The Venting EP 23 | Gogo Skhotheni & Monde Shange On Their Son Being At The Hospital For Over A Year

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 344

  • @teyamkhonza7439
    @teyamkhonza7439 11 місяців тому +216

    My cousin was born that way and today he's 11 years old and in grade 6. He's perfectly fine. Goes for check ups once a year, otherwise everything is normal. He was treated at a public hospital in Durban. I'm answering for the less fortunate people who have to use public service. They did justice for my aunt and that little boy. He had the best Drs. Of course private health offers way more convenience so that would be first option.

    • @noniiminx8501
      @noniiminx8501 11 місяців тому +4

      😢❤Thank God your cousin is well now🙏😢❤i just hope everything will be okay for Gogo and Monde as time goes too❤

    • @xollymnyandu
      @xollymnyandu 11 місяців тому +1

      What's the name : 👀 of the hospital

    • @teyamkhonza7439
      @teyamkhonza7439 11 місяців тому

      We pray that the little boy grows well and strong as well. 🙏 God is faithful uzoba right

    • @teyamkhonza7439
      @teyamkhonza7439 11 місяців тому +3

      He was born in KwaHlabisa HOSPITAL north of KZN. his Dr's diagnosed him and he was transferred and treated in iNkosi Albert Luthuli hospital in Durban

    • @zuzuh5755
      @zuzuh5755 9 місяців тому

      ​​@@teyamkhonza7439Albert Luthuli.hospital has a very good reputation. I wish all.public hospitals were like them.. Syabonga nge cousin yakho iNkosi amgcine njalo,aphile.

  • @WetsoMogorosi
    @WetsoMogorosi 11 місяців тому +121

    the fact that this baby is still alive is miracles.😭😭😍😍

  • @ntaolengmaema9548
    @ntaolengmaema9548 11 місяців тому +49

    My child has been diagnosed with autism. It has robbed our family of so much. But we've also learnt to appreciate the blessings that we have. She's our first fruit so it's been difficult to navigate, the meltdowns are the worst. Sometimes Hubby and I also fight amongst ourselves and some days we are able to comfort each other and be each other's strengths. I am most grateful for a present partner, he is so hands on. Parenting has no manual, i pray you and your family find healing and comfort. These illnesses are not fair on our kids. Sending love and light

    • @zethezuma1281
      @zethezuma1281 11 місяців тому +2

      Sending strength and love to you and your family❤

  • @exhortationsbyeva6345
    @exhortationsbyeva6345 11 місяців тому +27

    The story broke my heart... That boy will live to declare the goodness of God in the land of the Living

  • @hopeqhetsimani243
    @hopeqhetsimani243 11 місяців тому +31

    This video has tought me that you must be financially stable(ready) before having a baby because you will never know what to expect and it has tought me that it is also important to have a supportive partner ❤😊...

  • @thatonkadimeng8701
    @thatonkadimeng8701 11 місяців тому +119

    😢yoh Mara Monde is such a strong, supportive, emotional supportive husband and considerate too. I'm in awe hearing how yall explain your journey with your lil one 😢❤

  • @Chidzy.M
    @Chidzy.M 11 місяців тому +36

    I salute you guys for surviving through such a difficult time in your marriage. What a test!? You're both stronger than you think❤️❤️❤️

  • @preciousmosetlha9985
    @preciousmosetlha9985 11 місяців тому +15

    Ugogo was lucky to have her husband by her side now imagine if you're single mom and have to go through all of that trauma alone without the father..😢

  • @tumiedyakopu8370
    @tumiedyakopu8370 11 місяців тому +21

    I'm literally in tears.... You guys are strong and that boy is special ❤️❤️❤️. . This is the reason I love reality shows, you got to know people who they really are. Right now I respect you guys

  • @uzukhanyefihla4005
    @uzukhanyefihla4005 11 місяців тому +22

    i was hurt throughout this episode, im still tryna figure out of how you guys survived. How boy survived? Boy is a living superhero! give him a cap please. He is very blessed to have you guys as his parents, i am sooo proud of what you guys did for u Boy. Your God and Your Ancestors were definitely with you Tumi and Monde.
    this is also a motivation to anything that’s bad going on in your life to stay strong.
    “be strong like a premature“ my new fav quote
    Thank you for sharing your story guys ❤️ stay blessed🙏🏾

