There is an episode, but I couldn't find it on the Dear Future Wifey channel. I was going to copy and paste the link for you. I saw the episode, so I can confirm that it exists, but I must be overlooking it, or it's been removed.
I’ve known Kristin and Montell since college. They both have been very intentional about honoring each other; both are just very loving and kind people.
Men when you’re dealing with women, get out of your head and into your heart. Women when dealing with men, get out of your heart and into your head 🔥🔥💯
Women dont like it if men think the world revolves around them. Men probably dont like such attitudes as well about women. Men should be aware of their talents, but they should think more in the context of community collaboration. Because the beauty of life is about randomness, randomness creates creative thinking. As Deepak Chopra says chaos and randomness are a source of creativity. Perfect order is static, it is the opposite of creativity.
John Gray says women have estrogen therefore they are less rational and more emotional, probably have sensitive hearts emotions etc. Men have testosterone which makes them more calm and rational to focus on tasks. So if a wife forces a man to be too emotional, it is against his biology. If a man forces a woman to be too rational, it is against her biology. So I guess both should stay the way they are men to be rational, and sometimes use emotions of the heart. Women are emotional and sometimes use rational thinking. Emoutns probably make women intuitive, especially if the emotions come from the heart and not from the brain.
This was so good. I have immense respect for Dr. Cindy Trimm. I distinctly recall a time when I was going through some personal issues and I started listening to Dr. Trimm’s prayers “Commanding your mornings” I never heard anyone pray like her. Her prayers are life changing; She is a powerful!!! Laterras you got to come to South Carolina this year and bring Dr. Trimm and her husband with you.
My Lawd!! Have Dr. Cindy Trimm and her husband, Dr. Russell back please all on their own and let them speak on dating and marriage!! This was goood!!!!🔥🔥🔥
I love the scripture about us ladies preparing to be wives and waiting to be found. We must ensure we are hidden in Jesus Christ. Good teaching! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🙏🏽😊🙏🏽
Lamman was clear in communication of his process in finding his wife. That he took the scenic route was indicative of not wanting to pull the trigger prematurely. The tissue analogy was him saying he might not have been her first date and she might not have been his first date but when they get together they saw something in one another that was not seen in other people they had previously encountered.
I believe that certain comments that were made on the panel needed to be challenged. The panelists that spoke the least had some really great things to say. The Jordans dropped some gems, though they didn't speak much. I believe they should be invited back on the podcast. We need to be careful what we glean just because of who is saying it. Thank you for your content Latteras!
Most of these guest were jokes and yes the real wisdom came from the Jordans, Dr. Trimm and her spouse. our community can be so messy and we want to blame everyone but ourselves when mess blows up in our faces. Ladies- stop being thirsty. Have standards and boundaries. RC Blakes says it best ' your not by yourself , you are to yourself'. Do you realize that you were sent here to earth with an assignment?!!!! Your focus should be GOD'S focus for you.
Laterras, this “healthy Christian platform” has been such a blessing to me in helping my heart heal from so much pain. Thank you for allowing God to use you. ❤
I think many men know the moment they meet their wife. My husband & I met at McDonald's when were were teens. He went home that same day & told his mother, "I met the girl I'm going to marry." We lost connection for a year, but married 2 years later, stayed married for 36 years, until "death did we part."
@@destinyj23 I'm a no-name, I think it's only people who are known & recognized/influencers who are guests but I do plan to share somehow, even if I share it in a UA-cam video. Thank you for your kind remark💞
As I am currently in a separation leading to divorce and my testimony is still being written, i literally was balling crying when Dr. Trimm’s husband(sorry I don’t know his name) prophesied about the next revival will be from people who are divorced. People tell me all the time my marriage is a story and always prophesying to me about my marriage . That word was so much confirmation. I thank GOD that he shared that even after people couldn’t focus with the heads and tails lol
@SisKaron85. I am divorced twice and have been single now for 25 years. God will restore you. I'm active in my church, the Lifebuilders Ministry of the First Baptist Church of Glenarden, Md. Last month, the Lord told me to join the singles ministry. Im 64 and asked God why. He told me because what I went through in those divorces will help a lot of singles avoid the pitfalls of choosing the wrong partner and if I had forgiven my first husband because of his mistakes we would still be married. God wants to use you to help other singles and married people, too. Trust God for your journey in life. Proverbs 3:5
Facts!!! those of us who are divorced have perspective to share and our lives are cautionary tales about what not to do. We are returning to the basics and course correcting and want to prevent those who have not traveled this rode from making those mistakes.
You never disappoint us Laterras. Your podcast keeps getting better and better. It continues to remain relevant, uplifting the world wide community. The guests and panels you curated thus far have imparted so much wisdom, honesty, vulnerability, intimacy and private experiences with us, and so have you. I salute you king for remaining obedient to your calling. Had you kept your story to yourself, this ministry would not exist, we wouldn't be granted the opportunity to soak in wealth of knowledge we have been fortunate to recieve from your lives journey. You are a reminder to me that our lives, are gifts, our talents, our stories are not our own, they are given to us, we experience them, it is at times required for us to nurture and improve them in order for the next person and the next to receive and be empowered by it/them. Thank you king and we look forward to your 2024 chapter.
I used to attend pastor Russell church faith alive fellowship. His first wife gone to Glory.. A she was gorgeous and an amazing first lady. She laid many ahhh hands on my belly and prayed for me. I'm forever grateful for his worship style and Bible study. Bless him. I had to come to the tube to see if I was hearing right.
After re-listening to the podcast, I appreciated the diverse perspectives, especially Dr. Trimm's insights. However, I feel that her distinct and knowledgeable communication style might have unintentionally limited the space for other guests to express their thoughts in full. Considering this, I agree with some of the other comments who suggested that perhaps inviting Dr. Trimm and her husband as solo guests might allow for a deeper exploration of their valuable insights. And definitely Montell and Christian should be invited as solo guests as well. Regarding Lamman and his wife’s relationship prior to marriage, people seem to be assuming she waited for him. We don’t know if she explored other options or not. I do believe at the end of the day people make decisions that work best for them. Lastly, it seems as though Lamman waited to commit until he knew he was 100% ready.
