I'm a what I call a "latebian" - a lesbian that came to her senses later in life. Someone that was in denial about their true sexuality, because of special or religious stigma. Someone that's had relationships with men because "it was the right thing to do...". I was married for 11 years and midway through my marriage I started to come to my senses, realize, that even tho I was married and had kids, that I never really enjoyed sex with a man... I did it because it was expected of me etc.
Yessss new category! And you go girl! I had a woman that came out on my channel that was 55...It's never too late! I hope you have found true happiness❤️🙏🏽
Ambers Closet well I didn't entirely coin it, I got it from author Harper Bliss. As soon as split from my ex husband, I was OUT. I figured, if people have any problems with me being a lesbian, then they aren't meant to be in my life - period! That was 7 years ago. Visible pride tattoo and all! Yes, I'm happy with finally being the true me... Even if I've been single (very single now) more than I've been taken lol
"Oh is that Justin Bieber?" *"No, it's Sarah"* I relate on an emotional level cause I'm Sarah and that happens to me sometimes even though I'm not any type of fluid I'm pretty much a stem
I can already think of a bunch that I missed lol.... What do you guys think of these labels? How would you describe your style/swag, personality or sexuality?
This is the most informative video I have seen. My GF of 16 years passed away in December 2017 and I had no idea about all this. We weren't really involved with the community. But now I feel like I have no idea how to date or talk to another female. Thanks for all the videos!!
I was a bi stim for years, cause I had an on going threat from someone that I let rule over me for years, but now I'm getting a divorce and I'm coming out of the closet a soft stud at the age of 36 years old. I do have 2 kids. But my 7 year old doesn't know what's going on but my 16 year old daughter knows and she supports me all the way. I'm feelin myself now, free to be me, and I love it.
I've been a Lesbian for about 9 years. I've dated two women women during this time. A stem and a stud. I'm glad I accepted myself for who I am after denying what i really like after being married to a man and having kids. I love being a woman that loves women.
aru akise You "let" yourself feel attraction to men?? This is very dangerous conversion therapy-esque rhetoric you are spewing. Yes, for some, sexuallity can be a malleable and fluid experience which seems to describe your situation. But this is the exception *NOT* the rule. It is harmful to tell homosexuals (lesbians and gays) that their orientation can be changed by simply "allowing" themselves to feel an attraction to the opposite sex. MISS me with that regressive bullshit. - Love, A life long lesbian who ~tried~ to be bisexual when she was uncomfortable with who she was
aru Akise Bitch re-read your shit. You said that sexuality is "all in your mind". You claim you were a lesbian since birth THEN you "let yourself" fall for a man. Kinda sounds like you were A BISEXUAL since and birth and didn't allow yourself to date men. DUH
I'm a non-binary(birth sex female). I identify as a Goldstar and a pillow princess. My girlfriend is a touch-me-not, and a Goldstar too. Some of the tags explained here I didn't even know existed. Your smooth explanations nailed them to my brain though😉
zaswerty she dont even get it, I don't even know why she commented and she couldn't just scroll over and not look at the comment, because why even comment when she just going to be rude...
Me: “hmm, I don’t know if I fit into any of these- “The Hippy Lesbian!” Me: “IT’S ME, IT’S ME, MY CATEGORY, I LOVE IT, I LOVE IT! SIGN ME UP. IM HERE. WHERE DO I PICK UP MY T-SHIRT?”
Omg When you started explaining the boi lesbian/genderless you said “is that Justin Bieber oh no it’s just Sara” I laugh because my name is Sara and it’s like an ongoing joke with my friends to call me Justin Bieber 😂
The Tree hugger Lesbian got me. At 'tree hugger' I looked at all the plants in my room. For the description I thought: yep, that's me. But at ' and most of the time, they're vegans' I lost it. Guess I' m gonna introduce myself as a Tree hugger in the future. Even though I might laugh about it more than others.
I love this video ❤️❤️ I love learning the different types of sexuality. I consider myself just bisexual, I dated one girl who was a lesbian, she was the girly type of lesbian but also tomboy ish ❤️ she passed away in 2014 💔 breaks my heart she would of loved your channel.!!
Hey Amber! :) I watch all your vids, rarely comment though. You're inspirational! Love your vids. :) I like to label myself as a chapstick Tomboy, t-shirt + jeans wearing, sporty type of girl, and Goldstar.