  • @user-qx2cc1el4c
    @user-qx2cc1el4c 11 місяців тому +26

    What an emotional journey😪 everything happens 4 a reason big up 2 Monde his so supportive. Tumi u very lucky and blessed. May u both find healing. Nizoba ryt❤️

  • @sandtee
    @sandtee 11 місяців тому +20

    May you heal from this Gogo. The fact that our little one is still alive is a miracle. Sending love

  • @daphneymakuwe7280
    @daphneymakuwe7280 11 місяців тому +5

    I've never cried like this 😢 😭 😔 🤧 I'm not okay shem thank you guys for being there for each other be strong all shall be well..Gogo there's a vid dat you recorded when you were holding uJuniour crying and you prayed 🙏 yho kwavuka something kimi I prayed so hard I ddnt even hear my mom opening the door she joined me we prayed after dat she said who is Junior ngathi ngumtana KaSkhotheni ncoooh gogo I love Junior so much and I believe dat he will be okay he's a strong boy he surely fight like a premature

  • @tshiamomahape292
    @tshiamomahape292 11 місяців тому +27

    Thank you for ur vulnerability and sharing your story which is so sensitive. May God keep you all and may the power of God continue to show in your Son's life, he will live to tell his story and Thank you as his parents.

  • @sibongilesibiya1895
    @sibongilesibiya1895 11 місяців тому +38

    This the most painful episode ever...Lights and Love to the Shange's ❤️ Monde Jr will be okay😊

  • @kamogelolive
    @kamogelolive 11 місяців тому +11

    The Fact that both you and the baby are still alive!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼 God muhle 🤍🙌🏼

  • @tha_realtumi
    @tha_realtumi 9 місяців тому +6

    Watched your recent interview on Podcast and chill with Macg. Your character drawn me to your channel. The Venting Podcast episode 23 made me understand you and your husband much better. The word you were looking for is "RESUSCITATE" to attempt to revive someone from an unconscious state. ❤️ 🏆

  • @MrsNgoma
    @MrsNgoma 11 місяців тому +20

    Gogo this reminds me of my light daughter.. she only lived for 6 days. I had the worst delivery.. I remember walking to the Nicu with pain…sending you love and light 💡.. May you heal from it.. God is good. Bless your son ❤️

  • @nonkululekomehlomakulu2037
    @nonkululekomehlomakulu2037 10 місяців тому +4

    5 min into this video and I'm already feeling sick.. Any story that has blood makes me feel like my arms are dislocating, my knees are shacking at the same time.. I'm gonna keep pausing the video till I reach the end.
    Having been following you on FB and seeing u boy, I just can't not watch this testimony. You guys have a beautiful story to tell, not rosy but very real.
    Niya thandwa o Shange🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @TRO175
    @TRO175 11 місяців тому +7

    Ever since i started watching this podcast I have never been so emotional like today, May God and the Gods continue to be with you Gogo and your Family. Sometimes things happen and we wonder why, just trust/believe and let things unfold on their own everything happens for a reason. I believe in God and the Gods they will never leave you to suffer❤❤

  • @promisemogashoa8355
    @promisemogashoa8355 11 місяців тому +6

    The way I love that child ,he’s a living angel I see God through him .he will definitely be ok ❤

  • @user-gc9hg2yq1r
    @user-gc9hg2yq1r 11 місяців тому +6

    Never cried like this in my life😢ohw! Gogo MJ his such a special child ❤so proud of you guy's may God continue to bless you and for sharing 🙏 Thokoza

  • @moo-tee7755
    @moo-tee7755 11 місяців тому +5

    Indeed children are gift from God 🙏🏾. May both of you find more strength to continue raising miracle baby Monde Junior 🙌🏼

  • @karabomafate3070
    @karabomafate3070 11 місяців тому +7

    Monde is so strong, may God continue to strengthen him🥺❤️

  • @zukiswasikhulume9869
    @zukiswasikhulume9869 11 місяців тому +13

    I had a disability child at the age of 17yrs when she was 2yrs my mother passed..I was all alone raising a child that I don't even know how to handle her..she pass away too at the aged of 14yrs after Avery scary n difficult sickness..
    Your story just took me back😭😭

  • @naledikgarimetsa3178
    @naledikgarimetsa3178 11 місяців тому +5

    This is a testimony that God le Badimo are alive. Your son is a living miracle 🙏. If you had doubts may this episode answer you. This just made me realise how lucky I am. May God le Badimo keep your son alive for many more years may he one day live to tell the story himself because he is such a fight my goodness ❤️.

