I'm still technically married but separated. he was abusive and as long as he doesn't hurt us anymore I feel safe. divorcing is just paperwork, he keeps his distance, i told him he can get supervised visits but its not safe to let him have the kids alone. how do I, as a single mother who understands that children need a father, how do I do this? I shouldn't have reproduced with a monster but I did and now my babies dont have a dad. what do I do? I wont put him on child support through the government, he sends money for me to raise our children and there is no reason to turn him into an indentured servant getting the state involved. he chose not to have supervised visits and now has no relationship with his children. he did some things that make me think he would've hurt our kids in the worst way. the reason I dont want him around the kids is because i BELIEVE (i cant prove it but i can list things he did that make me and other people worry he was going to, i would never lie about these things and he would act like he didn't do things like that or he didn't remember or it was normal, gaslighting me to basically groom ME to allow him to hurt our kids.) I'm traumatized, i cant just go find a good man to be with, frankly I'm not good enough for a good man. is there anything i can do so that my children dont suffer so much for my choosing the wrong person? is there anything i can do for them so they grow up better adjusted? i feel shame and guilt and fear over it, my children deserved a good father and its my fault they didn't get one. i gave him a lot of chances and he wouldn't change. he was arrested for hitting me once and he knew not to hit me again but that frustrated him he wanted to and he got worse in other ways because of it. when he assaulted me sexually i realized he was still capable of assault. he had admitted to abusing his little sister sexually. bringing him back into our kids lives isn't an option. he made me feel like i was the bad one if i protect them from him. i couldn't close my eyes without panicking. even with him sleeping downstairs at the end i was scared he would sneak into our daughters room while i slept. it cant be wrong for me to keep a predator away from my children. i didn't know he was a monster until we were having a baby and getting married. how do i help my children so this doesn't cause them to end up in jail or selling their bodies or doing drugs? is there just nothing i can do?
Plus the inmates have that _badboy_ charisma...like the women that are drawn to drug dealers, Pookie, Ray Ray... Because its inexplicable that a woman will be with such a broke guy, struggling AND getting _physically mistreated_ but still goes back, works and pays most if not all the bills
9:00 when she said she had to quit her job at the salon and they were living in his mum's house and she kicked them out and they became homeless living in her car... I burst out laughing wondering at what point will she say "nope, enough is enough "
Imo, she had no business choosing any men at that stage of her life. She just hopped fresh outta high school and landed a job as a C.O. And falls for some convict at the time 😂. They have failed her, big time
As a criminal justice professional the reason she resigned was so she could avoid being charged with PREA and having a felony on her record as well as having to register as a SO. Consent is not upheld when having any kind of intimate relationship with a criminal offender that is incarcerated or on probation/parole. Had she not resigned, he could’ve filed a TORT claim and received a settlement on the grounds of negligence, coercion, SA, all by saying she used her authority to get me to have a relationship with her. This happens all the time.
@@jlcar87 I worked at one in Clayton county in Georgia and 3 of my supervisors got fired because they were dealing with inmates and one is doing jail time for that right now. The other ones were out but couldn’t be in contact with them for at least a year, so she can definitely get in trouble still especially with her doing a video about it but if it was years ago she might be good but idk
@dflava3805 The process to become a CO should be a lot longer. I've taken the civil service exam before and it took 3 years to get a response. Not really sure how she pulled this tbh.
I thought they had women intuition how do they consistently get manipulated. How is it they lump all men in together never deciphering jail bird from regular dudes.
@@DjFiyaFrostCorrect, a sweet girl, yet working in corrections around criminals, then engaging in relationships w/them? Chances are, shes been sleeping w/some of them, not just one. Willing to risk life, career and freedom for that sex action. Then they get mad when ppl label them for the consistently and history theyre showing very often. Its so ridiculous. Her on going blame, is an extreme level of delusion..
