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Wayback Wilkos: My Sister Thinks My Husband Is Beating My Kids!
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- Опубліковано 24 жов 2023
- Ashley admits her husband, Chris, has abused her in the past, but her sister Heather thinks that he also beats her kids! #TheSteveWilkosShow
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UPDATE : this was filmed 12 years ago in 2011. I divorced him after filming this, packed myself and my kids up while he was out and we left. I did not go back after leaving him. I was young and very forgiving when I shouldn’t have been. My children are happy and healthy, I spend every second of every day making sure they have the best life possible.
Oh so this is you, well I'm glad you did the right thing but in all bluntness you did you and your kids a disservice by putting up with it as long as you did
Well done to you, you and your kids will have a good life now ❤❤
Kudos to u
Thank you for your Update.
It's awesome that you put him in your rearview mirror and your children are happy!! Takes an extra strong woman to leave ..
Wish you Nothing but Happiness 😊
Much love from North Carolina 🌷
I glad u left him!!! He was horrible and u didn't deserve any of that abuse
"I've grown up with it."
I want everyone to remember this line and realize this is what happens when you don't put your children first.
@user-vo5ez9gz7p that stood out to me too....so sad
They whyyyyy wouldn't she want something different?? That blows my mind that they want the same misery for their kids.
Exactly. Grown up with it. You weren't happy then, you didn't like it. So why put up with it now that you have a choice? I would never want to be with someone who will continue it. I wanted better. Getting out of your tiny bubble of a town and find better. Heck, doing better for yourself.
@@CherryACR Assuming it was her dad, women tend to be attracted to men who remind them of their fathers. So if her dad was abusive, she'll be drawn to abusive men. Not an excuse, her logic is stupid, but it's an explanation.
@@CherryACR unfortunately trauma literally rewires your brain and nervous system. and shes very obviously trauma bonded to this POS. she needs serious therapy and counseling
You draw the line at him hitting your kids but you'll tolerate him hitting you?
Did you just forget that hitting you counts as mental abuse for your children.
Act like a mother, grow a backbone, and protect yourself so you can protect your children.
Worse than that, she is teaching any female children she has that abuse is acceptable, and any male children she has that it okay to abuse their wives. Thus continuing the cycle of abuse. Tragic that any woman would tolerate that behavior, let alone allow her children to be taught it.
Honestly if it was just her and she as wanting to stay and get beat thats one thing. but when you stay with a man that is so abusive when you have kids thats damn selfish. She should have left him a long time ago. And its her sister that called the show not even her sister cause her sister doesnt even want help she likes the abusive man and she will go back to him.
The prostitute question, was a bit random
She left and divorced him....She commented on this story
@@ms.munchkin8264you are right.
By beating his wife he’s not only physically damaging her but he’s also emotionally damaging his children through fear and intimidation. She is teaching her female children to expect and accept abuse by a male while he’s teaching the male children that violence against women is natural and acceptable. Thank God for the aunt in her the children will have a strong advocate and place of refuge.
Thts y im the B E S T auntie 2 my nephews!!!cuz ill go 2 the moon ova my nephews
Oh really? Wow thanks for sharing we didn’t know.
My father taught me no such thing. Nor I imagine many other men who suffered as children.
Physical or mental abuse is not an inevitable outcome.
Let this be a reminder that if you lay your hands on a woman, then you are no man at all
Karendonnelly, you are right.
He wont change.
😂😂😂
Scumbags like him NEVER change nor learn the errors of their ways
No s* 🙄
@tiendaphillips8738, that's certainly a possibility! (unless he's sent to prison, his papers get pulled, and his cell mate 'takes care of business', so to speak!)
He's already learned for her that he doesn't have to because she will put up with it.
Never pick a man over your kids.
*anyone. never pick anyone over your kids. men are just as capable of neglecting their children in favor of a woman or someone else as woman are capable of neglecting their children in favor of a man.
