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Fellow Aussie here! I don’t know why people need to judge or put others down because they choose to travel alone? They themselves must be unhappy if they treat others that way! I’m travelling solo to Bali later on in the year, and you’re giving me the confidence to do it ☺️ keep doing what you’re doing, you’re amazing and you’re giving other solo travellers (especially females) the confidence to get out there and travel for themselves ❤
Oh thank you so much sweetheart, I can't tell you how much I appreciate it :) Hope you are having a wonderful start to the New Year. Here's to more solo female travel adventures in 2023! P x
I love watching your travel vlogs Phoebe!! You have a way about you that captivates the viewer and makes us want to travel to the places you are visiting. I'm glad you got up out of bed/hotel and kept going ❤
Shrug it off, you are amazing! Don't let mean people affect your enthusiasm towards what your passion in life! You are one of the best vloggers I've seen so far. You capture the beauty of the place like an expert and experienced videographer. We see the beauty of the world through your eyes! Thank you for what you do!
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Good on you for living your best life and doing what you do. It takes courage, it's young people like yourself that have given me the drive to move to live in Bali within 5-7 year's. I'm 53 but better late than never x
For far too long, we have all compared our worst behind the scenes footage to the highlight reels of others that we see on social media. We somehow feel like we are a mess when everyone else has it all together, but in reality that is far from the truth. It is refreshing to see someone with a platform share that they aren't always OK. And that is OK. Mahalo for being authentic and being willing to share your struggles. That matters.
Eeek - you know, I'm guilty of doing that all the time. Comparing my life, my bank balance, my body, EVERYTHING with to other people. A funny thing, I got locked out of TikTok when I left Australia and it was the BEST thing that happened to me. Suddenly I stopped hating myself so much and I have more time to be present and do what I love :) Thank you so much for the lovely comment and for your support and kindness. It means so much to me. Phoebe x
I hope you know how much of an inspiration you are! The power you show when you push yourself even though you are scared and how you get back up it just wow ❤
Awww Phoebe don’t let those rude strangers bring you down 😢. You’re a beautiful young woman and I can already see your confidence is growing. As I mentioned in a previous comment I’ve felt what you’ve felt, but I continue to press on and do what I love to do. Keep your head up 😊. I appreciate how you’ve let yourself be vulnerable to your viewers and not sugar coat things like other vloggers. Press on and enjoy your trip.
Oh thank you so much :) I'm so happy you're seeing my confidence grow! I feel it growing SO deeply. Honestly, I feel like a different person every day - I mean, same person but just so very strong you know. It's nice :) Thank you for the kind words about being vulnerable and honest, it's hard not to edit those parts out of the videos sometimes so hearing that you enjoy them gives me confidence to keep going!
Beautiful video Phoebe. Love your raw authenticity. Tbh its refreshing seeing an influencer speak their truth rather than pretending they are fine. I love how real you are. I've been feeling the same with my perfectionism and totally relate. Keep going hun. Sending much love and light xx
Came for the travel, stayed for the authenticity. Your attitude is total fire ... as is the design of that room 😲 Those insights on anxiety, control and perfectionism are ridiculously on point, I genuinely felt like you were speaking directly to me, as I'm sure did a lot of others. Turning a sh!t experience into an opportunity for self reflection and growth speaks volumes about your character. Loving the series.
It’s unbelievably comforting to know someone else gets what I said and connects with it! Thank you so much for the kind words - it means the world to me 🙌🏻♥️
Last year I (30F) travelled to Japan twice solo and I plan to travel to Bali on my own. I honestly love it and don't understand the judgment. I don't have a parter, my family and me don't share similar interests in terms of travelling, and my friends are all broke lol. If I wait around for someone to be available to travel with me then I might be waiting forever and know I will regret it. Plus when you're on your own it gives you a chance to meet people along the way, you can do what you want to do without compromising, and it gives you a chance to reconnect with yourself. There is nothing wrong with travelling on your own (just make sure you're safe!), and in fact I think anyone who says anything is secretly envious of the confidence that we have! I love your travel vlogs they are insightful. Keep doing what your doing!
Awww thank you for your vulnerability. I can totally relate. Not all days are perfect. I love your raw emotions and choosing to embrace and honor them. It takes a lot of bravery to choose to pick yourself up again. You are touching many souls.
Watching the video I thought the strongest people are actually who can aim to control what they can, and let go of what they can't. They also have the courage to express that they can be sometimes vulnerable. It was very human + so engaging, thank you Phoebe :)
Sending you so, SO much love, Phoebe! One of the qualities I admire most about you is your resilience. I know all too well the feeling of having your confidence shaken right down to your core and the deep desire that creates in me to retreat to my bubble, my comfort zone, my safe turtle shell where I can block everything and everyone and not have to face the unpleasantries of life. But that’s cowardly and unrealistic and only lets the problems fester. YOU, Phoebe, are so strong and brave and resilient and I so admire that about you, sweet friend 😊💗
Wow you put that into words so well... 'having your confidence shaken right down to your core.' That is exactly how it felt. Don't worry, we can get out of those turtle shells and be bad-a$$ turtles together! Ninja Turtles! :D
Love your channel Phoebe! Your dedication to your craft shows and I remember the first vid I watched I thought you were from pro TV show like 'Getaway' ....but a better version! Your on camera presence and the content is always captivating . Thanks for your honesty and vulnerability. I'm also a perfectionist and yes it can also be my downfall especially when expectstions are high even when it comes to washing dishes. I guess that's what happens when you grow up in a Chinese Restaurant. Hats off to you for soldering on! It can't be easy to get things right when the weather is soo hot. You proved that you are a classier person by walking away. I would have given them an absolute earful! Keep up the awesome job!! Much love!!
Oh my gosh 🥹♥️ thank you so much. It’s so good to know I’m not the only one that feels the way I do! Thank you for the lovely comment and all the support 😊🙏🏼♥️
Absolutely amazing how down to Earth you are. You be you. Our first day was GWK and Uluwatu Temple and I'm glad it wasn't just us because we were exhausted. They are both big sites and mixed with the heat, it's no wonder you were exhausted. We stopped for Luwak Coffee after the temple and it was exactly what was needed. I couldn't even take all of Uluwatu Temple in because I was so exhausted. So don't worry. Your VLOGS are honest and amazing. And that takes guts. Hoorah to you.
That is so lovely of you, thank you 🥹 it is sooo good to hear you were exhausted too. I thought I was just being a wimp but WOAH those two massive places combined with the heat is just exhausting. Thanks for the love and kindness - it means the world ♥️🙏🏼
Your authenticity is so refreshing and resonates personally with me as I too have struggles with anxiety. Don't let the negative thoughts hold you back, you are doing great!