Never date, a correction officer female ,a nurse or any female staff that works at Department of corrections that’s what I learned and what I seen in 10 years I did in prison..
Interesting book to read called "Games Criminals Play" about how inmates use casual convo to learn and manipulate. They got nothing but time and nothing to lose.
She quit her job when the guy got transferred to another facility because if she got found out for fraternizing with an inmate she'd get fired. If they found out that she was having sex with him while she's working at the prison they could lock her up and charge to.
Even when they were homeless and living in her car and he was putting his hands on her she STILL was his ride or die and peobably never even cheated on him 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Right? Love how she's trying to say "these men will mentally and physically drain you" like no shit. You chose an abusive felon, what did you think would happen?
So you fall for an inmate and you try putting his mentality and low energy on all men..? Naw, naw we're not accepting that!! It's the men YOU deal with!! And all these chick's commenting after hearing her story saying they would fall for an inmate as well is insane!!!
Weirdest part is these 19 year olds are fully functional to not date a guy that’s 27/28 (engineer) talking about you’re too old for me and you’ll manipulate me but suddenly loose mental functioning for another dude around said age in prison
They want an armed, drug dealer in a suit that makes $250k a year and plays by his own rules regardless of which side of the law he may end up on... They simultaneously want thrill of a chaotic rollercoaster that can fly off the rails and the stability of a train that moves at 70km/hr with robust safety standards
Lots of men think about what these goofy women want. I can tell yall don't get women. Cause idgaf about what a bish think. They always trying to give me some and other than their $ what can she do for me.... nothing but be a headache and not be accountable for anything. I'm cool on that. My woman fine asf and has 2 great jobs yet she too is a dummy
This same woman will be on the Kendra G show looking for a serious relationship & have a whole bunch of standards & demands for the men who are not bad boys
when a man gets an abusive woman, dumps her and takes her back, we tell him "You deserve it". If women go for former inmates, get with them and suffer abuse at their hands, we equally tell her "You deserved it".
I love how she fully avoided the accountability of her choices. Even asked her own momma to end her relationship. I see it starts young. So, did her momma fail her?
I was a sergeant at the State prison for years and I’ve seen a LOT of female CO’s fall. The reason she quit is because if she got caught while working there, she would be charged with SA. Ironically if you’re in prison for 5 years, 80% of inmates have sexual relations with other inmates and the STD’s you can’t get rid of is rampant behind the walls. That’s why I would never mess with a female who has dealt with an inmate…
@@jaspionccv9426it’s extremely bad! Before medical records went digital they were color coded and the room looked like Compton (red is the color code for HIV/AIDS) when you walked in there. This is why any female with an infatuation with inmates are automatically disqualified from my dating options…
Yes. Most are consensual but it’s a small percentage that’s not. Then they go home and give whatever STD they have to the women that are waiting on them…
No you liked what you liked.... started feeling yourself ..... thinking the men you ALWAYS been attracted to gave you some attention.... then you crashed out.... 2:37
How pathetic! Became such losers, to a point that these TWO GROWN ADULTS could not command the smarts to earn some money and have decent meals available to them! Sharing a McDonald's sandwich,, like, consistently?? ..Birds....!
As someone who's worked corrections... The most likely reason as to why she quit her job is that her employer probably started an investigation into her having inappropriate relationships with an inmate. Your colleagues start to pick up on what's going on over time. In order to escape accountability and possible charges being brought, quitting usually suspends the investigation as they really just want you out to begin with so that they don't have to deal with you anymore. It would also explain why he was transferred to another facility (as he was not released) although there are a multitude of other reasons as to why an inmate is transferred to another facility.
Imagine a 40 yr old man dating her mom or even worse dudes mom smh. She gonna ruin your relationship for their idiocracy. It's definitely harder to find a decent woman than it is to find a man of value
A buddy's exgirlfriend who was a guard and weighed under 100lb with zero muscle mass. She got with a female inmate and moved her in after woman was released. Zero consequences! What happens alot is the female guards sexual hassle the new female guards with very little backlash So don't pretend that it just over the male prisoners. She has taken zero accountability and I have zero sympathy! It is important to judge this woman and how figure out how to keep guards like her from being hired.
