I’ve lost count the amount of times I have come out of a hairdressers and felt like going into hiding as I hated what had been done to my hair. Well done Jess for being honest and letting them know you didn’t like it. I always smile & say it looks lovely before running home. I think your hair looks lovely now, & it will lighten as time goes on. Sorry about your grandad. Sending you lots of love ❤️
It’s a silly thing to say but actually telling your hairdresser that what they’ve done isn’t what you’ve asked for is BRAVE! I have a full fringe and went to a new place for a simple trim and came out with LAYERS in my fringe and thanked him, paid and sat in the car and cried 😂 sometimes I think hairdressers do something wrong then try to convince you that it’s what you asked for/suits you better so seriously well done for saying something! Happy birthday for tomorrow Jess 🎉
Jess you are a lovely, genuine hooman bean! I am so glad you gave the hairdresser your honest opinion! Don't ever feel like you have to apologise for how you feel or your emotions. I'm sure that many people watching will gain something from this. . . . It certainly gave me the reminder that it's OK to get stuff out......in fact it's good for the soul. Big hugs to you and yours with everything going on, and please know that you are helping people too. Whether it's a bit of escapism for us, or a reminder that no ones life is roses and hearts all the time, we aphreciate you. Xxx
Your hair looks fantastic now Jess. When you first had it done, it was the straw that broke the camels back, with all your emotions coming out. So sorry to hear about your grandad. Sending love and hugs to you and your family. Happy 30th Birthday for tomorrow Jess. Hope you have a lovely day! My son is 17 on Tuesday... 🎊🥳
Your hair looks lovely and you look as beautiful as you always do! I'm just really sorry about your Grandad. My condolences to you and your family. No matter how old they are or what the circumstances it's still a shock and desperately sad when you loose family. Love to you all😢❤
Oh hun, I’m so sorry that he got it wrong. And I completely understand why you would be upset. Big hugs. So sorry to hear about your Grandad. Crying it good no matter what the reason is. 😢❤ And Happy Belated Birthday 🎉
I do wish hairdressers would be honest with their clients and look at the inspiration pictures and say “your hair is not that texture/length/undertone and neither is your skin etc etc so we can get to something approximate but it’ll never look like that”. My hairdresser is a friend, she’s done my hair for over thirty years. Occasionally I’ll take inspirations to her and she’s always completely upfront if it’s achievable with my particular hair/face/skin tone .... never any disappointments! I also lots three-quarters of my hair 2/3 years ago due to Covid, it’s slowly growing back - however, I’ve stopped colouring it or putting any heat on it and what’s there now is in fairly good condition (when all is said and done, any hair longer than three inches, is a reflection of your lifestyle six months previously - what’s coming out of your scalp is not living ..... now you’ve changed your lifestyle, your hair can only get in better and better condition 😉) Having said that, although I know you didn’t like it and it made you feel old - but WOW!!! it really enhanced your skin tone and brought out your eyes ..... final straws and all that though 🤗
I think your hair looks great! I understand why you were disappointed but I do think he gave you something like the picture. That person just has different coloring than you etc but I’m proud of you for going back and getting what you want. I’m also glad you’re going to someone who cares about the health of your hair. It makes a huge difference! Whatever the case, you look great.
I feel for you with the hair disaster. I've a fair few and it just makes you feel rubbish. Your new colour (after he rectified it) is a lot better and suits your complexion. Happy 30th Birthday for tomorrow. I hope you enjoy it after all the stress of the past week!
Oh my god, I’m so pleased he’s sorted it. Gutted for you that it’s been a process, can’t believe how different it was to what you showed him. I’d have cried as well, hair is such a major thing to how we look. Love the colour now it’s all done!
I really like your hair now, I didn't like the grey look. It's understandable to cry because I think hair is a big part of anyone's appearance. Loving your channel 😊❤
We all have a breaking point, don't feel bad for crying. So sorry to hear about your poor grandad, may he have peace until his final day. I've been through a fair bit of bereavement so please feel free to reach out if you need a chat. Stay strong and enjoy your birthday lovely xx
I can understand why you cried Jess, you don't have to apologise. Sorry to hear about your grandad. Happy 30th birthday for tomorrow, i hope you have a lovely day x
Your hair looks better now he’s done it again. Hair is important, don’t feel bad for crying. I’m the same with my hair. Sorry about what you are going through xx
Your hair is lovely it really suits you, I understand that you were upset before natural reaction to the situation. Hope you’re feeling more settled with it now x
Honestly I applaud you for saying you dislike it and being honest. Too often I've not said anything and then left the salon with hair that I hate or just haven't been completely happy with. Don't feel silly for crying over it. You've done the work over the past 6 weeks to get your hair in the right condition to have it done and of course wanted to look good for going out and for your birthday too. I would have cried if it was me too. I'm one of those people who don't really like my appearance at all, I hate the way I look, but do love my hair and always have. It's one of the things I do spend a lot of money on and take care of because it makes me feel good.