Kudos to the sister being a strong advocate for the children.
Same!!! :)
She made it up 😂
She needs to be held accountable for lying. She doesn't care about kids. She just wants her sister to leave him
The guy hits his wife. How is the sister wrong? I'm glad he doesn't hit the kids but keeping kids in a home where there is abuse of their mother is just awful. He could kill her. I hope he gets some help and changes his ways and if he doesn't I hope the mom gets the balls to leave him.
@@SiD-sl3tghow? She said she doesn't know if he hits them and want to know so what did she make up
He’s not going to change. He’s abusing her. Man really expected to get applauded for not beating his kids - he’s still a wife beater. Unfortunately, she doesn’t seem ready to leave. I hope she woke up and left him - no woman deserves to be in an abusive, controlling relationship.
I was so confused why the fuck did Steve let the audience is applauding and was so lenient on that scumbag? He be pissing me off so much he might as well just sat home for this segment. Lame.
After a certain point, she does deserve it. She put her relationship with her husband over them. He said it to the sister "you don't have anybody". She's another one of those stupid women who would rather be beaten in a relationship, than single and happy.
@@roseedge5626 I get what you mean but no one really deserves to be beaten, but yeah she's the only one keeping herself in that situation💯
She left him after the filming. Her comment is on her.
"I love him and I don’t want to be without him."
Let's see how she feels when her children tell her that.
He looks like he's abusing some kind of alcohol or drugs. He looks strung out.
I've just made a comment further up the thread and said the exact same thing x
I AGREE I SAY THE SAM THING YES HE LOOKS LIKE IT COULD BE DRUGS OR ALCOHOL
She's a bad mother, raising her kids in an abusive home, thereby teaching them that it's normal. They should be removed from her care.
What is he on? It's more than alcohol... he is dealing with a mental health issue.
i agree to a certain extent, but this woman should be canonized as a saint in comparison to my own mother. my mother fully knows and admits her husband abused her children, but she's never EVER once tried to stop it (she's actually encouraged it) and to this day she's still married to him. not only that, she refuses to admit her piece in his abuse of her children. this woman at least is willing to leave her husband if he hits her children. my mother never has done that ever because my father abuses us and not her. so if i were going to choose, personally, i'd rather have this woman as my mother than my actual mother. this woman definitely has issues, but at least she's not the same horrible level of selfish as my own mother.
I divorced him not long after this was filmed 12 years ago. My kids are happy and healthy, but thanks for your opinion.
@@user-qz4le3on1igirl I went thru the same thing, stayed with a man cus he wasn’t abusive towards my kids but would lay hands on me. IM GLAD YOU LEFT REGARDLESS HOW LONG AGO THIS SHOW AIRED. Congrats, you and your kids deserve better and I hope by rewatching this you see just how much you deserved all along. He’s a fckn PUNK, even I could beat his ass and that’s sad 😂
@@user-qz4le3on1i is this actually you?
What the hell is she thinking about being back with her abuser husband he’ll never change come on seriously 😒
She’s a weak
And I like how this guy says I never hit my kids but he comes out on stage off physically confrontational
As a recovering alcoholic I can say this many times I stopped drinking alcohol for family but I kept going back to drinking because I didn’t want to quit but I never hurt anyone but myself !! Since I got honest with myself and I did it for myself I have been sober for 13 years now he will never get sober unless it’s for himself trust me on this 1 !!
Congrats on being sober for 13 years!!! I’m 4 months sober off of drugs i hope to be you one day!!!
@@elayshar7361 Congratulations to you !! It takes a lot to give up something you have relied on for comfort and a crunch but because you have quit for 4 months you have surrendered and that’s the key word you have surrendered !! I’m proud of you if you stay sober and clean 1 day at a time you’ll look back and realize you did the right thing to save your life !!
That young woman has been traumatized from her childhood and even now in her marriage. Her self-esteem is on the floor. It is difficult when you have been a victim for far too long. Hope she is able to regain her confidence and take steps in the right direction.