The problem is with the society that employs people like this.This person does not have it together and she got a job as CO.And society will run to her rescue instead of allowing her face the consequences of her stupidity
If I were a CO I wouldn't even hit no inmate pushy, because my money is more important than those dumb women. Real dumb too. They'd make you loose your career over some kind of jealousy
These “men”?! Nah Chisha she didn’t learn her lesson. If she couldn’t figure what type of “man” and why it was wrong she will be doomed to repeat her mistake
She’s right on some levels. My wife was a lieutenant for 10 years at Angola and I tried it myself. These men have nothing to lose but messing with your head all day for 12 hours your locked in their with them. All day long they play head games. It takes a strong person to work there. This stuff happens all the time. You just don’t hear about it too much in the public. Unless you’ve worked in a prison before it’s really hard to explain it.
To be fair she kept asking him if he’s really cool with it knowing he’s not but he was trying to be. She didn’t HAVE to go to the store with him and she didn’t HAVE to keep asking if he was really good with it she could’ve just stfu🤣🤣
That's the kind of men they ❤️. I dated a nice looking sister , myself being a provider and making the 6 figures i made she sure she stayed on top of her bills and wants. She had it all. Nice cars , cloths everything. Until I found out she had a man in jail. And was making trips to visit him 2 times a month. And was secretly planning to get back with him when he got out of jail. She visited him In the car I made a payments on every other month so she can save money. I pulled the 🔌 plug. I told her let pookie pay your bills see how that works out for you. I dumped her. She lost everything moved back with her mom. I became a passport bro.
Its crazy how these women Chase and deal with toxic men, become extremely toxic themselves, find good men date them destroy their lives and then ask where are all the good men at... turn around and look at all the bodies laid out behind you!
From the comments from people working in corrections services, she likely resigned to avoid being arrested and registered as a $£× offender. . . If the inmate had filed a charge while she was still a corrections officer the punishment would have been severe
She did not learn her lesson. She’s on there telling women that men will drain you when she should be on there, and telling them don’t date someone who’s been in jail. Don’t think you’re different when your parents or family are telling you to pay attention to the red flags. Don’t give up your good job to go be with someone who doesn’t even have his basics together. She hasn’t learned her lesson. She thinks he’s the problem, but she’s also the problem.
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@10:04... hold it together, bruh 😂
@@draco746 lol I didn't want to ruin, so I let the video get here on it's on. lol. The one good thing about the experience.
Do you have a stream deck yet? If not might help w the quick selections and audio drops while recording.
I'm still technically married but separated. he was abusive and as long as he doesn't hurt us anymore I feel safe. divorcing is just paperwork, he keeps his distance, i told him he can get supervised visits but its not safe to let him have the kids alone. how do I, as a single mother who understands that children need a father, how do I do this? I shouldn't have reproduced with a monster but I did and now my babies dont have a dad. what do I do? I wont put him on child support through the government, he sends money for me to raise our children and there is no reason to turn him into an indentured servant getting the state involved. he chose not to have supervised visits and now has no relationship with his children. he did some things that make me think he would've hurt our kids in the worst way. the reason I dont want him around the kids is because i BELIEVE (i cant prove it but i can list things he did that make me and other people worry he was going to, i would never lie about these things and he would act like he didn't do things like that or he didn't remember or it was normal, gaslighting me to basically groom ME to allow him to hurt our kids.) I'm traumatized, i cant just go find a good man to be with, frankly I'm not good enough for a good man. is there anything i can do so that my children dont suffer so much for my choosing the wrong person? is there anything i can do for them so they grow up better adjusted? i feel shame and guilt and fear over it, my children deserved a good father and its my fault they didn't get one. i gave him a lot of chances and he wouldn't change. he was arrested for hitting me once and he knew not to hit me again but that frustrated him he wanted to and he got worse in other ways because of it. when he assaulted me sexually i realized he was still capable of assault. he had admitted to abusing his little sister sexually. bringing him back into our kids lives isn't an option. he made me feel like i was the bad one if i protect them from him. i couldn't close my eyes without panicking. even with him sleeping downstairs at the end i was scared he would sneak into our daughters room while i slept. it cant be wrong for me to keep a predator away from my children. i didn't know he was a monster until we were having a baby and getting married. how do i help my children so this doesn't cause them to end up in jail or selling their bodies or doing drugs? is there just nothing i can do?
