…so heartbreaking- alan was everything- he stayed with me and my family when we were teenagers- this was unreal when i first heard it; and it still is- im so sorry. 😢
This is a warning to everyone. Their past matters. Fellas NEVER let them shame you for holding their past against them. You may end up being the one murdered or having to unalive someone in self defense
... not her fault. Guy was crazy. There are people who are obsessed with people who they don't date. She left and moves on he didn't. Sounds like he should have been in jail long ago especially for the death threats.
So what you’re saying is, Her ex was crazy, she got away, his crazy behind couldn’t let go. So she should never have a real loving relationship with someone else because of this.??????
@@newnana9070. Sorry sporty. No matter how "nice" this woman might be... She wasn't worth all the baggage she clearly had OR dealing with the "loose canon" ex-husband. Dudes can marry these single-Moms & BabyMommas if they like. I don't want no parts of the drama.
Nawl, your right. I didn't date for a while because the mother of my kids was crazy and obsessive. One time I was on a first date with this lady and, the mother of my kids called her phone told her where we were called out the color of her home and threatened her. How she got her number and knew all of this I will never know.
He should have not been let in or 1st seeing him the police should have been called, her husband should not have went outside peeiod not to be seen not to say nun. I know folks dont be wanting to back down or look scared or whatever wanna prove something...ur life is more important
They're not checking people's identity at the doors of funerals. People just show up. It also doesn't sound like the husband went outside just to deal with the ex. It sounds like they were all already outside in the parking lot, hence the fact that the murder occurred in front of this woman's child and her husband's mother. It may have been before or after the funeral. It wasn't just the husband and the ex outside by themselves.
@@thomasclarrett1918Right, because she's supposed to let some crazy person control her life just because it throws a temper tantrum and can't get it's way. I don't think so,victim blamer...
@thomasclarrett1918 I don't know all the details about the case, and neither do you ,to make those kinds of assumptions. Why are you asking me?I didn't do it, Lol
Beyond comprehension. I’m so sorry for the family’s losses. May the ex-husband be sentenced to no less than LIFE in prison without the chance for parole. 🤬
The lack of emotional maturity often leads to irrational thinking, and behavior as well. I pray, The most high fix these troubled men, and get them the assistance, that they desperately need, so our sisters won't have to deal with this Sickness. My prayers, to that entire family. Especially, her son that witnessed this horror.
I get it. The new generation aren't raised with Father's and don't understand authority and accountability. It's a cultural problem where men aren't really men...because many(not all)women don't let the fathers be men.
The restraining order is actually good as proof that you tried to legally protect yourself.. I filled them out at the courthouse, and filed them the same day. You don't necessarily need an attorney to file, and can go through legal aid if you'd feel better going that route. I'll tell you what the police told me because it's true: *"Restraining orders aren't worth the paper they're written on."* So, I Prayed and *equalized! 🙏🏾
Why can’t people just move on!!!!???? This man’s still not going to have her. He’s going to prison for life!!! She out here. Widowed, single. And he did in front of his child and at his child’s grandparent’s furneral🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️. Prayers for this poor family.🙏🏿🙏🏿
Her ex husband is a demon in human form/ If he had been harassing them. She should have KNOWN he was there for evil intentions especially by smiling in her face as if to say her mother's funeral was a joyous occasion. I wished she had security at her mom's funeral. It's heartbreaking that then man lost his life and they wer only able to love each other for just a few short months. My prayers.
Also, keep in mind that this couple could've still been victims even if the woman had never gotten into a relationship with the man. Many women can tell you that they've been victims of psychopathic stalker men who were only acquaintances; just being acquaintances was enough to trigger the men. I have a niece who's been dealing with one such individual for almost 10 years. He was a boy (now a man) who was a college classmate of hers - nothing more, nothing less. He's been making non-violent, but unwanted and unrequited romantic overtures for almost 10 years, and has always found some way to track her down, even if she's able to lose him for a few years. There's nothing she could've done to prevent this because she was just his classmate. So, sometimes there are red flags and ways to avoid dangerous people, but oftentimes there aren't, and you don't know a person until you actually KNOW them, and then it's too late.
