If you want to move like a single man, remain single it really is that simple ‼️ Monogamy isn't for everyone, and marriage takes a lot of responsibility & maturity which a lot of people aren't ready for at any age🤷🏿♀️
Saw my mom get cheated on nasty style by my dad and traumatized me. She was so heartbroken I even cried. So I don’t and never have cheated. I recommend that people have their fun before they get serious and don’t lead nobody on. Also that Dominican man speaks two or more languages so calm down envy
Because by 40 you should have enough common sense and integrity to know that being deceitful is stupid. If you don’t wanna be in a relationship with someone you should just leave. And it shows you lack integrity honor or self-discipline still, which is kind of sad you’re over 40 years old is still leaking self-discipline and sexual discipline.
stop judging and putting age on things. Many people are unhappy today that are in their 20's and even 60's. They stay in relationships because of kids or whatever that they have invested because of comments like yours that tell them oh you are .... age or whatever else the x factor is in society so you should know better. Well they do that and then guess wht they cheat or commit suicide. I talk to alot of people we need to look at people as that and not a group of few that we have had a bad experience with. People today are unhappy and need to find happiness within and knw that it is ok to be lone. When people stop settling and listening to societal judgement then they can be happy for themselves. ALSO people need to learn to get to know the person that they are with. There are people that will have unprotected sex, but do not even know their lovers fav color or pet peeves, let alone last name. Now IF you feel that being deceitful and lying is wrong. I am with you. But it is never subjected to an age, race, or gender Trust me. ( sorry for the bad punctuation)
It’s a lack of character and self-control no matter your age. People act like not cheating is a hard thing to do. It’s not hard, people get tempted everyday B, and say no. It’s a character and self-discipline issue.
Me personally I think cheating is a sign of immaturity. A mature man can tell a woman what it is he has going on and what his intent is. And let her decide if she's with it or not
Cheating is more than mf sex doe. That’s what y’all don’t realize. And since that’s the case we almost all do it. Because EVERYONE has some slick shit that they wouldn’t do in front of their significant other. It doesn’t have to be sex
I'm a 45 years old man myself the real question is Why do younger people and women think because you get to these ages you stop being you the only things that changes is your age and your looks slightly but your personality does not change cheaters will stop cheating when they realize it's either not worth it or women aren't checking for them anymore.
It’s not about that itself. Real mf talk women DONT UNDERSTAND men at all. Men want more. What part of Jay Z cheated on Beyoncé mf don’t understand what that really meant. U can have Nicki Minaj all u want and NATURALLY u still want Kim Kardashian
Never run out of options. 8 am a woman and know, i can snap a finger and get men to line up. I am 54 years old. Its been that way since fourteen. I don't entertain most of the pursuers but i see nothing has slowed down.
@@zyrover that make men foolish, if they don't learn to value thier own body and time. Most can be easIly lead and played. No need to chase every female that you desire. Become wise and be steadfast in honoring, one.
Ppl need to stop playing with ppl! Period! Stop holding onto these ppl and you know you don’t want them! Physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually and anything else! If you’re not ready to commit SAY SO!! It’s okay!! Don’t use ppl! Don’t hold someone hostage cuz you’re not ready! I know this about men but it applies to anyone! And if the marriage is over, hey tell your partner.
@@MrIncognito2020 they absolutely are not pretty much the same bruh, tf?? 🤦🏿♂️. Lust is your desire for that person, whereas ego is your feelings about yourself. Two VERY different things, even if you wanna change the definitions to fit your narrative 😭😭😏
Cheating would not be an issue if you simply chose to be honest with the person you want to see more often or better yet just dated and not create a bond with someone. The action of cheating causes irrevocable harm that damages the mental health and sometimes physical health of the other person. The lack of consideration and care that you have for the other person by doing something that is causing them harm is an actual reflection of the kind of person the cheater actually is. You are causing harm by cheating. No one is forcing you to be in a relationship that is a choice, if you want other people then walk away.
This is the thing the grind my gears. They never want to be single. You get in a relationship and already cheating. Its a disgusting behavior. Stay Single. They want the benefits of a Monogamous
My husband and I just celebrated our wedding anniversary. I'm so grateful for him & our family. We know other married couples and some have admitted to cheating out of boredom, unhappiness, no longer in love, don't want to leave their kids etc. Then some have admitted to swinging and enjoying other people together. Being with one person for the rest of their lives didn't seem realistic and unnatural. To each their own!! Do what works for your marriage/life and ultimately be honest about it with your spouse/partner.
Social Media, Options, Not knowing how to properly disconnect from someone, Emotions, Feeling isolated, people cheat for all type of reasons. People cheat commitments all the time, whether it's work, relationship, to themselves. Instant gratification.
The Dominican guy that called had me dying 🤣 I was just watching an old L&HH episode yesterday and the Dominican woman said the same thing....she said they are big flirts and will cheat...that's crazy tho 😂😂
Men over 40 cheat alot of times because wives and long term gf's get too relaxed. They stop screwing you the same, not as often, take things for granted, feel overly entitled, and just become flat out grumpy and unpleasant to be around. Men like excited too and also to feel appreciated
Just like y’all like to keep things exciting, so do women. Evaluate yourself in the relationship to try to pin point why she’s become not so pleasant to be around anymore. Relationships are 50/50, you have to do the work, just like she does, to keep her interested and exciting. Cooking, cleaning and taking care of kids/a man gets tiring.
