CLEAN MY ROOM WITH ME **depression pit**

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  • @Emeriiixzy
    @Emeriiixzy 3 роки тому +294

    My room is very very messy too, and it makes me so embarrassed, but knowing that others are cleaning their room like me, it makes me motivated

    • @JuliaFase
      @JuliaFase  3 роки тому +15

      aww yay im so glad

    • @nehla_noor
      @nehla_noor 3 роки тому +3

      Yes. Also,eyy wilbur pfp!!

    • @sofiarodriguez6768
      @sofiarodriguez6768 3 роки тому +6

      SAME, currently doing a depression deep clean and all day i have been doing 10 minutes of cleaning 5 minutes looking for a video or relaxing and this is the first video in hours that someones room looks anything like mine. All these girls post cleaning videos and while i appreciate it and know im not their target demo its so frustrating seeing like a few things out of place instead of a full mess.

  • @annapoggendorf5303
    @annapoggendorf5303 3 роки тому +386

    Im so proud of you! depression is the worst, but you did amazing!

    • @JuliaFase
      @JuliaFase  3 роки тому +20

      thank you!!!

    • @elleanagalay6025
      @elleanagalay6025 3 роки тому +1

      I love it

    • @rebeccapaternoster5404
      @rebeccapaternoster5404 3 роки тому +1

      IM SO PROUD OF YOU

    • @Nippa444
      @Nippa444 3 роки тому +1

      I have the same problem it’s actually really real for me I literally just don’t know where to start and I break down but it makes me so stressed when I look at it all

  • @Zilear
    @Zilear 3 роки тому +90

    Listen girlfriend, I've been in the SAME situation when I lived in poverty and had extreme depression. Luckily I escaped poverty and now I'm super nutty about my room being clean. I always keep it clean at all times! Major congrats!

    • @JustJesus321
      @JustJesus321 Рік тому +3

      Congrats to you! 👏🏼🎉💜

  • @lynaenicole1383
    @lynaenicole1383 3 роки тому +169

    Girl I live with my boyfriend and we both have raging depression and I also have a really bad shopping problem apparently 😂 but what helps me is: make your bed first. Pick up all garbage, put all clothes on bed, put everything else where it belongs, sort clothes

    • @JuliaFase
      @JuliaFase  3 роки тому +21

      girl meeeee i don’t have any room for more clothes and shoes yet i keep buying themmm!

    • @nanamedici2176
      @nanamedici2176 3 роки тому +2

      The same here 😬😰

    • @annatran959
      @annatran959 11 місяців тому

      Yeah I do that too thanks for advice but I don’t live with my boyfriend ❤😂🎉

    • @shannonsgroomingstuff3565
      @shannonsgroomingstuff3565 8 місяців тому

      I have depression. I am middle schooler And this helps honestly like like making lists stress me out a lot, so are you usually just play something that involves around the thing that I’m doing? It will help me so much.

  • @robertreinhart1001
    @robertreinhart1001 3 роки тому +234

    Having a messy room is common Julia! Nobody will get upset with you lol!

  • @tesserwesser911
    @tesserwesser911 14 днів тому +1

    the random crying fit was the realist thing i have ever seen ❤❤

  • @karlijennings7570
    @karlijennings7570 3 роки тому +78

    HEY! I noticed when you were talking about that Maui bracelet and keeping things as souvenirs I do that too! But here’s a tip: get a couple of mason jars and fill them with all those souvenirs. Movie ticket stubs, concert tickets, broken bracelets, notes from high school classes, etc. It’s actually really cool looking and you can use them as decorations in your room! Some people paint the outsides but I like to be able to see all the things i’ve collected in the jars when I look at them on my shelf:)

    • @JuliaFase
      @JuliaFase  3 роки тому +6

      omg thats a great idea! thank yoU!

    • @sdb9884
      @sdb9884 3 роки тому +1

      Alternatively, you could take pictures of the items to put in your journal, or in a scrapbook. I like the mason jar idea!

