Entering Your Grown Woman Era | Getting Over Your Own SH**
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It’s October and October = Whit!!! I’m happy to see your face!
Happy to be here! Cant wait for you too see the series for October this year :)
The last two months have been some of the worst that I’ve ever had. I am trying to get out of this, but it’s been really hard. My depression and anxiety are at a level they have never been. Hearing someone verbalize what I deal with (or at least some of it) reminds me that I’m not alone. Thank you for your honesty ❤
Sending you love and light. You will come out of this victorious my dear.
Lindsey, we are all here for you. Sending much love your way! ❤️
Awwww, Lindsey! I am so so sorry babe!!!!!! Hows lil man?
@@whitneyhedrick growing like a weed and running around like crazy! I wish I had his energy 😂🤣
Yeess!!! You are definitely definitely not alone! Keep moving forward girlfriend! XOXO
I would love a video about your weight loss journey. I am on one as well and would love to hear your experiences on gain and loss over the years
I will do one but maybe at the end of this year when we are all getting ready for resolutions ;)
So the title. Im already ready for this!!Yes!!Hey gurl hey!!Hey everybody!Hopping you all are having an amazing day. 😁😊⭐️☀️
You too!! :)
Thank you for being open about your mental health journey. Everyone struggles with it from time to time, at least, and I am all for getting rid of the stigma surrounding it. Glad that you are improving, and best wishes for continued recovery.
thanks my love :) I'm glad you guys are allowing me to have this conversation :)
My mom passed in 2019 too. I understand your struggle and pain since I haven't been the same since she passed either. She was only 67 so it's been tough to go through life without her. We all deal with grief differently. Some people say it gets easier as time goes on but for me it hasn't. It's hard! Then there are people in your life that don't know what to say and you want them to provide you with some comfort. I have these expectations of others but realize that I need to stop doing that as it makes things worse. Sending hugs to you, Whitney and to all those who lost a parent too young and too soon. Xo ❤
THank you! Sorry for your loss., my love. Im in a weird place with it now where I am just actively missing her a lot. A lot more reminds me of her. I feel like for a while I almost couldnt remember her? Or I could only think of her in terms of what her dying was like to watch. It was hard and I think it traumatized me a little lol but...all we can do is try and move forward and find ways to keep them close. Hopes for your continued healing in this regard. xo
@@whitneyhedrick Tysm! I understand as I miss my mom all the time. I also saw her die in front of me and it was traumatic. It's really painful to endure that as a last memory. I keep her spirit alive by sharing stories with my husband and family. Our mama's are looking down on us proudly. xo
Love these mental health chitchats. Prefer it over makeup talk that I watched years ago lol.
Thanks babe :)
Glad to see you're doing better. Love the look. Didn't see your mental health resources on the d box unless it's in the high maintenance energy series?
Omg! I forgot to put them down there! 🙈
I have suffered with really bad depression & anxiety to a very critical point but something that’s been helping me a lot is taking Extra Strength Ashwagandha Vitamins I’ve noticed a big change in my anxiety witch I’m grateful for 😊 I don’t have medical insurance so I had to find something available to everyone to help me so I recommend, obviously won’t work for everyone but maybe it can help someone 😇
Thank you for sharing :)
Hey Whitney. I really like your nails!!! If you go somewhere to get them done what do ypu ask for? I'd like something very similar to the shape and ombre style you have!!!
They are coffin shaped and the color has the word vanilla in them :) it’s gel I just don’t know the name
@@whitneyhedrick thanks! That helps me on what to ask for.
I like a Mac blush and mascara and fix plus, nothing else really. I have a paint pot I've tried maybe once as eye primer and I hated it lol.
Aw man! well differnt folks and all that :)
Wait, when did you get a divorce!??? 😯😯😯
I'm very sorry it didn't work out, but since it didn't work out, I'm glad you're moving forward ❤️
And thank you for your sincerity about your mental health challenges and successes, we need to keep it visible for everyone's sake, not hide it like thet used to in the olden days, when people suffered alone within uninformed societies
No no we are still very much together…10 years on the 19th.