Agreed!! Dr . Cindy was dominating in the conversation which left out other great experiences from the cast. I loved the other couple discussions on relationships and marriage. Worth bringing them alone due to their experiences. They were quite grounded and enjoyed listening to them. Dr Cindy and husband were great too but I felt she was cutting off others and dominating the conversation.
I’d love to hear Lamann’s story. He tried to tell how the dating process worked for him and his wife and everyone especially Cindy Trimm took it out of context.
Agreed!!!.. She was triggered by what he was sharing and misunderstood his point😩😩😖 The conversation went left at 39:05 I'm not finished yet… I had to pause for a moment🫣…Yikes!
@@sjg5994 that’s exactly why I wanted to hear him out. Hopefully there will be an interview with him and his wife to get a better understanding of their timeline.
Kristin made an excellent and very necessary point at the end regarding God picking your spouse and how it changes how you go through challenging moments. Thank you!
Now you know damn well 2 hours was not enough for this panel! We need 10 hours of discussion. Taking notes as I am listening. This was a very very very well done paradigmatic discussion of healthy black love, we can learn from. Thank you for this!
I understood what Lamman meant. I feel like throughout the beginning of the podcast he was heavily misunderstood. My advice to him would be stand on what you are saying, don’t let the other comments backtrack your point. You were very clear. Also Doctor Trimm should’ve heard his point of view instead of speaking over him. This was a great podcast with very adult dialogue, I just wish everyone just respected everyone’s opinion and not just the ones that tickled ears
What was the point he was trying to make? I noticed he hesitated to answer the question about how long it took for him to get married… 🤔 and when he answered, I understood the hesitation 🥴🤯
God is going to use me. Whew, the divorced, redeemed and restored. I receive this word. Thank you Jesus. 🔥🙋🏽♀️🙌🏾🙋🏽♀️🙏🏽. Bless you Latterus. Powerful! Thank you
One of the messages that struck me was about being tuned into the frequency and hearing the messages when they come in ...When Lamman said he heard " Don't you let her leave" I got chills and felt that deep in my spirit! This recently happened to me actually. I was leaving an event and heard "stop and turn around"... but I wasn't obedient. I got outside the venue and heard "Go back inside", but I talked myself out of it. Hearing Lamman say that I got a profound sense of regret for dismissing those messages out of fear and trying to logic them away! What opportunity did I miss? Lesson learned is to listen to those messages and be faithful/ obedient even if you're unsure of why or they don't make sense. Faith over fear. 🙏🏽 Message received!
I love the part where the gentleman at the end said, he is going to love at 100% because that's who I am and it was his choice to choose his spouse. He gives his wife space to authentically give her 100%.
I ran across this today which was a blessing. It provided great spiritual counsel for me as a single woman over 50. I was in an abusive marriage for 6 months. I was so disappointed in myself. 4 years after divorce & doing the necessary work, I'm unsure if marriage is for me. Sometimes I think I am a wife, but spend my life exhorting others, serving in ministry. I do not have children but serve in my church to be a Blessing to the youth. I'm still praying about my singleness, but enjoying this beautiful life God has given me. Thanks for your ministry!
Wow!! This panel was great. To be able to laugh so hard and yet receive wisdom and enlightenment was wonderful. Montel and Kristen Jordan are great, although they did not get to speak much. Hearing from other men of color and seeing them progress in biblical principles, love like Christ, and hearing their views on relationship taught me a lot. Thank you for this gift @Dearfuturewifey !!
Lisa was trying to take over this panel. It was annoying how she wasn't listening and wanting to talk over every question asked even if it wasn't directed to her. Nice panel and great wisdom.
Does she talk more than Dr. Trim in this first 50 minutes?! B/c bless the woman of God for her spiritual authority, but dang, she doesn’t seem to wanna stop talking at this point in the panel 😐
And don’t get me wrong, I 100% get and agree with the initial point she was making about Lahman’s story. She was not only speaking her truth, but it was some WISDOM in what she was saying for sure! It just came across as long winded.
@@sweetumsDenise lol 🤣🤣 I love how her husband kept quiet through out that process. Dr. Trim is a teacher and looking at it now she talked like she was in one of her coaching/teaching sessions. Lol
@@SongiGodsgirl😭😭😭 I love that too, her husband sat there and did not try to shut her up or act embarrassed…he just simply trusted in what she was saying and stayed quiet😊
Lammannnnn! Get to the point!!! 😂 And when she said,” if you cannot handle the dollar you can’t handle the millions!” 👀🏃🏾♀️ 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 ! A message! On many levels!
Dr. Trimm is one of the most respected women I am grateful to have in my frequent listening to influence me. She said some hard stuff for this SAHM mom tho!
OMG!! These episodes just keep getting greater and greater. 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 life-changing podcast#Dearfuturewifey.. I've been watching for 3 years now and my life has been transformed, thank you for answering the call of God on your life it has been such an impact on the world.
It would be fantastic to see a sit-down, one-on-one conversation with the Tomlinson’s. I believe their exchange would add another layer of depth and insight to the already effective discussions. The show has been progressively improving, adding a range of perspectives, which is truly enriching. Keep up the excellent work, and thank you for consistently delivering such engaging content.
My God! This was so JUICY on 10 broadcast. This is my third episode that I’ve watched. I feel as though God is so intentional about equipping me for my future hubby. Thank you! This is timely. Blessings 😊
One of my close friends sent this video to me and within 20 mins I sent this same video to 4+ people before watching the video in its entirety!!! MANNNN I LOVED EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS VIDEO! I need a PART TWO ASAP
WOW WOW WOW How did you do this??? My favorite podcast by far!! You allow guest to keep it real and tasteful, well you try to create that healing space, I will tell everyone about this!❤🙏🏼
Montell Jordan and his wife...came with that "Soul-food" Word from on High👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I had to click the save button...just because of what Montell spoke. His wife equally, is a real one....sharp shooter, to the point in love. I love them as a couple. Thank you Latteras for bringing this panel together, for the edification of the people🫡👌🏾 Sidenote: Montells wife looks like the late singer Selena (may she continue to rest in peace🩵🕊)...a whole lot, like wow.