  • @elysiaburdick4047
    @elysiaburdick4047 3 роки тому +51

    so proud of you girl. your room is actually sooo cute I love it!

    • @JuliaFase
      @JuliaFase  3 роки тому +5

      aw thank you so much 🥺

  • @debrafiorillo7084
    @debrafiorillo7084 3 роки тому +29

    I am with u girl my place is a mess so I know the depression thing. U inspired me to clean thank u!!! U have nothing to feel ashamed about!!

    • @JuliaFase
      @JuliaFase  3 роки тому +2

      awww love you!!!!!!

    • @debrafiorillo7084
      @debrafiorillo7084 3 роки тому +1

      @@JuliaFase love you too Julia !!!! I have mental illness diagnosed with borderline personality disorder depression severe anxiety disorder and adhd. So I totally get it!!! I think ur awesome!!! Ur room looks beautiful!!!

  • @KlinxKreations
    @KlinxKreations 9 місяців тому +15

    Normal cleaning vids never help me because their rooms are always spotless 😭 depression pit videos are so much more relatable to me

  • @DJSkullTaco
    @DJSkullTaco 2 роки тому +5

    Girl... you are not alone with this! Depression, anxiety and ADD popped up after I had kids and I went from a semi neat room to clothes everywhere. It’s hard to start this overwhelming- daunting task. Proud of you !

  • @jennabourque2045
    @jennabourque2045 3 роки тому +27

    I love how realistic this is, I just cleaned my room and it took me two days! Proud of you 🤍

  • @autumn6426
    @autumn6426 3 роки тому +3

    this reminded me of myself so much. i get so so overwhelmed so easily so for the past year i’ve had such a hard time keeping up with habits i know i NEED to keep up with like cleaning my room etc. it’s actually shocking how much your mental health affects literally every single thing around you. This was a very inspiring video though, because this is the first video like this i’ve ever watched while looking for inspiration and actually 100% related too. Thank you 😁

  • @jessiemcpherson5909
    @jessiemcpherson5909 3 роки тому +35

    Everyone has a messy room at some point mines always a mess

  • @alexjackson5010
    @alexjackson5010 3 роки тому +9

    So proud of you! Currently watching this relating so much but it’s giving me the motivation to tackle my depression room right now:))

    • @JuliaFase
      @JuliaFase  3 роки тому +1

      i’m rooting for you!

  • @svge8850
    @svge8850 3 роки тому +2

    Honestly, my room is there too, or worse. I’ve tried for months but I can never because I look at it and think “I let it get to here?” This video gave me so much motivation to clean. Thank you.

  • @rahinv
    @rahinv 3 роки тому +24

    Keep up the great work! I'm glad you are being kind to yourself. I hope you have an fruitful second half of this year 🙂

  • @asayake1
    @asayake1 4 місяці тому

    i appreciate your sharing this vid and your vulnerability in doing so. i went undiagnosed with adhd, depression, and anxiety until mid 30s. diagnosis and treatment changed my life but i still fall back into pits of depression. digging myself out of one right now and listening to your vid while cleaning my house. just wanted to thank you for sharing this and i hope you are doing well and thriving.

    • @JuliaFase
      @JuliaFase  4 місяці тому

      aw thank you so much! im wishing you the best

  • @KarmaStreams_13
    @KarmaStreams_13 3 роки тому +27

    Nobody’s judging baby❤️ you did great it looks amazing and helped me clean my own room so thank you if anything🥺

    • @JuliaFase
      @JuliaFase  3 роки тому +1

      thank you so much!!!

  • @nflixnchillz3189
    @nflixnchillz3189 9 місяців тому +1

    omg just came out of my depression episode and bedrotting days, thank you for posting this for motivation! starting now!!!

