I remember asking the universe “why, what’s the point of it all” to which I was told “why not” and shown an infinity symbol. I was also left with the sense that I’ve been here before, as though every life I get to the point of asking the same question “why” and always receive the same response.
These videos are so helpful. I'm pretty certain it's a twin flame for me as we are currently in separation and I feel pointless, questioning the entire universe & even when things work out for me I still feel pointless. no other person has made me feel like that about everything. Plus the anxiety of return or never returning. Holy shit you're good. Thank you so much for all you do, whenever things are so overwhelming knowing there's people like you talking about this depp stuff really helps in the darkness.
So on point, all of it truly provides clarity ❤! Could you perhaps do a video someday on living with a new sense of understanding of reality and reshaped sense of identity after ego degradation?
Pointlessness is real but I’m past it now, I stopped caring as much, it’s more like a lingering why… why did I want the experience but not him. If we are “the same” why didn’t we both want it and find a way to make it happen. At least it helped my own spiritual awakening and self love lessons but I don’t think anything more will come, now he’s married with a kid I don’t see him ever leaving that situation. I feel like the universe duped me.
This fits with my marriage that’s currently coming to an end as I progress on existing from my soul and things are improving between my TF and I. The soulmate+karmic is my husband currently. Thank you for this clarity. ❤❤❤
How are you doing now? Did the relationship with your twin flame take precedence over your marriage and lead to its end? Does your former partner (soulmate + karmic) understand?
@@medokarbo Thank you for asking. I’m definitely feeling better as I work on transcending the ego. Yes, my TF relationship has taken precedence over my soulmate marriage. My husband and I are heartbroken over this ending as our families are too. We’re taking the time to heal currently. My TF and I are supporting each other. He’s also married to a karmic.
@@Sudakshina_Kina I don’t see how it (the twin relationship) could NOT take precedence over the marriage, especially if you have stopped growing and there’s a sense that you’re no longer helping one another live your higher purposes. Peace to you sister, I know it’s not easy.
It took me 5 1/2 years to realise I am on a TF journey despite having a pretty textbook experience (I read your book on this) in terms of how things played out (the categorisation, the stages, witnessing and continually being triggered by my runner’s Third Party situations, the extreme and unexplainable energy, multiple and often debilitating ego degradations in the past 6 years and the repeated re-union and separation cycles which has now culminated in a near 3 year separation with no contact) Despite being well on the way to Union with Self at this stage, I (my ego) feels pretty pessimistic about my other 3D incarnation. If it took me (the Chaser) this long to figure out what was going on and I still have so much work do before reaching true equanimity, I can only imagine how much time (if ever) it will take my runner to have the same realisations and even begin their journey to remembering. It’s hard not feel envious of TFs like yourself who managed to get all your ducks in a row (as did your DM) within only 2 or 3 years. On that note I would love more videos ft. your counterpart, as you’re the only creator in this space who doesn’t seem completely delulu (I think, speaking for myself, that is part of what keeps people away from this concept as so many claim to be experts seem so delusional and woo woo) and having a TF runner perspective is so grounding and reaffirming Also, I wanted to ask if it is possible that you may ever re-open your books for consultations in future? I was in your waiting list but unfortunately timings never lined up
Love your video lessons Alexx, they have been such a pivotal guidance throughout my spiritual awakening journey. Sending you much love and bliss! 🙏😊❤️🌟♾️☯️
Your videos have given me great insight so thank you. I have absolutely no doubt that I’ve incarnated in a twin flame dynamic and it’s been recognized by both. You can easily guess that I’m the chaser. You mentioned something that I had not heard before and it hit as the truth, so I’d love to hear you speak more on this or please direct me to a video where you speak on this aspect of the chaser healing during separation and the runner needing the union to heal. The pace and depth of the peace I’ve found through transmuting the pain of separation into unconditional love/oneness has exceeding my (egos) expectation so I had been believing that then he is healing too (which I know is still true since we are one), but I also know his work and had just been reflecting on how our union was able to bring these parts to light in ways that couldn’t had been otherwise. Now I question how he will ever be able to do this alone and under our circumstances, which we created to be currently impossible to come into union in 3D without great damage to our many karmic and soulmate relationships. Trusting in divine timing as it is always the case. So, when you touched on this it was synchronized with how I had just recognized this and of course I’m curious.