@@whitneyhedrick OMG THANK GOODNESS!!! 🥰🥰🥰
And congrats on ten years! 😍😍😍
Embrace the new you. Life is a journey. At 45, I honestly feel the most "Me" I have ever felt. Zero f's to give. It's ok to seek new things. Trial and error. Try it. If you enjoy it, then do it. If it doesn't bring you joy, then don't continue doing it. Thank you for the me BS content. I'm regularly told I go too deep with thinking and have to break everything down, but it's who I am. I embrace it now.
Very inspiring ;)
Recently my therapist and I were talking about life experiences of women who were labeled gifted as children. One of the biggest things I'm learning is that the needs of these children were often not understood by the adult world. I don't know if that is your experience but, if so, you might want to look into that area. You are SO brave and wonderful! Thank you for sharing.
THanks! I will look into that :)
I FELT when you said we confuse the things that make us feel safe and the things that make us happy
It’s an eye opener for sure :)
I could not agree more! Truer words have never been spoken!!!!
Ooh girl u have no idea how excited Iam to see your beautiful face! 💋Im going through a rough ass breakup!! I really needed this so ty gorgeous 😭About to pour me some wine and relax!!!
Im sorry to hear that my love. But you got this and things WILL get better :)
@@whitneyhedrick Ty beautiful god bless you
My Mom passed away in 2014. I went through a lot, it’s not easy but, it gets easier with time and therapy. I LOVE your old tutorial videos when you are using mostly Mac products. It’s a good sign that you are interested in makeup right now. When I am not wanting to use my makeup it is when I am depressed. You look fantastic!!!
1. Thank you!
2. Yeah I am super encouraged that I’m into all this right now. I filmed myself doing makeup again today ;)
I really appreciate this video, it was inspiring. Have you heard about the research suggesting depression may not be caused by a chemical imbalance but rather trauma's long-term effects on the brain? I found this interesting because like you, I had a traumatic childhood that got written off as an anxiety disorder when it was just my brain never knowing what it was like to be safe. Luckily that means it can be taught to be "normal" even if the road there is a difficult one (trust me) lol. Lots of love and happiness to you 💕
I have. I spent a few years trying to work through all that and the meds came on when the panic disorder started and it just wasn’t something I can put off anymore. I’m glad I got on them at the time but now…I’m ready to be done
This is exactly right they did the same thing with me the doctors didn't even know what anxiety disorder was they thought I was crazy 20 years ago. But you're absolutely right about the traumatic childhood I went through myself and to this day I still don't feel at ease for safe that makes sense within myself. Not that I want to hurt myself but I just want to be happy and I have to find that within myself. But I wanted to thank you for this post because what you wrote does not go unnoticed thank you so much!
Wow, that makes sense that trauma would cause depression. I didn't know about that study/research.
Losing a parent changes us forever.. I pray you find the peace you’re searching for ❤
Thank you sweets :)
Hi! A good old grwm! Love it.
Oldie but a goodie 😀
I was definitely going to comment and say it started when your mom passed. I have commented before and told u my story and I'm still dealing with my mental health/depression 3 yrs later. I agree grief is a bitch 💜
It’s the worst! Hope you are feeling ok babe :)
I appreciate how you can express your feelings. That is so important for your healing. I can definitely relate to everything you shared. God bless you.
Thanks sweets :)
hi Ms. Whitney 👋 (i erased my other comment cuz this 1's more on point) As some1 who also knows extreme grief, deep loss & sadness (my Mom died too) i can relate to everything you said. you are a young lady with TONS & TONS of wisdom & perspective to share with folks who maybe've never been touched by this level of sorrow, loss & pain but that are in it right now. OR i know there are viewers out there that have never given themselves permission to fully grieve, to allow themselves to get help or to give themselves self-care. As sharp as we as Americans are, many do not know how to navigate through very tough or foreign emotions & situations like pain & loss and self care & mental health. Excellent, excellent work Whitney !! Hv a gr8 1!! (p.s. ya 4got the 3,2,1...oh well, next time tho 😉)
I'm definitely on a journey also and been on several different medications that didn't work or gave me really bad side effects. I'm here for whatever you post Whitney
Thank you sweets :)
I'm only a quarter of the way in on the audiobook, but I think you're going to loooove Becoming Duchess Goldblatt (anonymous). It's a memoir of a woman who created an elaborate fictional social media character, and so far it is riveting.
WHAT?! that sounds cool!
