*Sorry I was a bit late posting, I was having a NAP! (no really!) I have a horride migraine today and so was actuallly asleep! I hope you are all ok, I am going to lie down again now and see if I can get rid of it. Softest hugs. Xxx*
I hope you feel better soon, Wendy. I always look forward to your posts. You are a kind and gentle soul, and in this crazy world, I so appreciate that. You lift my spirits! You are doing good work in the world. Sending you love from the U.S.
Oh no no feel better, I get them too, really strong with a visual aura quite regularly (menopause😠). Also the fatigue, that tea looks interesting I will have to try it, I do love a good herbal tea. The misfit thing yes here, always, just never really feeling like I fit in whereever I have worked and also not understanding why I need to. Why can't we be pleasant and friendly but not fit any particular mould? The world doesn't like though, does it? Take care and have a good rest.
This video is now officially required viewing for the next person who says, "I'd love to be an artist, to just relax and paint all day instead of my day job." The amount of work and organization it takes to run a studio is like a whole second (or third) job in addition to actually making art, and small things can easily disrupt the workflow. One of our favorite things about this channel is the peek inside the studio- well organized supplies, paint tubes hanging on their clips just waiting to be useful makes us smile!
Include with this, I would love to be a writer,author, just sit around putting words on paper, sipping ☕️, telling stories, , good grief people, being creative can be exhausting draining soul sapping and wonderful joyous but it is work ,,,,
You're not a miss fit, you're the exception with many gifts. I too, thought this for years, even from my childhood. As I grew, matured, I realized being gifted as an Artist from my birth I was meant to be different, to be able to take in all the inspiration from life. To be sensitive to nature, people, animals ,colors and light and dark. To be able to create. A fellow Artist of 73 years
Whenever I think about being a misfit, I remember the Island of Misfit Toys from a Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer claymation video from my childhood. Each misfit had a great strength that made it unique and valuable. Our uniqueness is what makes us wonderful. Wendy, you are so wonderful!!! Thank you.
Love that you are among the tribe of us HSP’s (Highly Sensitive People) which almost every artist, musician, etc.is. It’s a gift mostly-but requires good boundary setting and lots of self care and awareness. Be gentle with yourself, “sip life slowly” as my spiritual advisors says,”don’t feed yourself the toxins of the world but replenish yourself with nature, music, art, home life, and dear ones”…blessings dear Wendy!
I've always been the misfit, outsider, not really understanding what's going on with people. Turns out I'm autistic. And it feels fabulous 😍. My weird ways now make sense and I'm running with it, full pelt ❤️, to wherever it takes me.
Dear Wendy, I found your channel just a few weeks ago and you immediately touched my soul. As far as misfits go, I realized some time ago that although I can smile and be nice and get along with people, enjoy their company and stories and even share some of myself, I don't feel that our worlds are really the same. They choose to live in the world they create, but I know that there is more. Many of us are more comfortable living in the borders, which are rich with the colors and sounds of all worlds, woven into a lovely tapestry of life. I hope that makes sense.
I think I have always had a feeling of being a bit 'outside' . Now - at 69 - I am happy to feel this way!! I think its a case of not having totally given up ones true self to 'domestication' as Juan Miguel Ruiz calls it! These recent times have served to make me happy to be me and stand in my truth [ whilst also tolerating those of others}. It takes time to break free from the shackles of domestication. Be happy and know that you are blessed! Jules
You've made me cry! I've always felt an 'outsider' despite a successful career; just always on the outside looking in, always searching for some kind of direction in my life which will bring me joy. Heading for 60 in a few weeks time which makes me feel very old. Glad that you're finding a sense of contentment; you are such a talented lady with so much to give. Thanks for your encouragement to keep going! gillian
It's just sooo reassuring to know we are not alone in these feelings isn't it! If only I had have known this back then! ... Happy 60th birthday in a few, and remember, when you are 70 you will say; gosh wasn't I young then at 60!!! Enjoy and thanks also for the encouragement.. x
As a fellow "outsider" I realised that we have the opportunity to view life as a director does a film, and we can "write our own ending" (quoting The Rainbow Connection from the Muppet Movie). I hope you find ways to "Sparkle at 60", and find joy. Sending gentle hugs and positive energy your way.
Well thanks to you Wendy I'm not feeling a misfit either. At a writing group last week I said something about not feeling old and heard a younger woman - (I'm a young 82) - say "shall we tell her she is" well every time I stand up on my creaky knees I have no doubt I am. But then on the beach here I met a wonderful man who is a movie star but trying to be incognito, and we talked about 2 hr about everything under the sun, 😊 and he told me how much he enjoyed us, as did I. So now I am very happy . Hope you still are today too
I enjoy Wendy waffles a lot. I was so engrossed in your "grumpy" lady story, I forgot you had a point about the postal workers 😂 I'm camping at the moment, I just had a nap with the sound of rain on the tent. It's time to get up and see whay my fam is doing and join them. I did want to watch your video first 🥰
Lovely video again Wendy. Now, there's a lot of people in the UK that are actually cancelling their direct and simply paying their usage per month via standing order. 🤔It's working out for them by the looks.. Food for thought.. 😌🙏🕉️💞💡
Also an HSP, Highly Sensitive Person. Picking up energies of people and places and it makes it difficult. Have learned to cope and it is much better when you are older. Thank you for another lovely video. 🌿⚘️
I never fitted in anywhere, so I know what you mean. Even my Mother thought that I had come from somewhere outer worldly! I have had some premonitions in the past that came true. I am a very intuitive person, and very sensitive, like yourself, which can make life a struggle at times. I live on my own with my dog, and only ever go out to walk her. My anxiety has been bad these last 5 years, but I am working on it! Had to sell the car, as I never went out in it, and I live in an isolated spot, which I love. Do not know how things are going to go forward, but I enjoy and live each day as it comes. Thank you for your inspiring videos. Blessings to you and your loved ones fro Devon, England. xxxx
There are many of us misfits. I think at some point we except it, and just be happy. Meditation music is good for rest and relaxing with a cup of camomile tea 💓
Yes financial chaos, as rich get richer and poor get poorer. I think as you get older people tend to accept who they are, and feel OK with who they are. I always knew I was different, and I am, and I feel OK with it. Took 50+ years but got there. I wondered if you would do an autumnal piece this month. I love autumn and autumn colours. Maybe one of your little paintings with fairies and text. Thanks for sharing
SHOUT OUT TO ALL THE MISFITS, THE LONERS, THE ONE WHO NEVER HAVE FITTED IN, THE WEIRD, THE WACKY, THE ORIGINALS, THE ONES PEOPLE DISMISSED, THE ONES PASSED OVER, THE ONES PEOPLE LOOK DOWN ON, THE AWKWARD, THE LONELY, THE HURT, THE MISUNDERSTOOD, THE ONES WHO STOOD UP FOR THEMSELVES WHEN TOLD TO KEEP QUIET, THE ONES WHO TOLD THE TRUTH AND WERE CALLED LIAR, THE ONES WHO ARE FINALLY LISTENING TO THEIR INSTINCTS AND ALL OF US WHO SAY - PROUDLY - I LIKE MYSELF, I LOVE MYSELF, I MATTER AND I AM GOING TO MAKE THE REMAINING TIME I HAVE WONDERFUL FOR ME - BECAUSE I DESERVE IT. thank you, unexpected gypsy, for embracing us all. i, for one, feel the warm hug. i send mine to you. XXOO.😘😘😘
You're such a lovely, inspiring person and you know I absolutely adore you! You have taught me not to be so hard on myself when doing art and to just let go. I'm so thankful I found your channel! I think those of us who felt like misfits are the most interesting adults now. :)
This was such a lovely vlog today... so heartfelt... thank you as always! You and James are a bright point in my weekends. Congratulations on the anniversary and 100k subscribers! Wow!
