Pre Marital Sex : Strategies Men and Women use | Dr.Shalini Educates| Awareness| MT 45

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  • Опубліковано 26 вер 2024
  • In this episode of Madai thirandhu, Psychaitrist, Dr. Shalini explains the taboos which arent discussed in the society such as premarital sex. She clarifies the general mindset of the youngsters who are confused on how to handle their relationships and face the important aspects of life such as marriage.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 374

  • @Behindwoodstv
    @Behindwoodstv  7 років тому +57

    Thank you for the amazing response ! All your Valid concerns will be Addressed! More Videos to Come! Thanks

    • @chandhiyaanbarasan
      @chandhiyaanbarasan 7 років тому

      BehindwoodsTV kindly consider my request in previous video session.every girl needs awareness.aavudai bro rocks.Thats y we need such interviews.awesome bro.keep rocking.

  • @nithyash1993
    @nithyash1993 7 років тому +366

    I wonder how this lady is sooo intellectual... If everyone has this level of understanding, maybe there ll b no prblms in our life..

  • @ltgi796
    @ltgi796 7 років тому +368

    Madam, why don't you create a youtube channel and giving us positive thoughts.

    • @excusegentlemen7174
      @excusegentlemen7174 6 років тому +6

      Hello, I'm not a physiologist nor a psychiatrist but a positive person and a tiny UA-camr. ua-cam.com/video/dobbi4txLdQ/v-deo.htmlThis is my video on How to stay positive . See if its useful.ThanksExcuse

  • @mohammedraffe731
    @mohammedraffe731 7 років тому +40

    Romba Aaroykiyamana interview....Hatz off Dr.Shalini

  • @bobdeni244
    @bobdeni244 7 років тому +105

    Since the late 90s I remember, when I was like 10 years old, it was Shalini who gave me my very first knowledge and perspectives on a lot of personal and social aspects. She is the most intellectual woman I've ever seen. She is truly a godsend!

  • @ravigop
    @ravigop 7 років тому +75

    respectful lady, lovely, good to see women like this.

  • @dhanraj1992
    @dhanraj1992 7 років тому +35

    Well researched, Clear cut questions. The most informative Videos in BW. I forgot the name of the VJ. But Kudos. முகம்சுழிக்கும் கேள்விகளை நாசுக்காக முகம்சுழிக்காமல் கேட்டு, பார்க்க வைக்கிறார். நெகிழ்ச்சி நண்பா

  • @kamalidurairaj8253
    @kamalidurairaj8253 5 років тому +44

    Shalini mam.. superb.. eppidi questions kettaalum rombha decent aa pleasant aa Answer pandringa.. unga alavukku puridhaloda ellarum irundhutta prechanaiye irukkadhu.. lovely interview great..

  • @gururajesh397
    @gururajesh397 7 років тому +60

    best of luck to behindwoods
    தலைப்புக்கு ஏற்ப கேள்விகளும் மடைதிறந்தது போல தான் கேட்கிறீர்கள்

  • @premkan8461
    @premkan8461 7 років тому +54

    DR.shalini romba theliva pesuringa thx mam

  • @sh3jerry
    @sh3jerry 5 років тому +8

    Ur points r always crystal clear!!!

  • @prabakarankuppusamy231
    @prabakarankuppusamy231 7 років тому +32

    The culture which disobeys the nature will rupture
    - Prabakaran Anjiyaar
    This is what mam saying

  • @aishwaryakumar6877
    @aishwaryakumar6877 7 років тому +107

    Small minds dont understand what she speaks.. ppl with higher perspective wont find it wrong... its because truth with its real face.. society wherein marital rape is accepted and relationships are not jus makes me wonder

    • @roshanadevivellai6763
      @roshanadevivellai6763 5 років тому +2

      Yeah absolutely correct

    • @arthanarisenthil1594
      @arthanarisenthil1594 4 роки тому

      Small Minds meant ?
      Matured with mutual understanding married having kids leading happy life?
      Or
      Unmatured without mutual understanding married and having kids leading unhappy life getting advise in social media or of any kind?