  • @aphiwenxumalo9601
    @aphiwenxumalo9601 11 місяців тому +3

    Yoo Gogo I don't have any babies but listening to your story guys made me shed tears thinking of your pain, May God protect your Children enze umangaliso kuMfana wenu...love from Durban!

  • @nellymanuki6520
    @nellymanuki6520 11 місяців тому +4

    This is a miracle😢 what a testimony gogo .God and your guises strengthen you and Mr Shange❤

  • @ceeladi
    @ceeladi 11 місяців тому +5

    We really need part 2, where is he now and how is he doing? Will he ever be out of the hospital? Will he stay in machines.
    I don’t have kids and your story is breaking me

  • @mymomentzeeh6956
    @mymomentzeeh6956 10 місяців тому +3

    Ohh my God i cried the whole time watching this😭😭y'all are strong..keep loving each other

  • @Nomhle_Dosini.
    @Nomhle_Dosini. 11 місяців тому +8

    🥺🥺🥺boy is a fighter and he'll forever be safe and stronger, may God and your ancestors be with yall and guide yall through such obstacles ❤

  • @masechabamakena7633
    @masechabamakena7633 11 місяців тому +4

    I’ve never cried so much watching a podcast. May God heal Boy 🙏🏼😭😭

  • @tebogoramoshoana9418
    @tebogoramoshoana9418 11 місяців тому +4

    This reminded me of my own premmie story... Made me so emotional 😓😓😓

  • @user-ft3jr4zl8l
    @user-ft3jr4zl8l 11 місяців тому +1

    i don’t know how you’re able to tell your story without crying. may the living God bless you and heal you.❤️

  • @pulengmolahlehi8016
    @pulengmolahlehi8016 11 місяців тому +9

    Dr Liphapang is the best shame, he is my gynecologist as well.❤❤❤❤❤

  • @molebohengmotsoeneng6802
    @molebohengmotsoeneng6802 10 місяців тому +2

    I watched this twice😢😢😢
    I really applaud you both for your maturity, for accepting and loving your son the way that you do and for having the strength and courage to not only share your son's journey with the world but for remaining optimistic throughout the challenges you've encountered as far as his health is concerned. There is a reason you both were chosen to be his parents. God is yet to do wonders in his life. He has already revealed himself through your baby boy. I understand why you would have questions, I would too but sometimes we don't necessarily have to have the answers, we just need to trust that God has a bigger purpose for him than we realise. His life is proof that there is a living God who performs miracles and it is beautiful to see that He trusted both of you to parent baby Monde. I don't think I would've been able to be this vulnerable so big shout out to you guys🥺🤞🏽... You are an inspiration to many. I pray for God to continue working and showing up for your son, I pray he continues to give both of you strength. May he continue to bless your family and carry you through. Keep the faith and continue being each other's pillar❤... Your family is in my prayers🥺🙏🏽🤗❤️

  • @user-pl2lg8gh8q
    @user-pl2lg8gh8q 11 місяців тому +5

    You guys are so strong and he's lucky to have parents like you❤

  • @seddiethuli6800
    @seddiethuli6800 11 місяців тому +2

    I'm literally in tears,but we thank God for his life 🙏 may he continue protecting him for us❤

  • @lebogangmoloto8266
    @lebogangmoloto8266 11 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for sharing. This made me cry. Love and Light.

