Loneliness: Why I Have No Friends

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  • Опубліковано 15 вер 2024
  • Hey, my second video. Feel free to comment / subscribe.

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  • @Jaylio
    @Jaylio 6 років тому +31

    Being alone is one of the most emptiest feelings in the world, it’s been 4 years since I had a friend. It hurts at the start but I kinda got used to it. I still wish I had someone to talk to though :/

    • @Jaylio
      @Jaylio 6 років тому

      marboni I don’t have WhatsApp, you can add me as a contact on UA-cam though youtu.be/addme/SRLbQo1lolypz0EXDx895SsbJoD6qg

    • @impossibledreams6115
      @impossibledreams6115 6 років тому +2

      I'll be you're friend. I want to know you, got snap chat?

  • @DJ-lu7ec
    @DJ-lu7ec 7 років тому +16

    Every word hit me like a brick, at least you have family to talk to. They have all abandoned me as well as my "friends". It's funny how people can just walk out of your life when it's at it's worst. What a great world we live in. Well hope it gets better for you and I do mean that.

  • @OnlyTeardrops84
    @OnlyTeardrops84 8 років тому +42

    32, still living with my parents. No friends. i just go to work, eat , sleep, repeat. Hurting more and more

    • @Xeloph
      @Xeloph  8 років тому +5

      I'm sorry for this :( Hope things get better for you

    • @michaelbuckle2181
      @michaelbuckle2181 7 років тому +1

      Ano Nymous Ty for the kind words. Still the same. Im staying strong while my parents are alive

    • @YKIMPetje95
      @YKIMPetje95 6 років тому

      same however I rent a house now... If you have a ps4 we can game someday

    • @nikmuhamadizzat9903
      @nikmuhamadizzat9903 6 років тому

      Only Teardrops im 17 hopefully i can get job collect money and travel alone maybe i can find my partner while travel

    • @davidf2763
      @davidf2763 4 роки тому +1

      How are things now?

  • @highfrequency1483
    @highfrequency1483 9 років тому +8

    To all the people that feel alone or have similar situations you are not alone theres alot of ppl friendless

  • @xermita
    @xermita 3 роки тому +2

    20 yo never been in a relationship,nobody's interested in me,never had true meaningful relationship,I had one childhoid friend and she left me too,keep failing at college and repeating boring classes over and over again,I tried to find a job but my anxiety is always blocking me,i get jealous of other people and comparing myself to them,i know how unhealthy this is but hey we can't stop negative thinking so easily...

  • @loganfinnell5271
    @loganfinnell5271 8 років тому +7

    It takes guts to say these things. I hope everything gets better for you.

  • @JordanRichard
    @JordanRichard 9 років тому +14

    My stories similar :/ never had many friends and can relate to most of what u said... Hope everythings better for u now man tho

    • @Xeloph
      @Xeloph  9 років тому +2

      Jordie Vuitton Hey, I'm both glad and sorry you find my story relatable.. Nothing had changed really except for graduating high school and right now I'm about to join the military as the service is mandatory.. Though I strongly wish you would see better. Take care buddy.

  • @ravias20
    @ravias20 8 років тому +12

    I am now 17 years. I have never had any friends. Every year we are changing classes. It feels like everyone know each other, but I dont know anyone. And thats because of parties I am never invited to. I have never been at a party, and I feel even worse when the whole school is invited, but not me.
    It feels like I will never get any friends. I am really looking for ti start at university. Start from scratch. I feel now that I have a better selfconfidence and are ready to meet new people. I will not be able to join the friend-groups now

    • @Xeloph
      @Xeloph  8 років тому +7

      I think that while it does suck to not be invited to parties, you should think that people that don't want to talk to you are not worth you being sad over them.
      I think high school is a very crappy environment for sensitive people or just generally people who have less luck than other people and wounded up in classes with people who don't suit them..
      I strongly believe after high school you would meet new people that you would actually like, rather than going to parties and talking to people who aren't necessarily your type..
      Hang in there buddy.. Try to do things that you like, sign in to courses or listen to some good music, finish your studies, the people that are right for you will come eventually.. Feel free to talk to me whenever you want. Peace

  • @marboni1579
    @marboni1579 6 років тому +4

    you remind me of a friend i had one day...

  • @abovethelaw4417
    @abovethelaw4417 5 років тому +7

    i love being a loner and u should also embrace loneliness and solitude because it takes a brave person to be a loner

  • @JakeBayCity
    @JakeBayCity 4 роки тому +2

    I have like two close friends however we rarely see each other but we talk often. I’m afraid of getting older and having no one. My family is very small.

  • @paperstreet1042
    @paperstreet1042 9 років тому +2

    @loneangel can totally relate, parents moved me to bad school, was torture. went to university became popular, left university and moved to new city - still friendless.
    life can be so cruel, because im pretty outgoing but have no social support.
    I hope things improve for you, especially since you seem like a genuine dude.

