Yes, I am also born into a family that my dad hais plaub hais ntug and even as a young girl/daughter, I learned to defend myself and do what's rights. I don't tolerate under the table or any unbais status of a person, esp when it comes to Hmong culture and gender inequality. Great job for this niam tsev, I applaud your courage for standing up to a bully and a predator.
Leaders need to be held accountable. If men can correct other men’s mistakes, they will earn more respect compared to sweeping everything under the rug.
Kuv tsis paub txog nej cov tseem coj kev cais qub . ua cas nej ho coj li no….peb coj kev cai tshiab lawm kuv tus txiv twb tuag lawm thiab os tab sis mas kwv tij tso plhuav rau kuv ib leeg ua tus nres ib leeg ua tus ris xiv xuv rau kuv. Ces kuv tso plhuav rau kuv pawg ntseeg leg teg dej num noj haus kuv mam nrho nyiaj xwb. Ces pob nyiaj tshav ntuj ces church sau tau npaum twg ces church cev hlo rau kuv xwb laiv kwv tij tsis muaj xiv rau pob nyiaj.
Uatsaug ntau uas koj muab Hmoob ibtxhia cov thawjcoj lub qe tswlwj nthuav rau neeg paub. Tej kev ncajncees li koj zaj no raug coob leej hais tsis taus. Raug khuj dawb2 li. So proud of your courage.
This was like the old story that I have heard before, but it's ok to hear it again. Tus niam tsev you do the right thing to send the bad guy to stop doing bad stuff again.
Peb cov Hmoob txoj kev tu plaub tu ntug, feem ntau, peb tsis tu kom tus nkhaus ncaj, peb tu kom tus ncaj txhob nkhaus. Peb Hmoob txoj kev tu plaub tu ntug, peb tsis tiv thaiv tus neeg uas raug tsim txom, peb tsuas tiv thaiv tus neeg ua txhaum, peb tiv thaiv cov thawj coj, peb tiv thaiv peb tsev neeg, peb tiv thaiv kev neej kev tsav ho tus neeg raug tsim txom ces yuav tsum tau ua li cov thawj coj hais. Yog tus neeg raug tsim txom tsis yuav li cov thawj coj hais ces tus neeg uas raug tsim txom tseem yog tus neeg phem lawm thiab ho. Rau peb cov Hmoob ces los poob rau sob lus tias, "just go along to get along."
Nws tuag vim 1: yog npam nws vim nws saub tsis taus koj. 2: nws txajmuag dhau qhov txajmuag lawm. 3: txoj kev khav theeb saib tsis taus koj, koj tus txiv nws tuag los tseem xav tias nws yog tij yuav saib xyuas nej cov mi niam tub tiamsis nws tseem limhiam es koj tus txiv thiaj muab niag txiv dev ntawv coj mus teem txim lawm xwb os. I am proud of you lady for having the courage to protect yourself.
Kuv nrog tus niam tsev no zoo siab os...nyob lub xai mi no peb cov niam tsev g scare nej...yog txiv neeg hmoob saib g tau peb ..peb yuav ua tuaj Tiag tiag ..yuav muag nej report tos police Tiag os...g dag li...txog ua txiv dev..I seriously go put txiv dev nyob jail Tiag...
This is the thing with Hmong cov coj. Lam coj xwb liam tshaj plaws. Peb hmoob ces yeej muaj cov dag noj kuj haus li no. Kuv mas kuv ntxub cov neeg es pheej hais kom yus zam thiab uv shitty people like this. I am glad you stand your ground and spoke up.
Ua 1 tug thawj coj rau kwv tij mas yuav tsum ua lub kaus roos yus cuab kwv tij thiab ua qauv zoo tsuj 1 tug hneev taw zoo rau tsoom kwv tij taug mas thiaj li yog.
0:00 Law aw...peb cov poniam raug qhov teeb meem no yog tsis tau zoo kwv zoo tij nawb Kuv raug similar teeb meem vim kuv ua poj ntsuam hluas77 tsis tau zoo kwv zoo tij...peb cov poj niam yuav mus ua nyab yuav tsum xaiv tsev neeg nawb...kuv yuav thov tsis mus ua txheeb ze nrog tsev neeg hmoob lauj dua ntxiv li lawm. Ntxhais thiab tu siab mus tag ib sim neej rau tsev neeg hmoob lauj....thov txim rau tej tug hmoob lauj uas ho coj zoo nawb mog. Ntseeg tau tias tus zoo yuav tsum xwb tab sis muaj tsawg xwb os....
