The problem isn’t that they’re independent. The problem is the attitude that comes with women who are obsessed with being a “strong, independent woman.” If you’re a strong woman, you don’t need to say it. I have an amazing wife with a great career, but she’s down to earth and is a team player. We both play our roles with no problem.
Agree brother, they earn that "title" with self-claim, they feel so powerful with it haha, they feel like alpha women... Being alpha, because you're all women are acknowledged by society, then it's fine But the problem is with their character and attitude, arrogance is trash for marriage, we're men doesn't accept arrogance, it has nothing to do with "inferior things" Because they can still be independent, but once you're attached to relationship, then you need to be dependent to your guy That's what relationship is for :)
Yeah, ole girl dug herself into a hole with the "they only want young women who want to be quiet". Then she compounds it with the nonsensical toxic masculinity rant 🤦
This is exactly why I can't stand cocky people. They are so full of ignorance and stupidity. In the end, they ALWAYS make a fool of themselves while the humble person is proven right.
To any “Alpha” there may be, as in people that need attention to justified their being, I’ll just say this quote that I love. “Those who shine from within don’t need the spotlight. I lion need not announce himself.”
Whole societies were built on women being in charge of house. When a woman gives birth, cooks , cleans, nurtures, organizes the family life SHE is in charge of the house. I find it strange when the woman is NOT in charge of the house,
That last bit from the woman sounds like she's talking positive about traditional male roles but don't realize she's still stuck in the modern feminist frame. The young ones fail to realize that equality don't mean equal in the roles between a man and a woman, but in terms of overall value that they bring to the relationship. Men do not give a rats ass if you got a degree or if you're making six figures unless you are broke yourself, but then she wouldn't find you financially attractive anyway. Just look at the table of this discussion, two established men with two young women who is only there because they are attractive. Nothing wrong with that.
@@gorliagirp7274 a very good point. I would argue that Stalin isn't a communist. By which I mean that he used communism to climb up the power ladder and become a dictator. And that's what communism does. Use equality of outcome to enforce tyranny and hence the reason why communism is a scam and will never work.
So I’ve been seeing this a lot lately that masculine men don’t want masculine women. And I know this not to be true. I would consider myself pretty masculine and yet I am attracted to “masculine” women. I absolutely detest small, weak women. Absolutely want nothing to do with them. And the only women who don’t embody small, weak and helpless are masculine women. But this actually popped into my head because they were talking about femininity and masculinity. Of coarse I do look to make sure the plumbing is still there but when I judge a partner or look for a woman I don’t judge her by her “femininity”. I judge her as an individual separated from her feminine. As an individual is she attractive? Is she virtuous? And I think this is the problem. People are looking through these lenses of masculine and feminine instead individuals and virtues.
Considering it ain't it bro go ask your homies if they say it to be true go live your life your an exception ig, but a lot of time people overestimate their qualities
This sounds like a load of horse shit man. If your a true masculine male you don't want a masculine female. Unless you want actually are gay and want a man.
But to get to that point of seeing if she’s virtuous and those other nontangible qualities your hindbrain selects which girl would be picked for further qualifications. Men and women do it without noticing so the point Rollo is saying is in general(meaning most, not just you) move this way because it’s been studied throughout mankind and men and women have certain qualities they look for from the opposite sex. In generality most men look for the same characteristics like a girl being feminine, pretty, nice body, let’s you lead, isn’t argumentative…etc while women look for taller, stronger men, had ambition, confident, has money or at least something going for themselves, mentally and emotionally stimulative, etc… doesn’t mean all but majority rules, the minority doesn’t scratch the surface for human instinct wiring of the generality for both sexes.
@@chris_breezy4961 I disagree. The only situation where your hindbrain has to be used and virtue isn’t the first you qualify and looks are is just out in public. When you have nothing to go on except looks. In any other situation where there’s a common goal like a class, work or just something where there’s something happening that people cooperate towards. Virtue is the first thing being looked at not looks. However this is nearly impossible just in the open public when you don’t just bump into each other accidentally. Physicality is the only thing you have to go on.
@@WhoIsJohnGaltt hindbrain isn’t something that you purposely use, it’s a subconscious process that happens without thinking. It’s wired to us like breathing, you know you’re breathing but you don’t think about it during your day. Humans always make judgment calls at first sight because that’s a trait humans use for different reasons, whether it’s to take affirmative action, be cautious, communicate, etc…we collect data unconsciously in a rapid pace and the concept works the same for dating. First usually comes appearance, then any intriguing factors like lifestyle, persona, and other attributes. Once that’s complete now you actually look at the person for those features that you personally like.
