Love your work! I love that we aligned in our question of "what's the bare minimum?". Ooh and choosing your filter is killer advice. Thanks so much for collaborating with me 💛
WOW…the farmer analogy really resonated with me, and I really think I can use it to move myself forward, THANK YOU! 💜💜💜Also, I’m here from muchelleb, and now a new subscriber! Oh, and CUTE hair!🤗
a quote that is helping me "You have to give up the life you had planned in order to live the life that is waiting for you". And Barbara Sher's "do what you love".
Figuring out where you don't want to be. yes. That definitely resonates more for me I feel like there's a lot I don't want. I'm a very indecisive person but I also understand myself a lot I just don't necessarily view myself as a goal oriented person. As I've said before even having goals or plans for the future tend to stress me out but I definitely have things that I do want to change or work on or improve in my life.
Love this! Just went through some major life & lifestyle changes so watching this as I begin a new chapter is very inspiring & practical. So timely❤️♾️❤️ Thank you!😎
Yay! So happy to see you again today 👏😊 Love the farm analogy and anti-vision theory 💗 As someone who's never known what I want longterm / never had any real "dreams" that is GOLD!!! Thanks to you and Muchelle B 👏
@rowan orre I already lead group singing&acting productions on Smule with friends I've made around the world in my spare time... But that doesn't pay bills 😂 Maybe I could get a paid choir mistress role, or be a (vague) interpreter in 4 languages, BUT right now I work part time at my son's school around being his primary carer 🤷♀️ I've always been a "Jack of All Trades" (master of none) so get analysis paralysis with so many possibilities 😂 ... I'm not kidding when I say I feel like I've lived 4 lives already, with such different phases/jobs and hobbies! 🤭 I've been told I should write my life story since I was 18 it's been such a weird rollercoaster!
Just finding your channel! I look forward to watching more of your content. I love that idea of looking to see how you got to where you are and evaluating what you want to keep or not.
I clicked because I was so excited to see your lovely face, but this is so timely I can't even. I promise I'm going to work through these exercises, but I already know the direction this is going to take for me. Go raibh maith agat agus sláinte!
I need to remind myself that doing the minimum is ok. Good enough is good enough. A more balanced approach is important to me. I try to avoid the extremes of perfectionism and not bothering.
I’m constantly walking that line too. A good reminder that sometimes it’s OK to just keep things ticking over in certain areas while my focus is elsewhere, rather than trying to do everything at once.
Came from Michelle’s channel and subscribed the moment I realized you were Irish ☘️ I’m from the US but my dad was very much into our Irish heritage and passed it on to me (I was the weird kid on St Patrick’s Day saying “Éirinn go Brách” to fellow 8 year olds…yeahhh) I also loved the video and plan to check out some more.
I have the hardest time getting started on any Self help project due to brain fogs. If I ever start self discovery, I either take all day obsessing over one idea or constantly stop due to distractions within ("I can't get it together thoughts" 100x) & outta my control (dog barking). However, your articulation of each & every step of the self audit process was engaging & thorough.
Thank you. 🙂 I can obsess sometimes too. In those situations I find it helpful to move on to something else, telling myself I’ll come back to it. (I rarely do.)
@3:20 I'm intrigued but am pausing @3:20 to share a giggle. At that time, just as Laura said "spending time to fertilize" up pops an ad for a composting system. Sometimes little Algy, when you eavesdrop you don't get the context!
Yay wonderful to see a video from you!!! I am definitely needing to do a life audit since things are drastically changing in my core family (for happy reason but still unexpected)
Love your work! I love that we aligned in our question of "what's the bare minimum?". Ooh and choosing your filter is killer advice. Thanks so much for collaborating with me 💛
Thank YOU. 😭💖 A lot of soul searching going on over here after watching your video. So insightful, as always.
This is so exciting that you're collabing. Great creators, both always so helpful 👏
WOW…the farmer analogy really resonated with me, and I really think I can use it to move myself forward, THANK YOU! 💜💜💜Also, I’m here from muchelleb, and now a new subscriber! Oh, and CUTE hair!🤗
Aw, thanks so much! ☺️ I really appreciate it.
This is EXACTLY the video I need right now! I'm in such a dangerously low funk at the moment. Thank you for this video
Sending hugs. 💖
@@HowToGYST
a quote that is helping me "You have to give up the life you had planned in order to live the life that is waiting for you". And Barbara Sher's "do what you love".
This truly was very eye opening for me ! I am looking forward to doing my own audit !
Go for it. 😁
Figuring out where you don't want to be. yes. That definitely resonates more for me I feel like there's a lot I don't want. I'm a very indecisive person but I also understand myself a lot I just don't necessarily view myself as a goal oriented person. As I've said before even having goals or plans for the future tend to stress me out but I definitely have things that I do want to change or work on or improve in my life.
Such a good exercise, isn’t it? The path forward isn’t always clear, but we usually know which paths to avoid.