I would think of myself as a soft butch for the most part. Baggy clothes, skinny jeans, tank tops, the occasional snapback. Then, on the other side, I'm also gender fluid which I feel sort of makes me a soft butch in my opinion? Also, I'm often the one on the giving end, not the receiving end, even though my ex has tried to go down on me many times but I get more pleasure giving/watching/feeling the other person.
AMBER, YOU DID THAT SHIT!!!! YOU REMINDER ME OF A RAPPER. YOU WERE SPITTING THAT WISDOM!!!!!!!!!!!! AMBER HAD BARS, FOR DAYS, YESSSSSSS. YOU'RE A POET, AND DONT EVEN KNOW IT. GLAD I RAN ACROSS THIS. THANKS FOR EDUCATING ME.........................
Well, I don’t really label myself, but I used to had a crush on a pillow princess who only likes stone butch. And she thinks that stone butch-pillow princess love is the standard lesbian relationship, made me want to roll my eyes on her.
I feel like I fit into the girly tomboy or blue jeans femme more than anything. I’m for the most part a tomboy, I usually don’t wear makeup but I still dress girly and wear makeup from time to time.
I'd say that for me: style has varied between aggressive fem/girly tomboy/chapstick/soft stud (seriously); used to be a touch-me-not until I met my current gf. She's something between a chapstick/butch power lesbian; lonestar and also used to be a touch-me-not before we met. Somehow we manage to balance it all out, though. :D
I’m blue jeans fem so much😂 I act so ‘feminine’ but when people see me they don’t expect it. Thanks for going through the names😊 it’s so annoying when people call me butch !
Hello girls. I'm a straight guy (male - for real , not faking it), came here to get some insight, since I have two 40 something lady friends who are lesbian (well, one is openly lesbian, but they share a life, so by deduction it appears that the other is too. So since I'm not attracted to either (but they are true, good and valuable friends), I became interested in what really makes them tick (we rarely, actually never, talk about this topic, it's like an 'understood, no need to discuss' area, with which we're completely comfortable). So thanks for the video - I could accurately place one (more 'male' oriented), which I've known for a long time, but not so much the other. The other is completely feminine, but tough, and there's no submission in her personality - I'd say hardcore/aggressive (maybe alpha ?) femme. One clue - these two regularly have severe arguments. Perhaps they truly like each other, but may not be an ideal lesbian couple ? Apologies upfront for intruding into your world.
I'm nonbinary and had a lesbian femme id-ing gf for a while and she always tried to use words like "butch" to describe me and our relationship, when I don't id as a lesbian. She tried to impose a role of dominance on me because of the way I like to dress, which is more masculine, and it was really harmful for me mentally. She was basically treating me like someone I wasn't. Needless to say we aren't together anymore but I just wanted to say that to just mention the dangers of too much labeling in the lesbian community because when you try to put everyone in boxes you miss out on people and how much more complex a human being is than "butch". But you seem very nice and informed and all that and ur video was pretty cool. I just had a pretty bad experience with this and I thought I'd share. It can be pretty hard for a person who likes ladies with a v to find people.
I'm confused! On the L word they say a lonestar is someone who has only had sex with one person their entire life! So a lonestar lesbian is a lesbian who has only had sex with one girl. But Amber said it's a lesbian who has had sex with a guy once.
I think it has both meanings....I just looked it up and the top result was "a lesbian who has only had sex with a male once" and the second was "a lesbian who has only slept with or been with one women their whole life"
Ambers Closet oh, cool! It's because me and my friends use that term sometimes in a way of only had had one sexual partner. But it's good to know :) Love you, Amber!
Them arms looking fine...
Gracie Martin just delicious
hench
Af!!!
(☞ﾟ∀ﾟ)☞
Ikrrrr i cant stop looking at it
"Is that Justin Bieber?"
"Oh no, that's Sarah."
LMAO 😂 Girl got me rolling.
More like...
"Is that Justin Bieber?"
"Oh no, it's Ruby Rose..."
Ifykyk
Tf my name Sarah
I'm a what I call a "latebian" - a lesbian that came to her senses later in life. Someone that was in denial about their true sexuality, because of special or religious stigma. Someone that's had relationships with men because "it was the right thing to do...". I was married for 11 years and midway through my marriage I started to come to my senses, realize, that even tho I was married and had kids, that I never really enjoyed sex with a man... I did it because it was expected of me etc.