Oh my, the more I see your videos the more I’m sure I was in a TF relationship, that is in separation and of course I’m the chases. There are soooo many aspects that match that I’m astonished. My TF is my second relationship, now I understand my first was soulmate + karmic, there is only one point that makes me rationally doubt if this is a TF, cause my soul and heart screams IT IS… and is the sex! I’ll tell it in the end Points that match: my counterpart presented itself as would appear the chaser, and than she became the runner. she said to me that I was like, in her own words “a super combo breaker” as I ticked all things she desires in a person. She became, over the years in our relationship, very emotionally codependent, also in her own words “She entered into symbiosis with me and now she sees how bad this is and she never wants to experience that again”, when she came to me, she considered herself an atheist, she ate badly, was lazy in physical activities, while I was the opposite, highly spiritual, healthy lifestyle, and very energetic in sports. In less than one year, the simple fact of being near to me, she started to blossom spiritually, not because I said she should but because she got inspired by me and my way of feeling and interacting with the divine. Now she’s even “better” than me, she became a really powerful witch, a spiritual healer, that uses her music as her power instrument and reiki, i can say she became a soundhealer and strong medium, she also got empowered (only in separation) with her body and now she does activities and live a healthy life, that happened little by little throughout our 7 years relationship. and In therms of personality we were VERY SIMILAR from the beginning, loving same music, having same goals, same dreams, almost same mood, we saw the world through a very similar lens and could talk hours and hours with never getting tired of each others presence and points of view. From the very beginning she got interested in my vision of life, even considering herself an atheist that nobody before me could convince otherwise. She usually said to me that I unchained the witch inside of her. So the spiritual awakening is very present here. I also got inspired by her, in many aspects, with her I always wanted to be better in every aspect of my life, and we spoked a lot about self love and honor each other individuality, and about us being powerful cosmic beings co creators of our own reality. So together we started this journey of trying to heal our traumas in order to access our higher self. In that process we mirrored all our shadows and flaws and had lots of discussions, we created some uncomfortable dynamics. Through the experiences with me, she realized she did not loved herself, and this created insecurity, and codependency and jealousy attacks with no reasons that took us to exhaustion. I thought I was the strong point of the relationship cause I felt more stable in this manner. When I met her she also had depression and that got cured along our relationship, she said I helped her with that. by helping her realize she had power to heal, but in her words I was also very rude sometimes, she said that when she needed just a hug and support, I mirrored back how much she needed to regain her power, that I helped her but not in the most comfortable way. With this ups and downs I considered us an incredible and connected couple, and in our best phase she wanted to break by saying “I need to know myself and find my power without you. I love you more than everything, but I need to go… and I hope we come back” I supported her decision with great pain and we looked in each others eyes and SAID THE PHRASE “I feel at home in your eyes” It was very painful to overcome my first relationship, it took me7 months of great great pain, felt like I lost my love and best friend, but as I got through this I thought I would also overcome this separation more or less like the same cause “I know the way now”, right? WRONG I got myself questioning my own existence and felt a void in my soul like never before, it’s been one and a half year, she is already dating, and I still feel the void and this pointlessness. In my last break up I was able to connect with other people, with this one I cannot, I changed from a very extroverted person to an introverted one, feel like I will never connect this deep again. I never thought I would be the chaser cause she seemed like that. The sex point that puts doubt in my rational mind is. Our first 3 years was insanely sexual, as she started to get insecure and jealousy that drained me, she wanted sex all the time, everyday morning and night. I really looooved to have sex with her but I started to fell drained, I felt like I had no chance to approach her and she was always thirsty and demanding and charging me saying that I didn't feel the same attraction for her, which is a lie because I see her as a Goddess incarnate. That killed our sexuality for some period of time till she realize that yes she was using sex as medicine for insecurity and lack of self love. And she solved this, and we entered a very comfortable dynamic again, she broke with me, at least as I saw this way. We had sex again after being separated, in some “remembers” and it was always mind blowing , but forna period of time I rejected sex with her cause I felt drained and got libido problems. Now she seem to be happy and I’m depressed, feeling this pointlessness and in a very dark knight o the soul And I want to be back with her, at the same time I feel like I should not, both thoughts and desire triggers anxiety. I know that getting back together would not solve this emotional issues. At the same time I feel like I want reach my best version in order to feel like is right to get back, but I also doubt if is the better and I should move on to a soulmate relationship, even somehow knowing that the connection I had with her is the deepest I could ever experience. Confuse 🥴 it seems like TF?
I had a very strong connection with somebody, but after 3 years of no contact I feel that the connection is over. I thought she was a twin soul but I guess she wasn't.
