That’s what you get for putting all your eggs in one basket! You had more children but only give to one child. It’s your karma for not being fair to all your children.
This is why you should just put everything into a living trust. Because you dont know who has what mindset and the siblings can come together to make decisions
Sad that yus khwv2 es cia li muab tsa lwm tus ua neej. You should have spent some of your money for you and your husband to go on vacations and enjoy your life. This is why none of my stuff goes under any of my children’s names as long as I live. I rather have a well done and when me and my husband are gone, everything goes equally to all my children. Doing what this couple did, it was the biggest mistake they ever made.
That's what happens when you put all your trust and love to just one of your children and you leave all your other children out. I would never put anything in any of my children's names unless I split everything equally. Funny how you want to scam the government, but at the end you lost everything, 😂.
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Ua neeg nyob txhob hlub menyuam heev heev. Cia lawv mam peem lawv. Lawv khwv tau li cas los nyob ntawm lawv. Yus khwv tau li cas los yus siv yus kom tag. Yog yus hlub lawv dhau lawm ces lawv saib tsis muaj nqi thiab lawv tseem yuav sib txeeb ua plaub ua ntug xwb.
Peb ua neej nyob peb tsi txhob cia2 siab rau tej me nyuam os mog yog thaum twg yus ua tsi taus ces muag kiag xwb os ces yog#1 xwb lawv yuav ua neej lawv mam khwv lawv ma
All my children, I have responsibilities when they are still under my care, but when they are growing on their own, they have to work hard to take care of them and I will only help when they are needed. I am not doing all my living on them, and I will support them sure as parents.
I feel bad for anyone who has to go through with this. Everyday is an experience and we learn new things and face new challenges. I hope your son will treat his new wife with more respect and love her. It will take time to heal, please seek therapy if needed.
That's why do you business venture with ownership with your children and not let them take the reign. Very sorry to hear the parents went thru this. The dnl was at fault and should just let it go and be greedy. Karma plays a role and will eventually hit her.
How does a person continue living when you take another person's life earnings. Shame on the ex-daughter-in-law and her family (like hmong say - such a thick face with their nose high in the air). Lesson learnt for the elderly parents as well. Good luck with your sons new life. May he treat and love the new wife for who she is
The truth and honest thing, the daughter in law should never grab what was never belong to her in the first place. She’s a cheater and still wants to cheat all her in law fund. She was the one going to get karma.
Yus tsuas nros yus ruam yus ntseeg tej me tub me nyab dhau lawm ces zoo li no tiag, nej tshuav tej tus nyab nqi nej thiaj them nqi rau nws xwb txhib tu siab os mog.
This is a tale of foolish parents' greed for government $ & love for their child/ren with the expectation that they will get the love they give in return.
cov poj niam hmoob meskas siab nyoos tiag tiag cas yuav tsi paub kiag hais tias yuav twb ywm yus txiv ces yus li tag ntsho txawm txeeb tau ntau npaum cas los yog yus ua siab pheeb los xwb yuav plam sai txhaj
Good for you and your husband. Me tub me nyuam yuav tsum hlub ib yam. Neb ib niam txiv kev txhaum uas tsis hlub neb cov menyuam ib yam ne. Neb cheat neb IRS ces npam. Lots of Hmoob people cheat the IRS continuously.
Thaum yuav coj nw mu kho ma yuav tau kom nw cog lus rau lub ntuj tia hnub twg nw ntxeev siab hnub ntawv kom nw cov nqaij uas coj mu hlai pub kom lwj kom tsi zoo no pob ruam dhau ce nyuam ntxim xwb os
Tus nyab yog tus nrxhais tshwj xeeb ua yawm suab muab rau koj los hlub koj los tu koj koj tsis tau yug mob koj plab li ntawv niam poj thiaj tsim nyog hlub tus nyab dua tus ntxhais yug
Tsis hais tus poj niam muaj txiv twg li tias thaum nws lub siab xav tau tias hluas nraug thiaj yog tus neeg yuav kho tau nws lub siab nyob tus no ces thaum no nws twb tsis hlub tus ntxiv lawm. Nyob rau hauv case no yeej muaj cai sib faib cuab tam rau 2 leeg kom sib npaug zos vim nkawv nyob ua ke ntau tshaj 5 xyoos lawm. Nov apply rau txhua nkawm partners nyob ua ke.
