When I met my husband, I felt instantly calm and comfortable with him. Like no one else in the world could bring me peace at that time in my life except him ❤ good luck in the dating game!
That's exactly how I felt when I met my boyfriend! 🥰 Insane comparison to my ex... who I initially felt butterflies with but turns out it was actually anxiety all along😂
I love that you include reading in your day-to-day life….it’s refreshing to see a reader amidst a sea of influencers who have probably never picked up a book in their lives!
I actually heard that the butterflies you feel when you are first with someone is actually anxiety. Like you don’t know how they feel about you and the relationship etc. The absence of butterflies means that you are secure and comfortable with the relationship. Hence why when you are married the butterflies aren’t there or the same. Hope that helps ❤
@@imtaramichelle I want to feel this too! I always read that most people feel this about their spouse and I'm always so jealous about it. I hope I can find that one too!
I was going to say this, that butterflies are actually a sign your gut/nervous system doesn’t feel comfortable or something feels “exciting” but can actually be that it’s triggering something within. Doesn’t mean they’re dangerous but just means something is off in your gut and your gut is actually your first brain
I love that you keep us updated in your own way and in your own time! You don’t owe us anything when it comes to your personal life but you still try to keep us in the loop and I thank you for that on a internet friendship level bc I truly feel like we are friends🤍🥲 keep living your best life Tara! I love living vicariously through you!!
I’ve been going on SO many dates this summer too and it’s been so fun! So much easier to meet people when it’s just for fun instead of pressure to find “the one” and not trying to fit them into a box
I get what you mean about the excitement in a new relationship, when you know you know. It's not about being nervous, its about feeling like you want to be around them all the time, smell them near, hold their hand, feel like your cup is full in their presence.
I don’t remember who I heard talking about it but they were given advice of “butterflies are nervousness and the right person won’t make you nervous” and looking back that 10000% could have saved me so much heartbreak. Just wanted to offer a different perspective 🥰
TARA i haven't watched you-tube for a few months but Ur hair and appearance looks so vibrant and happier idk what it is but i can tell you are in a really great place and its evident. much love.
Hey girl! Love the chair! Regarding the wheels you typically have to “pop” them in. In our office I set up many chairs and it can be quite a force you need. Some I used a rubber hammer and some I needed the guys to push in.
Kudos to you Tara, for getting out there. It sounds pretty fun; and like you said a learning experience. Either way you are living, your best life... Sidenote:Bradey was cute,doing her lil dance.
Desk Chair suggestion: place one of your throws over the back. I've also seen the sheep rug placed on back but I think a bit of colour contrast would be great.
I love the chair! Hopefully the wheels stayed on the base. Your “ahh! Ahhh! Ugh” frustration with that chair reminded me of the scene on “Easy A” where Emma Stone was hand sewing/stitching the embroidered “A” on her tops. That movie is just classic. Also, that dinner looked bomb.
I love the way you decorate but if you want a tip. I think your Office is perfect and the black chair gave it more of a pop. Its too light in there it doesn’t let the pictures on the wall and the lamp stand out. I feel like you need more black so the office pops.
Great find with the new chair, Tara. Hope it’s comfortable and that it grows on you. The wheels likely need to be pushed down very firmly, almost forcefully, until they click into a locked position. I agree with you and your Dad, the lamp doesn’t seem to fit on the console so well, it feels as though it’s too short and/or bulky for that specific space. Curious to see something with height too. Always delighted to find your new uploads! ❤
The original guy seems like he makes you happy!! Maybe it just needs time and he does end up being the one. That’s how it was with my now husband! Also the wheel falling off had me laughing because I’ve been there 😂😂
Literally about to finish the third book in the Knockemount series (Things We Left Behind) and I’m obsessed!! Lots of drama but also LOTS of steamy parts!! Each book is kind of repetitive but the plot line is different for each so it evens out - I highly recommend the series
Loved all the updates, dating can be interesting for sure. I need to get myself into it so I can actually get out their and meet people but I hate the apps.
you have to push in the wheels with more strength, use a glove and press them against a carpet for example to enter correctly, maybe you figure it that by now. I had the same thing with my gaming chair.
