak cause why was he singing like that. 😭😭 A forever bop 🤣

  • @Thatboycj2232
    @Thatboycj2232 2 роки тому +12

    Drea.. I’ve been called “ sneaky” all of my life. I don’t like ppl..including my family in my business.

  • @arh761
    @arh761 2 роки тому +2

    Solution- winter babies celebrate their birthdays in places warm- vegas,l.a., hawaii, san diego

  • @ms.theveytarot2364
    @ms.theveytarot2364 2 роки тому +6

    them at the 22:00 mark 💕 i love y’all friendship 😂

    • @DreaAndLex
      @DreaAndLex  2 роки тому +2

      😭😭❤️❤️

    • @bububalu
      @bububalu 2 роки тому

      Yehhhhh I came to leave a comment right after I saw this part🤣🤣

  • @aliciaantoinette3881
    @aliciaantoinette3881 2 роки тому +5

    Don’t be coming for us 😂 (Dec 11 bday) we warm up with liquor lol

  • @chels4956
    @chels4956 2 роки тому +1

    The way yall sang "Babbbyyy" was cracking me up. Thats exactly how Ray J had sound lol.

  • @Jstcree
    @Jstcree 2 роки тому +2

    Drea is me lol I love herrrr vibe! & I love Lex to….both ladies bring great personalities to the show❤️

  • @sashpretti3539
    @sashpretti3539 2 роки тому +1

    I love y’all friendship ! & as a Virgo I’ve been told I’m sneaky as well , I relate to drea as far as some of her qualities and how she moves ! Love both of y’all !!

  • @shenellrichardson4936
    @shenellrichardson4936 2 роки тому +5

    “Good cuz yo hands was ashy” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @destinywilliams2099
    @destinywilliams2099 2 роки тому +2

    "uh I think I'm a liar" Lex is hell 🤣🤣🤣

  • @courtneyfletcher7353
    @courtneyfletcher7353 2 роки тому +1

    I'm learning to trust people, but I have still healing from PTSD from betrayal from friends. I really don't trust women that are too judgy and who are above reproach.

  • @kpacshakur6969
    @kpacshakur6969 2 роки тому +4

    Not the black officer cutting up on Lex’s ashy knuckles 🤣🤣🤣

  • @AzyaMaiya01
    @AzyaMaiya01 2 роки тому +2

    I love the raw advice you guys give! I’m so glad you guys kept going! Love y’all and the show! ❤️

  • @shiona25
    @shiona25 2 роки тому +2

    Honey drea ain’t never sung a song this good. Way to go girl 😃

  • @brandibroughton4722
    @brandibroughton4722 2 роки тому +2

    Come on Drea w/ the vocals!!! You did that🎶

  • @ControversialTay
    @ControversialTay 2 роки тому

    Drea was DEFINITELY practicing and extra ready for this one, this was the best we ever heard her sing I feel like 😭😭😂😭 whole heart in there! I said ok!!

  • @brittanidavis4877
    @brittanidavis4877 2 роки тому +6

    Happy Friday Ladies!! Been waiting on the episode to drop!🍾🥂

  • @suziedantinor
    @suziedantinor 2 роки тому +3

    I’m a Taurus so I get it. We are very mysterious and low key. It is not sneaky 💅🏾😂❤️

  • @chanellep8059
    @chanellep8059 2 роки тому +3

    Lex: ‘Her voice sounds like me ‘
    Drea: 😳
    😂😂😂

  • @kayandjayx6030
    @kayandjayx6030 2 роки тому +2

    I’m with Drea…. I was being backstabbed in elementary school and I definitely still Healing from it

  • @Ariana-yv2cg
    @Ariana-yv2cg 2 роки тому +9

    LMFAO!!!!! Sleeping in work clothes 🤣🤣🤣 I need to try that hun

    • @DreaAndLex
      @DreaAndLex  2 роки тому +6

      And I’ll do it again if i have to😭

    • @Ariana-yv2cg
      @Ariana-yv2cg 2 роки тому

      @@DreaAndLex lol I love you!!! This abt to be my testimonial 💀

  • @dejapalmer5982
    @dejapalmer5982 2 роки тому +12

    Drea: “I don’t know how that’s sneaky”
    Lex: 🗣 YOU SNUCK ON A PLANE
    🤣🤣🤣 I am hollering. The whole explanation of sneaky got me weak! I always love hearing the story about her and the 2 niggas. Boffum, I know that’s right!

  • @RobandSijay
    @RobandSijay 2 роки тому +4

    4:20 in and we know that aint the name of the episode lol I love it here

    • @DreaAndLex
      @DreaAndLex  2 роки тому +1

      Man look, we be trying 😭😭

  • @douse89
    @douse89 2 роки тому

    Lex your story about how you moved as a worker is my life. I swear I only wake up at 7:30am when I gotta be at work by 8am. 😄
    Drea I'm with you when it comes to getting PTSD because of 0ne friend girl hurting me but somce then, I've let new women into the chances of friendship and Its cool.

  • @dejapalmer5982
    @dejapalmer5982 2 роки тому +2

    Zeze
    Super Gremlin is a BOP. He snapped!!!

  • @TripTrophyy
    @TripTrophyy 2 роки тому +4

    Can y’all bring back the lyric breakdowns 😂🙌🏾

  • @brittjackk1629
    @brittjackk1629 11 місяців тому

    Drea’s face when lex said the girls voice sounds like her took me out😂😂😂😂

  • @MariahIsom
    @MariahIsom 2 роки тому +2

    The December-March babies sitting here like how we got in it *nene voice*

  • @AB-ym4qw
    @AB-ym4qw 2 роки тому

    Yesssssss Drea! I have a few girls in my circle that I do not SHARE any information about myself because of betrayal back in high school….