My ex husband was a soulmate karmic ... all those signs are true. Universal pointlessness is an excellent term! This is definitely how I feel about my twin - it is such a multi-faceted pointlessness - sometimes it is liberating other times sad - and it is true that I never felt 100% secure with my twin. And I never understood it and blamed him and he blamed me. Everything that triggered me about him, he said triggered him as well. It was like we keep on running to each other but never quite getting to each other! 🙄 But when i am annoyed with him, I do use our differences to make myself care less ... it doesn't last though.. soon enough I still feel love for him, and our differences don't really matter ... he is conservative I am liberal, he is in his 20s I am in my 50s ... we might quibble about it sometimes when we were together ... but it's not long after that we don't care! Maybe in the next life we'll get it right ...
@@wearethesamenergy I just watched it. Totally get it. We are in separation, physically for 3 years, no communication for a year. I have gone through many ego deaths and feel really transformed. I don't think we can be just friends though if he is still going through his karmic lessons. I tried, but there was no equal give and take and it felt like he was just leaning on me and not working on himself. I probably haven't got to the point where I totally don't care about his karmic situation (I don't recognise who he is when he's doing all that), but focusing on myself just naturally meant we are not in each other's lives anymore. His karmic is insecure about me and I felt that I was being dragged into his relationship drama. No thanks. I am no longer focused on us being together. The most important relationship right now is the one I have with myself. Thanks for all your work!
Is it possible to achieve an inner union with your twin when you both are in other relationships? You have a video where you talk about choosing a soul mate over your twin and I'm curious if I can continue my awakening journey and expanding even while being in a new relationship. Originally I got divorced (4 years after meeting my twin) but while healing my wounds, attracted a soul mate. Relationship does feel good but I'm committed to my own journey too. I know my current energy (being in a relationship=no space for 3D union) will push him away here in 3D but how about inner union? Will my twin still evolve, even if he never did came back to my life? This journey has been rocky but I truly love him with my whole heart and soul and wish nothing but best to him. To myself. ❤ I'm focusing on selflove and healing my core wounds while trusting the guidance of my higher self (which by the way always reminds me of my twin, so that I can't really move on😅). I also acknowledge that my question is very much ego based and that I'm still living in a separation (even when I feel that we are truly one)
I like your last couple of sentences haha. Union is always with the Self, so what it really comes down to is if you believe you have the space and capacity to reach Union with the Self while you're in a relationship with a Soulmate. I unfortunately cannot answer that for you because I do not own your Ego.
Great video. Quick question, Alexx. Non-twinflame speaking... If you realize that all of these relationships (especially twins) are actually a cosmic dance with 'yourself', therefor there is no 'you', doesn't that mean that you can drop your twin once you realize this?? I mean, what's the use of it? That seems weird...
I actually have a pretty good question or at least I think. Maybe we can make a video on long distance connections and how maybe you’ve met your twin flame online but not in person yet? Does this twin flame journey only get activated with you meet?
I will have a video coming out in September on long distance relationships on the Twin Flame journey. However, you are not on a Twin Flame JOURNEY until you've interacted in person. I speak about this a lot in my book
Hi maam, this video seemed really insightful… something that i dont understand or maybe find confusing is that i think with my apparent tf or so i think i did with one of our reunions think of putting boundaries up so as to not get hurt idk if i was successful but that thought did come so does that mean that its a soul + karmic? I also again with my apparent twin flame even with 5 months of separation and known him 2 years still yearn and pine over it like you mentioned with the soulmate+ karmic and dont know what the lesson is or have i learnt it at all and i believe if i question it I havent truly learnt it right? And lastly i also felt pointlessness in my own life as well as about the universe but what does that makes this connection then? Idk if i am anxious about him coming back but I definitely am anxious about him not coming back more like begging to have him back rather than grow and expand as you mention even after so long…that mean its not an authentic connection right? And also 3 months into my apparent second separation i did go out with friends and went out the first time i had no energy but this time i did and i did let myself go out even for a solo trip 4 months later.. though i was hurting but still what does that mean? If i chose egoic distractions? Even though i felt the pain but still… And i mean this is all my behaviour and actual ones not like the mind is making it up…i could use some guidance as i am feeling confused and lost regarding the same..?
Can u do a video of twin flames where the chaser met the twin after their spiritual awakening and how it will mirror in the runner..also please comment generally on meeting twin flames after spiritual awakening and is there any difference in stages and can the twins come together if they're on different levels spiritually
The chaser does often have a spiritual awakening prior to meeting their twin. It will just increase in separation until it becomes clear that stages and differences only matter to the ego.
@wearethesamenergy thanks, I am loving your book! 🙏 especially the stuff about the runner perspective, I've gone back to reread those parts a few times. 🧘♂️
There aren't "levels" to Soulmates, but Soulmates are awesome and very powerful energetically feeling. You can watch my videos on regular Soulmates on my Soulmate and Soul Tribe playlist 🙏
Hi Alexx, can you explain in short why TF’s never feel comfortable and safe? I feel like I still don’t fully get it. Or do you have a video or a passage/part in your book that explains this?