  • @mrishigajaishankar6951
    @mrishigajaishankar6951 5 років тому +3

    The way u answer for all questions.....
    Very true and direct answers with a kind gesture..💚

  • @kvt2339
    @kvt2339 5 років тому +34

    25 age la thunai thevai ila. But 60age la thunai thevai..

    • @Nagendr336
      @Nagendr336 3 роки тому

      Yes... Marriage ahadhavangaluku dha kashtam therium..

  • @saravananangappan9833
    @saravananangappan9833 7 років тому +21

    this kind of videos really use ful for this generation..

  • @saravananpalaniyappan7119
    @saravananpalaniyappan7119 7 років тому +19

    Tq Aavudai & Shalini...😃😃😃

  • @guganprabu9571
    @guganprabu9571 7 років тому +14

    karuththa oru interview..thnk you aavudai

  • @cr.j3150
    @cr.j3150 5 років тому +10

    I'm so impressed with this lady... ☺

  • @velliengirigiri5360
    @velliengirigiri5360 2 роки тому +1

    சூப்பர் மேடம் நிறைய தெளிவு கிடைத்தது தொடர்ந்து பகிருங்கள்

  • @salimnaan7504
    @salimnaan7504 4 роки тому +3

    I got good clarity after so many years bro. Thank you so much. Thanks a ton Dr.Shalini

  • @balu938
    @balu938 6 років тому +2

    Simple and clear explanations...I had so many doubts about many things which got cleared through these Interviews. Thank you both.

  • @oveyaar8240
    @oveyaar8240 5 років тому +8

    This was awesome. Shalini Mam words made me the happiest

    • @Gowrisankar__gs
      @Gowrisankar__gs 5 років тому +2

      😂

    • @pandimani3677
      @pandimani3677 4 роки тому

      @@Gowrisankar__gs unga sirippukaana artham enaku puriudu thala🤣😂

    • @Gowrisankar__gs
      @Gowrisankar__gs 4 роки тому

      @@pandimani3677 purinjaa saritha thalaaa😂😂 iva naara mundaa

    • @pandimani3677
      @pandimani3677 4 роки тому

      @@Gowrisankar__gs ne kalakku chitappu 😂

  • @sumathiselvisumathi3764
    @sumathiselvisumathi3764 5 років тому +6

    Good interview.. Clear ah pesuringa good mam🌻

  • @aarun430
    @aarun430 7 років тому +5

    Dear Behind woods,
    Wife and Thaaram are similar Mr.Avudai, Tongue slip airichu pola bro. Good information with respect to all aspects. Good show kudos.
    - Arun Valluvar

  • @Jas28142
    @Jas28142 7 років тому +49

    You can do anything for love but it depends for whom you do it & to what extend! Dr. Shalini an amazing personality love the simple way of your speeches. @Avudai thanks once again for bringing her to the show and many of the Q especially 1:40 was my Thought your words …

    • @tamilhindu8638
      @tamilhindu8638 7 років тому

      Ayshana Igde hi

    • @samsonfrancis2425
      @samsonfrancis2425 6 років тому

      ᎪᎽshᎪᏁᎪ ᎥᎶᎠᎬ hiii

    • @naveenamresh6339
      @naveenamresh6339 6 років тому +1

      whatever it is u may start hating if it becomes too long.... When it is new u may start loving as though u dnt want anything other than this.... Our society and cinema shows love as so pure and holy so what u say is bit dramatic

    • @SivaRUNATHANGuru
      @SivaRUNATHANGuru 2 роки тому

      Unnmai than

  • @sarayum3204
    @sarayum3204 7 років тому +8

    Clarity of thoughts and speech. Very good interview again by the host

  • @bestcomments2908
    @bestcomments2908 4 роки тому +3

    ஷாலினி அம்மா உங்கள் பேச்சு , கருத்தாகவும்
    மிகவும் மகிழ்ச்சியாக உள்ளது.