Me niam laus aws.... lub neej tam sis no ces 1 txhia hluas tub2 nkeeg twb tsis xav khw tab sis mas ho ntshaw2 nyiaj tas zog li os mog. Peb cov me nyuam es tus twg yog tus mloog2 lus ces lwm hnub nws mus yuav poj niam los nws yeej mus mloog nws tus poj niam lus 1 yam. Tus ntxhais mloog2 lus los hnub twg nws mus yuav txiv kiag ces nws mus mloog tus txiv lus lawm ces nws yeej hlub tsis tau koj, cev tsis tsu 1 yam dab tsis rau niam tais li thiab os. Cov tawv2 tsis mloog lus mas lwm hnub nws ua nyaum2 rau nws tus txiv mas nws thiaj lu cev tau me2 rau yus xwb.
Tsis hnov koj hais es 2 tus me nyuam ne. Nyab tsis yuav los. Yog nyab yuav ces ntshe hnub no nej tus tub kawg nyob qab choj. Tabsis tsis tau lig... yog nyab xav tau cov me nyuam ces nyab foob ces nej yuav poob 1 teg nyiaj ntxiv... percent ntau tseem poob cov me nyuam thiab.
cov txiv neej txua txua pojniam kom zoonkauj ces thaum kawg zoo li no ntag txua mas yuav tsum txua ob leeg kom zoonkauj zoonraug ib yam mas thiaj li fair nawv
Tus niam tsev aws txoj niag kev cia siab no mas koj yuam kev deb heev lawm lauj.cov me nyuam teb chaws no mas lawv tau koj cov nyiaj tas lawm cais lawv tsis nyiam koj lawm os ok.😁👹
Cov niam txiv uas hlub hlub cov tub es tso txhua yam lub neej rau ib tug tub xwb ne. Nej puas nkag siab meskas lo lus hais tias “don’t put all your eggs in one basket”. Tim nej ntseeg thiab hlub ib tug me nyuam es muab txhua yam tso rau ib tug me nyuam xwb es tsis muab tso rau txhua tus me nyuam ne. Never put everything in one child’s name.
Wow, if the government knows that you guys fault the government, you guys will be in even bigger trouble. Txhob khib os nej twb dag peb cov nyiaj taxes noj lawm os.
Hoyo, cas hais tias foom2 es nyab thiaj pluag lawm. Koj lam hais kom koj zoo siab xwb tabsis li hmoob lo lus tias 10 hnub tshav los 1 hnub tsaug... yog koj muab lo lus no sib pauv, nws hais tias 1 hnub tsaug los 10 hnub tshav. Ces hnub nej tus nyab hais tias tsis muaj nyiaj ces yog hnub tsaug xwb... 10 hnub tshav ntuj nrig nrog nws tus txiv mos ab.
Nes, twg tsis kom nej hlub menyuam tsis sib npaug, koj twb yug tau coob cas koj tsuas hais txog koj tus tub ntxawg. Your other kids shaking their heads. Nyuam qhuav ntxim
Neb hom faib yav noov soob soob paiv paiv taub rau mi tub ntxawg ces txawm neb pub nyiaj ntau ntau los mi tub ntxawg li poj thiab xum nrhiav rab tshiab laun 😂
Viv ncaus cas neb yuav ntseeg nej cov tub nyab ua luaj li es yuav muab txhua yam rau lawv yus tus tub mas yeej hlub yus kawg tab si tus nyab siab phem nes cas ham tsis zoo li neb no mas viv ncaus 😢
Tiam no nej tsuav tu neeg siab phem ngi tab si nw yuav tsuav nej ngi thiab ri kev txhaum mu ntau2 tiam os txhob txhawj2 niam ntsuab teev twv piav cob dab npam muaj tiag ntau2 zaj ne Lwm hnub mam zaum luag saib nw nyob txim ma lo
So sad about this marriage life,,, I have been there and done that..there will be light at the end of tunnel… please move on, more beautiful days are ahead.
Mi Viv n koj zaj dab neeg no Hai tau tu siab tshaj plwg li o.koj Hai yog kawg
That’s what you get for putting all your eggs in one basket! You had more children but only give to one child. It’s your karma for not being fair to all your children.
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Yep! And wanted to live off of the government for what? When you had all that money.
In my lifetime, wouldn't do this to any of my son's unless I have a WILL; so when I am alive, no one takes nothing from me; EVER!!
Their purpose was to cheat the system and this is what they get.
Many Hmong people do this based on stories here.
I’m going to try my hardest to not love n live for my one n only SON. Thank you for sharing
This is why you should just put everything into a living trust. Because you dont know who has what mindset and the siblings can come together to make decisions
It’s great lesson to be learned.
Send him my way! I'm faithful!