Your hair colour now really suits you much more than your old original colour, suits your skin tone, awful thing to have to go through but end results perfect. Happy birthday lovely❤
So sad to see you cry, been there many times. Well Done for saying you didnt like it.I think it looks great now as its more blondie, which is you really. Sorry to hear about your Grandad. Big Hug to you and a very Happy Birthday x
Your really brave to say you didn't like it. I never do that and just hide at home. I know not what you wanted first time. But I liked it at first just needed to be tweeked. Im glad you got it redone. The money pieces look great! X
Don’t feel bad about it! You have every right to say what you feel about your hair. On the other hand like you said it’s just the hair at the end so yeah you will be fine! Happy birthday, have a good day ❤
Sending all the love your way Jess! I rarely comment but I watch all your videos and I feel like you’re one of my pals in a strange way! Hope you have a lovely birthday, and your hair looks great! 💗
Right watched the whole vidio now your hair looks so much better, you can't think you get the exact hair to the picture lovely, with your spending I think because you can't control alot in life right now with your grandad big hug, no word it is just shit x
My heart sank when i saw your hair 😢 bless you jess xx but its lush now . Im so sorry your going through a tough time but thank you for being so real . Xxx and happy 30th birthday
Awwwww Jess big hug from me sweetie 😘😘 deep breath girl ..felt all your emotions ..have a lovely 30th birthday tomorrow 🎉🎉 totally get you on individual celebrations 🎊 😁 enjoy tomorrow xx big love 😘 for grandad and you and all your family xxx
Happy birthday Jess, hope you had a lovely time with Emmanuel. I totally felt for you when you was in tears, I would have been in tears too, and I have been in that position our hair is a big part of us and how we feel, but your hair does look great, either you make it blonder or not 😊 also sorry to hear about your grandfather.
Ya know what Jess I think that colour is sooo much better than all blonde that you had b4 , it looks so much more natural with the darker tones in .. hope you decide to keep it like that , the guy did good he redeemed himself in a big way imo
Aww jess i would have cried my eyes out if i went to the hair dressers and didn’t like what they’d done. I liked the darker root but feel you needed more highlights on top to break up the depth. Plus the pic you used needed the wanded curls to show the colour at its best. Youve done so well with dealing with your grandads health. So much is going on in the background and you continually show up us here in “social-media-land”. Sending hugs to you and your family and hope you enjoyed your birthday 🥳
It’s not a silly thing at all it’s what’s important to you. For me as a plus size girl my identity and the thing I like about myself that’s a comfort blanket is my hair. I’ve had so many hair disasters and cried after thinking because a professional is doing it, it couldn’t possibly go wrong …. Yea right. My latest was when I said just cut 2-3 inches off 6 inches later I now practically have a Bob and hate it I bawled my eyes out so totally get it ❤❤❤❤
Aww bless you Jess, I would have been really upset with the grey as well. It wasn't what you asked for at all. However, absolutely loved the end result was such a gorgeous colour. Have the best birthday tomorrow 🎈🎉😘 xxx
Oh beaut i am glad that the hair turned out better, it does look lovely but i agree and do think that getting it done elsewhere in the future will be better. Also i am so sorry to heard about your grandad, you are a human and its perfectly valid and normal to have these feelings surface. Crying is a okay! Sending hugs your way. You are handling things well.
You do not sound like a spoiled brat!! I have a lot of emotion over my hair as well and hate when it’s messed up. Plus hair is so expensive… we have a right to be upset if it goes badly. Tbh the grey doesn’t suit everyone, I like the way it ended up much better!!