Her pops in there with him
The concept of a NINETEEN year old FEMALE correctional officer is INSANE!!
Exactly!!! Who couldn’t see this failure happening. And technically it’s rape. She had the power and authority in the “relationship.”
Right 🤯
That's how bad they need them!!
19 yo CO is already crazy imho... female makes it ridiculous
She is the living example of "play stupid games, win stupid prizes.."🙄
Them inmates give them women ATTENTION and they love it
That's all they have time and skills for. Attention to manipulate
@@ms.helpmeet4753 they gone fall for it every time
And she a big girl so she was eating that shit up like candy.
Attention is a drug to women
Plus the inmates have that _badboy_ charisma...like the women that are drawn to drug dealers, Pookie, Ray Ray... Because its inexplicable that a woman will be with such a broke guy, struggling AND getting _physically mistreated_ but still goes back, works and pays most if not all the bills
If a woman tells a story like this then run. She loves the chaos.
yessir
Exactly. Especially the way she’s telling it. I’m not even sure how she can crack a smile while telling this story 🤨
@@TheRealLeonardWashington Right! You would think she’d been traumatized and crying…
I agree
Just stay away from straggle daggles. Leave the circle if you find a jail mate.
Sick of hearing women not clarify that it’s the men they choose, it’s not men across the board who are the problem. Choose better!!!!!
9:00 when she said she had to quit her job at the salon and they were living in his mum's house and she kicked them out and they became homeless living in her car... I burst out laughing wondering at what point will she say "nope, enough is enough "
The scary shit is that she can vote and own a firearm. Just think about it
Imo, she had no business choosing any men at that stage of her life. She just hopped fresh outta high school and landed a job as a C.O. And falls for some convict at the time 😂. They have failed her, big time
Right? Strong independent woman, but cant choose a non felon. @ArmyWolves
Women will never accept accountability
"I let a man persuade me..." Key words, "I let". She tried to lay the blame on the man, but it's her own fault.
What I understood under that, is that she allowed herself to be swayed. She knew better, but she didn't care.
As a criminal justice professional the reason she resigned was so she could avoid being charged with PREA and having a felony on her record as well as having to register as a SO. Consent is not upheld when having any kind of intimate relationship with a criminal offender that is incarcerated or on probation/parole. Had she not resigned, he could’ve filed a TORT claim and received a settlement on the grounds of negligence, coercion, SA, all by saying she used her authority to get me to have a relationship with her. This happens all the time.
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She should of still been locked up. She's a creep for preying on those poor guys. 😂
She can still get in trouble for this depending on what state she’s in
@@YingYangTightEyez Absolutely
@@jlcar87 I worked at one in Clayton county in Georgia and 3 of my supervisors got fired because they were dealing with inmates and one is doing jail time for that right now. The other ones were out but couldn’t be in contact with them for at least a year, so she can definitely get in trouble still especially with her doing a video about it but if it was years ago she might be good but idk
And they wonder why men don’t feel bad for them
Unfortunately there will still be a simp who'll feel sorry for her and wife her up
Exactly why I don't even bother listening to them! To me 95% of women chose wrong& expect to be pampered& catered to. Like WTF
@@Daryl-y5qsum like children if you ask me🤦🏽♂️😮💨
@@Daryl-y5qfeminists told them that they can have it all.