My twin flame and I have been in separation for the last 15 months. He married a possible soulmate-karmic while in separation from me. I have been married for 37 years to a soulmate-karmic who now has dementia and in a nursing home. I am afraid to divorce him, because I am dependent on his military and police pensions to live on. I don't feel I can count on my two adult children by him to be his caregiver. I desire greatly to come in to full union with my twin flame, but how can I make this right?
Union is not with another person but with the self. I would suggest watching my series "Non-attachment and Union" on my website. It may give you a different perspective on everything you spoke about
This was a very informative video but i am a little confused.. its a little long hope you reply… could use some help.. any little advice would be appreciated.. Been years and still not over like its been with me and like i am still obsessing and second separation is now 5 months in which means i am still so stuck and not doing anything about it even when i know cause its not coming authentically to me means it never was a tf cause as you said if you cant think of anything or any lesson and its been so long and you are suffering could be that its a soulmate + karmic cause with a tf i would know the lesson as you mentioned right? And if i am stuck and not learning any lesson even when i know i have to cause it doesn’t come to means its not a true tf journey right? Again you mentioned about knowing the lesson but not being able to learn it cause i am in my head and still lose patience and still distract myself maybe cause it never was a tf and still pining for this person means i will attract more soul family members to show me the same and that the more you’re away and learning the lesson the more you move on maybe i am also detaching and i just dont know but cause i am scared of losing him and the idea of him created by my mind i call it tf to stay stuck whereas it doesn’t matter and i am still the same not learning the lesson would mean its not right? With a tf you mentioned you dont have enough faux linear time to learn all the lessons and idk if i even know or care about lesson anymore i am just doing my thing maybe just distracting so not learning would mean he is not again and that with a tf you see these lessons clearly but i still have ego i still get angry and dont see them clearly as you would have already guessed and that i dont know if i ever was growing or expanding and the lessons that you mentioned are no longer that hard maybe because they never were there to begin with? Yes i do feel anxious at him never coming back but i also beg sometimes to have him back and dont know if i feel anxious to have him back yes i might have that feeling cause i am scared but usually i cry and want him back and yearn for him… doesnt sound very tf like … can you tell me what this is please?
Universal pointlessness is too real! I very quickly found out that “looking” for your twin in others is futile. Instead just focused on understanding the nature of our connection, while accepting the 3-D reality of it and holding unconditional love for him.
Hi! I am new to your channel. I am still confused if my man is my twin or karmic soulmate. I have tried the numerology calculation and the result is that he is my twin. I have also sought help from different psychic but they are divided. Some say he is my twin and some say he is my karmic soulmate. Can meditation or asking for a sign help? 🙂
I would honestly suggest reading my book, because I talk about all of the members in depth there. Otherwise you can watch some videos from my Karmic playlist and my TF playlist and see what resonates.
It says in the book that at a certain point you should tell your twin about your findings regarding the TF connection that you both have. I never told my twin when I came across these findings. Should I consider doing so?
I remember asking the universe “why, what’s the point of it all” to which I was told “why not” and shown an infinity symbol. I was also left with the sense that I’ve been here before, as though every life I get to the point of asking the same question “why” and always receive the same response.
These videos are so helpful. I'm pretty certain it's a twin flame for me as we are currently in separation and I feel pointless, questioning the entire universe & even when things work out for me I still feel pointless. no other person has made me feel like that about everything. Plus the anxiety of return or never returning. Holy shit you're good. Thank you so much for all you do, whenever things are so overwhelming knowing there's people like you talking about this depp stuff really helps in the darkness.
I'm so happy the videos are resonating, and all of my best and highest vibrations to you on your journey!
This has been the most funky video on TF ever really soulmates PLUS KARMIC WOW
So on point, all of it truly provides clarity ❤! Could you perhaps do a video someday on living with a new sense of understanding of reality and reshaped sense of identity after ego degradation?
I will have this video out in July, actually!
Pointlessness is real but I’m past it now, I stopped caring as much, it’s more like a lingering why… why did I want the experience but not him. If we are “the same” why didn’t we both want it and find a way to make it happen. At least it helped my own spiritual awakening and self love lessons but I don’t think anything more will come, now he’s married with a kid I don’t see him ever leaving that situation. I feel like the universe duped me.