Yessss new category! And you go girl! I had a woman that came out on my channel that was 55...It's never too late! I hope you have found true happiness❤️🙏🏽
Ambers Closet well I didn't entirely coin it, I got it from author Harper Bliss. As soon as split from my ex husband, I was OUT. I figured, if people have any problems with me being a lesbian, then they aren't meant to be in my life - period! That was 7 years ago. Visible pride tattoo and all! Yes, I'm happy with finally being the true me... Even if I've been single (very single now) more than I've been taken lol
Ambers Closet ✌️✌️✌️✌️
Bliss I feel the same way about myself
Okay I second this too. Hippi lesbian would be like in the lifestyle category
I’m lesbian and I look like the most straight person in the world 😂😂
Margarida Vong my squad 😂😂😂
Sameeee
Same
People told me "you don't look lesbian"😂😭
Same
"Is that Justin Bieber?" Oh no that's Sarah " 😂 Idk why that killed me
same lmaoooo
I think that killed everybody
Hahaha same
It’s so real
Lauryn H. I tho of ruby rose when she said that
"The hippie lesbian"
"Thats not me"
"Usually vegan"
"Damn it"
no cause SAAAAAMMME
"Is that Justin Bieber no its Sarah" I remember that line from Foxy's analyzing lesbian series
Lol yup! I was wondering if someone would pick that up🙌🏽🏆
Yaaaaaaaaaaassss I got them skills
That line made me think of Ruby Rose, I was sure she was going to say that.. Lol
I immediately sent this to my GF cause my name is Sarah and I am often mistaken for a man ha!!!
4:50
*me when I realize I have to talk to girls and ask them out to get a gf*
✨you got this- they like you. ❤️
"Stop by gay town a few times" LMAO.
I'm a Gold star femme lol
"Oh is that Justin Bieber?"
*"No, it's Sarah"*
I relate on an emotional level cause I'm Sarah and that happens to me sometimes even though I'm not any type of fluid I'm pretty much a stem
Sporty stud
Amber's definitely the Alpha lesbian because we all wanna low key flock to her lol😂😂😂
Sooo true! Like, I'm usually into very femme girls, but I'll make an exception for Amber. :D
trueee
Exactly loo
Right like your picture tho
Honestly
I think I am:
Confusion - AMERICA EXPLAIN!
I can already think of a bunch that I missed lol....
What do you guys think of these labels? How would you describe your style/swag, personality or sexuality?
Ambers Closet I love you😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
I'm a Fem Agg!! 😋💘
Hey Babes
Ambers Closet LOL trying to figure out which one of those I am and then it hits you like daaam are there so many. You got me confused at number 3 😅😂😂
Boi lesbian
This is the most informative video I have seen. My GF of 16 years passed away in December 2017 and I had no idea about all this. We weren't really involved with the community. But now I feel like I have no idea how to date or talk to another female. Thanks for all the videos!!
Sooooo we just gonna ignore that Amber is SWOOOOLE and glistenin??? I 👏🏾SEE👏🏾YOU👏🏾
What about those edgy skater chics??!
Agressive Femmes
Arielle Scarcella
what about them tho??
Arielle Scarcella
Te beso toda
Yess 😍😍😍
Hahaha an unexpected answer from another UA-camr 🤣🤣🍾
I was a bi stim for years, cause I had an on going threat from someone that I let rule over me for years, but now I'm getting a divorce and I'm coming out of the closet a soft stud at the age of 36 years old. I do have 2 kids. But my 7 year old doesn't know what's going on but my 16 year old daughter knows and she supports me all the way. I'm feelin myself now, free to be me, and I love it.
Jessica Travis live your truth ‼️‼️‼️‼️
you sound confused .. and seem you turn gay coz you heart broken lol get a life
@@nolbertkatsande6982 wtf dud?!
Hope your daughter truly understand what's really going on. She will need a counselor.
Jessica Sustaita no you u just changed of ruler now you will be a slave to gay sex
I've been a Lesbian for about 9 years. I've dated two women women during this time. A stem and a stud. I'm glad I accepted myself for who I am after denying what i really like after being married to a man and having kids. I love being a woman that loves women.