Oh, thank you so much. Honestly, it was hard when I was editing this video not to edit out all of me talking about my feelings. It's hard to see what you're saying as valid or even remotely interesting, you know?! Reading you comment is just confirmation I need to not be scared and just keep being myself and sharing :) Thank you x
Well doen Phoebe. To analyse, push through and realise the personal challenge before you is both noble and inspirational. Keep growing and exploring yourself! Life as a YT'er is not easy as it requires introspection and self-determination. You've had a lot of change lately. Take it slow. Give yourself the time to lean. You're doing great!!!! Love the vids.
Thanks so much for taking us along with you on your visit to Bali... I have really enjoyed this vlog and your content is truly going from strength to strength. When a new video pops up on your channel then it always brings a smile and I always look forward to watching it. I am sorry to hear of your struggles with anxiety and hope that things get easier. I have been there and know that fight. I am curious to know your take on the ease of travelling around Bali for anyone who is not a motorbike rider. How difficult it is to get around without a motorbike outside the main tourist centres?
oh gosh! Reading your comment put a huge smile on my face this morning :) Thank you so much. Yes, so it can definitely be a little more tricky if you don't hire a scooter (which is a very smart and safe decision). Grab is hit and miss because the drivers can be a bit dodgy, in my experience, and try to rip you off. If you have the budget, the safest, easiest thing to do is to hire a driver for the day or just for the days you plan to go out exploring. They take you everywhere you want to go, they wait for you, it's a pre-determined rate and it's just EASY. You can usually get a driver for the day through your hotel or you can organise one when you get there (literally every 2 minutes someone will yell 'TAXI! TRANSPORT!' at you) You'll just need to haggle to negotiate the rate.
@@travelforphoebe Amazing thanks so much for the super informative and detailed info on this, which has definitely made me think again about adding Bali to my travel wish list! I'm sorry for the late reply... the load shedding has been bad here in South Africa the last few days and we haven't had much electricity... I am exploring car hire as an option too, although from the videos I have seen it looks like Bali driving is not for the faint-hearted. I am excited as ever for the next video 🙂
Girl. You reacted like we all would by being hurt at first, and then reacted like we all hope we would by realizing just how miserable and insecure that lady must have been to be such a biotch. That kind of meanness comes from deep within someone and ain’t nobody got time for that. You’re beautiful inside and out and some people aren’t, and they lash out like that out of jealousy and misery. You keep doing you cause you’re amazing. ❤
Never get wrong on you at first time I saw you , your video, on my first comment. YOUR SO FRAGILE .. I can see it on your eyes .. 1. Learn to relax 2. Control 3. Try to take life slowly..good luck .. 🙏
Awesome vlog! Since you are on your own the videos are getting so much better. They reflect your identity and are more authentic. I really enjoy watching and taking part on your Journey. ❤❤❤
You are still so young and you will grow in wisdom a lot over the next years and even decades. You will get to a point where others opinions of you wont throw you off anymore and that is a liberating place. The mean lady who criticised you? Try not to take it personally because its not actually even about you. It is about the lady herself and what ever judgements and things that are going on in her own mind. You are selfaware and are wanting to grow in terms of personal development so this will hold you in good steed.
i think you are one of the funniest persons and so full of life awesome character in yt travel vlog i've seen before full of confidence, keep going nevermind 🙏👍👍
I subbed to this channel to get info on Aussie and NZ…got that and better: discovered an absolutely amazing human being who, though you don’t know me, feels like a friend. Your bravery and courage in starting and building this channel (& your life!) pale in comparison to that which you showed in this video. Revealing your heart and overcoming your anxieties and fears during the bad times is something for which you should be proud. I, like you and almost all of us, experience similar moments in our lives. Things aren’t going to be “perfect” and instead feel out of control. It’s how we bounce back and “get up” that truly reveal our character. And yours is quite beautiful and full of courage. Persevere through it! And know you’re never alone. You’ve got family, friends, and all of us here online who can’t wait to see and share in your next adventures-both those abroad and in your self. Looking forward to next week to see where “we” (through you) get to go next!
I loved reading your comment this morning - thank you for sharing so much kindness with me. Hearing/reading that I'm not alone in experiencing this stuff has been so powerful for me. I'm just realising as I type this that knowing I'm not the only one who experiences it is soothing my anxiety! Thank you x
You absolutely smashed it, like I know you would. Content creation is hard, physically and mentally exhausting. Thank you for sharing, you don’t know how inspiring you can be!
As someone who struggles with anxiety, I can so relate to everything you're feeling, but be assured your vlogs are amazing, really informative,great content, and well edited. Please don't let other people destroy any peace you find, It never fails to amaze me how horrible people can be, but remember, that's just a reflection of who they are and a display of their insecurities. Keep doing what you're doing. You're doing great and inspiring so many. Keep on smiling. Be a little kinder to yourself. Remember, it's ok not to be ok.Hope you have a great Christmas 🎄 🎅🙏
Next months my BF first time go out from his comfort zone n with he anxiety and our first time met ( 2,5 years long distance relationship ) n planning met up at Bali 🥰 His anxiety day by day more n more can't control but i keep support him if everything will be okay .. and i hope u will be okay too n happy ( i dm u on insta 😊 )
@@travelforphoebe and people who take the time to make others feel that way are the ones you should care about the least. Misery loves company. Turn your nose up and keep on with whatever you’re doing. Keep that in mind, next time you get that feeling/look from someone
Man that women is mean, but glad that you got over it! Because you bring so much joy to people with your content including myself. Your travel content makes me happy especially those countries I've been before , it jog those fun and happy times travelling! Support from Malaysia 🇲🇾 keep up the good work!
A little rest will make you feel better. Keep doing what you do best! I love your videos so no shame in feeling you are ‘failing’ when in fact you are just experiencing Life as it is. Bad or Good. Downs or Up. I love all the Beautiful shots of Bali! Stay Positive! Always!😊❤
You are doing amazing Phoebe -- I am a recovering perfectionist myself who lives in Melbourne and I understand, I hear you and see you. My support comes a year later - I hope you are feeling stronger and grounded in your beautiful self. I watched a tonne of Bali videos before I came across you. This is my favourite video so far - thank you for being willing to be vulnerable, for being authentic and BRAVE. Allow me to share something that has helped me -- be your best everyday; just remember that your best looks different every day. Take care and be well. who knows, we may run into each other somewhere in the world 🩷p/s: my son has hijacked my YT account and renamed it 😝sending lots of love to you, J
Hello Phoebe, Harriet and I truly love the human being that you are. We've had our rough starts too. But every time you get to the other side to good. You are stronger for it. We think we can speak for the community and say that we support you 100%. Reach out to us if you need our help in some way. Most important is that you have fun in what you're doing. Sending you much love ❤❤❤ from Harriet, Jim and Yuki. Richmond, Va.
