I lost my husband and my daughter the same day - Nelly Obiero | Tuko Talks| Tuko TV
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- I lost my husband and my daughter the same day - Nelly Obiero | Tuko Talks| Tuko TV
When Nelly's husband dropped her to work, she did not know that twenty minutes later, she would receive a call that would change her life forever. Both her husband and daughter had been involved in a tragic road accident and as breaking as it can get, none of them survived
Today she opens up to Tuko Talks Lynn Ngugi on coping with grief and having to raise her son all by herself
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Sorry mummy take heart n be strong all will be well in shaaAllah
There is a Christian interdenominational ministry called Ellel Ministries that has been a great blessing in my life through the journey of healing from trauma I faced in 2014.. It's a journey ...
So Ellel is not a church, they hold teachings, retreats &so much that cannot really be explained unless one attends... they teach and breakdown topics guided by scripture
This helps one connect with God and release such heavy burdens..i ama living testimony.
So Like this coming weekend Saturday 22nd they are doing a Zoom Edition of 'Getting To The Root of the Problem'...
Am convinced it will be of great impact to her healing journey with the other topics that come.. Thanks for giving her email, I'll reach out.
Peace peace peace be unto her..... all i can do is pray fr her
Take heart dear, God knows why that happened to you, though it hurts but thank God for every circumstance
am sorry for her,,, but plz our Kenyan police needs a lot of training concerning a matter like this,,just imagn kwan n mbuzi amekufa::???
She said , "Every day, try to live as if it's your last day on earth because you don't know about tomorrow" and I felt that 😥😥. Hugs, love and light to you mama 💚
May God give you strength.
@@sallyudoyi4276 Amen, God will never forsake her
Hi
I can feel your pain just listening to you. My dear you will need years of therapy , with time the pain will get less and less my heart goes out to you.
@@Hildapcharles Amen
Psalm 34:18, “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.”
Literally the 2% people who's reading.....may your parents live more than 100 years with good health 💜❤️💜
Amen
Amen
Amen
Amen
Amen
I lost 2 brothers and mum. It took me almost 10 years to recover. From 2010 to 2016 I was a wreck. But now am OK. It shall be well mummy. God is faithful.
Pole saana Laban
Pole aki😢
Pia Mimi itachukua more years to recover juu nilipotesa mtoto wangu akiwa anafanya exam ya form 4 😭 😭
Pole laban
@@hannahwanjiru4543 pole sana mama. Mungu akufariji.
Her heart is heavy, she is in pain can hear her voice. I also lost my husband through a road accident when my daughter was 4 months old. Not easy, I cried for 2 years to overcome the pain. Praying for you Nelly.
My goodness
May God keep comforting you
Losing a child and a husband at the same time it's very painful and heartbreaking. I pray that God will give you strength to overcome the pain. It shall be well sister Nelly
Take heart dear,our God will always there 4 you,,pole sana
So sorry Nelly, I also lost my husband through in March this year and up to date, I have been in the denial, but listening to you has given me the strength and hope for tomorrow.
Am so very sorry take heart sending hugs your way
@@janiimutugi3942God bless you 🙏
Pole sana, take heart. May God comfort you.
Pole sana, it is well
@@maureenayako3972 Am humbled 🙏
Am happy that she’s survived with a child to give her joy and happiness,may GOD strengthen her in her healing process.
Waaa pole sana Patoo I remember him back in highschool dayz during drama and music festivals am shocked with the sad news wasnt aware May the Lord comfort you Mum RIP Patoo and daughter
Nelly,be encouraged in the Lord 🙏
Not that I fear death,but I don't want such thing to happen to my wife and kids,
I can't imagine her being helpless this way..it's a terrible feeling to any lady.
Am sorry for this lady,may God help her.
Pole sana Nelly God will answer all your prayers
Amen . So devastating 😭😭
It’s not about lady it’s a terrible feeling for anyone. I lost my youngest brother on the highway in Canada almost 15 years ago and I still share a tear when i think about it . I saw him the night before next morning he was gone . This was my worst nightmare , his car broke down on the highway and was hit from behind. People suffer a lot on this earth the pain is just to much to bear. Sister please get some professional help may god truly give you all the strength you desire in a time like this. 🙏
We rebuke premature death in Jesus Mighty name Amen Holy Spirit taking charge now Amen amen n Amen
One minute in and I am filled with so much sadness. My heart goes out to her
I can't finish watching
The person who broke the news that way should be ashamed of themselves. Pole sana Nelly.