  • @hariharasudhanravindran3578
    @hariharasudhanravindran3578 7 років тому +7

    Worthy, thank u doctor & behind woods

  • @fitnesslifestyle15
    @fitnesslifestyle15 4 роки тому +4

    She is ultimate always.....

  • @prabakaran7093
    @prabakaran7093 5 років тому +2

    Shalini sister congratz ...
    Gud explanations....

  • @delicatesqatar5545
    @delicatesqatar5545 7 років тому +7

    Well info shalini madam , thank you

  • @vinothkumareswarakumar5491
    @vinothkumareswarakumar5491 7 років тому +23

    என்னுள் எழுந்த கேள்விகள் கேட்ட தொகுப்பாளருக்கு நன்றி.

  • @Muthuselvipearl
    @Muthuselvipearl 7 років тому +4

    Shalini mam always cool👌🏻eagerly awaiting for next part

  • @maha9179
    @maha9179 6 років тому +5

    superb questions from fav anchor ...

  • @ranjitharanjitha4737
    @ranjitharanjitha4737 3 роки тому +1

    Avudai always with Good questions.....Keep rock

  • @nishalini1274
    @nishalini1274 7 років тому +8

    very good and informative video

  • @amarnathkarthick1984
    @amarnathkarthick1984 7 років тому +1

    Awesome interview and intellectual questions. Keep it up Avudai.

  • @bharathkumar7976
    @bharathkumar7976 7 років тому +5

    Super doctor..good show brother

  • @deebikasamidurai7693
    @deebikasamidurai7693 5 років тому

    தெளிவான விளக்கம். நன்றி ஷாலினி அக்கா

  • @nithinraj9237
    @nithinraj9237 6 років тому +3

    அருமையான பதிவு....
    வாழ்த்துக்கள்.

  • @gayathrimanoharan5709
    @gayathrimanoharan5709 7 років тому +1

    its simply wow... amazing video which every reserved indian needs to watch... thanks for providing such a video...

  • @pengaluzhagamr2614
    @pengaluzhagamr2614 5 років тому +3

    Romba useful interview thank you

  • @aravindasamy6707
    @aravindasamy6707 6 років тому +2

    Very fantastic brief madam
    It's required for society

  • @mohammedsalmanfariss6793
    @mohammedsalmanfariss6793 7 років тому +1

    Thanks for sharing very informative videos
    ..

  • @sampath3842
    @sampath3842 7 років тому +5

    programs super. we except part 4.

  • @akkitheconqueror6922
    @akkitheconqueror6922 5 років тому +4

    மனநல தேவை அதிகம் இருக்கும் காலகட்டம். இன்னமும் மன ஆரோக்கியம் என்பது பித்துப்பிடித்தவர்களுக்கு என்கிற தவறான புரிதல் களைய படவில்லை

  • @lubenarasheed9100
    @lubenarasheed9100 5 років тому +3

    Avanga kita counselling pannanum... Appoinment yepdi vangurathu???

