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  • @maialnabulsi8834
    @maialnabulsi8834 3 роки тому +314

    5 should have been numbness. Because there is no acceptance

    • @lili.reinheart2832
      @lili.reinheart2832 3 роки тому +9

      No there is no but u learn how to cope with it numb is part of 4 you'll get through it I promise just give it.time

    • @maialnabulsi8834
      @maialnabulsi8834 3 роки тому +11

      @@lili.reinheart2832 ohh, but sometimes when u lose people who you loved more than u loved yourself u really feel numb. Like u have no humanity left in u

    • @lili.reinheart2832
      @lili.reinheart2832 3 роки тому +1

      @@maialnabulsi8834 yeah I know I'm feeling that now and let me tell u its crazy hard it is u feel numb u have nothing u can't feel anything but that's part of stage 4 so ur almost done fighting ur so close u can't gave up now you've made it so far

    • @maialnabulsi8834
      @maialnabulsi8834 3 роки тому +3

      @@lili.reinheart2832 some people are just so depressed that nothing makes that wanna not give up. Nothing encourages them to get out of th at dark space anymore

    • @lili.reinheart2832
      @lili.reinheart2832 3 роки тому +2

      @@maialnabulsi8834 yeah I know mim there.and I know u wanna give up but think abt this for pls just think imaging that person u lost standing in front of u would they want u to give.up or would they want u to live. U life to the fullest

  • @Oceanblvd_612
    @Oceanblvd_612 3 роки тому +211

    I hate how people hate on Elena so much she went through more than anyone in the whole TVD franchise
    She lost her parents
    She found out her bf wasn’t human and her life would never be normal
    She found out she was adopted and her life was a lie
    She lost her aunt, her guardian
    She lost Stefan
    She lost ric, her guardian
    She lost her brother
    She lost Bonnie so many times
    She lost Damon
    She got Damon back but couldn’t remember anything
    She was put in a sleeping spell and slept while her friends and family lived
    She got one last conversation with Stefan
    And so much more

    • @chansdevon9443
      @chansdevon9443 3 роки тому +17

      No offense love the vooment bonnie went through so much do lost everyone she ever loved

    • @ExtreMe-uk4lm
      @ExtreMe-uk4lm 3 роки тому

      Your name doesn't have anything to do with Bellamy and Clarke?

    • @chansdevon9443
      @chansdevon9443 3 роки тому

      @@ExtreMe-uk4lm umm okay

    • @mishaimran8187
      @mishaimran8187 3 роки тому +9

      Made a promise to Stefan she will never give up on him but then sleeps with his brother.
      Slept with Damon before breaking up with Stefan (cheated on him).
      Slept with a guy who practically r*pped her best friend(and was confident in announcing it).
      Oh and yeah, Damon killed Jeremy like how many times and most of the time it was a coincidence he came back.
      Could kill Klaus ' brother, Kol, but couldn't see Elijah or Jeremy get hurt.
      ALWAYS finds a way to make things about her.
      And after all that she still gets an happy ending.
      I mean yeah she's been through a lot but that doesn't excuse her being a bitch to everyone.

    • @jakalawilliams1701
      @jakalawilliams1701 3 роки тому +4

      @@mishaimran8187 you said it best and always makes things about her lets talk about how Rebecca finnaly trusted her and she put a dagger in her back lets talk about her and damon being together and Stefan have sex with someone else she gets mad like no she's selfish.

  • @PKG25
    @PKG25 3 роки тому +71

    1. Denial
    2. Anger
    3. Bargaining
    4. Depression
    5. Acceptance

  • @lpshorsegirl21equestrian19
    @lpshorsegirl21equestrian19 3 роки тому +7

    You accept it but you never truly get over it

  • @laurenmendes2372
    @laurenmendes2372 3 роки тому +100

    This deserves more hype

  • @HandsAreBlazingRed
    @HandsAreBlazingRed 3 роки тому +58

    I wouldn't wish the feeling of grief on anyone, I lost my brother last year, I haven't been the same and I never will be I fear, I relive it everyday, it hasn't gotten better, I have only become more numb to everything else around me, the emotions I feel are beyond words, the pain is immeasurable and it sucks it really sucks. Just my story not looking for sympathy just throwing in my experience TL:DR grief is extremely painful.

