You are such an inspiration, Ms. Gibson. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. So many years of abandoning myself, are being brought to an end. I’m so thankful for all your work.🙏😎
One of my new favorite videos of yours! Thais you opened my eyes to the fact that I don’t want to spend time with myself because of my negative self talk. Also actions are what I really struggle with. Yikes! Would you do a video further discussing actions. Really loved this subject! Great content. 😊
Everything you discuss has its worth in gold. The same way we would get to know someone = get to know ourselves. Loneliness has disappeared when I started having so much fun with myself. It took a little momentum. Covid is serving me well. I'm as crazy as people think, but I call it healthy and happy. At least I'm laughing and not dependent on anyone else to amuse me. When I connect with the new one I'm not needy or feeling less than. Today is his birthday with friends and I'm not feeling anything but relaxed that I'm at home. ( It's a new one) I can see now that as I began to have more dialogue with myself everything around me picked up speed in connection.
I love that you are not telling us to abandon some feelings or some actions we are taking. Some channels do that. Instead of telling you what you could do more or just should do more, they tell you what you should stop doing and what to avoid and it really sucks ass. Advices are great, even specific ones, like yours but some other channels just try to sell you a mindset. -.-
Amazing as always Thais. All of this resonated with me. Thank you for helping us through this period with your daily videos and support. You mentioned in the video and in past ones too that Fearful avoidants need to be in their own space after being with others. Is this pattern connected to introversion at all? A video about introversion and extraversion and any relation to attachment styles would be useful!
Sad part is I didn't even think I needed this... 😞 Thank you so much, Thais. Many blessings your way! Can you please make a video on how to be assertive? For some reason, I can't resolve myself to do it...
Love this topic. Been working on this. #4 is the hardest by far. xD I’ve gotten very good at observing myself when I do it. Very curious how ADHD comes into play with this...
my question is your journey how you become such a great & amazing Coach :) i watch the story in the website but it didn't go details in how you was ended lonely and broke then a high achiever woman ! i would love to hear your story
If I'm showing up this way for myself as an AA (avoiding myself, talking badly to myself, or talking good to myself and now following up with actions, etc) does this mean that's how Im treating others?
@4:15 @Thais Gibson this is my first time watching your vid and I ❤️ what you do and what I am 👂 Could some people be hyper vigilant in their attachment to people because their parents were dismissive avoidant types that Only conversed with their peers aka the adults in their life? I guess they are either a) repeating patterns from their parents or b) thinking their kids are Not people to be talked to aka just fed, clothed and housed. 🤔🤔 So some people have 0 sense of self aka No attachment to self, no strong sense of self, and came from a family where everyone is enmeshed aka all the same emotions. Etc. Etc. Most people were never ever asked how they feel, they were just asked what their grades are, what they wanna be when they grow up. Aka their was a huge deep disconnect from parents to their kids! P.s. I also feel like the word hyper viligant didn't suit the context.
CAN YOU MAKE A VIDEO ON THIS PLEASE??? ARE FEARFUL AVOIDANTS NATURALLY DRAWN TOWARDS DISMISSIVE AVOIDANT? IF SO, WHY? IS THE CONVERSE OF THIS IS ALSO TRUE? And can you please share more insights about the the relationships and friendships between FA and DA??
As someone who really appreciates the work you do, I wish you would address a lot of these issues from a Lacanian perspective, because he went way deeper than Freud (I say this because your content seems to be rooted in Freudian theory). With regards to the stories we tell ourselves, Lacan would not take an individualist perspective and would rather say that we see ourselves through the perspectives of others. If you’re not familiar with Lacan’s theory of the unconscious, here’s a really good intro video: ua-cam.com/video/50k_IUMrehU/v-deo.html
Everything you discuss has its worth in gold. The same way we would get to know someone = get to know ourselves. Loneliness has disappeared when I started having so much fun with myself. It took a little momentum. Covid is serving me well. I'm as crazy as people think, but I call it healthy and happy. At least I'm laughing and not dependent on anyone else to amuse me. When I connect with the new one I'm not needy or feeling less than. Today is his birthday with friends and I'm not feeling anything but relaxed that I'm at home. ( It's a new one) I can see now that as I began to have more dialogue with myself everything around me picked up speed in connection.
You are such an inspiration, Ms. Gibson. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. So many years of abandoning myself, are being brought to an end. I’m so thankful for all your work.🙏😎
One of my new favorite videos of yours! Thais you opened my eyes to the fact that I don’t want to spend time with myself because of my negative self talk. Also actions are what I really struggle with. Yikes! Would you do a video further discussing actions. Really loved this subject! Great content. 😊
Haha, Thais! Thank you for not cutting it out... so relatable. Great content.