  • @amoradessy2861
    @amoradessy2861 3 роки тому +1

    i honestly felt this , i’ve been dealing with hereditary and clinical depression for a few years now and whenever i have a collapse everything is completely cluttered including my car, but cleaning makes me a little happier

    • @JuliaFase
      @JuliaFase  3 роки тому

      aw i’m sorry to hear that, i’m glad you found a good outlet to help a little bit ❤️❤️ hope u have a great day

  • @sugergenius2264
    @sugergenius2264 3 роки тому +1

    your sooo prettyyy omgggg

  • @pinz8649
    @pinz8649 Рік тому +1

    So proud of you for cleaning, I know it can be really hard with mental health stuff going on but you did it! Also super cute pajamas in the end

  • @DiBsTiNk
    @DiBsTiNk Рік тому +1

    My room looks like that and I'm watching this to clean my room too! It's helping alot

  • @amritapreetsingh5304
    @amritapreetsingh5304 2 роки тому +1

    Before your room was messy but after it was cleaned it looks great 👍 🤗

  • @outroseok
    @outroseok 3 роки тому +1

    I'm been there before where I've been too depressed to clean my room and it gets so messy to the point it's overwhelming but I swear once it's cleaned it's the best feeling!

    • @JuliaFase
      @JuliaFase  3 роки тому

      seriously !!! mines messy already!! need motivation 🙌🏼

  • @terangitupou3947
    @terangitupou3947 3 роки тому +1

    you have the prettiest room perioddd

  • @erinsteelman6131
    @erinsteelman6131 2 місяці тому

    You are such a beautiful girl. I admire your strength and bravery in being so vulnerable. I'm the type of person who looks like I have my s*** together on the outside, but on the inside.... yeeeaaah.... my room looks like your room before you got started. Your progress is amazing, and I'm so proud of you! I really hope you feel better soon!

  • @esthergesses
    @esthergesses 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for the motivation! Here’s a tip for anyone who needs it:
    If you find your room getting really messy frequently, it’s usually a lack of organization. Take time and try to organize and come up with a better routine! I swear by this rule. It helps a BINCH!

  • @lizbivins6779
    @lizbivins6779 2 роки тому

    i am so proud of you girl! I been watching these videos, because I am trying to get energy & motivation to clean mine.

  • @justrelax6096
    @justrelax6096 3 роки тому +4

    I love your decorations and the furniture

  • @Loser_approved
    @Loser_approved 4 місяці тому

    seeing that other people relate to the things i feel really helps with my mental state. it gets hard but we will get thu it together! thanks girlyyy

    • @JuliaFase
      @JuliaFase  4 місяці тому

      of course! stay strong love

  • @InfinitiTriniti
    @InfinitiTriniti 2 місяці тому +1

    I deal with depression also and I understand the feeling of being overwhelmed, the way I clean is by sorting so for example, 1.Bed 2.clothes 3rd. Beaty ofc you can do it in any order that's easiest for you!

  • @annatran959
    @annatran959 11 місяців тому +1

    I have seen people’s bedroom worster than mine and you tubers on the internet ❤😂 my room is now a mess too lol 😂

  • @margo2682
    @margo2682 3 роки тому +1

    bestie there’s nothing embarrassing about this and it’s not a stupid video. I watch these every time I get around to cleaning my room and I run out of videos like that. so if you ever want to record yourself cleaning your room PLEASE DO because I really need those all the time😭

    • @JuliaFase
      @JuliaFase  3 роки тому +1

      omg thank youuuu it’s already so messy again!!!

  • @Pumpkinspice278
    @Pumpkinspice278 2 роки тому

    I'm so proud of you depression sucks I'm glad you got it clean

  • @Sa-uk5oe
    @Sa-uk5oe 3 роки тому +8

    Super proud of you! I know that’s so hard but you did it

  • @Annie-wl3uu
    @Annie-wl3uu 3 роки тому

    I know I personally struggle with keeping my room clean too, mental health is a huge part of it. I am so proud of you:) I have your video on as I try and finish cleaning my room!

