Dad Doesn’t Want to Leave my Mom. A Tough Moment to Watch 🥲

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  • Опубліковано 31 жов 2024
  • Dad and I having lunch at Mom’s place. It’s difficult to get him to leave the building without Mom.

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  • @dinaturmataroc2486
    @dinaturmataroc2486 49 хвилин тому +3

    True love❤

  • @lpri
    @lpri 32 хвилини тому +5

    I'm sure Joanne has always been a fiercely independent, strong and resilient person. Glad to see her looking well❤❤

  • @MimisLittleCityHomestead
    @MimisLittleCityHomestead 3 години тому +126

    He always worries about his family, never complains about himself. He is a wonderful man. ❤️

    • @monicaclark9581
      @monicaclark9581 43 хвилини тому +1

      Your such a good son Dan. We're thankful your mother is in relatively good health. And lives in a nice assisted living apartments. It's heartwarming to see your father's concern for his ex wife. Hope your mother isn't annoyed by it.

    • @norrisc7163
      @norrisc7163 16 хвилин тому

      ​@@monicaclark9581Yes Assistant Living for Senior Citizens looks like a really nice place

    • @JulieStokes-ip3hv
      @JulieStokes-ip3hv 8 хвилин тому

      Dan you have such a beautiful father son relationship. Your dad's heart is so pure!❤

  • @SpiritAnimal1212
    @SpiritAnimal1212 19 хвилин тому +3

    Throughout the memory loss, he has never lost his worry and concern about who is looking after her and her finances. Bless his heart. What a kind and caring man💙.

  • @lostintranslation48
    @lostintranslation48 13 хвилин тому +3

    That breaks my heart. The look of confusion and probably anxiety he feels. You are so patient and kind to him

  • @kaicee5463
    @kaicee5463 3 години тому +67

    Oh man. True love NEVER DIES.

  • @barbaramiller4856
    @barbaramiller4856 22 хвилини тому +2

    Mom means a lot to Dad. Worries and always making sure she is a good that is Love!!! ❤️

  • @forrestmanueljr9196
    @forrestmanueljr9196 3 години тому +73

    He has such a kind soul. You know a person is a real treasure when they dont have full control of their mind but their compassion still shines through strong!

  • @MsDee409
    @MsDee409 3 години тому +29

    Dr. Ed, always the Gentleman.❤

  • @anablepsis
    @anablepsis 3 години тому +46

    Though tough to watch, Grandpa’s heart really shines through. He cares about your Mom Dan…. He gleefully called you Dan again today! 😊

  • @maryjanelopez4181
    @maryjanelopez4181 3 години тому +60

    God bless you Dan for taking care of your parents! 🙏❤️

    • @dsalnorcal1434
      @dsalnorcal1434  Годину тому +2

      @@maryjanelopez4181 I have to atone for what I put them through as a kid. 😁

    • @cindifischer6919
      @cindifischer6919 Годину тому

      ​@@dsalnorcal1434were you a brat?? I was.

  • @helenschneider9926
    @helenschneider9926 Годину тому +9

    He remembers loving your mom! He doesn’t remember why they divorced! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @mbro11
    @mbro11 3 години тому +41

    ❤ he’s so kind even when confused

  • @CynthiaGamble-do6mw
    @CynthiaGamble-do6mw 3 години тому +21

    Aww, thats touching, he has alot of love for her and it shall never go away i find that so sweet

  • @ChristinaNguyen23
    @ChristinaNguyen23 3 години тому +17

    Grandpa is the sweetest man in the world. He cares everyone in his family ❤I wish I'll find a good man like him 🙏

  • @Amy-oj6lu
    @Amy-oj6lu 2 години тому +19

    Awe, bless his heart!! 💕
    Good to see your momma doing well again, Dan. 😊

  • @edinsyracuse1669
    @edinsyracuse1669 Годину тому +6

    Dr. Ed is what every father should strive to be. Watching him with nothing but love in his heart for his family is beautiful. This family tree is SOLID!!