Correction: She probably got fired for dealing with an inmate especially if she was going heavy with the dude
Yup 👏🏽.
I definitely think her supervisors found out and gave her the option to quit. Now she can still get another City or State job.
Accountability is like kryptonite.
I was thinking that same thing. She was never clear on why she left her good paying job
Her being 19 and legally being able to be a CO you a wild.
She's built like a linebacker
Why can't she be. These be the same age of OF models and corn stars. Feminists should love this! 🤣 (not calling you a feminist btw)
Feminism. They equal.
@dflava3805 The process to become a CO should be a lot longer. I've taken the civil service exam before and it took 3 years to get a response. Not really sure how she pulled this tbh.
?wtf co 19???
The men who are locked up are the only ones with enogh free time for them.....
I thought they had women intuition how do they consistently get manipulated. How is it they lump all men in together never deciphering jail bird from regular dudes.
one word, "emotions" -
No accountability blaming men 😂😂😂 i was a sweet girl 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
So sweet that instead of handshakes, she was spreading cheeks. 😂😂
@@DjFiyaFrostCorrect, a sweet girl, yet working in corrections around criminals, then engaging in relationships w/them? Chances are, shes been sleeping w/some of them, not just one. Willing to risk life, career and freedom for that sex action. Then they get mad when ppl label them for the consistently and history theyre showing very often. Its so ridiculous.
Her on going blame, is an extreme level of delusion..
all these excuses lmao.....these women are ridiculous
Relax. She was "young and dumb" 🤣
@@dflava3805 yea i guess that works lol.
They are next level outrageous..
Never date, a correction officer female ,a nurse or any female staff that works at Department of corrections that’s what I learned and what I seen in 10 years I did in prison..
He did 10 years my brothers, to bring us this news.
Can you tell some of the stories with them?
Facts!
@@Tential1so he did 10 yrs so what. We don't care we are men not women. Smh you sound as smart as this girl
You forgot female teacher, female cop and bartenders. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.
Interesting book to read called "Games Criminals Play" about how inmates use casual convo to learn and manipulate. They got nothing but time and nothing to lose.
Yup, great read even for the free world
YES!
Everyone needs to read that book if they go into that environment.
Remember gentlemen, "Pookie is winning out here".
Winning what?... Nothing any man of substance would want😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂 avoid these 304s like the plague @@kenwilliams5048
@@kenwilliams5048winning some cheeks 😂
Eh, if those kinds of women are giving inmates a chance, that's not a competition we want to participate in. It's just not worth the risk.
@@michaelomarianim7328 Imagine destroying my own life for toxic cheeks 😅
Being 19 isn't an excuse. The man is in jail, and what can a man in jail do for you. Just admit that you wanted to be with him
Young and dumb? Idk... it's the excuse they use up until they're 35 🤣
Even when he got out of prison he was living with his mum, they got kicked out and were living in her car. . .
Young and dumb but formerly trained to know better. Maybe just dumb🤔
Right? If a man got scammed by a woman inmate at age 19, they'd blame him. If it's a woman they coddle her and say it's not her fault. That's why.
He tempted her with Ramen noodles
She quit her job when the guy got transferred to another facility because if she got found out for fraternizing with an inmate she'd get fired. If they found out that she was having sex with him while she's working at the prison they could lock her up and charge to.
Her story is like me saying "watch out for these woman, they will drain you!" after I told you that I tried to hookup with a honey badger...😬
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She knew she didnt deserve the job... thats why she quit
If a CO dates an inmate, it can result in jail. Definitely an auto firr
@@JohnSmith-ll8wkin OHIO, its called Sexual battery, a felony
Naw. Quitting was her best option.
Dating an inmate at 19. Software is tainted before the age of 25.