  • @nelanimdletshe2738
    @nelanimdletshe2738 11 місяців тому +2

    I HAVE NEVER CRIED SO MUCH, THANK YOU FOR SHARING

  • @sphiwemoagi
    @sphiwemoagi 11 місяців тому +1

    I watched this sitting at the edge of my seat, tears rolling down, only finding comfort on the fact that I know he is alive, you two have been through a lot but I love the fact that you went through it together, All is well🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @kgosetsana
    @kgosetsana 11 місяців тому +5

    What a precious little warrior Monde Jr is 🥺

  • @uhuru8495
    @uhuru8495 11 місяців тому +17

    He's a miracle baby,I also gave birth to a premature baby in 2019 had to be operated due to placenta previa he was born with hypospadias he has done 4 operations in total and the journey still continues because he still needs to go for more operations cause apparently it takes times to get the hypospadias corrected.#prembabies ❤

    • @keneiloemyoli
      @keneiloemyoli 11 місяців тому +1

      So sorry Mommy. I also had a premie in 2019 due to placenta previa

  • @tyhudisa-gal
    @tyhudisa-gal 11 місяців тому +2

    Took me 4hours to watch this , coz wow been pausing nd crying nd carry on , wow Monde we need more of u as women keep it up bhuti, and Tumi you the strongest woman wow

  • @klovely8066
    @klovely8066 11 місяців тому +4

    God will bless you guys and especially you Monde for not leaving them and I thank God your marriage didn't fall apart.

  • @pebetsisegogela9846
    @pebetsisegogela9846 11 місяців тому +1

    What an emotional Episode 😔 I had to pause in between so I can catch my breath. Love and light to the shanges ❤

  • @fundiswandunduma4706
    @fundiswandunduma4706 11 місяців тому +2

    Indeed there is nothing hard for God. He is a miracle baby. We praise the Living God ngempilo ka Junior.

  • @ntombintombi3890
    @ntombintombi3890 11 місяців тому +3

    One day I would like to be on the podcast I have a story to tell ND the world need to hear this one..

  • @lebolenepa8266
    @lebolenepa8266 11 місяців тому +5

    May God and your ancestors be with you. For part 2 I would like to know how the other kids reacted. From the baby having complications and the attention shifting on him more.

  • @mariamoagi1759
    @mariamoagi1759 11 місяців тому +3

    Askies Gogo I could see you holding your tears. Intondo eyakamdali.

  • @jayaggylebata438
    @jayaggylebata438 11 місяців тому +3

    I cant stop crying this is so emotional,I remember giving birth to my son😭😭😭

  • @zinhlekhumalo1347
    @zinhlekhumalo1347 11 місяців тому +2

    I'm literally in tears i don't know how you guys are doing it😢 kodwa unkulunkulu angeke akunike umthwalo ongeke uwukhone 💔 sengathi angaqhubeka aniphe amandla aphinde asiboleke uBoy simbone ekhulu ebayindoda❤️ sengphetha ngicela niqhubeke nibambane kanjengoba nibambene gogo eyy kwesinye iskhathi intando kankulunkulu ibuhlungu😢😢.Niqine idolo and never give up kuBoy❤. I'm sending Love and Light to the Shange Family ❤

  • @lady_p5897
    @lady_p5897 11 місяців тому +2

    God is good. I'm glad you decided to do the surgery for him.

  • @MelosClipsie
    @MelosClipsie 11 місяців тому +4

    God is amazing ,both of you guys are STRONG

  • @ronnymasoko7215
    @ronnymasoko7215 11 місяців тому +2

    Thanks God for making both of you strong and the life of the boy❤❤❤❤

  • @khayelihle2010
    @khayelihle2010 11 місяців тому +4

    May your baby be healed! No parent should ever go through this ❤

  • @yv-wa-motlokwa
    @yv-wa-motlokwa 11 місяців тому +3

    You are very strong guys this was a lot hle, m glad lil monde is strong and healthy he's a fighter that 1♥️

  • @mandisangcamu6698
    @mandisangcamu6698 9 місяців тому +1

    You guys have been through the most..... Thanks for sharing the heartbreaking but amazing story. I hope Monde Junior gets stronger and stronger❤

  • @gladnessnonyane9323
    @gladnessnonyane9323 11 місяців тому +5

    I miss MINE already🕊👼 ❤😢 #prematureBabies,if we were to write down stories as woman about our deliveries and hospitals,yho we will all be in tears

  • @judyphala5235
    @judyphala5235 11 місяців тому +11

    Shout out to Monde, some men would have hit the road.