Nej pawg kwv tij no tsis muaj tus thawj coj lawm ces nej thiaj rub tus no los coj nej xwb. Lwm pawg kwv tij uas yog nej ib xeem tseem tshuav tus yog thawj coj tiag. Koj txhob ua siab deb es mus vam khom tus thawj coj ntawm lwm pawg kwv tij pab koj xwb.
Glad you took matter into your own hands with help from your relatives. There is far too many hmong men like this hlob that thinks they can do as they please.
Hmoob mas siab phem tshaj yog tias tus txiv tuag es tseem tsis tau muaj tej tub tiav txiv ces pab kwv tij yeej kuj noj kuj haus cheat cov nyiaj donation hos tias yog tus niam es tus txiv tseem nyob ua txiv rau ntawm ces kwv tij kuj thiab los tsis kuj loj npaum vim lawv tus neeg tseem nyob. Kwv tij ma siv lub sij hawm zoo li no to noj luag.
Nej cuab kwv tij koj mas tseem2 quav dev tiag li os. Kwv Los coj li tij, tij los coj li kwv, tib co ruam2 ntshaw2 nyiaj xwb os yom. Tsev neeg ko mas tsis ntse kiag li. Coj noj coj ua es coj li ko xwb. Hmoob cov nyuag thawj coj quav dev coj li ko mas twb tsis tsim txiaj npaum li Tawb quav dev lawm.
He’s a jerk, txiv dev twb tsis phem like him. Funeral money always count the same day after the burial night gathering with all the elders that handle the funeral.. also the sun shine money are not to be use for grocery during the funeral.
Cov niag hmoob dev coj dev npua cai li cov ko kav tsij ua kom tuag kiag mus xwb ntag nawb, vim lawv lub paj hlwb ruam2 75 tseem xav tias poj niam ua tsis tau dab tsi rau lawv, tuag tsis tuag. Nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb ntag civ neeg phem mas txhob npog nws lub niag qe tsw lwj kiag nawb, kav tsij muab nws rhuav cuag rhuav dev xwb ntag.
Damn the ending. Whao…. I would feel bad and blamed for if I was you buttttt!!!!!!! Not really, I know we would feel some guilt and remorse buttttt he was a bad man…. Good job to stand up for all the woman he’s hurt in the past. I’m proud of you and your late husband was by your side the entire time. ❤
Yes, I am also born into a family that my dad hais plaub hais ntug and even as a young girl/daughter, I learned to defend myself and do what's rights. I don't tolerate under the table or any unbais status of a person, esp when it comes to Hmong culture and gender inequality. Great job for this niam tsev, I applaud your courage for standing up to a bully and a predator.
I'm so proud of you. More power to you. This is American. It's not Laos. Don't ever be afraid to speak up.
Wow I’m proud of you!! Stand up for yourself!! Don’t let these ignorant people go.
I an so proud of you. Thank you. :)
Leaders need to be held accountable. If men can correct other men’s mistakes, they will earn more respect compared to sweeping everything under the rug.
I'm very satisfied listening to this story. Great job, sister. So proud of you.
Good for you for standing up for yourself
I'm so damn proud of you!!! You go girl!!!
I am happy that you stood your ground. This is why I hate our culture so much. Hmong men looked down upon you just because you are a widow.
It's not about the culture; it's about the unjust practices that target vulnerable women and children who cannot defend themselves.
At first I was mad at her brothers for not helping her. But, then she got more justice doing it herself! Way to go.
Good job ! Tuag tsis tuag os yom COV thawj coj khib nyiab na.
Kuv tsis paub txog nej cov tseem coj kev cais qub . ua cas nej ho coj li no….peb coj kev cai tshiab lawm kuv tus txiv twb tuag lawm thiab os tab sis mas kwv tij tso plhuav rau kuv ib leeg ua tus nres ib leeg ua tus ris xiv xuv rau kuv. Ces kuv tso plhuav rau kuv pawg ntseeg leg teg dej num noj haus kuv mam nrho nyiaj xwb. Ces pob nyiaj tshav ntuj ces church sau tau npaum twg ces church cev hlo rau kuv xwb laiv kwv tij tsis muaj xiv rau pob nyiaj.
Uatsaug ntau uas koj muab Hmoob ibtxhia cov thawjcoj lub qe tswlwj nthuav rau neeg paub. Tej kev ncajncees li koj zaj no raug coob leej hais tsis taus. Raug khuj dawb2 li. So proud of your courage.
Wow !!! Koj ua tau yog kawg Kuv Pom ib txia coj noj coj ua mas Kuv Pom cov ua koj zoo li koj hais lawm …
Zoo kawg le os Moob yuav tsum paub tas peb nyob Mekas lawm es txhua yaam sau nyob huv ntawv lawm ua kom ncaaj.
