they fired me two days before thanksgiving

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  • @sherriemoukyed8676
    @sherriemoukyed8676 16 днів тому +13

    Hi Tam ,I’m so sorry you had to go through this all of this. When you began the video I said to myself she needs to get a lawyer. It happened that you had. Being terminated just put the nail on the coffin for your employer. When one door closes another one opens Tam. When you think something may be bad for you it is really something good. Your health has already improved. Enjoy the holidays Tam . Congratulations on your retirement. You deserve it !

    • @ShortyTam
      @ShortyTam  14 днів тому

      Thank you Sherrie! ❤️

  • @gina9976
    @gina9976 16 днів тому +7

    Tam, I am so sorry you had to experience all this, and I admire and appreciate you for sharing . I seriously can't even begin to imagine the level and type of stress you had to endure, but it made my heart sooo glad to find that your story had a happy ending! ❤ You deserve every good thing that life has to offer. Enjoy the concert tonight!

  • @rebeccaschanlaub2863
    @rebeccaschanlaub2863 16 днів тому +2

    Tam, thank you so much for sharing! I wish you the best! God is good!

  • @sharonb3887
    @sharonb3887 15 днів тому +2

    Tam, so sorry you went through so much. I’m glad you were removed from that toxic environment. Prayers for healing. Congratulations on your retirement. ❤

    • @ShortyTam
      @ShortyTam  14 днів тому +1

      You are so kind! Thank you. 🙏🏽

  • @tiffanyortiz2645
    @tiffanyortiz2645 13 днів тому

    I am so glad to hear you are on the road to recovery and healing from the trauma. I'm praying for success, peace, and joy in your retirement.

  • @Angela_Douglas1122
    @Angela_Douglas1122 15 днів тому +2

    Been here since day 1 I'm happy for you sister sending you love congratulations on your new life ❤️

    • @ShortyTam
      @ShortyTam  14 днів тому

      You're so sweet! Thanks for your support! 💖

  • @daniellaurabaxley4602
    @daniellaurabaxley4602 4 дні тому

    I’m so sorry girl!! You will bounce back and be even stronger my friend!! Take care of yourself!
    Merry Christmas 🎄

  • @dedra1144
    @dedra1144 16 днів тому +2

    You are truly blessed! So happy for you.

  • @GrimDollLotus
    @GrimDollLotus 16 днів тому +4

    Good for you, Tam! I can see how freeing it is to leave a stressful job. I've seen several ex coworkers who looked younger and healthier after they retired. It gets really taxing having people telling me to do my work the way they want & not how it should actually be done. I like to work smarter, not harder, and some managers just don't get it.
    Cheers to a wonderful retirement. 🥂

    • @ralphjohnson3202
      @ralphjohnson3202 14 днів тому

      @GrimDollLotus Facts most managers are stupid 💯.

    • @ShortyTam
      @ShortyTam  14 днів тому

      It definitely feels good to be free! 😊

  • @terelugo4889
    @terelugo4889 16 днів тому +2

    Hi Tam you’re in my prayers girl!! Had me over here crying that’s right rest up heal up and do you boo! Nothing else matters until you feel 100% again.

  • @l.e.bingham6643
    @l.e.bingham6643 16 днів тому +6

    Oh by the way your mic stand is absolutely genius, you go girl. 🙏🏾🥰👸🏽🎤

  • @mommy-dearest-1
    @mommy-dearest-1 16 днів тому +1

    I can’t imagine everything you endured at your job Tam. With Gods loving grace you persevered and I’m so happy for you & your family! Enjoy your retirement and have very blessed Christmas & Happy New Year♥️

  • @ivonnematos6071
    @ivonnematos6071 16 днів тому +2

    God Bless you and your family. Congratulations! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👍👍👍👍

    • @ShortyTam
      @ShortyTam  14 днів тому

      You are so sweet!🤗

  • @yolandamarshall872
    @yolandamarshall872 16 днів тому +1

    I'm so sorry you had to go through all that! Only good days ahead from now on!

