Romanticize Your Life - How to Be the Main Character of Your Life

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  • Опубліковано 11 гру 2024

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  • @MayoUtuk
    @MayoUtuk 3 роки тому +78

    Gratitude turns what we have into enough.
    I lost my mother 8 years and she left me a house,several times I tried selling the house,i couldn't wait to make enough money to be able to move out of here.
    I was forced to live here because I had no choice .i hated it here I felt stuck and I was so unhappy.😢
    It wasn't until I started watching your videothat I began to see the good in my situation . You made see the value in living simply and my life and I am so grateful to be here and am glad I didn't sell my home because now I proudly document it and share it with the world. Thank you 🌈🌿☀️

  • @jsavannah123
    @jsavannah123 3 роки тому +33

    People are so afraid of death, I find it such a relief. I am thankful my time will inevitably end, it gives it meaning.

  • @gabriellabreezwind
    @gabriellabreezwind 3 роки тому +61

    "Reality is far more interesting than fairytales" Wow, thank you! This made me gasp because it's so true! 💗🌷🦋

  • @maryannrogers8675
    @maryannrogers8675 3 роки тому +1

    Such an amazing video. I have not always been the main character in my life. I was always a daughter, sister, wife and mother first. Now after getting a divorce and my children are grown I’m finally deciding that I’m important enough to be the main character in my life. I love your slow living and slow travel videos. I’m finally slowing down and feeling so much more at peace with myself. Thank you

  • @patstoen3738
    @patstoen3738 2 роки тому +1

    I found this video this morning. Thank you as it was such an awakening tor me. I am slowly changing things in my life. You are such a beautiful soul. . Everyone should listen to what you have to say, You are so alive.

  • @AlexBlank
    @AlexBlank 3 роки тому +36

    I like that you mentioned that being joyful is a skill. It seems as though so many people feel like failures because it doesn't come "naturally." It really does take a lot of strength and intention to lead a happy life, though everyone's capable of it :)

  • @HoeBitch-qn5sl
    @HoeBitch-qn5sl 3 роки тому +1

    Our exams are over. Me and my friends promised we would hang out, but we haven’t. They have other things to do. I feel lonely. But I realised how dependent I am on others to feel joy in life and how I need to stop this. I need be okay with being alone and I need to do simple things like ordering food by myself. I need to take control and I will take control

  • @aliciamarielavoie
    @aliciamarielavoie 3 роки тому +15

    "REALITY IS FAR MORE INTERESTING THAN FAIRYTALES."
    So true, Helena! I got goosebumps when I first heard you say the above words in this video. Be the main character in your own fairytale, your own story. Thank you for sharing!

  • @VerenaSatriani
    @VerenaSatriani 3 роки тому +50

    I adore every scene here, sea, hills, sky, sunrise, sunset and all. They remind me how beautiful life is. And you are the true beauty between them all, Helena. Thank you for this amazing piece

  • @kimcartwright8111
    @kimcartwright8111 3 роки тому +11

    I just love this, so beautiful. You are right time is currency. I get annoyed daily at the loss of time, and how it is wasted with toxic people and mundane chores etc. I always say to myself maybe tomorrow and tomorrow turns into next week, then next month etc. Soooo, since my situation is not changing anytime soon, I am trying to change my perspective. I am thankful for hot and cold running water, food to eat, a roof over my head , my daughters' laughter/joy (because they are not the happiest most of the time) so when I hear that my heart is so full. I have little time, but I started reading fiction again and am getting lost in that. I feed the birds bread every morning and they are there waiting for me. I love that. I enjoy gardening and taking care of my houseplants. What I do is not much to others, but I am slowly creating or finding me. I am the main character of my life and I want to be happy. I can't have a redo on my life at this point, but I would like to write/create the rest. Thank you for your video. Have a great day!

