This Kenyan culture of relatives moving in with young couples is primitive. Young couples should live by themselves, relatives can visit, with permission. New relationships are extremely difficult, respect their space & allow them to get to know each other. Simply say NO to this stupidity, relatives will destroy your young families.
@@joanchebet6121 circumstances in Kenya means poverty, which we have failed to eradicate due to poor leadership. I’m mainly referring to middle class to opulent Kenyans. Modern Kenyans don’t take the family business seriously, thus the culture rot. A couple should have very defined boundaries, don’t be afraid to say NO to protect yourselves. Self preservation comes first, this is not up for debate!
Great exchange bt don't compartmentalise men,high Voltage might not necessarily be the ideal or the best as is the impression here,every man is dfrnt in how they handle themselves,you might be with a narcissistic na una claim utaadapt.
I relate. It's a very tight rope. When it turns toxic it's very ugly. They're always on the dishing, uncompromising end you're always on the understanding and receiving end. It's noble to try make it work, but invalidating and neglecting your emotional needs may be suppressing a real part of you that at a point may at a point scream for attention.
@@marymuriuki7193 yeah. Even uglier, at the most desperate point of your emotional state, you seek their attention emotionally. Since they've never seen this 'needy' vulnerable side of you, they even get more firm with you so that you get 'more in line' and stop being ' weak'. They use control and threats alot here. You conform but this is where your inner person starts separating yourself from your physical person. Your inner person gets susceptible to any emotional attention out of the union. At a very subconscious level. At this point you can confront him and ask that he acknowledges your emotional needs, if not you are willing to walkaway, dignity intact. That's if you're strong. Most times we're not. We act on the third party advances. Which are found out or come out in no time. You'll bear the full brunt for cheating regardless of him negligence leading to this. You'll be responsible for your actions. My story. He was called Oliver I was married and got his name Okoth. A decade of so much built together, memories, kids, down the drain. My advice, there's nothing to celebrate about this personality. Love is about two being seen by your spouse. High voltage is just emotionally childlike - not childish. Teach them they have emotional sides to themselves too. Help them nuture this. Before it's too late.
YY is a man of high calibre,,He also need a higher intensity gal who can match his status.Biguup as you can rhyme with him.
This Kenyan culture of relatives moving in with young couples is primitive. Young couples should live by themselves, relatives can visit, with permission. New relationships are extremely difficult, respect their space & allow them to get to know each other. Simply say NO to this stupidity, relatives will destroy your young families.
I hear you, But sometimes Circumstances can make people stay together. Give out some Grace.
@@joanchebet6121 circumstances in Kenya means poverty, which we have failed to eradicate due to poor leadership. I’m mainly referring to middle class to opulent Kenyans. Modern Kenyans don’t take the family business seriously, thus the culture rot. A couple should have very defined boundaries, don’t be afraid to say NO to protect yourselves. Self preservation comes first, this is not up for debate!
Exactly 💯
You right,that's the time to disagree to agree,work on each other to allighn,know each other more.Young couples need time to themselves
Would love to see Marya with Diana bahati......you have similarities she is such a vibe like you and a hard worker like you Marya.......❤
Informative content, this content should be dropped every week, I love it ❤
Aki thanks dears..have learnt alot..we need this again and again🥰🥰
My situation at the moment slowly adapting..
Fel, Marya is a very intelligent guest. The truth be told marriage is not for the faint hearted.
Great exchange bt don't compartmentalise men,high Voltage might not necessarily be the ideal or the best as is the impression here,every man is dfrnt in how they handle themselves,you might be with a narcissistic na una claim utaadapt.
Wow....
This talk it will help those chilees with high expectations 😊
Wambo Ashley should join this conversation. I'm sure she'll relate
😂😂wambo Ashley the innocent gal
I love how Marya takes the challenges positively
Tupitie kindly
Thank you for making me change my mind ❤😂😂😂😂😂😂Naona maisha yangu sasa na kuelewa tofauti😂😂😂
This one I have to coment, You guys 99% God bless always
Wow.... Guys welcome to our side road to 5k.
I have learned alot😂😂😂kumbe my guy anajaribungi😂
Most people will not talk about this but all what they are talking about is real love... Expectations na realities huwa different kabisa.
Naishaaaaa 😂😂😂we need this energy more often 😊
Great convo!
Daddy cook days reaction 😂🤣🤣
I love fel, shes so humble ❤
Fel bring us more of these❤
Wow more of this Fel ❤️ enjoyed big time
Wow amazing job keep pushing my beautiful ladies ❤❤❤❤
I am praying for my high voltage man❤
May God grant me happiness😊❤av sufferd enough
Ah Maya youre such a sweet sweey girl hope that man do right by you always ,sending you all the love ❤
Nawapenda sanaa🎉❤❤❤❤
NIPITIENI PLZ
Aki marya facial expressions 😂😂😂❤❤
Am learning new things evryday
Marya the queen ❤❤❤
Waoooo a good content🔥🔥🔥
We need more of this ladies...
Have understood my man....today
Part 2 please 😊
I loooove the convo🤗❤️
It's Maya...series for me
Tuned in❤
Marya's facial expressions for me 😂😂
Tupitie kindly
Marya 😂😂❤️❤️ acha nisubscribe kwanza
The vibe btn this two gals is 🔥🔥🔥🔥we need to see marya in this channel oftenly
Tupitie kindly
Marya is so beautiful ❤
Marya❤❤❤Fel always accomodative😊😊😊
This is a fun experience listening to you icons❤️
Marya anafaa akumbuke aliai ambiwa hakuna kitu kama love language 😂😂😂😂
Thanks for this...I have nimelern something big
I relate. It's a very tight rope. When it turns toxic it's very ugly. They're always on the dishing, uncompromising end you're always on the understanding and receiving end.