  • @elidiafandino5996
    @elidiafandino5996 15 днів тому +1

    God bless you sweet heart. You are the most selfless and courageous woman I have had the pleasure of getting to know. Other people got new jobs and you just hung in there. I have been watching your channel for a few years now. I love your channel because you keep things real .You need to continue to heal. Time to give yourself extra LOVE! One of your other subscribers commented they put the nail on their coffin & someone needs to sue them. They need to be held accountable for what they allowed to happen to that inmate. Most of all that emotional destress they caused you and affected your mental health as well. Wrongful termination all the way. I would Lawyer up. My Dad would say sometimes bad things happen for a reason. When one door closes another one opens. I couldn't agree more. May the Lord bless you enjoy your fresh new start.

    • @ShortyTam
      @ShortyTam  14 днів тому

      Thank you so much for your kind words and support!

  • @lucreciagerstner7020
    @lucreciagerstner7020 16 днів тому +1

    Congratulations im very happy for you, you deserve it all.

    • @ShortyTam
      @ShortyTam  16 днів тому +1

      You are so kind! 🤗

  • @tessmackey9201
    @tessmackey9201 16 днів тому +2

    Heyllo Tam I'm so happy and excited for you to be medically retired I hate how You had to endure physical emotional mental anguish Damn That part sucks...But Baby You Out Dat Ish...So 10day later you got that email and What they thought God Said Watch and See Him Work.Trust God His Process Is Always Best

  • @kkidd1108
    @kkidd1108 16 днів тому +1

    Hope you had fun ! It was pouring rain during his concert in the ATL

  • @conniecarter6009
    @conniecarter6009 16 днів тому +3

    I’m so happy for you Tam, Congratulations!

  • @Debbie-y2w
    @Debbie-y2w 14 днів тому

    Congrats Tam! I am so sorry to hear of all that you've had to endure. No job is worth the toll it can take on your physical and mental health. Happiness, peace and love for you in all of your future endeavors. -Debbie

    • @ShortyTam
      @ShortyTam  14 днів тому +1

      Thank you Debbie, I appreciate the kind words!

  • @stacyjones1818
    @stacyjones1818 13 днів тому

    Congratulations on your retirement 🎉 I am so glad that everything worked out in your favor. Nothing feels better than being free from the BOP. This past year has been one of the best of my life mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically. I am so grateful to have closed that chapter. I pray that you enjoy the fruits of your hard fought victory! #FTJ

  • @jody5303
    @jody5303 16 днів тому +2

    Oh Tam! I’m sorry you had to go through all of that! How incredibly stressful and painful. I’m glad your medical retirement came through and you can rest and find peace after that ordeal! Congratulations!!!🎉

    • @ShortyTam
      @ShortyTam  14 днів тому +1

      Hey Jody! Thanks 🙏🏽

  • @l.e.bingham6643
    @l.e.bingham6643 16 днів тому +5

    Hello Tam I Pray that all is well with you and your family, I am glad I caught your video before I head to Physical Therapy. My daughter went to the Usher concert, she lives there in the suburbs of Atlanta. Always remember when GOD closes one door,he will open another one. GOD BLESS and keep shining. 🙏🏾❤️🥰🌹🕊️👸🏽💯💫💕

  • @vatermae9987
    @vatermae9987 13 днів тому

    🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾Nothing like Peace of mind! Enjoy your life to the Fullest! Young Lady! 🥰 God is so Good! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @theknkmommydragonslayer5426
    @theknkmommydragonslayer5426 16 днів тому +1

    Gurl, you better testify!

  • @BarbaraHarmon-w2z
    @BarbaraHarmon-w2z 16 днів тому +1

    Yes, I'm a federal worker. I'm dealing with the same madness. I do understand the anxiety, the pain, the trauma all of it. May God bless you and keep you. It's good to d*** i* Maybe this is what God meant me to see. I don't even know why. I lost onto your page, but I'm so glad and I'm so thankful my bless you and keep you and your family

  • @sherrik9419
    @sherrik9419 16 днів тому +1

    Congratulations Tam on your retirement, sometimes we have to walk thru the fire to come out on the other side. You have done it, now sit back & enjoy your life❤ Merry Christmas to you & your family!