2 problems 1. If a guy can't get a girl, he'll blame them and make an excuse, this is true 2. Some guys are doing right things, women aren't playing their role, and yea.
I get the independent part, what I dont get is "strong" what do women mean by that? Men never refer to themselves as strong when describing their independence. "Yeah I'm a strong independent man"
Went on a date with a chick that was “ceo” of a business she started. Never will be going on another date with a female like that. They got too much “boss” energy that prevents them from being submissive. I don’t care about the female’s career. Just be attractive and fun to be with that’s it.
Love that you guys have been discussing this in recent videos. The whole men losing their masculinity and females being more dominant these days. Men are not talking about this enough probably cause we’re that low maintenance and don’t give a crap lol. But it should be talked about more. We need men to be men again and masculinity shouldn’t be frowned down upon. Let men be men again.
According to what I heard in the video, is an alpha "person" someone with the best leadership skills, or is it someone with the best attributes to attract a mate?
And lastly can you please bring some women that's your age to be interviewed. Not young women without any experience or children. And they will tell you the reason why they feel this way or have went into this arena of life. Contrary to what you men think women don't always stay in their twenties they get older. So you having these young girls on here it's really just to suit men and you're not really giving them actually good advice from mature women who understand certain things. These women still have a lot to learn. You guys aren't really teaching men anything
7:15 men have been bashed down by retributive feminism for so long, it's going to be very hard to find their "equal" or better, but why argue, just MGTOW, actions speak louder than words. 10:00 a fish teaches us how to catch fish, from her own chad experiences. The hive mentality is strong with these two.
Being independent and strong yet being empathetic and nurturing are concepts that contradict each other. Someone w both skill sets doesn't exist. You're either the pin or the cushion.
I don't know, I think there can be a healthy balance. For example, taking care of yourself when you don't have a man, but then being open to depending on him when you find one.
@@Holmnielsen- Not how it works, once you get used to taking care of yourself, you wont want to be dependent on someone else. Or you'll date them and end up resenting them bc you''ll feel like they held you back. Thats why a lot of girls are ending up alone, and divorces are so high.
I was independent before got married. Once I got my son, I was happy to stay home and take care of my family. My husband doing well financially and I’m glad I don’t have to hustle anymore. I’m just enjoying being mom and wife and I have my hobbies and taking care of myself physically, mentally and intellectually. My husband getting more and more successful because I took most of our family problems away from his shoulders. And I know once my kids grow up and become independent I’ll be ready to be back to the game.
Interesting comment at the end by the young lady on the left..."Guys, tell me that I'm argumentative and difficult. But I don't see myself like that." Being argumentative and difficult is not feminine. It's a shame she doesn't have more self awareness because she was talking about being feminine. As Jordan Peterson likes to say, our self-perception is much less valid than the feedback that we get from multiple other people on the same subject...especially when it's essentially the same feedback.
For whatever reason, we are catering to the minority instead of the majority. There are exceptions but we don't change everything to cater to those exceptions.
Toxic masculinity is when you shame a man for crying and showing his feelings and emotions like a human being. Not shaming a dude because he's in his masculine energy. That could mean he's a provider and protector. And that is hot. Another form of toxic masculinity is being emotionally immature and that's something men need to work on. Also plenty of you say you don't want an independent woman, but once you have that traditional way for whatever at home y'all get bored of her, to start cheating on her, you don't respect or value her, and sooner or later she's going to end up being a single mother because you abandoned her. And who is that they usually leave them for, an independent woman. At least that's what I've been seen in a plethora of stories throughout the internet. You don't want her to be a boss, you don't want her to be in like making her own money. You wanted her to rely on you, for what? Just to screw her over when you leave? Believe me many women would rather the traditional route, but you men are so unpredictable and selfish women can't rely on that. BTW, you can still be feminine and an independent woman. It's just about having your own financial backing. Plus the things that keep us feminine costs money. An independent woman would have that. And a lot of you men aren't willing to provide that to be funding our beauty/life, or are y'all going to start providing?
The dude is a fake. His name is from a movie. That's how confident this fraud is, he doesn't use his real name, he uses a name from a movie. Adam and him are beta males through and through
It is not a problem, how independent you are, how strong you are, how powerful you are. If you wanna make relationship, you can be still independent, but dependent to your guy... Because it is meaningless, if you have guy, but you are not dependent to him, so what the relationship is for ??