  • @gabizinhalima6181
    @gabizinhalima6181 3 роки тому +7

    you are a gift in my life, seriously. im struggling w anxiety and depression, and you dont know how important you've been this week!!!! God bless you!

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 роки тому +2

      thank you

    • @liz_21
      @liz_21 3 роки тому +1

      Couldn't have said it better. ♥️

  • @rebeccal.672
    @rebeccal.672 3 роки тому +8

    Loved all the scenes and your message. We need to be more positive. It has been d**n hard with Cooties 19, civil unrest, and lock down. Thanks for sharing.

  • @flapdoodlecacklberry
    @flapdoodlecacklberry 3 роки тому +16

    This video is a total work of art! 🌈 I am overflowing with tears of joy as I write this!!! 💝🎵 Thank you so much dear one! 🌟💖🐿️🌺

  • @alotlikelife
    @alotlikelife 3 роки тому +14

    France is one of my favorite country in the world. The way you describe life, I have always felt it but have never seen anyone describe these simple joys this beautifully. Keep creating beautiful videos, love binge watching your channel

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 роки тому +3

      Wow thank you! So glad you can relate and we can connect with one another! 😊💞

  • @mariannehartner-godown7292
    @mariannehartner-godown7292 3 роки тому +1

    This is the best video I’ve seen on this topic. Most of the advice I keep hearing is things like “Take pictures of the beautiful things in your life and post them on social media”, or “Treat yourself and buy something you don’t necessarily need, but you think would make you happy”. That’s fine if you want to do those things, but I think they miss the point! Thank you for this. 😌

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 роки тому +1

      totally!! It goes so much deeper than that 🥰

  • @lovelyliviamay
    @lovelyliviamay 3 роки тому

    I really enjoy the sound of your voice, it's so comforting to listen to. Your videos have brought me a small piece of a joy, as if I found something special, precious, and delicate. Your words, and thoughts, sharing them with all of us here, the way they've touched me personally, they're a comfort to the person I wish to be. The one that hides beneath the exterior others see, of this strong willed, busy, exhausted, and occasionally depressed mess. I've been working so hard internally for many years to find myself, and lacking the environment to thrive as the person who just wishes to be content with life itself, and the many wonders it offers. Just as I began to feel more exhausted and frustrated with the journey to get to where I want to be, I found your channel. It's been inspiring and comforting, watching your videos. I'm so grateful you're here, and for everything you've shared as you grow, and simply live. I hope you and your family are all doing well during this time. 💗🌷

  • @gingersal8052
    @gingersal8052 3 роки тому +5

    Gorgeous images and message! "The complexity of life is what makes it beautiful" I quite agree!

  • @nathaliebourre3578
    @nathaliebourre3578 3 роки тому +2

    Recently discovered your channel via the recommendation of a crafting one ... my first foray in your company was in Strasbourg, city I know very well and where my sister still lives with her family... purposely slowly watching your episodes, most of them a couple of times... And as for lipstick, just like you, I put some on everyday despite wearing my mask over it for I am sure it makes all smiles prettier! With warm thanks from North Yorkshire, England 💄🤗

  • @TJ-kz1ul
    @TJ-kz1ul 3 роки тому +6

    This is beautiful. Life is a gift. Many people have struggles in life, and yet are still able to make their life beautiful. There is a Zen prayer I try to remember to chant every evening before bed. It's called an evening gatha--- "Life and death are of extreme importance, time passes by and opportunity is lost, each of us should awaken, take heed, do not squander your life" --Dogen

  • @jenniferbeach1484
    @jenniferbeach1484 3 роки тому +5

    You and your channel are a refreshing delight. The cinematography is so high quality. I find your philosophy about life and courage so inspiring.

