Chris loses his shit more times than anyone. All he does is scream at amy and tammy and over talk them and over opinionated on them, his opinion is right and its his way or the high way. He annoys me.
AI am telling you if you go back from day one when, the show started Amy has always has had a attitude problem, she has always thought her 💩💩💩💩🫘🫘🫘🫘🤦🏼♀️don’t stink and, has always twisting the truth, it’s just like now everyone is starting to notice that since, now, it’s that times 10! And, everyone that even ditched Tammy in the beginning when, she even had her bad attitude at times well, I still liked her overall!
I’m guess she may be experiencing PPD or PPP. Just a guess because I’m not a professional, but I’ve seen many women act just like this after having a couple babies. I think she rushed into having kids too shortly after her surgery. She wasn’t even down to a healthy weight before she did that. And the fact that she had them so close together is not going anything good for her mental health. Having a lazy controlling husband took a toll for sure. Now the divorce 🤦🏻♀️ it’s gotta be a lot of stress but she doesn’t realize that her family is a lot more help than most women have these days! Women have kids and jobs and do it all alone with no help, without losing their sh*t. So I’m definitely not making excuses for her but I can see where it’s coming from.
Her saying that her siblings didn’t help got me pissed. They have helped so much and when they try to give her some criticism she takes it as a way of them attacking her when they’re not. They are simply trying to give her some advice.
You're absolutely right that the way she acted wasn't ok. They all were there trying to help her. But right now she's hit rock bottom and had an emotional break down she just got divorced or is in the process of a divorce and taking care of very 2 small children became too much for her. She definitely needed to go home and get proper help but I'll give her props for apologizing and I am so proud of Tammy for how much she's matured over the past 2 years. She's so much more calm now.
@@Bella-Mae0422I agree with you. I understand what she’s going through. My mom went through the same with me and my brother being 17 months apart without the help of my father, but the way Amy handled it was not mature, and yes, I am also proud of Tammy for maturing and trying to help Amy get through this, and I am glad Amy realized she was in the wrong and tried to apologize. Because some people wouldn’t.
Amy tends to think her 💩💩💩💩🫘🫘🫘🫘🫘don’t stink and, she has constantly put Tammy down from the beginning and, here after all Tammy and effort Tammy has put in she still keeps putting Tammy down. Even when, Tammy was at her worst, I still liked her overall, not her grouchy attitude! Amy is always had this attitude where she thinks she’s better than everybody and, anybody and, I have never liked her! She never followed any of Dr. Proctor’s orders after she had her Bariatric Surgery and, she never lost any weight after she had her surgery neither, she actually ended up gaining over a 100lbs back and she made all those excuses to eat, I said, they should have named the show 1,000 excuses to eat with that attitude she had. Also, when, she came up pregnant both times so, many people took to her defense that it was accident because, Amy was lying about it but, if you watch both times when, she got pregnant it was clear that she and Micheal planned it that way, and,even when, she defined Dr. Proctor’s orders and, her and, Micheal got on the show and went outside lugging and carrying on . Then, towards the end of their birth she finally grasped the seriousness of it and, yet she didn’t really grasp in reality the actual seriousness of putting her and her babies life in serious danger by completely ignoring what Dr. Proctor told her! I like Amanda and, I can’t blame her after all she has done for Amy, then, after Amanda doing what she shouldn’t be doing and Amy shoving her around after she had her revision surgery! You also can’t blame Amanda then, for being a mamma bear and protecting all those boys why Amy’s in the midst of a breakdown.
She certainly needs advise..she thinks she's the only one that has taken care of two babies close in age without a husband's support..wake up lazy..your not alone..many have done this..get your shit together..without all the drama she creates..she would be able to juggle two babies..she should consider herself blessed to have such supportive family around, pretty much all the time..amy is selfish, lazy and nasty..pull yourself together amy..you wanted two children, so learn how to juggle and make it work for you, without all the bullshit..
It used to be Tammy that made everyone miserable on the family vacations. But, Amy actually attacked Amanda. Amy's face was so hateful and full of rage. That's nuts.
I saw that too..she really looked possessed for a minute there y'all..I've never ever seen Amy go crazy like that towards anyone especially her big mama sister Amanda!! Are you nuts Amy?? Your lucky she didn't knock your fat butt out!! 😵😵😵
Lol for real though she snapped because she felt like they were criticizing her mothering she didn't even bring anything for the boy's. I'm sorry Amy might have wanted the kids to prove to the world she could have children but she is a half ass mother she been lost my respect when she smokes cigarettes in front of the boy's! Heck no take your lazy butt outside.
What's funny to me is it's clearly postpartum or some other serious issue. Even her siblings have said it many times that after she gave birth she was crying constantly. So why are people stigmatizing her illness? Yeah it's annoying and frustrating I'm sure for her siblings to deal with it but clearly she is not mentally well. Have a little compassion dude. Amy has always been sweet and cheerful and helpful to all of her siblings every other season and now that she's having a breakdown which many people do by the way at some point in their lives including you, you want to throw her away like garbage! That's crazy.
She is angry at her motherly duties. She is tired and doesn't want to do anything except when she feels like it and that's not how parenting works. Parents do what they gotta do regardless of anything. I would blame postpartum depression but sadly Amy has shown signs of being lazy and not motivated in many aspects of her life... I like her but she needs to heal and grow in many many ways..
@@MerakiJourney I dont think thats it, I think its a bigger issue. I think when she sees the kids she thinks of Michael or she is still struggling with the fact she herself blames herself for breaking her family and cant face her kids or her self, or she is overworking her self to where she cant think stright, raising two kids by yourself is tiring. I think she is just frustrated cause everyone is trying to tell her how to parent, and thats a line that no one should cross cause even Constructive criticism can come off telling someone how to parent and thats a no no.
Pay attention! Amy said the same thing about her husband. He worked full time and she is a stay at home mother and couldn't handle one baby boy. Then she decided to have another baby back to back against doctors orders, and she's not able to raise those kids. There is no discipline. NO structure. No Schedule. It's just chaos. When she has them with her siblings, they literally run wild, and the aunts and uncles have to monitor them. Amy bawls and blames everyone else.
You hit the nail on the head! Amy lets her sons run wild while she plays on social media. She is NOT raising them! Oh yeah! She is a good mom, my foot!
Tammy has MAJORLY improved in EVERY WAY! Amy has been a complete MELTDOWN! I LOVE how Tammy, while walking away from Amy, literally said " f**k you, Amy, I'm done helping you!" GO, TAMMY,GO!
Are we watching the same show tho... you all are pretty judgie and seem to be making some assumptions. I have a 10MO that just started to sleep semi decently and I'm chasing her every where. I'm overjoyed most days but I could see how with two active boys and NO help from your husband you might be on the brink of some shit. And try and come at me with "Let's go through the book" lol said obviously by someone who has never had kids. Don't listen to the experts ever BTW - that's a sure fire trip to the looney bin. I hope Amy finds her groove but it's fin hard after kids, and no one can really manage a baby like they want except for the mama. So at times your family's help just feels like more work.
@@BrianBruner-x8tare we serious rn ? We gonna ignore all the times Amy helped Tammy ?? When Tammy was being a bitch to everyone because she was mad cuz everyone was moving forward but her cuz she kept eating no one said nothing.
Amy, who has been extremely mature and sweet all the past seasons is now clearly having a mental breakdown. As viewers we need to be more empathetic and stop trying to act like we haven't gone through sht ourselves. I hope she gets the help she needs.
I agree, but people lack empathy and clearly can’t see she is having a mental breakdown. She needs help. And as a mother, sometimes u literally don’t have time to get help
That’s cap from day 1 we all knew any was lazy, irresponsible, and uneducated. She decided to have babies yet she can’t take care of them and she gets mad. She wants a divorce but then gets mad that Michael filed it first making it official.
Amy needs medication and therapy, She's depressed cuz of the break up superimposed with postpartum crap. Those boys are spiraling because of the chaos and lack of routine around them. As much as Amy needed to get away, she should have done it when the soon to be ex was watching the boys. Amy if you read this, I was in your shoes. Get a good quality backpack and put your baby in it. He will be comfy close to you and then you can focus on the older lil one (keep getting Gage and Glenn mixed up). But please, please see someone. Your hormones are whacked right now and some temporary meds will do a world of good probably! We love you!
@@amayawright4083 No she needs way more healing time to focus on herself and focusing on her health too. Don’t bring kids into bad mental health and bad physical health situations it’s not fair on anyone
According to Amy Michael never wants to watch them both at the same time. He would only ever watch one and Amy would be forced to watch the other. That's another reason why she left him bc he would never help her or give her a break.