@@arpitachandel7967 companionship is taking care of each other, it is just stupid if women try hard to show their dominance to be acknowledge for their independence. God created us to be interpendent, not to be independent
No one trys hard to show their dominance because if they do they'll eventually get over it and if they don't then that's just the way they are. About the god part how do you know? Interdependence has always been on society at large not on individuals especially now that the world is changing. It's better if they have common values and a middle ground and get over this alpha beta omega bullshit and live in harmony
@@arpitachandel7967 God created Adam and Eve in purpose, so they were designed to be interpendent, if independent had had been a part of HIS design, God would have not created Eve beside Adam. Yes, but the problem in society this modern feminists ruin all the principle values that has been built a long time ago. There is a "Twist" in this freedom of equality, something is wrong here...
@@juliansihite1289 you're thinking too much bout it every animal has male female and intersex counterparts,interdependence is fine as long as the boundaries are defined otherwise we're just like animals,earlier when females were not economically independent they couldn't make any resolve decision for themselves and their autonomy which now they can.Having said that there are misandrist undoubtedly under the mask of feminism and same goes for men's right activists as well.
I knew very early on I was an alpha female because of when I used to lower myself to the beta females they would start bullying me so when I became independent and not reliant onto them they would look at me like god I swear it’s weird I do feel like a man lord
How about nobody has a problem and people live their life the way they want to. What's wrong with that. Why is it bad when a woman is an alpha but it's not bad when a man to offer? Again double standards. I guess people still aren't getting the point... Not everyone is super feminine not everyone wants to be married, not everyone wants to have children, why is it a problem when a woman wants to be in charge of her own life without even thinking about a man? That's because me and always think it's about them!! I really wish men get over themselves!! Please leave women the f*** alone
@@nirmalramath8441 perhaps you can take your own advice. One day we'll both die so I'm gonna do what's best for my life. If you have a problem with that then go read some self help books and step your definition of life up. Good day fussy
In the last few seconds, she said what is basically the problem... "I don't see myself like that" Precisely! That's why they don't get it! She only sees herself from her own perspective and through rose colored, self affirming glasses! It doesn't matter how you see yourself! It's how you present yourself to everyone else! *How you're seen by others!* We all see ourselves in a better light than others do. Doubly so with women! I can't count how many times I've heard women describe themselves as loving, nurturing, empathetic, etc., but they're *always* anything but. Women simply do not understand how to embrace reality.
see tons of 40 plus women who are college educated, single, never married, no kids and now they want a partner? they had many years to find a guy before 40
“I’m very independent. I’m very strong” 😅 What the hell is a “strong” woman? They wouldn’t be able to define it. What use does her supposed strength have to a man? 😂 They have no idea what men want!!!
It's become complicated because men and women who are striking out for whatever reasons are adopting these idealized talking points without understanding how it applies to themselves or to people they are trying to date. They go out into the world with their chest up and chin high talking about "bad b*tch" and "alpha male" but don't have the slightest clue on navigating all the nuances of basic human interaction.
@@BlowitAllUp umm not sure how to explain but now a days its equally important for women to bring home the money and share all responsibilities. Otherwise it doesn’t work out. Specially with everything being so expensive and fast paced.
@@chandrangmakwana252 Women compete with men for jobs now. Women entering the workforce also cuts mens salaries in half. It’s all an agenda to suppress wages. This also reduces mens value because our value is based on our income.
I really feel like none of this was really useful. Look, I met many guys in my religion (I’m Mexican by the way) who want to marry me. I’m not very educated and grew up in a traditional religious household. In fact, I was raised to be a submissive wife. However, I won’t marry because most of these guys are not breadwinners. Most men don’t want to marry an alpha female but they also don’t want to be breadwinners. Soooo whether we get an education or not, most men won’t get an education or a build a business. With or without women, men are inspiring to not get anywhere in life and that’s on them. I think high networth women should just get a prenuptial agreement and marry a guy half there age. And if you do, never reveal too much about your career, your income, net worth and file your marriage license with separate tax filing. Also, you should live separately from them while married so they don’t financially mooch because it is what it is. Generally speaking, a man who’s not financially a breadwinner in the USA by the age of 36 is due to emotional instability and financial negligence. He can your friend, but never your spouse. A plan A and a plan B that works. Too bad! 🥴
Also generally speaking, a women not being in a stable marriage by the age of 20 is due to emotional instability. A woman losing her virginity to a guy she isn't married to in her teenage years shows emotional instability. It shows that she has an emotional issue accepting the fact that the only men who would offer her a long term relationship are the men who are ACTUALLY in her league. It shows that she wants to pretend that men who are out of her league are actually in her league by temporarily sleeping with those men even if she knows they will never commit to her long term before she starts sleeping with them. She can be your side piece, but never your spouse if she is dating around past age 20.