@@treheartbreak9277 @de2567 maybe monogamy is just not for you🤷♂. That doesn't explain why someone would cheat instead of just facing the fact they're not built to be in a monogamous relationship and moving accordingly (i.e. not getting into a monogamous relationship). The immaturity is definitely there if you're not man enough to tell shawty what's up. Too many women are down for polyamorous/open relationships nowadays for you to feel the need to be deceitful. Shi childish bro.
So everything is boring lol if you with someone and you bored of them are they the one for you tho? If you get bored of everyone you’re with you doing something wrong
@@mustanggang5.0super 🧢 cause we all know men way older than 40 still cheat. My homegirl is 44 and dated a 64 yr old married man not too long ago. I dont want nobody elses man and married men come up to me at restaurants or grocery stores a lot. Like gtfoh Sir. 🙄😂
Exactly he has been keeping Gia pregnant since 2001, and not saying she doesn't work (but I'm not sure if her job is a housewife) but she would have got him for years on end with half of everything!!
Personally I stopped cheating at 24 because I truly do feel bad about doing something sneaky and hurting the women I'm with regardless if she " deserved it" or not. Now for other men I can see them not caring I get it but 40 is no age where you magically change just oike with women it's all about where you are mentally
@@XxiliketwinkiesxX no they don’t. Women don’t want to be hoes nor are they designed to. They can bring 1 child to term per year and are designed to preserve their value and chastity for the best man they can and get security and longterm commitment from him. Lmao horrible example
They do cheat,it's a sex thing, what he ain't getting at home,he can get else where... and their wives think that their man ain't cheating on them..."If your girl only knew"!!🎵🎼
👁 👁 👄 4 things I don't knowingly share 1My Toothbrush 2 My Panties 3 My Man/Husband 4 My mask👀 too many germs being swapped people in the cemetery right now cause of that cheating SHYT 💀⚰️👀
@@srianna0416 proving its not about sex. We need to stop falling for that excuse. Some of the whackest men in bed cheat. They will never find great sex because they can’t give it. They cheat because they are empty inside, the sane for most men. No one wants to admit that. It’s an ego boost whose high last temporarily.
Completely WRONG it’s not about what u aren’t getting. PEOPLE just want MORE. u can have Beyoncé and u still want Nicki Minaj NATURALLY. This will never change In human beings society. Wanting more is different than what u not getting
@@srianna0416 my exact mf point. Wanting more is different than what u aren’t already getting. This will NEVER change in society ever. Wanting more will always be someone’s mindset no matter than gender. U can have self control all u want but u in this one life we live,we all have a CHOICE Cuz cheating is a choice. It’s a poor one but it’s a choice nonetheless
DISEASE, Disease, disease is something that should be on EVERYONE’S mindset besides tampering with commitment whenever someone decides to engage in sexual encounters with TEMPoraries. Not worth the risk sexually and morally‼️
Yes, because there is an increase in STD's among older people. If you want to sleep around just be single. Don't risk my health. Give me a choice. Don't decide for me.
As a women something i put up with in my twenties i am not dealing with in my forties.. so for sure im not going to put up with a cheater or females calling me at 40. i also try to make my partner happy so if that fool cheat he can be out lol
I'm 25 but I'm assuming they're saying you should be more mature enough in your 40s to tell your significant other you don't want to be with them instead of cheating. I never been in a relationship so this doesn't apply to me lol
Men over 40 cheat for 3 main reasons: 1. Ego 2. Habit (they’ve been doing it so long, they don’t know any different) 3. They are in an unhappy relationship, and they don’t know how to get out, and their partner isn’t satisfying their physical/ emotional needs.
I don't know If that unhappy part is true is necessarily true. I think more times than not, men are happy in their relationship, but it's there is thing called "greed" or the feeling of wanted things you don't need but you want it.
@@Ilovenymets31 Younger men also cheat because they’re just more horny due to hormones, because they are less experienced and they want to know what else is out there, or because of jealousy and playing games.
Just because your in a relationship, doesn’t mean that other women stop being desirable. It is insane to think you can truly get everything you crave from 1 person.. People who don’t cheat have settled and are usually miserable in their relationships…
It’s not cool cheat at any age but people expect it to happen when your younger doing it but what’s the point of talking about things that’s never gone change 🤷🏾♂️
Speaking as a Nigerian in Nigeria, peeps at 40+ that cheat is because the average guy is really in his bag from 40, cheating down here is like what cheating used to be like over where you are when cheating was symptom of middle aged crisis when men start buying power bikes here, porches there, becoming sugar daddies etc
28 and single. I don’t believe in cheating, but I wonder how people keep their sex life exciting and stay faithful to each other. And I’m not packing, so I’m terrified of commitment
Just because ur not married does not mean it’s okay to sleep with other people…a. Commitment is solid either way. Don’t cheat guys it’s not worth it ..go wack it out in the bathroom brothers.
Some men are loyal.. many are not. Men whine about how they want loyalty and trust... but many won't give it back in return. Cheaters are narcissists, self absorbed and are risk takers,..and at age 40 to 70..they want validation that women still desire them..even if they in a whole relationship..some still require validation from women. Also most cheaters are flirts. So if your man out their flirtin'...he cheating.