  • @depitesenate8247
    @depitesenate8247 7 років тому +2

    I'm going to subscribe just because of your honesty and I want your chanel to grow so you can help ppl like you are doing. but . I get it, it's good to have friends. but it's not a most. you should tell you fans that bro. stay strong. and do not worry. everything will be ight

  • @EnglishBOYxxx
    @EnglishBOYxxx 7 років тому +6

    Most people if I have no friends it mean you're more intelligent

    • @EnglishBOYxxx
      @EnglishBOYxxx 7 років тому +1

      So true

    • @infinitechoices1641
      @infinitechoices1641 6 років тому +6

      Or you could be different. Have different interest, talk about things no one talks about. Id like to say that there are alot of different groups of people in this world maybe you are one of the more rare people that cant find hes ''group''. I like science a ton talk about it everyday with my family. Now try and find someone with the same interest as me. So far ive met no one that has the same type of interest as me in my life. No one im my school that i know knows that stars die what is extreemly basic knowledge for someone that is interested in science. I did a presentation on this the teacher was mindblown but the kids (i was 15 back then, 17 now.) where just sleeping. This is just one example. How about the music i listen to? Someone who watches esports? No one listens to the same music i do and no one has heard of esports. I guess the people of my age are just sheep following trends, listening to whatever is popular. Doing whatever is popular. I remember when fidget spinners where a trend i had them in my face the entire month, what a nightmare that month was. People laughing about them and shit its just a fucking object that spins lmao.

  • @michauxborns
    @michauxborns Рік тому +1

    I live alone & am lonely. I have just one friend but he only visits when he knows I got paid from my job. We play video games for 30 minutes, then he gets up & takes money from my wallet & leaves.

  • @andrewf4623
    @andrewf4623 6 років тому +2

    Sometimes (most of the time) day to day life gets in the way of making friends ... there’s always something more important going on :(

  • @onlyrvre
    @onlyrvre 5 років тому +3

    I'm going through this right now and it hurts so much , I feel very empty

    • @abovethelaw4417
      @abovethelaw4417 5 років тому +1

      U should be happy u have no friends because it's peaceful anyways I love being a loner

  • @paulcooper5748
    @paulcooper5748 8 років тому +2

    im in the same position but im older i can relate it can bring you down.

  • @psb258
    @psb258 8 років тому +16

    You are so beautiful...

    • @Xeloph
      @Xeloph  8 років тому +3

      Awh thank you :)

  • @ando1135
    @ando1135 6 років тому +1

    i used to hang out with these group of guys like in middle and part of high school but they never saw me as a friend....i was just a fly on the wall. i dont know why i sat with them....i just really dont. god, i can relate. One day i was just like....no, why do i sit with these people pretending to be friends with them...so i stopped hanging around them. i was alone in HS from sophmore to senior year and it didnt bother me. I liked being alone and in my own company...at least i felt genuine. I would sit in the library during lunch to read or do hw. It all changed when i went to college...i started having friends...for real...actual people that wanted to hang out with me. of course, im alone again but the loneliness is so much more apparent now. Its been a while since ive been in college but my god does the loneliness suck. i hope you have friends now! if not, dont worry...you are NOT alone in this.

    • @Xeloph
      @Xeloph  6 років тому +2

      ando1135 Thank you and I’m sorry you became lonely again after finally having friends. This world does this to people and everything is so sudden, hope you find your place again

  • @millicentevans9232
    @millicentevans9232 6 років тому

    You are never alone be strong you are a lovely guy. Keep the faith and never give up. The devil is a liar its him tell the devil to get behind you. And be happy who you are peace be with you ♥️

  • @MrAxendersp
    @MrAxendersp 4 роки тому +1

    It's time to crash in a good little church group where you will have wonderful fellowship and belonging ...good luck...

  • @kevindavis4709
    @kevindavis4709 7 років тому +2

    what I do is make hobbys like working on electronics or build your own radio station like I did. or do videos reaching out to people or really helps allot I'm 31 I have no friends that's why I'm good at my hobbys trust me bro high school never ends no your not in school anymore butt people's actions are still the same.

    • @marboni1579
      @marboni1579 6 років тому

      Kevin Davis , hey man, I'm a lot like you are. I moved to other city with my wife and I have no friends too and , I don't know I'd rather to keep this way than begging for attention. Well, I thought very interesting what you said about building your own radio station, how is it possible? .

  • @theero
    @theero 7 років тому +2

    Hey i'm currently in the same boat now. I used to have many friends, but i was real good friends with a couple of people. I kinda isolated myself from the big group and only talk to the 2 but now, one is gone to university, and i barely see anybody now.
    Hope things turn around for you, i'm trying to turn it around for me

  • @meatcurtains8138
    @meatcurtains8138 2 роки тому

    If handsome guys like these are lonely then we are absolutely fucked

  • @vickielynn273
    @vickielynn273 8 років тому +1

    I tell you... there is a difference between being alone and being lonely. Being alone is sometimes good,but but lonely is another one. If you're lonely that means you have no friends or family members to talk to. You obvivhave no social life either. It's sad,but the truth is that you can make some friends and you can find someone to talk to.