Aww Jess so sorry about your grandad 🙏 I honestly really do like your hair it looks natural with the warm tones , dont forget the colour will lighten after a few washes your very pretty ❤❤❤
I think your hair colour is great, it isn’t such a harsh blonde as before, it has a more natural look and suits your skin tone. You did the right thing by telling the hairdresser you weren’t happy…..very brave. 🥰
Sending hugs jess you were absolutely correct going back it wasn't anything like what you envisaged good on you. Sorry to hear about your grandfather passed away. It's been a roller coaster few days for you. Try and rest, reboot and grieve pet x
Hope yr ok Jess, totally understand being upset over yr hair and if you've other crap going onto its probably triggering the tears even more, best to let it out and hope you feels loads better soon xxx
Thank you Jess I really felt for you I had mine done many years ago and the toner that was put on was the ash I looked like a hag.. lol..and like you I couldn't stop crying I was going threw divorce at the time so it topped me off but I knew a bit of blonde highlight would bring it back for you It looks great so my darling have a wonderful 30th its a special day just for you .xxx
Sadly Jess I have found taking pictures of what we would like our hair to look like is always a disaster as its never like the picture and the picture you took did have a slight grey tint to it but yours was like block of grey at the back and I would have cried also but the good thing is this man wanted to correct it for you and mistakes happen some his fault and sadly yours also as we get a picture in our heads its never real life hair is very important to us we have to look and deal with it every day so glad he sorted it so your happy with it think his a good hairdresser but wires get crossed things happen I went for chestnut colour once and was bright red when I came out and they would not help correct it unless I paid .. So sorry about your Granddad xx
Aww jess ❤ to be honest when you first showed it after the first appointment, I completely agreed with what you said, it was really grey and it instantly aged your hair! I absolutely like it now they lightened it for you, you look gorgeous xx
I get you. I'm trying to freshen up my blonde if it's not right I don't feel like me, and also I want a whole new wardrobe lol I just don't like much of what I have anymore. Trying to get back to feeling confident and best version of me
I think your hair is lovely now, and I know people often go slightly darker for autumn winter and then go lighter in spring. The cut really suits you too. But fair play you were honest, I never have the balls to 😂 Sorry to hear about your Grandad. I think big birthdays are emotional anyway but when you have someone not well and then something in your appearance changes it can tip you over the edge. My 40th was before Xmas in 2021 and my meal was able to go ahead but people were understandably dropping out and I was so stressed I spent the lead up to it crying 😂 the actual day turned out to be great. Happy birthday to you for tomorrow 🎉❤
Hi Jess, your hair looks lovely. With the shadow root it looks more natural and will be better when your hair starts to grow out. I would leave it as it is.
I'm so sorry to hear that you and your family are going through tough times..... It's never easy when a loved one is ill and suffering....... You are not being a wuss getting upset about your hair either...... I've cried many a time after a visit to the hairdressers. I think we walk in with big expectations and when they don't achieve the required result it is so frustrating especially with the prices they charge these days. Your hair does look really nice now and I do agree, not in a horrible way that it did look a bit greyish the first time around xx
Jess I'm exactly like you total blond and the up keep is horrendous! Am thinking about going back to my natural colour of light brown, if your still not happy with the top of your hair get them to put some babylights in down your parting that will lighten the top . Can totally relate hun 😘 ❤xxx
Finally its sorted again thank goodness for that bless your heart now leave it alone for a bit gosh sorry to hear bad news about family member 😢 weve also had news similar about a friend so yeah but we get through it it will pass ive just got home from a day out in brstol celebrating my daughters 17th today popped to zazas i couldnt move was stuffed but well worth it ❤
Sorry to hear about your Grandad.. ♥️There's no way to avoid the way you're feeling about that unfortunately.. Feeling for you xx I actually liked your ashen hair & thought it looked very similar to the pic! I think if you'd washed it yourself & lived with it a while. It looks equally nice now but more like your usual colour! 🙌🏼… I think it was probably a bad time to get your hair done feeling the way you do. You're looking great Jess xx
Aww Jess, I can't believe what they did to your hair. You expect top results when you are going into a salon like that and paying so much. It does look fab now, I think it really suits you. Have a wonderful 30th Birthday 🎉. Tomorrow. Xxx Wo
I absolutely empathise with you re your hair. Same thing happened to me, only with my normal hairdressers and the owner who did it was a complete b1tch when i said i didn't like it and wanted it lighter. (For some reason she changed the root colour of her own bat.) I still go to the salon but a different hairdresser in the salon. I think part of the problem with your hair is that the front parts were soooo light inncomparrison amd nothing to break it up. Contrast and lines were too stark. By the end it looked well on you and the cut suits you. Hope you've had a lovely weekend x
Coconut Oil, on your palms, run your hands thru ur hair, not too much or it'll look greasy, just the right amount will give you a nice sheen, i'm grey, naturally, that's what i use, and my hair looks amazing and my scalp isn't dry/rashy.