The same thing that a man does a woman does too, we just do things slightly different. Cheating all around is wrong but we can’t assign cheating to one gender because you can cheat mentally and emotionally just as well as physically.
I never understood why some men are so comfortable with buying women or being used. It's like it's their goal to obtain alot of money only to be able to run through chicks. If you're unattractive and couldn't easily get women when you were a nobody and NOW you're famous and they're all over you, why are you not put off by that?
If you’re a man over 40 and you still can’t keep it real with your partner that you’d prefer to be a polygamist, you’re a pvnk. At that age no reason to sneak around to do you. Just own it.
Bf & Gf relationships dont count. So technically hes not cheating. Marriage is the only thing that holds weight. So if a man cheats in that he’s definitely wrong.
@@chief5774 Once you have an agreement with someone that they’re the only people you can be with, and you go behind their back and break that agreement. That’s cheating. Marriage or nah. I know most men will cheat regardless, but at a certain age you gotta have the balls to live your truth.
If we’re only looking at “cheating” as a man that steps out on his relationship and claps cheeks elsewhere it’s simply because one women naturally isn’t enough. Yes that man could just be single but he desires a relationship with a woman on a higher level than what he has with the woman or women he’s cheating with. Monogamous relationships aren’t practical for a lot of men.
@@DM-jn3zo If I want to clap someone else then that’s why 2 3 4 and 5 exist. It’s as simple as that. Sometimes you can have a house full of groceries…and still wanna go out to eat.
Cheating happens because of several reasons and not a one size fits all. Relationship problems, Unsatisfied sexual desires, lack of self-control, temptation, and/or boredom.
Usually that’s when men are at the top of their game financial and as far as experience, which is attractive to women in general. So that’s when men usually have more options. Same reason why women these days do whatever they want while they’re young and beautiful, because that’s when they have more options.
Sitting up here listening to these grown men PANDER and lie and come up with all these eloquent reasons to why men sleep with other women outside of their relationship is sad.. can’t even be real them.. this is not how they talk at the bar when the cameras off and it’s just the guys.. but they so WHIPPED that they gotta talk like this and put on this front like they just above their nature , science and logic .. this is the reason women be scorned because you allow women to believe a false reality when you know that’s not real … tell yo women the truth and you might be surprised what she accepts OR doesn’t.. but lying like black men don’t cheat or they are above it personally is WHACK… Stop lying to women and BE REAL wit em…
A lot of wives do not submit to their husbands, for their husbands, not all women are queens. Some men married into families of women who were once traumatized and moved forward without counseling or help to be able to deal with a man in their future. Some women hold back and will not engage with their husbands when the husbands deservedly should be given his attention. Some women don't do what other women do sexually, and when all of a sudden she stops performing. The big "if" is in play here. If her sisters say they won't do this or that what do you think will happen? Or what do you think won't happen? If you're not getting what you need at home do you clean out your house of the problem or be a man and do what you need to do for yourself? I don't think I need to put her out I don't mind her being around. There are plenty of ways to be mature.
IMHO I think it's selfish and an insecurity. Because something clearly isn't right with the relationship & it might be best to end the relationship vs cheating and trying to 'have both'. I think it's a weak, wussy move. And women cheat quite a bit, fellas. All of this IG, Facebook, selfie stuff for attention & incessant need for validation... wake up. There were two people married in the story you're referencing.
If you are married past 40 you shouldn’t cheat unless your wife is one foot out of the door and not thinking about coming back. But if you are dating sow your royal oats as King Jaffe of Zumoomda would say. 😂
Yes it and at this point charlamagne and envy it is really absurd that the man of the age group from 40 to 60 still out here in these streets I often ask myself that question as well it's sad but it has everything to do with healing your childhood traumas I believe and some of us have adult traumas and if you don't heal you going to continue to chase your tail
I’m not saying cheating is ok, but it’s innately natural for men to want multiple women. It’s a natural/biological thing when it comes to men. It’s something that’s innate. You can say it’s ego, but once you get into the science of human nature and biology, ppl will see that it’s deeper than that
Actually I'm more than happy with just one woman. Hell she's a handful sometimes. I don't need her having any allies scheming on me and comparing notes about my dick lol one woman is more than enough
Lies!!!!! it’s not about insecurity. men and women do it because they want to and they can!!! Period. someone who truly loves and cares about you is going to make sure you never find out they did it in the first place 😂😩
No. Love and deception are not bedfellows. Its not about love. They lie because the truth may cause the person to leave them which for them is an inconvenience. Thats why they try to make sure their husband or wife doesn't find out. It's actually an act of selfishness. I've never understood how a person believes purposely doing something that they know for certain will emotionally devastate another human being and lying about it is love. Either seek a poly relationship or just stay single with no obligation to anyone.
@@srianna0416 Exactly. It's not cheating if you've clearly stated that you're not interested in being in an exclusive, monogamous relationship and you both are on board with that decision. What's the problem?
That caller who kept calling envy a Dominican had me 😂😂😂 charr la main
jhess!! 🤣
🙃🤣🤣🤣🤣 that was funny
Bro started with ‘Envy you as a Dominican know’😂😂😂😂
He said "It's in your Blood! It's in your Blood!" 😂😂 Na cheating is 100% wrong and No, no one should cheat, not all men cheat. God bless
he said "no im talking this is my platform" hahahah Chala Main xD
40 is not some magical age where you just snap into maturity and change up how you’ve been
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Well said.