  • @kathirvel7932
    @kathirvel7932 4 роки тому

    மிகத் தெளிவான கேள்விகள் அருமையான பதில்கள்

  • @UngalTholi
    @UngalTholi 5 років тому +4

    Simply awsome mam👏🏻

  • @sharni888
    @sharni888 5 років тому +2

    Dr shalini is great👍😊

  • @bhavanijaishankarr770
    @bhavanijaishankarr770 6 років тому +1

    wonderful speech.... shalini mam

  • @abusheikmuhammed4127
    @abusheikmuhammed4127 7 років тому +6

    Nice Program

  • @susaimarynathan469
    @susaimarynathan469 6 років тому +2

    Mam, your videos are very insipirational. Your work towards society is much needed. Your dedication towards your profession amazes me. I want a wife like you. I watched your videos continuously. The solutions are suitable for me for the problems i had. Especially i watched almost all videos from makkal tv. I want to be a feminist. I support women. There was one instant you said "woman proposing a man is not a natural phenomenon and i dont suggest that or support that" my question is why can't a girl propose a boy if she is the deciding authority for a better or alpha mate/male. I understand there could be a hidden fact that you want the girls to be on the safer side, i can predict that from your suggestion about women's dressing sense. Im just curious more about what is stopping the girl to propose a boy in a safe society let's say. My suggestion is problem may occur when the boy proposes, boy chooses the best though the boy may not deserve her. Girl chooses directly the best alpha one, problem solved. Are girls bad in making choices? What is your stand on that one?

  • @hodophile7395
    @hodophile7395 7 років тому +2

    such a good questions...

  • @Nagendr336
    @Nagendr336 3 роки тому

    Good interview for all generation...

  • @WELCOME_801
    @WELCOME_801 6 років тому +2

    I admit everything...

  • @vasudav1314
    @vasudav1314 7 років тому +3

    wunderbar interview bro....

  • @pricibeejol3258
    @pricibeejol3258 4 роки тому

    What a spontaneous answers really I wondered about you ma'am

  • @banumathibanu6739
    @banumathibanu6739 5 років тому +2

    Madam. .. thank you so much....

  • @DhanushKumarAT
    @DhanushKumarAT 7 років тому +2

    First of all Worth it...👌👏
    She is casually spelling words. the day everyone does so, humanity reaches the evolution phase and the life of beings gonna be much productive in all aspects comparing the past. Then the happiness of everyone will completely depend upon their goals. My paragraph may seem like an end less rope. But the point is simple. if we consider sex like a tea, we won't loose our countless dreams just for minutes of happiness. Also some harassing faced by boys are not spoken for years. Mostly those faced by male gender is not even considered as harassment because like our opposite gender most of us won't even struggle to save ourself from that situation we take it as granted and our minds gets misleaded. Some of us over come those dark pages only because we ignore those black pages to live in peace. Ohh not even worth for a phrase, sorry. But mens not even seduced ever would have a better days in his life sooner than others avoid the time lag for his self understanding. Most of the times the understanding is negative. It's not about the content its all about the eyes getting seduced. An abnormal thing to his locality seduces him. Our womens right's evolution is drastic when compared to my school days, where we either treated her as soft or stuffed one well suitable for the silence she maintained. Grown up dominating her in our lower schooling its little bit hard to get along with her in our college days. where in the name of women empowerment more than equity is granted for them. Right from my college days a series of impact i have from their activities and a little they seems to taste the empowerment. Please don't be anger to reply that still now they suffered a lot and it's your turn to suffer a little. You should remember that you have no judiciary point ( the judiciary i mentioned here is general law based on which our laws are believed to be constitueted which is a lie ) to punish us for the fault of our ancestors. It's an evoluted environment don't hug certain ethical lies in any sort related to sexual safety. For your noticed boy child also suffers from sexual harassment some of the small throats stop their function either suicide induced or murder committed by those ghosts in the society. There should be equality along with prior and proper education from the schools days. The difference between him and her is, " he can piss standing too " we too a being, its enough misleading the male gender and back stamping them as " porukis " . We porukis too made up of the same cells which constitutes a women irrespective of age. Please change the slogan has " SAVE CHILD , SAVE HUMANITY ". Until then all our laws gonna mislead us towards injustice like SHIFTING POWER, WOMEN EMPOWERMENT. is it hard to have EQUALITY OF POWERS and HUMAN EMPOWERMENT??? in most of the problems we grant power towards the victim. Criminal also have rights to save himself from suppression.we are not even crimals we are of gender which the criminals belong to. Shape our young minds which alone be productive please stop changing mens as slaves. Based on the gender or cast or some other things " SLAVERY IS INJUSTICE " .