She doesn’t have to traumatise her children.She’s an adult now.
From the point she chose to go with him, she lost all credibility and sympathy. She's given him permission and her sister needs to sue for custody of those kids, because forcing them to watch him abuse their mother IS child abuse. Pick up that phone and call CPS and let her live with her abuser happily (?) ever after.
This was 12 years ago. She wrote an update on here. She left him not long after the show was taped.
She and the kids are safe and happy ❤
Just the way he came out charging at the Sister. Sure I believe you don't hit kids. And probably never fought with a Man in his life. Only Women and Children probably animals too.
Oh he's been in fights with men, just always lost lol
@takato0524 actually as I read it. I seen it in my head. Your absolutely correct 😂.
Agreed like wtf
The MASTER of Abuse, the Husband, Wins... and the Kids... LOSE 😂😂😂
"I came here to get help"
"I hope you do that"
LMFAOOOOO
I was always taught that a man who beats a woman up,is a coward and not a man at all
And won't fight a man.
@@willieadams7930 agreed
This one scared me. He reminds me so much of my ex Especially the way he went straight for the sister 🥺
I am tired of the exact same answer o I love him what about the kids. Kids r important than a guy
“Now if this was MY sister and I heard you were doing all this stuff, I wouldn’t be emailing a t.v show, know what I mean? Your biggest fear would be me showing up on your door step” 😂😂😂😂😂 LETS GO STEVE!!!!!!!
I'm glad she divorced him soon after. Thank God she finally woke up. Abusive women and men never change... NEVER CHANGE! They also don't deserve a second chance.
I would have him sign over his rights.
Apparently they're not his kids to begin with!
Your children have already been abused? Can you stop thinking about physical abuse for 1 second and realize you getting abused has traumatized them.
It disgust me when parents focus only on physical damage and ignore mental damage.
How’s that not fair. The obvious and smart answer is choose your kids and family whose trying to save you over the guy that has repeatedly shown you he doesn’t love you …
8:59 you know steve that is a great statement its to bad when ever I see one of your shows where a woman is abusing a man you don't have that same energy
Rite!!!! Men do needs more Advocate.. Thts y I like paterinty Court with judge Laura Lake
I read the update and was relieved to see she left his ass.
Abusing a parent IS also abusing the children involved. They witness it and are traumatized for life.
9:18 when the trash has to be thrown out!
ill say it time and time again. NEVER PICK A MAN OVER YOUR CHILDREN. its disgusting.
*anyone. never pick anyone over your kids. let's not pretend that men aren't just as capable of neglecting their children in favor of a woman or someone else as woman are capable of neglecting their children in favor of a man.
@@SloppyxJoe I agree, i meant my comment that way but i was mostly speaking about this story AND in general like you said, i just sometimes have trouble with my wording, apologizes!
I would love to see a follow-up to this. I'm wondering if he really did get his act together...
The follow up is I divorced him right after filming this. It was 12 years ago.
He not just drinking. That dude is on something else. Shame on that "mom" for letting that around her kids.
Read the first comment. She left him.
The thing about real life villains is sometimes it takes a life time to bring them down.
just wait tell she ends up dead than how will she be able to leave him when she is no longer alive guess, she didn't think that all the way through.
My father was a very violent, angry drunk & would beat up my mum & yell at us. We lived in absolute terror. My mum wouldn't leave him. I'm one of six, severely screwed up kids. They really messed us up.
That mother is sick. She is okay with him abusing her? WTF 🤮🤮🤮
Abuse was normalized for her growing up, so she makes excuses for it now. She doesn't stop to realize that she's also normalizing it for her own kids. Shes passing down that generational trauma and it's selfish of her.
Knew she would choose the second door. I hope her sister got full custody of her kids.
She left him as soon as she got back.
@@Ragglesnap Just read her update. I'm glad she finally left him! A man like that isn't worth being with.
