Dealing With My Inner Critic

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  • @ShamilaArt
    @ShamilaArt 6 років тому +179

    Every time I hear this voice I try to think this way "I'm not doing art because I'm good, I'm doing it because I want to, I enjoy it, I need it, this is what I am". I stop searching for a legitimisation to make art. I know what makes me truly happy and I'll keep doing it.

    • @ctclockwise
      @ctclockwise 6 років тому +3

      I love that

    • @ShamilaArt
      @ShamilaArt 6 років тому

      Thank you Rin! ^_^

    • @malinnlisl1677
      @malinnlisl1677 6 років тому +3

      That's a good point, I try to think about it that way as well, it doesn't always work but I think remembering your motivations and just doing it for yourself is useful.

    • @ShamilaArt
      @ShamilaArt 6 років тому +1

      yes, it doesn't work all the time for me neither. But it helps because it put it in perspective; out of an eternal competition, just remembering the value it has on itself.
      (sorry for my english :) )

    • @naysworld
      @naysworld 6 років тому +1

      Just subbed!

  • @Emzjellybeanz
    @Emzjellybeanz 6 років тому +4

    “It’s that voice that sees a mistake and turns it into failure” YES this is such a perfect description

  • @Bexx74
    @Bexx74 6 років тому +44

    Just to be selfish for a moment, my life would be perceptively more dull, boring and less bright without you in it Minnie. And your in my life through these videos and through your art. Please keep up the good work. You are not a failure. When you feel like one, read comments from people who are awed by you....like me. 😋😘

    • @Grayplesures
      @Grayplesures 6 років тому +1

      Bexx36 this made me smile😊

  • @djunaskye6220
    @djunaskye6220 6 років тому +23

    While I was watching this video I started thinking about you're old videos from when I started watching your channel about 2 years ago, I realized how much you've grown and improved with your art and videos! Just wanted to say that it's so interesting watching an artist improve, I am very proud of you, and I can't wait to see what's to come of you in the future!

  • @alexmarres1167
    @alexmarres1167 6 років тому +11

    so im sitting here at 4:24 am and im watching your video and i realize that this video and your voice in general make my anxiety go down immensely and i just wanted to thank you for that because you're just an absolute blessing to this world.

  • @julianneb9827
    @julianneb9827 6 років тому +7

    I almost feel like we are in a therapy session for artists with Ms Minnie Small haha. The background just sets it. Bookshelf, calming candle. Anyone else?
    Love ya!

  • @Nkanyiso_K
    @Nkanyiso_K 6 років тому +43

    *It's just like Nathan Zed says: You are good enough* I noticed your Good enough T-shirt in the PayPal video. Inktober taught me that I can draw far beyond what I expected, I know I can do great things: my inner voice wants to be there now or compare myself to others but I can't beat myself up for not being the best or allowing myself to be uncomfortable because I know I'm going to get there and always be aware of what people you trust think since you often judge yourself harsher than your critics

  • @popesuavecitoxii2379
    @popesuavecitoxii2379 6 років тому +5

    This is scary accurate. I have these same exact thoughts even though people buy my work/hire me. When people compliment me I feel like they're lying to me or trying to make me feel better. But I guess it's just that we have high standards for ourselves and this voice is trying to push us. Sometimes it gets very difficult to push back even though you must. Hang in there, Minnie!

  • @CreativeRecipeswithKaren
    @CreativeRecipeswithKaren 6 років тому

    You are luckier than most that you know how to handle your inner critic. You are not the only one. You are describing your becoming and being the hero that you can become. Don't give up. You can do it. We all go through this when we are trying to be better and do better. When we are "called" to do something. You are a gifted artist - this is your calling. So push through your fear and doubts. This is the "myth of the hero". When you reach this threshold and you go for it - and don't do something else - don't run away, then you have "become". I hope you don't give in to your fear. I wish you good luck. I appreciate you.

  • @EriAikawadiary
    @EriAikawadiary 6 років тому +1

    You don’t know how much I needed this. I haven’t been uploading art videos (speedpainting) much because “it’s not good enough”

  • @paulalancaster1
    @paulalancaster1 6 років тому

    I'm just blown away by the artfulness of this video. The depth and clarity and the ideas you present; the beauty of your drawing; the background music; the set, the editing... the calm reassurance of your voice. So glad I watched this.

  • @SandyCampbellHemet
    @SandyCampbellHemet 6 років тому +12

    I think your brilliant Minnie, you truly are and this is coming from someone old enough to be your grandmother....I hope you have a nice day and Happy Valentine's Day to you.