Absolutely, she did. I came here to post a similar comment .Plus she, didn't give him the opportunity to clarify (at least where I'm at now while watching)
Right! She didn't allow him to explain his point, she continued to shut him down. Disrespectful behavior to me, and I respect her ministry and her power in prayer, but disrespectful nonetheless.
To be honest Laterras your platform has been my Therapist and it has healed me and am looking forward to more of your episode to continue my healing and learning journey. May God bless you and Continue to pour into you so you continue to feed us of your wisdom
My Lord!!!! this was Awesome. Glory be to God for not leaving us ignorant and restoring what the canker worm tried to eat and destroy. God is a restorer and he's restoring us women and the men to have healthy and wholesale relationships and marriages again. This time we'll get it right if we take heed and are obedient to his word and Holy Spirit ❤❤❤❤
Amazing panel. You needed 3 hours for this group. I can’t wait to watch each of married couples on their own segment. Let’s get it… 🙌🏾🙌🏾💪🏽💪🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Thank you!
I think this was an interesting conversation! Some constructive criticism that perhaps the team already considered: The conversation would be even richer with less panelists. That way, more depth is achieved with a more coherent flow and the speakers have a more equitable speaking time.They ALL had valuable insights to share, and I wish Dr. Trimm's participation and perspectives weren't placed on a pedestal (not saying this was the intention, but it was obvious that some speakers were given significantly more airtime, were allowed to develop their perspectives/stories, etc., and received more verbal praise and appreciation than others). I see this happening in christian and non-christian spaces where fame/admiration, etc. could cause us to unintentionally disrespect people who are not seen as operating at the same level or having as much experience or age or wisdom. They were all invited to be on the panel and it would have been great to have seen everyone accorded the same level of respect. I know this is not easy to organize, so all in all, congratulations to Laterras and the team for pulling this off! 🙌
So glad I stumbled across this episode. Amazing panel, much needed conversation. As a married woman concerned for my adult children and loved ones who desire marriage I'm disturbed by the current gender war between some men and women currently playing out on social media. I agree with what was shared on the panel about dating multiple people at once (without any sexual contact). Unfortunately there are so many people who place sexual gratification above relational compatibility so it leaves those desiring to leave sex off the table with limited options and they end up discouraged and stuck in silos reinforcing their bad habits that can end up making them less desirable for those seeking marriage
Laterras Laterras Laterras you get better and better my friend.. hands down best panel and messengers thus far. Thank you for your due diligence your commitment and transparency… always keeping it “Lit”.. I appreciate you brotha 💕🙏🏽✊🏽
I can’t quite point out what it is about this episode that left me feeling very encouraged! Happy New Year Laterras! Waiting on an exclusive with Dr. Cindy Trimm 🔥🔥
Great podcast. I wish it was longer. Everyone was great, I hope next time Dr. Cindy is on, she doesn’t do most of the talking. Not that she didn’t and doesn’t come with good word; I just wanted to hear more from others as well. Especially the 2 brothers beside Ms. Woo. Please have the Jordan’s and the Tomlinson’s on the podcast for their own episodes. I know we will all be blessed by them.
If he brings Dr. Trimm back, she and her husband should be his only guests. If Mr. Rucker attempted to defend himself with the same energy she gave him, it could have turned into a very uncomfortable panel with Dr. Trimm looking like the victim, even though she was the aggressor.
@@latoniamcgahee1025 I agree and they shouldn’t use her church that’s the issue isn’t this her church? He’s used other’s platforms and the didn’t behave like this
I do enjoy the panels, sometimes it seems like the guests are giving mini-sermons when answering questions. The sermons can take speaking time from the other panel guests.
Amazing panelists & Great discussion, but some of the panelists need to be more cognizant of their time to speak. And we always love Christian Keyes. His character, transparency & love for Christ proceeds him.
This episode was insightful and showed the ongoing misunderstanding of dating many people vs. one. I really wanted to hear more from LaVon . You need a panel for all your introverts . They get lost in the shadows sometimes.
Thank you Pastor Thomas for what you said regarding divorcees and how God wants to use us in Ministry. I founded a ministry years ago in the church that I attended for divorced people. Thank God there weren't many divorcees in the church. However, the Lord let me know that it would be something that he would use later and I have held on to the material that He has given me. Thank you for the reminder that I can still be used to help others heal after marriage and prepare for greater. 🙏🏼😢
Laterras, I’m thankful and grateful for you ending my year with this powerful, gem dropping, right on time, great panel of guests podcast!! I never take notes but the jewels that was dropped had to be written down and remembered! 2024.. I welcome you.. 🙌🏽❤️
I’m so glad someone said single people can give relationship advice! I say the same thing all the time, Paul was single giving relationship advice. Jesus was single giving relationship advice. You learn about relationships just by encountering other people, observation, interaction, and discernment. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
A single can also give advice based on God's word, the experience they have seen from others and from their family, what they saw & learnt from their parents /or family they grew up.
Dr. Trimm and her King are honorable, and they are the epitome of letting your yeahs be yeahs and your nays be nays! They listen well attentively with tons of wisdom to provide. Great panel of guests.
POWERFUL and the transparent stories on how they met and knew that he or she was their one is amazing and hilarious especially Dr. Cindy Trimm and her husbands story. I LOVE THIS. TGBTG. GOD BLESS
Screaming at Montel telling the story of how they met haaaaaaa LOL I’ve never heard his wife speak she seems real and full of life❤❤❤ They have me hollering 😂😂😂
I highly recommend What Mama Couldn’t Tell Us About Love: Healing the Emotional Legacy of Slavery, Celebrating Our Light by Brenda Lane Richardson and Dr. Brenda Wade to anyone seeking to stop generational curses in their family that has affected their ability to find/keep love.