That is for sure a very important piece of or in my „own“ puzzle…
Can‘t wait to get more clarity on this! Much Love ❤
This fits with my marriage that’s currently coming to an end as I progress on existing from my soul and things are improving between my TF and I. The soulmate+karmic is my husband currently. Thank you for this clarity. ❤❤❤
All of my best and highest vibrations to you on your current journey!
@@wearethesamenergy Thank you very much Alexx. 😇💗
How are you doing now? Did the relationship with your twin flame take precedence over your marriage and lead to its end? Does your former partner (soulmate + karmic) understand?
@@medokarbo Thank you for asking. I’m definitely feeling better as I work on transcending the ego. Yes, my TF relationship has taken precedence over my soulmate marriage. My husband and I are heartbroken over this ending as our families are too. We’re taking the time to heal currently. My TF and I are supporting each other. He’s also married to a karmic.
@@Sudakshina_Kina I don’t see how it (the twin relationship) could NOT take precedence over the marriage, especially if you have stopped growing and there’s a sense that you’re no longer helping one another live your higher purposes. Peace to you sister, I know it’s not easy.
It took me 5 1/2 years to realise I am on a TF journey despite having a pretty textbook experience (I read your book on this) in terms of how things played out (the categorisation, the stages, witnessing and continually being triggered by my runner’s Third Party situations, the extreme and unexplainable energy, multiple and often debilitating ego degradations in the past 6 years and the repeated re-union and separation cycles which has now culminated in a near 3 year separation with no contact)
Despite being well on the way to Union with Self at this stage, I (my ego) feels pretty pessimistic about my other 3D incarnation. If it took me (the Chaser) this long to figure out what was going on and I still have so much work do before reaching true equanimity, I can only imagine how much time (if ever) it will take my runner to have the same realisations and even begin their journey to remembering. It’s hard not feel envious of TFs like yourself who managed to get all your ducks in a row (as did your DM) within only 2 or 3 years. On that note I would love more videos ft. your counterpart, as you’re the only creator in this space who doesn’t seem completely delulu (I think, speaking for myself, that is part of what keeps people away from this concept as so many claim to be experts seem so delusional and woo woo) and having a TF runner perspective is so grounding and reaffirming
Also, I wanted to ask if it is possible that you may ever re-open your books for consultations in future? I was in your waiting list but unfortunately timings never lined up
Love your video lessons Alexx, they have been such a pivotal guidance throughout my spiritual awakening journey.
Sending you much love and bliss! 🙏😊❤️🌟♾️☯️
You as well!
@@wearethesamenergy ❤️❤️
Your videos have given me great insight so thank you. I have absolutely no doubt that I’ve incarnated in a twin flame dynamic and it’s been recognized by both. You can easily guess that I’m the chaser. You mentioned something that I had not heard before and it hit as the truth, so I’d love to hear you speak more on this or please direct me to a video where you speak on this aspect of the chaser healing during separation and the runner needing the union to heal. The pace and depth of the peace I’ve found through transmuting the pain of separation into unconditional love/oneness has exceeding my (egos) expectation so I had been believing that then he is healing too (which I know is still true since we are one), but I also know his work and had just been reflecting on how our union was able to bring these parts to light in ways that couldn’t had been otherwise. Now I question how he will ever be able to do this alone and under our circumstances, which we created to be currently impossible to come into union in 3D without great damage to our many karmic and soulmate relationships. Trusting in divine timing as it is always the case. So, when you touched on this it was synchronized with how I had just recognized this and of course I’m curious.
I have a video "How Twin Flames Heal," and my book talks about it in great detail!
Oh my, the more I see your videos the more I’m sure I was in a TF relationship, that is in separation and of course I’m the chases. There are soooo many aspects that match that I’m astonished. My TF is my second relationship, now I understand my first was soulmate + karmic, there is only one point that makes me rationally doubt if this is a TF, cause my soul and heart screams IT IS… and is the sex! I’ll tell it in the end
Points that match: my counterpart presented itself as would appear the chaser, and than she became the runner. she said to me that I was like, in her own words “a super combo breaker” as I ticked all things she desires in a person. She became, over the years in our relationship, very emotionally codependent, also in her own words “She entered into symbiosis with me and now she sees how bad this is and she never wants to experience that again”, when she came to me, she considered herself an atheist, she ate badly, was lazy in physical activities, while I was the opposite, highly spiritual, healthy lifestyle, and very energetic in sports. In less than one year, the simple fact of being near to me, she started to blossom spiritually, not because I said she should but because she got inspired by me and my way of feeling and interacting with the divine. Now she’s
even “better” than me, she became a really powerful witch, a spiritual healer, that uses her music as her power instrument and reiki, i can say she became a soundhealer and strong medium, she also got empowered (only in separation) with her body and now she does activities and live a healthy life, that happened little by little throughout our 7 years relationship. and In therms of personality we were VERY SIMILAR from the beginning, loving same music, having same goals, same dreams, almost same mood, we saw the world through a very similar lens and could talk hours and hours with never getting tired of each others presence and points of view. From the very beginning she got interested in my vision of life, even considering herself an atheist that nobody before me could convince otherwise. She usually said to me that I unchained the witch inside of her.