I have been taking naps quite a lot over the last few months, knowing that there is someone out there like me who needs lots of naps is very comforting! 💕💐🌻 xxx
My esoteric training included learning how to create an energy "fence" to protect from the overkill of being surrounded by the emotional static around us. There are times to open up in an empathic state and times to protect your personal balance. There are books out there covering the topic or consult your local witch. Blessings.
Thank you so much for this video. I can’t wait to watch it. My best friend passed away on Tuesday and today is my birthday. I really need your gentleness today. ❤️
Live truth. Live love. everybody misfits somewhere but that doesn't make us a misfit. It means we're not where we belong. We're all unique. be kind to one another, on your journey to home.
Lovely video, as always. I am not a napper, but a rester. I have some sleep disorders and if I take a nap, I won’t sleep well at night, so I rest a bit when I’m tired, by looking at the window, sitting on my rocking chair or on my sofa, or I just have a conversation with my plants 😊. I feel like a misfit. People keep telling me how strange, and different, and peculiar, and eccentric I am. And I don’t know anyone like me, so I tend to be almost always alone, because I feel I don’t belong anywhere. It seems everybody is “normal” and I am not, because I like old things, because I stitch, because I make books of old books falling apart, because I still like dolls and stuffed animals, because I like to get up early and I don’t like to go out at night, or even for the simplest things as not driving! Now that I have instagram for a year, I feel that there are people like me, but they are so far away and I will never meet them, so I go on feeling a misfit... Thanks for keeping me company. Love, light, blessings and peace 💙🧡💚💗💜♥️💛❤️
You sound so like me. Even the stuffed animals. I have a 3ft Tigger in my car along with a group of Tatty Teddies. Most people smile at him. One lady asked when i was going to grow up (im 48) I found the courage to say " Never if id end up like you"😂😂😂
Love the answer you gave 👏👏 I am 51 and I don’t intend to get rid of my dolls and stuffed animals. I specially love my sheep Felicia and my teddy bears. Thanks for sharing your experience. Love from Portugal 💙💚❤️💜🖤💗🧡💛♥️
totally relate, 'the system' has always been the main structure in society forcing people to adhere to a traditional path, but I think particularly after 2020 more people are realising it's not real and capitalism doesn't care about humanity. Following our unique creative hearts calling is key ❤
Enjoy your videos, love to see a video of letting go of stuff I’m moving from australia to uk. I’ve been here 55 years and now time to go home n be with my grand babies 💕 I’m ready to let go I have 3adult kids here in OZ my furniture is where they grew up it’s a life time of stuff I’d saved which I’m boxing up for each child a special box of treasures I have one treasure chest I am allowing myself and it’s my art stuff lol few baby bits n some photos. I’m beyond excited to start this new chapter being a Nanny 💜 to my two baby girls.
You are an empath! I am too! You are just a sponge soaking up everyone else’s emotions. It helps when you are overwhelmed after being in a crowd to ask yourself if these emotions even belong to you. Sometimes they don’t and you can turn them loose! It’s a true relief! You wind up less overwhelmed, and with less of a headache, and you feel much lighter. We only need to own our own stuff! Not everyone else’s.
I love your videos,they are simply wonderful. Your studio is so colourful and bright. I love the paint here and there and you in the middle of everything,but your paintings are very lovely,especially the fairy ones,i love them.
"...to live your life so that you don't need a vacation from it." What a great observation. I would like to do this so am sure this will be in my thoughts a great deal and thinking out how one can achieve this. I've always felt a misfit...sometimes it bothers me and other times, not. I think I "embrace" it more than I used to...often wish my younger self had embraced it more!
Thank you so much for reminding me of what my father would call our family. A family of chariot racers meeting we were born in the wrong era. But I like that combined with misfits. Makes me smile. Don't you forget to keep your lights shining bright and I hope you feel better soon. I'm so happy to be here and thank you for helping me get through having retired right into a pandemic two years ago...sigh.
Well Wendy sweetheart there’s 103K fellow misfits and we’re all happy to be this beautiful way. Gosh life’s hard enough thank goodness for our little tribe on the UA-cam. I’m not able to catnap but can rest laying on my bed or sofa 🛋 sometimes listening to music. Personally I find the restorative powers of solitude are much underrated. I work in a noisy busy environment which although it’s full of great positivity and joy is also emotionally draining. I’m so grateful to have art as a medicine. Please know that you and your beautiful ideas,videos and Wendy waffles are truly inspiring and make a difference. I’m sending love and light dearest sweet soul to fill you teacup ☕️ Soft hugs mwah 💋
Oh dearest Wendy,you are so right that Karma will get to those eventually! It takes a while but I’m certain it happens eventually! Thank you for such a lovely chat, and waffle 😘 today xx
You are Empathic. You are more aware of others emotions and pick up their energy. Alot of artists are this way. Sometimes I can only get through a store 1/2 way before I feel over whelmed and have to leave.