This was a handful of gems, thnx for the amazing panel. The Jordan’s were great though they didn’t get enough time, pls @Laterras consider bringing them to the yellow couch, thnx.
I always love these panels. Dr. Cindy Trimm was too over-barring and longwinded. I didn’t like how she said it couldn’t be her when Lamman he told his story on how his met his wife. They’re married now so that’s all that matters. I loved Montell and his wife and wanted to hear more from them.
Excellent episode although everyone on the panel did not get a chance to open up and talk. Maybe in the future give each person a certain amount of time to talk without others interjecting and interrupting. It became chaotic at one point because as one was answering your question, others were over talking them. Outside of that, there was some gem dropping. ❤
@@tamikamcgowan633 I fast forward through most of her speaking it was overbearing I totally enjoyed hearing everyone else when the could get a word in🤣😝🤣🤣🤣😝😝🤣💀😂
Agreed, Cindy Trimm giving masculine energy. Several times she had her hand over her husband’s face. What she had to say was valid but she could have been more polite about it.
I know that we are bringing up this first date, however, we have to remember that the phases of life are different. These references are in the earlier years of life such as college, people in their early 20s, and so forth. The content of the first date is very much dealing with people's phases of life. I love that quote that you quote Laterras about pursuing and persuading.
Oh my GOD…what am saying to myself is I wish I came across this before I got married,I have learnt a lot from this,but I thank GOD and thank all of you,because is better later than never 👍♥️
I do feel like everyone on the panel need to understand from my perspective need to understand & know Dr Cindy has place time in herself & did the work for preparation to be where she is today. So many people want the glory but don’t know the story. I don’t know alot about Dr Cindy but listening to her life story & how she invested in her life & put the time in to be in a place of preparation for her husband. When so many men & women hasn't prepared themselves to be a husband or a wife this sister did the work & that's why she can speak on the matter in such a way with such confidence. So Dr Cindy Trim you have blessed me & showed me how i need to work on myself more to be in preparation for when God send me my husband so i will be ready when he fines me. Thank U Sister‼️ May God’s Absolutely Best Be You & Your Husband & All the panelist‼️🙌🏽🙂💫❤
Please bring the Jordans back for a FULL episode! They seem so authentic! I need more of that 30 year wisdom!
I think there is an episode with them.
Vote 🙋🏽♀️
There is an episode, but I couldn't find it on the Dear Future Wifey channel. I was going to copy and paste the link for you. I saw the episode, so I can confirm that it exists, but I must be overlooking it, or it's been removed.
@@jasminjohnson2088 ohhhh if you find it please can you copy and paste it!? Please!!!!!🙏🏾
I would defiantly tune in.
I’ve known Kristin and Montell since college. They both have been very intentional about honoring each other; both are just very loving and kind people.
Nice comment
Well said 🎉🎉
Very beautiful. In all they do they honor God as well 🙏🏾👏🏾
I can’t believe Christian never been married. He seems like a good genuine guy.
@@MS_A_ReneeI’m glad I saw your comment, I meant Kristin. Montell’s wife.. lol
Men when you’re dealing with women, get out of your head and into your heart. Women when dealing with men, get out of your heart and into your head 🔥🔥💯
Real Talk!!!!
It's honestly the opposite for Me I have to get out of my over thinking/over analyzing head & get into my soft loving heart!😢
@@R0yALtyS You might be a Virgo. If so, research that, & It'll help you achieve your goals.
Women dont like it if men think the world revolves around them.
Men probably dont like such attitudes as well about women.
Men should be aware of their talents, but they should think more in the context of community collaboration.
Because the beauty of life is about randomness, randomness creates creative thinking.
As Deepak Chopra says chaos and randomness are a source of creativity.
Perfect order is static, it is the opposite of creativity.
John Gray says women have estrogen therefore they are less rational and more emotional, probably have sensitive hearts emotions etc.
Men have testosterone which makes them more calm and rational to focus on tasks.
So if a wife forces a man to be too emotional, it is against his biology.
If a man forces a woman to be too rational, it is against her biology.
So I guess both should stay the way they are men to be rational, and sometimes use emotions of the heart.
Women are emotional and sometimes use rational thinking.
Emoutns probably make women intuitive, especially if the emotions come from the heart and not from the brain.
Laterras needs to bring Dr. Cindy and her husband on the podcast!!
I absolutely agree 💯
Definitely💯
Yes
This was so good. I have immense respect for Dr. Cindy Trimm. I distinctly recall a time when I was going through some personal issues and I started listening to Dr. Trimm’s prayers “Commanding your mornings” I never heard anyone pray like her. Her prayers are life changing; She is a powerful!!! Laterras you got to come to South Carolina this year and bring Dr. Trimm and her husband with you.
Yes, I would listen to her prayers as I got dressed and as I drove to work!! 🙏🙏🙏
Yes! Her command your morning prayer is powerful!
Wow, curating a panellist of 9 very opinionated people is no easy feat! Well done Mr Whitfeild! It was a fun conversation.
True!
You don't get a 2nd chance to make the first impression but you can see someone first the second time❤
My Lawd!! Have Dr. Cindy Trimm and her husband, Dr. Russell back please all on their own and let them speak on dating and marriage!! This was goood!!!!🔥🔥🔥
I totally agree! I stopped doing what I was doing sat and listened to then!
Yes indeed
I love the scripture about us ladies preparing to be wives and waiting to be found. We must ensure we are hidden in Jesus Christ. Good teaching! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🙏🏽😊🙏🏽
I would have liked to hear more from the Jordans on marriage. 30 years of marriage is commendable.
Lamman was clear in communication of his process in finding his wife. That he took the scenic route was indicative of not wanting to pull the trigger prematurely. The tissue analogy was him saying he might not have been her first date and she might not have been his first date but when they get together they saw something in one another that was not seen in other people they had previously encountered.
