Demi's Dad was the most beautiful representation of a Black Dad I've seen. Her parents' marraige was beautiful to see as well. And of course I love Demi.
I agree with every couple who said “I do” and every couple who said “I don’t”. IMO this was the most perfect Love is Blind of all because everything began and ended as it should’ve.
@@user-fr5qt5rr4r yes and I said in my head while watching the show if any of the married couples don’t make it, it will be them. So I stand on what I said
I wish you had let her talk more freely and let her think about what she wanted to say. I feel like you sometimes told her how you thought she was feeling rather than waiting for her to articulate it herself. Sometimes you need processing time to express your emotions correctly; especially when she was having to look back in hindsight to a year ago
If Demi is so self aware and knows herself as much as she claims she does then no one can effectively tell her how she feels nor does she need any exorbitant amount of time to process how she feels.
The thing is Ollie was not into Demi from the get go. Why did he say he wanted to go home right after seeing Catherine? After seeing sharlotte again, he was ghosting Demi DAYS before the wedding. He was keeping on an act because he was on TV. But he was not into Demi. Why can’t people see that
@frayola420 He never once drooled over Catherine at all. I don't know why you people just make shit up. He was literally drooling over Sharlotte, but never Catherine, don't make shit up.
Ollie was never into Demi! It was friend zone from the reveal. As a man, I called it straight away! Ollie was not being real with Demi after the reveal.
@@shimmatv5351 he was being ‘nice’ and civil with Demi from the time he saw her onward and it was so obvious. No one’s saying Demi’s not attractive (everyone seems to think that’s what ppl who see through Ollie are saying) but HE was never attracted to her. He has a type. She isn’t it.
Well to be fair Ollie went deep in the pods with Sharlotte it was between her & Demi, NOT Cat. Production just chose to exclude that entire part 😢 He came to the reunion with Sharlotte and those podcasters who attended said chemistry was obvious. Love Demi but shes right she really needed to SPEAK UP more, he was not her person period!
And that is FAIR. The fandom for Demi is so over the top. Ollie likes a girlie girl. How many times is Demi going to emphasize that day by day she's normally wearing sweats!?! You can say that's so down to earth and that's so real but I don't know one guy who wants a girl who is wearing sweats everyday. He does say he is attracted to melanin girls but then BW REFUSE to believe THAT AS WELL! THERE'S BASICALLY NO SATISFYING BLACK WOMEN SINCE THEY LOVE DEMI SO MUCH. CRAZY
I would be interested to see this footage. At the moment this appears to be Ollie’s version of events. The reason I query his version, is that I would expect that having this dynamic where three women are all interested in Ollie would make great tv.
@@joandolliedoyle775 I believe it because some podcasters did say they spoke to Sharlotte at the episode 10 screening event before the reunion dropped, and she also said that she had made it far with one guy in particular, but then he ended up going for another girl in the end. Also, I remember while I was watching the show that Ollie locked it off with Cat relatively early, saying that Demi was the one for him, but somehow Freddy and Cat got engaged long before Demi and Ollie did, and I couldn’t fathom why he was taking so long with the proposal, if he only had those two women in the mix and already decided where his heart was. Now it makes sense there was a third woman that he was still actively dating aside from Cat to justify the delay.
@@Bree5three That’s interesting. I would love if they did a little bit on all the contestants in the beginning. It’s interesting to see Catherine has linked up with another contestant that we didn’t get to see in the episodes.
Demi is a sweetheart and I think she made the right choice for her but a partner who lacks confidence and needs reassurance often is draining to deal with. I think it’s less to do with her appearance (she’s a beautiful woman) but more with her lack of confidence in herself at the time. I am glad she reclaimed that and seems to be working on it!
Agreed. She requires a lot or validation but he also kind of friend-zoned her. I think they both genuinely wanted marriage but aren’t right for each other
Such a great interview. Demi is a vibe! Wishing her all the best in the future. I hope she finds all that she's looking for and a love that is kind, considerate and wholesome
Wow! This young woman is not only breath-takingly beautiful, but also bright, articulate, emotionally intelligent, and growth-based. It is wonderful to witness her confidence grow even more bold, combining with her own unique type of elegance. Impressive!! Blessings to you, Demi, and to your family, and in your journey as you proceed!
I dont think ollie is a bad guy But he was not up to the level of DEMIS FATHER !! Her relationship with her dad speaks volumes. Her dad treats her like his most precious 💞 Why would she settle for anything less than that from any man?!?! The man to truly marry demi will need to treat her as her father, plus A woman always looks for a father in a husband ❤️ And thats beautiful to see
@@securevendinguk65 wow this is such a mature and sensible response. I didn’t think of this at all. I really like Ollie a lot and I hope he does grow into a solid guy like Demi’s dad.
I genuinely believe many people think she's unattractive and they're projecting onto Ollie. Cat said that Freddie wasn't affectionate and NO ONE questioned whether he's attracted to her physically
She’s sweet, but I think she still has a lot of healing to do. She needs a lot of reassurance with friends and lovers it seems. Everyone can’t be isolating you, at some point it’s just you. She seems like things are still upsetting her. Idk, maybe it’s just me lol.
@@vineaduarawhy I feel her and Sabrina sat together as misery loves company… also kinda feel she’s trying to sell herself as a certain package too. Perhaps not, but can’t shake she’s too prepared for everything from the dress speech
@17:30 I wish Demi had come with this energy at the reunion, because she was really protective of Ollie at the reunion when she should have held him to this but chose not to. If you felt this way, why didn't you say something to him at the reunion or any other time???
I have a hot take. I think Demi herself performs better at friendship than at romance. Romance is subtle and exudes sexual confidence and its how you talk and walk and carry yourself as a woman especially in moments of self doubt or external threat and I feel like that's yhe spark she lacked. Demi is an attractive girl but because she doesn't have certainty of this, it also made Ollie doubtful of her as a romantic partner.
36:27 This!!!! This is what I wished people focused on! But they refused to do so because of their projections!!! Ollie was not husband material!!! They were cute together, but he’s not a person you marry. I just don’t know that he understands how to engage in a proper relationship. And we see a glimpse of that when we saw whatever he was doing with Sharolette. Like that’s supposed to be the real person he was attracted to, but what does he do for her? Put her in a situationship! He is not moving seriously. But no one is gonna say that Ollie isn’t attracted to Sharolette even though their relationship status is “it’s complicated!”
Completely agree. I think Ollie is still in his f boy era, hence his behaviour, lack of seriousness, the flirting, the mistreatment of Demi. I've seen his red flags from the start. It was only a matter of time when he showed his true colours. He's still a little boy.
@@laurab90. He was saying some things and I was like “oooh that’s not….” Nothing he did has ever given me the impression he is a good partner. Like Demi showed us what she brought to the relationship and how she can be a supportive partner, all Ollie has done was talk a good game. But did he actually do anything? No. And that speaks to what Demi experienced. Like I know these type of dudes, so I’m not surprised on what happened. Plus he’s not even trying to get married as well. Not really. Because trust and believe at 6 ft tall black man that likes black women, could get married real quick if he was a half way decent partner. But instead he’s literally hiding his adhd from his partners. Which I can only imagine is a nightmare to deal with when you don’t even know what is going on…. Thank god Demi has experience with it, and cuz that will drive the unsuspecting person nuts and I imagine that it still got in the way of their relationship.
@birdiewolf3497 I'm with you 100%. His behaviour and actions from what we've seen is not a reflection of a mature partner or a partner that has the capacity for a healthy relationship. I don't think he even knows how to treat a woman with an ounce of respect. I know that type very well, they talk a big game but when it comes to action, they all choke. You can't force or fix a little boy to be a man.
Demi is a sweet girl. I think she did the right thing for sure. She makes a lot of excuses for Ollie so that people don’t think she is bashing him. He was and is ill equipped and ultimately wants someone his friends will think he is punching with. Even with Sharlotte things are “complicated”.
@RC-iq2hh So is he not allowed to want an attractive woman that his friends think is also attractive? Nearly everyone would like someone who is considered to be good looking. He tried and he just didn't fancy her like that. He obviously has realised love isn't blind. That's it. He's not a bad person and he hasn't done anything to her. He clearly liked her a lot and just didn't want to hurt her feelings. Stop acting like he did something terrible to her. Hardly any of the couples worked out, it's an experiment and In their case it just didn't work out. The end. Stop trying to demonise him.