So the spiritual awakening is very present here. I also got inspired by her, in many aspects, with her I always wanted to be better in every aspect of my life, and we spoked a lot about self love and honor each other individuality, and about us being powerful cosmic beings co creators of our own reality. So together we started this journey of trying to heal our traumas in order to access our higher self. In that process we mirrored all our shadows and flaws and had lots of discussions, we created some uncomfortable dynamics. Through the experiences with me, she realized she did not loved herself, and this created insecurity, and codependency and jealousy attacks with no reasons that took us to exhaustion. I thought I was the strong point of the relationship cause I felt more stable in this manner. When I met her she also had depression and that got cured along our relationship, she said I helped her with that. by helping her realize she had power to heal, but in her words I was also very rude sometimes, she said that when she needed just a hug and support, I mirrored back how much she needed to regain her power, that I helped her but not in the most comfortable way.
With this ups and downs I considered us an incredible and connected couple, and in our best phase she wanted to break by saying “I need to know myself and find my power without you. I love you more than everything, but I need to go… and I hope we come back”
I supported her decision with great pain and we looked in each others eyes and SAID THE PHRASE “I feel at home in your eyes”
It was very painful to overcome my first relationship, it took me7 months of great great pain, felt like I lost my love and best friend, but as I got through this I thought I would also overcome this separation more or less like the same cause “I know the way now”, right? WRONG
I got myself questioning my own existence and felt a void in my soul like never before, it’s been one and a half year, she is already dating, and I still feel the void and this pointlessness. In my last break up I was able to connect with other people, with this one I cannot, I changed from a very extroverted person to an introverted one, feel like I will never connect this deep again. I never thought I would be the chaser cause she seemed like that.
The sex point that puts doubt in my rational mind is.
Our first 3 years was insanely sexual, as she started to get insecure and jealousy that drained me, she wanted sex all the time, everyday morning and night. I really looooved to have sex with her but I started to fell drained, I felt like I had no chance to approach her and she was always thirsty and demanding and charging me saying that I didn't feel the same attraction for her, which is a lie because I see her as a Goddess incarnate. That killed our sexuality for some period of time till she realize that yes she was using sex as medicine for insecurity and lack of self love. And she solved this, and we entered a very comfortable dynamic again, she broke with me, at least as I saw this way.
We had sex again after being separated, in some “remembers” and it was always mind blowing , but forna period of time I rejected sex with her cause I felt drained and got libido problems.
Now she seem to be happy and I’m depressed, feeling this pointlessness and in a very dark knight o the soul
And I want to be back with her, at the same time I feel like I should not, both thoughts and desire triggers anxiety. I know that getting back together would not solve this emotional issues. At the same time I feel like I want reach my best version in order to feel like is right to get back, but I also doubt if is the better and I should move on to a soulmate relationship, even somehow knowing that the connection I had with her is the deepest I could ever experience. Confuse 🥴 it seems like TF?
Appreciate your concluding statement. Hit really home today hearing it as validation to a recent breakthrough.
4:45 Heavy!
I had a very strong connection with somebody, but after 3 years of no contact I feel that the connection is over. I thought she was a twin soul but I guess she wasn't.
Any idea why we would manifest ourselves or anything else?
My ex husband was a soulmate karmic ... all those signs are true. Universal pointlessness is an excellent term! This is definitely how I feel about my twin - it is such a multi-faceted pointlessness - sometimes it is liberating other times sad - and it is true that I never felt 100% secure with my twin. And I never understood it and blamed him and he blamed me. Everything that triggered me about him, he said triggered him as well. It was like we keep on running to each other but never quite getting to each other! 🙄 But when i am annoyed with him, I do use our differences to make myself care less ... it doesn't last though.. soon enough I still feel love for him, and our differences don't really matter ... he is conservative I am liberal, he is in his 20s I am in my 50s ... we might quibble about it sometimes when we were together ... but it's not long after that we don't care! Maybe in the next life we'll get it right ...
Have you watched my video "3D Differences Between Twin Flames?"