Let’s be real, her software probably been tainted since age 13😂
Just remember brothers. It took a man with no options and not being able to leave to move her.
Even when they were homeless and living in her car and he was putting his hands on her she STILL was his ride or die and peobably never even cheated on him
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Famous words of KS. " You can't make this shit up!"
shawty went from stable to unstable dealing with the wrong dude.
She was never stable she's a 🤡
Stable individuals don't make these decisions.
Ding! Ding! That is crazy man.
@@davidg7136Right
This is the type of girl that will say some dumb shit like ( I know my worth now) to the next man she gonna date, you can’t make this shit up 😂😂😂
Her worth: a mc double and some weed. 😂
@DjFiyaFrost💯💯🎯💯
Right? Love how she's trying to say "these men will mentally and physically drain you" like no shit. You chose an abusive felon, what did you think would happen?
Then she said "these men" as if that she didn't meet that dude when he was an inmate in jail. Smh.
That shit pissed me off
That’s exact what im saying.
Hypergamy always wins
I know her ex boyfriend is in tears with laughter
One crazy single mothers child having problems with another crazy single mothers' child! You aint never lied! Chisha Zed!!!!!
So you fall for an inmate and you try putting his mentality and low energy on all men..? Naw, naw we're not accepting that!! It's the men YOU deal with!!
And all these chick's commenting after hearing her story saying they would fall for an inmate as well is insane!!!
Overweight, insecure and fresh out of a relationship. He saw her coming😂😂😂..
Weirdest part is these 19 year olds are fully functional to not date a guy that’s 27/28 (engineer) talking about you’re too old for me and you’ll manipulate me but suddenly loose mental functioning for another dude around said age in prison
Started losing all that weight is CRAZY
@@classicdriprob4850😂😂😂
This sounds like the man of a lot of women’s dreams. They say they want a godly man that makes 100k, but this is what they truly fall in love with.
They want an armed, drug dealer in a suit that makes $250k a year and plays by his own rules regardless of which side of the law he may end up on... They simultaneously want thrill of a chaotic rollercoaster that can fly off the rails and the stability of a train that moves at 70km/hr with robust safety standards
Lots of men think about what these goofy women want. I can tell yall don't get women. Cause idgaf about what a bish think. They always trying to give me some and other than their $ what can she do for me.... nothing but be a headache and not be accountable for anything. I'm cool on that. My woman fine asf and has 2 great jobs yet she too is a dummy
can't make this up man
19 is WAY too young for a corrections officer. Especially a young woman.
19 isn't too young. Hell, you can join the military at 18, even 16 or 17, with a parent there. As far as a CO. Remember, she chose her job.
@@77icky Military is a different situation. You're not surrounded by people trying to get over on you and manipulate you all day every day.
What is a woman?
@@Tential1 an adult human female.
@@ancientmakuma8301na if you a woman that young dont hop in the military either
She did not quit her job, they got caught she lost her job and he got transfer....😂😅
5 minutes in and I realize I've been tryin to find her hairline for the last 3 !
God dammit. You can't make this shit up 😂
R.I.P Kevin Samuels🐐
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ACCOUNTABILITY is like Raid to roaches.
She did this to herself
I’m glad she told the story because a lot of them take these Ls in silence and don’t warn anyone
She has no humility. She’ll fall vulnerable to another person because she refuses to take any accountability.
She not smart or cute bad combo
I noticed that she danced around accountability like a 2 step.
To quote the philosophizer Kanye West "laa la la la wait till I get my money right"
Jailhouse, school, the office. It don’t matter where
Real. Each setting they'd say they was " young and dumb"
I was Confident and vulnerable.😂😂😂😂
Unfortunately I did a bid in my 20's I'm 49 now and this is common. I even smashed my PO and the broad went stalker on me.
Yall cant see why she fell for that shit??? Smh
I can see...the screen is FULL of why😂😂😂
As a Mom and Grandma this is hard to watch and hear 😭💔.