  • @kanzul4256
    @kanzul4256 3 роки тому

    the complexity of life is what makes it beautiful 💛

  • @beverleyroberts1025
    @beverleyroberts1025 3 роки тому +1

    Yes, only you get to decide, only you get to make choices and only you get to value yourself.x 😊

  • @charlescurtis853
    @charlescurtis853 3 роки тому +4

    I so appreciate this message. Follow your joy, be a deliberate creator. Stand back from mind and feel the universe flow through you, marvel at what is appearing. And use the appearance of what is, as a way to see where you are. Life is a gift in all its facets.

  • @minniezurbano879
    @minniezurbano879 3 роки тому +3

    Hi Helena 🙋‍♀️
    Before i start work each day, i always try to listen to anything that will create calm and peace in me. Finding your video was like having a piece of heaven. Thank you for bringing color and beauty in my eyes before i get to face work again. I wrote many lines in my journal from what you said. I shall keep them in mind.
    Have seen a few of your videos...and today...i am subscribing! 💞
    Take care.

  • @julianagranziera5329
    @julianagranziera5329 3 роки тому +2

    Nature and the right choice of words. You are so creative and spontaneous. Love your vídeos. LOL from Brazil.

  • @carolynramos7224
    @carolynramos7224 3 роки тому +6

    When I close my eyes I can truly absorb your words. They are inspirational and calming in equal measures ❤

  • @anitaanita7162
    @anitaanita7162 3 роки тому

    Phenomenal! This video should have millions of views... can’t wait to see this going viral. 👏😃 Hi from North Carolina 🇺🇸

  • @debburns9187
    @debburns9187 3 роки тому

    I love the way you meld simple living with spirituality. Not in this video but binging on your older videos as I iron and prepare for a trip back to New Zealand to see my family after 18 months of closed borders.

  • @manuariasm
    @manuariasm 3 роки тому +1

    Wow... I should watch this video right after I wake up every morning 🌅

  • @fruitloopygurl
    @fruitloopygurl 3 роки тому

    Amazing video 🥰🥰 you are so right that it is easier to be pessimistic and critical than joyful. It’s a choice we have to make each day. Life is beautiful and full of good- we just need to look for it.

  • @jill8121
    @jill8121 3 роки тому +2

    This video made my day🙂 I'm so happy that I found your channel. You are truly inspiring and a sweet and lovely person.

  • @joea8650
    @joea8650 3 роки тому +2

    Beautiful reminders...everything is temporary and life is fleeting...working toward embracing each day with gratitude!

  • @kateemmerson3891
    @kateemmerson3891 2 роки тому

    I just found and LOVE your channel. It feels like I found my best friend. Thank you Diana Cuthbert

  • @KristenMelissa
    @KristenMelissa 3 роки тому +1

    This was the most gorgeous thing to wake up to!! 😍 The color of the sea and the sunlight!! 🌞 Wow! 💗 I woke up and started feeling down, then I noticed my thoughts were focusing on "what I don't have or haven't done" so I turned my thoughts around to focus on what I do have (Sun outside! Spring is nearly here! And I get to be here!) and I felt much better. Then I saw your Beautiful video. Yes, it takes conscious effort to "be the main character", but it is so worth the effort! Thank you as always, for your light, Helena. 💛

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 роки тому +2

      How beautiful, Kristen!! Oh this makes me so happy to hear!

    • @KristenMelissa
      @KristenMelissa 3 роки тому +1

      @@helenawoods 💗💗💗

  • @draugustadorning
    @draugustadorning 3 роки тому +5

    Great content in the context of self awareness and taking responsibility! Cinematography one of my favourites of all your work!

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 роки тому +2

      oh thank you Augusta!! :) That means the world!

  • @ileanacardona2248
    @ileanacardona2248 3 роки тому +5

    Lovely video. In the times we’re living, it’s easy to forget to enjoy the simple things in every day. Thank you for reminding us! Sending you a big hug from Puerto Rico. ❤️

  • @nicolafigini784
    @nicolafigini784 3 роки тому +3

    This is really good. Both the production and the content. Thank you for spreading your message about simple joys in such a beautiful way.