It's okay to change your mind! Love seeing an update from you. I totally understand & empathize with that fear of back tracking with mental health vs work vs everything else in life.
What is your sun and moon sign by chance? I feel the exact same feeling the need to analyze and reflect on EVERYTHING 💫
You are sooooo relatable! I've been struggling a lot with depression and anxiety these past almost 4 years. I love what you said about acting like our old selves and seeing if our brains catches up.
Im excited to see how it works out :)
You are doing a fantastic job 👏 Keep going because you definitely inspire many.
This makeup lewk🤤🤤
Glad you’re back lady!
Me too ;)
I really missed you! I’m glad you’re back to talk to us.
Donna
I missed YOU, Donna!
Watched this on a depressy stressy day, I'm gunna go get up and get ready now. Always vibe off your energy whitney!
Aw thank you babe! Go get 'em! :)
I get so happy when I see you post a new video btw!!!!
Yay! That makes me happy to hear :)
Making dinner and feeling so...comforted. this is just so relatable and feeling understood. I've been in my own season of healing and breaking apart old habits and mindsets. It's been such a journey but it's been very rewarding as I see the small consistent growth. Love and light to you and all you babes 💛 ✨️
Aw! To you as well! I am kinda surprised you guys are resonating so much with this video because I had NO idea what I wanted to talk about when I sat down. I always worry I talk too much about this stuff lol but its what I am dealing with and I love that we can all speak openly about it :)
I love your post if I may ask how are you able to break your old habits and mindset? That I struggle with daily so if you could please give me advice I would really appreciate it thank you kindly
I love you so much❣️ I appreciate your willingness to be vulnerable and real. I’m currently going through it a little too. In May my husband and my youngest son and I moved cross country away from my home state. I left my grown children and my parents to make our new life. I miss them so much. Fast forward to August, my daddy fell and broke his hip and had to have surgery. He’s 84 and not in tip top health to begin with. Then he and my momma got The ‘Vid and were so sick. My daddy developed pneumonia and was nearly dead before doctors hospitalized him. So, there I was, thousands of miles away, a hurricane barreling down on my home and not a flight to be had. I packed a bag and jumped in my car and drove to get here “in time”. Thank the goddess above that I made it here and he is starting to make improvements. He has such a long way to go and will have to work very hard to get back to good. I have been here for 2 weeks and I have to leave in a few days to get back home to my boys (husband, 11 yo son and my puppy). I’m carrying a lot of guilt and I’m going to have to do some hard internal work to rid myself of it. The what if questions are filling my brain and I’m having trouble making them go away. Hang in there, Sweetheart. We’re going to make it. I promise.
Yeah, no one prepares you for your parents to get older. In our minds, they are forever young. In my mind, my mom is about my age. She was 56 when she passed and I was in no way prepared. I was there with my mom for two weeks when she passed. And the day she passed was supposed to be my day to go home. We didn't know how long she would hold on or anything but I had to leave...my parents live 8 hours away from me and my husband and daughter...but the morning I was supposed to leave she passed. Had it gone another way it would have sucked but at the same time...you do have to keep your life together somehow, ya know? Its tough all around, but the best thing you can do is be there as much as you can for all sides of your life. You just cant be in two places at once. Be present wherever you are, ask for help when you need it, and take time for yourself as well. I hope your dad continues to heal and recover beautifully :)
@@whitneyhedrick you’re my favorite favorite❣️ I hope that the peace you seek floods over you like refreshing thunderstorm. Blessed be, My Love❣️
I have to ask are you a Virgo Whitney?or a gemini?
I was going to ask the same questions. I was wondering where they are placed in her natal chart.
@@afrikurl yes me too!she is very smart so I thought Virgo or gemini😊
Aquarius sun and Virgo Moon :)
@@whitneyhedrick wow amazing Whitney!Virgo moon are very intelligent but perfectionist I have a Virgo rising and I can relate so much to you!abrase all this beauty you have Whitney,astrology helps us understand who we are in life,you are a beautiful soul honey🥰😘
I loved this video so much! Every single thing you spoke on! I feel myself growing more into my grown woman era as well… putting myself first. I’m a HUUUUUUGE over thinker and yes! It does keep us from opportunities. I love you so much! You help me so much! 💕💕💕💕
Try fascia blasting for your neck, it really helps!