Women we have to do better 🥺😩
She belongs to the streets no to the system
The streets and unattractive bad combo
Why would you leave the house with someone you’re trying to get away from.
Also, there is a lot of bad behavior in this story and no mention of a Father once….
Women love stuff like this it’s some sick fascination with those types of situations.
This same woman will be on the Kendra G show looking for a serious relationship & have a whole bunch of standards & demands for the men who are not bad boys
when a man gets an abusive woman, dumps her and takes her back, we tell him "You deserve it". If women go for former inmates, get with them and suffer abuse at their hands, we equally tell her "You deserved it".
A tale old as time itself!
This proves a Daddy is essential...😢😮😢😮😢😮😢😮😢😮
How you a CO and not think to check out what his charges were?
I am glad she is letting her sad and ridiculous story be heard.
I love how she fully avoided the accountability of her choices. Even asked her own momma to end her relationship. I see it starts young. So, did her momma fail her?
Too bad she couldn't avoid a few big macs. 😂
Right? She chose a violent and abusive felon. What did she think was going to happen?
Listen not to your heart but to the Lord!
I was a sergeant at the State prison for years and I’ve seen a LOT of female CO’s fall. The reason she quit is because if she got caught while working there, she would be charged with SA.
Ironically if you’re in prison for 5 years, 80% of inmates have sexual relations with other inmates and the STD’s you can’t get rid of is rampant behind the walls. That’s why I would never mess with a female who has dealt with an inmate…
It's that bad?
@@jaspionccv9426it’s extremely bad! Before medical records went digital they were color coded and the room looked like Compton (red is the color code for HIV/AIDS) when you walked in there. This is why any female with an infatuation with inmates are automatically disqualified from my dating options…
are you saying men with men??
Yes. Most are consensual but it’s a small percentage that’s not. Then they go home and give whatever STD they have to the women that are waiting on them…
@@homebell4866yea bruh
Her biggest concern seems to be other people holding her accountable.
She deserves jail time. Felony
They messing DL dudes and don’t even know it 😂
No you liked what you liked.... started feeling yourself ..... thinking the men you ALWAYS been attracted to gave you some attention.... then you crashed out.... 2:37
19yr old girl working as a CO? She got exactly what she was looking for. Cant tell me otherwise 💯🙅🏾♂️
This true my cousin was not happy in her marriage to a good guy cause she stated he not a real man because he never when to jail. She wants to leave
So she basically quit her job for a pookie? 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
What a genius
How pathetic! Became such losers, to a point that these TWO GROWN ADULTS could not command the smarts to earn some money and have decent meals available to them! Sharing a McDonald's sandwich,, like, consistently?? ..Birds....!
As someone who's worked corrections... The most likely reason as to why she quit her job is that her employer probably started an investigation into her having inappropriate relationships with an inmate. Your colleagues start to pick up on what's going on over time. In order to escape accountability and possible charges being brought, quitting usually suspends the investigation as they really just want you out to begin with so that they don't have to deal with you anymore. It would also explain why he was transferred to another facility (as he was not released) although there are a multitude of other reasons as to why an inmate is transferred to another facility.
I didn’t hear her mention one father or any kind of masculine figure in this situation. All I heard was “my mom my grandma his mom.”
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Recipe for disaster smh
Imagine a 40 yr old man dating her mom or even worse dudes mom smh. She gonna ruin your relationship for their idiocracy. It's definitely harder to find a decent woman than it is to find a man of value
Bad thing is some women love that drama. Like they can’t get enough of it.
A buddy's exgirlfriend who was a guard and weighed under 100lb with zero muscle mass. She got with a female inmate and moved her in after woman was released. Zero consequences! What happens alot is the female guards sexual hassle the new female guards with very little backlash So don't pretend that it just over the male prisoners. She has taken zero accountability and I have zero sympathy! It is important to judge this woman and how figure out how to keep guards like her from being hired.