I will say this... Its not about being perfect, but being 'good enough as you are' already. The reason I watch you is, because you are so genuine.. thats hard to find nowadays. Im sure alot agree with me. And btw: just just ignore the few negative people (usually its just envy). You have way more to live for. Again: Take care. God bless you 🙂.
❤❤❤❤❤ Thanks so so much for sharing your experience. You have given me the words I’ve always needed. It’s not so much the fear of failure but the desperation fuelled anxiety to be perfect first time. I watched with tears and joy cheering you on 🎉🎉🎉🎉 again thank you 🙏🏾 ❤
Oh my gosh you summed that up perfectly ♥️🙏🏼 so glad to hear you experience this too. It’s comforting to know I’m not the only one. Thank you for the love and support
What would that perfection get you in life? Why do you accept the impossible as your standard? Does anyone you know or know of ever achieve living in perfection. What negative consequences would come from being a perfect human in a world of imperfect humans? Keep going, this struggle is necessary to move through the process of living. I'm about to start my solo travel journey after 4 1/2 years of going through what you are going through mentally. Thank you for your honest content. Your honesty is far more valuable than your ability to be perfect, IMHO. Keep going! I'm a fan!
Oh you’re so kind 😍 I really appreciate everything you shared and all the kindness and support! Thank you ♥️ so glad to have you watching and being part of this journey
Hey Phoebe, I have watched this episode and the other you visited monkey forest. U mentioned u were afraid of monkeys, I can totally relate, yet you were very brave to continue filming and holding a monkey(the other episode) though u were scared. And I have watched quite some videos here and I love the way you tell your travelling story, you are a great story teller ❤
Hello Phoebe. You are the one who go out there and bring us excellents videos on discovering the beauty of the world😀. I like it. All my thanks and my respect for that. You are doing a very good job👍 . Easier to say than to do, but please try not to pay attention to those with narrow mind and short sight. They bring nothing good. With time, i am sure you will get even more confortable doing all this filming on your own, far from home.
I've said it before, and I'll say it again, girl, you are a rock star, so don't let people like that get you down. I travel on my own and am so self conscious just taking a selfie, so how you make a video is amazing. You do you and forget the haters, we luv ya and that's all that matters.....Team Phoebe 💞
ahhh I'm SO glad you get it haha I was already jittery just thinking of taking the photos of myself that when they were laughing at me it was like confirmation of all the bad things I thought about myself. Anyway, I'm grateful for the challenge and the chance to push through it :) Thank you for the love and support x
Happy thought create happy content. And always remember there is a thing call editing. If you don't like what you do today, you can always redo it the next day until you are happy with the result. But always remember, nothing is perfect in this world. As long as whatever you create has your identity in it, you are doing great.
Well you r not alone 😂 my partner and I went to Bali (before Covid) and were so overwhelmed by the cultural and aesthetic differences between Australia and Indonesia that apart from one guided tour and one venture into town on foot we opted to stay within the relative safety and comfort of our resort…within our comfort zone so to speak ..
There’s always cruel people everywhere, the main things is always wish them to be a good and nice person when they meet the next person after they met you. I will be good for you. Have fun!
Ughh I hate that you experienced such a rude encounter. It really is sad that someone felt the need to do that. It can be so intimidating vlogging and taking photos in public, but you are doing amazing, we are so proud of you getting out there and doing the thing! One of my teachers growing up asked us this question and it's stuck with me over the years "is this something that is going to matter to me in 5 years? 10 years?" And when I think of things that way, it helps me not hold onto the negativity as long as I would normally. I think it's so important to feel what you need to feel, go through all the emotions but don't let it linger to long and bring you down too much. You are out there doing what makes you happy AND bringing so much joy, knowledge and light to others who look forward to seeing your face and your gorgeous photos! (They really are stunning! And GOALS 🙌) Keep up the good work, we are all cheering you on!
It is okay not to be okay and ignorance is bliss sometimes. That lady was not nice and I think it needs brave person to travel solo, especially for female traveler. I am specifically following your channel because you are female solo traveler and I am very inspired by your content. Keep going girl! 🤗💪🏻 Warm greetings from Indonesia 🇲🇨 and I hope u will have nice time in our country at the places u will visit next 💕💕 Ps: I love ur hotel at Uluwatu and would love to try massage there one day 😍
Hey Phoebe, fellow Australian here stumbling upon your videos. I'll also be embarking on a 2.5-week solo journey in Bali next year in Feb and I love how authentic your video presents Uluwatu! Also, I love seeing the growth you experienced in the matter of a day! Absolutely no substitute for solo-travelling and how much it develops you as a person. Love your content, keep up the good work, forget anyone else who says otherwise (:
Solo travel truly is unreal huh! It’s amazing how it can challenge and transform you 😊 have a wonderful time prepping for your trip! I’ve got four more Bali vids to come 😍 thanks for the kindness too
Hi Phoebe, I'm a Filipino-Australian, and I can say you're doing just great! Just keep active through your vlogs, and you'll be okay. I used to travel across Australia by myself too, and that's the way to go. But, sooner or later, everything will fall into place, as long we stay positive and happy. :)
Also, I am right there with you on the control. Through lots of therapy, I’ve realized that my want of control comes from a fear of failure. But the fact is, at the end of the day and at the end of our lives, we only have to make ourselves proud. Because our thoughts and beliefs about ourselves are the only ones we can control, no one else’s. Like you said, let it go, regroup, and make yourself happy. Easier said than done most days but work on it every day and it’ll get easier. You’ve got this! 💪🏼
YES! The fear of failure, that’s exactly it. What an incredibly insightful comment. Thank you so much for taking the time to share and do it such a…. I don’t know how to describe it… it’s like you shared it but didn’t force anything or push anything, you know? I appreciate it so much!
Girl, I feel for you! Thank you for being so honest! I just came back from Bali on a solo trip (from Australia), for a week in Nov this yerar. And 5 years also visited bali Solo and next year moving to Bali solo! It's normal to feel a bit confused, out of place, uncomfortable because you are unfamiliar about the place. I just ask questions and make friends. I try to not take it to heart or put pressure on myself. The locals are friendly and always so helpful, even tourists are super friendly too. I've never come across really rude people in Bali so I'm so sorry you had to experience those comments from the girls! If I heard those comments from girls talking about me taking pics solo, I would have gone up to them and ask them why do they have the need to say that about someone and wished them a nice day LOL! Literally says so much about them and the fact that they clearly can't enjoy their own company to talk bad about you for having a great day and taking photos! Mind boggles me! I've travelled a lot solo and do things alone a lot, it's definitely a thing the more you practice, the more you feel so at home and comfortable in your own company. You learn how to trust yourself, develop confidence and you figure so many things out alone and become so much stronger along the way!! Love how honest this video was, stay true to yourself, keep pushing your comfort zone and this feeling will be a thing of the past and it will be soo normal girl!!