@@Bella-Mae0422 if Michael really never helped her with the kids or chores, then she shouldn't be so overwhelmed doing it by herself now. especially since her siblings are helping her now. if anything, shes getting more breaks now than she did when she was with Michael. the fact that she has no schedule for the kids, didn't bring any of their stuff for the vacation and keeps having breakdowns shows that Michael did help with the kids
@@ChillyMilly908i haven't been keeping up with the show for the last 2 years now bc I've been too busy being a new mom but you're possibly right. I was just trying to be kind lol
We have seen that guy parent before you guys... those kids would not last a day on their own with him lets be real here... that would be the stupidest idea ever no matter how overwhelmed she is, those kids are safer with her. And the kids are all under 2 we fail to realize shes still LEARNING HOW TO BE A MOM... 2 is not that long and both of her children were born back to back. they're here now and she can't take that back so she's still adjusting. That's common. You really wouldn't understand until you have to raise toddlers all on your own. And its not like her siblings are with her 24/7 in real life this is just ONE FAMILY TRIP and these scenes are edited into what they want us to see and think we'll find entertaining. the reality is if you've ever been invited on a family trip with your children under 3 years old then you know how it goes especially when you're the only available care taker. Everyone in the family invites you and tells you to hurry up and pack and come to the trip, they'll help you when you need it, come have fun and relax blah blah blah... we are family do we want to support you same old speech and then when you get there the kids are instantly over stimulated and way too excited in the new environment and acting beyond crazy/brand new, kids act the worse when new people are around sometimes. And the family that said they would help all dont want to be bothered all of a sudden and if you ask for help it feels like you're ruining everyone's fun and then you realize you were better off just sitting this one out and staying home instead of going to the family trips until the kids are old enough to act right around others and new environments lol ... I couldnt help but feel bad for her to be real. My kid is 3 and if it were me and I realized the kids were going loco and I somehow forgot the stuff that would help keep them occupied because, hello, MOM BRAIN so that type of stuff happens all the time with mom brain so you forget the simplest things... the last thing you want to hear when the kids are wilding out is "how could you forget their toys?!" That sucks to hear when you're already pissed you forgot anything! I would have just snuck out and went home really because why even put myself and the kids through that torture to please the family and their wants? if its better we stay home, gosh darn it we're staying home. Might be better for all parties involved and family that truly understands that are the family you realize you can take the risks with and hang out with socially with your crazy kids lol @@emma2370
Amy wanted kids SOOOO badly- it was her whole reason for being- and now she’s just a freaking mess who acts like she regrets having them. Kids need to be on a schedule - it makes your life easier too. Get your shit together and stop smoking in the same house with them too. Yuck.
Amy should not have gone on this vacation. She is suffering from mental illness. Too bad her ex husband cannot play a bigger part in parenting. She really needs help
@@natalieh8023 And they aren't now? Amy has always been a mess. I was amazed when she said she allowed her baby to choose his own food and the colour to paint his bedroom while still a babe in arms. Still, he probably always had more sense than she does.
@@Lynda-vq5yl He couldn't even handle watching them and would not let her leave without taking them with her. She is the main caretaker whether you agree with the way she parents or not.
After hearing Amy *LIE* and say that her siblings HAVEN'T helped her this whole time, when they have done nothing BUT help her, that told me everything I needed to know about Amy right there! She is a LIAR! Haven't you all wondered WHY Amy would be SO stressed out and overwhelmed only AFTER leaving Michael? IF Michael did absolutely NOTHING as Amy has said, AND she had to do everything in the house including taking care of Michael, WHY is it SO much more stressful and overwhelming NOW for her than when she was with Michael? Shouldn't it be less overwhelming now that she doesn't have to do everything herself, especially now that her siblings are helping her? I believe Amy is LYING about Michael TOO! Did you hear her also say that she "Goes DAYS WITHOUT EATING anything because the boys keep her so busy!" I KNEW then that Amy IS one big, fat, LIAR... literally! Her own sisters were calling her a LIAR too! The curtain has slipped and now everyone is seeing the REAL Amy Slaton!
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU! I've been saying this, she even made the comment that things are so much harder now that shes a single mother, shouldnt it be business as usual if her husband never did anything?
⭐️ ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Your are exactly right! I’m starting to wonder about Amy’s mental level to begin with. Maybe she has a problem and that why Michael controlled the finances, it never made sense that she didn’t have any control of her own bank card but has her own show.
I mean not really. When she felt overwhelmed she was able to hand one off to Michael, even if it was by default/force out of the situation. Not everything is black and white, he probably only ever choose to act when things got to the extremes they get to emotionally
I mean that may be true that he helped more than she said and that she herself cant handle the kids but we did see that he would never try to help with them when they were both crying at the same time. She wants Micheal that’s why she really upset she literally was willing to call him to get her over a fight she escalated and no one in her family can fill the love she looking for even when they helping her. Like i think Amy can’t handle too much mentally she never could that’s why she had roaches before the kids were ever here with no job!!! But I was wondering why Micheal was controlling the money…. I personally noticed with my own bf when he stopped working for a month he was all over my money and what i was buying 🤔 like is this a pride thing or is Amy not good with money and being an Adult
I'm genuinely concerned for her boys. She has severe depression and anger and everytime I see her with her boys she doesn't know how to handle them especially when they are crying or cranky which is what kids do. What's going to happen in the future if she gets really frustrated with her boys? I'm worried she'll take her anger out on them. These poor boys were right there seeing their mom throw hands and scream.
Idk if you know but Amy was charged with animal abuse for leaving her dog in a hot car as she went to Dave and busters. I personally just don’t think she knows how to properly care for anyone. And her ex can use this footage in court to say Amy isn’t a fit mother
Mentally Amy isn’t all the way there and never has been and Micheal isn’t either. I know two women in my life like her who had kids and both had their kids token away because of some form of neglect in a way.
I have mad respect for Amanda, because she could solo everyone there but every time a fight happens she remains quite composed compared to the others, she is being attacked by amy and she barely pushed her back just to stand up straight again like she was just trying to contain amy’s rage…beautifully I might add. Plus she doesn’t allow any excuses like no nonsense at all gets past her, she protects her family even from themselves. I wish we had more screen time of her she is better to watch than others 😂
Why? She has the kids on her schedule not theirs, no afternoon nap,no meal time manners, a lot missing, no wonder the kids are a mess, sorry my opinion, Amy has to get it together…Diana
@@miryamamar9471I see that too, she just lets the kids run wild and never disciplines them. Like does she think crying is gonna make it better?🤦♀️ I get she’s depressed but like come on now.
@@miryamamar9471 I just wonder how she would handle this without her family around? It’s like she throws these tantrums and she expects them to help calm the boys down🙇🏼♀️
Amy is crying out for help. She has very deep postpartum depression, and she is still struggling with her addiction to food. She should never be left alone with these kids. Thoughts of Andrea Yates come to mind.
Amy should've left the boys with Michael's mom. She always preaches how they love their grandmother and how they're always with her. She should've taken this opportunity to take a break and get her mind straight. Irresponsible on her part, especially with the fact she didn't even bring stimulants for the boys.
She’s starting show signs of psychosis.. she’s been trying to hold it in and well- after being under so much stress for so long without any help for her mental health (antidepressants or something); you start acting like a crazy person. 🙃 Amy go see a doctor, you can’t be like that, if you put your hands on your sister- before you know it you’re going to snap on the boys.
I think she's just sleep deprived and having a mental meltdown. It happens to everyone doesn't mean you need meds. She can get back on track without medication people are obsessed with medication.
@@Popularloner86 okay? & I’m pretty sure I commented this but I said antidepressants or something 💀 nothing wrong with taking medication when you’re clearly ill & it’s affecting everything aspect in your life
I,m one of many I had two boys 12 months apart, never had any help, and a third child five years later, husband was in the navy, My family were thousands of miles away..and I never had all this “whatever “ I don,t get it. Diana 😟
I'm not single but I'm alone most of the time. My Man is in the Navy. Is so hard to deal with all stuff by myself. Sometimes I have enough too. I have feeling that Amy is in emotional hell and she needs professional help.
Except she’s a stay at home mom who doesn’t work a full job. She kinda has it easier than moms who work full time jobs and careers who have to balance work life with new kids
I agree we only get one side of the story he was always sweet to her i believe some counseling would have been the first thing I would have tried then she was pissed because he filed well she told him I want a divorce then she says hes not even going to fight for me well Amy has brought her problems to the family now you have the family against Michael im not saying hes perfect none of us are but I do not believe he was what she was making him out to be
Cant really blame the kids when you bring nothing for them and they have no schedule. Vacations are hard with those things, nevermind without! But damn, people wish they had the kinda help amy has! Her family have been insane help and didnt deserve this.
@@miryamamar9471you sound ignorant. Do you even know what post partum depression is ? You don’t have to be a psychiatrist to notice the signs, WOMEN go through these things whether or not they have a stable life or an unstable life, it comes with birthing a child. Your body goes through changes and all of your hormones and emotions hit at once. Depression definitely causes anxiety coming from someone who is suffering from depression…think before you type or maybe dont type at all ☺️
@@envyrynnI agree! I had my child almost 2 years ago and for a bit my man wasn't really helping much bc of his addiction and he didn't know what to do either but I remember when post partum kicked in and the lack of sleep and I couldn't touch my baby whenever i was extremely down i would lock myself in the bathroom in the dark sit in the bathtub and cry and think about suicide. Thank god my man's mother is a nanny for a living and was always very supportive and patient with me.