@@li5322telling someone you are in love them and calling them your future family when you clearly don’t see a future with them and don’t find them attractive is quite nasty. Honesty and integrity can get you so far. He is not a bad guy but he wasn’t honest about his feeling towards her. Not once did he mention the attraction wasn’t there. In fact he was adamant it was. Now he’s got his baddie and respectfully all the best but you can’t be fighting people in the comments for having an opinion
@lp9074 Who said he didn't feel that way initially? He couldn't see her for the most part and fell in love/like. Then when he did see her, he has to get used to her and figure out if the connection is still there. I think you're being really dramatic. He didn't do anything wrong, he did the experiment and unfortunately, the attraction just wasn't there and they parted ways. I don't really understand why you're acting like he purposely lied and led her on. I didn't get that at all. You're projecting and being dramatic.
@@li5322 at the wedding he said it’s not the end for them but it clearly was …. Not being ‘dramatic’ just calling it how I see it. You see it a different way and that’s absolutely fine. I think he was wrong in his approach and you don’t and that’s cool. I prefer people to lead with honesty and integrity when it comes to matters of the heart 😊
I didn’t look at Jasmine going hard for Demi. She was speaking truth but butting her head into other ppl business I’m surprised she didn’t get more flack
At first it didnt bother me but after a while it was obvious. Demi would be in the middle of explaining herself off of a question asked and you would just cut her off and insert the way YOU saw it. i wished she had the opportunity to finish those thoughts feelings and explanation.
Thank you so much for this interview it explained a lot. Demi wanted to feel chosen by Ollie and it seems he did not make her feel chosen all the time only at certain times. Her decision is very valid especially when choosing a life partner there shouldn’t be any doubt in your mind. I love that she is getting back to her true self and not being overcome by all of the projecting views from people. She deserves to get all the love she gives in return. The right person will make her feel chosen 24/7! I believe Ollie did love her but it was a little too late when he finally got to where she wanted him to be . Sometimes you don’t know what you got til it’s gone. I wish them both the best 🙏🏾
If Demi and Ollie met irl, he would have ghosted her after one date lol but he keeps claiming they’re friends only because she keeps forgiving everything, due to her lack of self assurance…
Love Demi but she still needs to work on herself. She goes into herself but expects everyone to know what she needs in the moment. Nicole is the opposite, shes open and articulates her feelings well and you need that for healthy connections.
Thank you for asking the important questions. Demi confirmed everything I knew to be true about how it went down. She was in it for real he wasn’t and it was obvious. Glad she’s ready to move and I hope she finds a good mature man who can give her everything she needs and deserves
He was not taking it seriously at all! Even he himself was like I was just here to play games and have a laugh. It was kinda giving Clay in the sense that he did not seem to be prepared to actually get married. He actually was recruited for another show and then they called him for LIB.
@@birdiewolf3497 Whew not Clay… lol he was dreadful imo for not giving AD the heads up OFF CAMERA. Definitely has fboy vibes. Ollie wasn’t ready for marriage either but I think he had more integrity than Clay🤦🏽♀️
He said they did speak, Demi said they had a call and a text maybe during this interview. Sounds like communication was light and not that serious. I think this is one of those he said, she said where factually they did communicate but it probably was fairly distant and not on the level of a man texting his future wife and checking in. Listen, I am not a texter or good at small talk but when i am into someone you will see me hovering at my phone reaching out cause exchanging words with them is more than casual.
When Demi said no at the alter I literally cried tears of joy, seeing a woman choose herself should be commonplace on tv. It’s obvious she has to work on her confidence, I believe it will come in due time 😊
Unpopular opinion but Demi doesn't hit me like the sweet person she is portraying. I think during the show she was so insecure and being in reality TV is not s good idea when your self esteem and self love is not the best. Her insecurities definitely make Ollie no favor not only with the other members but with the audience in general. Then she repeating over and over the same speech about how she changed and how she is Demi 2.0 is just confirming to me that she keeps in the same spot but repeating over and over to convince herself. When speaking about Ollie, sharlotte and even Jasmine to me she seems kind of bitter in s really smart and respectful way.
I totally agree. One min she is asking for these ppl to have respect her and tell her everything and the next minute she is claiming them to not be her people. She has your typical mean insecure energy.
Watch Jessie Woo’s interview with Ollie. I think Jasmine overstepped her boundaries because she was interrogating him and physically poking him. And apparently Maria and Cat questioned him that same day as well.
Those other couples were all fake in Greece! Tom and Maria didn't have genuine conversations. Steven and Sabrina switched up immediately. Freddie and Cat despised each other. This idea that those couples were the catalyst for drama is crazy. Ollie wasn't pretending like them.
I feel like things aren’t adding up. She’s not friends with Jasmine, Ollie or Sharlotte? She left the group chat? Needless to say, she doesn’t need to be friends with anyone she doesn’t want to be friends with, but it seemed like based off of what she said she told Ollie to stop checking up on her when he also didn’t need to, she stopped being friends with sharlotte because she told her about her and Ollie when she didn’t need to? She’s not friends with jasmine because jasmine is friends with Sharlotte? I watched Jasmine on this podcast and she mentioned that Demi was confiding in her in Korfu that’s why she was grilling Ollie about their relationship… a lot of things aren’t making sense on Demi’s end, she seems to the one that isn’t letting go of her situation on love is blind, in my perspective, and playing the victim. Which is disappointing because I was truly rooting for her and Ollie.
I agree with this wholeheartedly! I really liked Demi at first but with this interview it’s not making any sense on her end & there were quite a few contradictions she would say. Overall, she just seemed bitter & not that kind. I wish her the best in her healing because she seems like she needs it.
I do like Demi but I wouldn’t let my friends tell off and degrade my man like that on camera. Also, Oliie said that Demi voiced she didn’t want big PDA out of worry of her grandma and family seeing it… so I’m confused at what the truth is. Likely a mixture of the 2 with a splash of misunderstanding
I don’t think pda means kissing and cuddling. The A there is affection. I could be getting them a seat, affirming your feelings to her friends, getting her a drink, laughing and playing with her. A million things that say were together and I’m proud of you.
She was in love but he did friend zone her. And in the end, she had to choose herself. I hope Drmi sees Dr Cherie's personally type breakdown of Demi and Ollie. She hypothesizes why the chemistry might have been low between the two of them. Very insightful
I love Demi but I felt like she needed too much reassurance. They worked well together but I think she just wasn’t ready. Was truly shocked by the wedding.
@@christinarodriguesmusic She was very insecure in the pods too. Jasmine always had to reassure her even before Ollie and her met in person. You can tell she was insecure from a lot of the statements she made. He did a good job reassuring her from the moment he met her. If you watch his interview he said he constantly reassured her and obvi all of it wasn't shown.
Great interview! At first I did think Demi was being petty and bitter, but that is just her navigating her reality. She was in a relationship with someone who was not genuine with her and even though she said no at the alter, not getting any sort of honesty from Ollie about what he truly felt for her can make closure difficult and keep those insecurities/intrusive thoughts bubbling. I can understand Demi wanting to disassociate with the LIB world/cast because those who are happily in relationships (like Jasmine, Ollie/Sharlotte) cannot relate to Demi in this moment and vice-versa Demi is not in this state of love/positivity because she is still trying to find love and healing, not to mention its awkward enough being around an ex, but then his new gf too. Plus being around the cast seems like being in high school again, and those who are in relationships or similar situations find it easier to form a clique and mingle together because they can relate, so I can imagine them isolating Demi as well. Best wishes for Demi in her healing, growth, and hope she finds a man that deserves her and treats her with honesty and respect!
Absolutely love Demi and I’m rooting for her, it’s so refreshing to hear and see honest people, Cudos to you girl your King is out there waiting for you ❤
@@Joy21xxlove then she shouldn’t have said she was a shell of herself and authentic at the same time. She even said she was changing with the environment. That doesn’t mean ppl were asking her to change, that was a personal choice.
Didn't she say she was a shell of herself in Greece?? I think she specifically mentioned that being where she changed, hence everyone was also concerned about why she was no longer bubbly (in Greece) and was different than the girl they met in the pods..
@@mpho242 she mentioned that it was while she was with Ollie and not just Greece. She even says later that she wishes she would have e stuck up for herself hence a shell, not her authentic self.
He clearly didn’t fancy her and she came across as mad insecure. Ollie isn’t all that. I hope she finds someone who makes her happy and appreciates her.
What were the red flags? This is a genuine question, just in case this comes across snarky via text. I’m just curious about what I may have missed since I didn’t see much right or wrong with Ollie. Edit: I also haven’t watched the interview yet so I’m missing anything Demi said here.
@@thetyrells6537and that is a red flag how? Hopefully you date people you actually want to fuck. LIB can keep bullying us but physical attraction is 50% of a relationship 😊
He didn't gaslight her, that's why Demi also can't /hasn't spoken ill of him.I think there were factors on both ends that just didn't make them right for each other. Ollie has an insightful interview with Jessie Woo as well
I always root for love and this makes me sad. Maybe if I had seen Ollie and Sharlotte’s connection in the pods I would feel differently about Demi and Ollie not working out.