Besides as I mentioned previously, I still was thinking about going back to painting after a months worth of break. I felt bad for such a long break so today I decided to make small steps by working in my studio by going over the items I have, decluttering tools and old paintings …. Doing such small steps and small works is quite refreshing and uplifting.
I too was missing in action and had to get started again. I found play a great way to get going again. I tidied a bit and then pulled out a small pallet and swatched it on some of the random pieces of paper . It brought me great joy and helped me dig in again the next time I continued tidying. Do you and just make a little something. I’ll be thinking of you and sending creative, joyful, calm thoughts.
I think this is one of the blessings of social media- although I know there are many downsides as well- that we get to find “our people “ because the net is spread much wider than our tiny local communities allowing us to realize there are many like minded people in this world.
I have been really struggling with accepting my own neurodivergence and the crushing sense of "otherness" that often accompanies it. The decision over whether or not to seek formal diagnosis, especially at my age, struggling to find the courage to ask for accommodation when needed, wrestling with stigma and my own internalized ableism, all make me feel like an outsider, a misfit. I have to constantly remind myself I do in fact belong. I appreciate your videos, and especially your fairies. Your style and subject matter and approach are so drastically different than mine, and that's what I love about you. Your embrace of the different and quirky and wonderful is like a guiding light for other lost lonely creatives. For me your videos have gently brought me back to my art practice, reminded me to treat myself gently, as well as treat myself as a professional, and reaffirmed that I do indeed belong. Thank you for using your lovely voice to inspire and comfort.
I am a mifit and I embrace being different. It took a long time to be happy to be me but it's OK. I'm glad I found your channel. See you soon, have a great week
Are we misfits, or are we quirky and unique individuals, who stand out from the crowd? Hmmmm. Like you, I used to be affected by the energy of those around, and would get "drained". I have found that by withdrawing just enough (picture being in a soap bubble floating near), I can be present without feeling overwhelmed by negative energy. If napping is not working, perhaps ten minute meditation breaks, lying down with legs up the wall, or visualising being re-energized by tapping into the Earth's or the universe's energy may work for you. Sending soothing energy to help with headaches, dreams, and filling that cup. And extra soft gentle hugs, to tide you over until you can get your fill of in-person hugs from James. Love and light always. Thank you for reminding each of us that we are part of a lovely community.
I always instinctively reach out to people in the outdoor world. A Smile, a Good morning, perhaps a supportive or happy comment if applicable. I know the world is a mess and unfairly high-tech, and there's more and more people affecting demand and supply.....but I put my Pink Sunglasses on every morning. I always want to see the beauty before the dirt. Balance is the key. One must try to stay in balance. If you can't fix it then leave it alone. Acceptance is empowering. It immediately eliminates stress or worry. Forgiveness is another powerful mindset. All three work together for a happier you with a purpose. So no doubt I have gravitated to your channel. I thank you so much for popping up on my device. I love you're honesty and transparency, you're creative spirit which only people with these traits embrace. I'm 72 but feel 50. Never lose the child within. Childhood is the magical foundation as we age. So here's to you and James. May we always enjoy lifes little treasures till the end. God bless
Dear sweet lady, oh i could relate to what you said on this video. Trying not to start the day grumpy......i am of the same mindset. Hubby and i have been together 53 years, in us getting older, we sometimes get annoyed with one another, and if i get an attitude it was over a gripe or a criticizm he aims my direction and i usually add my 2 cents. I dont like where he wants to go through icebox, or pantry but in reality its his junk papers, misc junk i wish he would sort out and get old papers not needed to be tossed. Thats not what he ever wants to deal with.....and as far as hes concerned there is nothing, no job he needs to address, in his mind. I dont assign him a job, mainly cause as he has gotten older i figure its up to him, cause as my own self i do not want him telling me what i need to do. We are both retired, he pops up in my space often, as he cant seem to be 100% involved in whatever he has/had been doing. Keeping my inside mellow, i try not to start any conversation that can turn into him being in a bad mood or angry....so i enjoy if things can stay mellow. I can relate. Love your videos and all of your thoughts and what you share......have a lovely day!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I love that saying “keep your lights shining bright”, It’s so hard though!! I’ve always been a misfit. Hopefully I’ll feel great like you someday. Total acceptance for myself. ❤️
you know Wendy, my husband passed away less than 3 years ago, loneliness is a feeling. I found you. You are like company for me in my house. I so wish I could meet you. But this is good.
Thanks for spending time with us, especially if you have a MIGRAINE!!!!! Good news for you, after menopause, many of us were blessed with the reduction of those nasty headaches. Enjoy your brew and you light filled life.
Your such a blessing a inspiration a beautiful Ray of light, Thank you beautiful Sister! I tip I would give on having a nap is to have your Shoulder covered with a throw it's more snuggle and womb like! Love you beautiful, keep shining your beautiful light Sister ✨️ 🙏😘❤️🔥🤗
Taking a book to a cosy chair was my favourite indulgence when I was younger. Not the same now - last time I went to bed with a book, I fell asleep and the iPad dropped on my face and I ended up with a black bruise under my eye. It is a hard time for many around the world - my fondest wish is that all find a safe and warm home for the winter. Well wishes to you in finding your woodland home - I bet you would fill it with beautiful art.