Wow. Just wow. That guy destroyed a family because he was a narcissist. Lock him up and throw away the key. ....did that on front of the son..at the church...at the in law funeral......just trash. Our condolences to the family and loved ones. 💔🙏
I just wanted to say that If you have suicidal thoughts or mental trauma or even if you don’t or just going through a thought time or neither just know that I love you and your loved by many and people and if you think that might not be loved by your family or people you know or just anyone just know they might even love you even more than your think. You have a purpose you are beautiful, kind, just be yourself and go after what you want to do. You are amazing, you got this, and things will get better in your life, you will do great things, and so many people and I are proud of you. Your future is bigger than your past and your past does not define you are awesome and a warrior. Don’t hate yourself simply because of your past, forgive yourself, love yourself no matter what because you deserve the world and the great things in it. I love you Have a wonderful beautiful nice day. Also how are you and your family doing today? Hope you feel better and your family.❤️ Be yourself no matter what you are, have, or what to be you are still amazing and you kind and beautiful always you are the light of the world. Stay safe. 💪🏽❤️. Have a beautiful day.💯💯❤️💯💯🎈🎈🎈
That was always a deal-breaker for me when I'm starting to get to know somebody, and they say anything about a crazy or jealous Ex, I'm out! I've been stalked by an Ex once, and it was REAL scary. So I tell the guy, "I like you, but I LOVE my peaceful life more."❤
That why you need to be careful with you let in to you life RIP and sorry for your lost it sad when you try to move on and it also those who want to take away your happiness because they can’t handed your other happy
People are no longer giving a damn about other people around them whenever they want to do evil things so let's just face it evil is evil and it's here doesn't look like it's going anywhere this makes no sense
This is a level of hate of they don't want you to win im sorry for your loss im looking for red flags as well in my life thank you for this lesson im so sorry for what happened but it's a lesson for me to learn in my life
Demons are out here rampant
Yes indeed
Facts 💯 😡
Truth!
Absolutely
GEN Z WORSHIP DEMONS THO 😮
If you have someone that got a crazy ex just leave it’s not worth it😢
Amen!
She did and he still killed
@@misskelly9184I think she’s saying that if the husband left, he would still be alive.
THANK YOU
@@misskelly9184true but she’s saying don’t get with people who have a crazy ex
I won't be with someone with an obsessed crazy ex especially if that person lives in the same town.
Scary cat
@lynnessapatterson3913 oh you hush ain't nobody got time for that drama and BS
Unless we move far, far away
You can die if you want but this shit is real when someone says you belong to me they mean business and you must move away.
I agree.
We are aware of red flags now.
I'm really sorry this happened to this family. RIP mother and husband.
LORD, bring swift justice 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
AMEN
RIP young man! Sorry to his family for this horrible tragedy! What a Coward the ex-husband is!
some people are ridiculous, great reporting, he probably got word of the mom's funeral and knew he could catch them there
…so heartbreaking- alan was everything- he stayed with me and my family when we were teenagers- this was unreal when i first heard it; and it still is- im so sorry. 😢
Going from on loss to another is tragic for real. How sad 😔😢
So so sad. I'm sorry for your losses 💔🙏
This is sick
So sad and I feel so sorry for her and I'm so sorry for her losses!!! May both of the deceased rest peacefully!!!
Just stop it.
That's horrible and very sad 😔
This is a warning to everyone. Their past matters. Fellas NEVER let them shame you for holding their past against them. You may end up being the one murdered or having to unalive someone in self defense
... not her fault. Guy was crazy. There are people who are obsessed with people who they don't date. She left and moves on he didn't. Sounds like he should have been in jail long ago especially for the death threats.
So what you’re saying is, Her ex was crazy, she got away, his crazy behind couldn’t let go. So she should never have a real loving relationship with someone else because of this.??????
@@newnana9070. Sorry sporty. No matter how "nice" this woman might be... She wasn't worth all the baggage she clearly had OR dealing with the "loose canon" ex-husband.
Dudes can marry these single-Moms & BabyMommas if they like. I don't want no parts of the drama.
Nawl, your right. I didn't date for a while because the mother of my kids was crazy and obsessive. One time I was on a first date with this lady and, the mother of my kids called her phone told her where we were called out the color of her home and threatened her. How she got her number and knew all of this I will never know.
@@walkerenterprise1764 I took 2 years off from dating a crazy bipolar woman. Never again. I got PTSD rn In my current relationship.
He should have not been let in or 1st seeing him the police should have been called, her husband should not have went outside peeiod not to be seen not to say nun. I know folks dont be wanting to back down or look scared or whatever wanna prove something...ur life is more important
They're not checking people's identity at the doors of funerals. People just show up. It also doesn't sound like the husband went outside just to deal with the ex. It sounds like they were all already outside in the parking lot, hence the fact that the murder occurred in front of this woman's child and her husband's mother. It may have been before or after the funeral. It wasn't just the husband and the ex outside by themselves.
The saying is soooo.... True "Choose Your Battles Wisely" some people just not worth your breath!!!
Demons and zombies are real. Also only a coward would do this.
That poor woman,how terrible 😢. They were a beautiful couple.
POOR WOMAN ,WHY DRAG A NOTHER MAN INTO YOUR MESS ...SHE KNEW WHO HE WAS ..