They were cute, but I thought Ollie was looking real lazy. I saw she was doing a lot for him and he wasn’t doing much for her. And I think a one point he even said he’s not into doing all that.
I’m not sure how ppl defending jasmine in the rooftop. She was totally justified starting the convo on behalf of her girl Demi. But Ollie answered her several times with positive answers but she kept going and going. It seemed like she cared more about jasmine showing she’s a ride or die so there was nothing Ollie could have said to satisfy her.
No actually my friend this to a guy who was acting like he was interested in me in a real way talking Marriage and kids so soon and she literally asked him so when are u gettin engaged. I was embarrassed and blamed her fir ruining our romance guess what. Its been 11 years Im happily married and that guy has got two women pregnant and ran. Still not committed. So these things are a blessing in disguise.
I think jasmine means well did that for demi, demi just didn't see it yet. She will learn. Jasmine intuitions abt Sam was right, maybe this one too. She told nicole right away abt Sam, but nicole didn't listen to her so yeah. Maybe it takes time. Like your case
So Bobby wasn’t his boy, but when Jasmine was jumping down his throat & he said you didn’t know her, you were quick to correct him about that? So which one is it?
I was about to comment the same thing. She can have friends in the pods during that time but she made a snarky comment about him wanting to speak to Bobby at the mixer..how can he possibly be his boy because he didn’t know him that long 🤔
@@Lamya0910 Oh I agree it wasn't necessary or appropriate but I can kind of see how Demi would think it's dumb that Bobby is Ollie's confidant over her when he hasn't known him that long?
But Bobby wasnt his boy really, Aaron and Sam seem to be. If you watch, that is who he is consistently with in the living spaces. I think he did speak to Bobby in Greece as a fellow married brother whose girl was friends with his girl. It didn't seem too deep to me 🤷🏾♀️
Why do I feel sad after this interview; I feel confused. Was Ollie all in or not, he was willing to get married it seems?? How is Jasmine now close to Charlotte, that must be awkward. I dunno if the whole thing was a self fulfilling prophecy by Demi or not. She was visibly insecure and unfortunately that kills chemistry. Ollie seems to have a lot more chemistry with Charlotte seeing pics of them.
My husband didn't like Demi and Ollie, but he LOVED Demi. Watched the whole thing just for her 😂 I'm just sayin'... Obviously Ollie didn't appreciate her enough.
@@pearlosibuchill out you’re everywhere justifying shitty behaviour. Why lead her on? He wasn’t attracted? Bounce? What’s with shitty men using beautiful complete women as testing grounds
@asram443 You're everywhere, moaning about Ollie not finding Demi attractive. It didn't work, they have both moved on. It's called love is blind, he didn't see her and he didn't know whether he would find her attractive or not. Stop insinuating he's this horrible guy who led on this poor little woman out of spite. He liked her, he tried and ultimately it just didn't work out. It's not just about looks It's everything. They were not a match and everyone has moved on. Stop trying make him out to be something he isn't. Even if he met her and didn't find her attractive, it doesn't mean he's a bad person. He tried to get to know her and trust the process, why has it got to be him leading her on. You sound very bitter and immature. Grow up
@@li5322 has he picked you yet? He would’ve told her or ghosted her(seeing the type of person he is) day 1 in real life. He stuck around for clout and that’s shitty and should be called out. Maybe it’s stuff you’ve seen and internalised but to put it plainly It’s not how decent people act.
@asram443 Or he really liked her and wanted to give her a fair chance and go through with the process. Her personality and how they interact over time are also important. Who said he immediately didn't fancy her ? Now you're telling everyone he immediately didn't fancy her and should have told her the moment he met her because, according to you straight away he didn't fancy her and he should of told her at the initial meeting "Hi Demi, I don't find you attractive, so I'm not going to give it a go and try and get to know you because I'm so not attracted to you, I'm not even going to give you the time of day" ??? That's literally what you're suggesting he should have done. So everyone who didn't get married should have immediately told the other person that they don't fancy/like them on the spot. Otherwise, they stayed for clout? Freddie, Tom,Ollie, and Stephen ? Or is it only Ollie that had to do that ? He said out of his own mouth she's his type and he fancied her when he met her. However, over time, he realised she wasn't the person he wanted to spend the rest of his life with. You're being ridiculously negative and holding him to a ridiculous standard. Do you not think personality matters or finding out, how you vibe in person with the person you're supposed to marry counts ? Well it does and they both went through with the process and ultimately they decided they weren't right for each other. Get over yourself and stop projecting your hatred for men onto Ollie. If he stayed for clout, then so did she. She's the one who said no In the end.
I love Demi! I also love Ollie! The experiment did not end with marriage, and that’s okay. That being said, I appreciate the support and respect that Demi and Ollie have for each other as humans. Love Is Blind UK was excellent to watch!
She was insecure, and that's not his fault. She should take ownership of her own behaviour. She was withdrawn, and it felt like pulling teeth watching her with ollie. Nothing he did was good enough, jeez!
On the reunion “I always date women that look like Demi” pans over to Charlotte… Ollie just admit you cannot handle a curvy black woman and let it be. He’s so shady but wants to save face so much. Demi, you’re stunning and kind hearted. You’re so much better than Ollie and YOUR person will be much better than Ollie!
to be fair in his interview, he said he typically dates women that look like Demi, Sharlette and the other black woman on the cast. Basically various shades, thick and slim. But not YT women. Most people don't have just ONE exclusive type. It is VERY possible to be attracted to someone that looks like Demi AND Sharlette. They're both pretty, one is just more slim. Not sure why this is hard to understand. Also, someone can be PHYSICALLY attracted to you, and care for you but for various reasons not have much chemistry overall. Like if you're closed off or come off like a homie, which I think Demi may have at times They both seem like decent people but NEITHER or them seemed ready for marriage on the show. Whether to each other or someone else
@31:45 On Jessie Woo's YT channel, Ollie said that he didn't ghost Demi after the honeymoon. So, I wish this would get sorted out. He said he communicated with her all the time, and that he felt like she lied on him about that.
Jessie woo’s video today reinforced the not communicating thing so I’m confused. She was saying how can he expect the spark to be kept alive if they don’t communicate.
Think it comes down to expectations. Did he match her expectations of what was classified as communication. She said a text and one call if I heard right. He didn’t meet her expectations of meeting her love language. He was low energy for her possibly and reading it as he is not into me as much as I am into him. That is how she felt. They made the right call not to marry with these concerns. They were not each others person and I don’t think Ollie is evil or bad.
Demi and Ollie stopped following each other. Something too bad happened behind the scenes for one to no longer care about the other. How sad! Not even friendship left.
Bobby can't be Ollie's "boy" because they didn't know each other too long, but it's ok for Jasmine, who knew you for the same amount of time, to be "your girl" and go grilling your fiance? Ollie should have come talk to you about it instead of anyone else, but it's ok that you were sulking to the girls and they felt they had to speak to him for you instead of you talking to him directly? The double standards here, though... 😂
I felt that the way Ollie handled the situation after she left him at the alter was a sign of how cool and collected and mature he could be and maybe this was partly due to her rubbing off on him. At that moment I loved him more than the entire season. Both cool people… wish them both the best individually
This is a good interview and I understand her very well. I am like that too, if I feel like I am too much for one person and you exclude me, then I protect myself and leave the group. It is not always necessary, sometimes it is not our fault, but the other person that treats us in a certain way. I thought it was nice of Charlotte that she told Demi nicely and maybe Demi withdrew because her love for Ollie was too much and she did not want to be confronted with Him and Charlotte. But Demi is an overthinker. I think that some things are not even as she thinks and sees. I do not think she is right that she withdrew from the group by saying. her real friends are at home. she has built a bond with these people and she could just keep that bond nicely and calmly. She keeps saying. her real life, but at the time that she was going to do the reality show, that was her real life. because if she had married Ollie, that would have been her real life. She has unfollowed almost half of the people on IG. Always maintain relationships well in life, how you deal with them is the other question. Somewhere you would think that she acts like this because she still has feelings, because a person who has no feelings anymore and doesn't care, doesn't say much, but shows it. you shouldn't do things like that. Who cares if I follow someone on social media. I really don't have to unfollow you. She even follows people she hasn't even had conversations with in life. I wish her the best in life, but somewhere I think she is sabotaging her own life somewhere too.
my opinion: Demi was the problem as well. She's the girl who give her all to someone until she has nothing left. Then expect others to show up the same exact way. Which is very unhealthy. She was walking around with a stank face but expect someone to read her mind when they only personally been around her for less than 24 hours. Jasmine was out of line. I can't believe that was ok. But him talking to Bobby wasn't. Girl come on. I have to say she put alot of expectations on someone when she barely had any confidence in herself. She treated this as her healing retreat and not a marriage. Yes Ollie wasn’t the one but she also fell short even_though she believe she gave it her all. She wasn’t ready for marriage either.