“Release the control. Do the work in you, for you!” - Lamman Rucker. This was Great! ❤️
I believe that certain comments that were made on the panel needed to be challenged. The panelists that spoke the least had some really great things to say. The Jordans dropped some gems, though they didn't speak much. I believe they should be invited back on the podcast. We need to be careful what we glean just because of who is saying it. Thank you for your content Latteras!
Thank you for this comment and I totally agree. Just because they are on this panel and speaking doesn't mean what they are saying is biblical.
Most of these guest were jokes and yes the real wisdom came from the Jordans, Dr. Trimm and her spouse. our community can be so messy and we want to blame everyone but ourselves when mess blows up in our faces.
Ladies- stop being thirsty. Have standards and boundaries. RC Blakes says it best ' your not by yourself , you are to yourself'.
Do you realize that you were sent here to earth with an assignment?!!!! Your focus should be GOD'S focus for you.
Laterras, this “healthy Christian platform” has been such a blessing to me in helping my heart heal from so much pain. Thank you for allowing God to use you. ❤
I think many men know the moment they meet their wife. My husband & I met at McDonald's when were were teens. He went home that same day & told his mother, "I met the girl I'm going to marry." We lost connection for a year, but married 2 years later, stayed married for 36 years, until "death did we part."
I hope to hear your story possibly on the podcast... 💙
@@destinyj23 I'm a no-name, I think it's only people who are known & recognized/influencers who are guests but I do plan to share somehow, even if I share it in a UA-cam video. Thank you for your kind remark💞
@@Innosent-r8vYou are a somebody, please contact the host for an interview. I would love to hear your story. Thank you:)
wonderful ❤
😍 amazing
I love the relationship that Christian has with the host. They are brothers for real and it never fails to show. Thanks for this, all of it.
It's wonderful to see all the men on the panel who are believers of Jesus Christ
A marriage individual and not married couple!!! Now that’s POWERFUL!!! 🙌🏽
As I am currently in a separation leading to divorce and my testimony is still being written, i literally was balling crying when Dr. Trimm’s husband(sorry I don’t know his name) prophesied about the next revival will be from people who are divorced. People tell me all the time my marriage is a story and always prophesying to me about my marriage . That word was so much confirmation. I thank GOD that he shared that even after people couldn’t focus with the heads and tails lol
@SisKaron85. I am divorced twice and have been single now for 25 years. God will restore you. I'm active in my church, the Lifebuilders Ministry of the First Baptist Church of Glenarden, Md. Last month, the Lord told me to join the singles ministry. Im 64 and asked God why. He told me because what I went through in those divorces will help a lot of singles avoid the pitfalls of choosing the wrong partner and if I had forgiven my first husband because of his mistakes we would still be married. God wants to use you to help other singles and married people, too. Trust God for your journey in life. Proverbs 3:5
Facts!!! those of us who are divorced have perspective to share and our lives are cautionary tales about what not to do. We are returning to the basics and course correcting and want to prevent those who have not traveled this rode from making those mistakes.
You never disappoint us Laterras. Your podcast keeps getting better and better. It continues to remain relevant, uplifting the world wide community. The guests and panels you curated thus far have imparted so much wisdom, honesty, vulnerability, intimacy and private experiences with us, and so have you. I salute you king for remaining obedient to your calling. Had you kept your story to yourself, this ministry would not exist, we wouldn't be granted the opportunity to soak in wealth of knowledge we have been fortunate to recieve from your lives journey. You are a reminder to me that our lives, are gifts, our talents, our stories are not our own, they are given to us, we experience them, it is at times required for us to nurture and improve them in order for the next person and the next to receive and be empowered by it/them. Thank you king and we look forward to your 2024 chapter.
I used to attend pastor Russell church faith alive fellowship. His first wife gone to Glory.. A she was gorgeous and an amazing first lady. She laid many ahhh hands on my belly and prayed for me. I'm forever grateful for his worship style and Bible study. Bless him. I had to come to the tube to see if I was hearing right.
After re-listening to the podcast, I appreciated the diverse perspectives, especially Dr. Trimm's insights. However, I feel that her distinct and knowledgeable communication style might have unintentionally limited the space for other guests to express their thoughts in full. Considering this, I agree with some of the other comments who suggested that perhaps inviting Dr. Trimm and her husband as solo guests might allow for a deeper exploration of their valuable insights. And definitely Montell and Christian should be invited as solo guests as well.
Regarding Lamman and his wife’s relationship prior to marriage, people seem to be assuming she waited for him. We don’t know if she explored other options or not. I do believe at the end of the day people make decisions that work best for them. Lastly, it seems as though Lamman waited to commit until he knew he was 100% ready.
Well said
Agreed!
Agreed!! Dr . Cindy was dominating in the conversation which left out other great experiences from the cast. I loved the other couple discussions on relationships and marriage. Worth bringing them alone due to their experiences. They were quite grounded and enjoyed listening to them. Dr Cindy and husband were great too but I felt she was cutting off others and dominating the conversation.
Dr.Cindy hugged up the panel.Wanted to hear all the perspectives.She likes to hear herself,very selfish,needs attention.
This was the Cindy Trimm show. Would have loved to hear more from the others and more from the Jordans.
I’d love to hear Lamann’s story. He tried to tell how the dating process worked for him and his wife and everyone especially Cindy Trimm took it out of context.
Yes she did and jumped all over him.
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10 years he "dated" her😬
Agreed!!!.. She was triggered by what he was sharing and misunderstood his point😩😩😖 The conversation went left at 39:05
I'm not finished yet… I had to pause for a moment🫣…Yikes!
@@sjg5994 that’s exactly why I wanted to hear him out. Hopefully there will be an interview with him and his wife to get a better understanding of their timeline.
Kristin made an excellent and very necessary point at the end regarding God picking your spouse and how it changes how you go through challenging moments. Thank you!