Hi Wendy, when you said you always felt like you didnt quite fit in and felt like a misfit well I can tell you I have also felt like that for many many years until recently the last two years and as you get older your thoughts really do change and now I dont really care about fitting in. I am who I am and I am a creative, you see creatives feel much more strongly than average people and guess what we are not average! I will keep shining my light and living my life the way I want to. Hugs to you from one creative to another. TLC X
Hello Wendy! You’re such a sweet and beautiful person that I seriously doubt you’ve ever been a misfit! There are a lot of mean people in society trying to convince us that we’re the ones with the problem when they need a big glance in the mirror. And when people are breaking traffic laws and being rude I call the police to come explain to them the traffic laws. I suffered with migraines for decades and found that Excedrin Migraine works the best, if you’re willing to take meds. Wishing you much love, happiness, & health in the coming week!
Dear Wendy, what a beautiful soul you are. I hope you are fully recovered from your migraine. xx Edit to add: thank you for mentioning the stuff about soaking in other people's emotions and being at peace on your own. This is totally me. I'm like an emotional sponge for other people's states of minds, energies etc. It can be quite wearing and comes with a whole host of other concerns you need to contend with. I used to think I had to, somehow, deal with it all, but I've come to realise that, actually, I don't. Consequence of my childhood, I think.
Im into meditation, and yoga, spirituality, am very emotional and an empath myself . I bet a lot of us here can relate to much you’ve said and would love to hang out a day or two with you! There may be a few kindred spirit here… im sure!🙂
You have gorgeous moments of being grounded and centered. You radiate that in this video. Whatever you did leading up to this video is working. Hope you’re navigating peri menopause with grace. I had been having soo many symptoms. Brain fog and low energy were the ones that I had been enduring. Low libido too. I went to a female gynecologist and she tested my hormones. I was super low in testosterone. I’ve been taking a cream to help that she prescribed. It’s a miracle. My head is clear, my energy is going up, and me and hubby are feeling a new spark after years of not. Thought about you, thought I’d mention in the case it would help. Thx for being you on camera and sharing with the world. I’m inspired by beautiful souls like yours! Sensitive artist introvert empaths unite!! 😂big hugs
Wonderful video Wendy. Thank you so much. You sound stronger psychologically and that makes me happy for you. I am glad you tube has given you a connected community
I love watching you , you are so cool, and a great uplifting person, to me you are. Love the accent too.. you look like a kind soft loving lady with great art talent. . Thank you for making me relaxing. .
I have always felt like I havent' fit in. To be honest, it never really bothered me. I think you are a genuine, authentic person and that is why you are doing so well here on youtube and with your shop. Karma is a lovely thing when you are a wonderful person. I'm praying you feel better soon (your cold and other maladies).
Hi Wendy, I've been away for a bit getting a hip remodeled with a new joint and then breaking my right shoulder with a stupid fall. Oh my, it has been a a mess this summer, but for me, at least, it is sort of winding down and hopefully soon to end. I'm in love with Autumns so for the next 3 months prior to the Winter Solstice, I shall enjoy every minute of this season. I feel so lucky to be able to watch Fall as so many things change and you can watch and experience all of this happening every day. Some days feel sad (seeing the very last leaves fall), some joyous like the very fresh cool air, and some feel cozy wonderful such as wrapping up in your favorite, overly large, sweater or blanket, and then writing a little poem. You are not a misfit! To me you are adorable, interesting, knowledgeable, artistic, cool, sweet and caring, in love with James, and our self help guru.We all love you! Do you use or wear crystals? I have been delving into and collecting, finding, buying crystals and using crystals for over 30 years. I love them and learning of newer crystals (like Shungite-recently found in China). All black stones have the benefit of protection to the user/wearer which is their most universal quality. I've been jumping around a lot in this comment but one more thing, I so enjoy your lovely paintings and especially all the fairies as I am a fairy lover with a fairy garden and fairies in many places within my home . I hope to paint a fairy scene of my own some time. XOXOJANE
Wendy, You have provided this space for like minded people to share. I would never have imagined such a place, honestly. Always lovely to stop by. Thanks. Sue
*Sorry I was a bit late posting, I was having a NAP! (no really!) I have a horride migraine today and so was actuallly asleep! I hope you are all ok, I am going to lie down again now and see if I can get rid of it. Softest hugs. Xxx*
Take care! Get well soon :) take your time. We're always with you!
@@lily_liya Thank you! I'm going to lie down again now and see if I can get rid of it xxxxxxx big loves to you xxx
I hope you feel better soon, Wendy. I always look forward to your posts. You are a kind and gentle soul, and in this crazy world, I so appreciate that. You lift my spirits! You are doing good work in the world. Sending you love from the U.S.
Oh no no feel better, I get them too, really strong with a visual aura quite regularly (menopause😠). Also the fatigue, that tea looks interesting I will have to try it, I do love a good herbal tea. The misfit thing yes here, always, just never really feeling like I fit in whereever I have worked and also not understanding why I need to. Why can't we be pleasant and friendly but not fit any particular mould? The world doesn't like though, does it? Take care and have a good rest.
Take care! Get well soon 🙏❤
I love your quote “Im trying to live my life so I don’t need a vacation from it” ❤️
thanks Ashley xxx
This video is now officially required viewing for the next person who says, "I'd love to be an artist, to just relax and paint all day instead of my day job." The amount of work and organization it takes to run a studio is like a whole second (or third) job in addition to actually making art, and small things can easily disrupt the workflow. One of our favorite things about this channel is the peek inside the studio- well organized supplies, paint tubes hanging on their clips just waiting to be useful makes us smile!
Funny you should mention how the tubes of paint was being stored, I looked at that and ask myself how is that hanging up there?
I feel like @blickartmaterials should look into sponsoring Wendy🎨 She’s a wealth of knowledge and great at inspiring others (including me!)
Include with this, I would love to be a writer,author, just sit around putting words on paper, sipping ☕️, telling stories, , good grief people, being creative can be exhausting draining soul sapping and wonderful joyous but it is work ,,,,
Nothing wrong with being a misfit :) Usually misfits are brave and follow a path that Is authentic ❤
Let’s all be misfits together. The misfits fit in just fine together. Love❤❤❤
yes! love this xxxx
I don't think you were ever a misfit everything you do is wonderful is what you do that makes you you I love your work
Don’t ever stop the Wendy waffling 😂we love the Wendy waffling! ❤
You're not a miss fit, you're the exception with many gifts.