  • @nwabisantshebetu7046
    @nwabisantshebetu7046 11 місяців тому +1

    Yhoooo I can't believe myself 😢I cried the whole episode. Gogo and Mkhulu you guys are super strong. And you are encouraging lots of people. Including myself as I have lost hope in love and having my own kids.

  • @salutembambo9798
    @salutembambo9798 11 місяців тому +1

    Sending Love , Prayers , Hugs and Light to you Gogo and your Beautiful Family 💓

  • @mandisatshabile4739
    @mandisatshabile4739 11 місяців тому +2

    Love and light ❤❤you guys are best parents uboy could ever ask for

  • @-Natefo-
    @-Natefo- 11 місяців тому +4

    Universitas hospital is indeed an amazing one. The facilities are well serviced.

  • @mariamkhwanazi5596
    @mariamkhwanazi5596 11 місяців тому +1

    He has a spirit of a warrior. God bless him ❤️❤️

  • @Kefuoe_Tladi.
    @Kefuoe_Tladi. 11 місяців тому +4

    He’s definitely a Miracle baby ❤❤❤God is good ❤❤

  • @nancymisslilly4973
    @nancymisslilly4973 11 місяців тому +2

    How I wish I could understand your language 😢I love you guys,you are the best chosen parents for your cute baby boy... from 🇳🇦❤

  • @nombusokhoza7186
    @nombusokhoza7186 11 місяців тому +2

    Iyo if u believe in God. God can can do miracle thanks gogo and I can't wait for part 2

  • @sibongilemkhungo7050
    @sibongilemkhungo7050 11 місяців тому +1

    You guys have been through so much💔.
    Love will win against all odds ♥️.
    Tumi you so strong 🌻. Monde - Thank u 👏

  • @lebogang7600
    @lebogang7600 11 місяців тому +3

    Gogo remember souls chooses bodies for a certain purpose boy chose his body and y'all as a parent to teach you something and also for his soul to learn something. Remember the souls ultimate goal is to love and be loved and I think you are doing just that for him and he is doing the same for y'all

  • @portiamthimunye2899
    @portiamthimunye2899 11 місяців тому +2

    Yoh guys nindlule ebunzimeni kakhulu,u Monde Junior uyisimangaliso futhi ungumanqoba.nihlale nibambisene njalo ngiyanithanda❤❤❤

  • @Luu_Mokoena
    @Luu_Mokoena 11 місяців тому +1

    What a miracle baby 🥹🙏was emotional throughout the episode 🥹❤️

  • @user-ni7oy1up9b
    @user-ni7oy1up9b 11 місяців тому +1

    Ooohh maaaan, i'm still speechless. What an emotional episode. Yooooh

  • @danielsello1241
    @danielsello1241 11 місяців тому +3

    The story of Monde and Tumi gives that time God Asked Abraham to go with his son to the mountain to do a sacrifice only that He was testing his faith......it show how truly Tumi is called by God and her ancestors it's sad but again it has a educational side.....ngiyathandile ngoba ba khulumile ukuthi uBoy uright unga worry.

  • @dineo_dlaminii
    @dineo_dlaminii 11 місяців тому

    That fact that you'll can still smile through everything is amazing❤

  • @noxiek
    @noxiek 10 місяців тому +3

    Gogo Dkhotheni you so strong

  • @litamtoto-pi4pi
    @litamtoto-pi4pi 11 місяців тому +2

    Your son is a FIGHTER!!❤ after I saw the video of Gogo Skhotheni kissing and playing with Jr I started praying for a stranger esinguJr. He will be fine❤

  • @preciousmedupe4564
    @preciousmedupe4564 11 місяців тому +4

    I love how the husband acknowledges Tumi strength

  • @busisiwembatha8498
    @busisiwembatha8498 11 місяців тому +1

    This episode made me chop onions😢😢 I love you guys unkulunkulu anibophe ngebhande lika moyo