It’s awful when you put your faith in a hairdresser and you absolutely hate the result! It’s happened to most of us, I reckon. In my case I went in for a trim (I was growing my hair into a longish bob) and I came out looking like I’d been set upon by apaches! I refused to pay and walked out with wet hair. Our hair is our crowning glory and if it looks awful, we feel terrible! Looks lovely now though it’s been redone ❤️
Your hair looks lovely 2nd time round, a very natural blond. The first attempt was awful, I’d have been crying too. Sorry to hear about your grandad 😔 xx
Aww Jess, my heart was hurting for you, however, your hair is lush now ♥️ Happy Birthday for your tomorrow. I’m sending love for the other things that are going on with you just now ♥️ xxx
You are totally allowed a good cry about your hair. It doesn’t matter if it’s materialistic. If you’re sad about it you are sad about it. I’m so sorry to hear about your Grandpa too- Xxx
Your hair looks lovely now. And its not stupid to cry over, especially when youve dedicated time and effort and money into it looking better. I think not such a bright blonde suits you way better and the maintenance will be easier xxx
Ah Jess, I’m not surprised you were disappointed and upset at the first colour he did. I do like it now it’s been re done. I had a similar experience at a hairdressers years ago, just before a friends wedding and I left the salon, not completely happy. I walked to the loos in the shopping centre I was in, the light was different and it looked grey! I was mortified and I was about 40 at the time and didn’t want to go grey earlier than I should. Luckily, like you, they fitted me in an hr later so I had to hang around town and get it sorted. Luckily I was quite happy with it after thank god and I went to my friends wedding and felt good. Btw no reason to think you shouldn’t have cried, especially when it wasn’t just the hair that upset you, your grandad being so unwell too . Sorry to hear that xx
Awww Jess.. We all have things going on in the background of our lives that we don't share with everyone. Mainly because we don't want people constantly asking us about it. I know you've only mentioned it because we will all be able to see you're not yourself.. Sending love to you and your family at such a difficult time ❤️ As for the hair.. It's a big change, so would have been a shock. I went from being blonde all my life, to brunette last Christmas.. I hated it!!! Still getting used to it now, but I get so many compliments. You're looking fab, and the shampoo is obviously working 😊 Take care sweetie x
Hi Jess .. felt like I had to message you even before the end of your vlog .. totally understand you not wanting a big birthday party .. you paying and doing most the work while others turn up to enjoy your birthday . Quality time with friends is much more important imo !( I sound old now lol) Re your hair .. yes didn’t like the first attempt .. the second looks lovely and strangely your hair looks even longer .. but in my experience if your not 100% happy then you’ll just Carry on trying to convince yourself . Go back especially while he’s not charging more ! I’m finding it really hard to find a good hairdresser.. and I’ve been looking for decades ! Happy birthday for tomorrow.. your beautiful inside and out ! X
I’ve lost count the amount of times I have come out of a hairdressers and felt like going into hiding as I hated what had been done to my hair. Well done Jess for being honest and letting them know you didn’t like it. I always smile & say it looks lovely before running home. I think your hair looks lovely now, & it will lighten as time goes on. Sorry about your grandad. Sending you lots of love ❤️
It’s a silly thing to say but actually telling your hairdresser that what they’ve done isn’t what you’ve asked for is BRAVE! I have a full fringe and went to a new place for a simple trim and came out with LAYERS in my fringe and thanked him, paid and sat in the car and cried 😂 sometimes I think hairdressers do something wrong then try to convince you that it’s what you asked for/suits you better so seriously well done for saying something! Happy birthday for tomorrow Jess 🎉
I think your hair looks great now! I would leave it as it is as you don't want to cause any more damage. You look beautiful Jess. Happy 30th 🎉💕
Jess you are a lovely, genuine hooman bean! I am so glad you gave the hairdresser your honest opinion!
Don't ever feel like you have to apologise for how you feel or your emotions. I'm sure that many people watching will gain something from this. . . . It certainly gave me the reminder that it's OK to get stuff out......in fact it's good for the soul. Big hugs to you and yours with everything going on, and please know that you are helping people too. Whether it's a bit of escapism for us, or a reminder that no ones life is roses and hearts all the time, we aphreciate you. Xxx
Your hair looks fantastic now Jess.
When you first had it done, it was the straw that broke the camels back, with all your emotions coming out.
So sorry to hear about your grandad. Sending love and hugs to you and your family.
Happy 30th Birthday for tomorrow Jess. Hope you have a lovely day!
