lo fi song about a break up | Just Fine
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- Опубліковано 20 бер 2020
- i'll probably call it "just fine" lol
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lyrics!
I wrote him a letter
I cried in the bath
I called my mother
And lay in the dark
i took down the pictures, and I
Taught myself to breathe
And I hear he’s doing just fine
Without me
I catch the daydreams
before hope settles in
I welcome the waves because
I know I won’t win
Oh I’d never wish this feeling
On anyone, but see
I hear he’s doing just fine
Perhaps the problem lies in
The double load I bear
I ripped myself apart and you just
Stood there
I’m counting the mornings
I wait to feel well
I might not feel as bad
But I can’t really tell
and I know that I’ll be okay
but it’s pretty far from a breeze
And I hear he’s doing just fine
It’s breaking me he isn’t mine
but at least he’s doing just fine
Without me
At least he’s doing just fine
Without me
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See this. This is an ideal breakup song. Not angry, not over dramatic. Just bittersweet, especially with the last line: “It’s breaking me that he isn’t mine / But at least he’s doing just fine / without me.”
You don’t break up for no reason. You break up so that both of you can be happier (though it stings at first), and I think that this song really conveys that feeling.
le truth
legit just broke up but definitely its for the better, i love this comment and this song
you definitely can break up for no reason and there are angry dramatic breakups, i dont even think ive had a bittersweet breakup
Agree that this song is wonderful. Sad, but sweet.
Disagree that all breakups are mutual, and done for good reasons.
Give it time, a partner that you adore with drop you without warning, like garbage, with no explanation or closure... And then you'll see how wrong that part of your comment is.
thanks for the lesson
the fact that this is a “spontaneous simple song” shows the sheer talent and authenticity of dodie and her music WOW pure gold really just flows out of her doesnt it
Diego Lievanos so true
exactly. she’s such a wizard with music i love her
Indeed!
Pure platinum
100%
dodie: "i wrote him a letter-"
me: *starts sobbing*
dodie: "I wrote him a letter, I cried in the bath-"
me: wait how did you know
This. Song.
My husband recently left me and our two small children. And, behind the anger and the pain and the regret, I have needed space for this - the simple bittersweet...the sad, without being told I'm better off or trying to make sense of it. Just to be sad. It's somehow healing.
So sorry for what you're going through. Try stay strong, if not just for you but for your children too ❤️
wow im so so sorry, prayers for you and your sweet babies
Dylan McGill that's rude.
i hope the best for you 💕
Hey you hang in there okay? ❤️
This gives me old Dodie vibes. Just sitting down recording a little song just because. Not for a release, not for tour, just because. It definitely made me very nostalgic. That said, I am so so proud of her and how far she's come. She deserves sold out concert halls and songs on the radio. I'm just happy to be here for the journey :)
I feel u bro
Meagan J same :>
*i feel uuu*
Yess like i love all her released song but I'm favorites are you old fun things or like mash ups with hadi
she may have wrote it for herself but she uploaded it for money dude, sorry to burst your bubble.
Omg that turn at the end “I hear he’s doing just fine” to “at least he’s doing just fine”
; )
That's how they get you
songwriting^tm
IM NOT EVEN GOING THROUGH A BREAK UP AND THIS HIT
Definitely just went thru a breakup and it SLAPS
compose and sing a song about being poor, and you'll get rich. Happens so many times!!!
mood
Okay but how accurate would it be if this actually came out as A SINGLE.
me during quarantine: lazing about, procrastinating, not doing anything productive
dodie: lo-fi hip hop beats
beats?
Liravin i was referencing that one livestream, you know, “lo-fi hip hop radio - beats to relax/study to”
i literally commented on the last video “dodies living space is turning into the live hipster lofi anime girl’s space” haha anyways stan stevie
Mia Echlin i know, that’s what i thought of when she put this out
It’s actually Stevie and hazel’s flat!! It’s super cute
@@kattie_dent4659 hazel moved out a while ago
@@sierraestrellita correct! cute af
Evelyn coolio had no idea lol
“I’m counting the mornings I wait to feel well. I might not feel quite as bad, but I can’t really tell”. I feel so weird hearing someone describe exactly the way I feel.
read that as soon as she sang it and it just shoved it in my face even more😖😖🥺
Truth
i know it’s so strange having someone put exactly what i feel into words.
