Seeing secure healthy people who were raised with love and respect really makes me wonder what could i have become if my parents gave me even half of the love and respect they were supposed to. Thank God i got to hear this podcast today because i was yet again falling into the "everyone lives like this" hole again for the millionth time.
I have the exact same feeling, a LOT of people do. I love Drew & Deison but their closeness both triggers & heals my inner child that yearned to be so close to my sister. It sucks but it’s also good to see. It’s a strange phenomenon.
Fr me and my sister have the same age gap went to school together and everything but bc of our differences my mom always put us against each other and it makes me sad to hear it didnt have to be like that ;/
As an Indigenous person, I felt it in my soul whenever y’all were talking about acclimating to Hawaii so quickly bc it felt like home. I visited my ancestral homelands a few years ago and my heart and soul felt SO full. It’s just something different about knowing your ancestors cared for the land and the land cared for them. Not cheesy at all ❤
The part about raising your kids to just love whatever they want… YES. I will never forget my father came into my room when I was in 10th grade and said “you know Harry Potter isn’t real right?” Like in the most serious tone ever… like there was concern. And I felt so dumb just for loving something silly. Of course I knew it wasn’t real but why couldn’t I still enjoy it?
The way you ladies describe how your parents raised you all is a testament to how well adjusted adults I feel you all are. Love seeing this in our Samoan community, especially with regards to not being shamed for liking what you like because that extends to other parts of life. Thank you for opening minds ❤
Part two of the advice that no one asked me for. For the person who’s struggling with getting over the situationship: I promise you that if he was really supposed to be with you, he would be. I also challenge you to look at him and the way he treated you objectively and consider if you want to waste any more time on him. It’s not easy, but with time and a few shit talking sessions, you’ll recognize your worth and move on to bigger and better
I really needed to hear the part about dating in college. My friend group has people in relationships or people who have been dating but not gotten into relationships and I am the most single one who has not really dated anyone in college. I have felt ashamed and embarrassed, but hearing you guys talk about how looking back you think it is better to not be in a relationship in college really helps me feel better about my situation. I've had friends tell me "you don't need to be in a relationship" and "it'll happen someday," but you guys saying it means so much more since you are older and have already gone through college. I love listening to your podcast, and thanks so much for all the great advice
As an Aries with a Libra rising I've never felt more seen when it comes to the urge to chuck something at high speeds without holding back, my Taurus moon is the only thing holding me together some days lol Also I love you both and the podcast! 🥰😁
On the question about dating in college, don't lol, but y'all are real ones for pointing out how guys always be leading on. I have a seasonal job at a popular tourist destination, and I have met so many players out here between their late 20's all the way up to 40's and a few that are beyond. I never seriously dated until I got to this place because I was finally at a place with myself where I loved myself enough to date. As long as you know who you are and know your personal boundaries, just don't compromise yourself.
My boyfriend had a beige flag pop up the other day. I was watching a compilation clip of Florence and the Machine performing Dog Days Live and he asked me if she was still alive. I felt so much rage build up at such a stupid question. He was a fan of her back in the day too and just thought she was the same age as Stevie Nicks. Nope she’s just 36.
Your thoughts on how to connect with new family members are so helpful. I have a different perspective because of personal experience but I don’t want to hurt anybody’s feelings or making them feel bad either by my actions or lack thereof so hearing your point of view is really nice 😊 Edit : in fact I love that topic, I don’t have a lot of people with who I can talk about this ! This topic is welcome if you want to elaborate another time ✨
The end one about the situationship.. The best thing I did was choose to date myself. I didn’t see anybody for a year and dated myself. (not saying it has to be that long just as long as you need to feel love for yourself). Coffee dates, brunch, movies, whatever you like to do, date yourself and love yourself and understand your worth to its fullest!
I didn't realize how much I related to y'all with y'all's age gaps. I'm the oldest like Deison, really shy and close with my "social butterfly" younger sister who's a few years younger than me, and I have a baby brother that's 10+ younger than me. I really appreciate how Mama Afualo treats y'all separately, mine kinda compares my progress to the others bc i'm the oldest:(
2:06 this is literally me when I was at a track meet I was laying down in the sun on the bleachers while I was waiting for my race and my white coaches were mad at me for not being in the tent shade 😭
Nauuuurrrrr first off being an eczema girly I cant live in humid climates it tears my skin to shreds. Secondly deis!! Ur my tv guru I fucking loved Yellowjackets season finale!! 😢
Just started listening and loving the pod! Started as a fan of Drew and now both. Curious, if you two are sisters why do you say "my mom, my brother, etc." and not "our mom, our brother, etc."?