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Your hair looks lovely and you look as beautiful as you always do! I'm just really sorry about your Grandad. My condolences to you and your family. No matter how old they are or what the circumstances it's still a shock and desperately sad when you loose family. Love to you all😢❤
Oh hun, I’m so sorry that he got it wrong. And I completely understand why you would be upset. Big hugs. So sorry to hear about your Grandad. Crying it good no matter what the reason is. 😢❤
And Happy Belated Birthday 🎉
I do wish hairdressers would be honest with their clients and look at the inspiration pictures and say “your hair is not that texture/length/undertone and neither is your skin etc etc so we can get to something approximate but it’ll never look like that”.
My hairdresser is a friend, she’s done my hair for over thirty years. Occasionally I’ll take inspirations to her and she’s always completely upfront if it’s achievable with my particular hair/face/skin tone .... never any disappointments!
I also lots three-quarters of my hair 2/3 years ago due to Covid, it’s slowly growing back - however, I’ve stopped colouring it or putting any heat on it and what’s there now is in fairly good condition (when all is said and done, any hair longer than three inches, is a reflection of your lifestyle six months previously - what’s coming out of your scalp is not living ..... now you’ve changed your lifestyle, your hair can only get in better and better condition 😉)
Having said that, although I know you didn’t like it and it made you feel old - but WOW!!! it really enhanced your skin tone and brought out your eyes ..... final straws and all that though 🤗
I think your hair looks great! I understand why you were disappointed but I do think he gave you something like the picture. That person just has different coloring than you etc but I’m proud of you for going back and getting what you want. I’m also glad you’re going to someone who cares about the health of your hair. It makes a huge difference! Whatever the case, you look great.
love love love the colour at the end !!! So natural and pretty ❤
You look gorgeous…. New colour and cut really suits you. Keep smiling and enjoy your birthday. Xx
I feel for you with the hair disaster. I've a fair few and it just makes you feel rubbish. Your new colour (after he rectified it) is a lot better and suits your complexion. Happy 30th Birthday for tomorrow. I hope you enjoy it after all the stress of the past week!
Oh my god, I’m so pleased he’s sorted it. Gutted for you that it’s been a process, can’t believe how different it was to what you showed him. I’d have cried as well, hair is such a major thing to how we look. Love the colour now it’s all done!
Also really sorry to hear about your grandad ❤
I really like your hair now, I didn't like the grey look. It's understandable to cry because I think hair is a big part of anyone's appearance. Loving your channel 😊❤
Sorry for what your family are going through . I liked the end result of your hair. Have a fabulous birthday - you deserve it 🥰
You are so Brave!!! I leave the hairdresser with messed up hair to gutless to tell them it's not what I wanted.
We all have a breaking point, don't feel bad for crying. So sorry to hear about your poor grandad, may he have peace until his final day. I've been through a fair bit of bereavement so please feel free to reach out if you need a chat. Stay strong and enjoy your birthday lovely xx
I can understand why you cried Jess, you don't have to apologise. Sorry to hear about your grandad. Happy 30th birthday for tomorrow, i hope you have a lovely day x
Your hair looks better now he’s done it again. Hair is important, don’t feel bad for crying. I’m the same with my hair. Sorry about what you are going through xx
Your hair is lovely it really suits you, I understand that you were upset before natural reaction to the situation. Hope you’re feeling more settled with it now x
Honestly I applaud you for saying you dislike it and being honest. Too often I've not said anything and then left the salon with hair that I hate or just haven't been completely happy with.
Don't feel silly for crying over it. You've done the work over the past 6 weeks to get your hair in the right condition to have it done and of course wanted to look good for going out and for your birthday too. I would have cried if it was me too. I'm one of those people who don't really like my appearance at all, I hate the way I look, but do love my hair and always have. It's one of the things I do spend a lot of money on and take care of because it makes me feel good.
Your hair colour now really suits you much more than your old original colour, suits your skin tone, awful thing to have to go through but end results perfect. Happy birthday lovely❤
So sad to see you cry, been there many times. Well Done for saying you didnt like it.I think it looks great now as its more blondie, which is you really. Sorry to hear about your Grandad. Big Hug to you and a very Happy Birthday x
Your really brave to say you didn't like it. I never do that and just hide at home. I know not what you wanted first time. But I liked it at first just needed to be tweeked. Im glad you got it redone. The money pieces look great! X
Don’t feel bad about it! You have every right to say what you feel about your hair. On the other hand like you said it’s just the hair at the end so yeah you will be fine! Happy birthday, have a good day ❤
Hair looks lovely now 🎉xxx
I love how your hair looks now 😍 sorry to hear you’ve been going through so much, take care Jess x
Sending all the love your way Jess! I rarely comment but I watch all your videos and I feel like you’re one of my pals in a strange way! Hope you have a lovely birthday, and your hair looks great! 💗
Right watched the whole vidio now your hair looks so much better, you can't think you get the exact hair to the picture lovely, with your spending I think because you can't control alot in life right now with your grandad big hug, no word it is just shit x
My heart sank when i saw your hair 😢 bless you jess xx but its lush now . Im so sorry your going through a tough time but thank you for being so real . Xxx and happy 30th birthday
Your hair looks amazing now the colour really suits your skin tone x
Loveee the final result !!Your hair looks gorgeous!!