Aside from the sobbing, I just realized that I've gone through 3 breakups with different dodie songs from different eras from when I was 15 to now at nearly 20, and it's simply so crazy
Me: *just stopped crying about a breakup*
UA-cam notification: LOFI SONG ABOUT A BREAKUP BY DODIE
Me: here we go again
Edit: omg you are so awesome.. I've never felt this loved by strangers❤
f
💜💜💜 sending hugs!
me too girl :( we'll be okay
Ceci lia felt that deeply
F
"It's not coming out or anything"
Give it a few months
SIGSEGV I hope so!!
Same
It’s been over six months since my breakup and I’m still not over it
@@bratbambi Hope it gets better dude
@@bratbambi honestly same you just gotta learn to be ok with feeling crappy about it
I've never heard someone singing so delicately in all my days.
Right?! Her best quality, imo.
it was very satisfying to add the 100th like.
"It's literally just a song i wrote now"
I hope to one day be this talented...
Last time I was this early toilet rolls were still in stock.
Lauren Harris
So lucky to have you lol you so witty I canttt
@@emmadye115 :)))))
And hand wash
Omg lmao it’s true tho :’)
Too real mate, too real..
man everything about this is so aesthetically sad
i introduced my girlfriend to you. we spent almost 10 months together. she stopped loving me. i was also in a bad place, and did things i shouldn't have. After we broke up, i could hardly stand to hear your music because it reminded me of her. Its been about 2 months. it still hurts. but this is progress.
it’s going to be okay, i know it’s hard, but don’t let the breakup take away the things you love- like dodies music :) i’m here for you
I was in the same place, even dedicated some songs to him that were dodie's. He left me while things were... Hard. And I could not stand hearing one of dodie's songs. But time heals wounds, and now I'm back, and slowly recovering from everything.
I hope you heal, and remember that things will get better in the future.
Sending lots of love your way.
i promise you it’s going to be okay! had a similar experience. couldn’t stand the whole centre part of my hometown because it stung. but it goes away with time. and you’ll reclaim all these things.
right there with you mate, me and my ex used to little to dodie a lot and we were together 8 years before she left me for my roommate and Whilst I still lovee dodie and shes in all my playlists still i find i sometimes have to hit skip because the memories associated are just too bittersweet
@@bee-qp8xy thats a weird message to leave on a comment on her videos since 1 you give no actual reasoning just a weird out of the blue judgement and 2 why are you even watching her videos if you feel that way? do you truly value your time so little? because if you truly feel that way I am sorry your self worth is so low and hope things get better for you.
"I count the mornings
I wait to feel well"
*ow ow ow that hurt way too bad*
Dodie: this isn’t anything this isn’t coming out on anything
Me: okay that’s fine plenty of your songs don- OKAY BUT WHY NOT THIS IS COMPLETELY UNFAIR I WANT TO PUT THIS ON ALL MY SPOTIFY PLAYLISTS AND LISTEN TO IT ON REPEAT.
^^^
idk if this helps but if you're on a computer and right click on the video, you can set it to loop infinitely 💕
c
MalliCat YES!
youtube music is cool for this kind of think buddy, its free if u buy youtube tv (:
I love how this breakup song is so soft. You're still wishing the best for him even though he isnt yours anymore because you really do still care for him even if it hurts to see him go. I really felt this one.
Ditto.
I've been there, and it's an incredibly mature thing to do. Hard, but worth it.
I've felt that too…
This cuts me deep. My ex and i just broke up a week ago after 5 years of being together. We are still friends but the feeling is so bittersweet because i still love him so so much.
Stay strong
This song reminds me of “still hurting” from the last five years, but if Cathy was in a different headspace?! Truly beautiful :) x
so true!!!
Kaley LeCroy isnt it tho?! God I need a dodie musical ASAP.
Yes!!!!
TRUUUUE
This song and still hurting have become my breakup ANTHEMS! Its funny you said that cause its exactly how I feel.
Strangely, this is the kind of song that pertains to having a crush that started dating someone else too. The world is now in this weird, tonal shift and you don't know what to do. Just feeling lost and hurt, angry and sad, delusional even. Song hits on more cylinders than one.
