Our Personal Journeys with Therapy | AsianBossGirl Ep 257

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 30 чер 2024
  • We’ve had several amazing conversations with licensed therapists over the years, but today’s episode will focus on our own personal journeys with therapy. All three of us have gone to therapy at some point in our lives, and it’s given us many tools to reframe thoughts, better understand ourselves, and view the world with a more positive outlook. Today we’ll share what led us to therapy, tips for finding a therapist that will work with you & challenge you, and how therapy taught us that vulnerability is not a weakness, but a sign of courage.
    00:00 Intro
    01:38 What led us to therapy?
    11:33 Searching for a Therapist
    23:17 Navigating Cultural Tensions
    28:25 What We Learned
    44:40 Challenges & Setbacks
    46:30 Biggest Takeaways
    50:48 Are we continuing with therapy?
    This video is brought to you by Garnier, get super sleek hair with America’s #1 anti-frizz brand. Learn more at www.GarnierUSA.com
    Virtual product placement by Rembrand www.rembrand.com
    Listen here:
    • Apple Podcasts - podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
    • Spotify - open.spotify.com/show/55vG1j5...
    Connect with us!
    • Instagram - / asianbossgirl
    • Twitter - / asianbossgirl
    • Discord - / discord
    Hosted by:
    • Melody Cheng - / melodyccheng
    • Janet Wang - / janetdoubleu
    • Helen Wu - / hwuwu
    Partners:
    • Pampers - For trusted protection, trust Pampers, the #1 pediatrician recommended brand.
    • ZocDoc - Download the ZocDoc app for FREE at www.zocdoc.com/ABG
    • BetterHelp - Get 10% off your first month with code “ABG” at betterhelp.com/ABG
    Contact us:
    hello@asianbossgirl.com
    • www.asianbossgirl.com/
    • asianbossgirl.myshopify.com/

КОМЕНТАРІ • 12

  • @maia-roll
    @maia-roll 4 місяці тому +2

    Love this topic!!!! I have been going to therapy on and off for I think 5 years now. I also have an associates in social work and learned more about therapy. It is such a valuable resource in my life. I love so many of the tips you ladies shared in this episode. Thank you for sharing your experiences and being vulnerable. Love you ladies! ❤❤

  • @_joycejoys
    @_joycejoys 5 місяців тому +9

    thanks ladies for being so vulnerable sharing your experiences and advocating the importance of therapy. I started listening to your podcast in 2020 and I was introduced to therapy by you ladies. especially after listening to the episode you made with Jenn Im that I've decided to give therapy a go (largely due to the fact that she spoke about her realisation of her behaviours/emotions/reactions etc were learned from her parents that made me realise oh, crap maybe I was the same). I'm Asian so my first time matching with a therapist, I deliberately chose Asian as well thinking they would know my situation better. Turned out that throughout the two sessions I had with her, she was only agreeing and acknowledging what I've experienced and it really helped me with nothing. Long story short, I ended up having this amazing Caucasian therapist who has lived in Asia for a couple of years that provided her even better perspectives and understanding of Asians - she didn't just acknowledge what I've experienced; she also talked to me in such a kind way to slowly help me think from different perspectives on many things. Not sponsored at all but BetterHelp has been really helpful to me as it's financially accessible and there's something about an online environment that just makes you feel very comfortable. keep up with the good work ladies, you ladies inspired and helped way more people than you could ever imagine! xx

    • @yalazha
      @yalazha 5 місяців тому

      Agreed, it was ABG’s episodes on therapy that made me start to consider going to therapy too!

  • @Vanessa123243
    @Vanessa123243 5 місяців тому +6

    Appreciate the vulnerability on this channel

  • @lalalinduhh
    @lalalinduhh 5 місяців тому +5

    As a first gen AA, I’ve tried therapy so many times. I keep forcing myself to do it, and it’s just… so difficult for me. I remember that “western therapy doesn’t work on eastern minds” line shaking my entire world. I think therapy works if you want it to work.. and, maybe I keep telling myself it doesn’t work because I’m scared. Idk.

  • @itsjocex33
    @itsjocex33 2 місяці тому

    This is incredibly informative and encouraging. Thank you ladies for sharing your experience and tips!

  • @Matchalemoncake12345
    @Matchalemoncake12345 5 місяців тому +1

    Great topic ! Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @beckyhann
    @beckyhann 5 місяців тому +15

    thanks so much for covering this topic, we really appreciate your guys’ vulnerability sharing 🤍

  • @herbertbaker9522
    @herbertbaker9522 3 місяці тому

    Good show

  • @lim732
    @lim732 5 місяців тому +2

    Mel, please work on decreasing saying "like" in your conversation. It is very distracting.

    • @melodycheng2923
      @melodycheng2923 5 місяців тому +9

      Trying! It's hard to break this habit since I've been talking this for as long as I remember (it's how I talk with friends, family & never was critiqued until starting the podcast). Noting & trying to find the balance of improving/talking how I naturally do.

    • @ab00gful
      @ab00gful 4 місяці тому +2

      You’re doing great, Mel!