I hope you learned your lesson!!! I would never put everything in my kids name, you don’t know what kind of life they are going to have.
Sad that yus khwv2 es cia li muab tsa lwm tus ua neej. You should have spent some of your money for you and your husband to go on vacations and enjoy your life. This is why none of my stuff goes under any of my children’s names as long as I live. I rather have a well done and when me and my husband are gone, everything goes equally to all my children. Doing what this couple did, it was the biggest mistake they ever made.
Hmong People..Parents, please look into a will called "living trust". This will safeguard against this kind of situation.
They wanted to cheat the system by receiving free money every month.
That's what happens when you put all your trust and love to just one of your children and you leave all your other children out. I would never put anything in any of my children's names unless I split everything equally. Funny how you want to scam the government, but at the end you lost everything, 😂.
Ua neeg nyob txhob hlub menyuam heev heev. Cia lawv mam peem lawv. Lawv khwv tau li cas los nyob ntawm lawv. Yus khwv tau li cas los yus siv yus kom tag. Yog yus hlub lawv dhau lawm ces lawv saib tsis muaj nqi thiab lawv tseem yuav sib txeeb ua plaub ua ntug xwb.
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Don’t ever do marriage license together no matter how y’all love each but child support will always be there if y’all have kids😎😎😎
Yeej tu siab mas but it’s not fair for the new daughter in law tough
Don't blame this on anyone else. It's you and your husband's own greed and ignorance that put you in this predicament.
Argeee
What a funny story
Peb ua neej nyob peb tsi txhob cia2 siab rau tej me nyuam os mog yog thaum twg yus ua tsi taus ces muag kiag xwb os ces yog#1 xwb lawv yuav ua neej lawv mam khwv lawv ma
The makeup looks great on you for this picture.
I've seen May in person, make up or not, she is very beautiful.
How great and lucky to be born a Hmong son!
Every thing you said is your problem but good thing your son still alive this the best for you grandma!
All my children, I have responsibilities when they are still under my care, but when they are growing on their own, they have to work hard to take care of them and I will only help when they are needed. I am not doing all my living on them, and I will support them sure as parents.
Ya spoiled them too much!
Don't let the bad experience of one person ruin it for another. Obviously we live and we learn. Trust but be cautious.
Nev ruam .koj tu tub lo ruam . Never fix a maum dev.😢😢😢😢
Hlub2 cov tub ces kawg thaj no xwb tiag.
hahaaaaaaaaaaaa
😭😭😭😭
Wow your exnyab must be beautiful for him for forgive her but she doesnt forgive him lol 😂
I feel bad for anyone who has to go through with this. Everyday is an experience and we learn new things and face new challenges. I hope your son will treat his new wife with more respect and love her. It will take time to heal, please seek therapy if needed.
Neb coj tsi ncaj rau neb cov me nyuam ne. Neb muab txhua yam txhua tsav rau ib tug xwb ne tiag khaum Neb na.
Yog kawg tsis npam nyab thiab tus Tau tsawg tsis yog nyab os kev npam yog neb tau tsawg yog neb hos ruam tshaj qhov ruam
The parents who put all their eggs in one basket, I do not pity
That's why do you business venture with ownership with your children and not let them take the reign. Very sorry to hear the parents went thru this. The dnl was at fault and should just let it go and be greedy. Karma plays a role and will eventually hit her.
Living will & should’ve taught ur son never to give 100% of himself to his spouse. Sh*t happens & for some people, feelings can change anytime.
Never sign over your hard earned money and property to your children. We need a will to designate whatever we want to give to our children.
How does a person continue living when you take another person's life earnings.
Shame on the ex-daughter-in-law and her family (like hmong say - such a thick face with their nose high in the air).
Lesson learnt for the elderly parents as well.
Good luck with your sons new life. May he treat and love the new wife for who she is
Txoj niag kev dag noj dag haus os, paub lawm lau.
Older people have money and assets should think about (well or trust fund) instead put under one of your children’s name.
Forget the pass move on to the future as long as you have a life is what matter.
Pog laus aw niam qhuav ntxim xwb
Your parents Karam too didn't love all her kids the same . Why would she give you everything not to the other kids too . Lessons to be learned
The truth and honest thing, the daughter in law should never grab what was never belong to her in the first place. She’s a cheater and still wants to cheat all her in law fund. She was the one going to get karma.
cia ua kev kawm. muaj nyiaj khaws cia thau yav laus yus thiaj muaj nyiaj siv. tej me nyuam pab me2 kom lawv txawj mus nrhiav noj xwb
True life story told by one of the best story teller. May the lord continue to bless you in everything you do. Looking forward to the next one.