VTAnimation that’s what I was thinking too!!
You cry over the end of a relationship that never happend. It's quite a similar feeling to a breakup, since you've probably imagined all you could have done together.
@@hannahk9712 but I still think a break up is worse than your crush finding a gf/bf.
exactly the situation I'm in, felt as if she was writing for me
Hannah K I agree. it’s like a relationship that never happened. I’m going through that right now. someone I like got into a relationship and it’s really tearing me apart
"Just fine (without me)" would be a good title. The disjointed rhythm of the verses really contributes to the emotion of the song, where you have a similar disjointed rhythm of thinking after a breakup. Very nice song!
when this came out I thought i’d pretty much recovered from a breakup with my first love. i heard this and it summed up exactly how i felt during that time and it brought so much pain. now listening to it it shows me how much i’ve grown and i feel honoured that i can have this song as a symbol of my growth. i’m going to learn it on guitar and play it with pride. true character building. dodie if you see this, the song is perfect. just perfect. it means more to me than you can imagine.
Just ended it with my boyfriend who've I've been with since 16 (am now nearly 19). I miss him so much but I know it's for the best. Just hurts so much to know we can't ever be together in the same way again, I really cherished that relationship. Feel sick to my core and can't sleep.
dodie during quarantine: writes an absolutely beautiful song about a breakup
me during quarantine: paints a picture of the Once-ler
I'm sure it looks great! Even if you don't like it it was fun right?
I need to see it now
Onceler painting sounds pretty dope idk why you’re acting like it’s a lesser achievement 😤
I'm not even in quarantine yet, Australia is a bit behind
is that really bad though? tell me honestly? its the once-ler... the king has a portrait
“I catch the daydreams before the hope can set in” *oh wow that hurt*
Hey, as a non-native speaker I am having a hard time getting this line. Could you break down the meaning for me? :)
Rita Villar Parajó when your brain brings the hurt into your forward conscience, you have to tell yourself it is a day dream before your brain will play with the thoughts too much and cause you to hope, but hurt.
@@emilylawes omg yes. You explained it perfectly. I have to say out loud "brain. no. I'm not thinking about her anymore"
I think it means that you don’t let yourself daydream about the person you love because it gets your hopes up and that can only end with your hopes being dashed/you being let down and hurt
Rita Villar Parajó It (can) mean don’t let yourself imagine about the “what if’s” (the impossible situations) like maybe said person will realize they still love me, etc. so don’t let yourself get your hopes up.
"I ripped myself apart and you just stood there."
Too relatable
0:20
here's the replay button :)
i love you
thank you darling
you are a saint
thnx ^^
You can’t post a gem like that and say it’s not coming out, dodie. It better come out. C’mon! It’s quarantine time.
HEY DODIE YOU BETTER READ THIS
Quarantime*
WE STAN RANDOM DODIE SINGLES IN THIS HOUSE
this has
1) Emma Blackery’s ‘and you’ve moved in with all your friends, and you don’t think of me before bed’ vibes
2) Hamilton’s ‘at least my dear eliza’s his wife, at least i keep these eyes in my life’ vibes
And things we used to share by Thomas :)
that’s an amazing description tbh
Omg the Hamilton one just makes senseee
@@chamomile_coffee5667 but still so sad. poor Angelica :(
Nice use of apostrophes
I’m not sure what it is but the, ‘I cried in the bath’ just hits so HARD
i am begging for this to be put on spotify
getting george harrison/late beatles vibes with the chromatic walkdowns and all the dom 7 chords
Alex Nam would you be willing to figure out/type out the chords you can? I’d love to be able to play this during my time inside for quarantine 😂
Yes I get George Harrison vibes too
Yes what are the chords if you know pleaseee?😌
if ur tryna play this on guitar, capo up to the 5th fret for original key:)
samuel she’s playing what looks like a guitalele, shouldn’t it be tuned exactly like a guitar? So no capo necessary?
“Cause I ripped myself apart and you just stood there.” Also how the melody is beautiful and sad and somehow bitter. there was a study done that said men take longer to recover from a breakup than women do, they’ll be fine at first then stuff will sink in. Anyways thanks for the song. :)
(Edited)
Yeah... As a man I can confirm this. I went through a breakup recently and I thought I was fine but then I sank in so horribly and she was fine already...