Amy wasn’t depressed hence she was with that fella so soon after Michael left. She could of used that time to clean her house not bringing a strange man in the house
Amy has very little in parental skills, not suprising when you see what her own mother is like. She needs to be made to attend parenting classes as a minimum.
And everyone is mom shaming her. After going thru a divorce and becoming a single parent, she’s going thru a lot mentally and emotionally how can nobody see that.
Doesn't matter how sleep deprived you are for whatever reason... Putting your hands on someone is unacceptable. It's like using the "I was drunk" excuse. This BS goes beyond being tired or being depressed. Her behaviour is inexcusable
There are a lot of unsympathetic people on here. Clearly, Amy doesn't have the mental capacity to raise two small children right now. I don't in any way condone her getting physical with Amanda, but that coupled with the instant remorse from Amy afterwards tells me that she's really going through it. It's sad to watch because her family is really trying to help her. I hope she gets some professional help. I'm still rooting for her, if for no other reason, for those two little boys who need their mom.
You don't bring children in the world and expect everyone else to care for them. Amy went the doctor advice and had two babies, when she wasn't taking good care of one baby by herself. She's getting bigger everyday, so that why she lack the energy.
I cannot believe that Amy had the nerve to say that her siblings don't help her,and cannot believe that she attacked Amanda; she is lucky that Amanda didn't smack her til next episode. She really needs helps and to say that she would called her ex- husband to come and pick her up when he is the reason why is acting like this to begin with,come Amy if can fix yourself at least do it for your kids.
its called postpartum depression on top of a divorce, on top of a deadbeat babyfather, on top of two small kids close in age who seem to cry alot,Shes gonna completely snap if she dosent get help
@@Mirah3738have you not watched the show? All her siblings have helped her. Right before this, Amanda even left her own dinner to bring back one of the kids to the house to calm down. Even Tammy, with her health problems constantly is holding those boys, feeding them, and playing with them.
Like the biggest thing about mental health is the people or family of the one suffering with mental health also needs therapy,so they can know how to navigate or deal with someone with mental health. Adding and this tough love bs don't work,their need better education. How can you tell someone that has an anxiety attack to calm down or get your ish together. Continuing saying to that someone you going crazy and you need help, you adding to that person mental health negatively,like the stupidity of the people in and around someone that's dealing with mental health or anxiety is just at an all times high. They need better understanding.and that's the saddest part about someone thats dealing with mental health the people around are adding to it without even realizing it.
Has anyone explored the fact that maybe due to 2 births so close together, she maybe experiencing some kind of post partum, or a chemical imbalance that maybe all the stress she is feeling. She needs to see her doctor about that
I think this is due to the ptsd from Michael. Because he interrogated her at the end of their marriage, any similar situation she was put in made her more angry than usual.
Amy may be depressed, but she is a whole.lot of lazy, she doesnt like to chase her one boy wait till the other starts. Amy is a sitter. So her complaining about Michael was no different than her saying no one helped her on vacation, she wants a nanny and a maid. She wasnt really wanting a divorce everytime she had to be responsible, she cries and blames her boys.
Y’all still think that Michael was the problem? She said the same thing about her family that she said about Michael … nobody’s helping her! She insisted on having that second baby so soon and now she’s losing her mind.
@@tammyjo6056yeah to be honest I'm kinda starting to believe that Amy is the liar and is only acting out for attention like her saying Michael stole her credit card like we have no proof about that which is a possibility that she was lying about it and now that she has no one to take her frustrations out with she is now going after her own family. Amy needs serious help
Honest question, is he in a physical therapy or occupational therapy type of rehab, a rehab for food and dietary issues, a combination of both, or what? Why is he allowed to let his eating issues spiral out of control while under the supervision of professionals? It seems like his meals and his access to food should be monitored to help him reach whatever goal they have for him in order for him to get out of there. I don’t understand.
I had asked this question about "My 600Lb. Life", and someone had stated the rehab center does not monitor their patients. It was not their function. Weird!
@@miryamamar9471 That’s just crazy!!! He must not have regular insurance because no insurance company would allow their Insured client to just live in a facility that isn’t working to help him meet goals and to help him GET OUT so they don’t have to pay forever! My 91 year old grandpa fell recently, was in the hospital for a few days without moving much, and was then switched to a rehab facility to help him gain some strength and move around better again. The elderly lose so much when they’re not using their muscles and moving around for a few days or a week. They monitored his nutrition and his water and liquid intake and did physical therapy with him several times a day. We didn’t think he was really ready to come home so quickly, but insurance was ready and he met the minimum standards so he was discharged after a week. They didn’t just let him lounge around and do whatever he wanted for as long as he wanted, and he’s old as sh*t!!! I just don’t get it! Maybe he’s on Medicaid and they let you do whatever you want on their dime? I have so many questions!!!
Wtf.....Amy going off on Amanda who's constantly helping with the boys but couldn't tell Michael a damn word yr after year not helping her with his own sons blew my mind,BUT THEN to go off on brother too? He's the calmest out the bunch so it had to be bad if he was that angry needingtowalk away!!
I think this whole season Amy's emotions have been all over the board. Clearly she's overwhelmed and going through it with this divorce. It happens. For once Tammy is right you need structure with the boys, a schedule.
Amys out of control, and it just keeps going around! She played off of Tammy and everyone got in on it. Now that Tammy got help and left out of the toxicity... the picture always looks clearer.
As a mother to my almost 2 year old i understand Amy. Shes most likely suffering from post partum along with depression and the split from Michael and getting adjusted to a new life as a single mom raising very 2 small children back to back it's all becoming too much for her and she finally had a psychotic break down. Everything was built up and kept inside to the point she finally exploded but took her anger out on the wrong people. She was very wrong putting her hands on Amanda, but lets give her props that she tried to apologize once she realized what she did after she calmed down. She needs help bc if she snapped at one of her sisters then its only a matter of time before she snaps on her boys next. She just needs professional help, therapy or even antidepressants. She's overwhelmed and now its finally taking its toll on her. But I'm extremely proud and happy for how far Tammy has come! She's calmed down so much these last 2 years!!! Its refreshing.
Amy absolutely needs to see a doctor for the sake of those two boys. And Amanda had to be like their mother because their mother has mental issues. If you watch the show enough you know they always said they never had their mother. Amy needs parenting classes immediately. If you could scream and cry constantly in your children's ears you need help if you could smoke in front of your children you need help. And the production company should make sure that those kids get better treatment don't just use them for Ratings it's abuse.
Amy needs to take a break from everything. She's going through something mental and emotional. I recognize signs of post partum depression. Been through it...scary shit.
I've been through it too! I had moments where I couldn't hold my daughter when she was an infant and my hubby at the time didn't understand and would make me feel bad for not wanting to touch her but I couldn't help it or explain it I use to have to lock myself in the bathroom and is just sit in the bathtub crying my eyes out thinking about suicide I finally eventually snapped out of it but it was scary. I definitely wasn't suffering from psychosis though thank goodness. I never had the desire to hit my baby I just couldn't bond with her for a bit. It was hard. Nobody can understand it unless they've been in it. I hate how outsiders are always so quick to judge like their saints or know everything.
Sick of Amy at this point. I don't believe this is who she truly is, but she needs help because her family has been nothing but kind and helpful toward her.
And Amy, they have done nothing but try to help you but in my personal opinion, they need to find better ways of communicating the help They mean well, and just my personal opinion I don’t think they really know how to handle the situation that is happening and that’s why it’s causing problems
Everyone has their moments doesn't make her a bad mom she just needs to see a professional. She's got family that love those boys and will help her she just needs to help herself now.
People are giving Amy way TOO MUCH sympathy! People like Amy THRIVE on people's sympathy and play on it even MORE! I just cannot believe that some can't see how much of a liar she is! She is LAZY! She is acting! She doesn't like to work! I'm disgusted by her! Does she look like she is suffering in all those photos with her "boyfriend?" What about when she is posing in her skin tight mini dress and designer handbags while smoking cigarettes? Who was caring for her kids then? SHE IS A PHONEY!
It's terrible to lack "self awareness!" How can you even begin to "FIX" yourself when you are incapable of looking at yourself and seeing yourself the way others see you! It starts with humility. You must humble yourself first! Tammy did it while she was in re-hab. Now, it's Amy who needs an awakening!