  • @nefenzinga
    @nefenzinga 3 роки тому +1

    i came across ya video (looking at room shit) this video is so helpful .. like down to the tears ! girl i feeeeeel you lol ... this whole video im like SAME lol 🤦🏽‍♀️.. YOU DID THAT SHIT ! 💪🏾

  • @ella9704
    @ella9704 2 роки тому +1

    i literally do the same thing with the “souvenir” stuff too😭😭 i thought i was alone, i keep stuff thinking im gonna make little memory projects with them but they just end up sitting in the corner of my room in a baggie LMAOO. thank you for this that is honestly so relieving to know that someone else experiences what i experience💘

    • @JuliaFase
      @JuliaFase  2 роки тому

      aw im glad we arent alone in that!

  • @biancaramirez6889
    @biancaramirez6889 3 роки тому

    Watching your video makes me a bit more motivated! I’ve got more time with my new job to clean & organize my room again but haven’t with my mental health! Trust me I get it! Watching these type of videos help lots! 💜

  • @Ken-pineapple.
    @Ken-pineapple. 3 місяці тому

    I can so relate I’m literally watching this to have motivation to clean my room ❤

  • @para97
    @para97 2 роки тому

    This is soooo relatable!!! I love it this is exactly how I clean

  • @TheGatewayProductions
    @TheGatewayProductions 3 роки тому +8

    Many thanks for this video! Depression is terrible but we can fight it!

  • @Postpundits
    @Postpundits 2 роки тому +1

    While watching ur vdo i was crying throughout idk why and then u started crying *relatable moment 😂😭 i will also try to clean my room ♥️thanku for the video

    • @JuliaFase
      @JuliaFase  2 роки тому +1

      awwww sending u loveee

  • @thicbins
    @thicbins 3 роки тому +1

    This video is so good! I am now gonna clean up my room in a minute lol. I’m just so happy that I’m not the only one with a very messy room, it’s so hard for me to keep it clean and my room is small 😭 I am so proud of you cleaning up your room depression is the worse and I pray that one day you will not have depression no more ❤️

    • @JuliaFase
      @JuliaFase  3 роки тому

      thank you so much!! good luck cleaning your room!

  • @gfl8478
    @gfl8478 3 роки тому +4

    This gave me so much motivation ty so much now my room is clean😀😀

  • @jayfender851
    @jayfender851 3 роки тому +2

    So proud of you! This really helped me clean my room as well 💖

  • @lissettemontesdeocalopez1394
    @lissettemontesdeocalopez1394 3 роки тому

    You did awesome! I love your room!! 💕

  • @notlora9345
    @notlora9345 3 роки тому

    Don’t apologize for ur room girl. Ur so pretty btw :)

  • @isabellarutherford4112
    @isabellarutherford4112 3 роки тому

    It makes you feel so much better once it’s clean

  • @BoredArtoast
    @BoredArtoast Рік тому

    I’ve got some organizing to tackle (drawers of junk)
    Just want things cleaned up for the rest of the time I’ll be where I am and videos like this help me stay motivated, so!!

  • @syrmio
    @syrmio 3 роки тому +3

    I watched this video yesterday and today was actually the 1st day in like a year that I cleaned my room, you r such a motivation! Thank u! If u didn’t make this video the next time my room would be clean would be in a year… when I go to college and my room needs to be empty 😣

    • @JuliaFase
      @JuliaFase  3 роки тому

      aw im so proud of you!

  • @lilybb444
    @lilybb444 3 роки тому +1

    You and me both girly, depression took over me and that’s literally why I’m here watching because I need Inspo Ive decided it’s time😪😊

  • @asmrmumma9116
    @asmrmumma9116 3 роки тому

    So proud of you!!! Depression the worst and so hard to find motivation , I get it!!!! I have 3 kids and since mu 3rd I have struggled with motivation but love it when I get it all done too

  • @RyanKushMusic
    @RyanKushMusic 3 роки тому

    Right on. I stumbled upon this video from typing "clean my room" looking for motivation. Nice! I checked you channel and will definitely help with parenting my 10 year old. Thanks for sharing! Gotta go set my room up! Lol