Ntsej muag maum dev meb cab
Koj yeej tsis txog twg os
Yes, karma will after
With all of these stories; I started to have trust issue.
Yus tsuas nros yus ruam yus ntseeg tej me tub me nyab dhau lawm ces zoo li no tiag, nej tshuav tej tus nyab nqi nej thiaj them nqi rau nws xwb txhib tu siab os mog.
Qhuav ntxim.
You trust your kids, but do not trust their spouse! Don't ever put any of your business and assets in their name.
Don’t feel bad for you because you have more than one kid but you gave it all to one. Should have been smarter
This is a tale of foolish parents' greed for government $ & love for their child/ren with the expectation that they will get the love they give in return.
cov poj niam hmoob meskas siab nyoos tiag tiag cas yuav tsi paub kiag hais tias yuav twb ywm yus txiv ces yus li tag ntsho txawm txeeb tau ntau npaum cas los yog yus ua siab pheeb los xwb yuav plam sai txhaj
Good for you and your husband. Me tub me nyuam yuav tsum hlub ib yam. Neb ib niam txiv kev txhaum uas tsis hlub neb cov menyuam ib yam ne. Neb cheat neb IRS ces npam. Lots of Hmoob people cheat the IRS continuously.
Ruam li neb Ce tuag zoo dua lawm tiag Ca yuav ruam ua luaj li lau
Son is too whipped. Parents too stoopid. Dil too evil.
Shouldn't never sign your property to your son. Wow.
Ua li nej mas tsis ncaj ncees rau tus nyab tam sim no lawm nawb
Kaus government tsis work os.
Nej cov me niam txiv pheej hlub me nyuam tsis sib npaug na haum nkaus xwb.
hmoob meka tib co liam2 npav lub noj sab nruav nkau2 xwb tss yog ib tu saib ma yog txhua tu li
Thaum yuav coj nw mu kho ma yuav tau kom nw cog lus rau lub ntuj tia hnub twg nw ntxeev siab hnub ntawv kom nw cov nqaij uas coj mu hlai pub kom lwj kom tsi zoo no pob ruam dhau ce nyuam ntxim xwb os
Tim niag tub ib leeg xwb.😢😢😢
Why some Hmong people don’t love their kids evenly?
Really you would risk your lives for a hole like that..? What’s up these men’s this days. Bruh
Hahahaa!!! I already give my kids enough from 0-18 years. They ain't getting anything else beyond that.
Nay nay. That’s what ya get for only loving ONE kid. That’s your bad karma
Tus nyab yog tus nrxhais tshwj xeeb ua yawm suab muab rau koj los hlub koj los tu koj koj tsis tau yug mob koj plab li ntawv niam poj thiaj tsim nyog hlub tus nyab dua tus ntxhais yug
Vim neb txoj kev siab phem rau lab thab npas ces npam los mas
Tsis hais tus poj niam muaj txiv twg li tias thaum nws lub siab xav tau tias hluas nraug thiaj yog tus neeg yuav kho tau nws lub siab nyob tus no ces thaum no nws twb tsis hlub tus ntxiv lawm. Nyob rau hauv case no yeej muaj cai sib faib cuab tam rau 2 leeg kom sib npaug zos vim nkawv nyob ua ke ntau tshaj 5 xyoos lawm. Nov apply rau txhua nkawm partners nyob ua ke.
Thov txim os. Luag hais tias txawj khwv tsis txawj noj ces yog neb los mas.
Kj twb paub li ko ces kj yuav tau hloov lub txim ko nb
Me niam laus aws.... lub neej tam sis no ces 1 txhia hluas tub2 nkeeg twb tsis xav khw tab sis mas ho ntshaw2 nyiaj tas zog li os mog. Peb cov me nyuam es tus twg yog tus mloog2 lus ces lwm hnub nws mus yuav poj niam los nws yeej mus mloog nws tus poj niam lus 1 yam. Tus ntxhais mloog2 lus los hnub twg nws mus yuav txiv kiag ces nws mus mloog tus txiv lus lawm ces nws yeej hlub tsis tau koj, cev tsis tsu 1 yam dab tsis rau niam tais li thiab os. Cov tawv2 tsis mloog lus mas lwm hnub nws ua nyaum2 rau nws tus txiv mas nws thiaj lu cev tau me2 rau yus xwb.