Carmelitta Harris What were you before 9 years ago lol
Glad too see this
aru akise You "let" yourself feel attraction to men?? This is very dangerous conversion therapy-esque rhetoric you are spewing. Yes, for some, sexuallity can be a malleable and fluid experience which seems to describe your situation. But this is the exception *NOT* the rule. It is harmful to tell homosexuals (lesbians and gays) that their orientation can be changed by simply "allowing" themselves to feel an attraction to the opposite sex. MISS me with that regressive bullshit.
- Love,
A life long lesbian who ~tried~ to be bisexual when she was uncomfortable with who she was
aru Akise Bitch re-read your shit. You said that sexuality is "all in your mind". You claim you were a lesbian since birth THEN you "let yourself" fall for a man. Kinda sounds like you were A BISEXUAL since and birth and didn't allow yourself to date men. DUH
Carmelitta Harris. That's sad and pathetic. smh. Sorry for the kids.
im a gay boy...what am i doing here?!🤔
Looking after your sisters hahah
Run for your life. Can I run with you? Haha
Hmu❤️ 18762149188
@BlazeiX hmu😭❤️ 8762149188
So damn good and I learned stuff!!
So I’m a blue jeans, hippy lesbian
I almost spit out my black bean burger when she said "they're typically vegans"
"is that justin bieber?"
"no its sarah"
killed me lmao
I'm bisexual / stem/ Androgynous
Tanaja Sanford thats me too
T Mystery she catch pussy to stfu
@@tmystery9505 fuck offff
Youre hot is what you are
You can't be bi and then use a term that is for lesbians
Gold star💫 ⭐️🌟checking in 🙌🏽we the unicorns of the lesbian community
Yo I'm androgynous and touch me not, like people legit ask if I'm a boy or girl.
I find aggresive femmes sexy af and scary at the same damn time.
😂😂why I’m here and I’m str8...
(Damn these females too fine🤤)
"straight" ok yeah yeah....
yeet kill me 😂
Crypt lol... it okay to drop by and visit n Peak... be careful Curiosity killed the cat😻😻😻😹😹🙀🙀😸😸😸😻😻
Anacany Perez lmao 🤣🤣🤫I’ll keep that in mind 😊
Same but I'm a curious one and like to feed my brain with new things. So im like f it ill watch this vid.
I'm a non-binary(birth sex female). I identify as a Goldstar and a pillow princess. My girlfriend is a touch-me-not, and a Goldstar too. Some of the tags explained here I didn't even know existed. Your smooth explanations nailed them to my brain though😉
Titiksha P yall are good for each other😂😂
Non binary is not a thing.
damn guess i don't exist then lmao. supreeta bitch please mind your own business lmaooooo
zaswerty whatever helps you sleep at night sweetie
zaswerty she dont even get it, I don't even know why she commented and she couldn't just scroll over and not look at the comment, because why even comment when she just going to be rude...
blue jeans, tomboy, goldstar
Definitely "aggressive femme" 😅
U can b them ALL😂👏🏽
@@AmbersCloset im between girly tomboy and blue jeans but im pansexual hope thats ok
Me: “hmm, I don’t know if I fit into any of these-
“The Hippy Lesbian!”
Me: “IT’S ME, IT’S ME, MY CATEGORY, I LOVE IT, I LOVE IT! SIGN ME UP. IM HERE. WHERE DO I PICK UP MY T-SHIRT?”
🤣😂
Hello Alli am witty
I kinda fit into soft stud, Blue Jeans, alpha, tomboy... getting confused at the moment. Lol.
Amber, you're just amazing 😉
I'm a lipstick("hard" femme) lesbian but I like other lipstick lesbians or cute butch lesbians...I don't know why I said that but I did...😂😂
Amelie But Aesthetic Same. Aggressive Femme and I like other femmes.
I would describe my sexuality as a blue jeans fem😂😂 love u amber💖
Sophia Moller same!
Hahaha that's also what I thought. Def the one who that fits most to me, in combo with a typical femme sometimes
There's also the artsy lesbian which is kinda like the hippie but more creative and underground
Love how she brought back the Sarah from analyzing lesbians😂😂
Omg When you started explaining the boi lesbian/genderless you said “is that Justin Bieber oh no it’s just Sara” I laugh because my name is Sara and it’s like an ongoing joke with my friends to call me Justin Bieber 😂
Aggressive femme
Raegan Swartz MAY THE SWARTZ BE WITH YOU!!