What word can you expect from the police officer..always hush
This has reminded me of that fateful morning...that accident that claimed my husband it's still painful 😢 😫 I feel you dear
Hugs mama
Me too, am husband died in accident, few yrs back but it still pains
Nelly, you are a strong woman, God has strengthened you immensely. He will continue keeping you from all harm. Greater and better days are ahead dear. It is well with you.
I agree with you my the living God strengthen her always everything happens with a reason God takes and brings better and good things to you
I believe this is the strongest woman I've seen so far💪💪....God has reason for everything believe in Him and all will be well mama... continue being strong for your young champion😊😊😊
I lost my dad on the 29th of Last month. I know the pain. I understand the pain. A month hasn’t even gone by, the wounds are still so fresh. I see him everywhere, I can even hear his voice in my mind. Everything you said about Patrick, so was my dad. I feel the pain. I don’t think it ever goes away. Time doesn’t heal anything. You just learn to live with it. The pain, the loss, the sadness... It only takes the master comforter. And in Him I sought and found my strength. Thank you for your story. Sending hugs, love and light. It is well.
pole Cynthia
Very true I lost a friend on a road accident this year june,till today I do cry even today I cried,,healing is not easy,,we stay with the pain ,,,no matter how I'll be councilled I don't think if Afrax will excuse me,,,Omg I can't imagine ,,death is the saddeeeeest thing ,,we won't see our loved ones anymore 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭how I miss you Afrax may God see us
Hey, when I lost my dad, I knew the world was ending for me. Trust me, time heals. I miss my sister more than my father now. It is because of the time difference. You will be fine
I was also widowed at the age of 20 N God is faithful now its been 10 yrs since n i have seen God all thru... Ma baby girl is 10 wat i feared most is her asking me about the dad but God was in control.
This story reminds me of Kobe Bryant and his daughter Gianna! May the Lord Strengthen You. So sorry, stay strong. The devil was out to take your whole family that day, because you also got a minor accident. But just as Job said, the Lord gave and now he has taken, may his Name be Praised! Stay strong for your son and thanks for sharing. God Bless!
Exactly 🙏🙏
Amen
AMEN
So many people died in Feb btw
Its has remained me of Kobe Bryant and his daughter but it is well indeed.
Lynn ngugi is a good interviewer
@Blessedfavouredmaggie of Christ you didn't need to mention the name of the TV
It's unethicall.
Saana, anajua kazi yake
Thank you so much Mary🙏🙏❤❤
Sana she is more than good
She's 👌👌👌👍
This is just as sad as Gigi and Kobe's story🥺Take heart❤️
Surely, the devil is a liar.. Pole sana dear sister God knows our failures as well as our success. Amen
Such a calm lovely beautiful lady.God shower you with his mighty Hand and Love.hugs to you and your entire family and little son.💞
God Grant her the grace To move on.
I saw ur story somewhere and i prayed fr u ....may the peace of the lord which passes all human understanding be with you and remain with you.
I know Nelly as a neighbor from pangani .
You'll get through this,
You're strong.
Where do she live in pangani
Can I get her number plz
Loosing a hubby and a daughter is soo painful, I can't even imagine the pain cause have never been there to begin with.. so sorry for your loss mama, keep on being strong for your son and may God keep you from any harm
I remember her story on African leading ladies, so sad. May God strengthen her and her son
I also saw it. This is so painful but God is faithful. She is a strong woman
Amen
Same here. I first saw her there
I also saw it there.😭
I saw it there too, it touched me now seeing her I can't help but cry
Nelly it is well. Losing one member is beyond comprehension but losing two at a go is way too much BUT God is faithful. Hold on to God He will wipe your tears away. I feel your pain Nelly I lost my hubby suddenly but God has seen us through. Be not dismayed whatever it be God will take care of you. Shalom
Shalom, Shalom
presenter - weka tissues on hand for such emotional interviews. we all human. i feel very uncomfortable when i see such a lady getting emotional and they have nothing to wipe the tears with or kutoa makamasi. (sorry sijui the 'pretty word' for that)
One day death will also die forever
For sure
POLE SANA NELLY AND GOD WILL PROTECT AND GIVE YOU STRENGTH TO MOVE FORWARD. IT HAPPENED TO ME AND I LOST A SON WHO WAS 35YRS AND HE HAD PLANNED TO MARRY. UPTO DATE TO ME IT SEEMS LIKE YESTERDAY SO I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOUR GOING THROUGH. BE STRONG 💪 SO YOU CAN BE ABLE TO BRING UP YOUR SON. LOVE YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU.