I agree, she was very closed off. She even admitted this. It’s hard to truly get to know someone when they are like this. Men with avoidant personalities will give you your space if you seem to be annoyed or uncomfortable. Idk Ollie but it seems from what I’ve seen and heard, he has an avoidant personality and doesn’t do well under pressure. Demi was wanting this reassurance from him but also being cold and distant because she was feeling insecure. Like you said, was he supposed to read her mind? I also know in an interview Jessie Woo did with Ollie, he said she had asked that they don’t do a lot of PDA on camera because her dad will be watching, and yet she’s on here saying she wanted more PDA 🤔 I just feel like Demi got the better edit than him.. but I agree both parties are responsible. They just weren’t meant for each other, so the outcome made sense.
She was never secure unfortunately, in and outside the pods . In the pods it was always will he like me , after the pods she was convinced he didn’t like her and hence insecure still . I hope she truly is doing better ❤
@@CarlyHarveyMusic I hear what you're saying, but I didn't get this feeling with Jasmine and she clearly sets boundaries. I'm just not believing that Demi is all nice and sweet.
This was a great interview. It does feel like people in general are unnecessarily harsh on Ollie and it feels like it is very linked to him being a black man.
Demi is just adorable and her parents are the sweetest. I think Ollie was sincere but genuinely they weren't the right match. Wish them both all the best ❤
@7:25 Even though Cat's comments came from a ill-intentioned place, it ended up being that she was right. Also, on Jessie Woo's YT channel, Ollie said that someone else told him that he was too attractive for Demi. Woo suggested it was Jasmine...then Ollie smiled and said he wouldn't say. Frankly, this comment on Woo's show made Ollie look worse in my opinion because it reminded me of Sam claiming Nicole was trying to sleep with him, because both of these moves were about these two men protecting their ego and not the woman.
I absolutely LOVED that Wil called Demi out for letting what she watched, and what other people have said, bend what she actually experienced. There is still a lot of doubt there, but we're all works in progress. I also appreciate her owning her part in things. Yes, everything can be Ollie's fault, but that wasn't reality. Too often, people want to put everything wrong off on their partner to not accept they play the main role in their own lives. The biggest red flag is no self-awareness. She's awesome, and I wish her and Ollie the best.
He doesn't know the reality of what she lived and us either. She didn't put all the blame on him, but it seems clear to me that things happened off camera that we didn't see.
The second he saw her he knew she was not his type. He should’ve been a big man and said sorry not for me and let her go and find her true match instead he played her till the altar, but I’m so glad that she checked his game and said no.
It's also really sad that, other than growing as a person, Demi formed no connections - even friendships- when she is such a good person. That means people truly ain't shiet!
She seems to be saying the only friend connection she got from the experience is Nicole. Kinda sad that Jasmin & even Maria who I understand all battled Ollie on show as they felt he was not doing enough for her, did not stand the test of time. Hope she finds her man &her own people, which from the interview she has all continue to be there for her.
She has strong insecurities that damages her relationships. The more she works on that, the easier relationships will be for her. She needs to stop shutting down and work through her rejection sensitivities.
Good interview! Host did well, sounded like friends catching up.
I agree and I love this girl she girls real genuine sister girl vibes ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥🎉 I support you in your choice 🙏🏽the right one will find you .
I believe he was, Ollie let to many people get in her head... He really liked Ollie.
Demi's Dad was the most beautiful representation of a Black Dad I've seen. Her parents' marraige was beautiful to see as well. And of course I love Demi.
great rep of a black dad that married a white woman? speak for yourself
There's plenty of black dads like that and 99% of them have mixed race children and a white wife that they adore and treat like a queen.
Her dad was adorable and you could tell that Ollie wasn't living up to the standard set by her dad.
@@li5322absolutely. It’s very easy when that’s the composition. No shade.
@@chonklife1809but we’ll never get specifics why
I agree with every couple who said “I do” and every couple who said “I don’t”. IMO this was the most perfect Love is Blind of all because everything began and ended as it should’ve.
I agree
However Sabrina and Steven broke up
Did u watch the reunion?
Except for Sabrina and Steven’s ending 😢
@@user-fr5qt5rr4r yes and I said in my head while watching the show if any of the married couples don’t make it, it will be them. So I stand on what I said
She's such a class act. No shade to Ollie but I don't believe he was ever emotionally mature enough for her.
That’s why he is in a situationship now lol
Bingo, she needs a man to build with, not a man child to raise
How is he after looks. The man was incredibly graceful...not a perfect person but graceful towards Demi nonetheless.
What about her though....
@@anastassiyali140that's what he wants though lol the benefits of dating sharlotte without committing
I wish you had let her talk more freely and let her think about what she wanted to say. I feel like you sometimes told her how you thought she was feeling rather than waiting for her to articulate it herself. Sometimes you need processing time to express your emotions correctly; especially when she was having to look back in hindsight to a year ago
I just said the same thing to a friend who hasn't seen this pod.
If Demi is so self aware and knows herself as much as she claims she does then no one can effectively tell her how she feels nor does she need any exorbitant amount of time to process how she feels.
@futuremrsleeminho1922 that's a fair call but it doesn't take away from how this conversation or interview went imho.
Agreed.
OMG i made a similar comment. Your'e 100% correct
The thing is Ollie was not into Demi from the get go. Why did he say he wanted to go home right after seeing Catherine? After seeing sharlotte again, he was ghosting Demi DAYS before the wedding. He was keeping on an act because he was on TV. But he was not into Demi. Why can’t people see that
I agree 💯. It eas so obvious from what we were shown and Demi felt it also. Her facials while he was speaking at the alter said it all. She knew
Truth
What happens if people agree with you ?
@frayola420 He never once drooled over Catherine at all. I don't know why you people just make shit up. He was literally drooling over Sharlotte, but never Catherine, don't make shit up.
@@frayola420 Ollie was giving player vibes
Demi is so dope. Very unique, very friendly.
Very Demi, Very Demure
Ollie was never into Demi! It was friend zone from the reveal. As a man, I called it straight away! Ollie was not being real with Demi after the reveal.
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Finally! 🎉the damn truth
@@shimmatv5351 he was being ‘nice’ and civil with Demi from the time he saw her onward and it was so obvious. No one’s saying Demi’s not attractive (everyone seems to think that’s what ppl who see through Ollie are saying) but HE was never attracted to her. He has a type. She isn’t it.
LMAOO I love her so much, she so real when she said she exited all the groups cuz she came for a man she didn't find him sooo bye 🤣🤣🤣
😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂
Maybe speaking to them reminds Demi of a painful/disappointing part of life.
Well to be fair Ollie went deep in the pods with Sharlotte it was between her & Demi, NOT Cat. Production just chose to exclude that entire part 😢 He came to the reunion with Sharlotte and those podcasters who attended said chemistry was obvious. Love Demi but shes right she really needed to SPEAK UP more, he was not her person period!
Wait really wow I wish they’d shown that
And that is FAIR. The fandom for Demi is so over the top. Ollie likes a girlie girl. How many times is Demi going to emphasize that day by day she's normally wearing sweats!?! You can say that's so down to earth and that's so real but I don't know one guy who wants a girl who is wearing sweats everyday. He does say he is attracted to melanin girls but then BW REFUSE to believe THAT AS WELL! THERE'S BASICALLY NO SATISFYING BLACK WOMEN SINCE THEY LOVE DEMI SO MUCH. CRAZY
I would be interested to see this footage. At the moment this appears to be Ollie’s version of events. The reason I query his version, is that I would expect that having this dynamic where three women are all interested in Ollie would make great tv.
@@joandolliedoyle775 I believe it because some podcasters did say they spoke to Sharlotte at the episode 10 screening event before the reunion dropped, and she also said that she had made it far with one guy in particular, but then he ended up going for another girl in the end. Also, I remember while I was watching the show that Ollie locked it off with Cat relatively early, saying that Demi was the one for him, but somehow Freddy and Cat got engaged long before Demi and Ollie did, and I couldn’t fathom why he was taking so long with the proposal, if he only had those two women in the mix and already decided where his heart was. Now it makes sense there was a third woman that he was still actively dating aside from Cat to justify the delay.
