How to Overcome Perfectionism and Burnout

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  • @ArielleCovington-nh7lf
    @ArielleCovington-nh7lf 6 місяців тому +26

    You were right on time with this because I too suffer(ed) from this. This “I’m not good enough” or I’m not doing enough mentality. And it truly breaks you down and leads you to burnout. I had to scale back and listen when God says rest. His love for us is not measured in our performance. Amen! 🙏🏽 thank you, Sis!

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  6 місяців тому +1

      So true! Grateful for God’s deliverance for both of us!

  • @imanindaba
    @imanindaba 5 місяців тому +3

    Ive been reading the subtle art of not giving a f*** and I needed the message of the book to be relayed through the bible, and you did just that❤Thank you and Amen!

  • @JustChristianThings
    @JustChristianThings 2 місяці тому

    I really needed to hear this today, I’ve been struggling with perfectionism , always feeling like I’m not good enough or trying to do too much. I needed that reminder that God loves me for Who I AM, not what I do. thank you so much 🙏🏻 God bless you 🩷 I planned to have a productive day today but since I woke up this morning I felt God was telling me to REST. I feel so much more connected to God now 🥰 letting go of the to-do list and resting in His presence 😇

  • @KamoyaFarray
    @KamoyaFarray 6 місяців тому +5

    This could not have come at a better time, thank you very much for this message. Your articulation is beautiful. This message was very comforting and I loved it!❤️

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  6 місяців тому

      So glad it was on time for you! Thank you for watching!

  • @nicolersmith432571
    @nicolersmith432571 3 місяці тому

    Thank u so muchhhhh for this word!!!! I thank God for you!!!! You are a blessing and helping so many... Im thankful to know I'm not the only person who struggles with the perfection of not being or doing enough for God .

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  3 місяці тому

      My pleasure! I know it's not easy but God is definitely a healer. As we continue to dwell with Him, He will perfect us.

  • @jstaff5476
    @jstaff5476 6 місяців тому +2

    Hello Sis This hit home for me. I am truly grateful for your transparency. I needed to hear every single word you spoke. I thank God for you. Please keep on listening to the Holy Spirit as he leads you. Thank you. Thank you for sharing this video.

  • @talecialedford13
    @talecialedford13 3 місяці тому

    😭I bawled while watching this video because you describe my current situation to exactly as how it is and i have never heard it out aloud before confronting myself with the truth but it was a strong conviction.Always wantingnto know what next that it is making me weary 😩.
    Now i am trying to create a schedule in being consistent that its more about being consistent than why i wanted it and i have been struggling because i keep messing up and feel i cant do it right...this video really makes me just want to open up for whay it is becuaee i want to change..
    Funny thing he reminded me that his grace is sufficient enough today and this was just in alignment as he also led me to what sanctification really is which points back to salvation which is really deep .bless you ,i really have to learn to be patient.its like i am aware but i cant seem to truly understand.Giiiirl, it makes a difference knowing i wasnt the only one and reminded me that God already made plans for my shortcomings and still chose me and still wants me and still loves me

  • @adrianaromero1247
    @adrianaromero1247 6 місяців тому +6

    I love your content Kylia ❤

  • @AliciaMonetMonroe
    @AliciaMonetMonroe 4 місяці тому

    🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 I struggle with this as well, i needed to hear this more than you know!!! Thank you ❤️

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  4 місяці тому

      So grateful it was helpful, Alicia! I know the struggle, but the victory is near!

  • @REPLENISH3125
    @REPLENISH3125 4 місяці тому +1

    We try to make ourselves according to what we think is p perfect or what others think is perfect. Sometimes, those levels of standards are higher than God’s standards for us. And ANYTHING we put above GOD, we worship. INCLUDING our expectations of ourselves. We shall come as children, not adults. We may be adults, but come to God as children. It doesn't take much for our children to meet our standards for them 😊 think about it? We mostly just want obedience and for them to be the best version of themselves. If WE are healed, we don't even want them to measure up to the kids down the street. Well how do we think GOD feels about us????
    ❤❤❤ this content!!!

  • @nnekacoleman724
    @nnekacoleman724 4 місяці тому

    Omg I definitely needed to hear this video because I’m not perfect but I do believe in the power of God!

  • @its_didine152
    @its_didine152 6 місяців тому +2

    Thank you sis for this video, God literally sent me here🙏🏾💝💝

  • @dominqueedwards8932
    @dominqueedwards8932 5 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for being obedient. This video was right on time. God bless you ❤.