Am so so sorry take heart may God give you peace
Pole sana Wamama Wama, may the Lord continue to heal your heart.
May God continue to give you too strength mum,
I'm sorry dear Nelly.I cannot begin to begin to imagine the pain you've been through.May the Lord comfort and heal you.
I have cried through this interview..I'm unable to finish aki..may God give this woman and family peace aki its soo hard
Psalm 147:3
"He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. Praying for you and baby JJ.
I know the feeling,hugs mum hugs to u God is with u😥😥
Lynn amejaribu...kujicontrol. In a different case she would have broke down. May God grant this lady strength and wisdom to collect her life back on track. Lynn is growing stronger step by step.
Because the lady who been interviewed she is stronger as well, she is trying to let it go for her son sake.
Put God first in everything Nelly, and He will intervene more for you.
Be strong sis I lost my husband 20 years ago and left with two kids 7 and 4 I miss him so much even if it’s 20 years but thank God for being strong my kids are 29 and 25 a girl and a boy both married and I have two grandchildren and I’m 52 years
SO SORRY
May you live long Mama be 💪
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
It has taken me some days to watch this. I was scared. The pain of your loved ones to be wiped out like that 😭😭😢Hugs, may God give you strength😭😭😭
God be there for you.Aint easy but He is the only one who can fill that gap.Pole siz.
Hugs mum😘 the Lord is a potter,he will med your heart again. U shall heal
This has given me hope after loosing my daughter holding her but God has a reason for everything.Thank you for sharing the story and giving hope to us
This is one of the most emotional interview I've ever watched,I feel it's even hard on the interviewer.
Lynne you are going to need some counselling too. My heart breaks for dear Nelly, may the Lord see you through and give you comfort!
May God heal your heart even as your son continue to grow
Sorry for your loss dear. It is well, God is in control.. May he protect and give you strength dear..
I feel for this woman, may God give her the strength and comfort 😭😭😭😭
😭😭After I think I’ve seen the saddest story on Tuko, here is the story of this poor woman..This is the saddest story I have ever heard.May God continue to strengthen this beautiful courageous woman..to tell her story and inspire others.
Take heart mama.. everything happens with a reason,.. with God everything is possible...pole pole sana
Akhi pole Nelly I cant imagine the pain. God will bring out something from this.
Oh my. May God strengthen and comfort Nelly. Am in tears, this story is so sad. I love the level of faith that Nelly has. God bless her and help her heal
Oh no 😭😭😭this is sad. It had gotten into my nerves. May the rest well. Continue being strong Nelly. And let God take the wheel of your life.
I remember finding this accident right opposite Railways club. Only to hear that there was a baby who had been rushed to hospital. Sad to know she did not make it. Then the husband's face is very clear in my mind after seeing his pics here. May God continue to give you strength. I hope that you find assistance in starting your project (orphans,widows). God Bless you.
Amen a
In your opinion, what do you think caused the accident? Sorry to ask.
@@itsvipi it happened..it won't help you now...try to be kind please
Job Onkundi please am not saying this is what happened but most accidents in Kenya happens during over taking other cars.
At that time at that place cars are not speeding...there is traffic jam. I think that's why hes asking. So sad that we continue losing pple on our roads due to human errors.
God will never test us beyond our strength and everything happens for better or worse according to His will. He will restore you dear for the end of a thing is the beginning of another new thing.