@@thomasclarrett1918Right, because she's supposed to let some crazy person control her life just because it throws a temper tantrum and can't get it's way. I don't think so,victim blamer...
@@kimberleeberry2039 SHE KNEW WHO THIS MAN WAS ..DONT BRING OTHER PEOPLE INTO YOUR MESS
@@kimberleeberry2039OK IAM GOING TO SAY THIS AGAIN WHY BRING SOMEONE ELSE IN TO YOUR LIFE WHEN YOU KNOW THAT THE GUY YOUR DROP IS A PROBLEM
@thomasclarrett1918 I don't know all the details about the case, and neither do you ,to make those kinds of assumptions. Why are you asking me?I didn't do it, Lol
Never ignore the signs 💜 DM Survivor💜
Never
DM?
@roderickstockdale1678 I think she meant DV for Domestic Violence.
@@janedo-re-mi2738 got it
Beyond comprehension.
I’m so sorry for the family’s losses.
May the ex-husband be sentenced to no less than LIFE in prison without the chance for parole. 🤬
I feel so sad for the family
The lack of emotional maturity often leads to irrational thinking, and behavior as well. I pray, The most high fix these troubled men, and get them the assistance, that they desperately need, so our sisters won't have to deal with this
Sickness. My prayers, to that entire family. Especially, her son that witnessed this horror.
He had a good heart ❤️
MAY BE HE SHOULD NOT HAVE MES WITH THE LADY WITH THE CRAZY EX
I am so sorry for your loss you have my deepest sympathy ❤️🩹 🙏🏾
Horrible tragedy! My condolences!🙏🙏🙏
There are way too many weak men walking the earth; I just don't get it. May her husband rest in peace.
I get it. The new generation aren't raised with Father's and don't understand authority and accountability. It's a cultural problem where men aren't really men...because many(not all)women don't let the fathers be men.
What attorney do you call for NO CONTACT RESTAINING ORDERS
The restraining order is actually good as proof that you tried to legally protect yourself.. I filled them out at the courthouse, and filed them the same day. You don't necessarily need an attorney to file, and can go through legal aid if you'd feel better going that route.
I'll tell you what the police told me because it's true: *"Restraining orders aren't worth the paper they're written on."*
So, I Prayed and *equalized! 🙏🏾
Why can’t people just move on!!!!???? This man’s still not going to have her. He’s going to prison for life!!! She out here. Widowed, single. And he did in front of his child and at his child’s grandparent’s furneral🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️. Prayers for this poor family.🙏🏿🙏🏿
Her ex husband is a demon in human form/ If he had been harassing them. She should have KNOWN he was there for evil intentions especially by smiling in her face as if to say her mother's funeral was a joyous occasion. I wished she had security at her mom's funeral. It's heartbreaking that then man lost his life and they wer only able to love each other for just a few short months. My prayers.
Unfortunately, it happens sometimes, one of the reasons i quit working at the funeral home. 🙏🏿
Respect,heartfelt condolences n family stay strong
"Love" is an emotion that will blind you. Sure there were red flags
WOW SO SORRY😢😢
Praying for the family❤
May He and His Mother in law rest in peace and my condolence to their family. 🙏🏿
Wow, I’m speechless! Condolences to you and your family during this difficult time 🕊️ 🌹 🕯️
Lord be with all this so hurtfulLord cover all
Why bring a gun to a funeral crazy people
My Condolences praying for the family 🌹❤️🕊️💔🕊️🌹
😢😢😢😢😢so sorry for your loss😢😢😢😢
This is so sad l am so sorry ❤🙏
Sooo sad😢 aI pray God give her peace
Ppl are evil.
Okay to the women that say. "What does my past have to do with you? We'll wait to hear from all of you..
The another definition of weak Man... letting his emotions get to him smh
Hurt people, hurt people. How absolutely horrible! My condolences to everyone who witnessed this. Sheesh, just awful.
Prayers for you!!!!🙏
VERY SAD!!! My condolences.
😢😢😢😢 when people tell you something you better believe them😮.
Rest in peace gentle soul
I'm sorry for your loss.
So very sorry for you guys loss .
Wow, this is so sad.
This is why you don't jump into relationships with psychopaths...They all have red flags...my condolences and prayers for you and your family.
Also, keep in mind that this couple could've still been victims even if the woman had never gotten into a relationship with the man. Many women can tell you that they've been victims of psychopathic stalker men who were only acquaintances; just being acquaintances was enough to trigger the men. I have a niece who's been dealing with one such individual for almost 10 years. He was a boy (now a man) who was a college classmate of hers - nothing more, nothing less. He's been making non-violent, but unwanted and unrequited romantic overtures for almost 10 years, and has always found some way to track her down, even if she's able to lose him for a few years. There's nothing she could've done to prevent this because she was just his classmate. So, sometimes there are red flags and ways to avoid dangerous people, but oftentimes there aren't, and you don't know a person until you actually KNOW them, and then it's too late.