I equate an "alpha female" to a female leader - someone who people look up to and want to follow. I don't think it's so much the "strong, independent woman" thing, but that she is well respected regardless if she is more "masculine" or "feminine." I feel like this episode is full of stereotypes that are not exactly true.
No woman wants a man she has to lead. As a majority this is hardly the case. Anything else is an outlier or an exception. Reason being is because 100 years ago if you picked a male mate that couldn't lead or properly defend your safety your lineage died. We still operate the same way in various aspects. Why else would women as a majority want taller men etc. It was inherent for survival. If what you say is correct we would have had dominant matriarchy's in existence. But there wasn't because they'd be wiped out of existence by a conquering tribe etc. Also most women want a man that is at least on her level if not above her level. In various ways. It's rare that an "alpha women" as you say would have ever had a chance because since the dawn of mankind reality itself has been sexist. All of this stems from a biological imperative for survival. Men are respected leaders because of physicality to be honest. Because if your woman "led" anything and she was challenged the next step would be physical and its a wrap. With man to man disagreements throughout history it came to that since the dawn of man. The only reason really we scoff at this is because we live in a first world country. If our infrastructure collapsed and society crumbled into chaos we would quickly and abruptly revert back to our true traditional roles.
Luv this. I think I am a rational male , one of my best friends which he is not anymore unfortunately try to shove male alpha male crap down my throat I wasn't hearing try to hear. That's toxic masculinity
The problem isn’t that they’re independent. The problem is the attitude that comes with women who are obsessed with being a “strong, independent woman.” If you’re a strong woman, you don’t need to say it. I have an amazing wife with a great career, but she’s down to earth and is a team player. We both play our roles with no problem.
@Hallo Apple you r better off without him. You need someone that appreciates all of you.
@@mandalyem or maybe he was better off without her. That's why now he is married to a more younger girl.
Agree brother, they earn that "title" with self-claim, they feel so powerful with it haha, they feel like alpha women...
Being alpha, because you're all women are acknowledged by society, then it's fine
But the problem is with their character and attitude, arrogance is trash for marriage, we're men doesn't accept arrogance, it has nothing to do with "inferior things"
Because they can still be independent, but once you're attached to relationship, then you need to be dependent to your guy
That's what relationship is for :)
Women are strong and independent, until its time to be strong and independent.
LOL
Facts!!!
Yep it's nothing but virtue signalling. Went to shit gets real they'll be the first ones to throw you under the bus
Never have I heard from a woman, "my husband saved my life.".
Always I have heard from a woman, "My kids saved my life and I love being a mom.".
This is a prime example of women who are more attractive when they do not talk.
Thats very toxic masculinity of you
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@@bobmalooga335 😂
Yeah, ole girl dug herself into a hole with the "they only want young women who want to be quiet". Then she compounds it with the nonsensical toxic masculinity rant 🤦
Femininity usually suffers in strong women. Femininity does not equal weakness. It’s not a crime to look good.
The stupid are full of confidence while the intelligent are full of doubts.
This is exactly why I can't stand cocky people. They are so full of ignorance and stupidity. In the end, they ALWAYS make a fool of themselves while the humble person is proven right.
If you're alpha you don't need to tell anybody about it. Other people will.
Exactly! If a man or woman calls themselves an alpha, it's a dead give away they are not.
To any “Alpha” there may be, as in people that need attention to justified their being, I’ll just say this quote that I love. “Those who shine from within don’t need the spotlight. I lion need not announce himself.”
Big big problem when the women is in charge of the house.
Whole societies were built on women being in charge of house. When a woman gives birth, cooks , cleans, nurtures, organizes the family life SHE is in charge of the house. I find it strange when the woman is NOT in charge of the house,
06:46 Link to the video mentioned...
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The answer is everything. Literally everything is wrong with them.
That last bit from the woman sounds like she's talking positive about traditional male roles but don't realize she's still stuck in the modern feminist frame. The young ones fail to realize that equality don't mean equal in the roles between a man and a woman, but in terms of overall value that they bring to the relationship. Men do not give a rats ass if you got a degree or if you're making six figures unless you are broke yourself, but then she wouldn't find you financially attractive anyway. Just look at the table of this discussion, two established men with two young women who is only there because they are attractive. Nothing wrong with that.
You can't be a communist and an Alpha at the same time ladies.
I’d argue nobody was more Alpha than Stalin.