I too, thought this for years, even from my childhood. As I grew, matured, I realized being gifted as an Artist from my birth I was meant to be different, to be able to take in all the inspiration from life.
To be sensitive to nature, people, animals ,colors and light and dark.
To be able to create.
A fellow Artist of 73 years
Whenever I think about being a misfit, I remember the Island of Misfit Toys from a Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer claymation video from my childhood. Each misfit had a great strength that made it unique and valuable. Our uniqueness is what makes us wonderful. Wendy, you are so wonderful!!!
Thank you.
Love that you are among the tribe of us HSP’s (Highly Sensitive People) which almost every artist, musician, etc.is. It’s a gift mostly-but requires good boundary setting and lots of self care and awareness. Be gentle with yourself, “sip life slowly” as my spiritual advisors says,”don’t feed yourself the toxins of the world but replenish yourself with nature, music, art, home life, and dear ones”…blessings dear Wendy!
Please..😉….keep on “Wendy Waffling”…❤
I've always been the misfit, outsider, not really understanding what's going on with people. Turns out I'm autistic. And it feels fabulous 😍. My weird ways now make sense and I'm running with it, full pelt ❤️, to wherever it takes me.
Dear Wendy, I found your channel just a few weeks ago and you immediately touched my soul. As far as misfits go, I realized some time ago that although I can smile and be nice and get along with people, enjoy their company and stories and even share some of myself, I don't feel that our worlds are really the same. They choose to live in the world they create, but I know that there is more. Many of us are more comfortable living in the borders, which are rich with the colors and sounds of all worlds, woven into a lovely tapestry of life. I hope that makes sense.
complete sense, thank you, x much loves xx
Art washes away from the soul the dust of everyday life. Pablo Picasso
I think I have always had a feeling of being a bit 'outside' . Now - at 69 - I am happy to feel this way!! I think its a case of not having totally given up ones true self to 'domestication' as Juan Miguel Ruiz calls it! These recent times have served to make me happy to be me and stand in my truth [ whilst also tolerating those of others}.
It takes time to break free from the shackles of domestication.
Be happy and know that you are blessed! Jules
You've made me cry! I've always felt an 'outsider' despite a successful career; just always on the outside looking in, always searching for some kind of direction in my life which will bring me joy. Heading for 60 in a few weeks time which makes me feel very old. Glad that you're finding a sense of contentment; you are such a talented lady with so much to give. Thanks for your encouragement to keep going! gillian
It's just sooo reassuring to know we are not alone in these feelings isn't it! If only I had have known this back then! ... Happy 60th birthday in a few, and remember, when you are 70 you will say; gosh wasn't I young then at 60!!! Enjoy and thanks also for the encouragement.. x
As a fellow "outsider" I realised that we have the opportunity to view life as a director does a film, and we can "write our own ending" (quoting The Rainbow Connection from the Muppet Movie). I hope you find ways to "Sparkle at 60", and find joy. Sending gentle hugs and positive energy your way.
Happy 60th. I am 61 and still can’t believe it. Age is just a number
Migraines: A Rheumatology Consultant told my husband to take Folic Acid every day and he would never have another
migraine. Worked.
Well thanks to you Wendy I'm not feeling a misfit either. At a writing group last week I said something about not feeling old and heard a younger woman - (I'm a young 82) - say "shall we tell her she is"
well every time I stand up on my creaky knees I have no doubt I am. But then on the beach here I met a wonderful man who is a movie star but trying to be incognito, and we talked about 2 hr
about everything under the sun, 😊 and he told me how much he enjoyed us, as did I.
So now I am very happy .
Hope you still are today too
I'm happy for all of us that you found us Wendy🙂
I'm very blessed to have you here, xxx
You held your own with the grumpy lady. She was so rude. You were rewarded with the gardener to help you.
I am a bit behind watching your videos Wendy, this one is particularly special as it reminds all of us that being a marvellous misfit is okay ❤
I think it's called an empath..someone that feels and absorbs other people's emotions..
I enjoy Wendy waffles a lot. I was so engrossed in your "grumpy" lady story, I forgot you had a point about the postal workers 😂 I'm camping at the moment, I just had a nap with the sound of rain on the tent. It's time to get up and see whay my fam is doing and join them. I did want to watch your video first 🥰
I have learnt to embrace being a misfit finally, after many years it just makes sense and is who I am. Don’t fight it, accept it ❤
Exactly! xxx
Lovely video again Wendy. Now, there's a lot of people in the UK that are actually cancelling their direct and simply paying their usage per month via standing order. 🤔It's working out for them by the looks.. Food for thought.. 😌🙏🕉️💞💡
There are a lot of us out here, it is nice that youtube has opened a door for us to peek inside at the others who are around. :)
You are such an inspiration, love to listen your thoughts and experiences! Thank you so much 💓
Also an HSP, Highly Sensitive Person. Picking up energies of people and places and it makes it difficult. Have learned to cope and it is much better when you are older. Thank you for another lovely video. 🌿⚘️
I never fitted in anywhere, so I know what you mean. Even my Mother thought that I had come from somewhere outer worldly! I have had some premonitions in the past that came true. I am a very intuitive person, and very sensitive, like yourself, which can make life a struggle at times. I live on my own with my dog, and only ever go out to walk her. My anxiety has been bad these last 5 years, but I am working on it! Had to sell the car, as I never went out in it, and I live in an isolated spot, which I love. Do not know how things are going to go forward, but I enjoy and live each day as it comes. Thank you for your inspiring videos. Blessings to you and your loved ones fro Devon, England. xxxx
There are many of us misfits. I think at some point we except it, and just be happy. Meditation music is good for rest and relaxing with a cup of camomile tea 💓
Yes financial chaos, as rich get richer and poor get poorer.
I think as you get older people tend to accept who they are, and feel OK with who they are. I always knew I was different, and I am, and I feel OK with it. Took 50+ years but got there.
I wondered if you would do an autumnal piece this month. I love autumn and autumn colours. Maybe one of your little paintings with fairies and text.