  • @Milly2.0
    @Milly2.0 6 років тому +25

    Im Actually reading a book called banish your inner critic ....and you right the only way to bring it down and allow your creative voice to be louder is by being soft and sweet to your inner critic ... you cant bully it back cause thats how it feeds off ... the opposite is to be humble and sweet to it lol

    • @joe_3y3s
      @joe_3y3s 6 років тому

      check out 'the artists way' its an excellent read within this context.

    • @Wra8h
      @Wra8h 6 років тому

      This is something I've concluded it too, but, never quite understood why? Why can't I just banish it by saying "you're completely irrational don't come over ever again"

    • @Milly2.0
      @Milly2.0 6 років тому

      i think doing it that way is almost like suppressing it ... i mean you dont want to get rid of it ... The inner critic can be useful depending the situation ... so thanking it, is almost a way of accepting it for how it is...I think the main point is which voice in your head is louder ... if it is the inner critic you can only use your creative side to creatively lower that voice down and give the main role to your creative voice ... being critical to the critic makes it grow ... cause you still using your critical voice to get at it ... lol

  • @Dani-ej1zl
    @Dani-ej1zl 6 років тому

    I found you about a month ago and you've become my new favorite artist. Your art is so beautiful and honest and your colors are vibrant, fun, and pleasing to look at. But what I especially appreciate is your openness to admitting how hard art and life can be especially when you are as successful as you are. You give practical advice on how to combat negative feelings and struggles that not many people do. You have inspired me to do better, given me hope that everything will be okay, and shown me that it's okay when things go wrong.
    I'm so glad you're posting again. Seeing you fight on is a big inspiration to all of us here.

  • @evakurl
    @evakurl 6 років тому

    you're my example to follow! I like your artworks and your shooting. you always seems so free and satisfied with your work that you inspire me. please fight your critic to continue what you are doing! and we'll give you any support we can.

  • @thedivacomposer
    @thedivacomposer 6 років тому

    I never thought about personifying my inner critic - such a good idea!! If I treat Ms. Inner Critic with compassion maybe I can treat myself the same. Thank you for the beautiful video!

  • @paigeh9798
    @paigeh9798 6 років тому

    This is really important. I have major issues with my inner voice/critic and when things are boring or difficult, my autopilot comes on and it goes wild. I'm in the early stages of building a portfolio for an MFA in design, and my inner critic often stops me from even making a start. Thank you for putting this into words and giving us a very clear idea of how we might fight these inner battles!

  • @CookingForAll
    @CookingForAll 6 років тому

    It's hard sometimes to not feel very alone in the world, and to feel like I'm the only one feeling what I am. And then you say things like this and you put my thoughts into words and I feel so much better. And that's not to say I'm happy to see others struggles, but I'm happy that the struggle isn't exclusive. I'm pulling myself out of a very deep depression, and your videos help so much.

  • @jesstunn3407
    @jesstunn3407 4 роки тому

    I know this video is a year old now but god it’s helped me so much. It goes deeper than just inner critic with art, and can relate to all negative thoughts. This has helped with negative thought patterns I have, particularly with depression. Minnie, if you’re reading this, just know that you’ve done a better job than my therapist and I am so grateful. I adore all your videos. Keep calm and keep painting 🎨🖌

  • @CamiWins
    @CamiWins 6 років тому

    Lately my inner critic has been winning her small battles. It’s been a struggle just trying to get out of bed and face the day. But you’re so right. It’s just fear. Love these kind of videos! So motivating 👍🏽💕

  • @LinesAndCursives
    @LinesAndCursives 6 років тому +2

    I never thought about the inner critic being created from us thinking about a choice. Devil's advocate for sure! My inner critic is brutal. But, I am learning to be my biggest inner cheerleader. Turner that negative to a positive ❤️

  • @BrandeArno
    @BrandeArno 6 років тому

    Good that you have cornered that negative inner critic early in life. I have read books, articles and blogs from very successful artists who haven't. So if that nasty critic breaks through, know you are in good company!