It's OK to have a bad day now & then, it makes the good days great, popping your grandad in my prayers, sending hugs xxxxxx
Awwwww Jess big hug from me sweetie 😘😘 deep breath girl ..felt all your emotions ..have a lovely 30th birthday tomorrow 🎉🎉 totally get you on individual celebrations 🎊 😁 enjoy tomorrow xx big love 😘 for grandad and you and all your family xxx
Happy birthday Jess, hope you had a lovely time with Emmanuel. I totally felt for you when you was in tears, I would have been in tears too, and I have been in that position our hair is a big part of us and how we feel, but your hair does look great, either you make it blonder or not 😊 also sorry to hear about your grandfather.
Ya know what Jess I think that colour is sooo much better than all blonde that you had b4 , it looks so much more natural with the darker tones in .. hope you decide to keep it like that , the guy did good he redeemed himself in a big way imo
Love the final hair color. Looks very natural!! Happy Birthday Jess!! Hope you have a great year!🎉😊 prayers to your Granddad. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🤗
Sending big hugs Jess 🤗❤ I think your hair looks lovely, very natural and the bits at the front look great. Hope things get better now xx
Aww jess i would have cried my eyes out if i went to the hair dressers and didn’t like what they’d done. I liked the darker root but feel you needed more highlights on top to break up the depth. Plus the pic you used needed the wanded curls to show the colour at its best. Youve done so well with dealing with your grandads health. So much is going on in the background and you continually show up us here in “social-media-land”. Sending hugs to you and your family and hope you enjoyed your birthday 🥳
It’s not a silly thing at all it’s what’s important to you. For me as a plus size girl my identity and the thing I like about myself that’s a comfort blanket is my hair. I’ve had so many hair disasters and cried after thinking because a professional is doing it, it couldn’t possibly go wrong …. Yea right. My latest was when I said just cut 2-3 inches off 6 inches later I now practically have a Bob and hate it I bawled my eyes out so totally get it ❤❤❤❤
Happy Birthday for tomorrow! I really like your hair as it happens. Sorry to hear that your family is going through a tough time x
Aww bless you Jess, I would have been really upset with the grey as well. It wasn't what you asked for at all. However, absolutely loved the end result was such a gorgeous colour. Have the best birthday tomorrow 🎈🎉😘 xxx
Oh beaut i am glad that the hair turned out better, it does look lovely but i agree and do think that getting it done elsewhere in the future will be better. Also i am so sorry to heard about your grandad, you are a human and its perfectly valid and normal to have these feelings surface. Crying is a okay! Sending hugs your way. You are handling things well.
You do not sound like a spoiled brat!! I have a lot of emotion over my hair as well and hate when it’s messed up. Plus hair is so expensive… we have a right to be upset if it goes badly. Tbh the grey doesn’t suit everyone, I like the way it ended up much better!!
Aww Jess so sorry about your grandad 🙏 I honestly really do like your hair it looks natural with the warm tones , dont forget the colour will lighten after a few washes your very pretty ❤❤❤
I think your hair colour is great, it isn’t such a harsh blonde as before, it has a more natural look and suits your skin tone. You did the right thing by telling the hairdresser you weren’t happy…..very brave. 🥰
Your hair is lovely at the end Jess, very natural looking and really suits you better than your old hair colour (before the grey😂) xx
Looks lovely now with the darker root, more natural and suits your skin tone x
I love the colour in the end !!! Its sooo nice xxx
Sending hugs jess you were absolutely correct going back it wasn't anything like what you envisaged good on you. Sorry to hear about your grandfather passed away. It's been a roller coaster few days for you. Try and rest, reboot and grieve pet x
Your hair looks lovely. No wonder you've been crying when your Grandad is so ill. Sending love to you 🥰 xxx
Hope yr ok Jess, totally understand being upset over yr hair and if you've other crap going onto its probably triggering the tears even more, best to let it out and hope you feels loads better soon xxx
Your hair is cute! The fixes look great!