Ooh! I’ve not heard of that. “Blasting” sounds kinda painful, no?
@@whitneyhedrick not at all! Look up Ashley Black Fascia blaster. It's really cool and can be done over the entire body.
I would second fascia blasting! I do it on the back of my legs and it totally got rid of my cellulite!
Thank you
Whitney - you are such an awesome person!! So happy to see that you are starting to feel like you're self again I can totally tell your skin looks amazing by the way! Hope you are able to enjoy these upcoming months your friend's family and makeup and making videos! XOXO
Sending you lots of love. I had a rough time for a few years following a traumatic experience, I felt like giving up… but came out of it. It will get better, although it feels like it never will sometimes… hang in there, look after yourself. You are precious and special xx
Your realness is why you are one of my favorites. You inspire me in so many ways! I was struggling with alot of breakouts in my jawline area. My acne is under control thanks to retinA but I have horrible hyperpigmentation that has lightened but it won't go away. I started using natural antifungals in my diet and decided to try an antifungal on my hyperpigmentation. I have been using it externally on my face and scalp for about a week and to my suprise my hair stopped falling out and my skin is improving finally! Who would have thought a yeast or fungus could wreak havoc on my skin and hair.
I hadnt ever considered that! Fascinating. Unfortunately...we are all as sure as we can be its been medication side effects. I must just be hyper sensitive or something I dunno haha
What product do you use for your scalp? I'd love to try this for hair loss. Thank you for your comment!
@@derendhamor5385 I take 2 tablespoons of braggs apple cider vinegar in my water. I also squeeze the juice of 1 lemon with a tsp of cold pressed high quality olive oil in with the lemon and drink that in water. I put unrefined cold pressed coconut oil in my morning coffee( no sugar). I cut added sugar out of my diet almost altogether temporarily. Now I occasionally eat ice cream etc. I cut back on carbs temporarily too. I take prebiotics and probiotics and digestive enzymes. All of these things were to internally help with yeast in my body. I take food grade diatomaceous earth too. I got diamond G 100% pure gum spirits of turpentine. It must be this type the others aren't the same. I put a couple of drops on a sugar cube and washed it down with water only 2 times a week. I used this turpentine on my trouble areas mixed in either a face mask or whatever I had for my face or even a couple of drops mixed in a face cream. For my scalp I mixed in a couple of drops of this turpentine in my shampoo in my hands each time I washed my hair. I know the other things I have done internally for several months have made a difference. Selsun Blue shampoo on my scalp for several minutes too
@@whitneyhedrick I am sorry you are going through all of this
And now, it's time for some laughs and giggles: Did you hear about the two beauty content creators who claim they can do their ENTIRE makeup routine with their eyes closed? That's because they're insomniacs.
I love the brown hair on you It makes you look so much younger
Oh snap! You said the magic words 😂😂😂
WE. MISSED. YOU. 🙌 ❤
I missed y’all!
Appreciate your honesty. I used to deal with extreme anxiety and depression and Jesus set me free through deliverance. Have you ever been open to allowing Jesus to help you deal with your trauma? Deliverance is real and God still does miracles. Just saw someone healed of spinal cancer last week. Praying for you friend 🤗
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Thank you so much! :)
Your always welcome
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I can relate to alots of things you are saying!I wish I could talk to you there is so many things I want to tell you!❤️🩹
I’m very happy to see you Whit! I’m proud of you for being bold enough to be forthcoming with your struggles. Every single one of us has struggled or is struggling currently, and some of us have struggled in the past and are struggling now, and know we will continue to struggle in the future. The more we can talk about these things and show others we are not ashamed to admit it, the more we normalize what so many recognize as their normal as well. I feel like I just talked in a complete circle and didn’t make sense at all but if you know…..you know! Not being afraid to tell someone when you are struggling is imperative. And not being looked down upon because of it is paramount. Society, as a whole, needs to come together to support each other and reach out an accepting hand. Thank you for doing all of these things. ❤️🥰🫶😘❤️
I always feel super weird talking about all this AFTER the fact. Like when I'm doing it...and talking to a camera...it kinda feels like a diary. Then people also see it. So I am really glad you guys feel the way you do about these videos....it is kinda scary doing it and cringey to me later at times. But its probably because (like you said) the stigma of struggling with this stuff.