Phoebe,I totally understand how you feel on those moments because I have been going through the exact same process as you do... Being perfectionist just worn me out so badly and it drains all my energy...When I go through these moments I just drop what I do and focus on my well being because at the end of the day you are on your own..
That’s exactly it! It drains ALL your energy! 😩 and then you focus so hard on trying to fix that… and it takes you a while to realise… you’re being a perfectionist about trying NOT to be a perfectionist 😂 a cruel cycle!
Oh wow amazing video but partly sad too, you are a strong 🌹 beautiful aussy woman you went to bali yourself, that's a great thing, you just need to be grateful a lot, meet a lot of people, smile to the locals, all will love you and take care of you, as an Indonesian, I suggest to be firm to the locals who do scams, You can take a photo of their license plate and face and report to the hotel later hotel follow up if necessary, don't worry, in Bali and Indonesia, all respect tourists, especially women. May you enjoy a trip to Bali, let go of all the sadness and shout loudly if it makes you free 😊
Found your channel today and I just love your work, i know how difficult it is to make a travel video as I’m also a travel vlogger, you are doing amazing work and you got a new subscriber😊🙌🏻
Don't let these low life people distract you from what you are doing Phoebe. It takes guts to do what you do and in places you do them. Keep Calm and Carry On Vlogging!!
Focus your efforts on the things within your control and just accept what is not. no matter how upset we get, or frustrated we get, we cannot change the things outside the reach of our control. A life of attempting to control the uncontrollable with undoubtedly be one of bitterness, frustration and wasted effort.be happy and well.
Hi cute lady... Just enjoy your life your trip whatever you have done thru is worth it, just feeling so grateful sis, God bless you... Keep on stronger and smile 😁, may God bless you with save and health... Aamiin 🤲🙏😘💖🇲🇨
It takes a lot of courage to travel alone. Those who talks bad about you just don't have the courage to travel alone. My wife passed away 3 years ago, till today I still don't have the courage to travel alone. You are way better than many of us. It is very tiring to live on others criticism. Just be yourself and do what you like. Care less of what others think of you and you will shine on whatever you do 😊😊😊😊😊😊
Looks like paradise to me Phoebe compared to fickle Melbourne weather we are currently having ( four seasons in one day ) 😂. This is such a wonderful video and inspiring in every way. Keep up the great travels 😊
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Fellow Aussie here! I don’t know why people need to judge or put others down because they choose to travel alone? They themselves must be unhappy if they treat others that way! I’m travelling solo to Bali later on in the year, and you’re giving me the confidence to do it ☺️ keep doing what you’re doing, you’re amazing and you’re giving other solo travellers (especially females) the confidence to get out there and travel for themselves ❤
Oh thank you so much sweetheart, I can't tell you how much I appreciate it :) Hope you are having a wonderful start to the New Year. Here's to more solo female travel adventures in 2023! P x
I love watching your travel vlogs Phoebe!! You have a way about you that captivates the viewer and makes us want to travel to the places you are visiting.
I'm glad you got up out of bed/hotel and kept going ❤
Shrug it off, you are amazing! Don't let mean people affect your enthusiasm towards what your passion in life! You are one of the best vloggers I've seen so far. You capture the beauty of the place like an expert and experienced videographer. We see the beauty of the world through your eyes! Thank you for what you do!
Thank you so much ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@@travelforphoebe if you happen to go to the Philippines I can show you around Manila, BGC and nearby provinces like Tagaytay so you won't go alone. I can be your tour guide/cameragirl!☺️☺️💕💕💕
Australians can be so painful. You make so many people happy with your content, remember that when you are feeling low :)
Thank you so so much, you’ve no idea how much it means ♥️
@@travelforphoebe Thank You Phoebe for what you do. It's true , sometimes, Austrailians can be cruel to each other.
Let's not generalise, cruel people are everywhere, not only Australia 🙁
Are you Australian, the Accent is quite strong haha
Good on you for living your best life and doing what you do. It takes courage, it's young people like yourself that have given me the drive to move to live in Bali within 5-7 year's. I'm 53 but better late than never x
Oh thank you so much 🥹🙏🏼 really appreciate the lovely comment!
For far too long, we have all compared our worst behind the scenes footage to the highlight reels of others that we see on social media. We somehow feel like we are a mess when everyone else has it all together, but in reality that is far from the truth. It is refreshing to see someone with a platform share that they aren't always OK. And that is OK. Mahalo for being authentic and being willing to share your struggles. That matters.
Eeek - you know, I'm guilty of doing that all the time. Comparing my life, my bank balance, my body, EVERYTHING with to other people. A funny thing, I got locked out of TikTok when I left Australia and it was the BEST thing that happened to me. Suddenly I stopped hating myself so much and I have more time to be present and do what I love :) Thank you so much for the lovely comment and for your support and kindness. It means so much to me. Phoebe x
I hope you know how much of an inspiration you are! The power you show when you push yourself even though you are scared and how you get back up it just wow ❤
Thank you so much sweetheart… honestly your comment means so much to me 🥹♥️
Awww Phoebe don’t let those rude strangers bring you down 😢. You’re a beautiful young woman and I can already see your confidence is growing. As I mentioned in a previous comment I’ve felt what you’ve felt, but I continue to press on and do what I love to do. Keep your head up 😊. I appreciate how you’ve let yourself be vulnerable to your viewers and not sugar coat things like other vloggers. Press on and enjoy your trip.
Oh thank you so much :) I'm so happy you're seeing my confidence grow! I feel it growing SO deeply. Honestly, I feel like a different person every day - I mean, same person but just so very strong you know. It's nice :) Thank you for the kind words about being vulnerable and honest, it's hard not to edit those parts out of the videos sometimes so hearing that you enjoy them gives me confidence to keep going!
Beautiful video Phoebe. Love your raw authenticity. Tbh its refreshing seeing an influencer speak their truth rather than pretending they are fine. I love how real you are. I've been feeling the same with my perfectionism and totally relate. Keep going hun. Sending much love and light xx
That’s so sweet of you love, thank you so so much ♥️
Came for the travel, stayed for the authenticity. Your attitude is total fire ... as is the design of that room 😲
Those insights on anxiety, control and perfectionism are ridiculously on point, I genuinely felt like you were speaking directly to me, as I'm sure did a lot of others. Turning a sh!t experience into an opportunity for self reflection and growth speaks volumes about your character. Loving the series.