Raegan Swartz please understand that THEY DON'T MAKE YOU AT ALL!!!
Hey I'm bisexual and a girl😉😊
🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️
Me too
Same!
Yay, we luv bisexuals too.. they should have been honorably mentioned in this video lolz..
@@pearldrumgirl yeah I felt a lil bad that she didn't:(
Damn it, I guess I am Hippy/Chapstick lesbian.
Kate Wilson me toooo
Idk why but that just really hit my funny bone. ^_^ Screw chapstick though, organic shea butter is the way I roll. :D hahahaha
Love this.. I am bisexual and only knew of fems, studs and butch. So thank you for breaking it down for me 😉
The Tree hugger Lesbian got me.
At 'tree hugger' I looked at all the plants in my room.
For the description I thought: yep, that's me.
But at ' and most of the time, they're vegans' I lost it.
Guess I' m gonna introduce myself as a Tree hugger in the future.
Even though I might laugh about it more than others.
definitely an AG fem, gold star, hippy, & activist lesbian. omw to power lesbian. a mouthful haha.
I love this video ❤️❤️ I love learning the different types of sexuality. I consider myself just bisexual, I dated one girl who was a lesbian, she was the girly type of lesbian but also tomboy ish ❤️ she passed away in 2014 💔 breaks my heart she would of loved your channel.!!
Damn...
How about a fan lesbian a girl who is straight but crushing on Amber!!! 😁😁🤣🤣🤣💖💖👍👍👍 lovvveee u....no disrespect to your girl I love her too!! 😘😘😘
The hippy I think is now the cottagecore lesbian
I'm the lonestar lesbian 😂
Goth and rockabilly too.
Hardcore femme
lalakittyluv idgaf
As a chapstick bisexual, I gotta say it--you're beautiful. :)
Um excuse her she knows she's dreamy af stop playin'. 😍😍😍
Thank yooouuu. I'm new in the lesbian community and I had no idea what category I would fit in until now!
New sub, you amazing person!
Yo I'm hella early love you amber ❤️
❤️❤️
Goldstar butch, hopefully someday, power lesbian (I'm in medical school). I do get mistaken for a guy a lot, it's aggravating lol
I'm Blue Jean, Hippy Lesbian. Perfect.
Welp, I guess I fit into the hippy lesbian category more than any of the others.
I've come out to myself as Lesbian after battling this for a long time and I want to look more into the community
Hey Amber! :) I watch all your vids, rarely comment though. You're inspirational! Love your vids. :)
I like to label myself as a chapstick Tomboy, t-shirt + jeans wearing, sporty type of girl, and Goldstar.
Emily A. Santiago Swan same!!
Blue jeans , activist,hippy and pillow princess.And also Golden star lesbiann
I would think of myself as a soft butch for the most part. Baggy clothes, skinny jeans, tank tops, the occasional snapback. Then, on the other side, I'm also gender fluid which I feel sort of makes me a soft butch in my opinion? Also, I'm often the one on the giving end, not the receiving end, even though my ex has tried to go down on me many times but I get more pleasure giving/watching/feeling the other person.
Blue jean, tourist, and alpha 😂 I've turned 3 girls bi
Lipstick Fem/Activist/Gold Star/Hippy lesbian ❤🌿🌈🌼 pretty much describes me
i'm a bit of an aggressive fem too
OMG i'm jealous of your arm muscles!!! and your brows & hair is on point too!!!
I’ve been looking and trying to find people acknowledging some kind of alternative/grunge lesbian. Like, I’m a lesbian, but I’m goth/punk.
LIPSTICK LESBIAN RIGHT HERE
ALPHA, YEP THAT'S MY RELATE!! 《Bossy/Leadership/Take Charge》 👍👍👍
AMBER, YOU DID THAT SHIT!!!! YOU REMINDER ME OF A RAPPER. YOU WERE SPITTING THAT WISDOM!!!!!!!!!!!! AMBER HAD BARS, FOR DAYS, YESSSSSSS. YOU'RE A POET, AND DONT EVEN KNOW IT. GLAD I RAN ACROSS THIS. THANKS FOR EDUCATING ME.........................
im agressive fem😘💜
Caroline Vazquez same
Well, I don’t really label myself, but I used to had a crush on a pillow princess who only likes stone butch. And she thinks that stone butch-pillow princess love is the standard lesbian relationship, made me want to roll my eyes on her.
eyebrows on fleek Amber🎇😍😚
I feel like I fit into the girly tomboy or blue jeans femme more than anything. I’m for the most part a tomboy, I usually don’t wear makeup but I still dress girly and wear makeup from time to time.