I'm fine now btw.
This is because men tend to have less emotionally-close friends to lean on in the aftermath. They often rely on their gf for all of their emotional support, so when they lose that it’s really hard.
I don't think so because my ex already had a "person of interest" a few months after we broke up and I only moved on from him almost 2years after we broke up.
@@TheDGomezzi so I'm the man in our relationship? Because it was the other way around when me and my ex broke up. Lol
@@bianckinitan i think it depends on the case, but maybe, just maybe, the man is the one who struggles the most to recover.
i cant even tell you how needed this song was for me.. not even a month ago i broke up with my boyfriend and i did it by writing him a letter and reading it to him. i cared a lot more for him than he did for me, so it hurts knowing he’s doing better than i am. but i’ll heal too, just with a little more time. thank you dodie ❤️
He might be doing a lot worse than what he is letting you see,or atleast I am in my case
My roommate is going through a breakup like this at the moment and it breaks me to see how she is suffering while he’s somewhere else having no clue that she cries herself to sleep at night...
I don’t know how to help and I also didn’t know I could cry this hard out of empathy... thank u for this song dodie. Maybe i will learn to play it and then forever be too shy to play it for her and just keep feeling helpless instead..
Conspiracy confirmed: Dodie is the lofi girl constantly doing homework
Hahahahhaha
How could we be so blind
She isn't doing the homework. She is writing song lyrics. 👀
Me: *gets dumped*
UA-cam: lo fi song about a break up
F
Same tho
@@trysiratons F
Same happened here lol*cries*FML
@@stabacus5047 you get an F, too
when dodie goes 'and I know' at 2:01, it goes me vibes from intertwined when she sings 'oh you [and I safe from the world though the world will try]'
The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too. E.H
Hey Dodie, or random stranger.
You'll probably never see this and that's okay.
I wish you happiness and send you lots of love from me.
I wish you to smile and cry if your sad because that's fine too.
Keep fighting, Keep smiling because your smile is beautiful.
You've inspired many and helped many people, now I hope this comment possibly helps inspire you to smile ~☆
Ps you're fabulous
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To Dodie:
And thanks for the ukulele blues
I love the ukulele
I'm not lying when I say that this comment made me teary. We need more people like you in this world, kind stranger.
@@mushroomeli5595 thank you, I really needed to hear this I've been battling with long term sadness for 5 weeks now and this made me smile so thank you💛
I hope to dry yours tears
And if you want we could even cry a little together 😂
@@radiantrunaway8545 I would love to cry with you haha
@@mushroomeli5595 You're too sweet 😂 Seriously I wish you a beautiful day/lovely night/ a wonderful evening
@@radiantrunaway8545 thank you! I hope you have literally the best weekend you've ever had!
funny how i’ve just gone through a breakup... and THIS comes out
Nica Heyes sameeeee
yupppp same. But it gets better, I swear I swear 💛💛
Oh, I feel you. I am also going through a breakup right now. Wish you the best,stay strong,it will get better !
No breakup, but I still feel this song so much 💔💙
Same it’s been nine days and my heart still aches whenever I see anything that reminds me of him
Just got out of my first serious relationship after being together for a year and 5 happy months
This is exactly what I needed to hear; something to relate to
I want this in my “sad gorl hours” playlist, my playlist is actually called “heartouchie” to be frank
dodie is the leader of the “social distancing before it was legally required” gang and this is our national anthem
What about her song party though?
I’ve literally never been in a relationship but this is making me so sad
this is my first time seeing this. if i had heard this 3 months ago i would have been sobbing till i couldn't breathe. i still cried, but i think this is called healing. :')
screaming crying throwing up never wanted to relate to this one but here we are
I’ve just listened to this 5 times in a row and got the chills EVERY TIME
It makes me want to cry, so - good job there.