@@Bree5three That’s interesting. I would love if they did a little bit on all the contestants in the beginning. It’s interesting to see Catherine has linked up with another contestant that we didn’t get to see in the episodes.
Demi is a sweetheart and I think she made the right choice for her but a partner who lacks confidence and needs reassurance often is draining to deal with. I think it’s less to do with her appearance (she’s a beautiful woman) but more with her lack of confidence in herself at the time. I am glad she reclaimed that and seems to be working on it!
Agreed. She requires a lot or validation but he also kind of friend-zoned her. I think they both genuinely wanted marriage but aren’t right for each other
Omg Demi is actually so funny. Really sad that it wasnt shown as much on LIB
Hope many more people will see this podcast
Where did you see this "funny" side ?
Such a great interview. Demi is a vibe! Wishing her all the best in the future. I hope she finds all that she's looking for and a love that is kind, considerate and wholesome
Wow! This young woman is not only breath-takingly beautiful, but also bright, articulate, emotionally intelligent, and growth-based. It is wonderful to witness her confidence grow even more bold, combining with her own unique type of elegance. Impressive!! Blessings to you, Demi, and to your family, and in your journey as you proceed!
I dont think ollie is a bad guy
But he was not up to the level of DEMIS FATHER !!
Her relationship with her dad speaks volumes.
Her dad treats her like his most precious 💞
Why would she settle for anything less than that from any man?!?!
The man to truly marry demi will need to treat her as her father, plus
A woman always looks for a father in a husband ❤️
And thats beautiful to see
It's a hard one to judge because how did her dad act when he was Ollie's age. It takes time and aging to mature into the kind of person her father is.
I looked for a partner not a father.
@@securevendinguk65 wow this is such a mature and sensible response. I didn’t think of this at all. I really like Ollie a lot and I hope he does grow into a solid guy like Demi’s dad.
Up to the level? Lmao y'all are bugging.
That's the wrong approach to take
Like Jessie Woo says we ride for Demi at dawn!! Love her❤
I genuinely believe many people think she's unattractive and they're projecting onto Ollie. Cat said that Freddie wasn't affectionate and NO ONE questioned whether he's attracted to her physically
@@ahmorgan But we know Freddie and her had sex whereas Demi and Ollie seemed more friendly.
@ahmorgan ...This Latina thinks she's GORGEOUS 😍...
@@ahmorgan...You must be White😂
@@joanna0988 Demi and Ollie did too, right? I believe he was attracted to her. That doesn't always mean the vibe is right.
She’s sweet, but I think she still has a lot of healing to do. She needs a lot of reassurance with friends and lovers it seems. Everyone can’t be isolating you, at some point it’s just you. She seems like things are still upsetting her. Idk, maybe it’s just me lol.
I totally agree
It’s not just you.. it felt like she was still bitter
@@vineaduarawhy I feel her and Sabrina sat together as misery loves company… also kinda feel she’s trying to sell herself as a certain package too. Perhaps not, but can’t shake she’s too prepared for everything from the dress speech
Same! Like reach out too.
I think she likely self isolated subconsciously because she felt insecure. I can 100% imagine that happening.
I don’t think Demi believed she was ready to be loved or she didn’t believe that someone like Ollie would actually love her fully.
When you say 'someone like Ollie' , what do you mean?
Someone like Ollie? Lmao Mr. Pink Lips? pleeeease
Same cus she’s so beautiful but she had low self esteem. She said stuff like he prb wouldn’t look her way but she would on the street.
Yeah, I think she needs to build up her confidence before she can have a thriving relationship. She gave high insecure vibes during the show
Not mr.pink lips 😭😭😭🤣
How could anyone friend zone Demi? she’s literally the full package. Stunning , centred and kind
She’s all of that. And yet i can see it.
@17:30 I wish Demi had come with this energy at the reunion, because she was really protective of Ollie at the reunion when she should have held him to this but chose not to. If you felt this way, why didn't you say something to him at the reunion or any other time???
I truly don't think they were allowing that during this reunion
The host should’ve just interviewed himself atp
I have a hot take. I think Demi herself performs better at friendship than at romance. Romance is subtle and exudes sexual confidence and its how you talk and walk and carry yourself as a woman especially in moments of self doubt or external threat and I feel like that's yhe spark she lacked. Demi is an attractive girl but because she doesn't have certainty of this, it also made Ollie doubtful of her as a romantic partner.
I get gay or bi vibes from her actually. Kind of like Alexis from married at first sight USA. She is now with a woman.
@@nattyangel-zs1irhow does being a tomboy give one gay vibes?
Everyone is different, if Ollie was for her, he would have seen it. By going for sharlotte he is more into obvious sexiness.
36:27 This!!!! This is what I wished people focused on! But they refused to do so because of their projections!!! Ollie was not husband material!!! They were cute together, but he’s not a person you marry. I just don’t know that he understands how to engage in a proper relationship. And we see a glimpse of that when we saw whatever he was doing with Sharolette. Like that’s supposed to be the real person he was attracted to, but what does he do for her? Put her in a situationship! He is not moving seriously. But no one is gonna say that Ollie isn’t attracted to Sharolette even though their relationship status is “it’s complicated!”
Completely agree. I think Ollie is still in his f boy era, hence his behaviour, lack of seriousness, the flirting, the mistreatment of Demi. I've seen his red flags from the start. It was only a matter of time when he showed his true colours. He's still a little boy.
@@laurab90. He was saying some things and I was like “oooh that’s not….” Nothing he did has ever given me the impression he is a good partner. Like Demi showed us what she brought to the relationship and how she can be a supportive partner, all Ollie has done was talk a good game. But did he actually do anything? No. And that speaks to what Demi experienced. Like I know these type of dudes, so I’m not surprised on what happened. Plus he’s not even trying to get married as well. Not really. Because trust and believe at 6 ft tall black man that likes black women, could get married real quick if he was a half way decent partner. But instead he’s literally hiding his adhd from his partners. Which I can only imagine is a nightmare to deal with when you don’t even know what is going on…. Thank god Demi has experience with it, and cuz that will drive the unsuspecting person nuts and I imagine that it still got in the way of their relationship.
@birdiewolf3497 I'm with you 100%. His behaviour and actions from what we've seen is not a reflection of a mature partner or a partner that has the capacity for a healthy relationship. I don't think he even knows how to treat a woman with an ounce of respect. I know that type very well, they talk a big game but when it comes to action, they all choke. You can't force or fix a little boy to be a man.
Demi is a sweet girl. I think she did the right thing for sure. She makes a lot of excuses for Ollie so that people don’t think she is bashing him. He was and is ill equipped and ultimately wants someone his friends will think he is punching with. Even with Sharlotte things are “complicated”.
I agree and Demi also knows her responsible in creating the life she wants for herself. I guess it’s a balancing act
@RC-iq2hh So is he not allowed to want an attractive woman that his friends think is also attractive? Nearly everyone would like someone who is considered to be good looking. He tried and he just didn't fancy her like that. He obviously has realised love isn't blind. That's it. He's not a bad person and he hasn't done anything to her. He clearly liked her a lot and just didn't want to hurt her feelings. Stop acting like he did something terrible to her. Hardly any of the couples worked out, it's an experiment and In their case it just didn't work out. The end. Stop trying to demonise him.
@@li5322telling someone you are in love them and calling them your future family when you clearly don’t see a future with them and don’t find them attractive is quite nasty. Honesty and integrity can get you so far. He is not a bad guy but he wasn’t honest about his feeling towards her. Not once did he mention the attraction wasn’t there. In fact he was adamant it was. Now he’s got his baddie and respectfully all the best but you can’t be fighting people in the comments for having an opinion
@lp9074 Who said he didn't feel that way initially? He couldn't see her for the most part and fell in love/like. Then when he did see her, he has to get used to her and figure out if the connection is still there. I think you're being really dramatic. He didn't do anything wrong, he did the experiment and unfortunately, the attraction just wasn't there and they parted ways. I don't really understand why you're acting like he purposely lied and led her on. I didn't get that at all. You're projecting and being dramatic.
@@li5322 at the wedding he said it’s not the end for them but it clearly was …. Not being ‘dramatic’ just calling it how I see it. You see it a different way and that’s absolutely fine. I think he was wrong in his approach and you don’t and that’s cool. I prefer people to lead with honesty and integrity when it comes to matters of the heart 😊
Thats a shame Demi and jasmine arent really friends, hope they can be soon, Jasmine really rode hard for Demi.
She was patronising and domineering tbh
“Demi is an insecure girl” NO!!
