as a latina, i hate to say it, but i fear i am one of her biggest haters. i definitely think she’s the problem. when you run through men like that, you need to take a step back for some self reflection. or like babes stop marrying them!! it’s time for her to date herself
Who was the woman who called JLo on the cell phone and basically told her to stop forcing the relationship and prove something to the public??? Then JLo basically was like “WeRe NoT tRyInG tO PrOvE aNyThInG 🤡 “ ughhh who was it!!! She’s an older actress but that woman was spot on with what we all been saying!!!
It's hard to say which one of them is more to blame, on one hand Jlo is known for being rude af to people, on the other Ben has A LOT of baggage and isn't the nicest person either
I know someone who has done her hair before and she’s veryyy high maintenance. He had to do her hair with a body guard in between them…. So strange. She definitely seems to be the problem.
Who’s the common denominator here… Jennifer Must be a handful OR she’s getting married for the wrong reasons… she’s like the Mew Elizabeth Taylor with all these marriages
I don’t wanna sound mean but I think it’s her. She looks like a “mean girl”. I heard people say she’s mean, as mean as Mariah Carey 😅he looked so full of life and in love in the beginning, but in the end he looked so lifeless. Maybe she’s the problem 😬 I feel like she used her Latin culture to her advantage, so maybe she the same with men. Please don’t hate me it’s an opinion. 😅
She’s a serial monogamist. She hops from relationship to relationship without a break, and it’s not healthy. And as a family law attorney for going into my 19th year (Jesus CHRIST, I’m old), prenups are less than 5% of my business. Re: the alcohol, I don’t like it. Because I’ve done divorces since I was 26, people ask me what advice I’d give. I always say, there’s no such thing as HIS problem versus HER problem (change pronouns as needed). If you’re married, the problem belongs to both of you, because that’s what you signed up for. If she knows the depth of Ben’s alcohol problem-and who didn’t?-then choosing to do an alcohol line is beyond the pale. That’s such a slap in the face to him. He’s supposed to support her and her goals at the possible, and likely probable, detriment to his ongoing recovery? Make it make sense.
There’s no way they didn’t discuss Ben’s recovery and what he feels he needs to succeed, and she can’t act like she didn’t know about it. I would never have an alcoholic partner and not support their journey. Even if her alcohol brand was already in the works, she could have sold it - it’s not like she needed the money. Marriage is about being equal and holding each other up, not pushing each other down 😔
sooo the only reason why I don't think the alcohol brand made sense is because Jlo had said she didn't drink because it was bad for your skin, it aged you, bad for your health so I just didn't thinkshe drank enough to make an alcohol brand. I use to love jlo but yeah maybe she is just difficult. I read that Ben didn't like that she would talk about their personal intimate details to people. I guess he wrote her all kinds of letters and she let her team read them and they called him "Pen Affleck" and he supposedly felt like it was rude for her to do that.
I feel like she is a difficult woman. No one stays for long. However, her lifestyle is busy. I mean she probably is always gone. She’s a hard worker. But people keep saying she’s rude too. But idk. It’s probably both. Hard to deal with but also a busy lifestyle. Or maybe she’s a cheater? She’s still hot and is always away.
So, I am a recovering alcoholic and I am in AA. As someone in recovery you can't get away from alcohol. You learn tricks to keep from being tiggered and if hes been sober for years than he would probably be ok being around alcohol.
I think if my spouse said that they were not at a place in their sobriety/ recovery where they could not be around alcohol without falling to temptation, I would push the project back or just pull out entirely. IMHO
Jlo getting another divorce? No way who could've ever seen that coming?! 😂💀 all that $$ you'd think she would benefit from the best therapists in the world, hah - sending love Tim!
Im not surprised they divorced. He's already dating someone else and she might be out of touch with how to deal with relationships. They both need counseling
You are too nice Tim 😂 every time you think we’re going to jump you, the biggest part of your audience feels the same damn way! 😂 don’t worry about pissing off the others, some are just looking for a reason to be pissed. We all know JLo GOTTA BE hella difficult!
Oh, another comment you need a dang podcast boo, the facts don’t start rollin in until the last 3 minutes😹😹😹 the beginning is just all ramble lol!!! Like literally every single time 😂 when is the ramble pod coming back even if it’s solo and you have friends as guests coming on
I feel like maybe they had a sexual chemistry but didn’t get along personality wise. They connected that way & thought oh this work out but knowing it wouldn’t and Just both look like stubborn hardheaded people. Plus I’d be looking grumpy too if I couldn’t control my alcohol and had to stop drinking 😂
The alcohol line is new and came at a time he was recovering and she was on his azz. So I think she’s wrong for that. I think it was a way to almost tease him or just be the biotch we all know her from.
Bad people can do good things. We can acknowledge the good without stanning (also, why would anyone stan anyone? Don’t we remember how that story ends?).
SORRY THIS IS SOOO LATE!! I filmed it 6 days ago but been so busy helping my bro move in AZ and visiting fam!
as a latina, i hate to say it, but i fear i am one of her biggest haters. i definitely think she’s the problem. when you run through men like that, you need to take a step back for some self reflection. or like babes stop marrying them!! it’s time for her to date herself
Don’t worry there are plenty who hate her as much, I know I do
Exactly!
She jumped through so many hoops to make it seem like everything was fine
Legit!!! I was like hmmm something is up here i wonder what the real reason of the ending was im too nosey 😵💫
No one likes JLo. No one's going to be mad at you, Tim. 😂
Who was the woman who called JLo on the cell phone and basically told her to stop forcing the relationship and prove something to the public??? Then JLo basically was like “WeRe NoT tRyInG tO PrOvE aNyThInG 🤡 “ ughhh who was it!!! She’s an older actress but that woman was spot on with what we all been saying!!!
