Dr. Emerson Eggerichs: How to Get Out of an Unhealthy Relationship Cycle | Kirk Cameron on TBN

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  • Takeaways: Dr. Emerson Eggerichs joins Kirk Cameron to talk about how we all can get out of unhealthy relationship cycles (crazy cycle) with our spouse and how we can make a change for the good of our marriage.
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  • @c_c836
    @c_c836 2 роки тому +8

    Kirk, you are the man dude! I have found God and the Holy Spirit has overtaken my heart. I cannot get over the transformation of things that has occurred in me since November. Feel like a different person. People like you and Tim Tebow---you guys have hearts of gold and are great examples. I enjoy your interviews, keep up the good work!

  • @strawberryshortcake8382
    @strawberryshortcake8382 6 місяців тому +3

    Pray for my husband and I. After my father died, I was grieving. I didn’t water my garden ( marriage) the way I should have.
    Pray we both can get back on track for our marriage.

    • @bradleykimmons
      @bradleykimmons 6 місяців тому

      Be blessed in Jesus name. May the makarious (blessed untouchability) of God make your marriage a powerhouse and safe tower.

  • @dacoolfruit
    @dacoolfruit 2 роки тому +11

    Hi, please look at Shiela Wray Gregoire's work regarding Emerson Eggerichs.... much more biblical and healthy way of viewing marriage

  • @southernbelle6838
    @southernbelle6838 2 роки тому +3

    I love when he says "you're an honorable man who would die for me, if I don't kill you first"!!!
    Excellent!
    🙏🙏🙏

  • @mnp870
    @mnp870 2 роки тому +5

    We all know Marriages take work.
    Two imperfect people will not have a perfect marriage. Hopefully, the craziness is workable in normal marriages.
    It is very difficult when one partner is abusive, a narcissist or struggles with bipolar illness. I know of couples who despite the mental or physical illnesse choose to keep their commitment. When that happens, a trustworthy support team or person is a must.

  • @karrisajoss4271
    @karrisajoss4271 2 роки тому +4

    I have to say, God can really only do what no person can.

  • @moodypet8837
    @moodypet8837 Рік тому +2

    I have read the book and it works.

  • @gorgeouswales9635
    @gorgeouswales9635 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you! Keep our marriage in your prayers!

  • @dacoolfruit
    @dacoolfruit 2 роки тому +13

    You cannit love without respecting, you cannot.repect without loving, this is a false dichotomy... all peiple need Love and Respext, not one or.the other

    • @bradleykimmons
      @bradleykimmons 6 місяців тому

      Missing the point my friend

    • @rbee2150
      @rbee2150 6 місяців тому +3

      Absolutely agreed. to say that all men need one thing and all women need other is laughable. I do not believe this man has engaged for one moment in anything scientific and proven in regards to relationships. Instead, he has created some sort of marital theology based on personal experience and desire. It is arrogant and it is incorrect.

    • @bradleykimmons
      @bradleykimmons 6 місяців тому

      @@rbee2150 he’s completely right and the results speaks for themselves

    • @rbee2150
      @rbee2150 6 місяців тому +1

      @@bradleykimmons i’m not one to engage in debate. You are entitled to your opinion. BUT- I agree, the results speak for themselves.

  • @karrisajoss4271
    @karrisajoss4271 2 роки тому +2

    Growing up with a dad and no mom, I definitely like when the guy in my life does what guys like, respect with love cuz no one likes it when a person, male or female, slams you as a person and disrespects. Thanks to Jesus, He can teach us all His ways.

  • @joolz5747
    @joolz5747 2 роки тому +9

    Nice but what about many who have addictions? Porn, substance, etc etc.
    and many who are not into God. Seems this is for emotionally well people.

    • @ladyesther
      @ladyesther 9 місяців тому

      Yes, I agree.

    • @bradleykimmons
      @bradleykimmons 6 місяців тому

      Respect, and love is for everyone, whether they have addictions or not.
      But should you stay married to someone who is addicted and doesn’t want help or think they need help? That’s a different question. Maybe get a pastor involved.

  • @pharmclare
    @pharmclare 5 місяців тому

    Dont show contempt. Amazing and value-added. Thank you for sharing

  • @pharmclare
    @pharmclare 5 місяців тому

    Amazing and value-added. Thank you for sharing

  • @sherrizerbel6178
    @sherrizerbel6178 2 роки тому +3

    These concepts of love and respect in the marriage were life-changing after reading Emerson’s book!Thank you!

  • @joyofsalvation100
    @joyofsalvation100 2 роки тому +4

    No matter how many chores you do for your spouse if you have anger issues for whatever reason, if your spouse feel you don't respect them then all the love of yours doing chores in vain.
    It means more important in marriage is peace, calmness, gentleness, respect and humbleness with love. Focus on giving your spouses emotional support like validation, respect.
    Money won't buy your spouse's heart nor looks or even hard work. What will work is they feel emotionally safe with you.
    The biggest need for any human being is to be respected by others.

  • @vintagegirl68
    @vintagegirl68 Рік тому +3

    My husband has done porn for 23 years, it's been so disrespectful to me. I have given him love, respect and many chances all these years. He just woke up and is getting help. He has been porn free for 6 months. It's hard to love at times because there is so much anger at the destruction he has caused in our lives. Nothing is the same, porn destroys every area, every relationship. It's painful to have 1000's of other women in your marriage relationship, it doesn't work.