  • @gloriaowen9941
    @gloriaowen9941 3 роки тому +1

    Beautiful. Inspirational. Profound. Thank you.

  • @katiemynette4285
    @katiemynette4285 3 роки тому

    Heart of Kentucky. Hi Helena/Simple Joys. I have once again watched this video. I'm about to watch it again!! Katie.

  • @user-sg5tr6jt3y
    @user-sg5tr6jt3y 3 роки тому

    i just got shown your channel and I LOVE IT. Since forever I’m trying to surround myself with positive people and consume positive content and I could never find anything and then I finally found what I was looking for. I am so happy right now thank you ❤️🌷🫖☀️

  • @gillwoolley6515
    @gillwoolley6515 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you lovely. Your vlogs help to ground me. Those few minutes in the day make such a difference. As a mature viewer,I realise I have allowed others to take the the lead in my life,but during recent times I have finally learnt to become my own boss. Sending love from England ❤

  • @humbleviewpoint
    @humbleviewpoint 4 місяці тому

    It is evident that you are the product of what you teach. I know that requires strength and focus, which I want to thank you for.

  • @michellevolland5443
    @michellevolland5443 3 роки тому +1

    Hello Helena 🙋🏻‍♀️ started my day watching this beautiful uplifting video. It’s going to be a magical day whatever comes my way. Thank you 🌸

  • @alinaadamut
    @alinaadamut 3 роки тому +1

    My heart is smiling ... Thank you, beautiful Helena!

  • @honorablelady1590
    @honorablelady1590 3 роки тому

    Soo true! Effort to choose to enjoy life!

  • @MyName-fh5ik
    @MyName-fh5ik 3 роки тому +1

    I love that you taught me to train my eye to enjoy the mundane things and to know that remaining in a state of gladness is a trained skill that takes practice. It doesn't just come when something else happens in life. I'm starting now and I plan to remain in a happy state more and more each day as I start to embrace my role as the main character. Thank you 💕

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 роки тому

      This brings me so much joy to read!! Thank you for sharing your light with me, Dena :)

  • @ckitch10
    @ckitch10 3 роки тому +1

    Wow this was powerful. I love it. Thank you

  • @abdulmustaffa8660
    @abdulmustaffa8660 3 роки тому +1

    So inspiring...i keep watching most of your post and i feel so uplifted...thank you for sharing these wonderful and meaningful post....thank you so very much :)

  • @BluFenix70
    @BluFenix70 3 роки тому +1

    Beautiful video Helena. Heartwarming and inspirational. Thank you 😊

  • @11bluerosexoxo
    @11bluerosexoxo 3 роки тому +1

    I felt the warmth of the sun and the kiss of the Breeze, I am relaxed and refreshed:)!

  • @ursulatraynor
    @ursulatraynor 3 роки тому

    Another beautiful example of your talent for film making and inspiring others in the process.
    Thank you 🙏

  • @MameysMedley
    @MameysMedley 3 роки тому +2

    Wow, it looks so warm where you are...I am in NY still buried in snow. Dont get me wrong, I love the snow and the drastic change of seasons where I live but the sea is my fav place to visit. Great video!

  • @pumpkinspice9751
    @pumpkinspice9751 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for your words of inspiration 😀👍

  • @lyndasmith6801
    @lyndasmith6801 3 роки тому +1

    Love this video. My favorite style of videos that you make. Such a wonderful topic that we all need reminded of. Thanks for the reminder with gorgeous scenery and voice💗

  • @liz_21
    @liz_21 3 роки тому

    I don't why but i cried watching this video of yours. The journey that i am on rn is somewhat similar to what you have talked about and i felt each and every words of yours. So, thank you for this. ♥️♥️

  • @smellofpaints9219
    @smellofpaints9219 3 роки тому +5

    This fed my soul 💕

  • @michellef4645
    @michellef4645 3 роки тому +1

    Don't have anything to say except your videos bring me joy

  • @chrismahieu5352
    @chrismahieu5352 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much Helena for bringing joy into my life. Every video is so uplifting. Can't believe how wise you are at this stage in your life. You are truly an old soul. I'm a new subscriber and I am kind of binge watching your videos.