Montell Jordan is TEEEEEEACHINGGGGGG. Praise the Lord with HOLY SCRIPTURE. 🔥🔥🔥🔥✝️
Now you know damn well 2
hours was not enough for this panel! We need 10 hours of discussion. Taking notes as I am listening. This was a very very very well done paradigmatic discussion of healthy black love, we can learn from. Thank you for this!
I understood what Lamman meant. I feel like throughout the beginning of the podcast he was heavily misunderstood. My advice to him would be stand on what you are saying, don’t let the other comments backtrack your point. You were very clear. Also Doctor Trimm should’ve heard his point of view instead of speaking over him. This was a great podcast with very adult dialogue, I just wish everyone just respected everyone’s opinion and not just the ones that tickled ears
Yes! Agree!
Exactly 💯
Yes! As much as I love her I think she didn’t understand his analogy
What was the point he was trying to make? I noticed he hesitated to answer the question about how long it took for him to get married… 🤔 and when he answered, I understood the hesitation 🥴🤯
Agree 💯 %
God is going to use me. Whew, the divorced, redeemed and restored. I receive this word. Thank you Jesus. 🔥🙋🏽♀️🙌🏾🙋🏽♀️🙏🏽. Bless you Latterus. Powerful! Thank you
One of the messages that struck me was about being tuned into the frequency and hearing the messages when they come in ...When Lamman said he heard " Don't you let her leave" I got chills and felt that deep in my spirit!
This recently happened to me actually. I was leaving an event and heard "stop and turn around"... but I wasn't obedient. I got outside the venue and heard "Go back inside", but I talked myself out of it. Hearing Lamman say that I got a profound sense of regret for dismissing those messages out of fear and trying to logic them away! What opportunity did I miss?
Lesson learned is to listen to those messages and be faithful/ obedient even if you're unsure of why or they don't make sense. Faith over fear. 🙏🏽 Message received!
I love the part where the gentleman at the end said, he is going to love at 100% because that's who I am and it was his choice to choose his spouse. He gives his wife space to authentically give her 100%.
I ran across this today which was a blessing. It provided great spiritual counsel for me as a single woman over 50. I was in an abusive marriage for 6 months. I was so disappointed in myself. 4 years after divorce & doing the necessary work, I'm unsure if marriage is for me. Sometimes I think I am a wife, but spend my life exhorting others, serving in ministry. I do not have children but serve in my church to be a Blessing to the youth. I'm still praying about my singleness, but enjoying this beautiful life God has given me. Thanks for your ministry!
Wow!! This panel was great. To be able to laugh so hard and yet receive wisdom and enlightenment was wonderful. Montel and Kristen Jordan are great, although they did not get to speak much. Hearing from other men of color and seeing them progress in biblical principles, love like Christ, and hearing their views on relationship taught me a lot. Thank you for this gift @Dearfuturewifey !!
Am here for Dr Cindy Trimm and her husband's love story. Please bring them back. Love everyone though ❤.
It's not love . It's called an arrangement.
Lisa was trying to take over this panel. It was annoying how she wasn't listening and wanting to talk over every question asked even if it wasn't directed to her. Nice panel and great wisdom.
Does she talk more than Dr. Trim in this first 50 minutes?! B/c bless the woman of God for her spiritual authority, but dang, she doesn’t seem to wanna stop talking at this point in the panel 😐
And don’t get me wrong, I 100% get and agree with the initial point she was making about Lahman’s story. She was not only speaking her truth, but it was some WISDOM in what she was saying for sure! It just came across as long winded.
@@sweetumsDenise lol 🤣🤣 I love how her husband kept quiet through out that process. Dr. Trim is a teacher and looking at it now she talked like she was in one of her coaching/teaching sessions. Lol
@@SongiGodsgirl😭😭😭 I love that too, her husband sat there and did not try to shut her up or act embarrassed…he just simply trusted in what she was saying and stayed quiet😊
Agreed! You can tell she’s in hunting mode or pick me more.
Dr. CINDY TRIMM 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥love how she opened with scripture
Lammannnnn! Get to the point!!! 😂
And when she said,” if you cannot handle the dollar you can’t handle the millions!” 👀🏃🏾♀️ 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 ! A message! On many levels!
Dr. Trimm is one of the most respected women I am grateful to have in my frequent listening to influence me. She said some hard stuff for this SAHM mom tho!
Yeah I caught that too!
Wow! Good to see Min Trimm and husband on the panel.
OMG!! These episodes just keep getting greater and greater. 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 life-changing podcast#Dearfuturewifey.. I've been watching for 3 years now and my life has been transformed, thank you for answering the call of God on your life it has been such an impact on the world.
I loved the episode especially Dr. Cindy Trimm and her pastor husband. They gave such good advice. It's the first time I have heard them speak
It would be fantastic to see a sit-down, one-on-one conversation with the Tomlinson’s. I believe their exchange would add another layer of depth and insight to the already effective discussions. The show has been progressively improving, adding a range of perspectives, which is truly enriching. Keep up the excellent work, and thank you for consistently delivering such engaging content.
Lateress, our Neighbor country up north, Canada, our black brothers and sisters are waiting for this show. Smiling!
My God! This was so JUICY on 10 broadcast. This is my third episode that I’ve watched. I feel as though God is so intentional about equipping me for my future hubby. Thank you! This is timely. Blessings 😊
One of my close friends sent this video to me and within 20 mins I sent this same video to 4+ people before watching the video in its entirety!!! MANNNN I LOVED EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS VIDEO! I need a PART TWO ASAP
WOW WOW WOW How did you do this??? My favorite podcast by far!! You allow guest to keep it real and tasteful, well you try to create that healing space, I will tell everyone about this!❤🙏🏼
Montell Jordan and his wife...came with that "Soul-food" Word from on High👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I had to click the save button...just because of what Montell spoke. His wife equally, is a real one....sharp shooter, to the point in love. I love them as a couple. Thank you Latteras for bringing this panel together, for the edification of the people🫡👌🏾
Sidenote: Montells wife looks like the late singer Selena (may she continue to rest in peace🩵🕊)...a whole lot, like wow.