    • @Xeloph
      @Xeloph  8 років тому +2

      Yeah well..

  • @reesecenter3595
    @reesecenter3595 4 роки тому +1

    Dude all you need is self confidence, everyone you meet may not like you. Im pretty sure if you find a common interest you're good

  • @depitesenate8247
    @depitesenate8247 7 років тому +4

    I like your video. loll. you are honest. the truth is. you don't really need friends. believe me. I had a couple friends in high school but now I don't. I dumped a couple of them and a couple of them dumped me. and I'm cool with that. I don’t have friends now but I'm happy. sometimes I do want friends because I feel like ppl are judging me for not having friends. but yeah. as long as you learn to live with yourself. fuck everyone else.

    • @marboni1579
      @marboni1579 6 років тому

      i wonder if you have no reason

  • @HelloWorld-il2pn
    @HelloWorld-il2pn 9 років тому

    You are a interesting person, love to see videos from you!

    • @Xeloph
      @Xeloph  9 років тому +2

      Snow Field Thank you! :) I should have some up as soon as I find a subject to talk about :P

  • @manojmaity5387
    @manojmaity5387 6 років тому +6

    hey add some more videos to your channel. I feel you

    • @marboni1579
      @marboni1579 6 років тому +1

      hey we can talk trough whatapp if you want...don't worry i'm not a freak...

    • @manojmaity5387
      @manojmaity5387 6 років тому

      marboni sure share no.

    • @marboni1579
      @marboni1579 6 років тому +1

      have some experience to share with me?

    • @manojmaitydm
      @manojmaitydm 6 років тому +1

      i am introvert, so my friends misunderstood and make fun of me. So i slowly withdrawn myself. what about you?

    • @marboni1579
      @marboni1579 6 років тому

      are you sure you have friends?

  • @shamimataslim8528
    @shamimataslim8528 6 років тому +4

    Why'd I care about people not giving me attention, who I don't know? Is it necessary to make relationships with stranger. Can't loneliness be a normal thing?

  • @klattalexis
    @klattalexis 6 років тому +1

    Check out this video: ua-cam.com/video/diLXXZrxgIk/v-deo.html

  • @Rusty511
    @Rusty511 7 років тому +3

    I've been losing all my friends over the last 8 years. Finally, I've come to accept it and never looked back. Get yourself a girlfriend, it makes nothing else matter

    • @Xeloph
      @Xeloph  7 років тому +2

      I know exactly what you mean buddy. Sorry this happened to you.

    • @starhead9648
      @starhead9648 6 років тому +1

      LoneAngel post more plz 💗

  • @impossibledreams6115
    @impossibledreams6115 6 років тому +1

    Order teal swans book "the anatomy of loneliness"

  • @danakitty4031
    @danakitty4031 6 років тому

    Awww so cute

    • @Xeloph
      @Xeloph  6 років тому

      I like your nickname

  • @footballer6558
    @footballer6558 4 роки тому

    I have no friends to😔😔😔😢😢😢😭😭😭😭

  • @manojmaity5387
    @manojmaity5387 7 років тому +1

    Hey, how are you??

  • @highfrequency1483
    @highfrequency1483 9 років тому +1

    What you say abt the future you are in control of what happns the future is you insanity is doing the same thing expecting different results be brave & talk to people

  • @infinitechoices1641
    @infinitechoices1641 6 років тому +1

    You just gotta find a girlfriend and you wont need them.

    • @manojmaity5387
      @manojmaity5387 6 років тому +1

      if you don't have friends no girl will show interest :P

    • @infinitechoices1641
      @infinitechoices1641 6 років тому +1

      Find a girl that is not addicted to social media has an amazing job and she wil not care.

    • @Xeloph
      @Xeloph  6 років тому +1

      You are very correct buddy.

  • @princessmissy50
    @princessmissy50 5 років тому +1

    I am very scared for you. You are showing flat affect on your face and little emotion in your voice. I'm thinking you are depressed, and I don't like the fact that you're shutting yourself off from everyone. That room looks bare and scary. Don't sit there alone in the dark! Go to the library and study. If you see a classmate there, ask them how to use the copier or how to find a book. At school, join as many clubs as you have interest in and time for. Drama class is a great way to meet others and overcome your shyness. Do volunteer work in your community - animal shelters, running to earn money for a charity, anything. You'll meet other people with interests like yours eventually and make friends. Be a friend to make a friend!

  • @marboni1579
    @marboni1579 6 років тому +1

    hey you should make more videos...

    • @Xeloph
      @Xeloph  6 років тому +1

      marboni I might just..

  • @fumarate1
    @fumarate1 7 років тому +1

    why does your voice sound very monotone?

    • @L1nkn1vy
      @L1nkn1vy 6 років тому

      @@AV-th7uy my thoughts as well

  • @Biglnene
    @Biglnene 8 років тому

    im your friend.

    • @Xeloph
      @Xeloph  8 років тому +3

      Hey thank you :)