Who would think having 2 little boys so close together would be a lot of work????? One is a lot to handle. I had twins (was told I could not get pregnant) plus I worked. Mostly, my mother helped me, my husband was useless. I did not eat a hot meal until they were around 5 and could kind of feed themselves (seriously). My stomach is still messed up from all the stress. Listen, when you are a parent, your needs and wants come LAST, you have to be the adult. Sometimes you do feel like running away from home, but you have to grow up. She should have stopped with ONE. I know I would have if I had only had one. Seems to me that she is getting a whole lot more help than I got. Like I said, it was mostly my mother who helped me. I did almost lose my mind, but I had a whole lot more patience then.
This is more than depression, 🤷🏼♀️ i’m not a doctor, but this behavior is bananas. I’m on the edge just watching from my bed 😂 She goes 90 to nothing, out of nowhere. She goes on vaca, and brings nothing with her? She travels by car, and not plane? She makes her life so much harder, it’s so strange. You are a momma, Amy. Get it together girl! You got this! Also, babies cry, I don’t understand her freaking out, when a baby cries.
I get it. She feels like she has no voice and no control. Her husband abused and controlled her. Her kids are kids being out of control. Then Amanda tried to control what she wanted to do. Then everyone jumped on her. I really get why she feels the way she does, because everyone and everything in her life is out of her control.
blah blah blah…amy has been doing what she wants and getting praises…the minute anybody says anything to her that’s not praises she cries…she needs to suck it up cuz she is the one that wanted babies back to back…michael has been the same person since before kids and even if he changed after then she knew what she was getting into by having another one
I allways thought Michael did a lot for her pushing Tammy it wasn’t his job Tammy makes her own money she should have got a carer,Michael never said a cross word to her. She won’t find that again. As for abuse. That’s Amy’s words.
I don't think Amanda was trying to control her. She just was worried of her emotional state and her taking her boys in the emotional state she was in. Amy has to realize that Amanda is protective over her and the boys because she has been there. But I do agree whatever she has been through is affecting her. She admitted she needs help which is a first step. I can see how that escalated, but imo I think she read Amanda wrong.
Honestly, if Amy wanted to leave she is allowed to. She’s a grown woman. Everyone blocking her from leaving caused more issues than anything. She definitely needed to calm down before driving with the babies but it’s sad to see her spiral down this way. I hope she heals and gets better. I know her family just wants the best for her and means the best.
Amy is legally blind and cannot drive herself and kids. If she wanted to leave soo badly, her only option would have been to pack up, book a flight & catch an Uber to the airport. But she doesn’t want to fly, so….
Amy is legally blind and can’t drive. How was she going to leave with two babies in the dark ten hours from home? Walk? Please…Amy barely walks from the bed to the sofa. Amy can’t handle the babies on her own. Amanda’s son was exhausted and she put her foot down he wouldn’t drive without a nights rest. Yes, Amy is an adult but she is dependent on everyone else to navigate since she is not capable of driving herself.
That's cause she can't look after her own children she needs her siblings to do it for her cause she is lazy plus walking away from your problems makes you look bad
This was the moment I was waiting for since the teaser of the fight first showed! But I'm not ready for the season finale when we see Caleb's funreal 😭😭😭😭😭 I almost cried when I saw the season finale teaser Ik we was getting super close to seeing his death
Exactly! Many women have young kids and go through divorce, AND they have a REAL FULL TIME job and honestly DO EVERYTHING themselves, with absolutely no help from their siblings because THEY work full time jobs too! Amy is just LAZY!
Amy definitely is going through something . I know Amanda definitely held back cause the way she handled that scuffle you can tell she didn’t wanna hurt her sister ! I still feel for Amy divorces are tough
I have a very strong feeling all of the spirals we have seen from Amy are PTSD episodes. In the episode where Tammy called the cops on Michael, Michael was telling Amanda, “I’m letting her go with y’all;” almost like he has to give permission. That is controlling. Who knows what else he was controlling about. Maybe any time the boys were extra fussy, Michael would blame and yell at Amy? We already knew that he doesn’t help with the babies. Amy and all of her family said that she does it all. I wholeheartedly believe that Michael abused Amy to some degree, and when her family tries to help, she flashes back to when Michael yelled at her. As a survivor myself, it took me a very long time to process and come to terms with the fact that not everyone was talking to me the way my abuser did. I just hope, truly, that she can get the help that she needs; for her and her boys Edit: in the episode mentioned above, Michael withholding Amy’s debit/credit cards was also mentioned.
Sometimes we need to be alone to work on ourselves, and face our issue's her family's needs to let her figure things out. This trip was to soon for her. She needs to heal
If you can piss Chris off you've had to have pushed him to his limit!
Right! He is the most level headed man I've seen
@@shawncasto2184
What did she even say that pissed him off I didn't even hear the whole thing
@@DosagePosage when Amy and Amanda had gotten into it Amy was trying to go back home he said he had enough and slammed the door
Chris loses his shit more times than anyone. All he does is scream at amy and tammy and over talk them and over opinionated on them, his opinion is right and its his way or the high way. He annoys me.
I cant believe amy got physical with her siblings when all they was doing was just trying to help her. She needs some serious help.
AI am telling you if you go back from day one when, the show started Amy has always has had a attitude problem, she has always thought her 💩💩💩💩🫘🫘🫘🫘🤦🏼♀️don’t stink and, has always twisting the truth, it’s just like now everyone is starting to notice that since, now, it’s that times 10! And, everyone that even ditched Tammy in the beginning when, she even had her bad attitude at times well, I still liked her overall!
All that over a sorry man who useless
I’m guess she may be experiencing PPD or PPP. Just a guess because I’m not a professional, but I’ve seen many women act just like this after having a couple babies. I think she rushed into having kids too shortly after her surgery. She wasn’t even down to a healthy weight before she did that. And the fact that she had them so close together is not going anything good for her mental health. Having a lazy controlling husband took a toll for sure. Now the divorce 🤦🏻♀️ it’s gotta be a lot of stress but she doesn’t realize that her family is a lot more help than most women have these days! Women have kids and jobs and do it all alone with no help, without losing their sh*t. So I’m definitely not making excuses for her but I can see where it’s coming from.
They both were lazy
@@hopeeason1774 true
Her saying that her siblings didn’t help got me pissed. They have helped so much and when they try to give her some criticism she takes it as a way of them attacking her when they’re not. They are simply trying to give her some advice.
You're absolutely right that the way she acted wasn't ok. They all were there trying to help her. But right now she's hit rock bottom and had an emotional break down she just got divorced or is in the process of a divorce and taking care of very 2 small children became too much for her. She definitely needed to go home and get proper help but I'll give her props for apologizing and I am so proud of Tammy for how much she's matured over the past 2 years. She's so much more calm now.
@@Bella-Mae0422I agree with you. I understand what she’s going through. My mom went through the same with me and my brother being 17 months apart without the help of my father, but the way Amy handled it was not mature, and yes, I am also proud of Tammy for maturing and trying to help Amy get through this, and I am glad Amy realized she was in the wrong and tried to apologize. Because some people wouldn’t.
Amy tends to think her 💩💩💩💩🫘🫘🫘🫘🫘don’t stink and, she has constantly put Tammy down from the beginning and, here after all Tammy and effort Tammy has put in she still keeps putting Tammy down. Even when, Tammy was at her worst, I still liked her overall, not her grouchy attitude! Amy is always had this attitude where she thinks she’s better than everybody and, anybody and, I have never liked her! She never followed any of Dr. Proctor’s orders after she had her Bariatric Surgery and, she never lost any weight after she had her surgery neither, she actually ended up gaining over a 100lbs back and she made all those excuses to eat, I said, they should have named the show 1,000 excuses to eat with that attitude she had. Also, when, she came up pregnant both times so, many people took to her defense that it was accident because, Amy was lying about it but, if you watch both times when, she got pregnant it was clear that she and Micheal planned it that way, and,even when, she defined Dr. Proctor’s orders and, her and, Micheal got on the show and went outside lugging and carrying on . Then, towards the end of their birth she finally grasped the seriousness of it and, yet she didn’t really grasp in reality the actual seriousness of putting her and her babies life in serious danger by completely ignoring what Dr. Proctor told her! I like Amanda and, I can’t blame her after all she has done for Amy, then, after Amanda doing what she shouldn’t be doing and Amy shoving her around after she had her revision surgery! You also can’t blame Amanda then, for being a mamma bear and protecting all those boys why Amy’s in the midst of a breakdown.
I'm going through this with my daughter and my grandbaby she jumped in my face started Fighting. I know her emotions was high but she was wrong
She certainly needs advise..she thinks she's the only one that has taken care of two babies close in age without a husband's support..wake up lazy..your not alone..many have done this..get your shit together..without all the drama she creates..she would be able to juggle two babies..she should consider herself blessed to have such supportive family around, pretty much all the time..amy is selfish, lazy and nasty..pull yourself together amy..you wanted two children, so learn how to juggle and make it work for you, without all the bullshit..
It used to be Tammy that made everyone miserable on the family vacations. But, Amy actually attacked Amanda. Amy's face was so hateful and full of rage. That's nuts.