  • @johnnybaggins777
    @johnnybaggins777 3 години тому +11

    You certainly can't deny that Ed still loves your mom.

  • @Jane-ik1yb
    @Jane-ik1yb Годину тому +5

    We need MORE good people like your Dad in this world!! 🌎❣️

  • @Jsh465
    @Jsh465 50 хвилин тому +4

    It’s so bittersweet. Your patience is remarkable

  • @triplejjj9290
    @triplejjj9290 3 години тому +19

    This always amazes me! Through all the other confusion, his love and compassion for your mom is not forgotten. ❤💜❤

  • @ruckinehround6965
    @ruckinehround6965 2 години тому +7

    Always a gentleman, always polite. The salanger men are good stock.

  • @Sami-dp5ss
    @Sami-dp5ss 3 години тому +16

    This is what a true love looks like ❤️ 🥰

  • @CaliMishell
    @CaliMishell Годину тому +7

    He still has such an affinity for your Mom ❤️

  • @elainemaldonado2932
    @elainemaldonado2932 Годину тому +5

    He broke my heart literally he thinks abandoned her Dan your the best son ever 🙏🏼

  • @kathylindberg1754
    @kathylindberg1754 Годину тому +8

    Took care of both Parents. No regrets. Your doing a great job.

  • @rhondaivory3009
    @rhondaivory3009 2 години тому +7

    Breaks my heart. Bless his precious heart.

  • @APRNpeds35
    @APRNpeds35 Годину тому +4

    What a sweet old man your dad is. He is just so thoughtful. He must have been a great doctor.

  • @yolandaolson9595
    @yolandaolson9595 32 хвилини тому

    Your dad is a good man. He has a strong sense of duty. Good values straight from the heart of God.

  • @dianedevery2662
    @dianedevery2662 50 хвилин тому +2

    Very sad. What a lovely, lovely man your father is ❤

  • @nicolemitt1
    @nicolemitt1 2 години тому +10

    Aww 🥰 he still cares about her god bless his heart ❤

  • @fnfailure
    @fnfailure 3 години тому +31

    Even though they are divorced you can tell he still loves her deaply

  • @ItsMePaulyC
    @ItsMePaulyC 3 години тому +11

    Your dad is such a sweet man a very unselfish. Always thinking about his family. It's tough watching moments like this, God bless him and you too for always looking out for him.

  • @CCelia1953
    @CCelia1953 Годину тому +2

    DÀN, Earth ANGEL!!!!.. Much love Brother❤🎉

  • @mommabearmaryann8106
    @mommabearmaryann8106 3 години тому +12

    Poor Pop. This is heartbreaking to watch. I can't even imagine what it's like to live through it. Stay strong. Sending love and prayers.😊🙏❤

  • @philestenamcleod9128
    @philestenamcleod9128 3 години тому +10

    Thanks Dan for caring for your, your dedication is immeasurable. Your blessings are immense.

  • @angelaheras5466
    @angelaheras5466 59 хвилин тому +3

    He loves and cares for her, Dan. Your mom will always be in his heart and mind.❤

  • @coco244110
    @coco244110 44 хвилини тому +3

    OMG, I just love your Dad!

  • @andieclem5401
    @andieclem5401 3 години тому +30

    Seriously, this broke my heart. It only proves that Ed never stopped loving his Joan. His love for her is forever.

    • @dsalnorcal1434
      @dsalnorcal1434  Годину тому +8

      @@andieclem5401 true story: on the day the divorce became final he told her he would always take care of her.

    • @Ruby-K
      @Ruby-K 27 хвилин тому

      @@dsalnorcal1434 I believe your father always feels responsible for your mother. I think he regrets divorcing her perhaps or he just can't remember why now. It's nice to see a man want to take responsibility in such a situation, same in my culture/religion. Deep down love is stronger than anything else....