She took the tissue analogy in the wrong way. I COMPLETELY UNDERSTOOD him.
Absolutely, she did. I came here to post a similar comment .Plus she, didn't give him the opportunity to clarify (at least where I'm at now while watching)
Right! She didn't allow him to explain his point, she continued to shut him down. Disrespectful behavior to me, and I respect her ministry and her power in prayer, but disrespectful nonetheless.
Rightttt! I wish she let him speak on it a little more.
@@latoniamcgahee1025, yes kept talking over him....not cool
Yes, he tried to say that’s not what he meant, but she kept cutting him off. I knew what he meant with the tissue analogy.
To be honest Laterras your platform has been my Therapist and it has healed me and am looking forward to more of your episode to continue my healing and learning journey.
May God bless you and Continue to pour into you so you continue to feed us of your wisdom
My Lord!!!! this was Awesome. Glory be to God for not leaving us ignorant and restoring what the canker worm tried to eat and destroy. God is a restorer and he's restoring us women and the men to have healthy and wholesale relationships and marriages again. This time we'll get it right if we take heed and are obedient to his word and Holy Spirit ❤❤❤❤
Amen!
Amazing panel. You needed 3 hours for this group. I can’t wait to watch each of married couples on their own segment. Let’s get it… 🙌🏾🙌🏾💪🏽💪🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you!
I think this was an interesting conversation! Some constructive criticism that perhaps the team already considered: The conversation would be even richer with less panelists. That way, more depth is achieved with a more coherent flow and the speakers have a more equitable speaking time.They ALL had valuable insights to share, and I wish Dr. Trimm's participation and perspectives weren't placed on a pedestal (not saying this was the intention, but it was obvious that some speakers were given significantly more airtime, were allowed to develop their perspectives/stories, etc., and received more verbal praise and appreciation than others). I see this happening in christian and non-christian spaces where fame/admiration, etc. could cause us to unintentionally disrespect people who are not seen as operating at the same level or having as much experience or age or wisdom. They were all invited to be on the panel and it would have been great to have seen everyone accorded the same level of respect. I know this is not easy to organize, so all in all, congratulations to Laterras and the team for pulling this off! 🙌
@pamelan8491 this panel/show was actually held at Dr. Trimm’s 2023 event EYYS End your Year Strong
So glad I stumbled across this episode. Amazing panel, much needed conversation. As a married woman concerned for my adult children and loved ones who desire marriage I'm disturbed by the current gender war between some men and women currently playing out on social media. I agree with what was shared on the panel about dating multiple people at once (without any sexual contact). Unfortunately there are so many people who place sexual gratification above relational compatibility so it leaves those desiring to leave sex off the table with limited options and they end up discouraged and stuck in silos reinforcing their bad habits that can end up making them less desirable for those seeking marriage
Please explain the silos part. I really want to understand what you're saying. It sounds fascinating.
I wish Dr. Cindy Trimm would come out with a book on relationships. 😊
Laterras Laterras Laterras you get better and better my friend.. hands down best panel and messengers thus far. Thank you for your due diligence your commitment and transparency… always keeping it “Lit”.. I appreciate you brotha 💕🙏🏽✊🏽
Dr. Trimm and her husband Pastor Thomas are rich in WISDOM❣️🎁🫵🏽🙌🏽🫶🏽 This entire panel was amazing.
I can’t quite point out what it is about this episode that left me feeling very encouraged! Happy New Year Laterras! Waiting on an exclusive with Dr. Cindy Trimm 🔥🔥
Montell was preaching! ❤
Laterras I love your podcast! Please have Pastor Trim and Dr. Trim as well as the Jordan's back. God bless and happy new year!!
Great podcast. I wish it was longer. Everyone was great, I hope next time Dr. Cindy is on, she doesn’t do most of the talking. Not that she didn’t and doesn’t come with good word; I just wanted to hear more from others as well. Especially the 2 brothers beside Ms. Woo.
Please have the Jordan’s and the Tomlinson’s on the podcast for their own episodes. I know we will all be blessed by them.
The next time she’s on I won’t watch
She’s not self aware that others were invited to speak and not just her
If he brings Dr. Trimm back, she and her husband should be his only guests. If Mr. Rucker attempted to defend himself with the same energy she gave him, it could have turned into a very uncomfortable panel with Dr. Trimm looking like the victim, even though she was the aggressor.
@@latoniamcgahee1025 I agree and they shouldn’t use her church that’s the issue isn’t this her church?
He’s used other’s platforms and the didn’t behave like this
@@LRamey right! This was her platform, which probably explains her behavior.
@@latoniamcgahee1025 smh
I do enjoy the panels, sometimes it seems like the guests are giving mini-sermons when answering questions. The sermons can take speaking time from the other panel guests.
I KNOW 2 hours of gems are on the way! 💎👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Amazing panelists & Great discussion, but some of the panelists need to be more cognizant of their time to speak. And we always love Christian Keyes. His character, transparency & love for Christ proceeds him.
My lord yes. Totally agree. But I'm glad people who watched had great take aways from this
This episode was insightful and showed the ongoing misunderstanding of dating many people vs. one. I really wanted to hear more from LaVon . You need a panel for all your introverts . They get lost in the shadows sometimes.
Perfectly said! The voice of other panel guests tend to get lost among the other voices on these panel discussions.
Loving someone is absolutely brave
Yes😊
Thank you Pastor Thomas for what you said regarding divorcees and how God wants to use us in Ministry. I founded a ministry years ago in the church that I attended for divorced people. Thank God there weren't many divorcees in the church. However, the Lord let me know that it would be something that he would use later and I have held on to the material that He has given me. Thank you for the reminder that I can still be used to help others heal after marriage and prepare for greater. 🙏🏼😢
They(Montreal and Kristen) gave me chills Marriage and Family Legacy❤️🔥🙌🏽🙏🏽⚓️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Please have the Jordans and the Trims back on the show❤
Laterras, I’m thankful and grateful for you ending my year with this powerful, gem dropping, right on time, great panel of guests podcast!! I never take notes but the jewels that was dropped had to be written down and remembered! 2024.. I welcome you.. 🙌🏽❤️
My former Pastor, Pastor Russell E. Tomlinson! Bless You ALL!!!