Everything you discuss has its worth in gold. The same way we would get to know someone = get to know ourselves. Loneliness has disappeared when I started having so much fun with myself. It took a little momentum. Covid is serving me well. I'm as crazy as people think, but I call it healthy and happy. At least I'm laughing and not dependent on anyone else to amuse me. When I connect with the new one I'm not needy or feeling less than. Today is his birthday with friends and I'm not feeling anything but relaxed that I'm at home. ( It's a new one) I can see now that as I began to have more dialogue with myself everything around me picked up speed in connection.
I love that you are not telling us to abandon some feelings or some actions we are taking. Some channels do that. Instead of telling you what you could do more or just should do more, they tell you what you should stop doing and what to avoid and it really sucks ass. Advices are great, even specific ones, like yours but some other channels just try to sell you a mindset. -.-
You are so woke and give the best advice! I wish everyone watched your videos
Amazing as always Thais. All of this resonated with me. Thank you for helping us through this period with your daily videos and support.
You mentioned in the video and in past ones too that Fearful avoidants need to be in their own space after being with others. Is this pattern connected to introversion at all? A video about introversion and extraversion and any relation to attachment styles would be useful!
Yes lots join churches out of loneliness and feeling weak and powerless. 😓😓Then ending up getting more pain! 😓😓
Sad part is I didn't even think I needed this... 😞 Thank you so much, Thais. Many blessings your way!
Can you please make a video on how to be assertive? For some reason, I can't resolve myself to do it...
Need more on number 5: show up for yourself with actions.
This one was good. Will need to come back to take notes.
Very helpful!
Very very good content. Thank you!
so glad you did a video on this
Thanks 😊 👏
Yeeesss! Thank you!!!
Love this topic. Been working on this. #4 is the hardest by far. xD I’ve gotten very good at observing myself when I do it. Very curious how ADHD comes into play with this...
my question is your journey how you become such a great & amazing Coach :)
i watch the story in the website but it didn't go details in how you was ended lonely and broke then a high achiever woman !
i would love to hear your story
She has her story on the first episode of her podcast
If I'm showing up this way for myself as an AA (avoiding myself, talking badly to myself, or talking good to myself and now following up with actions, etc) does this mean that's how Im treating others?
@4:15 @Thais Gibson this is my first time watching your vid and I ❤️ what you do and what I am 👂
Could some people be hyper vigilant in their attachment to people because their parents were dismissive avoidant types that Only conversed with their peers aka the adults in their life? I guess they are either a) repeating patterns from their parents or b) thinking their kids are Not people to be talked to aka just fed, clothed and housed. 🤔🤔
So some people have 0 sense of self aka No attachment to self, no strong sense of self, and came from a family where everyone is enmeshed aka all the same emotions. Etc. Etc.
Most people were never ever asked how they feel, they were just asked what their grades are, what they wanna be when they grow up. Aka their was a huge deep disconnect from parents to their kids!
P.s. I also feel like the word hyper viligant didn't suit the context.
I’m fearful avoidant. . . with myself! Hahaha
CAN YOU MAKE A VIDEO ON THIS PLEASE???
ARE FEARFUL AVOIDANTS NATURALLY DRAWN TOWARDS DISMISSIVE AVOIDANT? IF SO, WHY? IS THE CONVERSE OF THIS IS ALSO TRUE?
And can you please share more insights about the the relationships and friendships between FA and DA??
As someone who really appreciates the work you do, I wish you would address a lot of these issues from a Lacanian perspective, because he went way deeper than Freud (I say this because your content seems to be rooted in Freudian theory). With regards to the stories we tell ourselves, Lacan would not take an individualist perspective and would rather say that we see ourselves through the perspectives of others. If you’re not familiar with Lacan’s theory of the unconscious, here’s a really good intro video: ua-cam.com/video/50k_IUMrehU/v-deo.html
I really love your channel but, you really should consider changing your audio set up.
Everything you discuss has its worth in gold. The same way we would get to know someone = get to know ourselves. Loneliness has disappeared when I started having so much fun with myself. It took a little momentum. Covid is serving me well. I'm as crazy as people think, but I call it healthy and happy. At least I'm laughing and not dependent on anyone else to amuse me. When I connect with the new one I'm not needy or feeling less than. Today is his birthday with friends and I'm not feeling anything but relaxed that I'm at home. ( It's a new one) I can see now that as I began to have more dialogue with myself everything around me picked up speed in connection.