Tab tom haum xwb, txoj mi kev es yug tau 1 pab es tsis xam muaj os, nyuam qhuav ntxim.p
Tsis hnov koj hais es 2 tus me nyuam ne. Nyab tsis yuav los. Yog nyab yuav ces ntshe hnub no nej tus tub kawg nyob qab choj. Tabsis tsis tau lig... yog nyab xav tau cov me nyuam ces nyab foob ces nej yuav poob 1 teg nyiaj ntxiv... percent ntau tseem poob cov me nyuam thiab.
cov txiv neej txua txua pojniam kom zoonkauj ces thaum kawg zoo li no ntag txua mas yuav tsum txua ob leeg kom zoonkauj zoonraug ib yam mas thiaj li fair nawv
Tus niam tsev aws txoj niag kev cia siab no mas koj yuam kev deb heev lawm lauj.cov me nyuam teb chaws no mas lawv tau koj cov nyiaj tas lawm cais lawv tsis nyiam koj lawm os ok.😁👹
vim tu nyab poj laib xwb tsis yog tim nej
Cov poj niam es ua plastic surgery ces yeej siab phem li no ntag nawb lawv aw...
Cov niam txiv uas hlub hlub cov tub es tso txhua yam lub neej rau ib tug tub xwb ne. Nej puas nkag siab meskas lo lus hais tias “don’t put all your eggs in one basket”. Tim nej ntseeg thiab hlub ib tug me nyuam es muab txhua yam tso rau ib tug me nyuam xwb es tsis muab tso rau txhua tus me nyuam ne. Never put everything in one child’s name.
Wow, if the government knows that you guys fault the government, you guys will be in even bigger trouble. Txhob khib os nej twb dag peb cov nyiaj taxes noj lawm os.
I mean if you can’t finished th story than don’t start any
Tim neb muab aib no hlub dhau lawm.
Do you people know how to write a living will or a trust?
Hoyo, cas hais tias foom2 es nyab thiaj pluag lawm. Koj lam hais kom koj zoo siab xwb tabsis li hmoob lo lus tias 10 hnub tshav los 1 hnub tsaug... yog koj muab lo lus no sib pauv, nws hais tias 1 hnub tsaug los 10 hnub tshav. Ces hnub nej tus nyab hais tias tsis muaj nyiaj ces yog hnub tsaug xwb... 10 hnub tshav ntuj nrig nrog nws tus txiv mos ab.
Hlawv xyab hlawv ntawv foom kiag kom niam tais yawm txiv mam ntuj npam los ma
Tired of story like this-it’s common sense.
Nes, twg tsis kom nej hlub menyuam tsis sib npaug, koj twb yug tau coob cas koj tsuas hais txog koj tus tub ntxawg. Your other kids shaking their heads. Nyuam qhuav ntxim
Neb hlub neb cov minyuam tsis ncaj ncees lawm nev tos poob hlo ib nraab lawm nas
Neb hom faib yav noov soob soob paiv paiv taub rau mi tub ntxawg ces txawm neb pub nyiaj ntau ntau los mi tub ntxawg li poj thiab xum nrhiav rab tshiab laun 😂
Hmoob mékas yeej ruam thiaj li plag txhua yam.
Lwm hnub yeej yuav npam neb niag nyab xwb mas txhob txhawj os
Koj tus tub lub neej puas tas vim neb ruam thiab hlub neb ob tug me nyuam heev dhaus lawm
Vim neb niag tub hlwb ruam niag ruam tuag rau niag nyab on ceg
Tub twb tsis tag rau niag ntawd es cas tsis muab faib kom sib npaug na cov neeg ruam aw… twb muaj tswv yim khwv cas tsis muaj tswv yim ua neej na
Viv ncaus cas neb yuav ntseeg nej cov tub nyab ua luaj li es yuav muab txhua yam rau lawv yus tus tub mas yeej hlub yus kawg tab si tus nyab siab phem nes cas ham tsis zoo li neb no mas viv ncaus 😢
Tiam no nej tsuav tu neeg siab phem ngi tab si nw yuav tsuav nej ngi thiab ri kev txhaum mu ntau2 tiam os txhob txhawj2 niam ntsuab teev twv piav cob dab npam muaj tiag ntau2 zaj ne Lwm hnub mam zaum luag saib nw nyob txim ma lo
Almost hmong O G same stories no all your daughter inlaw faults .hmong very hungry governments $$$
Neb ruam dhau lawm nes yus tus tub thiaj mag lub maib no
Ua cas tu lawm os ?
So sad about this marriage life,,, I have been there and done that..there will be light at the end of tunnel… please move on, more beautiful days are ahead.