It’s unbelievably comforting to know someone else gets what I said and connects with it! Thank you so much for the kind words - it means the world to me 🙌🏻♥️
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Last year I (30F) travelled to Japan twice solo and I plan to travel to Bali on my own. I honestly love it and don't understand the judgment. I don't have a parter, my family and me don't share similar interests in terms of travelling, and my friends are all broke lol. If I wait around for someone to be available to travel with me then I might be waiting forever and know I will regret it. Plus when you're on your own it gives you a chance to meet people along the way, you can do what you want to do without compromising, and it gives you a chance to reconnect with yourself. There is nothing wrong with travelling on your own (just make sure you're safe!), and in fact I think anyone who says anything is secretly envious of the confidence that we have! I love your travel vlogs they are insightful. Keep doing what your doing!
Awww thank you for your vulnerability. I can totally relate. Not all days are perfect. I love your raw emotions and choosing to embrace and honor them. It takes a lot of bravery to choose to pick yourself up again. You are touching many souls.
🥰🥹 you’re so kind, I really appreciate the love and support ♥️
You are great! No worries. Thank you. Moving to Bali in May-June, so I like to watch new Vlogss and I enjoyed yours.
Thank you so much!! I’ve got a few more Bali episodes still to come in the New Year - hopefully they help you ♥️
Subscribed and watching all videos. You’re strong and doing solo travel is not easy.
You’re already doing great. Keep going. ❤
Thank you so so much!
Watching the video I thought the strongest people are actually who can aim to control what they can, and let go of what they can't. They also have the courage to express that they can be sometimes vulnerable. It was very human + so engaging, thank you Phoebe :)
Wow, I love that 🙏🏼♥️ thank you so much!
Sending you so, SO much love, Phoebe! One of the qualities I admire most about you is your resilience. I know all too well the feeling of having your confidence shaken right down to your core and the deep desire that creates in me to retreat to my bubble, my comfort zone, my safe turtle shell where I can block everything and everyone and not have to face the unpleasantries of life. But that’s cowardly and unrealistic and only lets the problems fester. YOU, Phoebe, are so strong and brave and resilient and I so admire that about you, sweet friend 😊💗
Wow you put that into words so well... 'having your confidence shaken right down to your core.' That is exactly how it felt. Don't worry, we can get out of those turtle shells and be bad-a$$ turtles together! Ninja Turtles! :D
@@travelforphoebe *heroes in a half shell… turtle power!* 😄👍🏼
2:30 2:36 the beach and coastline is just soo gorgeous I love how blue the water is!
Me too :)
You are so inspirational! Thank you for being you and keep going! 😍
Thank you so much 😍
Great video of you demonstrating resilience! Well done.
Thank you!
THANK YOU Phoebe for being so transparent. Your beautiful inside and out!! 💝😍👏🏻👍🏻🙏🏻
🥹♥️ thank YOU for watching and sending so much love my way
the floaty breakfast in the pool is soo nice 😋 all the fresh fruits. their mangosteens really delicious soo sweet
Love your channel Phoebe! Your dedication to your craft shows and I remember the first vid I watched I thought you were from pro TV show like 'Getaway' ....but a better version! Your on camera presence and the content is always captivating . Thanks for your honesty and vulnerability. I'm also a perfectionist and yes it can also be my downfall especially when expectstions are high even when it comes to washing dishes. I guess that's what happens when you grow up in a Chinese Restaurant. Hats off to you for soldering on! It can't be easy to get things right when the weather is soo hot. You proved that you are a classier person by walking away. I would have given them an absolute earful! Keep up the awesome job!! Much love!!
Oh my gosh 🥹♥️ thank you so much. It’s so good to know I’m not the only one that feels the way I do! Thank you for the lovely comment and all the support 😊🙏🏼♥️
Absolutely amazing how down to Earth you are. You be you. Our first day was GWK and Uluwatu Temple and I'm glad it wasn't just us because we were exhausted. They are both big sites and mixed with the heat, it's no wonder you were exhausted. We stopped for Luwak Coffee after the temple and it was exactly what was needed. I couldn't even take all of Uluwatu Temple in because I was so exhausted. So don't worry. Your VLOGS are honest and amazing. And that takes guts. Hoorah to you.
That is so lovely of you, thank you 🥹 it is sooo good to hear you were exhausted too. I thought I was just being a wimp but WOAH those two massive places combined with the heat is just exhausting. Thanks for the love and kindness - it means the world ♥️🙏🏼
You are indeed one of the most beautiful parts of this world, I hope you have pleasant days in the future 🌹🤍
That’s so nice of you 🙏🏼 thank you
Don't be upset be proud of yourself others are envious of your achievements. Always enjoy what you are happy doing at. ❤️❤️
Thank you x
the hotel you stayed at is truly beautiful!! the overlooking pool looks gorgeous 😍
Your authenticity is so refreshing and resonates personally with me as I too have struggles with anxiety.
Don't let the negative thoughts hold you back, you are doing great!
Oh, thank you so much. Honestly, it was hard when I was editing this video not to edit out all of me talking about my feelings. It's hard to see what you're saying as valid or even remotely interesting, you know?! Reading you comment is just confirmation I need to not be scared and just keep being myself and sharing :) Thank you x
Well doen Phoebe. To analyse, push through and realise the personal challenge before you is both noble and inspirational. Keep growing and exploring yourself! Life as a YT'er is not easy as it requires introspection and self-determination. You've had a lot of change lately. Take it slow. Give yourself the time to lean. You're doing great!!!! Love the vids.
You’re so kind, thank you so so much 😊♥️ Happy New Year!
Thanks so much for taking us along with you on your visit to Bali... I have really enjoyed this vlog and your content is truly going from strength to strength. When a new video pops up on your channel then it always brings a smile and I always look forward to watching it. I am sorry to hear of your struggles with anxiety and hope that things get easier. I have been there and know that fight. I am curious to know your take on the ease of travelling around Bali for anyone who is not a motorbike rider. How difficult it is to get around without a motorbike outside the main tourist centres?
oh gosh! Reading your comment put a huge smile on my face this morning :) Thank you so much. Yes, so it can definitely be a little more tricky if you don't hire a scooter (which is a very smart and safe decision). Grab is hit and miss because the drivers can be a bit dodgy, in my experience, and try to rip you off. If you have the budget, the safest, easiest thing to do is to hire a driver for the day or just for the days you plan to go out exploring. They take you everywhere you want to go, they wait for you, it's a pre-determined rate and it's just EASY. You can usually get a driver for the day through your hotel or you can organise one when you get there (literally every 2 minutes someone will yell 'TAXI! TRANSPORT!' at you) You'll just need to haggle to negotiate the rate.