  • @untitled_paintings
    @untitled_paintings 6 років тому

    Love how the new studio’s turning out! Your hair looks even better than usual in this video as well✨ I really like this kind of chill videos, they’re perfect to watch while painting, almost makes it feel as if we were chatting and painting together

  • @homeartangel2000
    @homeartangel2000 6 років тому

    I love how you refer to the inner critic as an exterior being connected to yourself. It’s the idea of the muse, some external source of inspiration. I find that concept really helpful, thank you ^_^

  • @nou257
    @nou257 6 років тому

    this is why i like to keep my old drawings, so i can compare it to my current drawings and see how much i have improved. the improvement isn't too huge but im still thankful that it gets better. every single artist in the world will always feel like they're never good enough because they will always have an artist that they admire and compare their pieces to theirs. but i always like to remind myself that this is art, it should be fun.. i should enjoy the process of it instead of being so stressed about why can't i be better? that inner critic will never go away until we die so might as well just brush them off and enjoy making art even if it's not perfect in our eyes!

  • @hellocreeps4066
    @hellocreeps4066 6 років тому

    You talking about this is at the perfect timing. I'm very much in a rut right now and I think I'm reaching nothing and always hearing myself complain about my mistakes. Thank you for helping me deal with this and move forward!

  • @MatStarv
    @MatStarv 6 років тому

    God, I LOVE how you've put this into an identity within yourself who is raw and primal and deserves understanding. I am always so passionate about the primal self, and yet, have had yet to consider self doubt this way. Beautifully said. I will now continue watching, lol

  • @ameeleeardipradja1084
    @ameeleeardipradja1084 6 років тому

    I feel so similar, a friend of mine told me yesterday to "love your mess" if you're a mess and thats just who you are, just be that mess and embrace it. I'm still learning, because I criticize myself a lot because sometimes I just can't help but be a ,mess and then i compare myself to everyone else who has their shit together. It's hard, man. I feel your pain.

  • @hungrymillennial3826
    @hungrymillennial3826 6 років тому

    Absolutely love this video! Not a lot of artists talk about this inner struggle because it’s such a raw level of vulnerability. Thank you so much for sharing and encouraging others with your honesty!

  • @johncollado1151
    @johncollado1151 6 років тому +14

    This effect you are talking about has been explained so many ways by so many artists but it is good that artists like yourself continue to remind those that this "Thing" exists and that everyone has to deal with it at various times and to remember to keep going, no matter what. Good video!

  • @Tozza00
    @Tozza00 6 років тому

    I actually stopped doing art because of my inner critic. I feel like this video is really helpful, along with all your videos. They’re really inspirational to me. Thank you for making this and sharing your thoughts

  • @junkiecat9514
    @junkiecat9514 6 років тому

    This video gave me chills. The inner critic is always there and will always be there. I`ve been struggling with my inner critic lately where it came to the point where I didn`t even tried to create things which makes me - now, looking back at it - so incredibly sad. Instead of trying, I went back to my phone, binge watching UA-cam Videos which didn`t help me at all and spending hours in front of a screen not doing anything. You gave me the push I needed to not give up just because there is a nasty voice in my head which is constantly comparing and judging. Now that I think about it, letting the mind wander while creating something isn`t always good, as you said. Now I`m trying to concentrate more, push boundries and believe in myself because I will never get better without doing something. Trying. Just beginning. Thank you, have a good day.💟

  • @jonnashores3089
    @jonnashores3089 6 років тому

    Omg so relatable for me rn! Despite my success in art school and the praise of my professors I’m constantly being told by my inner critic that I’m not good enough, I don’t have what it takes to make a career out of my art, if I can’t be perfect then why am I trying??? For me it’s very very challenging to move past just because I’ve always been so hard on myself. I’d say right now it’s probably my biggest and most prevalent struggle... thank you for sharing your perspective and your story. It’s very reassuring to hear I am not alone in having felt this way.

  • @sharonjack7239
    @sharonjack7239 6 років тому

    It is always darkest before the dawn...negative blah thoughts are just something we learn work around, sometimes laughing at them. I like to always work on at least 3 paintings in the same day for this reason alone. Often, I have 20 going and it really helps a lot. It keeps me from getting too stuck on one. Keeping my face 'light' - lightly smiling while I work - keeps my mind from getting too tense. And I keep my tummy happy with calm foods which helps.

  • @AllisNelly
    @AllisNelly 6 років тому

    Beautiful video, definitely struck a chord with me. I suffer from anxiety and am currently going through a self-directed therapy program for it and a lot of what you described feels very similar. I've been learning that your beliefs are powerful because your brain hears and believes everything you say to it. When you believe and follow your negative, anxious thoughts, you are literally reinforcing physical neural pathways in you brain. Overcoming anxiety or negativity is a paradox - like you said, arguing and resisting only makes it worse. You have to cultivate an attitude of calm, positive acceptance. The key is relaxing, slowing yourself down, and turning your thoughts around. If your brain won't accept positive thoughts, then you feed it neutral thoughts, anything to start building healthy neural pathways. I have several little mantras that I repeat to myself every time negative thoughts try to overwhelm me. It's a slow and steady process, but it's been working wonders for me. I hadn't realized before how much my inner voice liked to put me down, and now that I have strategies to quiet it down and think positively I feel like a different person.