I thought it was Jane Fonda!?
@@NekroSkag yasss Miss Jane!!! It just wasnt coming to me at that very moment lol
Jane fonda
It's hard to say which one of them is more to blame, on one hand Jlo is known for being rude af to people, on the other Ben has A LOT of baggage and isn't the nicest person either
I know someone who has done her hair before and she’s veryyy high maintenance. He had to do her hair with a body guard in between them…. So strange. She definitely seems to be the problem.
Now that’s COOKOO CRAZY
Never let a man stop your bag. Period. Jlo needs to learn to truly love herself first.
Who’s the common denominator here… Jennifer Must be a handful OR she’s getting married for the wrong reasons… she’s like the Mew Elizabeth Taylor with all these marriages
I don’t wanna sound mean but I think it’s her. She looks like a “mean girl”. I heard people say she’s mean, as mean as Mariah Carey 😅he looked so full of life and in love in the beginning, but in the end he looked so lifeless. Maybe she’s the problem 😬 I feel like she used her Latin culture to her advantage, so maybe she the same with men. Please don’t hate me it’s an opinion. 😅
She’s a serial monogamist. She hops from relationship to relationship without a break, and it’s not healthy. And as a family law attorney for going into my 19th year (Jesus CHRIST, I’m old), prenups are less than 5% of my business.
Re: the alcohol, I don’t like it. Because I’ve done divorces since I was 26, people ask me what advice I’d give. I always say, there’s no such thing as HIS problem versus HER problem (change pronouns as needed). If you’re married, the problem belongs to both of you, because that’s what you signed up for. If she knows the depth of Ben’s alcohol problem-and who didn’t?-then choosing to do an alcohol line is beyond the pale. That’s such a slap in the face to him. He’s supposed to support her and her goals at the possible, and likely probable, detriment to his ongoing recovery? Make it make sense.
They both are Leo’s they both mirrored each other 2 Leo’s never work out too strong personality’s
There’s no way they didn’t discuss Ben’s recovery and what he feels he needs to succeed, and she can’t act like she didn’t know about it. I would never have an alcoholic partner and not support their journey. Even if her alcohol brand was already in the works, she could have sold it - it’s not like she needed the money. Marriage is about being equal and holding each other up, not pushing each other down 😔
sooo the only reason why I don't think the alcohol brand made sense is because Jlo had said she didn't drink because it was bad for your skin, it aged you, bad for your health so I just didn't thinkshe drank enough to make an alcohol brand. I use to love jlo but yeah maybe she is just difficult. I read that Ben didn't like that she would talk about their personal intimate details to people. I guess he wrote her all kinds of letters and she let her team read them and they called him "Pen Affleck" and he supposedly felt like it was rude for her to do that.
I feel like she is a difficult woman. No one stays for long. However, her lifestyle is busy. I mean she probably is always gone. She’s a hard worker. But people keep saying she’s rude too. But idk. It’s probably both. Hard to deal with but also a busy lifestyle. Or maybe she’s a cheater? She’s still hot and is always away.
So, I am a recovering alcoholic and I am in AA. As someone in recovery you can't get away from alcohol. You learn tricks to keep from being tiggered and if hes been sober for years than he would probably be ok being around alcohol.
I kinda agree…I could see JLo being difficult…
I think if my spouse said that they were not at a place in their sobriety/ recovery where they could not be around alcohol without falling to temptation, I would push the project back or just pull out entirely. IMHO
I know I totally agree with you about J Lo.. why does it never work out?? It must be HER!!
Jlo getting another divorce? No way who could've ever seen that coming?! 😂💀 all that $$ you'd think she would benefit from the best therapists in the world, hah
- sending love Tim!
Hell YEAH ITS TIME O’ Clock ⏰🍿🥤
I don’t think I’ve ever clicked so fast! (Even tho I’m late 😂) 🖤🖤
Im not surprised they divorced. He's already dating someone else and she might be out of touch with how to deal with relationships. They both need counseling
Wait… why are they fighting over the vineyard if he can’t be around alcohol….???
You are too nice Tim 😂 every time you think we’re going to jump you, the biggest part of your audience feels the same damn way! 😂 don’t worry about pissing off the others, some are just looking for a reason to be pissed. We all know JLo GOTTA BE hella difficult!
Oh, another comment you need a dang podcast boo, the facts don’t start rollin in until the last 3 minutes😹😹😹 the beginning is just all ramble lol!!! Like literally every single time 😂 when is the ramble pod coming back even if it’s solo and you have friends as guests coming on
The podcast??? Are you back to podcasting w/your amiga???
He's already stated that was cancelled long ago.
I feel like maybe they had a sexual chemistry but didn’t get along personality wise. They connected that way & thought oh this work out but knowing it wouldn’t and Just both look like stubborn hardheaded people. Plus I’d be looking grumpy too if I couldn’t control my alcohol and had to stop drinking 😂
The alcohol line is new and came at a time he was recovering and she was on his azz. So I think she’s wrong for that. I think it was a way to almost tease him or just be the biotch we all know her from.
Ben Aflac 😂
He’s a recovering alcoholic y the hell would she come out with a liquor 🍸 Co.
SAME!! lol is she toxic??
j lo donated 4 million to palestine, im a j lo stan now period
@@Kassyeleven um….look it up pls kassy
Bad people can do good things. We can acknowledge the good without stanning (also, why would anyone stan anyone? Don’t we remember how that story ends?).
Just pure opinion here...but I think it lasted 10 years (the longest) with Marc Anthony because he didnt put up with her ish.