  • @_Pred
    @_Pred 5 місяців тому +1

    Theres always room for improvement! .... Nice slow movement ❤ !

  • @ChangedandChosen
    @ChangedandChosen 6 місяців тому

    I NEEDED THIS SO BADLY 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 I have struggled with performance and perfectionism when it comes to my relationship with the Lord!
    Thank you sis for this transformative message❤❤❤

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  6 місяців тому

      Im so glad this was helpful!

  • @dontlookatmyaccount5113
    @dontlookatmyaccount5113 6 місяців тому

    SO TIMELY, I was emotional about this struggle the other night coz it’s not talked about much. Then in the morning I see an email about this video???? I never even knew I was subbed to your email list, and it’s my first time seeing this channel. Thank u lord. Be blessed :”)

  • @barbhopkins3073
    @barbhopkins3073 6 місяців тому +1

    Whoa… in identifying the “issue”. The burden of perfectionism. It is a deep rooted burden. Lord help us

  • @SlimCG
    @SlimCG 6 місяців тому +1

    WE ARE ENOUGH 👏🏽🩷

  • @MounaKeza
    @MounaKeza 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for this may GOD bless you so so much ❤

  • @tinarourke-px8hx
    @tinarourke-px8hx 6 місяців тому

    I needed to hear this today. Thank you for all of the work that you put into this video! ❤

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  6 місяців тому +1

      My pleasure! Thank you so much for watching!

  • @joy_r
    @joy_r 6 місяців тому

    Such a beautiful message. I had to watch it twice.

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  6 місяців тому

      So glad it was helpful 🤍🤍

  • @NaturallySweet143
    @NaturallySweet143 5 місяців тому

    Amazing, thank you! 🙏🏾✨

  • @kimathis
    @kimathis 6 місяців тому

    Thank you for this video. I’m listening to it for the 2nd time, I needed this message

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  6 місяців тому

      My pleasure! So glad it was helpful!

  • @StyledbyBlesyn
    @StyledbyBlesyn 6 місяців тому

    Amen
    Thank you so much ❤❤❤

  • @amantlentshupang7593
    @amantlentshupang7593 6 місяців тому +1

    Amen

  • @theotherway1639
    @theotherway1639 6 місяців тому

    I had to learn the hard way to let myself fail and that it was ok to be my core true self. There was a meditation book I liked called 30 Days to Stop Apologizing by Harper Daniels that was helpful.

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  6 місяців тому

      I might check that book out myself!❤

  • @LovethroughAbby
    @LovethroughAbby 6 місяців тому

    Man 😭 i'm telling you , it's some serious striving over here and now i'm getting physically tired. I stop and then I start again, it's a gruelling cycle.

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  6 місяців тому

      I completely understand. Definitely read and study Colossians 1. It was so helpful!

  • @shalomsvlog
    @shalomsvlog 6 місяців тому

    So me !!!.. but God started reminding me he loves me and that i dont have to prove anything because there is always room at his table for us all ..he sees we are trying to please him and he is pleased with us already

    • @shalomsvlog
      @shalomsvlog 6 місяців тому

      Sometimes when I fall back or I wasn't consistent for just a day ...I cry my self to sleep because I Want to please him and make him happy ....

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  6 місяців тому

      Perfectionism isnt easy to overcome, but God is so patient with us. Its really about surrendering that control of our transformation and letting God handle it. It is not our job to transform ourselves.

  • @cerenasejour
    @cerenasejour 6 місяців тому

    Amen🦋

  • @bazor6883
    @bazor6883 6 місяців тому

    Glory to God❤❤, thank you

  • @marisepinas4526
    @marisepinas4526 5 місяців тому

    AMEN

  • @deziiduz
    @deziiduz 6 місяців тому

    AMEN! ❤

  • @siphofati
    @siphofati 6 місяців тому +1

    🙂🙌🏾

  • @dosageofdemi
    @dosageofdemi 6 місяців тому +2

    4:17 isn't that so crazy how quickly dismiss the truth of God, especially when He said it to you 😂 but like you said God is not a man that He should lie! It's our part to believe...

  • @temnit03
    @temnit03 6 місяців тому

    The prayer at the end healed me ❤ Thank You so much Father, Jesus and the Holy Spirit ✝️🤍 and thank youu kylia 🥹🫂 God bless you sis 🩷

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  6 місяців тому

      So grateful that it was helpful! God bless!