I know everyone probably critiques your every move. That’s not what this is- I have sticker labels for the tops of my spice jars. I got them because my pull out rack makes me have to rifle through 50-11 hundred jars. 😊 You got me watching Grey’s too! I never watched it when it originally aired. Best wishes 😊
Hi there. Did you get your tree for the lower level corner? Btw. Thanks for having your father over helping you. My father just passed away and I’m missing him. We did gardening together when we lived in the same city. Just memories now. Have the best week
Okay maybe hot take BUT I read every summer after FIRST and then live and other words and though they are do similar, love, and other words is definitely my favorite! 💞 and love the chair! I think it fits the aesthetic !!
I liked Every Summer After so much more than Love and Other Words, but I think it's because I read Every Summer After first! They are such similar story lines, but definitely have their differences too. It's been a while since you read Love and Other Words so maybe you'll enjoy revisiting a similar story line and like this one!
I’ve been looking for ideas for my cauliflower gnocchi. Will def try this recipe. Thanks, Jill!!! I love fall!!! 🍁 🍂 having creamy white chicken chili tonight to kick off the season. 😋
OMG Tara I have the exact same thing with my office chair!! I even superglued the wheels in (sooo ridiculous but I have zero problem solving/mitchie skills!!) and they actually stayed in for a while but eventually fell off… if you figure it out could you let the vlog know?! also hope you’re doing okay and feeling a little less chaotic
You should look into the Herman Miller Sayl chair if you want an aesthetic and comfortable chair. Herman miller ships their chairs completed too! You just roll it out of the box lol
Happy Sunday!!! I love your vlogs, you give a lot of motivation ❤ Dating life is at the lowest. Broke up with my fiancé this summer. We were together for 7 years. Don't know what to do know, I never dated anyone but him, so it's my new era too.
Read Every Summer After last week. Really liked it. Been on a reading grind lately. Liked the dating update. I’m pulling for the boy you knew when you were young :)
Which guy did Jill had the chance to meet when she was visiting? I am so curious, was it guy number 1 or maybe 2 😊 Not being nosy just want to feel included😂❤
Tara I would love to hear what your looking for, like what do you consider a match and not a match. And what would the perfect partner look like to you. ❤
I’ve been using protein powder in my coffee too. I take my time drinking my coffee and I find that the powder settles to the bottom AND everytime I take a sip, I taste a lot of powder. How are you finding it with that powder you’re using now?
Yay please share everything!!! Lol we’re friends we want to know all the juicy details!! I’m finally taking a pause on dating it’s so exhausting but I feel at peace, so until I’m bored again I’ll keep to myself
Tara you got me back into reading at the start of the year and now I"m reading 4-6 books a month! When are you going to read Fourth Wing and the ACOTAR series? I just finished reading them and now I'm in a book hangover lol.
I read Every Summer After before Love And Other Words, and loved it WAY more. I’m wondering if it was because I read it first! Curious to hear your thoughts after reading both!
Hi Tara! Happy Sunday ! Random question, in what length did you get your serpentine necklace from mejuri that you wear every day? I really want to get one for myself but I’m not sure if I should get the 16 or 18 inch , plz help💓
That looks like a 16 inch to me based on what i myself wear. Not 100% sure though. Maybe you can look up how different necklace lengths look there are plenty on google and youtube
Omg I could never. I have mad dating anxiety and I was really ready to give up dating when I met my boyfriend. So cliché 😹 but I was truely wanting to stop dating and okay with jist being single when I met him
18 years ago I had a bachelorette month. At the end of that month I went to a party at some kind of far friend extremely disappointed and I met my husband.
happy sundayyyyy friends!!!! hows everyone's dating life rn?! because mine has felt crazy for the last few months LOL
Nonexistent😂
Honestly, same girl! Same!! Love you!!! ❤❤❤
Notexistent at the moment but I'm hoping things will change sometime soon
Married for 13 years, been with my honey for 15. Love your vlogs ❤️ 🍁🍂🎃👻
What book did you just finish? Missed the title.😊
When I met my husband, I felt instantly calm and comfortable with him. Like no one else in the world could bring me peace at that time in my life except him ❤ good luck in the dating game!
That's exactly how I felt when I met my boyfriend! 🥰 Insane comparison to my ex... who I initially felt butterflies with but turns out it was actually anxiety all along😂
Same!!
I absolutely love when there is a bonus video. Gives the new week a great start. ❤️🔥
heheh happy sunday!!!