@@gorliagirp7274 a very good point. I would argue that Stalin isn't a communist. By which I mean that he used communism to climb up the power ladder and become a dictator. And that's what communism does. Use equality of outcome to enforce tyranny and hence the reason why communism is a scam and will never work.
Unless your major is in STEM, Medicine, Accounting or Engineering, your “Education” means very little to society.
Omg so much truth in this video. If THEY would only understand how much they hurt themselves
So I’ve been seeing this a lot lately that masculine men don’t want masculine women. And I know this not to be true. I would consider myself pretty masculine and yet I am attracted to “masculine” women. I absolutely detest small, weak women. Absolutely want nothing to do with them. And the only women who don’t embody small, weak and helpless are masculine women.
But this actually popped into my head because they were talking about femininity and masculinity. Of coarse I do look to make sure the plumbing is still there but when I judge a partner or look for a woman I don’t judge her by her “femininity”. I judge her as an individual separated from her feminine. As an individual is she attractive? Is she virtuous? And I think this is the problem. People are looking through these lenses of masculine and feminine instead individuals and virtues.
Considering it ain't it bro go ask your homies if they say it to be true go live your life your an exception ig, but a lot of time people overestimate their qualities
This sounds like a load of horse shit man. If your a true masculine male you don't want a masculine female. Unless you want actually are gay and want a man.
But to get to that point of seeing if she’s virtuous and those other nontangible qualities your hindbrain selects which girl would be picked for further qualifications. Men and women do it without noticing so the point Rollo is saying is in general(meaning most, not just you) move this way because it’s been studied throughout mankind and men and women have certain qualities they look for from the opposite sex. In generality most men look for the same characteristics like a girl being feminine, pretty, nice body, let’s you lead, isn’t argumentative…etc while women look for taller, stronger men, had ambition, confident, has money or at least something going for themselves, mentally and emotionally stimulative, etc… doesn’t mean all but majority rules, the minority doesn’t scratch the surface for human instinct wiring of the generality for both sexes.
@@chris_breezy4961 I disagree. The only situation where your hindbrain has to be used and virtue isn’t the first you qualify and looks are is just out in public. When you have nothing to go on except looks. In any other situation where there’s a common goal like a class, work or just something where there’s something happening that people cooperate towards. Virtue is the first thing being looked at not looks.
However this is nearly impossible just in the open public when you don’t just bump into each other accidentally. Physicality is the only thing you have to go on.
@@WhoIsJohnGaltt hindbrain isn’t something that you purposely use, it’s a subconscious process that happens without thinking. It’s wired to us like breathing, you know you’re breathing but you don’t think about it during your day. Humans always make judgment calls at first sight because that’s a trait humans use for different reasons, whether it’s to take affirmative action, be cautious, communicate, etc…we collect data unconsciously in a rapid pace and the concept works the same for dating. First usually comes appearance, then any intriguing factors like lifestyle, persona, and other attributes. Once that’s complete now you actually look at the person for those features that you personally like.
2 problems
1. If a guy can't get a girl, he'll blame them and make an excuse, this is true
2. Some guys are doing right things, women aren't playing their role, and yea.
I get the independent part, what I dont get is "strong" what do women mean by that? Men never refer to themselves as strong when describing their independence. "Yeah I'm a strong independent man"
lol you’re so right. Idek what that means as a woman.
Lions don’t to have to tell other animals they’re the king of the jungle because if you have to do that, you’re not.
Went on a date with a chick that was “ceo” of a business she started. Never will be going on another date with a female like that. They got too much “boss” energy that prevents them from being submissive. I don’t care about the female’s career. Just be attractive and fun to be with that’s it.
You sound pressed and insecure
Love that you guys have been discussing this in recent videos. The whole men losing their masculinity and females being more dominant these days. Men are not talking about this enough probably cause we’re that low maintenance and don’t give a crap lol. But it should be talked about more. We need men to be men again and masculinity shouldn’t be frowned down upon. Let men be men again.
The last chick made absolutely no sense on trying to describe “Toxic Masculinity”!
@10:35 men dont want partners, women do.
men want wives
According to what I heard in the video, is an alpha "person" someone with the best leadership skills, or is it someone with the best attributes to attract a mate?
Her decades of wisdom
And lastly can you please bring some women that's your age to be interviewed. Not young women without any experience or children. And they will tell you the reason why they feel this way or have went into this arena of life. Contrary to what you men think women don't always stay in their twenties they get older. So you having these young girls on here it's really just to suit men and you're not really giving them actually good advice from mature women who understand certain things. These women still have a lot to learn. You guys aren't really teaching men anything
7:15 men have been bashed down by retributive feminism for so long, it's going to be very hard to find their "equal" or better, but why argue, just MGTOW, actions speak louder than words. 10:00 a fish teaches us how to catch fish, from her own chad experiences. The hive mentality is strong with these two.