They not saying at 40 you gone change. It’s by time you 40 you should have it together why you still cheating at 40?
@@TieUpOne just because they should have it together doesn’t mean they do. We can ask the very same question to women over 40, they cheat as well.
@@TieUpOne you should have it together at any age if you gone be with somebody 🤣🤣
If you want to move like a single man, remain single it really is that simple ‼️ Monogamy isn't for everyone, and marriage takes a lot of responsibility & maturity which a lot of people aren't ready for at any age🤷🏿♀️
Immature people get married everyday. Dudes just want new püssy it has nothing to do with INSECURITY and IMMATURITY
Right. I don’t know why men feel the need to cheat
We bringin the money in so we do what we want
@@QueXopa79 we cheat because we want new box
@@Troy_Johnson it's really that easy LMAO . Not the complicated. It's wrong but people want their cake and eat it too.
Something I've learned after 29 years of living, there is no real age of maturity. It really depends on the person and their actions.
Saw my mom get cheated on nasty style by my dad and traumatized me. She was so heartbroken I even cried. So I don’t and never have cheated. I recommend that people have their fun before they get serious and don’t lead nobody on. Also that Dominican man speaks two or more languages so calm down envy
Because by 40 you should have enough common sense and integrity to know that being deceitful is stupid. If you don’t wanna be in a relationship with someone you should just leave. And it shows you lack integrity honor or self-discipline still, which is kind of sad you’re over 40 years old is still leaking self-discipline and sexual discipline.
stop judging and putting age on things. Many people are unhappy today that are in their 20's and even 60's. They stay in relationships because of kids or whatever that they have invested because of comments like yours that tell them oh you are .... age or whatever else the x factor is in society so you should know better. Well they do that and then guess wht they cheat or commit suicide. I talk to alot of people we need to look at people as that and not a group of few that we have had a bad experience with. People today are unhappy and need to find happiness within and knw that it is ok to be lone. When people stop settling and listening to societal judgement then they can be happy for themselves. ALSO people need to learn to get to know the person that they are with. There are people that will have unprotected sex, but do not even know their lovers fav color or pet peeves, let alone last name. Now IF you feel that being deceitful and lying is wrong. I am with you. But it is never subjected to an age, race, or gender Trust me. ( sorry for the bad punctuation)
I love this topic. Kudos to the men for keeping the show going
Even the Dominican man thinks Envy is Dominican 😆 🤣 😂
It’s a lack of character and self-control no matter your age. People act like not cheating is a hard thing to do. It’s not hard, people get tempted everyday B, and say no. It’s a character and self-discipline issue.
Couldn't agree more. 👏
Adultery is a very wicked thing. It's just something you don't do. Period.
WHEN YOU BRINGING ALL THE MONEY IN & you have OPTIONS 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️SHIDDD. She wouldnt be there if you had nun anyway.🤷🏾♂️💯😊
People cheat because they want to ain’t no excuses
I like what ChalaMain said “we gotta start coming to these women healed or on our healing journey” 💯‼️
Men are only as faithful as their options. Period.
Me personally I think cheating is a sign of immaturity. A mature man can tell a woman what it is he has going on and what his intent is. And let her decide if she's with it or not
I knew this came from a woman lol
Every man would love to tell their woman that but the truth is women can't handle the truth.
Of course lol
That is the correct answer
Cheating is more than mf sex doe. That’s what y’all don’t realize. And since that’s the case we almost all do it. Because EVERYONE has some slick shit that they wouldn’t do in front of their significant other. It doesn’t have to be sex
I'm a 45 years old man myself the real question is Why do younger people and women think because you get to these ages you stop being you the only things that changes is your age and your looks slightly but your personality does not change cheaters will stop cheating when they realize it's either not worth it or women aren't checking for them anymore.
That's soooo true. When bitches STOP ✋️ Checking for them, they don't have the option to cheat
What? One run on sentence. No comma's or periods. WTF are you saying? Ugh 😣
Some men just honestly want a younger woman at that age as well. Just don’t get married if you don’t want that issue though.
ED slows them down... and men r having ED, low-T, diabetes, and many other things @ younger and younger ages these days
WHEN YOU BRINGING ALL THE MONEY IN & you have OPTIONS 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️SHIDDD. She wouldnt be there if you had nun anyway.🤷🏾♂️💯😊
Some people will always be for the streets. Old and young men cheat. Lack of self control.
It’s not about that itself. Real mf talk women DONT UNDERSTAND men at all. Men want more. What part of Jay Z cheated on Beyoncé mf don’t understand what that really meant. U can have Nicki Minaj all u want and NATURALLY u still want Kim Kardashian
Chicks cheat 100x more than men
@@ayocinobeats there is no way you believe that 😂😂😂😂😂
@@Mastirpeace wanting more doesnt mean you have to go after more unless you have no self control. Thats it thats all. 🤷🏽♀️
I totally agree 👏🏽
The main two reasons why men STOP cheating is 1. We just simply run out of options and 2. It's just not worth the headache anymore!
Never run out of options. 8 am a woman and know, i can snap a finger and get men to line up. I am 54 years old. Its been that way since fourteen. I don't entertain most of the pursuers but i see nothing has slowed down.