I didn’t look at Jasmine going hard for Demi. She was speaking truth but butting her head into other ppl business I’m surprised she didn’t get more flack
DEMI DISCARDED JAS
At first it didnt bother me but after a while it was obvious. Demi would be in the middle of explaining herself off of a question asked and you would just cut her off and insert the way YOU saw it. i wished she had the opportunity to finish those thoughts feelings and explanation.
Thank you so much for this interview it explained a lot. Demi wanted to feel chosen by Ollie and it seems he did not make her feel chosen all the time only at certain times. Her decision is very valid especially when choosing a life partner there shouldn’t be any doubt in your mind. I love that she is getting back to her true self and not being overcome by all of the projecting views from people. She deserves to get all the love she gives in return. The right person will make her feel chosen 24/7! I believe Ollie did love her but it was a little too late when he finally got to where she wanted him to be . Sometimes you don’t know what you got til it’s gone. I wish them both the best 🙏🏾
Ollie's wishy-washiness fed into her insecurities imo.
She’s such a crowd favorite. Keep your head high af beautiful!
Ollie act for the camera , he was not into her look. You can tell he was making excuses from left to right
If Demi and Ollie met irl, he would have ghosted her after one date lol but he keeps claiming they’re friends only because she keeps forgiving everything, due to her lack of self assurance…
she is so genuine and real and i LOVE the honesty and lack of forcing friendships.
Love Demi but she still needs to work on herself. She goes into herself but expects everyone to know what she needs in the moment. Nicole is the opposite, shes open and articulates her feelings well and you need that for healthy connections.
Strong point
Thank you for asking the important questions. Demi confirmed everything I knew to be true about how it went down. She was in it for real he wasn’t and it was obvious. Glad she’s ready to move and I hope she finds a good mature man who can give her everything she needs and deserves
He was not taking it seriously at all! Even he himself was like I was just here to play games and have a laugh. It was kinda giving Clay in the sense that he did not seem to be prepared to actually get married. He actually was recruited for another show and then they called him for LIB.
@@birdiewolf3497 Whew not Clay… lol he was dreadful imo for not giving AD the heads up OFF CAMERA. Definitely has fboy vibes. Ollie wasn’t ready for marriage either but I think he had more integrity than Clay🤦🏽♀️
@@ActuallyAuberyPODCAST Way more integrity thankfully!
Loooooooved everything about this interview. The authenticity, the transitions to each question, everything
Love Demi!! I’d love to know her reaction to the Jessie woo interview with Ollie. He said he talked to her often.
Omg same 👀👀
He said they did speak, Demi said they had a call and a text maybe during this interview. Sounds like communication was light and not that serious. I think this is one of those he said, she said where factually they did communicate but it probably was fairly distant and not on the level of a man texting his future wife and checking in.
Listen, I am not a texter or good at small talk but when i am into someone you will see me hovering at my phone reaching out cause exchanging words with them is more than casual.
I loved the interview! Straight to the point and clear. All the best for your future Demi. It’s giving ⭐️
When Demi said no at the alter I literally cried tears of joy, seeing a woman choose herself should be commonplace on tv. It’s obvious she has to work on her confidence, I believe it will come in due time 😊
Unpopular opinion but Demi doesn't hit me like the sweet person she is portraying. I think during the show she was so insecure and being in reality TV is not s good idea when your self esteem and self love is not the best. Her insecurities definitely make Ollie no favor not only with the other members but with the audience in general. Then she repeating over and over the same speech about how she changed and how she is Demi 2.0 is just confirming to me that she keeps in the same spot but repeating over and over to convince herself. When speaking about Ollie, sharlotte and even Jasmine to me she seems kind of bitter in s really smart and respectful way.
I totally agree. One min she is asking for these ppl to have respect her and tell her everything and the next minute she is claiming them to not be her people. She has your typical mean insecure energy.
She is bitter because she allowed her insecurities to push Ollie away, and now watching the show back, she can see the truth..
YOU sound bitter and nasty by implying that she's not actually a sweet person because she has insecurities (which everyone has)
I dont think insecurity means that someone is automatically bad or bitter
@@onyx081that’s not why.
That was powerful we not here to fix anyone… I wish Demi so much joy and happiness and hope she finds true love she really deserves it 😊😊
Watch Jessie Woo’s interview with Ollie. I think Jasmine overstepped her boundaries because she was interrogating him and physically poking him. And apparently Maria and Cat questioned him that same day as well.
Those other couples were all fake in Greece! Tom and Maria didn't have genuine conversations. Steven and Sabrina switched up immediately. Freddie and Cat despised each other. This idea that those couples were the catalyst for drama is crazy. Ollie wasn't pretending like them.
THIS!
Beeeeen waiting for this ! 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 love me some Demi, also loved how she came through at the reunion. Sis was standing on business ❤️
This is a good interview! She gave context that helped understand the dynamics more and you did a great job asking the questions and flowing 👏🏾
If only you did the reunion ❤️this was more insightful.
I feel like things aren’t adding up. She’s not friends with Jasmine, Ollie or Sharlotte? She left the group chat?
Needless to say, she doesn’t need to be friends with anyone she doesn’t want to be friends with, but it seemed like based off of what she said she told Ollie to stop checking up on her when he also didn’t need to, she stopped being friends with sharlotte because she told her about her and Ollie when she didn’t need to? She’s not friends with jasmine because jasmine is friends with Sharlotte? I watched Jasmine on this podcast and she mentioned that Demi was confiding in her in Korfu that’s why she was grilling Ollie about their relationship… a lot of things aren’t making sense on Demi’s end, she seems to the one that isn’t letting go of her situation on love is blind, in my perspective, and playing the victim. Which is disappointing because I was truly rooting for her and Ollie.
I agree with this wholeheartedly! I really liked Demi at first but with this interview it’s not making any sense on her end & there were quite a few contradictions she would say. Overall, she just seemed bitter & not that kind. I wish her the best in her healing because she seems like she needs it.
I do like Demi but I wouldn’t let my friends tell off and degrade my man like that on camera. Also, Oliie said that Demi voiced she didn’t want big PDA out of worry of her grandma and family seeing it… so I’m confused at what the truth is. Likely a mixture of the 2 with a splash of misunderstanding
I don’t think pda means kissing and cuddling. The A there is affection. I could be getting them a seat, affirming your feelings to her friends, getting her a drink, laughing and playing with her. A million things that say were together and I’m proud of you.
She was in love but he did friend zone her. And in the end, she had to choose herself. I hope Drmi sees Dr Cherie's personally type breakdown of Demi and Ollie. She hypothesizes why the chemistry might have been low between the two of them. Very insightful
Dr. Cherie? That sounds interesting. Does she do a bunch of those personality breakdowns for multiple seasons?
@@ahmorganyes!!
@@theshellykumar I'm going to check her out!! Thanks
@@ahmorgan her insights are wonderful. I decided to do that same personality test and it’s helped me understand myself better.
The man was ready to marry her she left him
I love Demi but I felt like she needed too much reassurance. They worked well together but I think she just wasn’t ready. Was truly shocked by the wedding.
That’s way to see it. I think Ollie brings out that side of her because he wasn’t 💯 into her and gaslighted her just for the camera.
@@christinarodriguesmusic She was very insecure in the pods too. Jasmine always had to reassure her even before Ollie and her met in person. You can tell she was insecure from a lot of the statements she made. He did a good job reassuring her from the moment he met her. If you watch his interview he said he constantly reassured her and obvi all of it wasn't shown.
We only saw snippets of what she experienced. The girl is literally telling us she never felt the love
Great interview! At first I did think Demi was being petty and bitter, but that is just her navigating her reality. She was in a relationship with someone who was not genuine with her and even though she said no at the alter, not getting any sort of honesty from Ollie about what he truly felt for her can make closure difficult and keep those insecurities/intrusive thoughts bubbling. I can understand Demi wanting to disassociate with the LIB world/cast because those who are happily in relationships (like Jasmine, Ollie/Sharlotte) cannot relate to Demi in this moment and vice-versa Demi is not in this state of love/positivity because she is still trying to find love and healing, not to mention its awkward enough being around an ex, but then his new gf too. Plus being around the cast seems like being in high school again, and those who are in relationships or similar situations find it easier to form a clique and mingle together because they can relate, so I can imagine them isolating Demi as well. Best wishes for Demi in her healing, growth, and hope she finds a man that deserves her and treats her with honesty and respect!
Absolutely love Demi and I’m rooting for her, it’s so refreshing to hear and see honest people, Cudos to you girl your King is out there waiting for you ❤
0:56 after watching the reunion, this doesn’t make sense. She said she was a shell of herself on the show, how is she being authentic then?
Exactly lol she contradicts herself and doesn't see how she went wrong
Her vulnerability was accepted. She was genuine, didn’t not “put on” for the cameras. She’s grown through the experience.