Good job lady. Cov niag txiv dev zoo li ko ces tuag tsawg xwb
👏👏👏👏👏 great job, lady.
This was like the old story that I have heard before, but it's ok to hear it again. Tus niam tsev you do the right thing to send the bad guy to stop doing bad stuff again.
Good job! I’m so tired of Hmong people disrespecting their daughter in laws!
Peb cov Hmoob txoj kev tu plaub tu ntug, feem ntau, peb tsis tu kom tus nkhaus ncaj, peb tu kom tus ncaj txhob nkhaus. Peb Hmoob txoj kev tu plaub tu ntug, peb tsis tiv thaiv tus neeg uas raug tsim txom, peb tsuas tiv thaiv tus neeg ua txhaum, peb tiv thaiv cov thawj coj, peb tiv thaiv peb tsev neeg, peb tiv thaiv kev neej kev tsav ho tus neeg raug tsim txom ces yuav tsum tau ua li cov thawj coj hais. Yog tus neeg raug tsim txom tsis yuav li cov thawj coj hais ces tus neeg uas raug tsim txom tseem yog tus neeg phem lawm thiab ho. Rau peb cov Hmoob ces los poob rau sob lus tias, "just go along to get along."
Zoo kawg cov neeg coj lim hiam qias neeg li no yuav tsum muaj cov pojniam hais tau ua taus li no thiaj hais tau nws xwb..
Kuv zoo siab uas koj yog ib tug niam ko sev tseem ceeb thiab tiv thaiv koj tus kheej. Proud of you lady!👏👏👏
Wow, women power. Zoo tuag lawm
U go sista so proud of you
Good for you!
Nws tuag vim 1: yog npam nws vim nws saub tsis taus koj.
2: nws txajmuag dhau qhov txajmuag lawm.
3: txoj kev khav theeb saib tsis taus koj, koj tus txiv nws tuag los tseem xav tias nws yog tij yuav saib xyuas nej cov mi niam tub tiamsis nws tseem limhiam es koj tus txiv thiaj muab niag txiv dev ntawv coj mus teem txim lawm xwb os.
I am proud of you lady for having the courage to protect yourself.
Koj ua yog lawm os tus sister. Always seek proof.
What a great story. Good job tus niam tij uas koj sawv tiv thaiv koj tus kheej. Zaj no ces txivneej tuag pojniam 2 ceg kiag. Lol
Way to stand up for yourself!!
Koj yuav tau ib Niag kwv tij awb vawb noj tsis tau hais tsis niag txiv dev laus!!!
Kuv nrog tus niam tsev no zoo siab os...nyob lub xai mi no peb cov niam tsev g scare nej...yog txiv neeg hmoob saib g tau peb ..peb yuav ua tuaj Tiag tiag ..yuav muag nej report tos police Tiag os...g dag li...txog ua txiv dev..I seriously go put txiv dev nyob jail Tiag...
Heev neeg muaj heev neeg tsim ces yog koj ntag., thov qhuas koj thiab . Hmoob ruam2 thiab tseem coj txoj niag kev cai qub ces lawv muab txoj kev cai no los hem los khoo koj. Tsis zoo 75 hmoob lub tswv yim siab phem koj tuag tsis tau kuv tsev kuv tuag tsis tau koj tsev li cov hmoon awb2 75 lawm os.
Tim no tuac ces sawv daws mus tib lub tsev xwb ne dab nyob qhov twg yuav tuaj . Vaj tswv yawm saub qhib qhov rooj rau txhua leej txhua tus nws lub qhov rooj es khiav mus ntseeg vaj tswv xwb txhob ruam2.
This is the thing with Hmong cov coj. Lam coj xwb liam tshaj plaws. Peb hmoob ces yeej muaj cov dag noj kuj haus li no. Kuv mas kuv ntxub cov neeg es pheej hais kom yus zam thiab uv shitty people like this. I am glad you stand your ground and spoke up.
Ua 1 tug thawj coj rau kwv tij mas yuav tsum ua lub kaus roos yus cuab kwv tij thiab ua qauv zoo tsuj 1 tug hneev taw zoo rau tsoom kwv tij taug mas thiaj li yog.