Very true
Nelly u r a strong woman
Sometimes i wonder how true that is because the trauma some people experience leaves them mad or severely depressed for life.
May God bless this lady and provide her needs in a special way..amen
Oh dear 😭😭😭 So so sorry Nelly. May God in all His mercies and grace carry you through this storm. Mungu akufariji mummy 💕
Worst moment in life ,may God give u courage and strength and may dere souls continue Resting in Peace
It has made me into tears but Iam glad through speaking God has hold you to this point. And he will still be your friend take heart sister.
Nelly, thank you for being so brave to share your harrowing experience, and for allowing God to strenthen you. Those neighbours, friends and church and whoever gave support, God bless you all. Tuko, we can't thank you enough for these real live experiences
Your daughter was full of life and energy. She appears to have made an impact even in her short life. I know she has made me smile and thats good.
I have a very soft spot for women, this is a strong woman here, may God bless you!He has your ways planned , worry not!
Amen
Pole pole Nelly ,the God of grace is sufficient.may God continue to comfort you and entire your family.may they soul continue rest in peace .
I sympathise with the family.. I now remember my colleagues talking about a bad accident that had happened at haile selassie in the morning hours and just to know it's the same accident I feel so sad... to lose two people at once is painful.. I pray that you may be comforted forever and may God provide you strength.
the pain of loss is overwhelming to such an extent that you feel you cant breath my baby girl went to heaven and we miss her everyday ,and i would love to send you my prayers be strong and keep loving the lord NELLY
God is the only comforter, He also wipes tears. May their precious souls rest in eternal peace. Amen
OOh Nelly may our loving father strengthen you and give strength, am so touched Nelly she is like a sister to me
This is so so painful.painful beyond measure.may Gods comfort be upon this lady in a special way
Pole pole pole Sana. May God rest their souls in eternal peace.
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IT'S TOO PAINFUL, I PRAY, MAY THE HOLYSPIRIT COMFORT YOU DARLING IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME @NELLY
I just can't stop crying😭😭 There's no pain like losing a loved one. I lost my husband who was my Best friend, my everything last year December.... Still in pain.
I also lost my dad 18years ago. I'm just like my mum. We are both widows. God's grace has been sufficient... We will heal some day. Take heart dear, God knows best
Sad in every sense! Your star will shine again beautiful. My the good lord comfort you.
Strong women.Gods cares a lot
We can never tell the exact pain that sm1 is undergoing to be honest and this reminds me back in 2014 wen i lost my son on the 17/04 through a CS yet exactly 2 mnths later on 17/06 jst to loose my hubby in an accident. I must confess it wasn't easy at first but thank God for He has done me xoxo well to this moment. If God did it to me He will definately easen your burden and most ov all may He give you peace tha sapparses human understanding.......sending hugs
Sending hugs to you too♥️
Llll
hugs mum❤️❤️
@@sue91995 God bless you🙏
God be with you forever 😘
I lost my husband in a road accident 7yrs down the line.The feeling is fresh up to today. Girl,Only God will take care of your heart.Fellow humans will leave you but God will never. Don't get into any relationship soon since you may end up in total mess.Heal slowly, mourn your husband and daughter and also be a faithful advocate for you son.
Nelly God is always there 4 u.its painful bt God do heal.
this lady is very strong, she managed to finish the interview. But if it were me could ave cried through out reason am very emotional though i dont know whether its normal for men to be emotional.
We are all human
It's okay to feel emotional
I also don’t know how she did it . I don’t think I would even gotten up off the floor from the day they died . God help us all
It’s normal,let no one tells u otherwise,men are also human beings
@@lindariungu1834 exactly
God give you strength and stick to JESUS..everything happens with a reason
This is Difficult for sure
May God comfort my sister and heal her broken heart..
Amen
God is in control my sister was also widowed at a young age of 26 years and left with 3 children. The husband committed suicide when the last baby was like 2 months. It's a sad situation but i keep on supporting her.
Hugs Mary
Sorry
Hugs mumy
So sad, May God take control over Nelly’s life and family. A pain that can never be forgotten and a gap that can never be filled, it’s only God who can take care of it. Continue being strong.
My dear sister, take heart this is too much for you but God know why.