I hear that word and I hear headache.
Read the book "The End of Woman...how smashing the patriarchy has destroyed us" by Carrie Gress, PhD. The author also has videos on UA-cam.
Being independent and strong yet being empathetic and nurturing are concepts that contradict each other.
Someone w both skill sets doesn't exist. You're either the pin or the cushion.
I don't know, I think there can be a healthy balance. For example, taking care of yourself when you don't have a man, but then being open to depending on him when you find one.
@@Holmnielsen- Not how it works, once you get used to taking care of yourself, you wont want to be dependent on someone else. Or you'll date them and end up resenting them bc you''ll feel like they held you back.
Thats why a lot of girls are ending up alone, and divorces are so high.
@@marcuslong9761 i'm completely independent and i can say you are right, i don't want to give that up.... even if it means staying alone.
I was independent before got married. Once I got my son, I was happy to stay home and take care of my family. My husband doing well financially and I’m glad I don’t have to hustle anymore. I’m just enjoying being mom and wife and I have my hobbies and taking care of myself physically, mentally and intellectually. My husband getting more and more successful because I took most of our family problems away from his shoulders. And I know once my kids grow up and become independent I’ll be ready to be back to the game.
Interesting comment at the end by the young lady on the left..."Guys, tell me that I'm argumentative and difficult. But I don't see myself like that."
Being argumentative and difficult is not feminine. It's a shame she doesn't have more self awareness because she was talking about being feminine.
As Jordan Peterson likes to say, our self-perception is much less valid than the feedback that we get from multiple other people on the same subject...especially when it's essentially the same feedback.
For whatever reason, we are catering to the minority instead of the majority. There are exceptions but we don't change everything to cater to those exceptions.
This chick isn’t smart she just has nice vocabulary
Toxic masculinity is when you shame a man for crying and showing his feelings and emotions like a human being. Not shaming a dude because he's in his masculine energy. That could mean he's a provider and protector. And that is hot. Another form of toxic masculinity is being emotionally immature and that's something men need to work on. Also plenty of you say you don't want an independent woman, but once you have that traditional way for whatever at home y'all get bored of her, to start cheating on her, you don't respect or value her, and sooner or later she's going to end up being a single mother because you abandoned her. And who is that they usually leave them for, an independent woman. At least that's what I've been seen in a plethora of stories throughout the internet. You don't want her to be a boss, you don't want her to be in like making her own money. You wanted her to rely on you, for what? Just to screw her over when you leave? Believe me many women would rather the traditional route, but you men are so unpredictable and selfish women can't rely on that. BTW, you can still be feminine and an independent woman. It's just about having your own financial backing. Plus the things that keep us feminine costs money. An independent woman would have that. And a lot of you men aren't willing to provide that to be funding our beauty/life, or are y'all going to start providing?
Men's preferences are not toxic
What would you call a good looking girl with an IQ of a goldfish?
Asking for a friend.
A potential wife, if she is younger than 25 and don’t have kids from previous relationships.
@@willia3r why would you ever want that? You want your kids to ride the short bus?
@@BillyBob-oi9kl depends on a lot of factors and variables.
Trophy wife?
Rollo is the man.
The dude is a fake. His name is from a movie. That's how confident this fraud is, he doesn't use his real name, he uses a name from a movie. Adam and him are beta males through and through
It is not a problem, how independent you are, how strong you are, how powerful you are.
If you wanna make relationship, you can be still independent, but dependent to your guy...
Because it is meaningless, if you have guy, but you are not dependent to him, so what the relationship is for ??
The relationship is for companionship not dependency
@@arpitachandel7967 companionship is taking care of each other, it is just stupid if women try hard to show their dominance to be acknowledge for their independence.
God created us to be interpendent, not to be independent
No one trys hard to show their dominance because if they do they'll eventually get over it and if they don't then that's just the way they are. About the god part how do you know? Interdependence has always been on society at large not on individuals especially now that the world is changing. It's better if they have common values and a middle ground and get over this alpha beta omega bullshit and live in harmony
@@arpitachandel7967 God created Adam and Eve in purpose, so they were designed to be interpendent, if independent had had been a part of HIS design, God would have not created Eve beside Adam.
Yes, but the problem in society this modern feminists ruin all the principle values that has been built a long time ago. There is a "Twist" in this freedom of equality, something is wrong here...