The problem is with the society that employs people like this.This person does not have it together and she got a job as CO.And society will run to her rescue instead of allowing her face the consequences of her stupidity
Unfortunately
Correction... MEN will save her.... simp men
Sad and that passes me off
If I were a CO I wouldn't even hit no inmate pushy, because my money is more important than those dumb women. Real dumb too. They'd make you loose your career over some kind of jealousy
These “men”?! Nah Chisha she didn’t learn her lesson. If she couldn’t figure what type of “man” and why it was wrong she will be doomed to repeat her mistake
Now she gets her family in danger, by being involved with a PRISON INMATE....
She’s right on some levels. My wife was a lieutenant for 10 years at Angola and I tried it myself. These men have nothing to lose but messing with your head all day for 12 hours your locked in their with them. All day long they play head games. It takes a strong person to work there. This stuff happens all the time. You just don’t hear about it too much in the public. Unless you’ve worked in a prison before it’s really hard to explain it.
I woman "knows" once the situation is happening but a father instills so you won't ever be in that situation.
Some of them still go after those men regardless. It is crazy.
@@chewdoom8415 they are very short minded.
He wasn't released he was transferred
To be fair she kept asking him if he’s really cool with it knowing he’s not but he was trying to be. She didn’t HAVE to go to the store with him and she didn’t HAVE to keep asking if he was really good with it she could’ve just stfu🤣🤣
She had to quit someone knew she was messing with him and would got her fired if she did not do them favors !!!
Remember this story when BW want to know why we don't protect strangers anymore
That's the kind of men they ❤️.
I dated a nice looking sister , myself being a provider and making the 6 figures i made she sure she stayed on top of her bills and wants. She had it all. Nice cars , cloths everything. Until I found out she had a man in jail. And was making trips to visit him 2 times a month.
And was secretly planning to get back with him when he got out of jail. She visited him In the car I made a payments on every other month so she can save money. I pulled the 🔌 plug. I told her let pookie pay your bills see how that works out for you. I dumped her.
She lost everything moved back with her mom. I became a passport bro.
These are the dudes that most women want 💯
Idk anymore… these women
You and me both, G.
There was not one comment from her prison dude that said "you gonna be doing better than when you was a C.O." Not one.
One mcdouble a peice 😂 that's four burger patties 🍔. Yall be alright
Had me tripping. I'm like, that's a normal portion. What's the problem? Lol
Damn black woman really not it right now smh
Its crazy how these women Chase and deal with toxic men, become extremely toxic themselves, find good men date them destroy their lives and then ask where are all the good men at... turn around and look at all the bodies laid out behind you!
Wasn’t her car, it was her mothers. Yes you can take the car. This is on you sweetheart, you chose him. Wow
That ONE McDouble a piece took dude out
Accountability. You can’t make this shhhh up.
This type of breeding is the cause of a lot of issues in the black community SMH
Nothing but fact, and then still blame someone else
One McDouble? The nerve of that guy, only giving you one sandwich. I can tell your a three hamburger kinda girl.😊
Why is she not on prison? She should be arrested and thrown in there!
From the comments from people working in corrections services, she likely resigned to avoid being arrested and registered as a $£× offender. . . If the inmate had filed a charge while she was still a corrections officer the punishment would have been severe
A father in the home would've stopped all this.
The bar is in hell
Crying 💀
She did not learn her lesson. She’s on there telling women that men will drain you when she should be on there, and telling them don’t date someone who’s been in jail. Don’t think you’re different when your parents or family are telling you to pay attention to the red flags. Don’t give up your good job to go be with someone who doesn’t even have his basics together. She hasn’t learned her lesson. She thinks he’s the problem, but she’s also the problem.
Fathers stay in yall daughter's life. this shit is ridiculous
for every pookie with a chick there’s probably several normal decent guys that she didn’t like their “vibe”.