3:35 i feel the same way i did 23&me and i came out like 40% British/irish/Scottish and then 60% Scandinavian and i went there and I've never felt more at home it made me cry i love being on an island with all the seasons especially the cold ones i currently live in one of the sunniest cities in inland northern California and i feel like my soul is being drained from me the more i live here
One of my beige flags is my fiancé is SUCH a physical touch person he’ll rest one of his feet on mine while we’re just facing each other talking. Started off weird, now it’s just sweet.
I watch the same stuff over and over and I started watching modern family lately lol also the lizzo concert venue literally sounds like the red rocks amphitheater but its worth the walk!
as a floridian who doesn't want to be here- hearing "it doesn't really get past 80°" was really funny 😭 i'm assuming u didn't come here in the summer cuz it's absolutely miserable. (although it's miserable all the time just being here)
i wish i got along with my partner’s dad but he hates me for no reason 🙃 also randomly decided to ban me from coming to his house and said it “was weird” that i showered there 👀
11:59 Drew I am also a Virgo and I have never really had crushes on celebrities or real people honestly. So every time someone is like do you have a hall pass I’m like? No? I love the way my man looks and that’s really it. *shrugs* Anyway thanks for validating me not having a celebrity crush or any lol
Deep lore knowledge that no one cares about : Reese is dating actress and producer, Alyah Chantelle Scott. One of her first acting jobs was one of the lead roles in national tour of the Book of Morman, playing opposite of Dylan Mulvaney.
I look forward to the way you guys randomly break out into spanish words throughout the episodes 😂 it's giving freddie benson from icarly
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Do remember what time exactly they start doing it?
Seeing secure healthy people who were raised with love and respect really makes me wonder what could i have become if my parents gave me even half of the love and respect they were supposed to. Thank God i got to hear this podcast today because i was yet again falling into the "everyone lives like this" hole again for the millionth time.
I have the exact same feeling, a LOT of people do. I love Drew & Deison but their closeness both triggers & heals my inner child that yearned to be so close to my sister. It sucks but it’s also good to see. It’s a strange phenomenon.
Ngl I always feel a little depressed when they talk about their family dynamic because my parents couldn’t be more opposite lmao
Fr me and my sister have the same age gap went to school together and everything but bc of our differences my mom always put us against each other and it makes me sad to hear it didnt have to be like that ;/
My dad is the opposite of theirs
My dad is like theirs but my mom was NOT their mom. I would wear something I’d like and she’d judge it and belittle me.
As an Indigenous person, I felt it in my soul whenever y’all were talking about acclimating to Hawaii so quickly bc it felt like home. I visited my ancestral homelands a few years ago and my heart and soul felt SO full. It’s just something different about knowing your ancestors cared for the land and the land cared for them. Not cheesy at all ❤
The part about raising your kids to just love whatever they want… YES. I will never forget my father came into my room when I was in 10th grade and said “you know Harry Potter isn’t real right?” Like in the most serious tone ever… like there was concern. And I felt so dumb just for loving something silly. Of course I knew it wasn’t real but why couldn’t I still enjoy it?
1:17:15 I love this sm! 😭
"Thoughts are just thoughts. That doesn't make them true . . . Having them is natural. Believing them is not required."
The way you ladies describe how your parents raised you all is a testament to how well adjusted adults I feel you all are. Love seeing this in our Samoan community, especially with regards to not being shamed for liking what you like because that extends to other parts of life. Thank you for opening minds ❤
i love doing the intro so much that i fill in for drew’s “yesh” 🥰😭
Hearing you guys talk about your mom made me tear up. She sounds a lot like my mom. She passed away in February of 2022. I love this podcast so much 💕
sending u so much love 💖
@@twoidiotgirls I love you both so much! Thank you so much. Definitely means a lot 🥺💕
I loveee how the last two episodes have been longer than usual. Under an hour never felt like enough. I could listen for hoursss nonstop
gotta be up at 5am for work, but imma watch this real quick before sleep
same lol
drew saying shes proud of deison made my week idc idc♥
Part two of the advice that no one asked me for. For the person who’s struggling with getting over the situationship: I promise you that if he was really supposed to be with you, he would be. I also challenge you to look at him and the way he treated you objectively and consider if you want to waste any more time on him. It’s not easy, but with time and a few shit talking sessions, you’ll recognize your worth and move on to bigger and better
Not me getting emotional about just how beautifully your mom raised you guys to be proud of yourselves and your uniqueness 😭💖💖
i loved that little conversation about family .. it was so heartwarming i love y’all 😭😭