@@travelforphoebe Amazing thanks so much for the super informative and detailed info on this, which has definitely made me think again about adding Bali to my travel wish list! I'm sorry for the late reply... the load shedding has been bad here in South Africa the last few days and we haven't had much electricity... I am exploring car hire as an option too, although from the videos I have seen it looks like Bali driving is not for the faint-hearted. I am excited as ever for the next video 🙂
Girl. You reacted like we all would by being hurt at first, and then reacted like we all hope we would by realizing just how miserable and insecure that lady must have been to be such a biotch. That kind of meanness comes from deep within someone and ain’t nobody got time for that. You’re beautiful inside and out and some people aren’t, and they lash out like that out of jealousy and misery. You keep doing you cause you’re amazing. ❤
♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ than you again love, your comments were so helpful x
Great video great content as usual keep up the good work mate
Thank you so much ♥️🙏🏼
Life is better at the beach & Bali have plenty to offers!
Flying there in a couple of days, exciting adventure ahead~ Cheers
So true!!
Never get wrong on you at first time I saw you , your video, on my first comment. YOUR SO FRAGILE .. I can see it on your eyes .. 1. Learn to relax 2. Control 3. Try to take life slowly..good luck .. 🙏
Thanks for watching 🙌🏻
This is so raw and i love it and I’m about to stay 2 nights at uluwatu hence stumbled upon your video, keep being you ❤
Oh, thank you so much, I hope you have the BEST time!! Get down to the beach, okay :)
You are bringing so much joy! Your experience traveling alone and showing such amazing experiences really make us want to go for it! Keep it up! 😊
🥰 oh thank you Tess!! Nothing quite like solo travel to force you to grow huh 😂
You’re doing great, I’m rooting for you.
I appreciate it 😍 thank you
Thank you for being so open and honest. 💕
🥹♥️ thank YOU for watching
Awesome vlog! Since you are on your own the videos are getting so much better. They reflect your identity and are more authentic. I really enjoy watching and taking part on your Journey. ❤❤❤
Thank you so much!!😊🙏🏼♥️
You are still so young and you will grow in wisdom a lot over the next years and even decades. You will get to a point where others opinions of you wont throw you off anymore and that is a liberating place. The mean lady who criticised you? Try not to take it personally because its not actually even about you. It is about the lady herself and what ever judgements and things that are going on in her own mind. You are selfaware and are wanting to grow in terms of personal development so this will hold you in good steed.
Thanks for watching and for the kind words of support! :)
You're doing great. Keep up the good work 😃
Thank you so much 😍
i think you are one of the funniest persons and so full of life awesome character in yt travel vlog i've seen before full of confidence, keep going nevermind 🙏👍👍
Oh my gosh 🥹♥️ ahhhh! Thank you so much! You made my day!
@@travelforphoebe suksma mewali 😊👍👍
I subbed to this channel to get info on Aussie and NZ…got that and better: discovered an absolutely amazing human being who, though you don’t know me, feels like a friend. Your bravery and courage in starting and building this channel (& your life!) pale in comparison to that which you showed in this video. Revealing your heart and overcoming your anxieties and fears during the bad times is something for which you should be proud. I, like you and almost all of us, experience similar moments in our lives. Things aren’t going to be “perfect” and instead feel out of control. It’s how we bounce back and “get up” that truly reveal our character. And yours is quite beautiful and full of courage. Persevere through it! And know you’re never alone. You’ve got family, friends, and all of us here online who can’t wait to see and share in your next adventures-both those abroad and in your self. Looking forward to next week to see where “we” (through you) get to go next!
I loved reading your comment this morning - thank you for sharing so much kindness with me. Hearing/reading that I'm not alone in experiencing this stuff has been so powerful for me. I'm just realising as I type this that knowing I'm not the only one who experiences it is soothing my anxiety! Thank you x
You absolutely smashed it, like I know you would. Content creation is hard, physically and mentally exhausting. Thank you for sharing, you don’t know how inspiring you can be!
Oh thank you sooooo much James 😊🙏🏼
You can do hard things!
It really is amazing!! Thank you 😊🙏🏼
In Bali travelling with my family remembering how much I loved travelling on my own😉
Hahahahha 😍🙏🏼
Believe in yourself. You know you are the best and keep pushing through 'coz you are great at what you're doing ☺️
Thank you so so much ♥️
As someone who struggles with anxiety, I can so relate to everything you're feeling, but be assured your vlogs are amazing, really informative,great content, and well edited. Please don't let other people destroy any peace you find,
It never fails to amaze me how horrible people can be, but remember, that's just a reflection of who they are and a display of their insecurities.
Keep doing what you're doing. You're doing great and inspiring so many.
Keep on smiling. Be a little kinder to yourself. Remember, it's ok not to be ok.Hope you have a great Christmas 🎄 🎅🙏
Thank you so much 😍🙏🏼 I really appreciate you sharing such a lovely message. Wishing you a wonderful Christmas xx
Next months my BF first time go out from his comfort zone n with he anxiety and our first time met ( 2,5 years long distance relationship ) n planning met up at Bali 🥰 His anxiety day by day more n more can't control but i keep support him if everything will be okay .. and i hope u will be okay too n happy ( i dm u on insta 😊 )
Sorry to hear, Phoebe. One day at a time, remember that. You’re having fun while working, that’s all it is!
Thank you so much love ♥️♥️♥️
@@travelforphoebe and people who take the time to make others feel that way are the ones you should care about the least. Misery loves company. Turn your nose up and keep on with whatever you’re doing. Keep that in mind, next time you get that feeling/look from someone
Man that women is mean, but glad that you got over it! Because you bring so much joy to people with your content including myself. Your travel content makes me happy especially those countries I've been before , it jog those fun and happy times travelling!
Support from Malaysia 🇲🇾 keep up the good work!
Thank you 🙏🏼
the food at the hotel looks soo good 😋 you're soo brave traveIing by yourself 😊❤
hahaha it's SO good for the soul!!
New subscriber here. You're doing great. Love your Bali videos 😊👍🏻
Ahhhh 🥰🥰🥰 thank you soooo much!
