Koi helped me 🐠

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  • Опубліковано 20 лип 2024
  • Why I keep Koi, the painful truth 🤕🐠
    Bit on edge about this one to be honest 😬 But it's what got me into the Koi keeping hobby and why i love it so much, there are loads of positives out a huge unnegotiable negative.
    I'm sorry if you have been through something similar to us having a stillborn daughter, thats why it's in the title and description so people can opt out if need be. I am and we are "ok" we recovered, there is no need to feel sorry for us or me, it's life. And life can be cruel at times, very f***ing cruel. I share this to be honest and hopefully help inspire someone somewhere towards recovery.
    Please, please, please comment with nice comments, I really need your support. Bad ones will be deleted. I wouldn't wish this pain on my worst enemy. I really hope this can help anyone experiencing any form of mental health issues or painful circumstances to understand YOU CAN GET THROUGH IT! You can get back to smiling without the feeling of guilt and your not alone. I try to keep this video as upbeat as possible.
    There are lots of positives that this experience brought to my life, but I'd give anything to change it but I can't. The koi came into our life and really helped our recovery. Mental health really does matter and when we went trough our darkest times the koi brought the colour back into our lives.
    My life is amazing, I love it and Im amazingly lucky to have what I have. A wife & 2 incredible sons have been born since this, I'm a better dad for the pain we experienced (or should I say I try to be).
    PS I absolutely love Warrington Hospital and all their staff especially in the maternity ward.
    Transforming Tragedy into Tranquility with Koi 🐟🌈👼
    Johnny' Koi Dealer 👉 / uknishikigoibelllane
    🎬 Time Stamps:
    (00:00) - Introduction
    (01:01) - The reason I love koi keeping
    (16:53) - Closing thoughts on Koi's impact
    👉 Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE. Your support helps me 🩷
    🔍 This video is a heartfelt guide for those navigating the painful journey of stillbirth, I found solace in the serenity of koi ponds. If you've been touched by the sorrow of losing a child and are looking to ease the pain, let the grace of koi lead you towards healing, it worked for us & I think its worked for a lot of others. Its a long journey back to semi normality that can not be rushed. I share my journey of recovery, offering a unique perspective on finding happiness and personal growth post-stillbirth.
    #️⃣ Hashtags:
    #mentalhealth #HealingKoi #KoiPondTranquility #KoiKeeper #TherapeuticKoi #GriefRecovery #KoiJourney #KoiCommunity #PondFishHealing #stillborn #stillbirth #KoiTherapy #FindPeaceWithKoi #KoiFishFamily
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  • @koifishjohnny
    @koifishjohnny  16 годин тому +1

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  • @pattibergland162
    @pattibergland162 2 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for sharing. Just Beautiful. We love the joy, calm and pleasure our koi bring to us.

    • @koifishjohnny
      @koifishjohnny  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much it means a lot on this video. Amen to that the koi really do bring calmness and joy. Thank you

  • @westbromkoi
    @westbromkoi 4 місяці тому +4

    I feel ur pain mate, we lost our son 10 years ago at the age of 14 ❤. Ur right about the calming effect of the koi 👍🏼👌🏼

    • @ADS-KOI
      @ADS-KOI 4 місяці тому +3

      Fuk bro! ❤❤❤

    • @westbromkoi
      @westbromkoi 4 місяці тому +3

      Like Johnny said tho mate, that pain is what's made us the people we are today

    • @Sharpeyskoi
      @Sharpeyskoi 4 місяці тому +2

      so sorry to hear that mate

    • @koifishjohnny
      @koifishjohnny  3 місяці тому +2

      Mate I’m devastated to read this, I don’t really know what to write pal ❤️‍🩹 glad to hear the koi helped you too mate. Stay strong brother and sending big big big love ❤️ thank you for sharing ❤️

    • @westbromkoi
      @westbromkoi 3 місяці тому +1

      Cheers Johnny. Like I said to Ad, the pain of our past makes us the people we are today. Sending you big love too brother ❤️