  • @myrkflinn4331
    @myrkflinn4331 6 років тому

    The best explanation I have come across with so far! Very short, very on point because that's what holds us back in everything: the fear.

  • @manpreetparmar5801
    @manpreetparmar5801 6 років тому +1

    I had to recently write a paragraph to get into my art school of choice. In which we had to talk about artists that inspire us. One of them i picked was you. Just thought i would tell you cause why not? Your awesome. Continue on your path!!!!

  • @gracesellers4871
    @gracesellers4871 6 років тому

    I love saving your videos until the morning, sitting down with my cup of coffee and watching. We all need this video 😊

  • @theghostboat1864
    @theghostboat1864 6 років тому

    So powerful to hear you talking about this. I think a lot of us feel this way but we're too scared to be open about it. My negative thoughts are my biggest obstacle right now, and this video was therapeutic for me. I hope I can gently guide myself to a healthier mindset which will allow me to be more productive and make the things I want to make. Great video, thanks!

  • @dianeo
    @dianeo 6 років тому +4

    I've been battling my inner critic ever since childhood. 'She' never lets up. When it comes to art, I let her have her say then continue doing my art. Even if I SHOULD be better at art by now, and I'm not bringing in any money from it, and I have tons of other jobs to do around the house, etc. etc. I continue doing my art because I have to. I have to create, whether it's good, lucrative, important or not. I enjoy it and it feeds my soul, so I will continue to do it, no matter what any inner or outer critics say.

  • @SarahMariLucas
    @SarahMariLucas 6 років тому

    I am going through this phase! Now that I have made a dedication to expand my art skills, I have been criticizing myself non stop - it's maddening!! I like to think it's my ego for sure, and often argue back with it, haha. Your videos really help ground me when I get art stressed!

  • @LadyFrenchHorn
    @LadyFrenchHorn 6 років тому +1

    this is similar to when I started to visualize my anxiety, the little voice, as an eight year old version of me. a little girl who's been through trauma and is scared and just wants to keep herself safe. so she does whatever she can to find out who, what, why, and how to stop something or someone from hurting her. from denying reality to silencing me to over analyzing, she's ultimately just trying to protect me. so I pity her instead of fearing her. I reduce her to the actual size of the problem and say hon it's okay. great video, Minnie! always love seeing you in my feed.

  • @emmanuelleh7218
    @emmanuelleh7218 6 років тому

    I heard something great the other day about quitting "you should be allowed to quit, but you can only do it after you've had a good day" so you have to push through until the next good day

  • @screamironic
    @screamironic 6 років тому

    Thank you for sharing! This is such a spot on description of the topic. I like to notice the critic, and then thank them for their service. This "critic" voice did not come out of thin air, it's always been with me. In a way it protected me as a child. As a child I might have needed that protection from bullies or a toxic home environment. I don't need that protection any longer, but it is still trying to protect me because of this auto pilot brain feature. It's a journey, but a "thank you and I love you" never hurt :)

  • @Brickomotion
    @Brickomotion 6 років тому +4

    I'm so glad the Algorithm made me aware of this channel! :D
    When my inner critic starts pointing out all of the mistakes I made, I say "Yeah, that happens - what are we going to do about that?". And then I start thinking about how I can turn the mistake into a happy accident by zooming in on it in the video and pointing it out. Then, at least, maybe somebody else can avoid making that same mistake :D

  • @maggiekgreen
    @maggiekgreen 6 років тому

    I just love how real you are. I feel like I can relate to you so well because you don't filter.. you just tell it like it is. :) Thank you for being you!

  • @leeniedee2049
    @leeniedee2049 6 років тому +1

    Minnie, I cannot tell you how much stumbling across your UA-cam channel has helped me get through the past couple of months. Your videos inspired me to find solice and get back into art for myself... something I haven't done in 16 years. So thank you. I've recently became one of your sweet peas on patreon and again want to thank you for your words of encouragement. Just know that you inspire :)

  • @oliviayerxa7228
    @oliviayerxa7228 6 років тому

    This video has really help me not feel alone. I feel that u have accepted your inner critic and know how to redirect your thought in a positive outlook. I am still learning to recognize my inner critic and not to react impulsively with harsh words. I agree with ur knowledge that creating art is more about the process then the final product. I try to remind myself of that when I feel frustrated and stressed.