Hi! I’m coming from Muchelleb’s Page! I am thrilled to have found you :) love your vibe and I have a 6 year old so super relatable!
Thanks so much! My daughter's 9... going on 16. 😂
How did you know I've been leached ..completely.
Time to rest up so you can bloom again. 💖
@@HowToGYST you will have to water me.
Love this! Just went through some major life & lifestyle changes so watching this as I begin a new chapter is very inspiring & practical. So timely❤️♾️❤️ Thank you!😎
Ooh, best of luck in your new chapter!
Yay! So happy to see you again today 👏😊 Love the farm analogy and anti-vision theory 💗 As someone who's never known what I want longterm / never had any real "dreams" that is GOLD!!! Thanks to you and Muchelle B 👏
Much easier to compile a list of what we DON’T want, am I right? 😂 Process of elimination. 😁
@rowan orre I already lead group singing&acting productions on Smule with friends I've made around the world in my spare time... But that doesn't pay bills 😂 Maybe I could get a paid choir mistress role, or be a (vague) interpreter in 4 languages, BUT right now I work part time at my son's school around being his primary carer 🤷♀️ I've always been a "Jack of All Trades" (master of none) so get analysis paralysis with so many possibilities 😂 ... I'm not kidding when I say I feel like I've lived 4 lives already, with such different phases/jobs and hobbies! 🤭 I've been told I should write my life story since I was 18 it's been such a weird rollercoaster!
Just finding your channel! I look forward to watching more of your content. I love that idea of looking to see how you got to where you are and evaluating what you want to keep or not.
Yay! Thanks so much for being here. 💖
Awesome to see you and MuchelleB collab!!!
Still pinching myself! And so good to hear from you, Shannon. I hope all is well. 💖
Wow Laura. This was such an insightful video. I NEED TO DO THIS! I'm totally leeching my soil!
Time to fertilise! 😂💖
I clicked because I was so excited to see your lovely face, but this is so timely I can't even. I promise I'm going to work through these exercises, but I already know the direction this is going to take for me. Go raibh maith agat agus sláinte!
Exciting! I feel like I’m closing out a chapter and starting into another so this was really helpful for me. Hope it’s the same for you. 💖
Easy to see why MuchelleB loves you so much! Thank you for this!
Aw, thank you! 🥰
I love you two. Happy for the collab!
the farmer analogy is really spot on! 👏
Love a good analogy. 😂 Thank you!
I need to remind myself that doing the minimum is ok. Good enough is good enough. A more balanced approach is important to me. I try to avoid the extremes of perfectionism and not bothering.
I’m constantly walking that line too. A good reminder that sometimes it’s OK to just keep things ticking over in certain areas while my focus is elsewhere, rather than trying to do everything at once.
I cannot begin to tell you how useful/relatable I find this channel. Stellar content, good lady. 👍
Wow. Thank you so much. I truly appreciate it. ☺️
@@HowToGYST
Edit: and there’s a ‘Drain You’ Nirvana reference too. Top notch!
Mike Well said! I totally agree!🤗❤🍀
U make lot of sense to me...I have done many of the things u mentioned in bits & pieces but not consistently🙈
god bless u
Thank you.
Great video! Just subbed your channel!!
Thanks so much.
I really needed this! Thank you! :D
Aw, I hope it's super helpful. 💖
OMG this is the video that I needed today.
Hope it’s helpful. 🙂
Came from Michelle’s channel and subscribed the moment I realized you were Irish ☘️ I’m from the US but my dad was very much into our Irish heritage and passed it on to me (I was the weird kid on St Patrick’s Day saying “Éirinn go Brách” to fellow 8 year olds…yeahhh) I also loved the video and plan to check out some more.
Thanks!
Thank YOU. 💖
I'm so glqd mychellb pointed me your way!! Can't wait to watch yr older videos!! Love for Kentucky!
I’m currently living in Cincinnati so we’re neighbours. 😁🙋🏼
I have the hardest time getting started on any Self help project due to brain fogs. If I ever start self discovery, I either take all day obsessing over one idea or constantly stop due to distractions within ("I can't get it together thoughts" 100x) & outta my control (dog barking). However, your articulation of each & every step of the self audit process was engaging & thorough.
Thank you. 🙂 I can obsess sometimes too. In those situations I find it helpful to move on to something else, telling myself I’ll come back to it. (I rarely do.)
@3:20 I'm intrigued but am pausing @3:20 to share a giggle. At that time, just as Laura said "spending time to fertilize" up pops an ad for a composting system. Sometimes little Algy, when you eavesdrop you don't get the context!
😂 Brilliant!
I love you soo much! You are exactly what i am going through right now! Like i have been here for a couple of years! 🤝thank you!
Here’s to our next adventure! 🥂
Yay wonderful to see a video from you!!!
I am definitely needing to do a life audit since things are drastically changing in my core family (for happy reason but still unexpected)
Exciting! A new adventure to look forward to.
I keep forgetting that hope isn't a plan!!💖Slan.
Still better than nothing though. 😉💖
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