I would love to see a rebuttal version of this song where the guy is saying how he's not fine either but he thinks she is because they both put on a fake facade
Linda Lasagna the music video is them side by side 🥺 and how they are hurting and one they they see each other across a bar and they look at each other and wave then look away
Linda Lasagna kt tunstall “other side of the world” vibes!
have you ever seen "a love song / a non love song" by dodie and Jon Cozart?? they both made separate songs / videos and then recorded them together... highly recommend
Up you go
A Love Song From Paris and a non love song from nashville
This song has genuinely got me threw some tough times. Not even about breakups. It just mirrors the kind of numb feeling. My favourite song 🥰
my boyfriend and i parted ways for good today and this song was in my recommended. its very bittersweet and i will have multiple cries to this beautiful song.
This is the only thing getting me thru quarantine
Lauren Harris true
Tbh
🥰
@@emmadye115 ;)
I'm losing my mind!!! I'm literally losing grip on reality. I'm getting bored and frustrated at home so I surround myself with social media and UA-cam. I didn't sleep yesterday, and I honestly feel like I'm escaping reality so much, it is making me depressed. I need a human interaction
I'm so scared I might die, trying not to die. It's so strange that your mind, your soul demands so much to feel alive that one would rather choose to not live rather than survive in a lifeless, soulless empty body. It's like, if I had a choice of making be pain go away and be numb, I would still rather feel the pain than nothing at all
Same exact thing I said. It's a little less "apocalyptic feeling" with Dodie. 🖤
When you you broke up with the guy you've been with for 4 years an hour ago and this comes out. F in the chat bois lol. But such a good song living for this 2 post in a row thing
amore covers I promise it gets better!! Wishing u the best of luck
@@nataliehahn436 thanks love
f
Broke up with my 4 years last week... Hope you're doing as well as you can.
I'm going through the same thing. We broke up last night. I couldn't sleep the whole night neither eat the whole day... And he's doing just fine...
Gosh I'm in tears... I came to listen to in the bed for the 1000th time, but this sparked my attention. 3 months, still hurts even though we both moved on... It took him one week. In one week I still couldn't function properly...
The way dodie says "saturday afternoon" melts my heart. It's so adorable
dodie is absolutely gorgeous - just everything about her
"I know that i'll be okay, but it's pretty far from a breeze" just sums up everything about breakups. months later, people think you're back to normal and okay, but it'll always be difficult and there'll always be days that are stormier than others, even if you appear okay. beautiful song
I lost a friend I'd just met bc I told her that I like her but it wasnt mutual. I was ok with being friends and it was for a while until she decided she didnt want to be friends anymore. She took our mutual friends with her too. I never even dated her and it felt like a bad breakup. That was a few months ago and I"m still getting over it. But it's become better. But its pretty far from a breeze
This really hurts. I just found out my ex had a new boyfriend after spending 4 days writing her a letter. It hurts even more because one of Dodies songs used to be our songs, and now this song perfectly encapsulates my feelings.
I'm sorry about that. Hope you're feeling better.
I love how Dodie grins at the end, like she didn’t just deliver this GUT-WRENCHING, BITTERSWEET MASTERPIECE.
Ow, my heart.
Holy cheese.I never knew you were a dodie fan too!
Ps I love your videos
You're my favourite animator
And I love how you only draw the eyes!
Also have a fabulous day/night
sameeee
I didn’t know you were a dodie fan :0
I just broke up with my long term boyfriend with ur "cutting ties" video. Now I'm sitting all alone in quarantine and just started to learn ukulele - I have a mission I guess. Does anyone can tell the chords?
_hellosari its not on a typical uke cuz the instrument has 6 strings so i truly have no idea
I wish I were good enough at the uke to know but 🤷♀️ sorry dude
not gonna lie, this sounds like a 6 string ukulele... those DO exist, the pitch is higher than a guitar without a capo. The chords look interesting... awaiting for someone to comment them, I can’t figure it out.