Love dating updates! Especially since I’m in my single era as well
I love that you include reading in your day-to-day life….it’s refreshing to see a reader amidst a sea of influencers who have probably never picked up a book in their lives!
I actually heard that the butterflies you feel when you are first with someone is actually anxiety. Like you don’t know how they feel about you and the relationship etc. The absence of butterflies means that you are secure and comfortable with the relationship. Hence why when you are married the butterflies aren’t there or the same. Hope that helps ❤
I'm not referring to anxious butterflies - moreso excitement over someone! I want to feel excited about someone in the early stages of dating
@@imtaramichelle I want to feel this too! I always read that most people feel this about their spouse and I'm always so jealous about it. I hope I can find that one too!
@@imtaramichelleIf that is what you meant then I agree. I hope you get blessed with your perfect half.
I was going to say this, that butterflies are actually a sign your gut/nervous system doesn’t feel comfortable or something feels “exciting” but can actually be that it’s triggering something within. Doesn’t mean they’re dangerous but just means something is off in your gut and your gut is actually your first brain
24 yrs later I still get 🦋🦋 never settle ladies ❤
I love that you keep us updated in your own way and in your own time! You don’t owe us anything when it comes to your personal life but you still try to keep us in the loop and I thank you for that on a internet friendship level bc I truly feel like we are friends🤍🥲 keep living your best life Tara! I love living vicariously through you!!
I love talking about this stuff!!! Just gotta wait until it feels safe to do so 😂😂
I’ve been going on SO many dates this summer too and it’s been so fun! So much easier to meet people when it’s just for fun instead of pressure to find “the one” and not trying to fit them into a box
I get what you mean about the excitement in a new relationship, when you know you know. It's not about being nervous, its about feeling like you want to be around them all the time, smell them near, hold their hand, feel like your cup is full in their presence.
Thanks for talking about the dating stuff! I'm in the same era so it's great to hear other people's stories.
I can't get over how CUTE Brady is!!
I don’t remember who I heard talking about it but they were given advice of “butterflies are nervousness and the right person won’t make you nervous” and looking back that 10000% could have saved me so much heartbreak. Just wanted to offer a different perspective 🥰
I adore your supportive parents. You are so blessed to have them 🎉
You’ll never imagine how much your videos are like therapy for me! I cannot wait for the *touch of fall* cosiest vibes 🍁
I’m so ready for all the fall vibes too!!!! 🫶🏼🫶🏼
I love your daring updates. Not every date turns in to the love of your life and that’s fine have fun with it.
TARA i haven't watched you-tube for a few months but Ur hair and appearance looks so vibrant and happier idk what it is but i can tell you are in a really great place and its evident. much love.
I just finished watching the backyard renovation video you uploaded yesterday and now I’m here again 🙃
heheh love it! back to backkkk vids!
Hey girl! Love the chair! Regarding the wheels you typically have to “pop” them in. In our office I set up many chairs and it can be quite a force you need. Some I used a rubber hammer and some I needed the guys to push in.
Girl don’t stress about the time I’m just happy when you post a new video❤️love your vlogs and when you chat about what you’re reading:)
Kudos to you Tara, for getting out there. It sounds pretty fun;
and like you said a learning experience.
Either way you are living, your best life...
Sidenote:Bradey was cute,doing her lil dance.
That lamp might look cool on the bookcase in the kitchen. Set a mood with the lites off in the evening.
Desk Chair suggestion: place one of your throws over the back. I've also seen the sheep rug placed on back but I think a bit of colour contrast would be great.
You should get the Libby Natural Cane Desk Chair from Crate and Barrel for your office! It would compliment the new lamp that you got!
I love the chair! Hopefully the wheels stayed on the base. Your “ahh! Ahhh! Ugh” frustration with that chair reminded me of the scene on “Easy A” where Emma Stone was hand sewing/stitching the embroidered “A” on her tops. That movie is just classic. Also, that dinner looked bomb.
I love the way you decorate but if you want a tip. I think your Office is perfect and the black chair gave it more of a pop. Its too light in there it doesn’t let the pictures on the wall and the lamp stand out. I feel like you need more black so the office pops.
Happy Sunday!!! Just right what I needed this Sunday! It's gonna be a good vlog 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
Brady is so cute. Really like the new chair and I can't wait for soup season!