  • @JamesTHEKOIwhisperer123
    @JamesTHEKOIwhisperer123 4 місяці тому +2

    Mate sad video about your loss top bloke and honest I definitely agree with a lot of things you just said myself well done mate ❤

    • @koifishjohnny
      @koifishjohnny  3 місяці тому

      Cheers James mate it means a lot coming from you pal. We all have our ups and downs and we grow through what we go through ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Thanks pal

  • @kushtykoi5086
    @kushtykoi5086 4 місяці тому +1

    Glad uv shared ur journey, u make koi keeping fun and ur vids are always enjoyable and make smile, thanks for sharing buddy ❤

    • @koifishjohnny
      @koifishjohnny  3 місяці тому

      Thanks mate and thank you so much for the support buddy. ❤️

  • @nickrider5220
    @nickrider5220 4 місяці тому +1

    I've had two constants in my life, my love of koi and motorcycles for the last 40 years, they've helped me through many difficult periods of my life, everyone needs something to focus on, something different 👍🏻

    • @koifishjohnny
      @koifishjohnny  3 місяці тому

      Amen to that brother, I actually did my cbt last year but haven’t got round to completing full licence yet. Thanks mate

  • @atsuminaoki9910
    @atsuminaoki9910 4 місяці тому +2

    We hope that you will be a source of information that will inspire many people over there with different customs to change theirs!

    • @koifishjohnny
      @koifishjohnny  3 місяці тому +1

      Did you watch the video?

    • @atsuminaoki9910
      @atsuminaoki9910 3 місяці тому +1

      @@koifishjohnny Yes!! I always watch at it using the auto-generator and translator.

    • @koifishjohnny
      @koifishjohnny  3 місяці тому +1

      @@atsuminaoki9910 oh ok it’s just the video is on a deeper subject my friend. About what koi provide ❤️

    • @atsuminaoki9910
      @atsuminaoki9910 3 місяці тому +1

      @@koifishjohnny We sincerely hope that your sad story about privacy will inspire you to become a truly successful KOI keeper!

    • @koifishjohnny
      @koifishjohnny  3 місяці тому +1

      @@atsuminaoki9910 thank you ❤️

  • @carollycett1329
    @carollycett1329 4 місяці тому +1

    Sorry to here about your loss keeping koi has many health benefits and you have shown you love them and enjoy watching them 🙏🐟🐟🐟🙏

    • @koifishjohnny
      @koifishjohnny  3 місяці тому

      Thanks Carol ❤️❤️❤️❤️ super appreciate the support and your 💯 right

  • @MattBailey13
    @MattBailey13 4 місяці тому

    Great video is always Johnny and I know exactly what you've been through we lost our son at 8 months old and it changes and that's pretty much why I keep koi as well. Big love to you and your family mate❤

    • @koifishjohnny
      @koifishjohnny  3 місяці тому +1

      So so so sorry to hear this Matt mate. It’s very hard to handle and the koi really really help. I hope you’re doing well mate and will catch up with you at some point pal. Take care and big ❤️

  • @susanschonauer8487
    @susanschonauer8487 4 місяці тому +1

    This is a great video Johnny! I feel the same way about koi. However at the minute, I’m having a bit of parasite problem in 2 of my ponds. I’ve lost 2 koi in the last 2 days, and I believe a 3rd will be any day now. I just can’t seem to get ahead of the fluke and ich. I’ve been treating them for over 2 months, back and forth between treatments. But I keep going even when I feel like giving up because the koi need me. Keep up the videos😊 Thank You

    • @IcenI_Koi
      @IcenI_Koi 4 місяці тому +1

      Have you tried Chloramine T ?