Nelly you are such a strong lady. Its so sad to loose 2 loved ones in a such a short period. Our Good Lord in Heaven will forever comfort you. Be strong for ur son JJ soon. Death will be a thing of the past let ur loved one continue dancing with angels while watching over you
Sooo painful to imagine 😭😭😭 May God continue giving you strength Nelly😭😭😭
We need empathetic police officers like really? It's too too sad . May God give u Grace.
Too painful life,,,,,read about the story of Job in the Bible,,,,it will lift you,,,,,,he lost everything in one day including his wealthy and siblings .
Amen
May God have mercy on us..
May Holy spirit give you strength and restore all your happiness in Jesus name....thank You God Amen ..yuo are a blessed mrs Obiero
This is heartbreaking-so sorry for your double loss.
The police top brass should be sensitised one how to break such sensitive news.
I’m concerned that there is no mention of the in-laws🤔
Aki so so painful..... Am crying and am not even related to u my dear... I can't bare that pain aki....... 😭😭😭 Mungu akupe nguvu aki.....
Yeah, I also noticed it. They should have been part of the story, but she only mentioned her family.
my question too.. but maybe they didnt have a good relationship with her.. who knows
Am literally crying feeling the pain in the story... May God's grace be sufficient be with you
I lost my beautiful 6 year old daughter last month. The pain is unimaginable..i wasn't prepared to lose my child just after three days of illness
God restore strength in her life in Jesus mighty name. Amen
Whaaat? Death is so cruel....may God continue strengthening her
I can't stop shedding tears. May God strengthen this lady
GOD WILL GIVE YOU STRENGTH SISTER,I ALSO LOST MY HUSBAND THROUGH ROAD ACCIDENT,HE SPEND THE DAY WITH HIS DAUGHTER AT BOMAS OF KENYA BROUGHT HER BACK AT AROUND 6:00PM THEN LEFT WITH A FRIEND NEVER CAME BACK HOME THAT NIGHT,I THANK GOD THAT HE LEFT MY DAUGHTER TO KEEP ME GOING,BY THEN SHE WAS THE ONLY CHILD.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Our police force needs training on how to handle a bereaved person, Nelly may God continue comforting you.
Absolutely true
True
I lost my husband in load accident i known what your going through my sister be strong dear not easy journey
May God continue protecting and giving you strength my dear,it's too heavy for you.But what I can tell you is that never luck smile on your face
It's not easy my friends. Am a widow six years on but everything fresh in the mind and as painful as it was on the first day. God will walk with you and give comfort all through
The best comfort is from God ...the best is she comes from a very good Christianity background....God over everything
Sorry Nelly God is in control
So so sad it's pains a lot but take heart mummy God has a reason all will be well
I'm not sure how I'd survive such a loss. God knows. I hope this lady gets through this
So sorry Nelly I know what do you fill , because Even me I lost my parents the same day for accident but all to all God is good
I remember listening to this srory a month ago as it was aired on Radio Citizen 'story yangu' ..it's soo heartbreaking may God give Nelly and JJ strength.
Nelly, May the peace of God that surpasses human understanding be with you
So sorry for her loss.....God strengthen you Nelly and give you peace.
This made me remember my baby daddy😭😭😭uuuuf,he left when her daughter was to turn 2 now she will be turning 4 and all she knows is her dad is abroad and shall come one day... at times i look at her and tears roll down because she took even the smile from the dad...i almost died i cried days and nights but God brought forth the state of forgetting though it knocks in at times but atleast we here,may you find comfort dear hugs
Hugs mum
You should have told her he went to heaven and is never coming back. That would have been her normal. Whe she grows older she'll be so traumatized. Not cool.
Can I suggest this please, tell your dad went to heaven and lives with God. It's not right to lie to kids. Just tell them the truth. Thank you
Maybe now she will understand because she has grown back then she didnt know anything
May God continue to embrace you with his love and comfort. God will use you for his glory.
I just want to encourage this young woman. Thank you for sharing. I know it is hard. However, I want you to be strong and continue to seek God. Remember Job who said, " The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away. Blessed be the name of God". I am saying that because I know my redeemer lives. You are an inspiration. Thanks for sharing.