Brady's close up was super cute 🥰
Great find with the new chair, Tara. Hope it’s comfortable and that it grows on you. The wheels likely need to be pushed down very firmly, almost forcefully, until they click into a locked position. I agree with you and your Dad, the lamp doesn’t seem to fit on the console so well, it feels as though it’s too short and/or bulky for that specific space. Curious to see something with height too. Always delighted to find your new uploads! ❤
Love the dating stories! Can’t wait to hear more. You really are growing and pushing yourself to try new things. It looks good on you!
The original guy seems like he makes you happy!! Maybe it just needs time and he does end up being the one. That’s how it was with my now husband! Also the wheel falling off had me laughing because I’ve been there 😂😂
Literally about to finish the third book in the Knockemount series (Things We Left Behind) and I’m obsessed!! Lots of drama but also LOTS of steamy parts!! Each book is kind of repetitive but the plot line is different for each so it evens out - I highly recommend the series
you really have to shove the wheels in! if they’re falling out, they aren’t in!! love you!
Loved all the updates, dating can be interesting for sure. I need to get myself into it so I can actually get out their and meet people but I hate the apps.
ya the apps kinda suck ahhaha but its the easiest way to meet people!
These men are so lucky ! You’re beautiful Tara , inside & out ❤
you have to push in the wheels with more strength, use a glove and press them against a carpet for example to enter correctly, maybe you figure it that by now. I had the same thing with my gaming chair.
This is one of my favorite blogs tbh
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I know everyone probably critiques your every move. That’s not what this is- I have sticker labels for the tops of my spice jars. I got them because my pull out rack makes me have to rifle through 50-11 hundred jars. 😊 You got me watching Grey’s too! I never watched it when it originally aired. Best wishes 😊
Gotta love another Tara vlog😍 fav UA-camr ever! Haven’t missed a video since you moved back to Canada!🫶🏻
Hi there. Did you get your tree for the lower level corner? Btw. Thanks for having your father over helping you. My father just passed away and I’m missing him. We did gardening together when we lived in the same city. Just memories now. Have the best week
I Looooove The New Chair!!!! So Cute!! 🩷🩷
Tara! You should get an ergonomic office chair instead! There are some cute all-white ones and it will be more comfortable for you too!
Love Bachelorette Tara! Keep us posted, you know, as much as you want to or not. Regardless, enjoy!
I'm starting a new job tomorrow and I have spent my time off from working staying up way to late reading books. I feel you on that.
ahhhhh best of luck tomorrow!!!! 🥰
thankyou!@@imtaramichelle
Okay maybe hot take BUT I read every summer after FIRST and then live and other words and though they are do similar, love, and other words is definitely my favorite! 💞 and love the chair! I think it fits the aesthetic !!
I was so happy to see you uploaded! Had a rough afternoon and watching this to take a break ❤️
LOVE the new chair!!
House looks great love the new vase and that chunky lamp!
Did you figure out the wheels? had chair like that and they went into certain spots!
True story, turned on your vid for a calming background while I put together my new office chair, so I felt your chair frustrations so strong😂😂
Where do you list the makeup you use in each video...plz share
I liked Every Summer After so much more than Love and Other Words, but I think it's because I read Every Summer After first! They are such similar story lines, but definitely have their differences too. It's been a while since you read Love and Other Words so maybe you'll enjoy revisiting a similar story line and like this one!
Yess I love this bachelorette era for you! I’m currently doing the same! I have 3 men on my roster rn! Take care Tara⭐️🩷
I’ve been looking for ideas for my cauliflower gnocchi. Will def try this recipe. Thanks, Jill!!! I love fall!!! 🍁 🍂 having creamy white chicken chili tonight to kick off the season. 😋
OMG Tara I have the exact same thing with my office chair!! I even superglued the wheels in (sooo ridiculous but I have zero problem solving/mitchie skills!!) and they actually stayed in for a while but eventually fell off… if you figure it out could you let the vlog know?!
also hope you’re doing okay and feeling a little less chaotic
Love your dating era ❤️❤️ Thank you for the bonus vlog
Tara please tell me you eventually ended up loving the chair! Its SO CUTE
SO HAPPY TO SEE THAT U UPLOADED
yayayayyyy
i love the chair! i also think a black chair would look nice to break up the wood in your office too! either way still super nice
I love extra uploads!
Tara!
I found your tumbler on Amazon and it has dancing Mickey Mouse’s on it!!