It's noble to try make it work, but invalidating and neglecting your emotional needs may be suppressing a real part of you that at a point may at a point scream for attention.
Waaah so true
@@marymuriuki7193 yeah. Even uglier, at the most desperate point of your emotional state, you seek their attention emotionally. Since they've never seen this 'needy' vulnerable side of you, they even get more firm with you so that you get 'more in line' and stop being ' weak'. They use control and threats alot here. You conform but this is where your inner person starts separating yourself from your physical person. Your inner person gets susceptible to any emotional attention out of the union. At a very subconscious level. At this point you can confront him and ask that he acknowledges your emotional needs, if not you are willing to walkaway, dignity intact. That's if you're strong. Most times we're not. We act on the third party advances. Which are found out or come out in no time. You'll bear the full brunt for cheating regardless of him negligence leading to this. You'll be responsible for your actions. My story. He was called Oliver I was married and got his name Okoth. A decade of so much built together, memories, kids, down the drain.
My advice, there's nothing to celebrate about this personality. Love is about two being seen by your spouse. High voltage is just emotionally childlike - not childish. Teach them they have emotional sides to themselves too. Help them nuture this.
Before it's too late.
@@marionakoth825truth
I feel their is something about toxic masculinity here
Apo kwa matching outfits YY alisema heri mumuue🤣🤣🤣 maryas reaction 8:42 got me.on the floor 🤣
Daddy cook days😂😂😂😂😂Marya❤❤❤
Marya much love
Waa mi ata akunanishawahii fanyiwa 😂😂😂😂😂wenu afadhali nyinyi mnafanyia hio kidogo
Love you fam ❤❤❤
Na fel unajua kusoma mtu akili ghai 😅😂
Maya😂😂 you are such a vibe
Nice content, it so inspiring
Actually i relate everything you've said 😂😂😂
"The Dating App Confessions" by Logan Tindell is a pretty good book.
Tupitie kindly
I now understand mine coz wueeeeeeh mi ua anongea naanza kujishuku
Waiting 🔥
That is our girl wacha tupuahi tufike 3k
I love marya
Acha kusema Oliver sema yy...😂😂😂
Im relating kabisa waah, babe unafanya nini na maisha yako ebu.. matching clothes issa no
❤❤marya
Expectations za madem huwatch netflix hukuwa juu mbaya then reality inatuhit in the opposite😂😂😂
Nice combo here❤I love it
😂😂😂Alafu kuna wale wa K-drama hio yao hukuwa mental case
@@theroadtripguy402 😅😅
@winny_wausii is this your real name? Am glad to see it almost as mine😊😊
@@wine1283 yeah it's my real name😁🙂
@winny_wausii wow I'm glad to know...mine is Winny muusi
May this men locate me😂
Eiiiish Marya is a vibe and funny at the same time😅❤
Now nitatulia...i am relating to it 100%,was about to leave😮...
😂😂😂
Marya you are a gem 😂😂❤❤
Tupitie kindly
Mama zoey nawapenda sana ❤❤❤❤❤❤
❤❤❤nakupenda bure
Fel siku hizi ameiprove kuongea haraka😂😂
Subscribed to okoth already
Madame hawatoshekangi😅😅,,,fel venye anashy na kuchekacheka😂
wahlai syllubus my guys inakimbizwa🤣🤣 good stuff tho
🎉❤ vile Maya anasema tuduum n funny
My husband buys me so many surprises at least something in two months but venye ataleta😂😂😂hata nikiwa job ananiambia babe i bought you a surprise 😂😂
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Aaww he's sweet
@@askmethings737 😂😂😂I need when I come home he surprises me not calling me when am still at work 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂heri wwe sisi surprise yetu ni machoos
Marya made this convo interesting with her excessive talking 😂😂
😅😅😅I'm loving this content
I like marya❤
That was so educative,I need more of you guys ❤❤❤
Tupitie kindly
Mary is more sweet and pretty without wick
I love this girl marya
Gai kwanza my man mimi yeye ni 10/10 minus nothing akiamua mpelekane mtapelekana
Wuuueeh i really relate🤣😂😂😂
Awesome 💯
I really relateeeee💯💯
Khai!yangu gift ishawai wrapiwa na gazetti wueh wacha tu😂😂
Kumbe tuko wengi😅
i can relate with everything aki hata I think all married women can relate too...Anyway pitieni kwangu tufike 1k subs
Tupitie kindly
I gotta change pipo i date 😅😅eeey kazii ni kukopa pesa tu na hawarudishii nkt 😂😂
I liveing this content soon i will meet u felicity
It's sad how ladies set bars wengine yet 🤣all they think ni kupelekwa out. ....na kusukwa na netflix. ... nothing much
Heri nyinyi😅😅
Marya is soo funny 😅😅
Fell ungeekea marya link hapa😢
Unatumiaje jina masculinity na the pluto kwa sentence moja.
I wish i could get a masculine man.
Aki Maryaa😂😂😂
I love this content aki this mum's big up add apo wambo sasa
🔥🔥topic