@@ballershanelle your a women every man want a nut its nothing to brag about
Roy, I totally agree.
@@ballershanelle it's different for women. You have something men openly want.
@@zyrover that make men foolish, if they don't learn to value thier own body and time. Most can be easIly lead and played. No need to chase every female that you desire. Become wise and be steadfast in honoring, one.
Envy sounded reformed like he just got out “I almost lost the best thing in my life”😂
Yeah big beta
@@treheartbreak9277lol facts cuz she said he didn’t make her cum for 10’years 😂
Envy’s reaction to the Dominican caller sent me.
Ppl need to stop playing with ppl! Period! Stop holding onto these ppl and you know you don’t want them! Physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually and anything else! If you’re not ready to commit SAY SO!! It’s okay!! Don’t use ppl! Don’t hold someone hostage cuz you’re not ready! I know this about men but it applies to anyone! And if the marriage is over, hey tell your partner.
Stop using dating apps you'll stop blaming men for everything
Not ego, dont fool yourselves, it's lust you had.
Lust and ego are pretty much the same thing.
@@MrIncognito2020 they absolutely are not pretty much the same bruh, tf?? 🤦🏿♂️. Lust is your desire for that person, whereas ego is your feelings about yourself. Two VERY different things, even if you wanna change the definitions to fit your narrative 😭😭😏
Age does NOT equal maturity! That includes men & women!
Cheating would not be an issue if you simply chose to be honest with the person you want to see more often or better yet just dated and not create a bond with someone. The action of cheating causes irrevocable harm that damages the mental health and sometimes physical health of the other person. The lack of consideration and care that you have for the other person by doing something that is causing them harm is an actual reflection of the kind of person the cheater actually is. You are causing harm by cheating. No one is forcing you to be in a relationship that is a choice, if you want other people then walk away.
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This is the thing the grind my gears. They never want to be single. You get in a relationship and already cheating. Its a disgusting behavior. Stay Single. They want the benefits of a Monogamous
My husband and I just celebrated our wedding anniversary. I'm so grateful for him & our family. We know other married couples and some have admitted to cheating out of boredom, unhappiness, no longer in love, don't want to leave their kids etc. Then some have admitted to swinging and enjoying other people together. Being with one person for the rest of their lives didn't seem realistic and unnatural. To each their own!! Do what works for your marriage/life and ultimately be honest about it with your spouse/partner.
He has definitely banged on the side, but he was professional about it and that's the way it should be.
@@AH-tf1tm yooo lolol
@@AH-tf1tm Stop judging people by your own miserable standards. You don't know this woman or her husband.
Social Media, Options, Not knowing how to properly disconnect from someone, Emotions, Feeling isolated, people cheat for all type of reasons. People cheat commitments all the time, whether it's work, relationship, to themselves. Instant gratification.
The Dominican guy that called had me dying 🤣 I was just watching an old L&HH episode yesterday and the Dominican woman said the same thing....she said they are big flirts and will cheat...that's crazy tho 😂😂
When Envy said it’s our 13 year anniversary you know if Yee was there she would have had a crazy comment lol 😂
I must say, I think they’re doing good in carrying the show with just these two. I think that’s great 👍🙏🏼
I like it better. I wish Yee well and much success but I think the energy and their dynamic is amazing with just these two
Its actually better, to be honest
Why do you men hate Yee so much? It's weird. Y'all niggas act gay just like these two 😂
@@nycgirltee
No, what's gay is you thinking this show needed her. You mad salty!
Agreed
Men over 40 cheat alot of times because wives and long term gf's get too relaxed. They stop screwing you the same, not as often, take things for granted, feel overly entitled, and just become flat out grumpy and unpleasant to be around. Men like excited too and also to feel appreciated
Just like y’all like to keep things exciting, so do women. Evaluate yourself in the relationship to try to pin point why she’s become not so pleasant to be around anymore. Relationships are 50/50, you have to do the work, just like she does, to keep her interested and exciting. Cooking, cleaning and taking care of kids/a man gets tiring.
@@BeeetchImStaciay’all want us to evaluate ourselves but y’all dnt do that either because If y’all did y’all would kno why that nigga cheated
@@500beatz5 a hit dog is hollering bc did you even read what I said??? Couldn’t have cause this response makes no sense.. 😂😂😂😂😂
@@BeeetchImStacia maybe u just slow
@@500beatz5 nah nigga you slow.. that’s why your original comment is suddenly missing 😂😂 bye.
Lollll Charlemagne was humbled when he found out his wife cheated too, now he’s a therapy nut 😄
They can dish it but can't take it . Imagine looking like a bleached lizard and having the audacity to cheat on a woman totally out of your league 🤣
LOL, we don't like thinking about pleasuring a wife that let a stranger run up in her for boredom relief.
I'm 37 and I learned a lot why I do my dirt in my younger years. Being polyamourus now I feel so much happier and free.
Some people may not realize it but there's nothing better than having someone at home waiting for you...
That you're happy with
I'm straight on dat, folk crazy these days 😳
Yes. Someone who you can talk to and laugh with. Someone who understands you and respects you.
Get a pet.
This ❤
Because messing with the same woman gets boring,but even messing around with different women gets old eventually.