  • @ODarlio
    @ODarlio 6 років тому

    Such great, great words Minnie! You point out such important steps to take when that critic comes creeping in. It's so easy to become completely unaware of its nature and to therefore take it as truth! When it isn't real. Not in the slightest. Like you say, it's just a reaction to fear. Acknowledgement is key and that's when we can let go.
    You have put it all so beautifully. If there's one thing we should all consciously invest our time in, it's harvesting that inner critic energy into something we can ultimately use for good. Whoopah ! :)

  • @kimdoucette8079
    @kimdoucette8079 6 років тому +1

    Lovely and true as always. You are one of my favorites Minnie. I have something that really helps me deal with the inner critic. It's a sign from a Kindergarten that I keep in my art space. It reminds me that learning is the joy and gives me permission to try as many times as I want. I don't judge anything as a failure, it's all part of the learning. The only failure is when you stop trying. So enjoy your videos. Thank you for sharing your journey with us.

  • @daphinie_
    @daphinie_ 6 років тому

    I would love to attend an online workshop that you host that is about Artists and their fear voice. Maybe personification of it in a piece that everyone is working on together would help process the negativity but not shut it out. Fear breeds progress and it can be a beautiful thing that if left unchecked can be completely crippling. Thanks for the honest and beautiful message here ❤️

  • @alyssadurante8739
    @alyssadurante8739 6 років тому

    Im an artist and i also have imposter syndrome. i feel like i dont deserve any awards or praise or compliments. My inner critic is honestly a savage but you've helped me realise that i can learn to deal with it :) Thank you

  • @RB-mj7mp
    @RB-mj7mp 6 років тому

    Minnie, you are so wise and down to earth! You have such wonderful advice for artists of all types and ages. I have a lot of different artistic endeavors and when I'm not feeling satisfied with one, I simply move on to another and eventually I gain perspective. It's not that I'm "bad" at those certain things, I just sometimes lose sight of my goals and remember the areas I want to focus on.

  • @siobhansmith6527
    @siobhansmith6527 6 років тому

    I appreciate and respect your transparency 💙 I have been struggling to grow as an artist because of my inner critic. This timely reminder and vulnerability is just what I needed to witness. It reassures me that I'm not alone on this journey. love + peace✨

  • @KatherineApplebyIllustration
    @KatherineApplebyIllustration 6 років тому

    I SO get this!! And some days I am strong and reject the inner critic voice - other days I give in and listen and take on those comments... It's a continual thing. But we must remember to not listen to it!

  • @K2SO
    @K2SO 6 років тому

    This speaks to me on such a deeply personal level. I want to work on my art but I've had some trouble lately with those same thoughts of "you'll never be as good as those others so why try?" I found myself thinking I should just stop, but I think my new strategy will be to notice the critical thoughts, but not run with them.

  • @alisha967
    @alisha967 6 років тому +8

    your new workspace is so pretty and your work is really relaxing to watch ✨💓

  • @allisontheillustrator
    @allisontheillustrator 6 років тому

    Thank you so much for this wonderful, thoughtful, calm video. I turned it on while working and it touched on so many difficult struggles I’m encountering in my art right now. I think you really touched on the difference between to listening to your brain working all the time - the negative, unproductive - and thinking critically through what your brain is doing more and more often. It was really reassuring to hear someone talk about this in such a coherent, relatable way. And lastly, I really enjoyed the conversational format of this video.

  • @kaleidorainbow
    @kaleidorainbow 6 років тому

    i swear your videos are like therapy for me. i love your vids, they're so motivating and real.

  • @sharongillesp
    @sharongillesp 6 років тому

    Enjoy where you are now!! Minnie, you're doing it!!! That's why we support and follow you! Keeping it real isn't the same as keeping it authentic. And you are one of the most authentic artists I've come across on the internet! That is so refreshing!!!!! A lot of the time I watch you to add some spice to my day. Thank you!

  • @aidandoyle3570
    @aidandoyle3570 6 років тому

    I love the idea of taking issues like this that are in our own heads
    And really personifying them and kinda like, giving them a seat at the table. I believe it really helps with identifying them and starting to resolve the problem at hand!
    Great chat :) thank you for sharing!

  • @mofongoman2616
    @mofongoman2616 6 років тому +5

    So glad you're back. I am always letting that voice take over and I always just thought I'm always going to be my harshest critic it can't be helped. Now I will try to recognize it take the good things and move on. Happy Valentine's Day keep up the great job.