She picked that scumbag over her kids. Tragic. Those babies have no choice. They’ll never feel safe living with him. They deserve each other but the kids deserve whole new parents
No she didn't. Read 1st comment, She left him.
Can someone please explain to me how her children have not been taken away?
Also someone please tell me there is already an update on this episode?
She has put an update in the 1st comment.
I feel bad having a disagreement and arguing with my husband in front of my children , i couldnt imagine the drunken and abuse in front of them
Talk shows are the reason I don’t drink.
She's a horrible mother. She won't protect her kids
Read the 1st comment. She left him.
Honestly, if you’re growing up with what she said… unfortunately it is very “normal” for them to end up in relationships that resemble what they used to experience. BUT!
She put down a line, she moved out. She eventually realised something, it took time but she did. Not everyone does and it doesn’t make them bad mothers or fathers. It goes way deeper and people without that experience doesn’t know how hard things can be. There are so many things that plays in, and people need to learn to understand this.
She doesn’t abuse her children. She did end up understanding that his behaviour was NOT good for her children. She is a good mother! She seems like a kind person.
Thank you
She divorced him after the filming
She's repeating the cycle staying in a relationship like that
PICK YOUR CHILDREN FIRST ALWAYS!!!! No man is EVER number one to CHILDREN!!!
That woman should never go back to her husband and she should leave her husband and never go back to him she should be with her kids
" I grew up with this " is the BIGGEST STATEMENT of this show ...... NOBODY should stay because they " grew up with this ".
This is me in the video. Yes I hate myself for staying as long as I did, yes I divorced him right after this.
If you're really her, I'm glad you did. I hope you stayed strong and away from him
I did, I packed up and left. Eventually married a man who won’t even raise his voice and takes great care of us, going on 8 years with him now
@@user-qz4le3on1i that is fantastic to hear. Thanks for taking the time to update a bunch of Internet strangers!
Good that you left him! So which means he’s still abusive to you after you left the show, you should’ve gone with your sister walking through the left door on Steve’s view. Since you left the show, has your ex-husband begin abusing your kids? If yes, then you made a very bad choice, if no, then your kids have dodged the bullets.
Thank god you left😊
That's why he does it cuz she doesn't do anything about it and no one stops him
Wonderful sister. Great job Heather!
She'll never leave him i feet bad for those kids
Just know, alcoholic narcissist's never change! Glad for the update!
Aside from the abuse, bruh wore cargo shorts to his wedding 😂😂
She had a chance now she doesn’t get no more pitty
What a mess..... She won't leave him.
She did.
That woman should go back to her husband and she should be with her sister and she should leave her husband 😊
Young lady get out of the marriage very quickly it not healthy for ur kids or urself alots people wind of dead its toxic stay gone not good abuser always a abuser he not go change any child screams u no the kids don't need be around him he to violence look how he came out on stage praying for kids mother needs put her kids first sad smh😢❤praying lord u keep kids mother covered protected lord 🙏 ❤️
If I found out I was abusive while drinking, I wouldn't drink anymore.
OK, he didn't abuse his kids and that's good, but that doesn't excuse him for abusing his wife.
She say it isn't fair that she has to choose which door. What about her kids do they get to choose, is it fair to they to see their father beats, spit or cause their mother. I really hope he does change for himself for his kids and wife
They shouldn't be parents.
I don't agree with her choice because like Steve said he is "abusing" his children by hurting his wife. Love is truly blind. He can say he's going to change all he wants, but if i were her i would make him prove it. He has an attitude problem. He's probably going to be "good" for a few months and then back to being an asshole. She could do so much better for herself. She and her children deserve better.