    • @abdulnavith7308
      @abdulnavith7308 5 років тому

      Punda dae padika mudiala Da thaioooooolii

  • @vigneshraja6177
    @vigneshraja6177 7 років тому +1

    Good video thank you for your averness mam

  • @arttribute7925
    @arttribute7925 4 роки тому

    Super questions avudai Anna. Fantastic explaination shalini mam

  • @இயற்கைவிவசாயம்வேளாண்மை

    Thanks 🙏 for clear explanation

  • @abinayasubramaniam3142
    @abinayasubramaniam3142 7 років тому

    Clarity of thoughts 👌👏👏👏

  • @venijo5481
    @venijo5481 5 років тому +1

    Tq shalini..very usefull

  • @sugannancy8575
    @sugannancy8575 5 років тому +6

    Dr shalini, I need to talk with you in person,how can I approach you Dr

  • @franklinechinnah6073
    @franklinechinnah6073 6 років тому +2

    Dr. Shalini mam 🎩

  • @USGishumura
    @USGishumura 7 років тому +14

    well i know why its called 'crush', when you form feeling for someone but unable to expess it to him/her and be in a state of limerence, that makes you feel like being crushed, hence its called 'crush'. ps i posted this comment at 2min mark of the video, if this was explained later in the video i was unaware of it

  • @gavjinmd2064
    @gavjinmd2064 7 років тому +23

    Seventy years la kalyanam panna Enna thappu mam ? Even those ppl need another human being for support in life know ??? In usa 🇺🇸 and other countries they have matrimonial sites for 60 and above

    • @SuperThushi
      @SuperThushi 3 роки тому

      Thappa purinchu kittinga..70 vayathila yaar panipaanga than sonaanga

  • @roshanadevivellai6763
    @roshanadevivellai6763 5 років тому

    Really. Very practical and true.

  • @gopinathgopinath1890
    @gopinathgopinath1890 7 років тому +7

    Nice video

  • @lokesh.mnarayana459
    @lokesh.mnarayana459 5 років тому +1

    Thanks Mam..for sharing unknown facts which doesn't know for today's youngester nd family mans

  • @allenofficial4053
    @allenofficial4053 5 років тому +3

    Mam.... Plz tel about gay relationship

  • @varshasavitha407
    @varshasavitha407 5 років тому +1

    She is my Chellem.I like her very much.Tq mam

  • @kesavanaero9671
    @kesavanaero9671 7 років тому +4

    aavudaiappan brother , in a married life how long they need to have sex ? like in our society after children many r reduced it, after some point mainly because of children they r not at all having sex . my point is v have never seen romance b/w our parents . so pls ask what r d implications n what should be done .

  • @shivasankarikrishnakumar2425
    @shivasankarikrishnakumar2425 5 років тому +4

    Mam pls talk about narcissistic men.. and their impact on his wife..

  • @sridhardakshan5143
    @sridhardakshan5143 7 років тому +3

    Bro semma Interview nalla Questions laam ketinga..Apdiye relatives kulla main ah blood relation relatives la marriage panna ethum child birth la problem varuma varatha and positive negative blood group ullavanga marriage panna ethu pblm varuma varatha atha pathiyum apdiye kelunga bro bro..ithula enakku rmba naal ah doubt iruku..Clarify pannirunga bro

    • @dr.sukranmbbsmd1806
      @dr.sukranmbbsmd1806 3 роки тому

      Relative marriage
      Sister daughter marriage cause Deafness & Low IQ children

    • @dr.sukranmbbsmd1806
      @dr.sukranmbbsmd1806 3 роки тому

      Positive & negative marriage group( Rh incompatibility)
      If Mother Negative & baby positive
      Give injection to mother Anti D 1st delivery

  • @nirmalk4416
    @nirmalk4416 6 років тому +11

    ஆறுவது காதல்!