  • @robinham2796
    @robinham2796 3 години тому +11

    He just keeps shining through with his kind loving heart!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @carollynt
    @carollynt Годину тому +4

    You are so patient. I love how you reply with “I don’t know” sometimes. It cuts off the circular questioning and settles things down. Bless you all!

  • @marisolpinney8406
    @marisolpinney8406 9 хвилин тому

    This was a HEART BREAKER !! DR . ED KNOWS HOW TO CARE. ❤❤❤

  • @idagonzalez291
    @idagonzalez291 3 години тому +7

    Grandpa Is So Sweet, Love You Grandpa ♥️🫂

  • @ms.carlettawilson1522
    @ms.carlettawilson1522 Годину тому +4

    Such a gentleman this right here bring tears to my eyes he is so worried about your mom. God bless him. You can tell he still love her.❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jojosstory9667
    @jojosstory9667 Годину тому +2

    Bless his heart you can tell the love he has for his family buddy ❤ Heavenly Father i ask that you Bless this family they all are such good kindhearted people 🙏❤️

  • @DebbiMarks1
    @DebbiMarks1 3 години тому +7

    Your mom looks great Dan. Pops will always love her. Such sad yet precious moments 💜🩷🙏

  • @PrivacynolongerexistsG
    @PrivacynolongerexistsG 54 хвилини тому +2

    Goes to show that the mother of his children is always the queen.

  • @joflem2909
    @joflem2909 Годину тому +3

    Awe Dan, sad but lovely. He is so concerned about everything, despite the illness. I hope Joanne is okay too. 😊❤

  • @doglover44
    @doglover44 3 години тому +6

    Ed's love for Joanne will never end! 😊. He sincerely cares for her❤

    • @bridgettmcgivney2471
      @bridgettmcgivney2471 2 години тому +1

      Well, thats what happens, when you dont let ppl grow. And want to be a control freak . You dont know what you had until you lose it

  • @mstea4325
    @mstea4325 2 години тому +6

    This made my heart happy! Thank you for sharing, Dan!
    Genuine love and concern🥰 God bless you all....

  • @reginashepard3675
    @reginashepard3675 Годину тому +2

    Love his wife!😊🙏🌹

  • @MickeyMouse-jx7bq
    @MickeyMouse-jx7bq 3 години тому +7

    He is so precious it’s nice to see your mom and dad together❤❤❤❤❤❤😢

    • @dsalnorcal1434
      @dsalnorcal1434  3 години тому +3

      I enjoy it. The redundancy can be quite difficult on my mom. But they see each other quite often.

  • @nataliegonzales1724
    @nataliegonzales1724 2 години тому +3

    I love the respect he has for her and she doesn't have to yell at him like everyone else 😂 when she speaks he hears and listens 😂

  • @johndoe-lm7ji
    @johndoe-lm7ji Годину тому +2

    I love when families take care of the loved ones that looked after them. This is hope! The stories I hear about old folk homes doing to people. I would rather just look after my own.

  • @Wesley-it1nm
    @Wesley-it1nm 2 години тому +4

    A real gentleman ❤️

  • @cho7707
    @cho7707 2 години тому +3

    Pop knows his good memories! Good memories are never forgotten, no matter what. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @KenIvywood
    @KenIvywood 59 хвилин тому +2

    Dan has a big heart ♥️

  • @audreywilliamson1035
    @audreywilliamson1035 Годину тому +2

    Bless Papa Ed he reminds me so much of my Poppop and miss that man every single day ❤❤❤❤

  • @judywiggins5092
    @judywiggins5092 3 години тому +4

    Bless him sweet Jesus.

  • @shelleyboggs2527
    @shelleyboggs2527 3 години тому +6

    Very tenderhearted…

  • @ayronsmama05
    @ayronsmama05 3 години тому +26

    Pop will always remember his 1st love! I lost mine to cancer this past June 5th and today would have been our 38th wedding anniversary, I miss him!