@@juliansihite1289 you're thinking too much bout it every animal has male female and intersex counterparts,interdependence is fine as long as the boundaries are defined otherwise we're just like animals,earlier when females were not economically independent they couldn't make any resolve decision for themselves and their autonomy which now they can.Having said that there are misandrist undoubtedly under the mask of feminism and same goes for men's right activists as well.
I knew very early on I was an alpha female because of when I used to lower myself to the beta females they would start bullying me so when I became independent and not reliant onto them they would look at me like god I swear it’s weird I do feel like a man lord
How about nobody has a problem and people live their life the way they want to. What's wrong with that. Why is it bad when a woman is an alpha but it's not bad when a man to offer? Again double standards. I guess people still aren't getting the point... Not everyone is super feminine not everyone wants to be married, not everyone wants to have children, why is it a problem when a woman wants to be in charge of her own life without even thinking about a man? That's because me and always think it's about them!! I really wish men get over themselves!! Please leave women the f*** alone
How about you didn't comment and minded your business
@@nirmalramath8441 perhaps you can take your own advice. One day we'll both die so I'm gonna do what's best for my life. If you have a problem with that then go read some self help books and step your definition of life up. Good day fussy
I respect women, I love women, I respect women so much that I completely stay away from them. - andy stitzer
In the last few seconds, she said what is basically the problem... "I don't see myself like that"
Precisely! That's why they don't get it! She only sees herself from her own perspective and through rose colored, self affirming glasses! It doesn't matter how you see yourself! It's how you present yourself to everyone else! *How you're seen by others!* We all see ourselves in a better light than others do. Doubly so with women!
I can't count how many times I've heard women describe themselves as loving, nurturing, empathetic, etc., but they're *always* anything but.
Women simply do not understand how to embrace reality.
Why’s Adam holding up the shockher at the beginning of this?
Freudian slip of action ☠️
Theyre so strong and independent that men dont want them and they dont known why
see tons of 40 plus women who are college educated, single, never married, no kids and now they want a partner? they had many years to find a guy before 40
Why are you expecting a man should be attracted to a man? A alpha to alpha ?😅😅
The girl describing Toxic Masculinity is talking in Circles and normal Woman like men that workout & strive to make something of themselves a lie ?
I can't take anyone who hedges, afraid to take up space or make themselves super small. Bye...
She doesn’t see herself as those things but she has no man 🤣🤣🤣
Alpha Female? Strong indipendant woman? Oh, you mean, masculine woman...
“I’m very independent. I’m very strong” 😅 What the hell is a “strong” woman? They wouldn’t be able to define it. What use does her supposed strength have to a man? 😂 They have no idea what men want!!!
Good video! 👍
There’s no such thing as an alpha female.
Meira seems nice but I hope feminism doesn't ruin her.
Anyone who calls themselves "Alpha" _____ is cringe to the bone and reeks of insecurity. End of story.
Confusing topic ... the world has become a complicated place when it comes to dating.
It's become complicated because men and women who are striking out for whatever reasons are adopting these idealized talking points without understanding how it applies to themselves or to people they are trying to date. They go out into the world with their chest up and chin high talking about "bad b*tch" and "alpha male" but don't have the slightest clue on navigating all the nuances of basic human interaction.
who r these people? daviidd
Wow women are being counselled by this guy
...I'm not sure if in the end that girl understood the assignment
The moment a woman makes more than the man does... she becomes a one sided sexual narcissist.
What the hell do you need a woman for? Nobody dies from lack of sex or lack of love.
Just say you gay bro lmao
Eh I'm sure some people have killed themselves over being lonely, ie having no love
Sirrr why don't you invite Jake woodard
The notion of equality...equal partner....i can see the society decline...believe me if anyone reading this comment....i am not angry..
Unless you're learning STEM you're not really contributing anything to society. Just be good moms and wives.
PhD is "fat studies" don't count?😉
Same applies to men as well?
@@chandrangmakwana252 It actually doesn’t because a woman’s value isn’t based on her career or income.
@@BlowitAllUp umm not sure how to explain but now a days its equally important for women to bring home the money and share all responsibilities. Otherwise it doesn’t work out. Specially with everything being so expensive and fast paced.
@@chandrangmakwana252 Women compete with men for jobs now. Women entering the workforce also cuts mens salaries in half. It’s all an agenda to suppress wages. This also reduces mens value because our value is based on our income.