Thanks for sharing
SHOUT OUT TO ALL THE MISFITS, THE LONERS, THE ONE WHO NEVER HAVE FITTED IN, THE WEIRD, THE WACKY, THE ORIGINALS, THE ONES PEOPLE DISMISSED, THE ONES PASSED OVER, THE ONES PEOPLE LOOK DOWN ON, THE AWKWARD, THE LONELY, THE HURT, THE MISUNDERSTOOD, THE ONES WHO STOOD UP FOR THEMSELVES WHEN TOLD TO KEEP QUIET, THE ONES WHO TOLD THE TRUTH AND WERE CALLED LIAR, THE ONES WHO ARE FINALLY LISTENING TO THEIR INSTINCTS AND ALL OF US WHO SAY - PROUDLY - I LIKE MYSELF, I LOVE MYSELF, I MATTER AND I AM GOING TO MAKE THE REMAINING TIME I HAVE WONDERFUL FOR ME - BECAUSE I DESERVE IT. thank you, unexpected gypsy,
for embracing us all. i, for one, feel the warm hug. i send mine to you. XXOO.😘😘😘
Misfit? Know it well! Kindred spirits! Loved the video🥰
Yes! I also put things on lists that I've already done 😂
Yup!!!!! That's the way!! xx
You're such a lovely, inspiring person and you know I absolutely adore you! You have taught me not to be so hard on myself when doing art and to just let go. I'm so thankful I found your channel! I think those of us who felt like misfits are the most interesting adults now. :)
This was such a lovely vlog today... so heartfelt... thank you as always! You and James are a bright point in my weekends. Congratulations on the anniversary and 100k subscribers! Wow!
I have been taking naps quite a lot over the last few months, knowing that there is someone out there like me who needs lots of naps is very comforting! 💕💐🌻 xxx
My esoteric training included learning how to create an energy "fence" to protect from the overkill of being surrounded by the emotional static around us. There are times to open up in an empathic state and times to protect your personal balance. There are books out there covering the topic or consult your local witch. Blessings.
Hi Wendy, you're no misfit, darlin. You are my kind of people. I love your art. Hope you feel better. 🧡🤎🧡
Thank you so much for this video. I can’t wait to watch it. My best friend passed away on Tuesday and today is my birthday. I really need your gentleness today. ❤️
Happy soft birthday Elena, a very sad loss. I lost mine a few years ago and so I emphathise greatly. xxxx Softest hugs xxxxx
Hugs dear one, you are not alone
@@theunexpectedgypsy ❤️ i’m so sorry that you know what this feels like. Thank you for the many gifts you give us all.
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Live truth. Live love. everybody misfits somewhere but that doesn't make us a misfit. It means we're not where we belong. We're all unique. be kind to one another, on your journey to home.
Lovely video, as always.
I am not a napper, but a rester. I have some sleep disorders and if I take a nap, I won’t sleep well at night, so I rest a bit when I’m tired, by looking at the window, sitting on my rocking chair or on my sofa, or I just have a conversation with my plants 😊.
I feel like a misfit. People keep telling me how strange, and different, and peculiar, and eccentric I am. And I don’t know anyone like me, so I tend to be almost always alone, because I feel I don’t belong anywhere. It seems everybody is “normal” and I am not, because I like old things, because I stitch, because I make books of old books falling apart, because I still like dolls and stuffed animals, because I like to get up early and I don’t like to go out at night, or even for the simplest things as not driving!
Now that I have instagram for a year, I feel that there are people like me, but they are so far away and I will never meet them, so I go on feeling a misfit...
Thanks for keeping me company. Love, light, blessings and peace 💙🧡💚💗💜♥️💛❤️
You sound so like me. Even the stuffed animals. I have a 3ft Tigger in my car along with a group of Tatty Teddies. Most people smile at him. One lady asked when i was going to grow up (im 48) I found the courage to say " Never if id end up like you"😂😂😂
Love the answer you gave 👏👏 I am 51 and I don’t intend to get rid of my dolls and stuffed animals. I specially love my sheep Felicia and my teddy bears. Thanks for sharing your experience. Love from Portugal 💙💚❤️💜🖤💗🧡💛♥️
We misfits must stick together. I love how we manage to find each other. Xo
I have always felt like a misfit since I was a little girl. I am learning to love me as well as accept me for me.💕💕💕
You're such a pure lovely true soul! You're always my bestie! much love! whenever i need some motivation, you post new video! I'm grateful to you!
Love you Lily xx thank you x
totally relate, 'the system' has always been the main structure in society forcing people to adhere to a traditional path, but I think particularly after 2020 more people are realising it's not real and capitalism doesn't care about humanity. Following our unique creative hearts calling is key ❤
Enjoy your videos, love to see a video of letting go of stuff I’m moving from australia to uk. I’ve been here 55 years and now time to go home n be with my grand babies 💕 I’m ready to let go I have 3adult kids here in OZ my furniture is where they grew up it’s a life time of stuff I’d saved which I’m boxing up for each child a special box of treasures I have one treasure chest I am allowing myself and it’s my art stuff lol few baby bits n some photos. I’m beyond excited to start this new chapter being a Nanny 💜 to my two baby girls.
You are an empath! I am too! You are just a sponge soaking up everyone else’s emotions. It helps when you are overwhelmed after being in a crowd to ask yourself if these emotions even belong to you. Sometimes they don’t and you can turn them loose! It’s a true relief! You wind up less overwhelmed, and with less of a headache, and you feel much lighter. We only need to own our own stuff! Not everyone else’s.
I love your videos,they are simply wonderful. Your studio is so colourful and bright. I love the paint here and there and you in the middle of everything,but your paintings are very lovely,especially the fairy ones,i love them.
I love your studio space! you are a very lucky woman to have such a place to let your creativity flow!
"...to live your life so that you don't need a vacation from it." What a great observation. I would like to do this so am sure this will be in my thoughts a great deal and thinking out how one can achieve this. I've always felt a misfit...sometimes it bothers me and other times, not. I think I "embrace" it more than I used to...often wish my younger self had embraced it more!
Such a beautiful soul you are, James too!,😊❤
Thank you for all the sunshine you share with us, Wendy!