    • @ShortyTam
      @ShortyTam  14 днів тому

      Merry Christmas! ❤️

  • @michellesmolek2904
    @michellesmolek2904 16 днів тому +1

    Wow Tam…..I am so very happy for you, but sad at the same time. Sad you had to go through all that..I remember you talking about the man who took his own life a while back…I had noticed you posting more and had asked if you were retired now, as you had been talking about that. I wish I had not asked that now…To know what you have been going through..gosh that is some heavy stuff..I am glad you feel happy now and yes girl…you did it…shame on your co workers and warden for treating you that way. Unfortunately human empathy seems to have flown out the window these last few years…just know, you have people out here that support you and very much care…you did it girl…now go enjoy the holiday season with your family…and do exactly what it is you want to do…nit answering to anyone…hugs…🎄

    • @ShortyTam
      @ShortyTam  14 днів тому

      Awww don’t feel bad…it’s ok. I appreciate you ❤️

  • @treegeeglass9477
    @treegeeglass9477 16 днів тому +2

    More Peace and many more Blessings to You😇🎉😌

  • @renatajordan2646
    @renatajordan2646 16 днів тому +1

    Tam i fully understand i currently work in the jail as a Diversion Coordinator, for inmates on suicide watch, with Mental Health issues and concerns that are often times drug induced psychosis...... I totally understand

  • @omor87
    @omor87 9 днів тому

    Been following you for 5 years now started because of your shopping videos rd. I always love your conversations and so happy that you got to retire! Congratulations 🎉 I also had a bout of vertigo 2 years ago it was 10% stress related.

    • @ShortyTam
      @ShortyTam  9 днів тому +1

      Hey friend! 5 years? You seriously made my day. Thanks ❤️ and also Thank you for the well wishes.

  • @veroniquefaison
    @veroniquefaison 16 днів тому +2

    Congratulations on your retirement, Tam! I'm sorry you had to go through that journey, but remember that God's timing is always perfect. ❤
    Enjoy the Usher concert! My husband's best friend went to see Usher in Las Vegas, and she said it was a great show.

    • @ShortyTam
      @ShortyTam  14 днів тому

      You’re right! The timing def was perfect ❤️

  • @annrich7467
    @annrich7467 16 днів тому +1

    Good for you girl good for you congratulations 🎉🎉

    • @ShortyTam
      @ShortyTam  14 днів тому

      I appreciate your support! 😊

  • @clara_1113
    @clara_1113 16 днів тому +1

    Tamm so sorry to her hear this but congratulations on retirement.😊

  • @debbiebamrick4020
    @debbiebamrick4020 16 днів тому +1

    Hey Tam- you know when you were putting out all those videos I was waiting for you to say that you retired- was not expecting to hear that they fired you! All I can say is good riddance to that job and enjoy your retirement. Have a great time at the Usher concert cause he puts on a great show!

    • @ShortyTam
      @ShortyTam  14 днів тому

      Yes!! Good riddance! ❤️

  • @tiffanyr2326
    @tiffanyr2326 16 днів тому +2

    Tam...I'm so happy that you're in a new peaceful and happy season now. You better sure 'nuff believe that The Most High God never ever fails all who trust and believe that...He never ever fails!! Congratulations ❤❤❤

    • @ShortyTam
      @ShortyTam  14 днів тому

      Hey Tiff girl! Thanks 🙏🏽

  • @pamherren5617
    @pamherren5617 16 днів тому +1

    I lost my job too in September, sucks😢, your not alone girl.

    • @ShortyTam
      @ShortyTam  14 днів тому

      Sorry to hear that 🥺

  • @peggyjohnson5450
    @peggyjohnson5450 14 днів тому

    God bless you because you never let go of your faith. To God Be The Glory for the things he has done.

  • @possumcolvett5722
    @possumcolvett5722 16 днів тому +1

    Hi Tam you should be so proud of yourself you have overcome so much in your career and life be proud of the fact that you never gave up trying i widh you nothing but peace and happiness for the furture and i wish you and your family a merry Christmas and a happy and blessed new year i think you sre awesome much love possum ❤😊

  • @princinejackson6242
    @princinejackson6242 15 днів тому +1

    I am so sorry you experienced all that you have. I hope you are doing better. I didn't know. But I did feel something which is why I asked you to contact me before. Remember God always takes care of His.

  • @d.l.n.7133
    @d.l.n.7133 16 днів тому +1

    Of course l left you a comment and l don’t see it but , you stayed strong and true to yourself … you are proof that the cream always rises to the top ❣️As for the others … l believe in Karma and l hope you are driving the Karma truck when they get on !!!!!