i found drew’s podcast on spotify, and became OBSESSED with her watched all of those and im here now and i looooooove it here ❤
the focus on the icks advice is TRULY life saving
Loving these episodes being longer lately
The way I've been binging these like they're endless, love it here
i am here for the longer episodes!! i know you guys are busy ladies but the hour-long podcasts just weren't enough haha
I really needed to hear the part about dating in college. My friend group has people in relationships or people who have been dating but not gotten into relationships and I am the most single one who has not really dated anyone in college. I have felt ashamed and embarrassed, but hearing you guys talk about how looking back you think it is better to not be in a relationship in college really helps me feel better about my situation. I've had friends tell me "you don't need to be in a relationship" and "it'll happen someday," but you guys saying it means so much more since you are older and have already gone through college. I love listening to your podcast, and thanks so much for all the great advice
As soon as i see the episode is longer than a Hr, i know ima clean my whole house🤣 i could listen to you guys ALL DAY ❣️
As an Aries with a Libra rising I've never felt more seen when it comes to the urge to chuck something at high speeds without holding back, my Taurus moon is the only thing holding me together some days lol
Also I love you both and the podcast! 🥰😁
Feeling safe and blessed in this space on this morning bc we got a 90 min episode
it’s literally 12 am where i live and i got class tomorrow but i’m STILL GONNA WATCH BC YALL R MY FAVSSSSS🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
Listening to your stories, your mom is basically mothering us❤
Y’all are my favorite parts of Tuesdays 💘
I wear my studio beats so I can feel included 😌 this is my place of worship
I feel so seen Pili is so real for getting the urge to just launch things
On the question about dating in college, don't lol, but y'all are real ones for pointing out how guys always be leading on. I have a seasonal job at a popular tourist destination, and I have met so many players out here between their late 20's all the way up to 40's and a few that are beyond. I never seriously dated until I got to this place because I was finally at a place with myself where I loved myself enough to date. As long as you know who you are and know your personal boundaries, just don't compromise yourself.
44:28 healed a part of me today, thank you Deison and Drew as well as your beautiful Mom
A beige flag is a very mild mild red flag. ALMOST ALARMING but not quite 😂
Donnie's fit desciption is giving "Weird in a good way ,Uncle " core
you guys talking about julien >>>>>
YESSS!!!! I'm here for these longer episodes, I love y'all sm 🫶🏼
My boyfriend had a beige flag pop up the other day. I was watching a compilation clip of Florence and the Machine performing Dog Days Live and he asked me if she was still alive. I felt so much rage build up at such a stupid question. He was a fan of her back in the day too and just thought she was the same age as Stevie Nicks. Nope she’s just 36.
This episode was fire
Thank you so much for your breakup advice, I just got out of a 5yr relationship and this helped immensely. Love y’all 🫶
My drunk ass needed this after a night at the bar
okay i need to see julien as a guest now 😭
this is the perfect length for my getting ready routine :D period besties loved the ep
you guys always make me feel really powerful and i am so appreciative of that; thank y’all so much for helping to empower us🖤
Leaving “Viejas “ arena after the Lizzo concert had you feeling like one, crawling out the center of the earth
Your thoughts on how to connect with new family members are so helpful. I have a different perspective because of personal experience but I don’t want to hurt anybody’s feelings or making them feel bad either by my actions or lack thereof so hearing your point of view is really nice 😊
Edit : in fact I love that topic, I don’t have a lot of people with who I can talk about this ! This topic is welcome if you want to elaborate another time ✨
My bf and I have showered together every shower (unless we’re fighting lmao) and we kiss in passing lol never thought of calling it a “kissing toll”
As a gay man I am 100% behind their ick of men watching sports
I love being a noisy native and when the message came in from another alaska native and i was like ??? do i know you ???
We love your mom! Do you think she would consider doing an episode with you guys one day?
Y’all are the best!!! Come to Houston! ❤😅😅
I loveeee the longer episodes
Y’all need to get Billy in T-ball
YALL ARE F*CKING BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT. THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU AND SHARING YOUR SACRED ENERGY W THE WORLD!! ❤❤❤
Omg deison…The Sopranos… prepare yourself…. Seriously an amazing show though UGH
I’m so jealous of you two, I never went to a MCR concert! 😭 I still listen to them lol
The end one about the situationship.. The best thing I did was choose to date myself. I didn’t see anybody for a year and dated myself. (not saying it has to be that long just as long as you need to feel love for yourself). Coffee dates, brunch, movies, whatever you like to do, date yourself and love yourself and understand your worth to its fullest!