    • @ginacap100
      @ginacap100 3 години тому +6

      I understand, I lost my Husband this past February, and my son in January of this year.

    • @seriouslyreal2693
      @seriouslyreal2693 3 години тому +2

      I’m sorry for your loss

    • @Rumpshakerrrrr
      @Rumpshakerrrrr 3 години тому +1

      Sorry happy anniversary

    • @darlapremeaux7006
      @darlapremeaux7006 2 години тому +1

      Sorry for your loss happy anniversary

    • @lisadamico8278
      @lisadamico8278 2 години тому +1

      My condolences to you all who have lost loved ones.
      🙏

  • @LauraBaileyTravels
    @LauraBaileyTravels 3 години тому +7

    How sweet 🥰

  • @williamcasey9501
    @williamcasey9501 2 години тому +10

    How heart breaking. He still loves her. Good job. Dan

  • @grammyb5216
    @grammyb5216 3 години тому +6

    As a 65 year old woman who divorced my children’s father many years ago, I hate this so much. God bless you all. ♥️🙏

    • @dsalnorcal1434
      @dsalnorcal1434  3 години тому +12

      Like I tell my kids. When you have kids with someone, it’s a forever thing.

    • @grammyb5216
      @grammyb5216 3 години тому +5

      @ I do too. So far they are much better than their momma. Thank God 🙏 Thank you Dan. Sending Love from Texas.

  • @VanessaRenda-r2p
    @VanessaRenda-r2p 2 години тому +8

    He still wants to take care of her ❤ It is sweet he still loves her ❤

  • @KathyMarcum-sn1bw
    @KathyMarcum-sn1bw 3 години тому +7

    So sweet

  • @malinda4664
    @malinda4664 3 години тому +3

    Dr Ed has such a big heart❤

  • @gardengirl7446
    @gardengirl7446 2 години тому +1

    Thank you, Joanne ❤

  • @drsusanjstone
    @drsusanjstone 28 хвилин тому

    "How the hell is she going to do that ... pay for this place where she's living" 💖 always practical 💖

  • @MAGAEATSBOOGERS1
    @MAGAEATSBOOGERS1 3 години тому +4

    What a nice looking place. That is so great she has a nice place to eat, friends and security all at one place.

  • @theteal123
    @theteal123 3 години тому +2

    He is precious and you are too. Such a good son to your parents. I believe this happens when parents are good to their children. What goes around comes around.❤

  • @FLUFFYKC35
    @FLUFFYKC35 3 години тому +3

    This is so heartbreaking ... I know he loves your Mom so much... I wish things were better... I get it, I deal with it with my own parents..

  • @marilynwatts1435
    @marilynwatts1435 3 години тому +1

    Such a beautiful beautiful person love never dies goddess bless you all ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @CookiesandCream485
    @CookiesandCream485 3 години тому +1

    Best Son and Dad EVER❤😊❤😊

  • @1970karenleah
    @1970karenleah 3 години тому +6

    That's a man that wants to protect her

  • @donnataylor980
    @donnataylor980 3 години тому +10

    ❤ he's so sweet❤ he always worries about his family❤😊❤

  • @ellenhatfield
    @ellenhatfield Годину тому +1

    So, so sweet. Real love never dies no matter the twists and turns it takes. Bless you and your family❣️

  • @pamn9206
    @pamn9206 3 години тому +1

    So heart breaking But thanks for sharing.Grandpa is a gentleman ❤❤.

  • @musicastro9743
    @musicastro9743 Годину тому

    Pop has golden heart He is really Blessed Soul ❤

  • @simojovic6358
    @simojovic6358 Годину тому +1

    Bless his heart

  • @ashaqaar7330
    @ashaqaar7330 2 години тому +2

    I just like the way you take care dad and I hope your son do the same thing when you reach that time dan ❤️💕💕🙏

  • @mayaluna11
    @mayaluna11 2 години тому +6

    Dementia can't touch his enormous heart. My mom sometimes didn't recognize me, but she knew she loved me. Bless your amazing dad. It's reassuring to see him cared for so well.