    • @lanabanana2015
      @lanabanana2015 2 роки тому +1

      I lost my father in April and is honestly so-I can't even begin to describe, it's like I'm just moving along but I'm not there. My heart is just an empty pit of pain and so much confusion. Some days I just forget or it's like as if I don't want to remember being in that intensive care unit.
      I was there, I said goodbye. But it's not really registering at the same time.

  • @Maria-ip2mo
    @Maria-ip2mo 3 роки тому +10

    My grandpa died in 2019 of lung cancer
    I was 13 at that time now I'm 15
    I'm still broken
    He was my everything and still is but I miss him so much
    It's just so hard to pretend everything is fine when you know it's not
    Fly high Pa! We miss you here! 💔🕊😭

  • @ninagreen8228
    @ninagreen8228 3 роки тому +2

    You never accept that person gone you just learn how to deal with it you still have your breaks down like around the holidays their birthday or y'all favorite song or someone may look like them

  • @enduremarshall4222
    @enduremarshall4222 3 роки тому +13

    The originals the vampire diaries and 13 reasons why!!!! Hella good examples

  • @natalieg1572
    @natalieg1572 3 роки тому +53

    I love this so much. I just found out my dad had passed and I don’t know how to feel, I haven’t seen him since I was five and I’m now 13.
    What song is this!?

    • @GloriaSummer
      @GloriaSummer  3 роки тому +2

      ua-cam.com/video/ijZMV1AJ3Tg/v-deo.html song

    • @annavoerman9268
      @annavoerman9268 3 роки тому

      Raspa beats remix of dear ex best friend by Tate McRae

  • @lazpup9161
    @lazpup9161 Рік тому +3

    my dads life was taken by his friends and was left to die.. since then ive found out the amount of death ive seen didnt affect me as did dads death did. i found out who was my true friend and who wasn't. they rather let me hear their hurt than to hear my own feelings. i cant accept dads death bc he only just started his life over and wanted to be better. but it was taken from him. i hate waking up thinking ill hear my uncle and mum saying "dads gone"

  • @ok-rf1oj
    @ok-rf1oj 3 роки тому +10

    i really love these videos please never stop posting

  • @Untitled_Novel
    @Untitled_Novel 3 роки тому +11

    GREY’S ANATOMY 💔😭

  • @clarebowron3284
    @clarebowron3284 3 роки тому +10

    This Friday would be 3 years without my Dad.... And I'm still in denial...

    • @GloriaSummer
      @GloriaSummer  3 роки тому +2

      I'm sure he's in a better place. I try to think so, but sometimes I think he's alive and coming home soon. And that hurts me every time.
      So I think you have to live in the present, I'm sure he wants you to be happy.

    • @dramalover143skz
      @dramalover143skz 3 роки тому +3

      Sometime I hear a song he loved listening to or just something that reminds me of him and I start crying, it's been 4 years now and I miss him every day.

    • @clarebowron3284
      @clarebowron3284 3 роки тому +1

      @@dramalover143skz sorry for your loss x

    • @clarebowron3284
      @clarebowron3284 3 роки тому

      @@GloriaSummer thank you.

    • @dramalover143skz
      @dramalover143skz 3 роки тому

      @@clarebowron3284 thank you

  • @xxIAshesIxx
    @xxIAshesIxx 9 місяців тому +1

    Its been 5 years since my best friend died.... I still cant accept that :(

  • @kaileyane3359
    @kaileyane3359 3 роки тому +8

    This gave me chills

  • @hannah_9832
    @hannah_9832 3 роки тому +2

    i think i'm on stage 2...The anger that i feel is something else

  • @honestmyths5839
    @honestmyths5839 4 роки тому +7

    This is so well edited

  • @joeyness7616
    @joeyness7616 2 роки тому +2

    Death is for the one left behind to grieve

  • @lllalaa4221
    @lllalaa4221 3 роки тому +7

    i hope i will get the exeptance part soon, i can't take it anymore

  • @crazybros1683
    @crazybros1683 3 роки тому +3

    I never go to stage 5
    Just on stage 4 all the time

  • @ofuturocomecaraaqui6108
    @ofuturocomecaraaqui6108 2 роки тому

    You're all the colors in one at full brightness....
    Theodore Finch, the one everyone called FREAK...