Thank you so much for reminding me of what my father would call our family. A family of chariot racers meeting we were born in the wrong era. But I like that combined with misfits. Makes me smile. Don't you forget to keep your lights shining bright and I hope you feel better soon. I'm so happy to be here and thank you for helping me get through having retired right into a pandemic two years ago...sigh.
Well Wendy sweetheart there’s 103K fellow misfits and we’re all happy to be this beautiful way. Gosh life’s hard enough thank goodness for our little tribe on the UA-cam. I’m not able to catnap but can rest laying on my bed or sofa 🛋 sometimes listening to music. Personally I find the restorative powers of solitude are much underrated. I work in a noisy busy environment which although it’s full of great positivity and joy is also emotionally draining. I’m so grateful to have art as a medicine. Please know that you and your beautiful ideas,videos and Wendy waffles are truly inspiring and make a difference. I’m sending love and light dearest sweet soul to fill you teacup ☕️ Soft hugs mwah 💋
Your voice and tone is so relaxing. I appreciate the peek into your studio and daily workings.
Oh dearest Wendy,you are so right that Karma will get to those eventually! It takes a while but I’m certain it happens eventually! Thank you for such a lovely chat, and waffle 😘 today xx
You are Empathic. You are more aware of others emotions and pick up their energy. Alot of artists are this way. Sometimes I can only get through a store 1/2 way before I feel over whelmed and have to leave.
Besides as I mentioned previously, I still was thinking about going back to painting after a months worth of break. I felt bad for such a long break so today I decided to make small steps by working in my studio by going over the items I have, decluttering tools and old paintings …. Doing such small steps and small works is quite refreshing and uplifting.
I too was missing in action and had to get started again. I found play a great way to get going again. I tidied a bit and then pulled out a small pallet and swatched it on some of the random pieces of paper . It brought me great joy and helped me dig in again the next time I continued tidying. Do you and just make a little something. I’ll be thinking of you and sending creative, joyful, calm thoughts.
Good Morning Wendy ☺x All artists are misfits! In a good way though lol ☺. Take care. Love Blessings and Peace .... xx
"Paint everyone with the same stroke" 🥰
I think this is one of the blessings of social media- although I know there are many downsides as well- that we get to find “our people “ because the net is spread much wider than our tiny local communities allowing us to realize there are many like minded people in this world.
I have been really struggling with accepting my own neurodivergence and the crushing sense of "otherness" that often accompanies it. The decision over whether or not to seek formal diagnosis, especially at my age, struggling to find the courage to ask for accommodation when needed, wrestling with stigma and my own internalized ableism, all make me feel like an outsider, a misfit. I have to constantly remind myself I do in fact belong. I appreciate your videos, and especially your fairies. Your style and subject matter and approach are so drastically different than mine, and that's what I love about you. Your embrace of the different and quirky and wonderful is like a guiding light for other lost lonely creatives. For me your videos have gently brought me back to my art practice, reminded me to treat myself gently, as well as treat myself as a professional, and reaffirmed that I do indeed belong. Thank you for using your lovely voice to inspire and comfort.
I am a mifit and I embrace being different. It took a long time to be happy to be me but it's OK. I'm glad I found your channel. See you soon, have a great week
Are we misfits, or are we quirky and unique individuals, who stand out from the crowd? Hmmmm.
Like you, I used to be affected by the energy of those around, and would get "drained". I have found that by withdrawing just enough (picture being in a soap bubble floating near), I can be present without feeling overwhelmed by negative energy.
If napping is not working, perhaps ten minute meditation breaks, lying down with legs up the wall, or visualising being re-energized by tapping into the Earth's or the universe's energy may work for you.
Sending soothing energy to help with headaches, dreams, and filling that cup. And extra soft gentle hugs, to tide you over until you can get your fill of in-person hugs from James. Love and light always. Thank you for reminding each of us that we are part of a lovely community.
I always felt like a sort of misfit...no I know I am not.
Thank you Wendy for this lovely community. Love you girl let you light shine bright 🔆 💜
Wow, Sarah’s voice is beautiful ❤
I always instinctively reach out to people in the outdoor world. A Smile, a Good morning, perhaps a supportive or happy comment if applicable. I know the world is a mess and unfairly high-tech, and there's more and more people affecting demand and supply.....but I put my Pink Sunglasses on every morning. I always want to see the beauty before the dirt. Balance is the key. One must try to stay in balance. If you can't fix it then leave it alone. Acceptance is empowering. It immediately eliminates stress or worry. Forgiveness is another powerful mindset. All three work together for a happier you with a purpose. So no doubt I have gravitated to your channel. I thank you so much for popping up on my device. I love you're honesty and transparency, you're creative spirit which only people with these traits embrace. I'm 72 but feel 50. Never lose the child within. Childhood is the magical foundation as we age. So here's to you and James. May we always enjoy lifes little treasures till the end. God bless
Lots of love from Western Australia.
Wendy you have a lovely community, cos YOU are lovely. 💖 I think you've made more than one of us cry today.
Peace and Love!
Congratulations on a hundred thousand subscribers and happy aniversary.
Dear sweet lady, oh i could relate to what you said on this video. Trying not to start the day grumpy......i am of the same mindset. Hubby and i have been together 53 years, in us getting older, we sometimes get annoyed with one another, and if i get an attitude it was over a gripe or a criticizm he aims my direction and i usually add my 2 cents. I dont like where he wants to go through icebox, or pantry but in reality its his junk papers, misc junk i wish he would sort out and get old papers not needed to be tossed. Thats not what he ever wants to deal with.....and as far as hes concerned there is nothing, no job he needs to address, in his mind.
I dont assign him a job, mainly cause as he has gotten older i figure its up to him, cause as my own self i do not want him telling me what i need to do.
We are both retired, he pops up in my space often, as he cant seem to be 100% involved in whatever he has/had been doing. Keeping my inside mellow, i try not to start any conversation that can turn into him being in a bad mood or angry....so i enjoy if things can stay mellow. I can relate.
Love your videos and all of your thoughts and what you share......have a lovely day!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I love that saying “keep your lights shining bright”, It’s so hard though!! I’ve always been a misfit. Hopefully I’ll feel great like you someday. Total acceptance for myself. ❤️
you know Wendy, my husband passed away less than 3 years ago, loneliness is a feeling. I found you. You are like company for me in my house. I so wish I could meet you. But this is good.