  • @AnastasiaR
    @AnastasiaR 6 років тому +11

    Thank you so much for this video. First of all I can tell you that you are good enough. Of course you should listen to yourself saying that, not me. But if you want you can listen to me too. Because I know what I’m talking about and you’re freaking amazing and you have a unique gift that no one else has. Secondly, this video was just what I needed right now. I’ve had a really rough week with this kind of thing. It’s crazy how much it messes with your self-worth when you’re an artist.

  • @BurnSheDevil
    @BurnSheDevil 6 років тому

    I really enjoyed this "conversation", I recently overcame that damned imposter syndrome and boy does it make life easier! Thank you for your content :)

  • @VizardnVongola
    @VizardnVongola 6 років тому

    This for me is your best video.
    The way you speak about the inner critic and it's traits is so accurate it started to scare me a bit because of having those same traits with my inner critic.
    The positive reinforcement towards the inner critic is great advice as well, because if you let the critic run rampant (like I do all the time) it just drives you crazy. Definitely trying that technique.
    Also the jazz music was amazing!🙌🙌

  • @melissaludik484
    @melissaludik484 6 років тому

    Well done. This is such a good and much-needed video. So few people have the courage to 'work with' that inner voice, like you suggest. You are truly an inspiration to the many that watch you. Love your work.

  • @lexcrumpets
    @lexcrumpets 6 років тому

    This is pretty similar advice to what my therapist has given me in the past about my anxiety in general, except I never really understood the advice at the time. it never really clicked with me until I saw this video and generalised what you were saying into other aspects of life where my brain likes to take the smallest of thoughts and spiral them out of control and defeat me. Thankyou so much 💜

  • @sageknight8500
    @sageknight8500 6 років тому

    i think im going to listen to this video whenever i become overwhelmed with negative thoughts not just about my art but also in general life. ive been trying out meditation and ive been using an app called headspace and what you say in this video and how you say it in such a calm relaxing voice just reminds me of the meditation sessions and what is said in those. i think this just really helped hammer in that point of noting things rather than trying to push them away simply because theyre negative and i think its just helped put the noting method into context for me

  • @hellolala
    @hellolala 6 років тому +6

    I've been struggling with this inner critic again this week, because I met up with my moms old friend who was really crude. she was asking me "so why are you still not working? don't you wanna work? just work anywhere! or do you just don't wanna work?" like wow nice to see you too lady! no! like I totally wanna be poor for the rest of my life! meanwhile, none of her kids are working either. and all of them are graduates. so if they are having a hard time finding jobs, what makes you think I can find one myself. if I did, don't you think I'd be working already?!

  • @chiazom
    @chiazom 6 років тому

    had to pause and say that you are WISE. thank you for this message

  • @wickchick1963
    @wickchick1963 6 років тому

    Really good advice, thank you! My inner critic has been so busy lately. I find it hard to be motivated some days and sometimes I just go with that...maybe rest is needed sometimes, but often, if I just get all my art materials out and all set up complete with scented candles (!) it’s easier to get started. I went from full time to part time work to make a go of my calligraphy business and have branched out into watercolour painting and I love it! My inner critic loves to guilt trip me mainly. Thanks again Minnie, you’re inspirational and a wonderful artist xx

  • @meowz9772
    @meowz9772 6 років тому +2

    This is such an important lesson that we tend to forget to remember to do!

  • @senifcp9125
    @senifcp9125 6 років тому

    Absolutely LOVE the new background! You put it together so well! And definitely agree with what you said about the inner critic we each have. It's something we each need learn how to deal and overcome it. It's hard and perhaps not totally possible to get rid of it but as long as we try to fight it back I think we'll be okay. Xoxo

  • @GeshiaSanctuary
    @GeshiaSanctuary 6 років тому

    Your voice is so lovely to listen to!! If you ever did a podcast narrating stories or anything please let us know! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @prinsesminette
    @prinsesminette 6 років тому

    Dear Minnie, you are a wonderful artist, a lot of people love your work, please get painting and drawing in stead of doubting yourself.