@@wearethesamenergy I just watched it. Totally get it. We are in separation, physically for 3 years, no communication for a year. I have gone through many ego deaths and feel really transformed. I don't think we can be just friends though if he is still going through his karmic lessons. I tried, but there was no equal give and take and it felt like he was just leaning on me and not working on himself. I probably haven't got to the point where I totally don't care about his karmic situation (I don't recognise who he is when he's doing all that), but focusing on myself just naturally meant we are not in each other's lives anymore. His karmic is insecure about me and I felt that I was being dragged into his relationship drama. No thanks. I am no longer focused on us being together. The most important relationship right now is the one I have with myself. Thanks for all your work!
Thanks for the clear description
Is it possible to achieve an inner union with your twin when you both are in other relationships? You have a video where you talk about choosing a soul mate over your twin and I'm curious if I can continue my awakening journey and expanding even while being in a new relationship. Originally I got divorced (4 years after meeting my twin) but while healing my wounds, attracted a soul mate. Relationship does feel good but I'm committed to my own journey too. I know my current energy (being in a relationship=no space for 3D union) will push him away here in 3D but how about inner union? Will my twin still evolve, even if he never did came back to my life? This journey has been rocky but I truly love him with my whole heart and soul and wish nothing but best to him. To myself. ❤ I'm focusing on selflove and healing my core wounds while trusting the guidance of my higher self (which by the way always reminds me of my twin, so that I can't really move on😅). I also acknowledge that my question is very much ego based and that I'm still living in a separation (even when I feel that we are truly one)
I like your last couple of sentences haha. Union is always with the Self, so what it really comes down to is if you believe you have the space and capacity to reach Union with the Self while you're in a relationship with a Soulmate. I unfortunately cannot answer that for you because I do not own your Ego.
Thank you and much love
Great video. Quick question, Alexx. Non-twinflame speaking... If you realize that all of these relationships (especially twins) are actually a cosmic dance with 'yourself', therefor there is no 'you', doesn't that mean that you can drop your twin once you realize this?? I mean, what's the use of it? That seems weird...
You can never 'drop your twin' but if you mean the journey, yes. That's the point. It's just ego trying to make a point out of all this anyway.
Yes, and also exactly what @frostalgia333 said in reply! 🙂🙏
@@frostalgia333 Wow, this is so profound, and very sensitive too.
I actually have a pretty good question or at least I think. Maybe we can make a video on long distance connections and how maybe you’ve met your twin flame online but not in person yet? Does this twin flame journey only get activated with you meet?
I will have a video coming out in September on long distance relationships on the Twin Flame journey. However, you are not on a Twin Flame JOURNEY until you've interacted in person. I speak about this a lot in my book
is there a difference? Meeting your twin ,and being on twin flame journey?@@wearethesamenergy
@@wearethesamenergyis there a difference? Meeting your twin ,and being on the twin flame journey?
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Hi maam, this video seemed really insightful… something that i dont understand or maybe find confusing is that i think with my apparent tf or so i think i did with one of our reunions think of putting boundaries up so as to not get hurt idk if i was successful but that thought did come so does that mean that its a soul + karmic? I also again with my apparent twin flame even with 5 months of separation and known him 2 years still yearn and pine over it like you mentioned with the soulmate+ karmic and dont know what the lesson is or have i learnt it at all and i believe if i question it I havent truly learnt it right? And lastly i also felt pointlessness in my own life as well as about the universe but what does that makes this connection then? Idk if i am anxious about him coming back but I definitely am anxious about him not coming back more like begging to have him back rather than grow and expand as you mention even after so long…that mean its not an authentic connection right? And also 3 months into my apparent second separation i did go out with friends and went out the first time i had no energy but this time i did and i did let myself go out even for a solo trip 4 months later.. though i was hurting but still what does that mean? If i chose egoic distractions? Even though i felt the pain but still… And i mean this is all my behaviour and actual ones not like the mind is making it up…i could use some guidance as i am feeling confused and lost regarding the same..?
Can u do a video of twin flames where the chaser met the twin after their spiritual awakening and how it will mirror in the runner..also please comment generally on meeting twin flames after spiritual awakening and is there any difference in stages and can the twins come together if they're on different levels spiritually
The chaser does often have a spiritual awakening prior to meeting their twin. It will just increase in separation until it becomes clear that stages and differences only matter to the ego.
@shostrong I suggest reading my book!
@frostalgia333 I am loving your comments!
@shostrong I also recommend reading her book 'The Soul Family'.. it should answer a lot of your questions 😊
@wearethesamenergy thanks, I am loving your book! 🙏 especially the stuff about the runner perspective, I've gone back to reread those parts a few times. 🧘♂️
NOT GONNA LIE IT WAS OF IMMENSE USE
You usually lie hey ?