    • @susanschonauer8487
      @susanschonauer8487 4 місяці тому +1

      No I haven’t tried CT. I’m afraid to try anything that’s really harsh

    • @koifishjohnny
      @koifishjohnny  3 місяці тому

      Thank you :-) Ot was a deep video so thanks for the support :-)

  • @lyonscultivars
    @lyonscultivars 3 місяці тому +1

    Sorry to hear aboit your child. We ourselfs lost 4 before we had our son. We was both on the brink of giving up. Thankfully we got what we deserved only due to getting full blood tests etc we was able to work out how to keep full term. Due to our blood types there was some wierd anitibody confliction where the baby would act lile a foreign body.. with some special periodic injections we was able to see the full term for our son. Still hurts me when i remeber what we lost 4 pure souls. I mever did alow my self to gice them names. As it would have brought forth so much more suffering . I personaly know how you feel and i hope you eventualy find closure with whst happend. That smile you still have never loose it. Power to you and your family!

    • @koifishjohnny
      @koifishjohnny  3 місяці тому +1

      I’m so so so sorry to hear this but super happy to hear about your son. We can’t change the past, we can only focus on the future and the now. Thank you so so much for sharing and staying so strong.
      Also thanks about the smile 😃 it’s a cheeky one 😝
      Big love ❤️ ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @lyonscultivars
      @lyonscultivars 3 місяці тому +1

      @koifishjohnny the story of life aint it buddy. Cruel, marvelous and spectacular all at the same time. Like me keep on living buddy your best lofe for thoes around you. Again huge respect fornyou sharing your story. Helped me shair with you mine for sake of relevance at the minimum to helpnyou in your mindset when needed.

    • @koifishjohnny
      @koifishjohnny  3 місяці тому +1

      @@lyonscultivars thank you and 💯 that’s life, very cruel at times but helps us enjoy the good. Take care ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @AndysKoiPuddle
    @AndysKoiPuddle 4 місяці тому +1

    Very sad Johnny, stay strong buddy… 💪🏼 🙏

    • @koifishjohnny
      @koifishjohnny  3 місяці тому +1

      Cheers Andy mate and its all good now, its part of me and part of why I love this hobby mate. Thanks for the support ❤️

  • @lyonscultivars
    @lyonscultivars 3 місяці тому +1

    Watching life live is forfilling on its own buddy, expecially when you feel you have done a good job it rights off all the negstive moments.

    • @koifishjohnny
      @koifishjohnny  3 місяці тому +1

      I popped a reply on your other message ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @shaunleonard8146
    @shaunleonard8146 4 місяці тому +1

    So Sad Johnny, Your so brave.

    • @koifishjohnny
      @koifishjohnny  3 місяці тому +1

      Cheers mate it means a lot to read your kind comment ❤️

  • @joycedrinkwater917
    @joycedrinkwater917 4 місяці тому +1

    Thinking of you all keep going I love your videos

  • @LivingJewel
    @LivingJewel 4 місяці тому +1

  • @Sharpeyskoi
    @Sharpeyskoi 4 місяці тому +1

    ah man s0 sorry to hear that buddy

    • @koifishjohnny
      @koifishjohnny  3 місяці тому

      Cheers buddy it is what it is, stronger for it but its made me a better man pal

  • @tonyd5647
    @tonyd5647 3 місяці тому

    Really great video mate and very brave to talk about your loss. Watched u from the beginning and its good to see you enjoying the hobbie because it brings me joy. Keep the vids coming mate

    • @koifishjohnny
      @koifishjohnny  3 місяці тому

      Tony mate thank you so so so much for this amazing and supportive message. Its great to have it off my chest and share the reason why Im iin the hobby (be it a bit of a sad one). Thank you pal ❤️🙏

  • @IcenI_Koi
    @IcenI_Koi 4 місяці тому +1

    ❤👍

    • @koifishjohnny
      @koifishjohnny  3 місяці тому

      Thank you so much for the support mate, big ❤️

  • @Dannylambkoitok
    @Dannylambkoitok 4 місяці тому +1

    • @koifishjohnny
      @koifishjohnny  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much for the support mate, big ❤️