Facts idky people just ignore that point
@@treheartbreak9277 @de2567 maybe monogamy is just not for you🤷♂. That doesn't explain why someone would cheat instead of just facing the fact they're not built to be in a monogamous relationship and moving accordingly (i.e. not getting into a monogamous relationship). The immaturity is definitely there if you're not man enough to tell shawty what's up. Too many women are down for polyamorous/open relationships nowadays for you to feel the need to be deceitful. Shi childish bro.
So everything is boring lol if you with someone and you bored of them are they the one for you tho? If you get bored of everyone you’re with you doing something wrong
WHEN YOU BRINGING ALL THE MONEY IN & you have OPTIONS 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️SHIDDD. She wouldnt be there if you had nun anyway.🤷🏾♂️💯😊
@@hmgnick3879 what about the broke men that cheat ?
Congrats Envy and Charla on y’all 13th anniversary ❤🎉😂
I’m 25 I’ve never cheated and never will… it’s sad and disgusting
We don’t. By now we want to find “the one” and settle down
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@@mustanggang5.0super 🧢 cause we all know men way older than 40 still cheat. My homegirl is 44 and dated a 64 yr old married man not too long ago. I dont want nobody elses man and married men come up to me at restaurants or grocery stores a lot. Like gtfoh Sir. 🙄😂
When Envy say he almost lost everything..he is talking about his MONEY..let's not let that go over people heads !!!
Yup LMAO all his ass cares about
Exactly he has been keeping Gia pregnant since 2001, and not saying she doesn't work (but I'm not sure if her job is a housewife) but she would have got him for years on end with half of everything!!
Lmao my dad is a notorious cheater and to this day is confused when I don’t take any of the women he brings around serious.
Personally I stopped cheating at 24 because I truly do feel bad about doing something sneaky and hurting the women I'm with regardless if she " deserved it" or not. Now for other men I can see them not caring I get it but 40 is no age where you magically change just oike with women it's all about where you are mentally
Dudes always want new box though
As a reformed serial cheater who still struggle today I agree. Just had to stop being a douchebag and marry my girl
@@szn1580 Self control is what separates good men from the subhuman men.
@@szn1580women want new dick as well though so that’s not an excuse
@@XxiliketwinkiesxX no they don’t. Women don’t want to be hoes nor are they designed to. They can bring 1 child to term per year and are designed to preserve their value and chastity for the best man they can and get security and longterm commitment from him.
Lmao horrible example
Same reason women do….
They do cheat,it's a sex thing, what he ain't getting at home,he can get else where... and their wives think that their man ain't cheating on them..."If your girl only knew"!!🎵🎼
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👄 4 things I don't knowingly share 1My Toothbrush 2 My Panties 3 My Man/Husband 4 My mask👀 too many germs being swapped people in the cemetery right now cause of that cheating SHYT 💀⚰️👀
I had male coworkers say my wife could do everything right and I'm still cheating .
@@srianna0416 proving its not about sex. We need to stop falling for that excuse. Some of the whackest men in bed cheat. They will never find great sex because they can’t give it. They cheat because they are empty inside, the sane for most men. No one wants to admit that. It’s an ego boost whose high last temporarily.
Completely WRONG it’s not about what u aren’t getting. PEOPLE just want MORE. u can have Beyoncé and u still want Nicki Minaj NATURALLY. This will never change In human beings society. Wanting more is different than what u not getting
@@srianna0416 my exact mf point. Wanting more is different than what u aren’t already getting. This will NEVER change in society ever. Wanting more will always be someone’s mindset no matter than gender. U can have self control all u want but u in this one life we live,we all have a CHOICE Cuz cheating is a choice. It’s a poor one but it’s a choice nonetheless
DISEASE, Disease, disease is something that should be on EVERYONE’S mindset besides tampering with commitment whenever someone decides to engage in sexual encounters with TEMPoraries. Not worth the risk sexually and morally‼️
Yes, because there is an increase in STD's among older people. If you want to sleep around just be single. Don't risk my health. Give me a choice. Don't decide for me.
As a women something i put up with in my twenties i am not dealing with in my forties.. so for sure im not going to put up with a cheater or females calling me at 40. i also try to make my partner happy so if that fool cheat he can be out lol
That Dominican guy had me weak
lmao I thought CTG was firing up a blunt for a second
Over 40 ?! Lol what tf being 40 gotta do with it, I'm 28 and been stopped cheating lol tf ?
I'm 25 but I'm assuming they're saying you should be more mature enough in your 40s to tell your significant other you don't want to be with them instead of cheating. I never been in a relationship so this doesn't apply to me lol
Dominican bruh was killin me😂😂, swears Envy is Dominican.
Men over 40 cheat for 3 main reasons: 1. Ego 2. Habit (they’ve been doing it so long, they don’t know any different) 3. They are in an unhappy relationship, and they don’t know how to get out, and their partner isn’t satisfying their physical/ emotional needs.
Facts!
I don't know If that unhappy part is true is necessarily true. I think more times than not, men are happy in their relationship, but it's there is thing called "greed" or the feeling of wanted things you don't need but you want it.
@@jodeci9898 That is what is known as ego, which was the first reason that I listed as to why men cheat.
I think that goes for men at any age 😆
@@Ilovenymets31 Younger men also cheat because they’re just more horny due to hormones, because they are less experienced and they want to know what else is out there, or because of jealousy and playing games.