  • @claudibiscotti4710
    @claudibiscotti4710 2 години тому +1

    What a man, he must have been a loving husband❤️ and still is a loving man❤️

  • @manie54321
    @manie54321 59 хвилин тому

    🌷Thank You for sharing your experience with your family. I learn and appreciate humility more because of your videos. ❤❤❤❤

  • @hmcconomy
    @hmcconomy Годину тому +2

    Aww bless his heart, your such a wonderful son, dan,and danielle too both of u are angels,I take care of my mom at night and weekend, I work as a nurse during week 8 to 4

  • @bobbibartley549
    @bobbibartley549 2 години тому +5

    So sad... He just doesn't understand that they divorced as his long term memory recalls them being married. I hope Marks dog is ok! XX🤞

    • @judyb4674
      @judyb4674 Годину тому +1

      I don't know who left who & why, but Dad seems to remember the time they did care for each other & had a precious family together. She has got to be a strong & forgiving person because divorce is very hard & painful. Dan & Danielle, you are the kindest people to guide these parents with such love the way you do. It is a very tough task & you do it with such respect and kindness. You are a wonderful family and it means a lot to let us follow your journey.

  • @lorisheheen2198
    @lorisheheen2198 3 години тому +4

    Awww...Grandpa doesn't want your Mom to be alone.🥹 He is a true gentleman with the kindest soul. Dan...I am so happy to see your mom doing well!🙏❤

  • @notfunnynews
    @notfunnynews 2 години тому +2

    You are the coolest son on the planet. Lost my Dad a couple years ago . And I'm too old to have kids. Your awesome.

  • @kimgould6399
    @kimgould6399 2 години тому +1

    What a good man Ed is.

  • @chrissyf68
    @chrissyf68 2 години тому +2

    Nice to see your Mom feeling better n up n walking around. She looks good😮 Grandpa is very concerned, n worried about your Mom. He doesn't feel comfortable leaving her all alone at the house. What a True caring man he still is. He worries about everyone.
    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @t21229513
    @t21229513 3 години тому +2

    I know you said enjoy at the end of your intro but I think by now many of keep up with you out of sheer support and care. Even though we’ve never met and I live in NYC.

  • @maryjohnson1890
    @maryjohnson1890 Годину тому +2

    Dad knows your Mom is in a nursing facility. I give your Dad credit for knowing the difference between someone's private residence and a skilled nursing facility.

    • @doreendaykin6693
      @doreendaykin6693 22 хвилини тому

      It appears to me it is sort of an independent living set up…

  • @solangekeller5887
    @solangekeller5887 3 години тому +3

    Ironic what the mind forgets; who’s going to take care of her? The same person who has for over 45 years: Joanne herself. I’m glad to see that your mom is self:sufficient, even now.

  • @JackieCP-kq9pg
    @JackieCP-kq9pg 2 години тому

    Ed is the sweetest, nicest and best bred man ever. Truly an inspiration.

  • @Zirin-md7pg
    @Zirin-md7pg 3 години тому +5

    Oh Gosh that was hard I was crying! Just show happy Pop I know that's impossible but I happy he had more good days than not so good days😇😇🥰😍

  • @Robert_Presto
    @Robert_Presto 2 години тому +1

    My heart ❤goes out to your Dad !

  • @ChilledOut
    @ChilledOut Годину тому +1

    Always the provider Pops ❤

  • @theresatumidajski5219
    @theresatumidajski5219 2 години тому +3

    So much love for Joanne. Hard to believe they divorced.

  • @terriberrens2144
    @terriberrens2144 3 години тому +4

    A good man

  • @PrettyChrysalis
    @PrettyChrysalis 32 хвилини тому

    I hope your mom & dad live together in 1 house. Beautiful family. I love watching your videos. ❤