  • @rutergigey7753
    @rutergigey7753 3 роки тому +1

    i saw the crystals and stopped questioning the depression

  • @ceciliaroman6372
    @ceciliaroman6372 3 роки тому +1

    about the loose powder: buy a desk pad! i got one from ikea for like $6 because i'm scared of messing up my desk when i do my makeup

  • @nancyprice4779
    @nancyprice4779 2 роки тому

    Proud of you!! It’s difficult to start but keep going!! ❤️

  • @irisviveros812
    @irisviveros812 3 роки тому

    I’m here feeling the same watching your video to get motivation and my room looks just like that but today is the day I’m getting up!

    • @JuliaFase
      @JuliaFase  3 роки тому

      yay! im so proud of you!

  • @nehla_noor
    @nehla_noor 3 роки тому

    You don't have to be embarrassed for having a messy room! I can relate to this sm and I get the struggle. this video somehow inspired me to clean my room :) sending you sm love :)

  • @emelia2496
    @emelia2496 3 роки тому +1

    this motivated me so much thank you for making this!!! 💗

  • @ILUVGHOSTFACEE
    @ILUVGHOSTFACEE 4 місяці тому

    YOU ARE SOOO PRETTY!

  • @moniquedixon9710
    @moniquedixon9710 3 роки тому +1

    Blessings to you and your family. This is the first time I came across your channel… It’s great to know I’m not the only one who goes through this… We got this to everyone who knows what it’s like….💪🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💕🌸💐🌼🌻🦋

  • @sarahhh1470
    @sarahhh1470 2 роки тому

    i honestly feel like you would judge my room, ur room is so much more cleaner compared to mine but this gives me motivation so thank you

  • @oncetotheend
    @oncetotheend 3 роки тому

    So proud of you! Took me three days to clean my room since I do step by step or else I will be super overwhelmed!

  • @traceysamuel6458
    @traceysamuel6458 3 роки тому

    U did GOOD!! U kept at it!!

  • @brimalswrld9858
    @brimalswrld9858 3 роки тому

    so happy for you!! it looks good. keep your head up beautiful

  • @lybertijade
    @lybertijade 3 роки тому +1

    Your bedroom is so pretty! Do you know where you got your vanity from?

  • @abireynolds4299
    @abireynolds4299 3 роки тому

    I love the aesthetic/decor of your room 😍

  • @anoemily324
    @anoemily324 3 роки тому

    My room is a complete disaster. You can’t see my floor. Seeing a video like this that matches my room like 40%, makes me feel like I can clean it. Thank you for sharing your pit, mines so bad!

  • @big_cowss
    @big_cowss 2 роки тому

    Don’t be embarrassed! I came to this video for motivation to clean my own room!

  • @ellieb.4234
    @ellieb.4234 3 роки тому

    i’m so proud girlie 🥺 this looks amazing. you got this! keep moving forward! 💪🏻❤️

  • @jacquihooper2148
    @jacquihooper2148 3 роки тому

    My room is the same right now and watching this helped motivate myself to clean up so thank you!!!

    • @JuliaFase
      @JuliaFase  3 роки тому

      yay!! i’m so glad!! i just finished cleaning my room again too!

  • @ritameneses4942
    @ritameneses4942 3 роки тому +2

    Love uuuu ❤️❤️❤️

  • @timecawilliams6381
    @timecawilliams6381 3 роки тому

    Where did you your vanity and desk, please and thank you!! your room is gorgeous btw

    • @JuliaFase
      @JuliaFase  3 роки тому

      both from pottery barn teen!!!

  • @audreyjane9168
    @audreyjane9168 3 роки тому +1

    your bed is amazing i want

  • @dmierehandson7994
    @dmierehandson7994 3 роки тому +1

    I'm so happy for you that you can even fight the depression and clean your room☺️

  • @alissiajaimes1735
    @alissiajaimes1735 3 роки тому

    Where’d you get your bed frame ! 😍😍 SO CUTE

  • @tichaferreira
    @tichaferreira 3 роки тому

    Well done, good job. It's so good to see you feel better now!