  • @Bluejade151
    @Bluejade151 2 роки тому +3

    Team Taurus! I agree with Drea, that not your friend!! Fair game, especially if she was talking about you.

  • @lenoreosei4498
    @lenoreosei4498 2 роки тому +3

    What did I do to deserve an hour and thirty minutes of pure entertainment let me get my wine

  • @EverydayGworl
    @EverydayGworl 2 роки тому +3

    *36:14*
    Lex: how do you look 👁 👄 👁
    🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Beezus3
    @Beezus3 2 роки тому +1

    I didn’t even start watching the episode and I already liked it 😂 these my girls 💅🏽🇿🇦

  • @delyzrodriguez2932
    @delyzrodriguez2932 2 роки тому +2

    Yaaaaaaaaasssss U GETTIN A BET CHECK, CONGRATS LADIES!!!!

  • @jamein545
    @jamein545 2 роки тому +1

    Let me watch my fav ladies before I go out tonight heyy y’all

  • @louisianacookingwithkay
    @louisianacookingwithkay 2 роки тому

    1:02:21
    Carrie is the fashionista, that's why I always liked her. "
    And just like that"😂😂😭

  • @TheGamerAnpu
    @TheGamerAnpu 2 роки тому +2

    Billy, Tanner put on that lotion LMFAOOOOOOO

  • @Finesse_uh
    @Finesse_uh 2 роки тому +1

    Friday evening made! 🤗🤗 Thank yall, ladies! 🖤🖤

  • @nitaj.9466
    @nitaj.9466 2 роки тому +1

    Baby it’s the BET Ad for meeeee🤑🤑🤑

  • @ChristinaGSJ
    @ChristinaGSJ 2 роки тому

    Yes, I experienced my first friendship fall out in the 1st grade and it's because they thought i was being fake. The girls stopped speaking to me for like two weeks. I wasn't really sad because I didn't understand why they stopped talking to me but I just started talking to other people and then when they came back around we was cool again.

  • @beverly9486
    @beverly9486 2 роки тому

    Winter has the best holidays tho. Christmas, New Year’s Eve, MLK, Valentine’s Day, and Mardi Gras

  • @JAKERALASHAY
    @JAKERALASHAY 2 роки тому +1

    Lex: Hey Boo, Boo. 👻
    Drea: I Just Think Imma Love Being A Ghost, BOO N*gga. 👻
    😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @amahjahv
    @amahjahv Рік тому +1

    It’s Drea jumping into the song in the end😂😂😂😂 that’s my song!

  • @dejapalmer5982
    @dejapalmer5982 2 роки тому +2

    Happy Friday, Pour Crew 🥂

  • @lanaebenjamin7193
    @lanaebenjamin7193 2 роки тому +1

    Not y’all roasting the winter babies

  • @_Tree
    @_Tree 2 роки тому +1

    I like to make new friends, but I'm more guarded. Not everyone has the same intentions and I look out for that
    I let a lot of shyt from shady people go because there's nothing you can do about it

  • @sashpretti3539
    @sashpretti3539 2 роки тому +2

    I’m back to say yes I highly agree with the not telling ppl my business as well and I definitely don’t want the gossip lol

  • @keynotes4865
    @keynotes4865 2 роки тому +1

    I’m a fall/winter baby, and wearing a fur coat sounds great🤣🤣 anyways, great episode ladies 💜💜

  • @mariongicharu4057
    @mariongicharu4057 2 роки тому +1

    lex been saying “my man my man my man” lmaoo

  • @ivonnetejeda7096
    @ivonnetejeda7096 2 роки тому +1

    I love y’all frfr😂😂❤️ can ya please do a live show in Jersey please

  • @kritikalthoughts3455
    @kritikalthoughts3455 2 роки тому +1

    Omitting things isn’t lying… it’s just leaving out some information

  • @kayswiss
    @kayswiss 2 роки тому +1

    As a Taurus, I too don’t like ppl in my business and have been called sneaky

  • @essential_baealways60
    @essential_baealways60 2 роки тому +1

    I was hoping they broke it down on the song. Especially the part when ray j was like whoooooooo boy he killed it 😂

  • @s.s.6722
    @s.s.6722 2 роки тому +5

    I love y’all ladies and I got my LIFE when Lex admitted to being a liar 😩 bc Leos are liars lmao - coming from an Aquarius

  • @ashleymiller1210
    @ashleymiller1210 2 роки тому +1

    Crying at the fact that me& my whole party had to wear coats on my birthday last month

  • @Detriotbabby313
    @Detriotbabby313 2 роки тому +1

    Das F’d UP 😂😂 My Bday in January ❄️ and I was born during a blizzard ☃️

  • @yannadanielle
    @yannadanielle 2 роки тому

    I refreshed yall page so much today 🙄

  • @avarenee5710
    @avarenee5710 2 роки тому +1

    Im in the nail shop and I literally keep busting out laughing😭

  • @Thatboycj2232
    @Thatboycj2232 2 роки тому +1

    Yesss got my wine and making my wings

  • @noway4
    @noway4 2 роки тому +5

    😂😂😂 Drea right! I got burned in elementary by my “bestie” chileee.

  • @dejapalmer5982
    @dejapalmer5982 2 роки тому +7

    “Well let say all 3 of you bitches is bitches” One thing about it Drea gone stick beside Lex and vice versa!!! Love the dynamic.

  • @tiffanyanthony5552
    @tiffanyanthony5552 2 роки тому +1

    I jt clock ⏰️ out RIGHT ON TIME! Heyy Queen's ‼️

  • @prettysmallz
    @prettysmallz Рік тому

    Lmao Drea laugh got me laughing mad hard at the end 🤣