I absolutely hate the saying "why do you stay" when i was younger i found myself in an emotional and physical relationship, sadly i believe i deserved it so i put up with it, id always here then why stay but never got asked if i needed help. Im not saying in the case but sometimes its not as easy as "just leave" you could be to frighten to leave the what ifs cross your mind. To anyone who may be in a similar situation you do not deserve any of it, you are loved and deserve to be happy and safe. If its possible reach out for help and if your the person they reach out to dont start with the "why'd you stay" just be there for them in that moment listen and help them feel safe ❤❤
Lady leave this scumbag!!!! If he hits you and your kids it's only a matter of time before you leave in body bags!!! Run for your lives!!!! Protect those babies and yourself
I did leave, 12 years ago after this was filmed, thanks
that woman should not ho to her husband and she should be with her sister and if I was her I will leave her husband
How do you have energy to tell him to not talk to your sister the way he is but can’t speak up for yourself… it’s ok that he hit you but not ok that he hit the kids and you both putting them thru trauma… she needs some help! He won’t change as long as she keeps taking him back!
He never hit the kids
This is sad she shouldve left him so long ago for even putting his hands on you.
Why would you put your kids through it?
You should always be good to your woman. Drinking is no excuse. I get drunk everyday and I am never abusive
He’s abusing his kids by abusing their mother in front of them this dude belongs alone in a cell
Another mother choosing a man over her children.
Read 1st comment.
The lady is naive she is abused not only she is abused her own children gets hurt and dealing with fear and intimidation and trust issues
Give the kids to the sister, if she will take them and let her be with him. He isn’t going to change. Why change if you are just going to keep coming back to the same old him?
If this girl honestly believes the kids are being physically struck even though she hasn't even seen it, wouldn't you call CPS
I knew she would be stupid enough to go back to him.
1:04 play stay because that's what they prefer and like Steve
It’s sad because at he end where he said to pick a door, she picked him and u could see the fear in her eyes
WHY WOULD YOU LET A MAN THAT BEATS YOU KEEP YOUR KIDS IN ANY EVENT, SHE SEEMS NOT TO BE THE SMAREST I SEE
I hope the sister takes the kids away from them
The pick a door choice was low. Like she had an option.
Eve is vile.
The children need more protection than she does, she chose the husband and not the children, not a very good mother...
To know what that’s like to be in an abusive home with an angry drunk and still choose to put your kids through it? Shameful.
Trying to throw you down the stairs is attempted murder
Dude is weird
Taking a risk only once can kill you and the children. Why anyone would take that risk?
LOVE THIS VIDEO NO BLACK AND WHITE VIDEO THEY JUST GET STRAIGHT TO IT LETS GO BACK TO THIS
Wish we could see Steve let these guys have it.
Hi Steve if it was my husband he would have been in jail
Steve was pretty much one sided. 2 months is a stepping stone. She literally said she’s trying to get into rehab. All those drugs are so much of a problem that the rehabs are full & have waitlists. She’s trying, that’s all that matters. As for the dude, I wouldn’t give up my kids for a new relationship like that, no matter how much I believed that person could change.
That aunt is a good woman
I’m sorry but this shouldn’t even be hard as your kids should come first no matter what!
She doesn’t deserve to have the kids if she picks a beater over her own children!!!!
I can't stand that jailhouse wanna be thug additude..
I don’t understand woman who choose men over their children 🧍🏽♀️ I’m sorry but if you’re just going to keep letting him beat you which is what your doing by going back to him
, you’re just putting your children in a situation that they don’t need to be around and not putting their needs before your own. Simply choosing a man over your children. These types of people men and woman sicken me.
I'm not surprised that she chose her husband who is very abusive to her and not understand that she needs to think about her children that's experiencing this the more they experienced the worst they'll follow the same path like she did it's not a healthy relationship she should have chose her sister for the kids safety
Why isn't he in jail yet😂
Even if he didn’t hit his kids u still hitting the mother of ur kids tho im sorry but she crazy for staying with him 🙄🙄
In my early years my dad was a bad drinker and beat my mom so i can start to what ur saying. It was absolutely terrifying for me