    • @ShortyTam
      @ShortyTam  14 днів тому

      ❤️🙏🏽 exactly

  • @ivyc7336
    @ivyc7336 15 днів тому

    Hi Tam! Wow...what an ordeal. Smh at your former employer terminating you during the same time you were trying to retire. They got some nerve & that's just awful! I was waiting to hear "lawsuit" at the end. Thanks God you eventually got your request approved. On a brighter note...congrats on your early retirement!
    🎉🎉🎉🍾🍾🍾

    • @ShortyTam
      @ShortyTam  14 днів тому +2

      Thanks! It was a long, stressful road, but I'm so happy it's over. 🙏🏽

  • @janetmichigander
    @janetmichigander 16 днів тому +3

    CONGRATULATIONS!! YOU ARE RETIRED!! I know the feeling, I really do!
    I didn't work in a prison, I worked with the public and women. Women!! So much backstabbing and gossip.
    When I retired, I felt so much relief! No more answering to people or expecting (my mistake there) women to act like adults. I didn't, and sometimes still don't, want to go out. I love being home. No answering to people, no time to follow to be somewhere because I am supposed to.
    Every Monday my husband and I love to chime, "HAPPY MONDAY! We don't go to work today!" We love our freedom and retirement from the government jobs we had and I have another job I had for over 22 years that I get retirement from.
    Congratulations girl!! ENJOY!!! You deserve it all!!

    • @ShortyTam
      @ShortyTam  14 днів тому

      lol I love this!! ❤️🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽

  • @JKMAdvon
    @JKMAdvon 15 днів тому +1

    First...congratulations! Second, keep that therapist... he's on point for you so far! Third...maybe consider an EEG and a visit to a neurologist. I have absence seizures...used to be called petit mal...and mine are triggered by lights flashing. I can't drive in the afternoon because the sun flashing through the trees will send my brain somewhere else, and I'll forget where I am and what I'm doing for a bit. Just a thought...my mom has vertigo, so that's also not helping. But maybe, if it's mild epilepsy, like I have, a few months on some meds would get it right! I love you, and thank you for being so open...in a world of Kardashians...be Anais Nin!

    • @ShortyTam
      @ShortyTam  14 днів тому

      Wow thank you so much for this advice, I will definitely take it into consideration 🙏🏽

  • @lisarobbinson8835
    @lisarobbinson8835 16 днів тому +1

    Tam ❤🫂😢 I understand...

  • @gladysgonzalez569
    @gladysgonzalez569 16 днів тому +1

    Heyyyyyyy girl Congratulations God bless protect you...enjoy retirement ❤

  • @wells328
    @wells328 16 днів тому +3

    Congratulations Shorty Girl🎉🎉🎉🎉👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Please take care of yourself, it’s okay to do nothing. We love You💕

  • @Smiley1-s3m
    @Smiley1-s3m День тому

    Heyyyy Tam. I'm back. I used to be Lyran but changed my name. Sorry to hear that happened but so happy you retired!!!!

    • @ShortyTam
      @ShortyTam  День тому

      Hi Lyran! Good to hear from you 😊 I’m so happy too! Thanks 🙏🏽

  • @rtej3086
    @rtej3086 16 днів тому +1

    Hi Tam. What happened to you really sucked but at the end of everything it turned to your favor. CONGRATULATIONS 👏 ENJOY YOUR RETIREMENT JOURNEY

  • @esmyval8948
    @esmyval8948 16 днів тому

    Get your rest

  • @kellystrader-creger7158
    @kellystrader-creger7158 15 днів тому

    You need to enjoy yourself and have fun with that cutie hubs of yours. Congrats!!!

  • @riverphilip3486
    @riverphilip3486 14 днів тому

    🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼❤️

  • @miabrock2867
    @miabrock2867 16 днів тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @skorpio13
    @skorpio13 16 днів тому

    1. Sounds like the prison is in violation for not having a licensed psych, 2. Did you get additional duty pay for your temp status of Prog. Coord? 3. Your termination sounds like they used you as escape goat.

  • @MsDeAngela
    @MsDeAngela 16 днів тому

    half somersault exercises help with vertigo

  • @esmyval8948
    @esmyval8948 16 днів тому

    Enjoy your retirement 🎉😊

  • @Althea876-H
    @Althea876-H 16 днів тому

    You deserve your retirement . Go do you.🎉❤