Internalized Self-Hatred

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  • Опубліковано 10 чер 2021
  • It is inevitable that we will experience events, situations and circumstances in our lives that will seemingly communicate to us that we are not worthy of love, respect and value. When unacknowledged and unaware, these beliefs become part of our psyche that then increasingly sabotage our lives, resulting in self-destructive behavior through both abuse and neglect.
    By learning to become aware of our beliefs through our behavior, and incrementally changing our behavior, we begin to change the underlying beliefs, those that are inherently untrue and out of alignment with proper belief in the light, love, mercy, grace, goodness and benevolence of God.
    How we treat ourselves is a direct reflection of how we believe we should be treated, and thus is a direct reflection of our beliefs about God. To heal our relationship with God, we must heal our relationship with ourselves.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 47

  • @rohaibmahmood8198
    @rohaibmahmood8198 3 роки тому +60

    This man is underrated

    • @marymasstherapy7370
      @marymasstherapy7370 2 роки тому +4

      I absolutely agree

    • @melissadelgado3381
      @melissadelgado3381 Місяць тому +1

      I’m a Christian and I’m finding my soul being fed through his teachings. God is working through this man.

  • @mohammadqasim1295
    @mohammadqasim1295 3 роки тому +13

    You spread the message of peace and love, as did Maulana Balkhi (Rumi), in the best possible, understandable (to most people of this time), and practical way. Kindly keep uploading and enlightening us.
    May Allah SWT bless you Ihsan brother.

  • @jrovert
    @jrovert 3 роки тому +9

    A beautiful message of hope to all. 🙏❤️ May God continue to open our hearts and minds to the blessings of His creation

  • @fahmidalutfullah361
    @fahmidalutfullah361 3 роки тому +8

    Thank you brother İhsan, for such a positive message which we can all benefit from!!!! Your message is like a healing balm!

  • @kausarbibi3436
    @kausarbibi3436 2 роки тому +5

    An amazing topic and video that sadly affects so many today. Destructive methods are being used to address this lack of love and cover the pain. Thank you for sharing this message of love and wisdom.

  • @ananoud
    @ananoud Рік тому +2

    Whenever I feel what I'm feeling there you are showing up on my feed and as soon as I listen to your reminders I cry because it makes me realise that Allah is reminding and sending me messages through these amazing videos and messages. I wish more people like you were out there passing on messages the way you do.

  • @shazmahmood280
    @shazmahmood280 Рік тому +2

    This has to be one of the best videos ! I enjoy watching reminders repeatedly, and how the meanings are so different @ stages of ones life.

  • @eval2314
    @eval2314 3 роки тому +3

    Asalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu brother!
    Much love and appreciation from Albania. Love you brother! May Allah bless you and reward you! Ameen!

  • @tremonia1014
    @tremonia1014 Рік тому +1

    your channel gives me hope to keep going I am more than grateful ¡
    Thank you
    ما شاء الله

  • @ZiggyCoco
    @ZiggyCoco 3 роки тому +6

    Just what I needed to hear. Thank you Ihsan.

  • @seemachoudhry2960
    @seemachoudhry2960 3 роки тому +4

    I think your videos are fantastic.....please make more.

  • @sarah14843
    @sarah14843 2 роки тому +2

    May Allah reward you immensely, thank you for helping us 💕

  • @SadiaM1960
    @SadiaM1960 3 роки тому +2

    Jazaka Allah khayran

  • @Eightandahalf
    @Eightandahalf 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you! 🌹

  • @BismillahirRahmanirRaheemB
    @BismillahirRahmanirRaheemB 2 роки тому +1

    Much appreciated man.

  • @aminahbergliotrolsdorph7557
    @aminahbergliotrolsdorph7557 Рік тому +1

    سلام عليكم و جزاك الله خيرا..
    Deeply interesting and beneficial..
    Rectify ourselves..
    Taking responsibility and healing by our Eman..
    Belief..
    I am telling myself I believe That ..
    Dhikr become Confirmation also..
    الحمد لله بخير

  • @Mercy_bahr
    @Mercy_bahr 3 роки тому +2

    love you!

  • @5starStunner1978
    @5starStunner1978 3 роки тому +2

    I needed to hear this. Jazakallah brother Ihsan.

  • @TheBoogiebruva
    @TheBoogiebruva Рік тому +1

    Thanks a lot for this

  • @BubbleBratable
    @BubbleBratable 3 роки тому +1

    Subhana’Allah jazzakallahu khair

  • @abidaaltaf5212
    @abidaaltaf5212 3 роки тому +2

    Subhanallah... Jazakallahu khair

  • @superd96
    @superd96 3 роки тому +1

    Great video - Thank you brother.