I saw that too..she really looked possessed for a minute there y'all..I've never ever seen Amy go crazy like that towards anyone especially her big mama sister Amanda!! Are you nuts Amy?? Your lucky she didn't knock your fat butt out!! 😵😵😵
Lol for real though she snapped because she felt like they were criticizing her mothering she didn't even bring anything for the boy's. I'm sorry Amy might have wanted the kids to prove to the world she could have children but she is a half ass mother she been lost my respect when she smokes cigarettes in front of the boy's! Heck no take your lazy butt outside.
What's funny to me is it's clearly postpartum or some other serious issue. Even her siblings have said it many times that after she gave birth she was crying constantly. So why are people stigmatizing her illness? Yeah it's annoying and frustrating I'm sure for her siblings to deal with it but clearly she is not mentally well. Have a little compassion dude. Amy has always been sweet and cheerful and helpful to all of her siblings every other season and now that she's having a breakdown which many people do by the way at some point in their lives including you, you want to throw her away like garbage! That's crazy.
She is angry at her motherly duties.
She is tired and doesn't want to do anything except when she feels like it and that's not how parenting works. Parents do what they gotta do regardless of anything. I would blame postpartum depression but sadly Amy has shown signs of being lazy and not motivated in many aspects of her life... I like her but she needs to heal and grow in many many ways..
@@MerakiJourney I dont think thats it, I think its a bigger issue. I think when she sees the kids she thinks of Michael or she is still struggling with the fact she herself blames herself for breaking her family and cant face her kids or her self, or she is overworking her self to where she cant think stright, raising two kids by yourself is tiring. I think she is just frustrated cause everyone is trying to tell her how to parent, and thats a line that no one should cross cause even Constructive criticism can come off telling someone how to parent and thats a no no.
Pay attention! Amy said the same thing about her husband. He worked full time and she is a stay at home mother and couldn't handle one baby boy. Then she decided to have another baby back to back against doctors orders, and she's not able to raise those kids. There is no discipline. NO structure. No Schedule. It's just chaos. When she has them with her siblings, they literally run wild, and the aunts and uncles have to monitor them. Amy bawls and blames everyone else.
You hit the nail on the head! Amy lets her sons run wild while she plays on social media. She is NOT raising them! Oh yeah! She is a good mom, my foot!
Amy is lazy is her problem! When she was with Michael he did everything!
Amy's husband is jobless!!! Get your facts straight 😂😂😂
@@NC-ij9rb they meant when he was working. Bc he was before idk if he quit his job or got fired but he wasn't working this season.
He hasn't worked in years though
I feel like since Tammy got her surgery done. Her and Amy's personality have switched.
Tammy has MAJORLY improved in EVERY WAY! Amy has been a complete MELTDOWN! I LOVE how Tammy, while walking away from Amy, literally said " f**k
you, Amy, I'm done helping you!" GO, TAMMY,GO!
@user-ys4wm1mx3l I also think Amy has PPD I don't know how to spell it but it's somthing you can get after you have kids.
I think it's having two babies and practically no help from her husband. It's tough doing it on your own.
Are we watching the same show tho... you all are pretty judgie and seem to be making some assumptions. I have a 10MO that just started to sleep semi decently and I'm chasing her every where. I'm overjoyed most days but I could see how with two active boys and NO help from your husband you might be on the brink of some shit. And try and come at me with "Let's go through the book" lol said obviously by someone who has never had kids. Don't listen to the experts ever BTW - that's a sure fire trip to the looney bin. I hope Amy finds her groove but it's fin hard after kids, and no one can really manage a baby like they want except for the mama. So at times your family's help just feels like more work.
@@BrianBruner-x8tare we serious rn ? We gonna ignore all the times Amy helped Tammy ?? When Tammy was being a bitch to everyone because she was mad cuz everyone was moving forward but her cuz she kept eating no one said nothing.
Amy not bringing anything for the babies to use! That was ridiculous!
She is a LAZY mother!
@@lorellehugostino975Yep. Gives up too much.
That's because she was taking for granted ev1 else would step up and go it for her!!!
@@emilyh.8704 Hi! Amen to that! Her family needs to back off helping her! 🤗💯
@@lorellehugostino975 Hi! Yes she is ! I was single parents! 🤗
Amy, who has been extremely mature and sweet all the past seasons is now clearly having a mental breakdown. As viewers we need to be more empathetic and stop trying to act like we haven't gone through sht ourselves. I hope she gets the help she needs.
Amy is sooo mature that she literally had baby Gage living in filth in that duplex.
I agree, but people lack empathy and clearly can’t see she is having a mental breakdown. She needs help. And as a mother, sometimes u literally don’t have time to get help
That’s cap from day 1 we all knew any was lazy, irresponsible, and uneducated. She decided to have babies yet she can’t take care of them and she gets mad. She wants a divorce but then gets mad that Michael filed it first making it official.
Amy you were in the wrong in what you did to Amanda putting your hands on her
Amy needs medication and therapy, She's depressed cuz of the break up superimposed with postpartum crap. Those boys are spiraling because of the chaos and lack of routine around them. As much as Amy needed to get away, she should have done it when the soon to be ex was watching the boys. Amy if you read this, I was in your shoes. Get a good quality backpack and put your baby in it. He will be comfy close to you and then you can focus on the older lil one (keep getting Gage and Glenn mixed up). But please, please see someone. Your hormones are whacked right now and some temporary meds will do a world of good probably! We love you!
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Well done Tammy for keeping a cool head in this. She was surprisingly the most level headed one there during the fight.
I honestly feel like Tammy would be a great mother.
Stop right there @@amayawright4083
@@amayawright4083 No she needs way more healing time to focus on herself and focusing on her health too. Don’t bring kids into bad mental health and bad physical health situations it’s not fair on anyone
Amy should just let Michael have joint custody so that she can have the “break” she’s needing. It’s called co parenting
According to Amy Michael never wants to watch them both at the same time. He would only ever watch one and Amy would be forced to watch the other. That's another reason why she left him bc he would never help her or give her a break.
@@Bella-Mae0422 if Michael really never helped her with the kids or chores, then she shouldn't be so overwhelmed doing it by herself now. especially since her siblings are helping her now. if anything, shes getting more breaks now than she did when she was with Michael. the fact that she has no schedule for the kids, didn't bring any of their stuff for the vacation and keeps having breakdowns shows that Michael did help with the kids
@@ChillyMilly908i haven't been keeping up with the show for the last 2 years now bc I've been too busy being a new mom but you're possibly right. I was just trying to be kind lol
Exactly. She complains about not getting help while denying the father the right to help. Let him have the boys even if it’s with his mother helping.
We have seen that guy parent before you guys... those kids would not last a day on their own with him lets be real here... that would be the stupidest idea ever no matter how overwhelmed she is, those kids are safer with her. And the kids are all under 2 we fail to realize shes still LEARNING HOW TO BE A MOM... 2 is not that long and both of her children were born back to back. they're here now and she can't take that back so she's still adjusting. That's common. You really wouldn't understand until you have to raise toddlers all on your own. And its not like her siblings are with her 24/7 in real life this is just ONE FAMILY TRIP and these scenes are edited into what they want us to see and think we'll find entertaining. the reality is if you've ever been invited on a family trip with your children under 3 years old then you know how it goes especially when you're the only available care taker. Everyone in the family invites you and tells you to hurry up and pack and come to the trip, they'll help you when you need it, come have fun and relax blah blah blah... we are family do we want to support you same old speech and then when you get there the kids are instantly over stimulated and way too excited in the new environment and acting beyond crazy/brand new, kids act the worse when new people are around sometimes. And the family that said they would help all dont want to be bothered all of a sudden and if you ask for help it feels like you're ruining everyone's fun and then you realize you were better off just sitting this one out and staying home instead of going to the family trips until the kids are old enough to act right around others and new environments lol ... I couldnt help but feel bad for her to be real. My kid is 3 and if it were me and I realized the kids were going loco and I somehow forgot the stuff that would help keep them occupied because, hello, MOM BRAIN so that type of stuff happens all the time with mom brain so you forget the simplest things... the last thing you want to hear when the kids are wilding out is "how could you forget their toys?!" That sucks to hear when you're already pissed you forgot anything! I would have just snuck out and went home really because why even put myself and the kids through that torture to please the family and their wants? if its better we stay home, gosh darn it we're staying home. Might be better for all parties involved and family that truly understands that are the family you realize you can take the risks with and hang out with socially with your crazy kids lol @@emma2370
Amy wanted kids SOOOO badly- it was her whole reason for being- and now she’s just a freaking mess who acts like she regrets having them. Kids need to be on a schedule - it makes your life easier too. Get your shit together and stop smoking in the same house with them too. Yuck.
This just proofs that kids are a burden.