Thank you Jess I really felt for you I had mine done many years ago and the toner that was put on was the ash I looked like a hag.. lol..and like you I couldn't stop crying I was going threw divorce at the time so it topped me off but I knew a bit of blonde highlight would bring it back for you It looks great so my darling have a wonderful 30th its a special day just for you .xxx
Aww Jess, you have had such a rough time, sending lots of love ❤ You know, your hair is lovely! 😍😍😍
Great vlog Jess, sorry to hear about the hair situation . Happy 30th birthday for tomorrow Jess I hope you have a lovely day ! 🥳🎉🍹🎊🥂🍻🍾🫶💕xx
Your hair looks lovely Jess,so it was definitely worth the effort of going back twice. Happy 30th.
Sadly Jess I have found taking pictures of what we would like our hair to look like is always a disaster as its never like the picture and the picture you took did have a slight grey tint to it but yours was like block of grey at the back and I would have cried also but the good thing is this man wanted to correct it for you and mistakes happen some his fault and sadly yours also as we get a picture in our heads its never real life hair is very important to us we have to look and deal with it every day so glad he sorted it so your happy with it think his a good hairdresser but wires get crossed things happen I went for chestnut colour once and was bright red when I came out and they would not help correct it unless I paid .. So sorry about your Granddad xx
Awww bless you it will b fine it’s awful to see you upset take care xx❤
Aww jess ❤ to be honest when you first showed it after the first appointment, I completely agreed with what you said, it was really grey and it instantly aged your hair! I absolutely like it now they lightened it for you, you look gorgeous xx
I don’t mind the more ashy tone it would have washed out nice but the finished hair is nice too!
I get you.
I'm trying to freshen up my blonde if it's not right I don't feel like me, and also I want a whole new wardrobe lol I just don't like much of what I have anymore. Trying to get back to feeling confident and best version of me
I think your hair is lovely now, and I know people often go slightly darker for autumn winter and then go lighter in spring. The cut really suits you too. But fair play you were honest, I never have the balls to 😂 Sorry to hear about your Grandad. I think big birthdays are emotional anyway but when you have someone not well and then something in your appearance changes it can tip you over the edge. My 40th was before Xmas in 2021 and my meal was able to go ahead but people were understandably dropping out and I was so stressed I spent the lead up to it crying 😂 the actual day turned out to be great. Happy birthday to you for tomorrow 🎉❤
Hi Jess, your hair looks lovely. With the shadow root it looks more natural and will be better when your hair starts to grow out. I would leave it as it is.
Grandparents are precious. I’m so sorry hun xxx
I'm so sorry to hear that you and your family are going through tough times.....
It's never easy when a loved one is ill and suffering.......
You are not being a wuss getting upset about your hair either...... I've cried many a time after a visit to the hairdressers. I think we walk in with big expectations and when they don't achieve the required result it is so frustrating especially with the prices they charge these days. Your hair does look really nice now and I do agree, not in a horrible way that it did look a bit greyish the first time around xx
I like the hair It look so much better than before x
Jess I'm exactly like you total blond and the up keep is horrendous! Am thinking about going back to my natural colour of light brown, if your still not happy with the top of your hair get them to put some babylights in down your parting that will lighten the top . Can totally relate hun 😘 ❤xxx
Finally its sorted again thank goodness for that bless your heart now leave it alone for a bit gosh sorry to hear bad news about family member 😢 weve also had news similar about a friend so yeah but we get through it it will pass ive just got home from a day out in brstol celebrating my daughters 17th today popped to zazas i couldnt move was stuffed but well worth it ❤
I loveeee the hair since it had the first wash, just feels more dimensional than your original hair 😍
Your hair looks lovely in my opinion it's better than first time x
Sorry to hear about your Grandad.. ♥️There's no way to avoid the way you're feeling about that unfortunately.. Feeling for you xx
I actually liked your ashen hair & thought it looked very similar to the pic! I think if you'd washed it yourself & lived with it a while. It looks equally nice now but more like your usual colour! 🙌🏼… I think it was probably a bad time to get your hair done feeling the way you do. You're looking great Jess xx
I had that with her refillable lipstick cases, not impressed when the pattern wore off quite soon 😢
I think your hair looks lovely after it was redone Happy birthday 🎂🎈 Sorry to hear about your grandad sending love to you all ❤️
Your hair looks so much better now and more natural 👍
Love your hair now it really suits you, leave it the warmer tones are great for you xx
Well done for not doing that thing we all do saying yeah it’s lovely whilst we’re dying inside. I like how it’s turned out.
Aww Jess, I can't believe what they did to your hair. You expect top results when you are going into a salon like that and paying so much.
It does look fab now, I think it really suits you.