A little rest will make you feel better. Keep doing what you do best! I love your videos so no shame in feeling you are ‘failing’ when in fact you are just experiencing Life as it is. Bad or Good. Downs or Up. I love all the Beautiful shots of Bali! Stay Positive! Always!😊❤
thank you so much :)
You are doing amazing Phoebe -- I am a recovering perfectionist myself who lives in Melbourne and I understand, I hear you and see you. My support comes a year later - I hope you are feeling stronger and grounded in your beautiful self. I watched a tonne of Bali videos before I came across you. This is my favourite video so far - thank you for being willing to be vulnerable, for being authentic and BRAVE. Allow me to share something that has helped me -- be your best everyday; just remember that your best looks different every day. Take care and be well. who knows, we may run into each other somewhere in the world 🩷p/s: my son has hijacked my YT account and renamed it 😝sending lots of love to you, J
Love the video and know the feeling💛 Thank you
Thank you so much ♥️
Cool video, keep it up and dont listen to negative thingss... cheerrrsss ❤❤❤❤
Thanks for watching :)
You are the best..keep travelling..keep exploring!
Thank you so much 🙏🏼
Hello Phoebe, Harriet and I truly love the human being that you are. We've had our rough starts too. But every time you get to the other side to good. You are stronger for it. We think we can speak
for the community and say that we support you 100%. Reach out to us if you need our help in some way. Most important is that you have fun in what you're doing. Sending you much love ❤❤❤ from Harriet, Jim and Yuki. Richmond, Va.
You’re both so kind and so supportive ♥️ thank you for all the love and warmth you give me!
Darling, the mean Australian woman was so jelly of your beauty and your freedom! Much love to you ♥
🥹🙏🏼 thank you love
I will say this... Its not about being perfect, but being 'good enough as you are' already. The reason I watch you is, because you are so genuine.. thats hard to find nowadays. Im sure alot agree with me.
And btw: just just ignore the few negative people (usually its just envy). You have way more to live for.
Again: Take care. God bless you 🙂.
Oh wow I really appreciate that 😍 it’s comment like yours that I think of when things get tough. Thank you
Just happened across this video. I think you've very brave and absolutely loved this video. Wishing you all the best 🫂💙
Oh thank you so much for watching 🙏🏼 and for the kindness. Have a great week ahead.
Mkacih udh brkunjung ke Bali Indonesia 🇮🇩🙏👍✌❤😊😍
Thank you for coming in Bali
keep up the spirit Phoebe, I'm a new subscriber
Welcome!!! So happy to have you here and thank you 🙏🏼
❤❤❤❤❤ Thanks so so much for sharing your experience. You have given me the words I’ve always needed. It’s not so much the fear of failure but the desperation fuelled anxiety to be perfect first time. I watched with tears and joy cheering you on 🎉🎉🎉🎉 again thank you 🙏🏾 ❤
Oh my gosh you summed that up perfectly ♥️🙏🏼 so glad to hear you experience this too. It’s comforting to know I’m not the only one. Thank you for the love and support
Keep it going ! My wife and I love your vlogs! Bad days happened!
Thank you SO much :) Grateful for the bad days cos they teach us the most, right?! :D
Keep your head up your content is amazing
Thank you so so much ♥️🙏🏼
What would that perfection get you in life? Why do you accept the impossible as your standard? Does anyone you know or know of ever achieve living in perfection. What negative consequences would come from being a perfect human in a world of imperfect humans? Keep going, this struggle is necessary to move through the process of living. I'm about to start my solo travel journey after 4 1/2 years of going through what you are going through mentally. Thank you for your honest content. Your honesty is far more valuable than your ability to be perfect, IMHO. Keep going! I'm a fan!
Oh you’re so kind 😍 I really appreciate everything you shared and all the kindness and support! Thank you ♥️ so glad to have you watching and being part of this journey
Hey Phoebe, I have watched this episode and the other you visited monkey forest. U mentioned u were afraid of monkeys, I can totally relate, yet you were very brave to continue filming and holding a monkey(the other episode) though u were scared. And I have watched quite some videos here and I love the way you tell your travelling story, you are a great story teller ❤
Hello Phoebe. You are the one who go out there and bring us excellents videos on discovering the beauty of the world😀. I like it. All my thanks and my respect for that. You are doing a very good job👍 . Easier to say than to do, but please try not to pay attention to those with narrow mind and short sight. They bring nothing good. With time, i am sure you will get even more confortable doing all this filming on your own, far from home.
Wow, thank you so much 😊🙏🏼
I've said it before, and I'll say it again, girl, you are a rock star, so don't let people like that get you down. I travel on my own and am so self conscious just taking a selfie, so how you make a video is amazing. You do you and forget the haters, we luv ya and that's all that matters.....Team Phoebe 💞
ahhh I'm SO glad you get it haha I was already jittery just thinking of taking the photos of myself that when they were laughing at me it was like confirmation of all the bad things I thought about myself. Anyway, I'm grateful for the challenge and the chance to push through it :) Thank you for the love and support x
Happy thought create happy content. And always remember there is a thing call editing. If you don't like what you do today, you can always redo it the next day until you are happy with the result. But always remember, nothing is perfect in this world. As long as whatever you create has your identity in it, you are doing great.
Thank you so much ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Well you r not alone 😂 my partner and I went to Bali (before Covid) and were so overwhelmed by the cultural and aesthetic differences between Australia and Indonesia that apart from one guided tour and one venture into town on foot we opted to stay within the relative safety and comfort of our resort…within our comfort zone so to speak ..
It’s definitely a sensory overload 😂
Bali is my first solo travel and its the best one in my life. I think People who cannot do this on their own are dependent on others.
i been tryin to recall if i had seen u before somewhere. and yep. BLAKE LIVELY.
Omg! Thank you 🥰
There’s always cruel people everywhere, the main things is always wish them to be a good and nice person when they meet the next person after they met you. I will be good for you. Have fun!
So true! 🙏🏼
You did well, stay positive and be happy. greetings from Kendari, Indonesia ☺
Thank you! 😃
Ughh I hate that you experienced such a rude encounter. It really is sad that someone felt the need to do that. It can be so intimidating vlogging and taking photos in public, but you are doing amazing, we are so proud of you getting out there and doing the thing! One of my teachers growing up asked us this question and it's stuck with me over the years "is this something that is going to matter to me in 5 years? 10 years?" And when I think of things that way, it helps me not hold onto the negativity as long as I would normally. I think it's so important to feel what you need to feel, go through all the emotions but don't let it linger to long and bring you down too much. You are out there doing what makes you happy AND bringing so much joy, knowledge and light to others who look forward to seeing your face and your gorgeous photos! (They really are stunning! And GOALS 🙌) Keep up the good work, we are all cheering you on!