In reality she should've never had them. She would've been just fine not being a mom
@@azazello1784 kids are not a burden it was HER CHOICE to have them she kept sayin i want kids i want kids girl you have them now
@@azazello1784no she's just a lazy filthy crybaby bum. I'm a father and have never broken down because of them.
The babies weren’t wearing life jackets on the boat!
What??? Omg they could have hit a big wave and whoever was holding them could have dropped them overboard!! 😲😲
You noticed that too! That's a responsible mom for you, NOT!
@@BrianBruner-x8t Amy cares only about Amy.
And no one said anything
@@paulafrederique178 Amy is Mother of The Year! You do not question her!
Amy should not have gone on this vacation. She is suffering from mental illness. Too bad her ex husband cannot play a bigger part in parenting. She really needs help
Her choice!
He wanted 50/50 custody and she said no.
@@emma2370She said no for a good reason. They would be neglected.
@@natalieh8023 And they aren't now? Amy has always been a mess. I was amazed when she said she allowed her baby to choose his own food and the colour to paint his bedroom while still a babe in arms. Still, he probably always had more sense than she does.
@@Lynda-vq5yl He couldn't even handle watching them and would not let her leave without taking them with her. She is the main caretaker whether you agree with the way she parents or not.
After hearing Amy *LIE* and say that her siblings HAVEN'T helped her this whole time, when they have done nothing BUT help her, that told me everything I needed to know about Amy right there! She is a LIAR! Haven't you all wondered WHY Amy would be SO stressed out and overwhelmed only AFTER leaving Michael? IF Michael did absolutely NOTHING as Amy has said, AND she had to do everything in the house including taking care of Michael, WHY is it SO much more stressful and overwhelming NOW for her than when she was with Michael? Shouldn't it be less overwhelming now that she doesn't have to do everything herself, especially now that her siblings are helping her? I believe Amy is LYING about Michael TOO! Did you hear her also say that she "Goes DAYS WITHOUT EATING anything because the boys keep her so busy!" I KNEW then that Amy IS one big, fat, LIAR... literally! Her own sisters were calling her a LIAR too! The curtain has slipped and now everyone is seeing the REAL Amy Slaton!
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU! I've been saying this, she even made the comment that things are so much harder now that shes a single mother, shouldnt it be business as usual if her husband never did anything?
She is a lazy parent
⭐️ ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Your are exactly right! I’m starting to wonder about Amy’s mental level to begin with. Maybe she has a problem and that why Michael controlled the finances, it never made sense that she didn’t have any control of her own bank card but has her own show.
I mean not really. When she felt overwhelmed she was able to hand one off to Michael, even if it was by default/force out of the situation. Not everything is black and white, he probably only ever choose to act when things got to the extremes they get to emotionally
I mean that may be true that he helped more than she said and that she herself cant handle the kids but we did see that he would never try to help with them when they were both crying at the same time. She wants Micheal that’s why she really upset she literally was willing to call him to get her over a fight she escalated and no one in her family can fill the love she looking for even when they helping her. Like i think Amy can’t handle too much mentally she never could that’s why she had roaches before the kids were ever here with no job!!! But I was wondering why Micheal was controlling the money…. I personally noticed with my own bf when he stopped working for a month he was all over my money and what i was buying 🤔 like is this a pride thing or is Amy not good with money and being an Adult
I'm genuinely concerned for her boys. She has severe depression and anger and everytime I see her with her boys she doesn't know how to handle them especially when they are crying or cranky which is what kids do. What's going to happen in the future if she gets really frustrated with her boys? I'm worried she'll take her anger out on them. These poor boys were right there seeing their mom throw hands and scream.
Idk if you know but Amy was charged with animal abuse for leaving her dog in a hot car as she went to Dave and busters. I personally just don’t think she knows how to properly care for anyone. And her ex can use this footage in court to say Amy isn’t a fit mother
@@harrismatthew5553wow!! That just pisses me off more 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
@@harrismatthew5553hell, it could be her kids next that are left in a hot car 🤦🏼♀️😳
Mentally Amy isn’t all the way there and never has been and Micheal isn’t either. I know two women in my life like her who had kids and both had their kids token away because of some form of neglect in a way.
Im still shocked that Amy puts her hands on Amanda
Especially cause Amanda isn’t the type of person you wanna mess with. Like that woman scares me through a screen.
fr , and u could tell Amanda was holding back but I truly feel like she would of destroyed her if she actually tried.
@@amayawright4083yep definitely
@@avatiede1512she can dead beat my ass
I have mad respect for Amanda, because she could solo everyone there but every time a fight happens she remains quite composed compared to the others, she is being attacked by amy and she barely pushed her back just to stand up straight again like she was just trying to contain amy’s rage…beautifully I might add. Plus she doesn’t allow any excuses like no nonsense at all gets past her, she protects her family even from themselves. I wish we had more screen time of her she is better to watch than others 😂
Amy it's called being a parent!
Why? She has the kids on her schedule not theirs, no afternoon nap,no meal time manners, a lot missing, no wonder the kids are a mess, sorry my opinion, Amy has to get it together…Diana
@@dianaharding5819 True. She lets them run wild and do whatever they want. There is zero training.
@@miryamamar9471I see that too, she just lets the kids run wild and never disciplines them. Like does she think crying is gonna make it better?🤦♀️ I get she’s depressed but like come on now.
@@amayawright4083 Amy is throwing these tantrums with violence in the front of her boys. Kids remember these emotions.
@@miryamamar9471 I just wonder how she would handle this without her family around? It’s like she throws these tantrums and she expects them to help calm the boys down🙇🏼♀️
Amy is crying out for help. She has very deep postpartum depression, and she is still struggling with her addiction to food. She should never be left alone with these kids. Thoughts of Andrea Yates come to mind.
Amy should've left the boys with Michael's mom. She always preaches how they love their grandmother and how they're always with her. She should've taken this opportunity to take a break and get her mind straight. Irresponsible on her part, especially with the fact she didn't even bring stimulants for the boys.
So true she just wanted to be able to moan and be in control
She’s starting show signs of psychosis.. she’s been trying to hold it in and well- after being under so much stress for so long without any help for her mental health (antidepressants or something); you start acting like a crazy person. 🙃 Amy go see a doctor, you can’t be like that, if you put your hands on your sister- before you know it you’re going to snap on the boys.
I think she's just sleep deprived and having a mental meltdown. It happens to everyone doesn't mean you need meds. She can get back on track without medication people are obsessed with medication.
@@Popularloner86 okay? & I’m pretty sure I commented this but I said antidepressants or something 💀 nothing wrong with taking medication when you’re clearly ill & it’s affecting everything aspect in your life
@@Popularloner86my daughter was up, every 2-4 hours, for 5 years….I never once acted like Amy…She has lost her marbles
Amy is lazy is her problem! There's single mothers with twice as many children who don't act like Amy!
BRAVO!
I,m one of many I had two boys 12 months apart, never had any help, and a third child five years later, husband was in the navy, My family were thousands of miles away..and I never had all this “whatever “ I don,t get it. Diana 😟
I'm not single but I'm alone most of the time. My Man is in the Navy. Is so hard to deal with all stuff by myself. Sometimes I have enough too. I have feeling that Amy is in emotional hell and she needs professional help.
@@dianaharding5819how much I understand you 😚🤗☺️
@@irenanes7634 Professional help is great and recommended, IF Amy is willing to change.
The conflict between Amy and Amanda, along with Amy's struggles following her split from Michael, truly reflects the pressures many face.
In the words of Dr. Nowzaradan, it is called life.
Except she’s a stay at home mom who doesn’t work a full job. She kinda has it easier than moms who work full time jobs and careers who have to balance work life with new kids
@@harrismatthew5553a stay at home mom IS a job you are raising the kids all day long dont say its not a job bc yes the fuck it is
She didn’t bring anything for them, where are the baby’s toys? Put them on a blanket and put their toys around them. The babies sense her emotions.
Michael was doing more then what Amy was saying !
I agree we only get one side of the story he was always sweet to her i believe some counseling would have been the first thing I would have tried then she was pissed because he filed well she told him I want a divorce then she says hes not even going to fight for me well Amy has brought her problems to the family now you have the family against Michael im not saying hes perfect none of us are but I do not believe he was what she was making him out to be
Cant really blame the kids when you bring nothing for them and they have no schedule. Vacations are hard with those things, nevermind without! But damn, people wish they had the kinda help amy has! Her family have been insane help and didnt deserve this.
Amy is suffering from Post Partum Depression. Depression can cause anxiety as well. She needs help.
So now you are a psychiatrist? What about the thousands of mothers who do not have a supportive family to help them, plus hold down a job?
I agree. I went through the same thing after my middle child.