  • @lovelyxxboyxx3236
    @lovelyxxboyxx3236 3 роки тому

    Well done! I’m trying to clean my room I have anger issues and this video helped me a lot to understand that there pepole like me that gets upset a lot what u am trying to say is thank you for uploading this ❤️ it helped me alot keep doing what ur doing stay safe archer xx

    • @JuliaFase
      @JuliaFase  3 роки тому

      aw i’m so glad ! we are all in this together !

  • @hermionejx
    @hermionejx Рік тому

    Heyyy where is ur vanity from?!! I love it!❤

  • @aubreymorris6423
    @aubreymorris6423 Рік тому

    we are such the same also i love your kids keep up the good work!!

  • @camiwithan_i
    @camiwithan_i 3 роки тому

    Julia, don't be discouraged. Cleaning motivation hack, start with the floor and categorize things. I have major depression and ADHD and I always start with the clothes because everything is so much easier and you feel motivated once you can walk. I'm a horrible messsssss and my whole house looks like this at least once a week. It happens, don't feel bad or embarrassed you just have to put your foot down and find a system that works for you. You don't have to be perfect, perfection is a lie.

  • @nevadabryant2044
    @nevadabryant2044 3 роки тому

    Girl idk if you still check these comments, but this video has helped me so much, my depression has been so bad and i just haven’t had the energy clean and this video makes me feel human as well as gives me some boost to clean, thank you girl truly 💕💕💕

    • @JuliaFase
      @JuliaFase  3 роки тому

      aw love thank you so much ! i hope you find peace and light soon💞💞💞 and yes, of course i look at these comments 🥰🥰

  • @andresalexander39
    @andresalexander39 3 роки тому

    I’m a guy and you are not Alone I go through it too and I’m proud of you keep shining 🙌🏼💯 good channel by the way :)

  • @latoyajthemiraclebaby7564
    @latoyajthemiraclebaby7564 3 роки тому +1

    Proud of you

  • @asmrcharms4062
    @asmrcharms4062 3 роки тому

    Lampoon I feel u. This video helped me out a lot :))

  • @mulahfab8829
    @mulahfab8829 3 роки тому +1

    Hope you over come your depression, and once you clean it just keep it tidy; so you won't have to do a big cleaning again. Sending you love and light, you are brave to share with us! 😊🙏🏾

  • @missynicole746
    @missynicole746 3 роки тому

    It happens depression is ROUGH I’m so proud of u

  • @marinalondon7399
    @marinalondon7399 3 роки тому

    I don't have depression but sometime get my room messy as well as I am not in mood or tired. So its ok Don't blame yourself, you have problem with health. It like if you blame your self when you have poor belly. Not everything and always we can control on our life. LOVE yourself no matter what. Accept yourself with plus and minus . NO one is perfect and we don't need to be perfect. We need to be human . It means we have right to feel bad and sad xx

  • @tove6165
    @tove6165 3 роки тому

    You are so hard on yourself, girlie! Please be kind to yourself. So proud of you. Love!

  • @curvyblue2843
    @curvyblue2843 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for the inspiration. 😇

  • @AvaKhouri
    @AvaKhouri 6 місяців тому +1

    I have that

  • @kabkorange
    @kabkorange 3 роки тому

    i've been there with all the negative self talk, i wish you a good journey through that, you can do it, take your time 💖

  • @JO-hy1fj
    @JO-hy1fj 10 місяців тому

    So crazy that has happened 2 me these videos are inspiring

  • @kallieaaliyah2104
    @kallieaaliyah2104 3 роки тому

    i love your room so much

  • @kimberlyvega5202
    @kimberlyvega5202 3 роки тому +8

    I’m so proud of you keep pushing forward 🥰

  • @Bronson688
    @Bronson688 3 роки тому

    YOU GO GIRL