Power lesbian I'm coming for you (law school got me like 😭)
Heyyyy🙌🏽🙌🏽
I am so deep in the closest that i found Amber 's Closest.
LOL😂😂😂 "Hasbian"...love it!
i didnt know there were such specific types of lesbians😳..
"Oh no it's Sarah" 😂😂😂
im a gold star lipstick lesbian
I’m going to need an updated vid where Amber portrays each type by style and body language.
hardcore fem... wait does this apply to me if I'm bi? 😂
Thank you. Has’bien, hippy, lipstick here... it’s been awhile, and apparently ALOT more categories... just glad it’s Way more loved on and accepted🤗
so beatiful and always say good things 😍😍
Caroline Vazquez this Caroline seconds your comment lol
I’m a blue jeans... but I’m in control for sure🤷🏽♀️
I'm more bi, I've been curious about lesbian side and dating a stud.
Everytime she said "you feel me" i'm just like damn hella yeah girl i feel you
I'd say that for me: style has varied between aggressive fem/girly tomboy/chapstick/soft stud (seriously); used to be a touch-me-not until I met my current gf. She's something between a chapstick/butch power lesbian; lonestar and also used to be a touch-me-not before we met. Somehow we manage to balance it all out, though. :D
I’m blue jeans fem so much😂 I act so ‘feminine’ but when people see me they don’t expect it. Thanks for going through the names😊 it’s so annoying when people call me butch !
There are so many I fit with😂😂
blue jeans/aggressive femme 💛
ALSO I'M THE ACTIVIST
I think I'm a pillow princess 🤣🤣
i wear baggy "mens" clothes and due to that and my short hair ive been mistaken as my friends' boyfriend many times lmao
“Ya feel me” I love thisss
GOLDSTAR!!!!/ Blue jeans fem lol thats me
Hello girls. I'm a straight guy (male - for real , not faking it), came here to get some insight, since I have two 40 something lady friends who are lesbian (well, one is openly lesbian, but they share a life, so by deduction it appears that the other is too. So since I'm not attracted to either (but they are true, good and valuable friends), I became interested in what really makes them tick (we rarely, actually never, talk about this topic, it's like an 'understood, no need to discuss' area, with which we're completely comfortable). So thanks for the video - I could accurately place one (more 'male' oriented), which I've known for a long time, but not so much the other. The other is completely feminine, but tough, and there's no submission in her personality - I'd say hardcore/aggressive (maybe alpha ?) femme. One clue - these two regularly have severe arguments. Perhaps they truly like each other, but may not be an ideal lesbian couple ? Apologies upfront for intruding into your world.
Used to be a boi lesbian now I’m a trans guy
This video was lit!
Would Ari be considered an alpha? Love your channel by the way:) ❤️
Most definitely
I'm nonbinary and had a lesbian femme id-ing gf for a while and she always tried to use words like "butch" to describe me and our relationship, when I don't id as a lesbian. She tried to impose a role of dominance on me because of the way I like to dress, which is more masculine, and it was really harmful for me mentally. She was basically treating me like someone I wasn't. Needless to say we aren't together anymore but I just wanted to say that to just mention the dangers of too much labeling in the lesbian community because when you try to put everyone in boxes you miss out on people and how much more complex a human being is than "butch". But you seem very nice and informed and all that and ur video was pretty cool. I just had a pretty bad experience with this and I thought I'd share. It can be pretty hard for a person who likes ladies with a v to find people.
Oh, man... I won't even try to remember all of this! xD
"Is that Justin bieber? Oh, no, it's Sarah" lmfao
I'm confused! On the L word they say a lonestar is someone who has only had sex with one person their entire life! So a lonestar lesbian is a lesbian who has only had sex with one girl.
But Amber said it's a lesbian who has had sex with a guy once.
I think it has both meanings....I just looked it up and the top result was "a lesbian who has only had sex with a male once" and the second was "a lesbian who has only slept with or been with one women their whole life"
Ambers Closet oh, cool! It's because me and my friends use that term sometimes in a way of only had had one sexual partner. But it's good to know :)
Love you, Amber!