Tej zaum nws txaj nuag dhau lawm tsis pom qab muab nws lub ntsej muag mus zais qhov twg, nws thiaj mus dai tuag xwb, yog ib qho zoo thiab mas
Tsis yog koj tus txiv txo txo hwj chim, yog tais caus Tsis muaj peev xwm
Ntuj aw! Koj tus txiv hlob dev laus no cas lub siab yuav phem ua luaj li. LIMHIAM TIAG2
Saib tsis tus ruam thiab tsim txom cov ruam is unacceptable
😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤koj muaj phev kawg. ua niag hlob tuag kiag. cov kwv tij kom twb zoo ua koj raug hog. tsw muaj tug mug deev lawv cov poj niam lawm😅😅😅😅
0:00 Law aw...peb cov poniam raug qhov teeb meem no yog tsis tau zoo kwv zoo tij nawb
Kuv raug similar teeb meem vim kuv ua poj ntsuam hluas77 tsis tau zoo kwv zoo tij...peb cov poj niam yuav mus ua nyab yuav tsum xaiv tsev neeg nawb...kuv yuav thov tsis mus ua txheeb ze nrog tsev neeg hmoob lauj dua ntxiv li lawm. Ntxhais thiab tu siab mus tag ib sim neej rau tsev neeg hmoob lauj....thov txim rau tej tug hmoob lauj uas ho coj zoo nawb mog. Ntseeg tau tias tus zoo yuav tsum xwb tab sis muaj tsawg xwb os....
Pab pawg kwv tij ruam cas yuav tsis muaj in tug ntse li
Please save a good chunk of money and hire on attorneys to protect you!! We live in America use the law!
Tuag tsis nyog kawg. Tabsis txhob xav hais tias tuag es plaub yuav tas ov. Qhov loj tshaj plaws mas yus txo yus txoj sia yog ib qhov txhaum loj heev.
Nej pawg kwv tij no tsis muaj tus thawj coj lawm ces nej thiaj rub tus no los coj nej xwb. Lwm pawg kwv tij uas yog nej ib xeem tseem tshuav tus yog thawj coj tiag. Koj txhob ua siab deb es mus vam khom tus thawj coj ntawm lwm pawg kwv tij pab koj xwb.
Cov kwv tij dev xwb os.ntshe nws twb muab cov niag kwv tij poj niam tsuav ntsuag tas lawm thiab os.cov kwv tij ruam ntsej muag dev ntaw😅😅😅
Glad you took matter into your own hands with help from your relatives. There is far too many hmong men like this hlob that thinks they can do as they please.
Hmoob mas siab phem tshaj yog tias tus txiv tuag es tseem tsis tau muaj tej tub tiav txiv ces pab kwv tij yeej kuj noj kuj haus cheat cov nyiaj donation hos tias yog tus niam es tus txiv tseem nyob ua txiv rau ntawm ces kwv tij kuj thiab los tsis kuj loj npaum vim lawv tus neeg tseem nyob. Kwv tij ma siv lub sij hawm zoo li no to noj luag.
Nej cuab kwv tij koj mas tseem2 quav dev tiag li os. Kwv Los coj li tij, tij los coj li kwv, tib co ruam2 ntshaw2 nyiaj xwb os yom. Tsev neeg ko mas tsis ntse kiag li. Coj noj coj ua es coj li ko xwb. Hmoob cov nyuag thawj coj quav dev coj li ko mas twb tsis tsim txiaj npaum li Tawb quav dev lawm.
He’s a jerk, txiv dev twb tsis phem like him. Funeral money always count the same day after the burial night gathering with all the elders that handle the funeral.. also the sun shine money are not to be use for grocery during the funeral.
Cov niag hmoob dev coj dev npua cai li cov ko kav tsij ua kom tuag kiag mus xwb ntag nawb, vim lawv lub paj hlwb ruam2 75 tseem xav tias poj niam ua tsis tau dab tsi rau lawv, tuag tsis tuag. Nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb ntag civ neeg phem mas txhob npog nws lub niag qe tsw lwj kiag nawb, kav tsij muab nws rhuav cuag rhuav dev xwb ntag.
Cas tsis muab rau lwm tus neeg tuav es txawm muab rau niag ntseg muag liam ntawv tuav cov nyiaj tshav ntuj nas.
Es nws khav tias nws yog tus coj ces nws quab yuam cov tuav nyiaj lawm ne
Damn the ending. Whao….
I would feel bad and blamed for if I was you buttttt!!!!!!! Not really, I know we would feel some guilt and remorse buttttt he was a bad man…. Good job to stand up for all the woman he’s hurt in the past. I’m proud of you and your late husband was by your side the entire time. ❤
Mloog zaj no kuv tsis nkagsiab. They’re are some pojniam hmoob uas tseem ruam thiab coj ib yam li tus pog no thiab. Yuav tsum mloog lus tog22x😊
tell us of the family name so we can spread it more
This story must of been in California cause I heard of a xiong guy doing something like the guy in the story