  • @joyabbott5844
    @joyabbott5844 6 років тому

    I love your honesty, I think all (good) artists feel this from time to time. I see lots of great artists and there successful life's and think why am I not as, but when I feel this it's good to get back to grass roots. I switch of the Internet stop looking what everyone else is doing and concentrate on why I love art, and what I bring to the table so to speak. Being an artistic person as it's low moments but from them we rise, fiercer than before. So looking forward to more exceptional work from you xx

  • @TheM0desta
    @TheM0desta 6 років тому

    I haven't even watched the video yet, but I'm so happy to see your growth here on UA-cam! You're one of the most creative and fresh people I watch. ❤

  • @Carol-Bell
    @Carol-Bell 6 років тому

    Mistakes are just mistakes. I might have commented this before -- I knew an ice skating teacher who always said "if you aren't falling down you aren't learning anything". In art, I've found that mistakes are usually an opportunity to get creative, and the thing I'm working on always turns out better than my original idea would have been. At the very least, you get to learn either what to avoid or how to fix it:) Maybe don't argue with your inner critic, but you can certainly let your "inner cheerleader" join in the conversation, and decide to believe the positive... and the inner critic can just come along for the ride as you continue instead of quitting. I love watching you paint, hearing how mature you are for your age, and seeing the finished work. Yes, I am a bit old:)

  • @frizzydizzie8292
    @frizzydizzie8292 6 років тому

    Your videos are always such a genuine pleasure to watch! I always get so excited when you upload💗 It’s also lovely to see you being less harsh on yourself, please keep the fantastic content coming! x

  • @oshaylinuxTheHobbyist
    @oshaylinuxTheHobbyist 6 років тому

    You're very candad. Deep in thinking and states your feelings and thoughts so relatable. I glad YAH lead me to your youtube channel. Thanks for pointing out how ebay grabs people money.

  • @user-qb9ji9yv6i
    @user-qb9ji9yv6i 6 років тому

    This is amazing. Great perspective on “the inner critic”👍🏼

  • @pistacheandrosebymargaretl9101
    @pistacheandrosebymargaretl9101 6 років тому

    You have explained this in such a wonderful way. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

  • @rossisky11
    @rossisky11 6 років тому

    You're so calming and I really enjoy watching you drawing and just listen to your thoughts, lovely video!

  • @TheModoki123
    @TheModoki123 6 років тому

    Your set up is so nice now! I love the background shelves and how your workspace looks. The glass palette with the table pattern is a nice touch. Everything looks very professional. :)

  • @yohaangokhale4386
    @yohaangokhale4386 6 років тому

    Minnie is both a great psychologist and an artist

  • @DanaCecile
    @DanaCecile 6 років тому +4

    this really hit home. i think my inner critic is at its worst when i'm actually not working. sometimes i wonder if i'm doing art because "thats what i do", or if it's because i really do love it. i'm still working a full time job right now, so my main times to work on art are in the evening and on the weekends, and i always find myself putting it off, or not feeling like i'm up to it. i think i question why i'm even doing it because i feel like it shouldn't be so difficult to make myself work on something. like even if i'm tired of working all day, i feel like if it really meant that much to me it should be automatic; as soon as i get home i hit my workspace. but i always feel like i'm having to really really force myself to go get to work. it's strange because i have this back and forth with myself all the time, and i always find myself coming to the same conclusion: i really, passionately, unconditionally LOVE making art. there is nothing in this world that makes me feel more fulfilled than finishing a piece, or coming up with a great idea when i'm sketching. when i'm working, i always lose myself in my process. there's even something satisfying about the soreness in my hand after a long session. there are definitely times when i look at something and see mistakes and feel frustrated with myself. i think it's kinda valuable to have that voice there, because i think u can utilize it to keep u pushing yourself. you may feel like you're not getting "better", but i can tell you from having watched your channel front to back, your work has not only evolved and matured, but so has your artistic presentation. the advice you give here is great, and i hope you are finding some solace in knowing that you're not alone, and you have so many people here to offer support. i'm always happy to see a new video from you, i'm looking forward to the February vlog :3 (i know we are only two weeks in, but that's my point. i love your channel. lol)

    • @emeraldm0on-yt
      @emeraldm0on-yt 6 років тому +1

      Tsuki Cecile im in hs but I relate so deeply

    • @merebrillante
      @merebrillante 6 років тому

      I find I’m much looser creating in the morning. Maybe try getting up an hour earlier in the morning and just get up and create.

    • @bravepelvichealth4164
      @bravepelvichealth4164 4 роки тому

      Your comment hit home too. As a singer I have been caught up in the spiral of the inner critique but I let it take control over me in such a way that I stopped singing. I am working towards going back gently and although it is hard to keep it quiet I can enjoy the process more. For me it is a arms wrestle all the time though because my inner critique found many single moments in my life to be fuelled from so I am learning to tame it. Anyway, thank you for your comment. It is so good to see that we are not alone in these feelings.