😅 I agree with you brother but let’s not act like psychopaths are always easy to identify…
facts
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢just sadness what a really bad person God almighty please help us all
So sad my condolences 😢
Omg. That's so horrible. My heart and prayers go out to her and both families. 🙏🏽
You have my heart felt condolences
So sorry 🙏🙏🙏
With people like this you have to be on the offensive!!! Too many times people wait on being victimized.
This is a horror beyond words…condolences to the family 💐
I’m so sorry for your loss I’m praying for you and your strength🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
This is really awful 😢it’s trifling that he did this at the mother in law funeral and people actually witnessed it 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Narccistic and Sociopathic people are real and dangerous. Be careful.Be aware.Stay safe.
Prayers for your family & his family 💐
What church did this take place
Hello - it happened at Oasis of Hope Church on East 25th Street in Indianapolis.
Wow. Just wow. That guy destroyed a family because he was a narcissist. Lock him up and throw away the key. ....did that on front of the son..at the church...at the in law funeral......just trash.
Our condolences to the family and loved ones. 💔🙏
It's called cheating, and it causes people to devalue you.
So sorry for your loss 😢🙏🏽
Great reporting. Stay alert everyone. “Never ignore the red flags”
That man is a demon … I’m so sorry for your both your losses … ❤
Just sad!!!
Condolences to his family.
Ladys, if we ask y’all, how crazy is your ex-boyfriend please let us know the truth don’t put us in the situation
Hope he rots in jail. Prayers to her and the families.
This hits different always watch the company u keep it might end up being bad for your health 💯
That man lost his life for nothing.
People are broken souls 💔 horrible 😢 🙏 rip 😢
I just wanted to say that If you have suicidal thoughts or mental trauma or even if you don’t or just going through a thought time or neither just know that I love you and your loved by many and people and if you think that might not be loved by your family or people you know or just anyone just know they might even love you even more than your think. You have a purpose you are beautiful, kind, just be yourself and go after what you want to do. You are amazing, you got this, and things will get better in your life, you will do great things, and so many people and I are proud of you. Your future is bigger than your past and your past does not define you are awesome and a warrior. Don’t hate yourself simply because of your past, forgive yourself, love yourself no matter what because you deserve the world and the great things in it. I love you Have a wonderful beautiful nice day. Also how are you and your family doing today? Hope you feel better and your family.❤️ Be yourself no matter what you are, have, or what to be you are still amazing and you kind and beautiful always you are the light of the world. Stay safe. 💪🏽❤️. Have a beautiful day.💯💯❤️💯💯🎈🎈🎈
So is he in custody or not?
This is awful, this anger me, my condolences to you and the family.
That's horrible😢
Misery loves company.
91 Psalms please pray for protection. This is just sad evil really is out here trying to devour but God has the final say.
Senseless!!!
WHY DRAG YOUR MAN IN TO YOUR MESS, SHE KNEW WHO THIS MAN WAS
If they have a Crazy Ex just leave them. It’s not worth it
That is why you gotta tell
Your crazy ex crazy excuses 😒 🙄 😐 😒
Fellas if she doesn’t want you leave her alone! 💯
That was always a deal-breaker for me when I'm starting to get to know somebody, and they say anything about a crazy or jealous Ex, I'm out!
I've been stalked by an Ex once, and it was REAL scary. So I tell the guy, "I like you, but I LOVE my peaceful life more."❤
Anyone who has no fear of God, is capable of doing anything to us.
Condolences to the families. 😢
That why you need to be careful with you let in to you life RIP and sorry for your lost it sad when you try to move on and it also those who want to take away your happiness because they can’t handed your other happy
I would never let my guard it’s ashame this poor lady couldn’t lay her mom to Rest In Peace 😢Rip to her husband 💔🙏🏿✝️
RIP and my condolences
That's horrible and unthinkable
So what happened to the killer?
People are no longer giving a damn about other people around them whenever they want to do evil things so let's just face it evil is evil and it's here doesn't look like it's going anywhere this makes no sense
This is a level of hate of they don't want you to win im sorry for your loss im looking for red flags as well in my life thank you for this lesson im so sorry for what happened but it's a lesson for me to learn in my life
Pure evil !
Were you in contact with him after you separated? Most of the time they don't wait until you marry. They stop you from marrying. Strange? 😮
He may not have none her whereabouts until the mother passed. It’s easy to find funeral arrangements on Facebook nowadays.
😮 praying for your family
Jermaine has picked the wrong fruit period. Now may he Rest In Peace 🙏
Detectives better investigate this one THOROUGHLY
Horrific!!! 😢😢😢
I have no words