@@Joy21xxlove then she shouldn’t have said she was a shell of herself and authentic at the same time. She even said she was changing with the environment. That doesn’t mean ppl were asking her to change, that was a personal choice.
Didn't she say she was a shell of herself in Greece?? I think she specifically mentioned that being where she changed, hence everyone was also concerned about why she was no longer bubbly (in Greece) and was different than the girl they met in the pods..
@@mpho242 she mentioned that it was while she was with Ollie and not just Greece. She even says later that she wishes she would have e stuck up for herself hence a shell, not her authentic self.
He clearly didn’t fancy her and she came across as mad insecure. Ollie isn’t all that. I hope she finds someone who makes her happy and appreciates her.
So is Demi saying the only person she is still friends with is Nicole? Did I get that right?
Says a lot about her tbh
Glad she said no to Ollie. He showed so many red flags. I hope she finds the man of her dreams 😊
What were the red flags? This is a genuine question, just in case this comes across snarky via text. I’m just curious about what I may have missed since I didn’t see much right or wrong with Ollie. Edit: I also haven’t watched the interview yet so I’m missing anything Demi said here.
@Wwumzymumzy I could see a mile off he wasn't 💯 into Demi. He's with his type now. The type that never worked b4 😅 good luck to him.
@@thetyrells6537and that is a red flag how? Hopefully you date people you actually want to fuck. LIB can keep bullying us but physical attraction is 50% of a relationship 😊
Ollie did her bad. Imagine gaslighting her. Demi is a 👑
He didn't gaslight her, that's why Demi also can't /hasn't spoken ill of him.I think there were factors on both ends that just didn't make them right for each other. Ollie has an insightful interview with Jessie Woo as well
I don't think you understand what gaslighting is. Not based on what you're saying here
Demi's parents are seriously couple icon...that love is what we need in teh world today..love regardless of race abd religion
I always root for love and this makes me sad. Maybe if I had seen Ollie and Sharlotte’s connection in the pods I would feel differently about Demi and Ollie not working out.
They were cute, but I thought Ollie was looking real lazy. I saw she was doing a lot for him and he wasn’t doing much for her. And I think a one point he even said he’s not into doing all that.
@@birdiewolf3497definitely unequal give and take.
@@birdiewolf3497when he said that nonsense about gifts in the pods i knew he wS low effort
@@pearlosibuwait what he say?
First time viewer and I love this interviewer ❤
I’m not sure how ppl defending jasmine in the rooftop. She was totally justified starting the convo on behalf of her girl Demi. But Ollie answered her several times with positive answers but she kept going and going. It seemed like she cared more about jasmine showing she’s a ride or die so there was nothing Ollie could have said to satisfy her.
No actually my friend this to a guy who was acting like he was interested in me in a real way talking Marriage and kids so soon and she literally asked him so when are u gettin engaged. I was embarrassed and blamed her fir ruining our romance guess what. Its been 11 years Im happily married and that guy has got two women pregnant and ran. Still not committed. So these things are a blessing in disguise.
I think jasmine means well did that for demi, demi just didn't see it yet. She will learn. Jasmine intuitions abt Sam was right, maybe this one too. She told nicole right away abt Sam, but nicole didn't listen to her so yeah. Maybe it takes time. Like your case
So Bobby wasn’t his boy, but when Jasmine was jumping down his throat & he said you didn’t know her, you were quick to correct him about that? So which one is it?
I was about to comment the same thing. She can have friends in the pods during that time but she made a snarky comment about him wanting to speak to Bobby at the mixer..how can he possibly be his boy because he didn’t know him that long 🤔
@@Mo_Latt I think she meant more his boy than she is his woman?
@@joanna0988 yeah but Jasmine talking to her man crazy wasn’t a problem? plus that girl called her insecure numerous times.
@@Lamya0910 Oh I agree it wasn't necessary or appropriate but I can kind of see how Demi would think it's dumb that Bobby is Ollie's confidant over her when he hasn't known him that long?
But Bobby wasnt his boy really, Aaron and Sam seem to be. If you watch, that is who he is consistently with in the living spaces. I think he did speak to Bobby in Greece as a fellow married brother whose girl was friends with his girl. It didn't seem too deep to me 🤷🏾♀️
Why do I feel sad after this interview; I feel confused. Was Ollie all in or not, he was willing to get married it seems?? How is Jasmine now close to Charlotte, that must be awkward. I dunno if the whole thing was a self fulfilling prophecy by Demi or not. She was visibly insecure and unfortunately that kills chemistry. Ollie seems to have a lot more chemistry with Charlotte seeing pics of them.
Sir, please host the reunion next time. The other hosts did not understand the assignment I’m afraid
Thanks for watching!
My husband didn't like Demi and Ollie, but he LOVED Demi. Watched the whole thing just for her 😂 I'm just sayin'... Obviously Ollie didn't appreciate her enough.
He can appreciate her and not be attracted to her. Totally okay.
@@pearlosibuchill out you’re everywhere justifying shitty behaviour. Why lead her on? He wasn’t attracted? Bounce? What’s with shitty men using beautiful complete women as testing grounds
@asram443 You're everywhere, moaning about Ollie not finding Demi attractive. It didn't work, they have both moved on. It's called love is blind, he didn't see her and he didn't know whether he would find her attractive or not. Stop insinuating he's this horrible guy who led on this poor little woman out of spite. He liked her, he tried and ultimately it just didn't work out. It's not just about looks It's everything. They were not a match and everyone has moved on. Stop trying make him out to be something he isn't. Even if he met her and didn't find her attractive, it doesn't mean he's a bad person. He tried to get to know her and trust the process, why has it got to be him leading her on. You sound very bitter and immature. Grow up
@@li5322 has he picked you yet? He would’ve told her or ghosted her(seeing the type of person he is) day 1 in real life. He stuck around for clout and that’s shitty and should be called out. Maybe it’s stuff you’ve seen and internalised but to put it plainly It’s not how decent people act.
@asram443 Or he really liked her and wanted to give her a fair chance and go through with the process. Her personality and how they interact over time are also important. Who said he immediately didn't fancy her ? Now you're telling everyone he immediately didn't fancy her and should have told her the moment he met her because, according to you straight away he didn't fancy her and he should of told her at the initial meeting "Hi Demi, I don't find you attractive, so I'm not going to give it a go and try and get to know you because I'm so not attracted to you, I'm not even going to give you the time of day" ??? That's literally what you're suggesting he should have done. So everyone who didn't get married should have immediately told the other person that they don't fancy/like them on the spot. Otherwise, they stayed for clout? Freddie, Tom,Ollie, and Stephen ? Or is it only Ollie that had to do that ? He said out of his own mouth she's his type and he fancied her when he met her. However, over time, he realised she wasn't the person he wanted to spend the rest of his life with. You're being ridiculously negative and holding him to a ridiculous standard. Do you not think personality matters or finding out, how you vibe in person with the person you're supposed to marry counts ? Well it does and they both went through with the process and ultimately they decided they weren't right for each other. Get over yourself and stop projecting your hatred for men onto Ollie. If he stayed for clout, then so did she. She's the one who said no In the end.
I love Demi! I also love Ollie! The experiment did not end with marriage, and that’s okay. That being said, I appreciate the support and respect that Demi and Ollie have for each other as humans. Love Is Blind UK was excellent to watch!
She was insecure, and that's not his fault. She should take ownership of her own behaviour. She was withdrawn, and it felt like pulling teeth watching her with ollie. Nothing he did was good enough, jeez!
I think if ur insecure it can be a big turn off for some men
In her defense he was quite a lazy partner and she was shouldering most of the heavy lifting in the relationship
He barely wanted to kiss her what was she supposed to do??
I love how amazing you were during the reunion. I was clutching my invisible pearls😂😂😂
But she had no smoke for her own partner. Just a lot of simmering anger.
On the reunion “I always date women that look like Demi” pans over to Charlotte… Ollie just admit you cannot handle a curvy black woman and let it be. He’s so shady but wants to save face so much. Demi, you’re stunning and kind hearted. You’re so much better than Ollie and YOUR person will be much better than Ollie!
He was just trying to say he’s not into white women without saying it.
@@justcallmebon2684agreed but it’s like people can’t believe that can be possible.
to be fair in his interview, he said he typically dates women that look like Demi, Sharlette and the other black woman on the cast. Basically various shades, thick and slim.
But not YT women. Most people don't have just ONE exclusive type. It is VERY possible to be attracted to someone that looks like Demi AND Sharlette. They're both pretty, one is just more slim.