    • @ladyesther
      @ladyesther 9 місяців тому +2

      I'm sorry to hear this. This is so common in secular society with unbelievers, but unfortunately also a big problem within the church and it really is destroying marriages and breaking the hearts of the wives.

    • @bradleykimmons
      @bradleykimmons 6 місяців тому

      You are absolutely correct. Wow. I’m sorry to hear that. Porn almost killed me, literally. All of us need to wake up to this.

  • @CrownedLegacyCoaching
    @CrownedLegacyCoaching 7 місяців тому

    Who else thought it was Robert De Niro on the thumbnail? lol

  • @karrisajoss4271
    @karrisajoss4271 2 роки тому +1

    When a gal does not see love, support and encouragement from her guy, she might speak it out loud or other ways to show her disappointment in the connection not being the best it could be. And visa versa.

  • @katiefrankenberger6027
    @katiefrankenberger6027 2 роки тому +1

    Just at a love and respect conference that he and his wife put on

  • @jesusisking7314
    @jesusisking7314 2 роки тому

    Happy 🎊Purim Katan🎊 and happy 🎉Shushan Purim Katan🎉 later today at 6pm, let us keep celebrating the Lord amen.

  • @hollywoodproductions528
    @hollywoodproductions528 2 роки тому +1

    Hi Kirk I’m a big 13 year old fan. What should I do if I have unsaved family members?

    • @bradleykimmons
      @bradleykimmons 6 місяців тому

      Read “The Divine Conspiracy” by Dallas Willard.

  • @PamBlizzard
    @PamBlizzard 2 роки тому +14

    With all "respect" no thinking human, women included, want love more than respect. Please stop stereotyping this idea of women who just want romance over respect. I don't care how much you love me, if you don't show respect for my spirit as a human, I don't care how much love you have for me.
    Snake oil, propped up by cherry picked scripture.

    • @maryhamric
      @maryhamric 9 місяців тому +2

      Right on Pam. 👍👍

    • @bradleykimmons
      @bradleykimmons 6 місяців тому

      Hmm, that’s false. And his long form teachings clearly explain why. You’re probably projecting your trauma onto his teaching, thereby invalidating it when you could be humbly learning something.

    • @PamBlizzard
      @PamBlizzard 6 місяців тому +2

      You, @@bradleykimmons are a man, telling me, a woman that I'm feeling the wrong thing and thinking the wrong thing as a woman. I'm also an APSATS trained trauma coach, what's your training in trauma? How about you stick to your own lane and things you actually know about.

    • @rbee2150
      @rbee2150 6 місяців тому +1

      Pam, you are right on. As a woman, I value both love and respect. And my husband is the same.
      This is five cent Christianized pop psychology, white washed and being sold for hundreds of dollars.

    • @rbee2150
      @rbee2150 6 місяців тому

      @@bradleykimmons I get it. Women who disagree with you should humble themselves, shut up and sit down.

  • @Alvaro-Yovani-Ibarra--
    @Alvaro-Yovani-Ibarra-- 2 роки тому

    God bless you, my name is Alvaro Ibarra, I live in Guatemala, due to the current crisis in our countries, I had to self-employ myself as a self-employed vendor in neighborhood stores, I sell different products with which I bring a plate of food to my children, I do not have a fixed salary and sales are very low these days, I would like to start a small business selling pizzas on the street with a small oven, or Mexican cakes with a gas griddle but what I earn is not enough for me put together and start one of these small businesses and have a more stable income for my children, that's why I beg if some kind person would give me a little help with the minimum to put together for the iron I would appreciate it with all my heart.

    • @Alvaro-Yovani-Ibarra--
      @Alvaro-Yovani-Ibarra-- 2 роки тому +1

      To see all my information celular number press twice the round icon next to God blessings

    • @KirkCameronTBN
      @KirkCameronTBN  2 роки тому +1

      Hi Alvaro! We appreciate you sharing your story. Please feel free to call our Prayer Department at 1-714-731-1000 if you would like someone to pray for you and your situation!
      - The Kirk Cameron on TBN Team

    • @bradleykimmons
      @bradleykimmons 6 місяців тому

      @@Alvaro-Yovani-Ibarra--how’s it going with that?

  • @DiscipleShaynePlaylist
    @DiscipleShaynePlaylist 2 роки тому +1

    Nah, love fulfills the law. I read scripture. Oh bonus round. Scripture says God IS LOVE.
    No love no God. But there is God so there must be Love. Boop,! Love you too kirk & friend on the other screen.
    Jesus IS Alive!!!
    ✝️💕🏃💨🌎

  • @renearosser1466
    @renearosser1466 18 днів тому

    Sheila Wray gregoire. Read her stuff. This man’s teaching is heresy. 😊

  • @dacoolfruit
    @dacoolfruit 2 роки тому +3

    Unconditional????? Nope.

  • @rbee2150
    @rbee2150 6 місяців тому +2

    This man’s teachings are arguably toxic and unbiblical. The example that Christ set was to SERVE. Instead, Eggerichs teaches that a husband ought to be served by his wife. That she ought to submit to his every desire. How is that the gospel? Unbelievers are laughing at this.