  • @yahyeabdirashid9716
    @yahyeabdirashid9716 3 роки тому +1

    I love you so much, brother

  • @magnolia8626
    @magnolia8626 3 роки тому +2

    I agree. Any religion that teaches us we are sinful and inherently bad in the eyes of God is a very damaging religion. This is still taught in many orthodox Christian sects.

  • @shehrzadqasim4900
    @shehrzadqasim4900 3 роки тому +1

    May Allah bless you, you are guiding and healing people.

  • @vahabmalik6458
    @vahabmalik6458 3 роки тому +1

    Very useful video 👍

  • @arrivalsstartaxis1683
    @arrivalsstartaxis1683 2 роки тому +1

    Mashallah Mashallah

  • @CG-zi5ku
    @CG-zi5ku 2 роки тому +1

    Mashallah.

  • @hana.xplorz_GB
    @hana.xplorz_GB 2 роки тому +2

    I have BPD sometimes I don't know who I am or if I'm worth anything, I battle my BPD on a daily basis. Sometimes I don't feel like I belong

    • @anniex5233
      @anniex5233 2 роки тому +2

      Hi sister
      I also was diagnosed with BDP when I was 18 and I think the best thing you can do is stop internalising the diagnosis. I was lucky enough that I found a holistic therapist and she told me there is nothing inherently wrong with my brain, I just learnt several coping mechanisms and belief systems and behavioural patterns, but they’re like wearing a woolly sweater, I can choose to not identify with it and take it off
      I know it’s easier said than done, I’m 20 now and some days I will still struggle, but realising that Allah created me perfectly and I can become that perfect state of peace again really helped me
      May Allah make easy your journey

  • @YT-dw5eq
    @YT-dw5eq 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you!!

  • @rizwanai8753
    @rizwanai8753 10 місяців тому +1

  • @norrinamobarez7076
    @norrinamobarez7076 2 роки тому +1

    May Allah help you help us. 🤲🏻☀️🧎🏻‍♀️

  • @paolasandoval6992
    @paolasandoval6992 Рік тому +1

    Haqq ❤

  • @rot.7525
    @rot.7525 Рік тому +1

    You are helping remain Muslim

  • @Dmitriy-hf7jv
    @Dmitriy-hf7jv 3 роки тому +7

    I'm a Christian and I've practiced Islam for a year but I never said the shahada. It has been about 7 years since I had the revelation that Islam isn't wrong, it's just wrong for me. Because my bloodline is that of Isaac, and not of Ishmael. With that being said, Im thankful I found you. I relish in many of your videos because I wish more religious people took what you say more seriously. I wish for Christians and Muslims to unite. The people of the book are being led to slaughter by being divided and set against each other because of our differences. But that's a big lie because we are actually the most alike.
    So with that being said, I'm compelled to tell you this. I believe, or have a strong feeling or sense that the root of you making videos less frequently is actually due to the lack of views.
    I am one person who is thankful for your videos and check UA-cam specifically for your channel. Please don't forget that what you are doing is not for you, it's for God. And the byproduct of serving God is serving humanity.

    • @MuhammedMishal369
      @MuhammedMishal369 3 роки тому +1

      Hey....how you feeling now....

    • @yasminkausar5186
      @yasminkausar5186 3 роки тому +3

      Salaam brother...Alhamdulilah, they say every drop creates an ocean...My teachers, teachings are far removed from just set Laws, regulations and practices to focus on the 'soul' of Islam...We are nothing without the soul, empty practices are empty of the essence of our creator...Ustadh Ihsan teaches Islam as a whole...Glad to hear you are benefitting...The basic message of ALL faith is the same, we must open our hearts to learn of God and our purpose no matter what religion...
      Ustadh Ihsan has teaching modalities were he spends most of his focus through his website Spiritual Excellence.com...He's messages n teachings are universal...Blessings

    • @berhoom2024
      @berhoom2024 3 роки тому +3

      your post makes no sense - if you practise Islam, you have to say the shahada in the ritual prayer or after ablution. Also bloodline has nothing to do with truth. I have no bloodline from Isaac or Ishmael. Does that mean I should stay away from Judaism or Islam ? Strange. I'm of Hindu background and I am Muslim.

    • @Dmitriy-hf7jv
      @Dmitriy-hf7jv 3 роки тому

      @@berhoom2024Have a good day sir!

    • @muslimamustaqeem4376
      @muslimamustaqeem4376 2 місяці тому

      @@berhoom2024 leave the man alone! His post makes sense, you have to learn what Islam is first....subhan Allah. Wahabism is not Islam.

  • @yasminkausar5186
    @yasminkausar5186 3 роки тому +1

    😥🤲

  • @mar1no124
    @mar1no124 3 роки тому +1

    Forgive me for using your videos as ASMR 😊