Y is Lisa Woo interrupting so much; she too thirsty 😠😠. However the panel was very and keep up the good work Latarrius❤❤❤
I’m so glad someone said single people can give relationship advice! I say the same thing all the time, Paul was single giving relationship advice. Jesus was single giving relationship advice. You learn about relationships just by encountering other people, observation, interaction, and discernment. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
In total agreement!!!
Singleness is family too Amen!!!
A single can also give advice based on God's word, the experience they have seen from others and from their family, what they saw & learnt from their parents /or family they grew up.
She’s right. 10years is foolishness. Men know when they want a woman, don’t let ‘em fool you.
Dr. Trimm and her King are honorable, and they are the epitome of letting your yeahs be yeahs and your nays be nays! They listen well attentively with tons of wisdom to provide. Great panel of guests.
I need to get out of my heart and into my head when it comes to interacting with men. Lord help us, single sisters! 🙏🏽
What the Bishop declared at the end spoke to my heart, as a divorcee I had disqualified myself, thank you Bishop for that.
Such a quality conversation from the panelists 🖤🖤
POWERFUL and the transparent stories on how they met and knew that he or she was their one is amazing and hilarious especially Dr. Cindy Trimm and her husbands story. I LOVE THIS. TGBTG. GOD BLESS
This panel is AWESOME!!!❤❤❤❤
So happy to see Dr Cindy Trimm in this capacity. Humbling
Screaming at Montel telling the story of how they met haaaaaaa LOL
I’ve never heard his wife speak she seems real and full of life❤❤❤
They have me hollering 😂😂😂
Hey hope life is good,I watch Montell and his wife every Sunday l8ve at 4 Masterpiece church it is absolutely wonderful . Be bless .
@@MsJuly-ts8cj thank you I will look them up❤️❤️
Ooh Jesus Dr.Cindy and her husband please make an episode about marriage and dating please
I’m so grateful Dr. Trimm came! She is absolutely amazing!!!!
I highly recommend What Mama Couldn’t Tell Us About Love: Healing the Emotional Legacy of Slavery, Celebrating Our Light by Brenda Lane Richardson and Dr. Brenda Wade to anyone seeking to stop generational curses in their family that has affected their ability to find/keep love.
This was a handful of gems, thnx for the amazing panel.
The Jordan’s were great though they didn’t get enough time, pls @Laterras consider bringing them to the yellow couch, thnx.
Pastor TRIM is DEEP. She's is So Knowledgeable! JEMS!
I always love these panels. Dr. Cindy Trimm was too over-barring and longwinded. I didn’t like how she said it couldn’t be her when Lamman he told his story on how his met his wife. They’re married now so that’s all that matters. I loved Montell and his wife and wanted to hear more from them.
Girl!!!! She act like she didn’t know she was on a shared platform
She literally took over I had to fast forward when she was speaking
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@@LRameyI did the same thing! 😂😂😂It was too much.
@@godivabaker6622 😝😝😝🤣
@@LRamey😂😂😂 facts that’s exactly what I did too
This episode is " HEAVILY LOADED!!!!Thank you LRW🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This episode was truly LIT. May God Bless everyone in 2024 double for their troubles. May the Lord bless the Jordan's 100 fold. This was deep.
Excellent episode although everyone on the panel did not get a chance to open up and talk. Maybe in the future give each person a certain amount of time to talk without others interjecting and interrupting. It became chaotic at one point because as one was answering your question, others were over talking them. Outside of that, there was some gem dropping. ❤
Mrs Trimm was over talking people it was ridiculous
@@LRamey Although she was dropping gems, I felt that way as well.
@@tamikamcgowan633 I fast forward through most of her speaking it was overbearing
I totally enjoyed hearing everyone else when the could get a word in🤣😝🤣🤣🤣😝😝🤣💀😂
@@LRamey Lol
Agreed, Cindy Trimm giving masculine energy. Several times she had her hand over her husband’s face.
What she had to say was valid but she could have been more polite about it.
Powerful and impactful line up. ❤
I know that we are bringing up this first date, however, we have to remember that the phases of life are different. These references are in the earlier years of life such as college, people in their early 20s, and so forth. The content of the first date is very much dealing with people's phases of life. I love that quote that you quote Laterras about pursuing and persuading.
Oh my GOD…what am saying to myself is I wish I came across this before I got married,I have learnt a lot from this,but I thank GOD and thank all of you,because is better later than never 👍♥️
Timekeeper roles are important when having a panel discussion.
Dr Trimm You Guys Blessed Me.
I respect Lavon perspective because I can identify with a lot of his points
I do feel like everyone on the panel need to understand from my perspective need to understand & know Dr Cindy has place time in herself & did the work for preparation to be where she is today. So many people want the glory but don’t know the story. I don’t know alot about Dr Cindy but listening to her life story & how she invested in her life & put the time in to be in a place of preparation for her husband. When so many men & women hasn't prepared themselves to be a husband or a wife this sister did the work & that's why she can speak on the matter in such a way with such confidence. So Dr Cindy Trim you have blessed me & showed me how i need to work on myself more to be in preparation for when God send me my husband so i will be ready when he fines me. Thank U Sister‼️ May God’s Absolutely Best Be You & Your Husband & All the panelist‼️🙌🏽🙂💫❤
I would agree. That is why I love this platform and the ministry that Laterras does because he does not focus on one gender versus the other.
Beautiful relationship story Pastor Tomlinson & Dr. Trim......healthy and beautiful
This is blessing me so much!
MJ just inspired me to write a poem called: Hidden In Plain Sight!