  • @jaycoo81
    @jaycoo81 11 місяців тому +4

    God bless you The Shunge family 😇🙏🕯❤️god and ancestors knew you’ll fight this and chose you guys for e reason
    Stay blessed and for boy to grow and grow and grow❤

  • @exhortationsbyeva6345
    @exhortationsbyeva6345 11 місяців тому +3

    So sorry for what you went through ❤️ may God keep the baby boy in good condition In Jesus 's name🙏

  • @user-gp3tb5fz3j
    @user-gp3tb5fz3j 11 місяців тому +2

    As a mum,how do you begin to deal with such a challenge, l cannot even imagine. 😢

  • @SiphesihleMASOGA-fk8bx
    @SiphesihleMASOGA-fk8bx 11 місяців тому +1

    Your story is very touching , may God bless your family

  • @lulama_ps2131
    @lulama_ps2131 11 місяців тому +4

    I can relate we all think after giving birth we all expect to go home , the moment they say there’s a problem you literally die inside.

  • @pulanetheo7826
    @pulanetheo7826 11 місяців тому +3

    🙌🙌🙌 God us faithful. Monde and Tumi 🎉. You guys are strong. God chose you with the purpose to be Jnrs parents. Thank you for sharing 😊

  • @zikonazokufa
    @zikonazokufa 11 місяців тому +5

    the number of subscribers you have currently sucha beautiful angel number 333

  • @nthamanefreda2907
    @nthamanefreda2907 11 місяців тому +2

    My friend also has a son with the same condition. He was in hospital cape town government hospital up until he was 3 years. Nw he is 7 years goes every year for check up.

  • @sandisilendlovu9949
    @sandisilendlovu9949 9 місяців тому

    umm you are very strong, I am so touched by how strong your little boy is. He is a true fighter.

  • @sithabilembanjwa4981
    @sithabilembanjwa4981 11 місяців тому +3

    I can relate 😢😢, Boy be strong n make ur parents happy. God please

  • @princessskosana1372
    @princessskosana1372 10 місяців тому

    I love your love guys I love how you love each other, how you carried each through all of this, both of you are so strong and loving.
    May God continue to in-still his faith in you guys cause really he put you through this for a purpose. Much love and respect ❤ you passed this test 🙏🏻

  • @lorelleharry9536
    @lorelleharry9536 10 місяців тому +1

    It is such a difficult experience. We had an accident with our son at 1 month. God shows His strength even when we do not think He is there. Government hospital came through for us (baby was not yet registered on medical aid). Thank you for sharing. ❤

  • @thicklunathi_nokele
    @thicklunathi_nokele 10 місяців тому +1

    Yhoo boy is so strong🥺I can’t wait for part 2,I want to know if boy will ever come out of hospital for good and live like other kids🥺

  • @ziziphomantyi-og4ry
    @ziziphomantyi-og4ry 11 місяців тому +3

    I cried non stop ❤your baby is strong

  • @lindangcobo2333
    @lindangcobo2333 11 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for sharing your journey and encouraging us to be strong... I also delivered a baby with complications but I am trusting God and doing my best to stay strong for my baby. Your journey has given me so much hope

  • @kekanakekana8499
    @kekanakekana8499 11 місяців тому +3

    Eh. That's all I can say. God and amadlozi are great. Mercy rewrote boy and your lives. ❤❤❤ Love and light

  • @Anything-Anywhere103
    @Anything-Anywhere103 11 місяців тому +1

    Oh gogo your son shows his born fron strong parents 😊

  • @wadzanaim7768
    @wadzanaim7768 11 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing this with us May God continue to give you strength! Monde JNR you are for the purposes of God’s glory! Love & light Gogo & Mkulu

  • @abongilempeta130
    @abongilempeta130 11 місяців тому +1

    Yhuuu I'm in tears. That one will be the one of the doctors in the universitas

  • @philasibonge.mkhize
    @philasibonge.mkhize 11 місяців тому +4

    this episode was so eye-opening🥹

  • @_qpiidTV
    @_qpiidTV Місяць тому

    Xola Nhliziyo, kusezo khanya! Siyanithanda nonke. Love you venting podcast family, Gogo and and uBab' Monde you never disappoint, you're stronger than most, and thanks for being so open with your story.