Have a wonderful 30th Birthday 🎉. Tomorrow. Xxx
Wo
Ah its so right your crying , hair is so important to how we feel I would be exactly the same
Your hair looks really good at the end agree with u the 1st one was to grey and needed more like streaky pieces at top and back of your head
The fixed hair looks great! The warmer blonde tone really suits you, hopefully you get used to it .
I absolutely empathise with you re your hair. Same thing happened to me, only with my normal hairdressers and the owner who did it was a complete b1tch when i said i didn't like it and wanted it lighter. (For some reason she changed the root colour of her own bat.) I still go to the salon but a different hairdresser in the salon.
I think part of the problem with your hair is that the front parts were soooo light inncomparrison amd nothing to break it up. Contrast and lines were too stark.
By the end it looked well on you and the cut suits you.
Hope you've had a lovely weekend x
Your hair looks lovely Jess ❤
I love.the hair. I think it looks more natural with all the tones.
Coconut Oil, on your palms, run your hands thru ur hair, not too much or it'll look greasy, just the right amount will give you a nice sheen, i'm grey, naturally, that's what i use, and my hair looks amazing and my scalp isn't dry/rashy.
It’s awful when you put your faith in a hairdresser and you absolutely hate the result! It’s happened to most of us, I reckon. In my case I went in for a trim (I was growing my hair into a longish bob) and I came out looking like I’d been set upon by apaches! I refused to pay and walked out with wet hair. Our hair is our crowning glory and if it looks awful, we feel terrible! Looks lovely now though it’s been redone ❤️
Your hair looks lovely 2nd time round, a very natural blond. The first attempt was awful, I’d have been crying too. Sorry to hear about your grandad 😔 xx
Aww Jess, my heart was hurting for you, however, your hair is lush now ♥️
Happy Birthday for your tomorrow.
I’m sending love for the other things that are going on with you just now ♥️ xxx
You are totally allowed a good cry about your hair. It doesn’t matter if it’s materialistic. If you’re sad about it you are sad about it. I’m so sorry to hear about your Grandpa too- Xxx
I really felt for you when you were so upset, however now I think your hair looks lovely x
Your hair looks perfect now...lovely.
I love you’re hair now ! The ash blond really suits you 👏🤩 so suffocated 👌👍
Babe it looks lovely! After a few washes it will lighten xx
Your hair looks lovely now. And its not stupid to cry over, especially when youve dedicated time and effort and money into it looking better. I think not such a bright blonde suits you way better and the maintenance will be easier xxx
Ah Jess, I’m not surprised you were disappointed and upset at the first colour he did. I do like it now it’s been re done. I had a similar experience at a hairdressers years ago, just before a friends wedding and I left the salon, not completely happy. I walked to the loos in the shopping centre I was in, the light was different and it looked grey! I was mortified and I was about 40 at the time and didn’t want to go grey earlier than I should. Luckily, like you, they fitted me in an hr later so I had to hang around town and get it sorted. Luckily I was quite happy with it after thank god and I went to my friends wedding and felt good. Btw no reason to think you shouldn’t have cried, especially when it wasn’t just the hair that upset you, your grandad being so unwell too . Sorry to hear that xx
Your hair looks great now!!! I do agree when he first did it, it was way too harsh on you. Im sorry you had a bad experience 💔❤️🩹
Awww Jess.. We all have things going on in the background of our lives that we don't share with everyone. Mainly because we don't want people constantly asking us about it. I know you've only mentioned it because we will all be able to see you're not yourself.. Sending love to you and your family at such a difficult time ❤️
As for the hair.. It's a big change, so would have been a shock. I went from being blonde all my life, to brunette last Christmas.. I hated it!!! Still getting used to it now, but I get so many compliments. You're looking fab, and the shampoo is obviously working 😊 Take care sweetie x
Your hair looks lovely. Happy Birthday for tomorrow…we share the same birthday though I’m a fair bit older xx
Hi Jess .. felt like I had to message you even before the end of your vlog .. totally understand you not wanting a big birthday party .. you paying and doing most the work while others turn up to enjoy your birthday . Quality time with friends is much more important imo !( I sound old now lol)
Re your hair .. yes didn’t like the first attempt .. the second looks lovely and strangely your hair looks even longer .. but in my experience if your not 100% happy then you’ll just Carry on trying to convince yourself . Go back especially while he’s not charging more !
I’m finding it really hard to find a good hairdresser.. and I’ve been looking for decades ! Happy birthday for tomorrow.. your beautiful inside and out ! X
I can totally understand you crying . It was not what you wanted but I do really like it now 😊