  • @annavoerman9268
    @annavoerman9268 3 роки тому +1

    I lost my best friend of 8-9 years. It’s my birthday today without him. And I don’t know what to do. I’m supposed to be happy. Everyone expects me to be but I’m not. I’m trying to be but I just don’t feel it. Or anything. I have no clue. I try to text him and it said that he had removed me from his contacts and it broke me.

  • @gracedesire1790
    @gracedesire1790 4 роки тому +16

    Omg this is so good

  • @shainasstudio4891
    @shainasstudio4891 3 роки тому

    Omg i just realised that was 5 feet apart

  • @luvnor
    @luvnor 3 роки тому

    All the bright places :(

  • @brittneyhaynes6798
    @brittneyhaynes6798 3 роки тому +1

    Anyone else going through grief?

  • @marvelcinematic6491
    @marvelcinematic6491 3 роки тому +3

    TVD❤️❤️
    The Originals ❤️💛

  • @alarmsquadnj
    @alarmsquadnj Рік тому

    😢miss you mom

  • @Gothflowers88
    @Gothflowers88 3 роки тому +7

    Sounds silly, but I'm going through this right now. I found out I have DID and it's been overwhelming. I'm in the depression and denial stages. Today is a day where, I just wish I could kill myself then come back when everything is okay. This video is awesome by the by.

  • @andallicansayis
    @andallicansayis Місяць тому

    messed up the bargain but it’s ok

  • @alexcantgame016
    @alexcantgame016 3 роки тому +3

    What's the name of the song? Btw this was really good

  • @riteshkrishna3063
    @riteshkrishna3063 2 роки тому

    Sometimes the 5th one is not possible .

  • @marissagloria8007
    @marissagloria8007 3 роки тому +1

    This is off topic but what song did you use

  • @marcelinewalker
    @marcelinewalker Місяць тому

    what song is this its fire

  • @purelevi
    @purelevi 4 роки тому +2

    Wow so nice😻☹️♥

  • @heranamanuelkidane8861
    @heranamanuelkidane8861 3 роки тому

    What show and season and episode was the clip from at 1:06?

  • @emilydanielle2743
    @emilydanielle2743 4 роки тому +1

    What app do you use to make these?

  • @alicegazet5386
    @alicegazet5386 3 роки тому

    1:54 could you tell me the name of the movie please? 💔

  • @kaypuzayyolu5466
    @kaypuzayyolu5466 3 роки тому

    Love 101 Sinan.. o kadar bensin ki

  • @kissmrule
    @kissmrule 4 роки тому +1

    good video it so good

  • @rashmisiddhi6830
    @rashmisiddhi6830 2 роки тому

    Music?

  • @evelyndaphine337
    @evelyndaphine337 3 роки тому +2

    could someone tell me what series is at minute 1:13

  • @janethelen4824
    @janethelen4824 3 роки тому +2

    What happens if you get stuck in stage 4?

    • @GloriaSummer
      @GloriaSummer  3 роки тому +2

      lingering depression and will need to be treated with a psychotherapist

    • @thewallfangirl2980
      @thewallfangirl2980 3 роки тому

      @@GloriaSummer Would it be bad if I didn’t get the stage denial

    • @AshAsmodeus
      @AshAsmodeus 3 роки тому

      @@thewallfangirl2980 I don't....or maybe better stated, I haven't yet. Anger and bargaining go really fast for me too. I struggle a bit with the depression stage but usually end up at acceptance rather quick. Just don't call me lucky in that regard....it leads to other problems where people don't realise I actually DO go through them OR I have trouble why they linger in them for so long.

  • @amdewerkasfaw7649
    @amdewerkasfaw7649 3 роки тому +6

    Their is only 4 stages :(

  • @nicoleshadowhunters8333
    @nicoleshadowhunters8333 3 роки тому +2

    😭😭😭😥🥺🥺👏👏

  • @supermariojack2091
    @supermariojack2091 Рік тому

    1:07

  • @Hazar-z9i
    @Hazar-z9i 3 роки тому

    Name movie, ,37

  • @FirewrestlingATV
    @FirewrestlingATV 3 роки тому

    Why… why did god have to be so selfish and take away our everything