Not sure why this is hard to understand. Also, someone can be PHYSICALLY attracted to you, and care for you but for various reasons not have much chemistry overall. Like if you're closed off or come off like a homie, which I think Demi may have at times
They both seem like decent people but NEITHER or them seemed ready for marriage on the show. Whether to each other or someone else
Maria is a curvy woman. Idk how people mean curvy anymore.
she is so well spoken and down to earth. we love her!!!
@31:45 On Jessie Woo's YT channel, Ollie said that he didn't ghost Demi after the honeymoon. So, I wish this would get sorted out. He said he communicated with her all the time, and that he felt like she lied on him about that.
He also said she met his family but they didn't show it 🤷🏽♀️
Jessie woo’s video today reinforced the not communicating thing so I’m confused. She was saying how can he expect the spark to be kept alive if they don’t communicate.
Think it comes down to expectations. Did he match her expectations of what was classified as communication. She said a text and one call if I heard right. He didn’t meet her expectations of meeting her love language. He was low energy for her possibly and reading it as he is not into me as much as I am into him. That is how she felt. They made the right call not to marry with these concerns. They were not each others person and I don’t think Ollie is evil or bad.
Yeah Jessie called him out on not FaceTiming her for a whole week
Demi and Ollie stopped following each other. Something too bad happened behind the scenes for one to no longer care about the other. How sad! Not even friendship left.
Bobby can't be Ollie's "boy" because they didn't know each other too long, but it's ok for Jasmine, who knew you for the same amount of time, to be "your girl" and go grilling your fiance?
Ollie should have come talk to you about it instead of anyone else, but it's ok that you were sulking to the girls and they felt they had to speak to him for you instead of you talking to him directly?
The double standards here, though... 😂
I felt that the way Ollie handled the situation after she left him at the alter was a sign of how cool and collected and mature he could be and maybe this was partly due to her rubbing off on him. At that moment I loved him more than the entire season. Both cool people… wish them both the best individually
I love Demi but ill be himest some things just dont add up especially as she has cut off some people for mo solid reasons
This is a good interview and I understand her very well. I am like that too, if I feel like I am too much for one person and you exclude me, then I protect myself and leave the group. It is not always necessary, sometimes it is not our fault, but the other person that treats us in a certain way. I thought it was nice of Charlotte that she told Demi nicely and maybe Demi withdrew because her love for Ollie was too much and she did not want to be confronted with Him and Charlotte. But Demi is an overthinker. I think that some things are not even as she thinks and sees. I do not think she is right that she withdrew from the group by saying. her real friends are at home. she has built a bond with these people and she could just keep that bond nicely and calmly. She keeps saying. her real life, but at the time that she was going to do the reality show, that was her real life. because if she had married Ollie, that would have been her real life. She has unfollowed almost half of the people on IG. Always maintain relationships well in life, how you deal with them is the other question. Somewhere you would think that she acts like this because she still has feelings, because a person who has no feelings anymore and doesn't care, doesn't say much, but shows it. you shouldn't do things like that. Who cares if I follow someone on social media. I really don't have to unfollow you. She even follows people she hasn't even had conversations with in life. I wish her the best in life, but somewhere I think she is sabotaging her own life somewhere too.
So now Jasmine is the problem?
my opinion: Demi was the problem as well. She's the girl who give her all to someone until she has nothing left. Then expect others to show up the same exact way. Which is very unhealthy. She was walking around with a stank face but expect someone to read her mind when they only personally been around her for less than 24 hours. Jasmine was out of line. I can't believe that was ok. But him talking to Bobby wasn't. Girl come on. I have to say she put alot of expectations on someone when she barely had any confidence in herself. She treated this as her healing retreat and not a marriage. Yes Ollie wasn’t the one but she also fell short even_though she believe she gave it her all. She wasn’t ready for marriage either.
I agree, she was very closed off. She even admitted this. It’s hard to truly get to know someone when they are like this. Men with avoidant personalities will give you your space if you seem to be annoyed or uncomfortable. Idk Ollie but it seems from what I’ve seen and heard, he has an avoidant personality and doesn’t do well under pressure. Demi was wanting this reassurance from him but also being cold and distant because she was feeling insecure. Like you said, was he supposed to read her mind? I also know in an interview Jessie Woo did with Ollie, he said she had asked that they don’t do a lot of PDA on camera because her dad will be watching, and yet she’s on here saying she wanted more PDA 🤔 I just feel like Demi got the better edit than him.. but I agree both parties are responsible. They just weren’t meant for each other, so the outcome made sense.
@@Mo_Latt totally agree
Agree
She was never secure unfortunately, in and outside the pods . In the pods it was always will he like me , after the pods she was convinced he didn’t like her and hence insecure still . I hope she truly is doing better ❤
8:39
That there is the problem.
It's not meant to be about competition but connection.
Love her, she's strong, she's cool, she's kind and she's real. Keep going and keep growing!
I do really like Demi but I feel like cutting jasmine off just because she’s friends with sharlotte feels a bit petty.
The lesson for me from this is to be honest with the yourself and find out what your love language is and express it.
I do think Ollie did not behave well, but I have a little feeling that Demi is not as nice as she appears.
Same
I think she has strong personal boundaries and people who benefit from those without boundaries think that one is being “mean” when they assert them.
@@CarlyHarveyMusic I hear what you're saying, but I didn't get this feeling with Jasmine and she clearly sets boundaries. I'm just not believing that Demi is all nice and sweet.
It was if the interviewer was a little mouse a followed Demi's journey. He is sooooo invested 😂😂😂😂😂
He wasn't honest coz he was on tv
This was a great interview. It does feel like people in general are unnecessarily harsh on Ollie and it feels like it is very linked to him being a black man.
Nobody drags a black man down more than a black woman.
Demi is just adorable and her parents are the sweetest. I think Ollie was sincere but genuinely they weren't the right match. Wish them both all the best ❤
Demi standing on Business!!!! We need ACTIONS and Word of affirmations me later.
Fantastic interview!
Awesome interview!!! I liked getting a better look at Demi’s great personality.
Great interview!
@7:25 Even though Cat's comments came from a ill-intentioned place, it ended up being that she was right. Also, on Jessie Woo's YT channel, Ollie said that someone else told him that he was too attractive for Demi. Woo suggested it was Jasmine...then Ollie smiled and said he wouldn't say. Frankly, this comment on Woo's show made Ollie look worse in my opinion because it reminded me of Sam claiming Nicole was trying to sleep with him, because both of these moves were about these two men protecting their ego and not the woman.
I don't get it he's a very regular looking guy. Is it by 🇬🇧 standards lol
He made that comment to explain how the cast was projecting their insecurities about how Demi looked onto him - which they were
Yes that's what I keep saying, Cat is a bee but she was right so why are we mad at her for what she said ?? Lol
@@emileigh6524 he’s regular degular but light skin and that’s 🇬🇧
Yes Yes Demi love yourself protect
Yourself love how uve handled things 😊
I absolutely LOVED that Wil called Demi out for letting what she watched, and what other people have said, bend what she actually experienced. There is still a lot of doubt there, but we're all works in progress. I also appreciate her owning her part in things. Yes, everything can be Ollie's fault, but that wasn't reality. Too often, people want to put everything wrong off on their partner to not accept they play the main role in their own lives. The biggest red flag is no self-awareness. She's awesome, and I wish her and Ollie the best.
@@byBrieMoore thank you!!! The popularity is getting to her head
He doesn't know the reality of what she lived and us either. She didn't put all the blame on him, but it seems clear to me that things happened off camera that we didn't see.
So proud of Demi, she did the right thing.
As genuine and real as can be. 👌🏾
The second he saw her he knew she was not his type. He should’ve been a big man and said sorry not for me and let her go and find her true match instead he played her till the altar, but I’m so glad that she checked his game and said no.
Or maybe they both played the LIB game. Demi really was going for the boss girl edit.
As an American I LOVED the UK version so much guys 😍
After watching this interview I need to go and heal, was rooting for her and Ollie so hard 😢❤️🩹
Allow your guest to talk and lead the story
It's also really sad that, other than growing as a person, Demi formed no connections - even friendships- when she is such a good person. That means people truly ain't shiet!
She seems to be saying the only friend connection she got from the experience is Nicole. Kinda sad that Jasmin & even Maria who I understand all battled Ollie on show as they felt he was not doing enough for her, did not stand the test of time. Hope she finds her man &her own people, which from the interview she has all continue to be there for her.
@@bimpefemi-gureje6548she seems defensive about her feelings. It’s hard to deal with people like that.
So it’s not her… it’s everybody else?
She has strong insecurities that damages her relationships. The more she works on that, the easier relationships will be for her. She needs to stop shutting down and work through her rejection sensitivities.