  • @sofiacosta1897
    @sofiacosta1897 3 роки тому +2

    Wise words Helena👏. Absolutely love your dresses😊 and this video is gourgeous. Drone images add a beautiful touch.👍👍 😘

  • @Teenaadventure
    @Teenaadventure 3 роки тому +1

    Amazing scenery...yes.we live once.enjoy your life, don't waste it..😍😍

  • @pianosongbook
    @pianosongbook 3 роки тому +1

    beautiful video!

  • @desiringless
    @desiringless 3 роки тому

    I’ve watched this many times it really touched me! You are a breath of fresh air. You will inspire so so many.

  • @goodvibeslovin
    @goodvibeslovin 3 роки тому

    Great video!! You have a great way of provoking thoughts and pointing out simple concepts that sometimes we tend to overlook.

  • @mignonettealfajaro6982
    @mignonettealfajaro6982 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you for sharing this beautiful place. I really enjoyed watching the nature and the sceneries. Wonderful cinematography. I'm a fan. You're so good at what you do.

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you kindly!! I'm so glad to hear you liked it :)

  • @oxanaburdenkova2627
    @oxanaburdenkova2627 3 роки тому +1

    The yellow fits you excellent!

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 роки тому

      Thank you Oxana!! My favorite color!

  • @Therobynnicole
    @Therobynnicole 3 роки тому

    Your content is so necessary and truly blesses my soul…thank you for your contribution to the world!

  • @n.m.3393
    @n.m.3393 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this reminder at this tender time in my life. You are making a difference, my dear. Inspiring! 🙏

  • @tracysouders8338
    @tracysouders8338 3 роки тому

    This may be one of the most inspirational videos I've seen on UA-cam. Thank you!

  • @marimacovei387
    @marimacovei387 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you for your perspective on life. I loved the quote at the end, somehow reminded me to pause and find the answer to that question. Thank you so much for being a part of this Universe that amazes me when I get all caught up with life. Somehow, your question resonates as if it was my own voice asking. I am so greatful for today's post. 🤗

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 роки тому +1

      Your words really touched my spirit, thank you Mari 🙏🙏 thank you for sharing your kindness and light with me today, I appreciate it! 💕✨

  • @k.hudson4610
    @k.hudson4610 3 роки тому +1

    Amazing video!!

  • @NilDreams
    @NilDreams 3 роки тому +1

    Beautiful video to wake up to. ❤️

  • @DiskFlow
    @DiskFlow 3 роки тому

    I love your feedback on France, you are a bubbly happy person , natural, as I always love France, visited many times from the UK. Hopefully one day I can move to France.😊👍🏼

  • @SaraLevasseur
    @SaraLevasseur 3 роки тому +1

    What a beautiful video and message. ❤️

  • @coachdebby564
    @coachdebby564 3 роки тому +1

    This is very nice pairing of wisdom and visual footage. 💗

  • @catherineduchesne5548
    @catherineduchesne5548 3 роки тому

    Only just came across your channel, but am so glad I did. Loved this video ... that quote about reality that's far mor interesting than a fairy tale ... damn, it sparked something inside of me! Loved your smile near the end of the video...some pure joy in your eyes. Thx for sharing your experiences and insights with the world!

  • @ForeverImanee
    @ForeverImanee 3 роки тому +1

    Love your storytelling ♥️♥️♥️

  • @sarahbrandon7107
    @sarahbrandon7107 3 роки тому +1

    Wow I love everything about this video! I love your content! 👏🏻🤗

  • @thelittlestbuddha
    @thelittlestbuddha 3 роки тому +1

    That was so beautiful and inspiring 💕 Thank you 💗

  • @jsavannah123
    @jsavannah123 3 роки тому +1

    Your really do such an incredible job making these videos.