Just because your in a relationship, doesn’t mean that other women stop being desirable. It is insane to think you can truly get everything you crave from 1 person.. People who don’t cheat have settled and are usually miserable in their relationships…
I don't know why Envy keeps denying his Dominican heritage.
Lol
🤣 HE JUST WANTS TOO BE BLACK!!!❤️ SOOOO BAD!🤣
Because they still lack the "Self Discipline" required to stay Faithful to one woman.
It’s not cool cheat at any age but people expect it to happen when your younger doing it but what’s the point of talking about things that’s never gone change 🤷🏾♂️
2 wrongs don’t make a right! Let the devil stand alone.
Speaking as a Nigerian in Nigeria, peeps at 40+ that cheat is because the average guy is really in his bag from 40, cheating down here is like what cheating used to be like over where you are when cheating was symptom of middle aged crisis when men start buying power bikes here, porches there, becoming sugar daddies etc
You speaking for yourself. None of that over here in my 9ja area
Because different sandwich is good from time To Time. !!
There’s no age limit to cheating so I’m not understanding the question that goes for women too.. so stop singling out men only
Is there a age limit in black men hiking?
@@noobslayer10101 that makes no fucking sense troll .. stay focus on the topic and what a great deflection on your part 🤡
Facts
Even elderly people cheat 😂😂
There's also no gender limitation. There were two people in the story they were referencing.
People are as faithful as they're options.
Did the second caller call Envy Dominican? 🤣🤣🤣
Feed your spirit 🙌🏽
Ego: Edging God Out
4D: Don’t Do Dat Dummy😇♥️
Both of them are lying 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣... imagine saying you do therapy and still lying
28 and single. I don’t believe in cheating, but I wonder how people keep their sex life exciting and stay faithful to each other. And I’m not packing, so I’m terrified of commitment
Because their immature and ABSOLUTELY INSECURE
Just because ur not married does not mean it’s okay to sleep with other people…a. Commitment is solid either way. Don’t cheat guys it’s not worth it ..go wack it out in the bathroom brothers.
Congratulations Breakfast Club
Ppl cheat at any age unfortunately
I respect them so much for this!
Same reason why women over 40 cheat... tf 🙄
Yep and they brag about it on social media
Y’all love deflecting.
facts tho lol.
@@MysteryUnfoldook up studies woman and man cheat at the same levels. I know dudes that mess with married woman.
Why is the question 🤨🙄
0:25 I thought CTG was firing it up for a minute!! 🚬🤣
The comments are talking about men cheating when Maury made multi-millions off of women by saying for two decades." You are not the father!" 😂
This is a dope conversation!!!!
Some men are loyal.. many are not. Men whine about how they want loyalty and trust... but many won't give it back in return. Cheaters are narcissists, self absorbed and are risk takers,..and at age 40 to 70..they want validation that women still desire them..even if they in a whole relationship..some still require validation from women. Also most cheaters are flirts. So if your man out their flirtin'...he cheating.
U give a woman a billion dollars to cheat on her man and I bet 100% of yall do it
@@Mastirpeace a billion???? people do it for free
The same thing that a man does a woman does too, we just do things slightly different. Cheating all around is wrong but we can’t assign cheating to one gender because you can cheat mentally and emotionally just as well as physically.
Cheating isn’t gender specific and to say most men aren’t loyal isn’t valid
@@prolificbeats8237 *that's the safest sex too! LMAO!!!😁💛🟨💛🟨💛🟨💛
Capping for their wives... I APPRECIATE THAT KINGS
I miss having Angela already haha I know so many people hated on her but I'd like her opinion on this too.
They just need a female perspective
lol she serves no purpose
That's what I was thinking
@@JokerG16 what do you say that?
@@noobslayer10101 because aside from celebrity gossip, her opinions truly lack substance and she's incapable of being balanced and hearing other POVs.
Cheating literally make no sense to me. I don’t have problem breaking up w/ your ass. Plus that shit take so much energy 🤦🏾♀️
I never understood why some men are so comfortable with buying women or being used. It's like it's their goal to obtain alot of money only to be able to run through chicks. If you're unattractive and couldn't easily get women when you were a nobody and NOW you're famous and they're all over you, why are you not put off by that?
Why do people cheat period? Selfish and low integrity. you can't cheat by yourself. Takes two to tango
Ain't gonna lie.... This show needs a female perspective and they need it fast. A Yee replacement should be taken seriously
No they dont
@@Troy_Johnsondisagree
Dominican home top tier this interview
Even at 40 men are still trying to catch up to women's sexual experiences. Gotta even the playing field
That Dominican man was 😂😂😂😂
If you’re a man over 40 and you still can’t keep it real with your partner that you’d prefer to be a polygamist, you’re a pvnk.
At that age no reason to sneak around to do you. Just own it.
Bf & Gf relationships dont count. So technically hes not cheating. Marriage is the only thing that holds weight. So if a man cheats in that he’s definitely wrong.
@@chief5774 Once you have an agreement with someone that they’re the only people you can be with, and you go behind their back and break that agreement. That’s cheating. Marriage or nah. I know most men will cheat regardless, but at a certain age you gotta have the balls to live your truth.
@@Dogloveandfitness that agreement means nothing, Unless it is marriage.
@@chief5774 hopefully you feel the same way when u pass your gf an STD and she shoots u . Hope it's worth sitting in a chair for life
That’s the age where we cheat the most.