@garimasingh2316 So glad it resonated!
Thank you as always Alexx🫶🏽,
I am busy reading your book. But there is a question popping in my head: why can’t twinflames be platonic? ❤️
I talk about it in the Twin Flames chapter 🙂
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Im not there yet, and apparently I can’t skip to that part 🤣
Patience Iguess 😊
I figured you weren't there yet, I just wanted to let you know that your question will soon be answered! 💜🙏
Can you please talk about higher lever soulmate?
There aren't "levels" to Soulmates, but Soulmates are awesome and very powerful energetically feeling. You can watch my videos on regular Soulmates on my Soulmate and Soul Tribe playlist 🙏
Hi Alexx, can you explain in short why TF’s never feel comfortable and safe? I feel like I still don’t fully get it. Or do you have a video or a passage/part in your book that explains this?
It's about how the Ego filters the energy and the consistent triggers
@@wearethesamenergyThanks!
My twin flame and I have been in separation for the last 15 months. He married a possible soulmate-karmic while in separation from me. I have been married for 37 years to a soulmate-karmic who now has dementia and in a nursing home. I am afraid to divorce him, because I am dependent on his military and police pensions to live on. I don't feel I can count on my two adult children by him to be his caregiver. I desire greatly to come in to full union with my twin flame, but how can I make this right?
Union is not with another person but with the self. I would suggest watching my series "Non-attachment and Union" on my website. It may give you a different perspective on everything you spoke about
I was once told in an aakashik record that my twin flame is actually my twin flame + karmic. Is there something like that?
No...but they do teach you Karmic lessons
This was a very informative video but i am a little confused.. its a little long hope you reply… could use some help.. any little advice would be appreciated.. Been years and still not over like its been with me and like i am still obsessing and second separation is now 5 months in which means i am still so stuck and not doing anything about it even when i know cause its not coming authentically to me means it never was a tf cause as you said if you cant think of anything or any lesson and its been so long and you are suffering could be that its a soulmate + karmic cause with a tf i would know the lesson as you mentioned right? And if i am stuck and not learning any lesson even when i know i have to cause it doesn’t come to means its not a true tf journey right? Again you mentioned about knowing the lesson but not being able to learn it cause i am in my head and still lose patience and still distract myself maybe cause it never was a tf and still pining for this person means i will attract more soul family members to show me the same and that the more you’re away and learning the lesson the more you move on maybe i am also detaching and i just dont know but cause i am scared of losing him and the idea of him created by my mind i call it tf to stay stuck whereas it doesn’t matter and i am still the same not learning the lesson would mean its not right? With a tf you mentioned you dont have enough faux linear time to learn all the lessons and idk if i even know or care about lesson anymore i am just doing my thing maybe just distracting so not learning would mean he is not again and that with a tf you see these lessons clearly but i still have ego i still get angry and dont see them clearly as you would have already guessed and that i dont know if i ever was growing or expanding and the lessons that you mentioned are no longer that hard maybe because they never were there to begin with? Yes i do feel anxious at him never coming back but i also beg sometimes to have him back and dont know if i feel anxious to have him back yes i might have that feeling cause i am scared but usually i cry and want him back and yearn for him… doesnt sound very tf like … can you tell me what this is please?
Universal pointlessness is too real! I very quickly found out that “looking” for your twin in others is futile. Instead just focused on understanding the nature of our connection, while accepting the 3-D reality of it and holding unconditional love for him.
Could you please do a video on moving on from the twin? I wish the best for them but I'm tired of them living in my subconscious.
I would suggest watching my series "Non-Attachment and Union" on my website!
Hi! I am new to your channel. I am still confused if my man is my twin or karmic soulmate. I have tried the numerology calculation and the result is that he is my twin. I have also sought help from different psychic but they are divided. Some say he is my twin and some say he is my karmic soulmate. Can meditation or asking for a sign help? 🙂
I would honestly suggest reading my book, because I talk about all of the members in depth there. Otherwise you can watch some videos from my Karmic playlist and my TF playlist and see what resonates.
What if you are married to a soulmate+karmic and have met your TF who is also married, and desire that both remain in your life?
I think you might want to read my book
@@wearethesamenergy cool! I actually have your book and have started it
@@bethanylotze7337 Thank you for your support! Your question should be answered in there. It's a multi-layer answer, that's why I didn't answer on YT
It says in the book that at a certain point you should tell your twin about your findings regarding the TF connection that you both have. I never told my twin when I came across these findings. Should I consider doing so?
@@bethanylotze7337 Please watch my video "The Runner and the Concept of Twin Flame"
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