I’m so Excited!!! I’m also 63😆
The chair looks great tara finishes the room off 👏🏻🪑
I love that you call them soupy gnocchi too 🤩🤩 that looked delicious!!!
If you’ll change the chair try a bob of color like green or blue its gonna look good ❤
Brady is the most cutest little dogo ever!
she is the besttttt
also if you want to thicken up the soup you could always add greek yogurt!
Tara how is it that ur tofu doesnt stick to the pan?? What are u putting and how often are u moving the tofu arround?
She’s almost thirty and flirty and thriving ✨
The two books and the bowl looked so much better on the console than the huge lamp!!
I love the new chair!
You should look into the Herman Miller Sayl chair if you want an aesthetic and comfortable chair. Herman miller ships their chairs completed too! You just roll it out of the box lol
I love the new office chair!!!
I really enjoyed Don’t Let Her Stay, too. I read it in a day because I just had to know what was going to happen!
Happy Sunday!!! I love your vlogs, you give a lot of motivation ❤ Dating life is at the lowest. Broke up with my fiancé this summer. We were together for 7 years. Don't know what to do know, I never dated anyone but him, so it's my new era too.
omg I'm so sorry, I can't imagine. but good for you!!!!! it's hard right now but it's better than being with the wrong person ❤
Read Every Summer After last week. Really liked it. Been on a reading grind lately. Liked the dating update. I’m pulling for the boy you knew when you were young :)
Which guy did Jill had the chance to meet when she was visiting? I am so curious, was it guy number 1 or maybe 2 😊 Not being nosy just want to feel included😂❤
ahahaha Jill met guy #1, the sweetest man ever
Maybe a white chair? Love you bestie ❤❤
Tara I would love to hear what your looking for, like what do you consider a match and not a match. And what would the perfect partner look like to you. ❤
I’ve been using protein powder in my coffee too. I take my time drinking my coffee and I find that the powder settles to the bottom AND everytime I take a sip, I taste a lot of powder. How are you finding it with that powder you’re using now?
Yay please share everything!!! Lol we’re friends we want to know all the juicy details!! I’m finally taking a pause on dating it’s so exhausting but I feel at peace, so until I’m bored again I’ll keep to myself
I feel this ^^^ hahah SOOO exhausting
I think butterflies don't define feelings but anxieties. Someone is suppose to make you feel safe and calm.
I'm referring to the excitement of early dating!
@@imtaramichelle ohh my gosh so late to see this! Thanks for clarifying!
What are the tanning drops you use on your face?
Those books are similar but I love them both
I could not stop laughing at the new chairs wheels.
Tara you got me back into reading at the start of the year and now I"m reading 4-6 books a month!
When are you going to read Fourth Wing and the ACOTAR series? I just finished reading them and now I'm in a book hangover lol.
Honesty is best if you have long term goals by mid 20s that don't match. Never think one of you might change In Time, you won't. Great Vlog! 😎☕💋
You gotta use a lot of power to force those wheels in. They will work and you'll know it when they do.
I read Every Summer After before Love And Other Words, and loved it WAY more. I’m wondering if it was because I read it first! Curious to hear your thoughts after reading both!
Love your glasses ! Where are they from?
What’s the palette you used not the tarte one I have that one lol❤
Everything looks great. However, I would swap and put the lamp where the vase is.
Nice… video up on a Sunday !! I love it
I love your office chair! It maches ❤
Hi Tara! Happy Sunday ! Random question, in what length did you get your serpentine necklace from mejuri that you wear every day? I really want to get one for myself but I’m not sure if I should get the 16 or 18 inch , plz help💓
That looks like a 16 inch to me based on what i myself wear. Not 100% sure though. Maybe you can look up how different necklace lengths look there are plenty on google and youtube
Omg I could never. I have mad dating anxiety and I was really ready to give up dating when I met my boyfriend. So cliché 😹 but I was truely wanting to stop dating and okay with jist being single when I met him
you can also get one of those chair pads for under the chair so you're able to roll it and maybe have your dad look at the chair? haha
18 years ago I had a bachelorette month. At the end of that month I went to a party at some kind of far friend extremely disappointed and I met my husband.
I haaaated "Don't Let Her Stay"! I just wanted to shake everyone and yell COMMUNICATE!
I love the chair!
I think the chunky lamp would look better with a black shade and put acouple book under it to raise it higher.....gwen
Love the chair!!!