  • @bharathirajamscbharathi9437
    @bharathirajamscbharathi9437 5 років тому

    Excellent speech Madam

  • @rakchinidurcka
    @rakchinidurcka 5 років тому +1

    Love this doctor

  • @shivagk6958
    @shivagk6958 5 років тому +2

    Dr. Shalini...👏

  • @allinformation6725
    @allinformation6725 5 років тому

    Thank you Madam

  • @MohanMohan-go9zy
    @MohanMohan-go9zy 7 років тому +11

    super mam

  • @ramprasath585
    @ramprasath585 5 років тому

    Nice talk👌👍

  • @merladyneptune3908
    @merladyneptune3908 6 років тому +3

    Nethiyadi! I love Dr Shalini!

  • @filesharingease8719
    @filesharingease8719 5 років тому +1

    11:58 -12:18 Mens feelings are not taken into consideration, though sister is young, they give priority to the sister, not to the brother. if I have a elder son and younger sister as children in future and even if age gap is one year, I will ask my son to marry first - Before that I would make sure he is in a good position to take care of his family. Whatever I have to do to my daugther is my responsibility, not my son's.

  • @prithiviraj3017
    @prithiviraj3017 3 роки тому +2

    Mam neenga Ella videos layum last la girls tha best uh nu Oru karuththa unarthururinga.all the best 😂

  • @gogoboyyt9797
    @gogoboyyt9797 7 років тому

    thanks behind woods

  • @bobdeni244
    @bobdeni244 7 років тому +12

    ஜாயிண்ட் ஃபேமிலி பத்தி கேட்டு, என் கேள்விக்கு பதில் சொன்னீங்க. நன்றி. அதே மாதிரி தான் இப்போவும், காதல் எல்லாம் ஏதோ நிலைக்கணும், நிலைக்காதது ஏதோ பிரச்சனை, சமுதாயம் கெட்டுப் போச்சிங்கிற மாதிரி இன்னொரு வாட்டி கேட்டிருக்கீங்க.
    ஒரு பொருள் பயன்படாம இருந்தா டீகம்போஸ் ஆகும், அந்த மாதிரி காதலும் ஆகலாம். சினிமாவோட sensationalization தான் காதல் ரொம்ப வருஷம் நிலைக்கிது, ஆஹா எப்படிப்பட்ட காதல்ங்கிற ஃபீலிங்ஸ் எல்லாம்.
    ஆனா, காதல் நிலைக்கணும்னு அவசியம் இல்லையே? அந்தக் கட்டாயத்தை வலியுறுத்தி ஏன் மனுஷங்களை துன்பப்படுத்தி வலியை குடுக்குறீங்க? ஒரு காதலுக்கு ஆக்ஸெஸ் இல்லைன்னா, ஒரு புது காதலை உருவாக்கி சந்தோஷமா இருக்கலாமே?

  • @revathilaksx7181
    @revathilaksx7181 6 років тому

    super mam...yenakku oruthara pidichi iruku...cracked was good...I am imprasad...na itha yepdi itha avar kira solrathu...pls tel me mam

  • @chamuchamu583
    @chamuchamu583 6 років тому +6

    Results are really ver bad when the given spaces are highly misused

  • @MonishaMadhumita
    @MonishaMadhumita 7 років тому +6

    Wish it were longer.

  • @manimurali2461
    @manimurali2461 5 років тому

    Nandri 🙏

  • @sathyam4953
    @sathyam4953 6 років тому

    Super speech mam

  • @s.e.kuzhali7014
    @s.e.kuzhali7014 7 років тому +2

    Thanks you mam and sir !!

  • @jayaprakaashld9446
    @jayaprakaashld9446 2 роки тому

    Topic: HUMAN-MARRIAGE vs animal-breeding?

  • @Sohail8818181
    @Sohail8818181 7 років тому +1

    Hats of mam

  • @subasri7950
    @subasri7950 5 років тому +2

    I love u mam evlo alaga pesaringa

  • @Kavithakumar2117
    @Kavithakumar2117 5 років тому

    Thank you mam