@@miryamamar9471you sound ignorant. Do you even know what post partum depression is ? You don’t have to be a psychiatrist to notice the signs, WOMEN go through these things whether or not they have a stable life or an unstable life, it comes with birthing a child. Your body goes through changes and all of your hormones and emotions hit at once. Depression definitely causes anxiety coming from someone who is suffering from depression…think before you type or maybe dont type at all ☺️
@@envyrynnI agree! I had my child almost 2 years ago and for a bit my man wasn't really helping much bc of his addiction and he didn't know what to do either but I remember when post partum kicked in and the lack of sleep and I couldn't touch my baby whenever i was extremely down i would lock myself in the bathroom in the dark sit in the bathtub and cry and think about suicide. Thank god my man's mother is a nanny for a living and was always very supportive and patient with me.
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And cleaned, cooked & did laundry when they got home plus helping w/ home work, etc.
Amy’s so ungrateful saying no1s helping her . Her sister literally missed a nice meal to take AMYS son back
Agree! Her family needs to REALLY back off and let Amy see just how little she’s been doing for herself.
Amy wasn’t depressed hence she was with that fella so soon after Michael left. She could of used that time to clean her house not bringing a strange man in the house
Wtf you mean? Amy wasnt with anybody she may be now but back then she wasnt
Honestly I understand Amy and her struggles but that was… inexcusable. I hope she’s in a better place now but…. That was hard to watch.
Amy showed her true colours. Hitting her sister. There’s no excuse for violence.
Thank you! There are a lot of people justifying it. There is no excuse.
She’s lucky Amanda didn’t knock her on her ass.
I can’t believe the finale is next week . Seems like it just started
Amy has very little in parental skills, not suprising when you see what her own mother is like. She needs to be made to attend parenting classes as a minimum.
How dare she have hit Amanda!!! Shame on her. Lucky Amanda didnt press charges - she made her bleed too!! Im so pissed
Looks like Michael was doing more than playing video games.
Sad to see such a lovely family fighting each other like that
I have a 3 year-old and the sleep deprivation when you’ve had to do it alone all this time will make you crazy. I totally get Amy. Poor girl.
And everyone is mom shaming her. After going thru a divorce and becoming a single parent, she’s going thru a lot mentally and emotionally how can nobody see that.
@@Coconut____________214 How about realizing that Amy dug her own grave. She has a supportive family, that many people do not have.
I get it too
@@miryamamar9471 but her family is blind to what’s really going on and ignoring signs of her depression.
Doesn't matter how sleep deprived you are for whatever reason... Putting your hands on someone is unacceptable. It's like using the "I was drunk" excuse. This BS goes beyond being tired or being depressed. Her behaviour is inexcusable
There are a lot of unsympathetic people on here. Clearly, Amy doesn't have the mental capacity to raise two small children right now. I don't in any way condone her getting physical with Amanda, but that coupled with the instant remorse from Amy afterwards tells me that she's really going through it. It's sad to watch because her family is really trying to help her. I hope she gets some professional help. I'm still rooting for her, if for no other reason, for those two little boys who need their mom.
You don't bring children in the world and expect everyone else to care for them. Amy went the doctor advice and had two babies, when she wasn't taking good care of one baby by herself. She's getting bigger everyday, so that why she lack the energy.
I cannot believe that Amy had the nerve to say that her siblings don't help her,and cannot believe that she attacked Amanda; she is lucky that Amanda didn't smack her til next episode. She really needs helps and to say that she would called her ex- husband to come and pick her up when he is the reason why is acting like this to begin with,come Amy if can fix yourself at least do it for your kids.
Right?! I noticed that too, especially since we know that she filed a police report on Michael months before!
its called postpartum depression on top of a divorce, on top of a deadbeat babyfather, on top of two small kids close in age who seem to cry alot,Shes gonna completely snap if she dosent get help
@@Mirah3738have you not watched the show? All her siblings have helped her. Right before this, Amanda even left her own dinner to bring back one of the kids to the house to calm down. Even Tammy, with her health problems constantly is holding those boys, feeding them, and playing with them.
Amy is lazy!
@@Mirah3738 it’s not postpartum it’s post traumatic stress disorder.
Like the biggest thing about mental health is the people or family of the one suffering with mental health also needs therapy,so they can know how to navigate or deal with someone with mental health.
Adding and this tough love bs don't work,their need better education.
How can you tell someone that has an anxiety attack to calm down or get your ish together.
Continuing saying to that someone you going crazy and you need help, you adding to that person mental health negatively,like the stupidity of the people in and around someone that's dealing with mental health or anxiety is just at an all times high.
They need better understanding.and that's the saddest part about someone thats dealing with mental health the people around are adding to it without even realizing it.
Has anyone explored the fact that maybe due to 2 births so close together, she maybe experiencing some kind of post partum, or a chemical imbalance that maybe all the stress she is feeling. She needs to see her doctor about that
How hard is it really to stop eating. Literally when you life hangs in the balance.
It feels like amy and tammy pulled a freaky friday and switched personalities
I think this is due to the ptsd from Michael.
Because he interrogated her at the end of their marriage, any similar situation she was put in made her more angry than usual.
Amy may be depressed, but she is a whole.lot of lazy, she doesnt like to chase her one boy wait till the other starts. Amy is a sitter. So her complaining about Michael was no different than her saying no one helped her on vacation, she wants a nanny and a maid. She wasnt really wanting a divorce everytime she had to be responsible, she cries and blames her boys.
Y’all still think that Michael was the problem? She said the same thing about her family that she said about Michael … nobody’s helping her! She insisted on having that second baby so soon and now she’s losing her mind.
I remember how helpful he was with Tammy…pushing her wheelchair everywhere…bending over backwards for Amy’s every whim. I think he was just DONE.
100%!!!!
@@tammyjo6056yeah to be honest I'm kinda starting to believe that Amy is the liar and is only acting out for attention like her saying Michael stole her credit card like we have no proof about that which is a possibility that she was lying about it and now that she has no one to take her frustrations out with she is now going after her own family. Amy needs serious help
I feel like when Chris lost it you knew Amy had gone too far!
Honest question, is he in a physical therapy or occupational therapy type of rehab, a rehab for food and dietary issues, a combination of both, or what? Why is he allowed to let his eating issues spiral out of control while under the supervision of professionals? It seems like his meals and his access to food should be monitored to help him reach whatever goal they have for him in order for him to get out of there. I don’t understand.
I had asked this question about "My 600Lb. Life", and someone had stated the rehab center does not monitor their patients. It was not their function. Weird!
@@miryamamar9471 That’s just crazy!!! He must not have regular insurance because no insurance company would allow their Insured client to just live in a facility that isn’t working to help him meet goals and to help him GET OUT so they don’t have to pay forever! My 91 year old grandpa fell recently, was in the hospital for a few days without moving much, and was then switched to a rehab facility to help him gain some strength and move around better again. The elderly lose so much when they’re not using their muscles and moving around for a few days or a week. They monitored his nutrition and his water and liquid intake and did physical therapy with him several times a day. We didn’t think he was really ready to come home so quickly, but insurance was ready and he met the minimum standards so he was discharged after a week. They didn’t just let him lounge around and do whatever he wanted for as long as he wanted, and he’s old as sh*t!!! I just don’t get it! Maybe he’s on Medicaid and they let you do whatever you want on their dime? I have so many questions!!!
Well,he’s dead!
@DippyHippie thats what I heard yet here he is on the show clips?
@@joywebster2678 What? When did he supposedly pass away?
Wtf.....Amy going off on Amanda who's constantly helping with the boys but couldn't tell Michael a damn word yr after year not helping her with his own sons blew my mind,BUT THEN to go off on brother too?
He's the calmest out the bunch so it had to be bad if he was that angry needingtowalk away!!
I think Michael was more of a help than she wants to admit. So now she is really all alone taking care of those kids.
Amy is lazy it’s that simple
I think this whole season Amy's emotions have been all over the board. Clearly she's overwhelmed and going through it with this divorce. It happens. For once Tammy is right you need structure with the boys, a schedule.
Notice the 1st thing Amy threatened to do was call Michael! She’s a spoiled brat!
Yes she is.
Amys out of control, and it just keeps going around! She played off of Tammy and everyone got in on it.
Now that Tammy got help and left out of the toxicity... the picture always looks clearer.
Amy is out of control
They need to let Amy take care of her own children. Two children isn't hard to take care of! She mad because Michael was done with her too!
i think amy was overwhelmed with the kids and took it out on everyone.
this season has been the most chaotic. nothing but fights emotions and well yeah the final episode is gonna be lovely. (sarcastically)
Maybe take him to the bedroom where there isn’t any lights nor people talking. Amy ought not to have those kids.
Amy is going through some severe depression and she needs help
I seriously just witnessed two salad bowls fighting 😂😂 5:58
As a mother to my almost 2 year old i understand Amy. Shes most likely suffering from post partum along with depression and the split from Michael and getting adjusted to a new life as a single mom raising very 2 small children back to back it's all becoming too much for her and she finally had a psychotic break down. Everything was built up and kept inside to the point she finally exploded but took her anger out on the wrong people. She was very wrong putting her hands on Amanda, but lets give her props that she tried to apologize once she realized what she did after she calmed down.