I truly enjoy your videos and think you are so lucky to have James. You both are awesome. But its you Wendy that makes my day
100K!!! Rock on Wendy!!! :)
I have felt that throughout my life as well. You're not alone. But you learn to love yourself for who you are eventually. It's all good.❤❤
Thanks for spending time with us, especially if you have a MIGRAINE!!!!! Good news for you, after menopause, many of us were blessed with the reduction of those nasty headaches. Enjoy your brew and you light filled life.
Your such a blessing a inspiration a beautiful Ray of light, Thank you beautiful Sister! I tip I would give on having a nap is to have your Shoulder covered with a throw it's more snuggle and womb like! Love you beautiful, keep shining your beautiful light Sister ✨️ 🙏😘❤️🔥🤗
Taking a book to a cosy chair was my favourite indulgence when I was younger. Not the same now - last time I went to bed with a book, I fell asleep and the iPad dropped on my face and I ended up with a black bruise under my eye. It is a hard time for many around the world - my fondest wish is that all find a safe and warm home for the winter. Well wishes to you in finding your woodland home - I bet you would fill it with beautiful art.
Hi Wendy, when you said you always felt like you didnt quite fit in and felt like a misfit well I can tell you I have also felt like that for many many years until recently the last two years and as you get older your thoughts really do change and now I dont really care about fitting in. I am who I am and I am a creative, you see creatives feel much more strongly than average people and guess what we are not average! I will keep shining my light and living my life the way I want to. Hugs to you from one creative to another. TLC X
You are so charming! Love from Illinois in the US!!!❤❤❤ Keep painting and all of us will keep shining our lights!
Hello how are you doing?
@@franklinstephen3268 SEE there You are again ...same comment of a Lady's posts!! CATFISH!!!
That's the things about the internet...you csn find your peeps without leaving you home.
Hello Wendy! You’re such a sweet and beautiful person that I seriously doubt you’ve ever been a misfit! There are a lot of mean people in society trying to convince us that we’re the ones with the problem when they need a big glance in the mirror.
And when people are breaking traffic laws and being rude I call the police to come explain to them the traffic laws. I suffered with migraines for decades and found that Excedrin Migraine works the best, if you’re willing to take meds. Wishing you much love, happiness, & health in the coming week!
You are a very inspirational person and yes rest is so important ❤
Dear Wendy, what a beautiful soul you are. I hope you are fully recovered from your migraine. xx Edit to add: thank you for mentioning the stuff about soaking in other people's emotions and being at peace on your own. This is totally me. I'm like an emotional sponge for other people's states of minds, energies etc. It can be quite wearing and comes with a whole host of other concerns you need to contend with. I used to think I had to, somehow, deal with it all, but I've come to realise that, actually, I don't. Consequence of my childhood, I think.
Im into meditation, and yoga, spirituality, am very emotional and an empath myself . I bet a lot of us here can relate to much you’ve said and would love to hang out a day or two with you! There may be a few kindred spirit here… im sure!🙂
You have gorgeous moments of being grounded and centered. You radiate that in this video. Whatever you did leading up to this video is working. Hope you’re navigating peri menopause with grace. I had been having soo many symptoms. Brain fog and low energy were the ones that I had been enduring. Low libido too. I went to a female gynecologist and she tested my hormones. I was super low in testosterone. I’ve been taking a cream to help that she prescribed. It’s a miracle. My head is clear, my energy is going up, and me and hubby are feeling a new spark after years of not.
Thought about you, thought I’d mention in the case it would help. Thx for being you on camera and sharing with the world. I’m inspired by beautiful souls like yours! Sensitive artist introvert empaths unite!! 😂big hugs
Wonderful video Wendy. Thank you so much. You sound stronger psychologically and that makes me happy for you. I am glad you tube has given you a connected community
Thank you dear Wendy. Sending you much love and hugs. You make my day. xo
I love watching you , you are so cool, and a great uplifting person, to me you are. Love the accent too.. you look like a kind soft loving lady with great art talent. . Thank you for making me relaxing. .
You are definitely not a misfit. Just love your videos.
thank you Sheila xxx
I have always felt like I havent' fit in. To be honest, it never really bothered me. I think you are a genuine, authentic person and that is why you are doing so well here on youtube and with your shop. Karma is a lovely thing when you are a wonderful person. I'm praying you feel better soon (your cold and other maladies).
Thank you Wendy! You are a delight!
I love that I can relate and empathize with a spirited soul like you! ❣️✨
Hi Wendy, I've been away for a bit getting a hip remodeled with a new joint and then breaking my right shoulder with a stupid fall. Oh my, it has been a a mess this summer, but for me, at least, it is sort of winding down and hopefully soon to end. I'm in love with Autumns so for the next 3 months prior to the Winter Solstice, I shall enjoy every minute of this season. I feel so lucky to be able to watch Fall as so many things change and you can watch and experience all of this happening every day. Some days feel sad (seeing the very last leaves fall), some joyous like the very fresh cool air, and some feel cozy wonderful such as wrapping up in your favorite, overly large, sweater or blanket, and then writing a little poem.
You are not a misfit! To me you are adorable, interesting, knowledgeable, artistic, cool, sweet and caring, in love with James, and our self help guru.We all love you!
Do you use or wear crystals? I have been delving into and collecting, finding, buying crystals and using crystals for over 30 years. I love them and learning of newer crystals (like Shungite-recently found in China). All black stones have the benefit of protection to the user/wearer which is their most universal quality.
I've been jumping around a lot in this comment but one more thing, I so enjoy your lovely paintings and especially all the fairies as I am a fairy lover with a fairy garden and fairies in many places within my home . I hope to paint a fairy scene of my own some time. XOXOJANE
Wendy,
You have provided this space for like minded people to share. I would never have imagined
such a place, honestly.
Always lovely to stop by. Thanks.
Sue
Hello Wendy! I understand you. Sometimes we just need rest 🤗 I hope you feels better now.
I put on UA-cam videos of music for dogs and not only do they fall asleep as do I. 😊🐕