Wowwww okay that’s a life changing way to look at it! Thank you sooo much for taking the time to share as you did, it’s so helpful ♥️♥️♥️
happy bali.
eat, love, play, relax
Selamat datang di Bali (Indonesia) my sister, enjoy youre trip
Thank you 🙏🏼
It is okay not to be okay and ignorance is bliss sometimes. That lady was not nice and I think it needs brave person to travel solo, especially for female traveler. I am specifically following your channel because you are female solo traveler and I am very inspired by your content. Keep going girl! 🤗💪🏻 Warm greetings from Indonesia 🇲🇨 and I hope u will have nice time in our country at the places u will visit next 💕💕
Ps: I love ur hotel at Uluwatu and would love to try massage there one day 😍
That's so kind of you :) Thank you SO much for the lovely comment. Phoebe x
Hey Phoebe, fellow Australian here stumbling upon your videos. I'll also be embarking on a 2.5-week solo journey in Bali next year in Feb and I love how authentic your video presents Uluwatu! Also, I love seeing the growth you experienced in the matter of a day! Absolutely no substitute for solo-travelling and how much it develops you as a person. Love your content, keep up the good work, forget anyone else who says otherwise (:
Solo travel truly is unreal huh! It’s amazing how it can challenge and transform you 😊 have a wonderful time prepping for your trip! I’ve got four more Bali vids to come 😍 thanks for the kindness too
Hi Phoebe, I'm a Filipino-Australian, and I can say you're doing just great! Just keep active through your vlogs, and you'll be okay. I used to travel across Australia by myself too, and that's the way to go. But, sooner or later, everything will fall into place, as long we stay positive and happy. :)
You’re so kind! Thank you so so much 😊
Also, I am right there with you on the control. Through lots of therapy, I’ve realized that my want of control comes from a fear of failure. But the fact is, at the end of the day and at the end of our lives, we only have to make ourselves proud. Because our thoughts and beliefs about ourselves are the only ones we can control, no one else’s. Like you said, let it go, regroup, and make yourself happy. Easier said than done most days but work on it every day and it’ll get easier. You’ve got this! 💪🏼
YES! The fear of failure, that’s exactly it. What an incredibly insightful comment. Thank you so much for taking the time to share and do it such a…. I don’t know how to describe it… it’s like you shared it but didn’t force anything or push anything, you know? I appreciate it so much!
You're awesome keep doing what you're doing
So kind of you 🙌🏻
@@travelforphoebe I subbed to your channel as we are going to Noosa and Byron in Feb any must dos?
Loads of tips in our Noosa and Byron videos on the channel for you 😊🙌🏻
Girl, I feel for you! Thank you for being so honest! I just came back from Bali on a solo trip (from Australia), for a week in Nov this yerar. And 5 years also visited bali Solo and next year moving to Bali solo! It's normal to feel a bit confused, out of place, uncomfortable because you are unfamiliar about the place. I just ask questions and make friends. I try to not take it to heart or put pressure on myself. The locals are friendly and always so helpful, even tourists are super friendly too. I've never come across really rude people in Bali so I'm so sorry you had to experience those comments from the girls!
If I heard those comments from girls talking about me taking pics solo, I would have gone up to them and ask them why do they have the need to say that about someone and wished them a nice day LOL! Literally says so much about them and the fact that they clearly can't enjoy their own company to talk bad about you for having a great day and taking photos! Mind boggles me!
I've travelled a lot solo and do things alone a lot, it's definitely a thing the more you practice, the more you feel so at home and comfortable in your own company. You learn how to trust yourself, develop confidence and you figure so many things out alone and become so much stronger along the way!!
Love how honest this video was, stay true to yourself, keep pushing your comfort zone and this feeling will be a thing of the past and it will be soo normal girl!!
What a lovely comment 🥰♥️ thank you so much for taking the time to share so much love and support and insight!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️ so kind of you
Thank you for this video! It is goood vibe and dope! Made my day! You are very beautiful lady! Love and light!
Thank you so much 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Sending Big Hug and love from SG. You are awesome, Phoebe! ❤
Thank you so much :) it means the world xx
You are always special!!!
♥️ thank you
Phoebe,I totally understand how you feel on those moments because I have been going through the exact same process as you do... Being perfectionist just worn me out so badly and it drains all my energy...When I go through these moments I just drop what I do and focus on my well being because at the end of the day you are on your own..
That’s exactly it! It drains ALL your energy! 😩 and then you focus so hard on trying to fix that… and it takes you a while to realise… you’re being a perfectionist about trying NOT to be a perfectionist 😂 a cruel cycle!
Oh wow amazing video but partly sad too, you are a strong 🌹 beautiful aussy woman you went to bali yourself, that's a great thing, you just need to be grateful a lot, meet a lot of people, smile to the locals, all will love you and take care of you, as an Indonesian, I suggest to be firm to the locals who do scams, You can take a photo of their license plate and face and report to the hotel later hotel follow up if necessary, don't worry, in Bali and Indonesia, all respect tourists, especially women. May you enjoy a trip to Bali, let go of all the sadness and shout loudly if it makes you free 😊
Found your channel today and I just love your work, i know how difficult it is to make a travel video as I’m also a travel vlogger, you are doing amazing work and you got a new subscriber😊🙌🏻
Wow! Thank you SO much 😊🙏🏼♥️
Don't let these low life people distract you from what you are doing Phoebe. It takes guts to do what you do and in places you do them. Keep Calm and Carry On Vlogging!!
When you feel travelling alone, there many people are waiting for your video. Cheers😃🍻
Thank you SO much :)
Focus your efforts on the things within your control and just accept what is not. no matter how upset we get, or frustrated we get, we cannot change the things outside the reach of our control. A life of attempting to control the uncontrollable with undoubtedly be one of bitterness, frustration and wasted effort.be happy and well.
🙏🏼 thank you
Hi cute lady... Just enjoy your life your trip whatever you have done thru is worth it, just feeling so grateful sis, God bless you... Keep on stronger and smile 😁, may God bless you with save and health... Aamiin 🤲🙏😘💖🇲🇨
That’s so lovely of you 🙏🏼 thank you
Yep! We believe you..Chin up!❤
😍🙏🏼 thank you
It takes a lot of courage to travel alone. Those who talks bad about you just don't have the courage to travel alone. My wife passed away 3 years ago, till today I still don't have the courage to travel alone. You are way better than many of us. It is very tiring to live on others criticism. Just be yourself and do what you like. Care less of what others think of you and you will shine on whatever you do 😊😊😊😊😊😊
Thank you for sharing so much ♥️ sending you lots of love and good wishes and blessings for Christmas and the new year 🙏🏼
Hai ...👋 happy to see your content
Thank you so much 🙂
Looks like paradise to me Phoebe compared to fickle Melbourne weather we are currently having ( four seasons in one day ) 😂. This is such a wonderful video and inspiring in every way. Keep up the great travels 😊
Hahahaha thank you so much!!