  • @Electricdawn64
    @Electricdawn64 6 років тому

    My inner critic is so harsh 😱 ....you are a brilliant artist x

  • @brooke8065
    @brooke8065 6 років тому

    I love the amount of thought you've put into this topic, it's really inspiring .. . also your hair looks super cool like that and really soft

  • @jethrocyrus3608
    @jethrocyrus3608 6 років тому

    But Minnie, you've made it. Even if your art might not always be what you wanted it to be at first, it's something else that all of us love. You don't have to be as technical as anyone else specifically, because whoever they are would never be able to make your art like you. Plus your style is genuinely what we look for in art...its more than sufficiently beautiful. I for one, appreciate the desire for improvement and welcome whatever comes of trying, but I'm very satisfied and grateful for you and your art. I'm glad you made this video, though. I like your videos, and to share everything you've just shared with us helps us appreciate your work even more :)

  • @emillypinheiro3031
    @emillypinheiro3031 6 років тому

    Hi, Minnie! I don't usually comment on yotube videos but I really feel like it with yours. Even though I'm no artist, you inspire me in so other levels. Today I was goign through some anxiety mood to do stuff and not feeling able to, but I've been watching some of your videos and it brought me some peace. Thank you for that.

  • @MirrorNothingFunny
    @MirrorNothingFunny 6 років тому

    You're so imperfect and I love you. You're like everyone, but so special.

  • @rachellane2836
    @rachellane2836 6 років тому

    The Chimp Paradox- interesting read+very similar concept to what you are saying with a few extra tricks+tips on how to manage it effectively.

  • @eddypalogrande
    @eddypalogrande 6 років тому

    Just discovered your channel Minnie, your videos are relatable as heck, you have a new subscriber. Thank you for reminding us we share a lot more than we usually think. Beautiful sketches and workspace!

  • @ItsLizV
    @ItsLizV 6 років тому +6

    Loved this Minnie! It made me think differently about those "inner critic" moments now. Hope I can deal with it a bit better from now on, anxiety certainly doesn't help with being an artist (or rather, trying to be an artist !). I know I'm a nobody, but your work and your videos are super inspiring to me. Seeing how you grow and all the cool things you do, make me want to be better!

  • @logantj8020
    @logantj8020 6 років тому

    This was great to hear. I loved your response to this topic and it was very insightful. As of recently I've been losing inspiration to draw partly due to how busy school has made me, and partly due to the fact that I feel as though my art has been lacking because of how little I'm keeping up with it. Last year I progressed a lot and I guess I'm afraid I can't do the same this year, especially with all the work piling on. But watching this has helped me pick back up my sketchbook and get to drawing. By the way, I hope you have a nice day !

  • @DaisyandConfused21
    @DaisyandConfused21 6 років тому

    I adore your art and your channel. Hands down one of my favorites. I also really appreciate your consistent honesty because I think with social media it's really easy to get caught up in the comparison game. As a creative, I find myself constantly having to keep that little voice in check and being able to hear someone express the same things I'm feeling helps to remind me that I'm not the only one struggling. Thank you so much for your continued amazing content.💖

  • @sharminrahman9191
    @sharminrahman9191 6 років тому

    Ugh you always put up videos right when I need them and you say just what I need to hear at that moment. I'm currently delaying working on my first ever commissions (that I opened myself up to much from your influence!) because I feel like I suck and that I'm a fraud - but you're right, it's because I'm scared. Thanks so much Minnie - for the record, I think you're completely brilliant and you've inspired and propelled my art in ways I couldn't thank you enough for :)

    • @Carol-Bell
      @Carol-Bell 6 років тому +1

      Get busy and just do it....your inner critic is just "jealous" :) . and best wishes for a great time doing it and a happy client!!!

    • @sharminrahman9191
      @sharminrahman9191 6 років тому

      Thank you! :)

  • @loggedout6937
    @loggedout6937 6 років тому +8

    I love ur vids ❤️ You inspire me to create art and you are relatable! I just started highschool (hi from Australia) and I’m really enjoying art and hope I can be somewhere near as good as you one day! ❤️✨

  • @elieanaythompson72
    @elieanaythompson72 5 років тому

    This fantastic! I appreciate this little cup of kindness.

  • @NadaMajdy
    @NadaMajdy 6 років тому

    I always look up to you, you seem very chilled and laid back and you're very rational when it comes to these kind of topics I really enjoy these videos and I always learn from you ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ Love from Egypt