She needs help bc if she snapped at one of her sisters then its only a matter of time before she snaps on her boys next. She just needs professional help, therapy or even antidepressants. She's overwhelmed and now its finally taking its toll on her.
But I'm extremely proud and happy for how far Tammy has come! She's calmed down so much these last 2 years!!! Its refreshing.
Amy obviously lied by saying Micheal didn’t help. She would already been used to dealing with 2 babies by herself IF Mike truly wasn’t helping.
Amy absolutely needs to see a doctor for the sake of those two boys. And Amanda had to be like their mother because their mother has mental issues. If you watch the show enough you know they always said they never had their mother. Amy needs parenting classes immediately. If you could scream and cry constantly in your children's ears you need help if you could smoke in front of your children you need help. And the production company should make sure that those kids get better treatment don't just use them for Ratings it's abuse.
Amy is out of control. She needs serious help
Amy needs to take a break from everything. She's going through something mental and emotional. I recognize signs of post partum depression. Been through it...scary shit.
I've been through it too! I had moments where I couldn't hold my daughter when she was an infant and my hubby at the time didn't understand and would make me feel bad for not wanting to touch her but I couldn't help it or explain it I use to have to lock myself in the bathroom and is just sit in the bathtub crying my eyes out thinking about suicide I finally eventually snapped out of it but it was scary. I definitely wasn't suffering from psychosis though thank goodness. I never had the desire to hit my baby I just couldn't bond with her for a bit. It was hard. Nobody can understand it unless they've been in it. I hate how outsiders are always so quick to judge like their saints or know everything.
Sick of Amy at this point. I don't believe this is who she truly is, but she needs help because her family has been nothing but kind and helpful toward her.
And Amy, they have done nothing but try to help you but in my personal opinion, they need to find better ways of communicating the help They mean well, and just my personal opinion I don’t think they really know how to handle the situation that is happening and that’s why it’s causing problems
Somebody tell me please why she wanted two babies with such small age difference?
I would never fight Amanda even if she was my sister I'd be scared
She should get yhose kids taken away from her . Shes not able t take care of them.inbetbshes abising the kids.
Everyone has their moments doesn't make her a bad mom she just needs to see a professional. She's got family that love those boys and will help her she just needs to help herself now.
People are giving Amy way TOO MUCH sympathy! People like Amy THRIVE on people's sympathy and play on it even MORE! I just cannot believe that some can't see how much of a liar she is! She is LAZY! She is acting! She doesn't like to work! I'm disgusted by her! Does she look like she is suffering in all those photos with her "boyfriend?" What about when she is posing in her skin tight mini dress and designer handbags while smoking cigarettes? Who was caring for her kids then? SHE IS A PHONEY!
@@Bella-Mae0422 I am under the impression that AMY liked the idea of being a mother. She did not realize that it involved HARD work.
Now THIS is the thrash TV I live for!
Amy wants other people to chase her kids-no,no,no.
It's terrible to lack "self awareness!" How can you even begin to "FIX" yourself when you are incapable of looking at yourself and seeing yourself the way others see you! It starts with humility. You must humble yourself first! Tammy did it while she was in re-hab. Now, it's Amy who needs an awakening!
Who would think having 2 little boys so close together would be a lot of work????? One is a lot to handle. I had twins (was told I could not get pregnant) plus I worked. Mostly, my mother helped me, my husband was useless. I did not eat a hot meal until they were around 5 and could kind of feed themselves (seriously). My stomach is still messed up from all the stress. Listen, when you are a parent, your needs and wants come LAST, you have to be the adult. Sometimes you do feel like running away from home, but you have to grow up. She should have stopped with ONE. I know I would have if I had only had one. Seems to me that she is getting a whole lot more help than I got. Like I said, it was mostly my mother who helped me. I did almost lose my mind, but I had a whole lot more patience then.
I love when Chris storms out after Amy said what she said
This is more than depression, 🤷🏼♀️ i’m not a doctor, but this behavior is bananas. I’m on the edge just watching from my bed 😂 She goes 90 to nothing, out of nowhere. She goes on vaca, and brings nothing with her? She travels by car, and not plane? She makes her life so much harder, it’s so strange. You are a momma, Amy. Get it together girl! You got this! Also, babies cry, I don’t understand her freaking out, when a baby cries.
I get it. She feels like she has no voice and no control. Her husband abused and controlled her. Her kids are kids being out of control. Then Amanda tried to control what she wanted to do. Then everyone jumped on her. I really get why she feels the way she does, because everyone and everything in her life is out of her control.
blah blah blah…amy has been doing what she wants and getting praises…the minute anybody says anything to her that’s not praises she cries…she needs to suck it up cuz she is the one that wanted babies back to back…michael has been the same person since before kids and even if he changed after then she knew what she was getting into by having another one
I allways thought Michael did a lot for her pushing Tammy it wasn’t his job Tammy makes her own money she should have got a carer,Michael never said a cross word to her. She won’t find that again. As for abuse. That’s Amy’s words.
I agree with you.
I don't think Amanda was trying to control her. She just was worried of her emotional state and her taking her boys in the emotional state she was in. Amy has to realize that Amanda is protective over her and the boys because she has been there. But I do agree whatever she has been through is affecting her. She admitted she needs help which is a first step. I can see how that escalated, but imo I think she read Amanda wrong.
Scary! Absolutely scary!
Amy is annoyiny af
Ananda escalated it smh.
Honestly, if Amy wanted to leave she is allowed to. She’s a grown woman. Everyone blocking her from leaving caused more issues than anything. She definitely needed to calm down before driving with the babies but it’s sad to see her spiral down this way. I hope she heals and gets better. I know her family just wants the best for her and means the best.
Amy is legally blind and cannot drive herself and kids. If she wanted to leave soo badly, her only option would have been to pack up, book a flight & catch an Uber to the airport. But she doesn’t want to fly, so….
Amy is legally blind and can’t drive. How was she going to leave with two babies in the dark ten hours from home? Walk? Please…Amy barely walks from the bed to the sofa. Amy can’t handle the babies on her own. Amanda’s son was exhausted and she put her foot down he wouldn’t drive without a nights rest. Yes, Amy is an adult but she is dependent on everyone else to navigate since she is not capable of driving herself.
That's cause she can't look after her own children she needs her siblings to do it for her cause she is lazy plus walking away from your problems makes you look bad
Mom's are selfless and strong. Amy is not, boys are going to suffer.
Michael take care one of son and Amy take care of one another son that what they did it before.
she needs to leave her alone stop telling her what to do. get away from them.
This is a really old one because in reality Caleb's dead
Of course! We understand that it isn't "live." The new season's are always taped 6-12 months earlier.
This is the current season.
my heart breaks for her. she definitely has postpartum depression.
You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. She has to help herself.
Shame on you Amy
Amy needs to get over herself. Apparently Michael did a lot more then Amy led on. Her siblings have done nothing but help her.
That’s so wonderful that the whole family has made lifestyle changes and have lost a ton of weight. 👏 kudos to you all!!
This was the moment I was waiting for since the teaser of the fight first showed! But I'm not ready for the season finale when we see Caleb's funreal 😭😭😭😭😭 I almost cried when I saw the season finale teaser Ik we was getting super close to seeing his death
Oh I’m so sorry for me, poor me.Poor poor Amy. Everyone I’m the only woman in the world with two kids. Wake up and grow up Amy.
Exactly! Many women have young kids and go through divorce, AND they have a REAL FULL TIME job and honestly DO EVERYTHING themselves, with absolutely no help from their siblings because THEY work full time jobs too! Amy is just LAZY!
“Ohhhhh that’s it”! I love Chris 😂.
How dare Amy put her hands on her sister Amanda and shouting at Tammy
Looks like Amy’s had enough of it!
Amy definitely is going through something . I know Amanda definitely held back cause the way she handled that scuffle you can tell she didn’t wanna hurt her sister ! I still feel for Amy divorces are tough
I have a very strong feeling all of the spirals we have seen from Amy are PTSD episodes. In the episode where Tammy called the cops on Michael, Michael was telling Amanda, “I’m letting her go with y’all;” almost like he has to give permission. That is controlling. Who knows what else he was controlling about. Maybe any time the boys were extra fussy, Michael would blame and yell at Amy? We already knew that he doesn’t help with the babies. Amy and all of her family said that she does it all.
I wholeheartedly believe that Michael abused Amy to some degree, and when her family tries to help, she flashes back to when Michael yelled at her. As a survivor myself, it took me a very long time to process and come to terms with the fact that not everyone was talking to me the way my abuser did. I just hope, truly, that she can get the help that she needs; for her and her boys
Edit: in the episode mentioned above, Michael withholding Amy’s debit/credit cards was also mentioned.
Sometimes we need to be alone to work on ourselves, and face our issue's her family's needs to let her figure things out. This trip was to soon for her. She needs to heal