I really feel like none of this was really useful. Look, I met many guys in my religion (I’m Mexican by the way) who want to marry me. I’m not very educated and grew up in a traditional religious household. In fact, I was raised to be a submissive wife. However, I won’t marry because most of these guys are not breadwinners. Most men don’t want to marry an alpha female but they also don’t want to be breadwinners. Soooo whether we get an education or not, most men won’t get an education or a build a business. With or without women, men are inspiring to not get anywhere in life and that’s on them. I think high networth women should just get a prenuptial agreement and marry a guy half there age. And if you do, never reveal too much about your career, your income, net worth and file your marriage license with separate tax filing. Also, you should live separately from them while married so they don’t financially mooch because it is what it is. Generally speaking, a man who’s not financially a breadwinner in the USA by the age of 36 is due to emotional instability and financial negligence. He can your friend, but never your spouse. A plan A and a plan B that works. Too bad! 🥴
There is no incentive to be a breadwinner in a society that forces breadwinners to pay for women they don't get to fuck.
Are you in austin tx
Also generally speaking, a women not being in a stable marriage by the age of 20 is due to emotional instability. A woman losing her virginity to a guy she isn't married to in her teenage years shows emotional instability. It shows that she has an emotional issue accepting the fact that the only men who would offer her a long term relationship are the men who are ACTUALLY in her league. It shows that she wants to pretend that men who are out of her league are actually in her league by temporarily sleeping with those men even if she knows they will never commit to her long term before she starts sleeping with them. She can be your side piece, but never your spouse if she is dating around past age 20.
Dude this chick is so fuckin smart for her age. To any man who is a student of the mind she is wife type high grade bet
She's just a hole. Nothing else , nothing more.
non sense conversation, who are these people ? al betas
There are no alpha females
Is that a man wearing capris?
He needs to face his baldness and shave his head.
He is old, old guys pull up their pant legs when they sit, it was common until people became slobs.
@@donarmstrong2182 He's wearing high waters on purpose to be hip.
yo these chicks are legit
Agreed
if you say so I suppose…🤔
Angelina Jolie is an alpha!
That dude wearing a beanie indoors automatically disqualifies his credibility.
Dumb logic
I have no problem with any attractive female.
attractiveness will eventually wear off if she has no character.
I equate an "alpha female" to a female leader - someone who people look up to and want to follow. I don't think it's so much the "strong, independent woman" thing, but that she is well respected regardless if she is more "masculine" or "feminine." I feel like this episode is full of stereotypes that are not exactly true.
Alpha female is for PUMP AND DUMP by chads only and are not family material.
You must have called yourself an alpha female before. Congratulations you act like a man
Don't take this the wrong way but I've never looked up to a female in my entire life. I don't assume girls typically look up to men either.
No woman wants a man she has to lead. As a majority this is hardly the case. Anything else is an outlier or an exception. Reason being is because 100 years ago if you picked a male mate that couldn't lead or properly defend your safety your lineage died. We still operate the same way in various aspects. Why else would women as a majority want taller men etc. It was inherent for survival. If what you say is correct we would have had dominant matriarchy's in existence. But there wasn't because they'd be wiped out of existence by a conquering tribe etc. Also most women want a man that is at least on her level if not above her level. In various ways. It's rare that an "alpha women" as you say would have ever had a chance because since the dawn of mankind reality itself has been sexist. All of this stems from a biological imperative for survival. Men are respected leaders because of physicality to be honest. Because if your woman "led" anything and she was challenged the next step would be physical and its a wrap. With man to man disagreements throughout history it came to that since the dawn of man. The only reason really we scoff at this is because we live in a first world country. If our infrastructure collapsed and society crumbled into chaos we would quickly and abruptly revert back to our true traditional roles.
@@IfbbProMartaeRuelas nail on the head
even woman to the right is embaresed to lisen to here fried talking about Alpha Women...so funny
I'm sigma lady
Doesnt exist
Adam is an alpha female.
😂😂😂
Luv this. I think I am a rational male , one of my best friends which he is not anymore unfortunately try to shove male alpha male crap down my throat I wasn't hearing try to hear. That's toxic masculinity
Wow wish I wanted to be what you wanted oh wait nah I don’t . Just seems pretty hateful on women. Like men are jealous or insecure.
Great balanced discussion. So many fake alpha males out there. If somone has to tell you how to be alpha you arn't alpha 😂
@Appollo haha you don't know me bro trust me I do. Trouble is when I'm around there isn't many alphas to speak to.
U need trump to talk about alpha males
@UltraJeed Trump lost a fake election. The people want Trump not some old pedo who had a crack addict son
Last 🤬 💩
She is just not making sense
i was 420th like on this video
1st !