  • @CapturingSpain
    @CapturingSpain 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this!

  • @stargazerbird
    @stargazerbird 2 роки тому

    Corsica is one of the most beautiful places on earth. Easy to do slow living there.

  • @gathercreatelivewithleslie8340
    @gathercreatelivewithleslie8340 3 роки тому

    One thing that may add enjoyment to your writing is a fountain pen. I have started a collection of beautiful pens with wonderful inks with shimmer and it makes me smile every time I use them. There are cheap ones all the way up to very expensive. I'm currently using a Conklin Endura mother of pearl fountain pen with a forest green ink. Where you I've you should be able to find some fabulous pens. Almost everything in America is imported from Japan, Germany, France, China and Russia. Inspiring video

  • @fogalmazasgatlo849
    @fogalmazasgatlo849 3 роки тому

    I cried while watching. So inspiring

  • @C12133
    @C12133 3 роки тому

    Such a beautiful video!! ❤️

  • @bluebird4594
    @bluebird4594 3 роки тому +1

    Beautiful video. Love that yellow and blue dress. Love those quotes. Going to write them down so I don't forget them. 🙂

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 роки тому +1

      Glad you resonate with them! They had a powerful effect on me as well!

  • @mariyarahman26
    @mariyarahman26 3 роки тому

    You are so amazing and everytime i got so inspired watching your videos. Learn how simple and beautiful life can be. The music and your ideas are great including those beautiful lines and the beauty of the nature. My soul is getting healed by watching your videos. Tons of ❤️ for you.

  • @erika641
    @erika641 2 роки тому

    Such a beautiful video ! You are so inspiring 🤗

  • @LiveFree123
    @LiveFree123 3 роки тому +1

    You always put a smile on my face.☺️ beautiful you❤️

  • @alishasanders6282
    @alishasanders6282 3 роки тому

    Your voice makes me feel good

  • @marir1508
    @marir1508 3 роки тому +1

    Scene is amazing. 💕

  •  3 роки тому

    beautifully shot - such vivid colors and calmness:) happiness is a choice somedays it's more of an effort, but we really do have a choice:) beautiful video:) bisous

  • @daniecedeveyra
    @daniecedeveyra 3 роки тому

    Love this. Very nice video❤️

  • @dulcepires
    @dulcepires 3 роки тому +1

    Wise!

  • @kathleenroberts7972
    @kathleenroberts7972 3 роки тому

    Gorgous!! And love anything Paulo Coelho writes!

  • @suzyking9973
    @suzyking9973 2 роки тому

    Thank you this has really helped me

  • @candiceshah
    @candiceshah 3 роки тому

    You are so talented! Your videos are so stunning and you have such a great positive energy!

  • @taylert2509
    @taylert2509 3 роки тому +1

    Wow this video is incredible, thank you for continuing to spread positivity

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 роки тому

      Thank you for sharing your light and kindness with me! 💫

  • @minhkhacuocsongmy4274
    @minhkhacuocsongmy4274 3 роки тому

    Thankyou so much for all your video. You are very me, I love the way you dress,the way you talk,The way you see thing.For fifty years of my life I can see myself different than most people in my family,my friends,my coworker,That for the women when we grown up we married and MUST have children,if not people look at me like the weirdos.Sometime I ask myself why am I like this.But,now I have the answear for myself,that I am not alone.This is me,this is who I am,my true self.😁😁😁JUST Want to be happy.

  • @steffi738
    @steffi738 3 роки тому

    I loved every second of it, thank you! 🙏

  • @whattovisitinromania5044
    @whattovisitinromania5044 3 роки тому +1

    I love your relaxing and beautiful videos! Very wise messages also! 💕

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you! I'm glad you enjoy them :) They are quite fun to make!