I’m a 90s millennial this ain’t our generational problem 😂
Yes it is!
If we’re only looking at “cheating” as a man that steps out on his relationship and claps cheeks elsewhere it’s simply because one women naturally isn’t enough. Yes that man could just be single but he desires a relationship with a woman on a higher level than what he has with the woman or women he’s cheating with. Monogamous relationships aren’t practical for a lot of men.
if one woman can't give you what you want neither can 2, 3, 4. It's a you problem
You sound amoral. Just be a F boy and don't ruin women for the rest of us that aren't degenerates.
@@DM-jn3zo If I want to clap someone else then that’s why 2 3 4 and 5 exist. It’s as simple as that. Sometimes you can have a house full of groceries…and still wanna go out to eat.
@@gmf357 lol can't argue with immaturity
@@DM-jn3zo it's not immaturity men want multiple women it's been that way
Cheating happens because of several reasons and not a one size fits all. Relationship problems, Unsatisfied sexual desires, lack of self-control, temptation, and/or boredom.
Please, Envy wasn’t a “young boy” when he cheated with Erica.
Exactly he need to knock it off
start feeding your soul that's a great one Charlamagne
Usually that’s when men are at the top of their game financial and as far as experience, which is attractive to women in general. So that’s when men usually have more options. Same reason why women these days do whatever they want while they’re young and beautiful, because that’s when they have more options.
Facts
Truth. Plain and simple.
Envy, ctg your wives may have forgiven you. But they will never forget. 😒
Sitting up here listening to these grown men PANDER and lie and come up with all these eloquent reasons to why men sleep with other women outside of their relationship is sad.. can’t even be real them.. this is not how they talk at the bar when the cameras off and it’s just the guys.. but they so WHIPPED that they gotta talk like this and put on this front like they just above their nature , science and logic .. this is the reason women be scorned because you allow women to believe a false reality when you know that’s not real … tell yo women the truth and you might be surprised what she accepts OR doesn’t.. but lying like black men don’t cheat or they are above it personally is WHACK… Stop lying to women and BE REAL wit em…
Real talk
Bravo! 💯👏🏾👏🏾
A lot of wives do not submit to their husbands, for their husbands, not all women are queens. Some men married into families of women who were once traumatized and moved forward without counseling or help to be able to deal with a man in their future. Some women hold back and will not engage with their husbands when the husbands deservedly should be given his attention. Some women don't do what other women do sexually, and when all of a sudden she stops performing. The big "if" is in play here. If her sisters say they won't do this or that what do you think will happen? Or what do you think won't happen? If you're not getting what you need at home do you clean out your house of the problem or be a man and do what you need to do for yourself? I don't think I need to put her out I don't mind her being around. There are plenty of ways to be mature.
IMHO I think it's selfish and an insecurity. Because something clearly isn't right with the relationship & it might be best to end the relationship vs cheating and trying to 'have both'. I think it's a weak, wussy move. And women cheat quite a bit, fellas. All of this IG, Facebook, selfie stuff for attention & incessant need for validation... wake up. There were two people married in the story you're referencing.
If you are married past 40 you shouldn’t cheat unless your wife is one foot out of the door and not thinking about coming back. But if you are dating sow your royal oats as King Jaffe of Zumoomda would say. 😂
Or just leave the relationship. 😂 lol
Yes make a bunch of bastard babies that you'll be paying child support for 24 years . Great idea
Yes it and at this point charlamagne and envy it is really absurd that the man of the age group from 40 to 60 still out here in these streets I often ask myself that question as well it's sad but it has everything to do with healing your childhood traumas I believe and some of us have adult traumas and if you don't heal you going to continue to chase your tail
I’m not saying cheating is ok, but it’s innately natural for men to want multiple women. It’s a natural/biological thing when it comes to men. It’s something that’s innate. You can say it’s ego, but once you get into the science of human nature and biology, ppl will see that it’s deeper than that
They ain’t ready for this truth!!!
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U can have as many women as u like, just tell them. Its not cheating if they know
Just don’t commit and do you. That’s fair
Actually I'm more than happy with just one woman. Hell she's a handful sometimes. I don't need her having any allies scheming on me and comparing notes about my dick lol one woman is more than enough
Wait, wait, wait..DJ Envy is Dominican?lmao😆😆🤣🤣
Lies!!!!! it’s not about insecurity. men and women do it because they want to and they can!!! Period. someone who truly loves and cares about you is going to make sure you never find out they did it in the first place 😂😩
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Nah it’s about new pussy feeling incredible
No. Love and deception are not bedfellows. Its not about love. They lie because the truth may cause the person to leave them which for them is an inconvenience. Thats why they try to make sure their husband or wife doesn't find out. It's actually an act of selfishness. I've never understood how a person believes purposely doing something that they know for certain will emotionally devastate another human being and lying about it is love. Either seek a poly relationship or just stay single with no obligation to anyone.
“The way of the superior man”
Because monogamy isn’t for everybody 🤷🏾♂️
I agree but it should be an understanding on both ends.
@@srianna0416 who said otherwise 🤨🤔
@@srianna0416 Exactly. It's not cheating if you've clearly stated that you're not interested in being in an exclusive, monogamous relationship and you both are on board with that decision. What's the problem?
The Dominican recognizes the Dominican in Envy 🤣🤣🤣🤣