super jet lagged at 3:30am on a trip to korea, watching my comfort pod
The title:
The thumbnail background: beige cracks
Finally someone who actually appreciates my art -Deison
I live in TN (leaving at the first chance I get), and it gets so hot and humid in July/August it makes it hard to breathe. 😅😅
I didn't realize how much I related to y'all with y'all's age gaps. I'm the oldest like Deison, really shy and close with my "social butterfly" younger sister who's a few years younger than me, and I have a baby brother that's 10+ younger than me. I really appreciate how Mama Afualo treats y'all separately, mine kinda compares my progress to the others bc i'm the oldest:(
Billy is ME i love to throw things, i fight the urge often
here’s a big ick : men jumping on a trampoline
2:06 this is literally me when I was at a track meet I was laying down in the sun on the bleachers while I was waiting for my race and my white coaches were mad at me for not being in the tent shade 😭
You guys talking about your parents and the love and support you all have for each other is so inspiring! 🥹🫶🏼
I saw Lizzo in Northern California and I 1000% agree she is a phenomenal performer
im seeing lizzo in july for the first time BY MYSELF and im SO EXCITED
1:15:03 this wreaked me and I will listen to this EVERYDAY until it clears through my Cancer sun & rising ass 😩👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
“HE DOESN’T WANT TO BE WITH YOU, BECAUSE HES NOT THE PERSON WHOSE SUPPOSED TO BE WITH YOU” 🗣️ - Drew Afualo, The Prophet
babe really snapped 🤌🏽
Nauuuurrrrr first off being an eczema girly I cant live in humid climates it tears my skin to shreds. Secondly deis!! Ur my tv guru I fucking loved Yellowjackets season finale!! 😢
Born and raised and living in Florida and 😭😭😭 love y’all
1:24:15 oh my God or google searching “coolest raiders wallpaper” and it has like flames and a wolf like I wanna barf 💀
Just started listening and loving the pod! Started as a fan of Drew and now both. Curious, if you two are sisters why do you say "my mom, my brother, etc." and not "our mom, our brother, etc."?
Can you guys do an episode where your listeners share their funniest culture shock moments??
3:35 i feel the same way i did 23&me and i came out like 40% British/irish/Scottish and then 60% Scandinavian and i went there and I've never felt more at home it made me cry i love being on an island with all the seasons especially the cold ones i currently live in one of the sunniest cities in inland northern California and i feel like my soul is being drained from me the more i live here
i can confirm that thinking about the icks your ex had def works
30:06 I know exactly what Deis is talking about and it drives me crazyyyy
One of my beige flags is my fiancé is SUCH a physical touch person he’ll rest one of his feet on mine while we’re just facing each other talking. Started off weird, now it’s just sweet.
I’m 100% a lizard, raised in Florida currently living in Oregon and so glad to be coming out of the long ass winter/wet season up here.
Me, a FL resident: YEAH FUCK FL IT FUCKING SUCKS HERE! I legit can’t wait to get the hell outta dodge
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR WORK ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
34:17 i lowkey have the same thing w the car and trash like when I have trash I wanna throw it out the window or throw it in the back seat 💀
I watch the same stuff over and over and I started watching modern family lately lol also the lizzo concert venue literally sounds like the red rocks amphitheater but its worth the walk!
the title took me tf out
It's definitely the Mana, have a beautiful time. Aloha no 'Ohana!! xoxoxo
as a floridian who doesn't want to be here- hearing "it doesn't really get past 80°" was really funny 😭 i'm assuming u didn't come here in the summer cuz it's absolutely miserable. (although it's miserable all the time just being here)
JULIEN SOLOMITA MENTIONED ❤❤
i wish i got along with my partner’s dad but he hates me for no reason 🙃 also randomly decided to ban me from coming to his house and said it “was weird” that i showered there 👀
As a Latina from LA living in UT, no one understands my hatred for being cold. I’m OVER the dry climate 🤚🏽
As a Mexican that was born ad raised in Utah, I feel that 😂 that’s why I moved to the motherland
HAHAHAHAHAH THE SPORTS ICKS ARE TOO REAL
I swear, Drew and I are the same about movies and shows😂
Is Pili’s urge to throw an intrusive thought or a stim? Like what part of his brain is causing that urge?
11:59 Drew I am also a Virgo and I have never really had crushes on celebrities or real people honestly. So every time someone is like do you have a hall pass I’m like? No? I love the way my man looks and that’s really it. *shrugs* Anyway thanks for validating me not having a celebrity crush or any lol
Finally some good fucking food
drew. i love u so much. zooey deschanel is in 500 days of summer, not chloe grace moretz 😂
loved this
Come to Spain! It’s not a suggestion, it’s an order. And if you love islands, come to Mallorca 🫶🏻 love girlies💜
Lemme just stop what I’m doing real quick 🥰
I WISH I heard this 10 years ago
Deep lore knowledge that no one cares about : Reese is dating actress and producer, Alyah Chantelle Scott. One of her first acting jobs was one of the lead roles in national tour of the Book of Morman, playing opposite of Dylan Mulvaney.
We have shit to do 😂😂😂😂😂😂 LMAOOOOO
As a Floridian, thank you for your condolences 🙏🏽 Love my humidity, hate Ron DeSantis
as a Floridian, I am sorry 🙁