Emily Dominguez if you count the strings, there is 6
@@laceythecorgi is it a guitarlele? Cuz that would make sense that it sounds higher than a guitar because a guitarlele = a guitar capoed on the fifth fret
This really captures the feeling of breaking up not because one person is a box person but simply because it didn’t work out. You don’t need to hate someone after a breakup
this strumming pattern is so spot on for the vibe of the song i’m obsessed
Funnily enough, my girlfriend and I just broke up after about 2 years, 4 months, and 27 days together - 880 days of sheer bliss with the love of my life; bliss with her and her beautiful face, body, hair, eyes, lips, personality... She was and still is, to me, in every way perfect - my first, my one and only. It ended because she told me she was gay, and, of course, I knew we couldn't carry on. But all is well because we were both best friends before, and we will continue to be best friends here on out, taking care of each other for the rest of our days if need be, giving each other our unconditional love and support - that is a promise. I'd just like to thank you, Dodie, for giving me something to listen to to make the experience a bit easier; keep up the great work and stay awesome, my friend. :)
And if by some slight chance you might be reading this too, my love, then thank you for everything too - I truly mean it. You have given me so many things over the years, including a reason to live (that reason being you), that I could never repay you for it all. But I wouldn't have changed a thing about it, about us, for the world. Thank you so much, really; you are, and always will be, the best. Love you, Bebbit.❤️
- from Bebbit (yes, cringey pet names - get over it 😂).
The Masked Musician that’s so funny, the same thing happened to me! I love her so damn much and I’m not bitter at all, just hope she’s happy - even if it’s not with me.
@@avenpower6714 Hope you're doing alright, man - things get better, I hope.
Now I feel like all my emotional stress is nothing compared to y'all's.
And you too dude!
@@rycforfun4764 that's ok! Everyone's stress is relative and even if the stressors are less extreme, you're valid to be in a bad spot :)
It’s torturing me that this isn’t coming out anywhere 😭😭😭😭😭
shhhh don't tell anyone but it's coming out here. for free!
i hope she pulls a party tattoos and ends up surprise-releasing it on streaming services because i want it-
Thats exactly how I feel about Far Away 🥺💕
14th of January and I'm listening to this. I was trying to journal and do a recap of this year, which is usually a joyous thing but right now it's hard to find any joy. I'm beginning to realise how badly the pandemic has actually screwed me over this year. I'm 24 and it's taken a whole life from me. Nothing has come of this year. I lost my job.
But
I'm counting the mornings, I wait to feel well.
The time will come when things are better.
The comments say that it is officially uncuffing season.
Covid said:
I needed this whilst i have been in isolation
seeing dodie’s songwriting evolution all since 2014 is crazy
I’m so proud of her, everyday she seems to become more and more wonderful :’)
I wrote him a letter. I cried in the park. I called my mother and I lay in the dark.
I took down the pictures and I taught myself to breathe; and I hear he's doing just fine without me.
I catch the daydreams before...the hope settles in. I welcome the waves because I know... I wont win.
Oohh I'd neverr wish thiss feeling on anyone, but she. Well I hear he's doing just fine.
Well perhaps the problem lies in the double load I bear. Cause I ripped myself apart and you just stood there. :,(
I'm counting the warnings, I wait to feel well. I might not feel quite as bad, but I can't...really tell?
And I know that I'll be okay, but it's pretty far from a breeze and I hear hes doing just fine. It's breaking me that he isnt mine.
But at least hes doing just fine.. without me.
Mmmmm. Mmmmm. Mmmmmm.
Well at least he's doing just fine without me...
Love you Dodie! Stay strong
thank you
I think this is the most accurate breakup song I’ve ever heard. At least for me it is. This just conveys the most perfect emotion
"I ripped myself apart and you just stood there" mirroring the chord/melody changes gahhhh your way of structuring songs is always so gorgeous !!!
"this isn't coming out on anything"
I respect that I respect that and all but IT'S SO BEAUTIFUL THOUGH
I've never been in a relationship before and this literally made me cry???
These kinds of songs that are kinda effortless, or lo-fi I should say, are my fave type of dodie's songs. But it's heartbreaking that these songs are the one that is not being published ;( I really like this and "far away." I'm not angry that dodie decided to not continue some of her songs, I respect that, but I just kinda hope that I can listen to this from Spotify ☺love you dods.
"I catch the daydreams before the hope settles in". That line hit hard.
dodie always looks like a soft hazy watercolour painting
Its been nine months after my last breakup and I still feel this
I thought of my best guy friend that broke my heart years ago. No, not in a romantic way. Friends can also break your heart. It’s being three years and I still wonder if he ever cared about our friendship. I know he’s doing fine, and it breaks me. This song is beautiful, I’ve being playing it on repeat. Amazing!
i love this dodie. you’re literally such a huge role model to me. you’re so mature about your feelings and how you use them productively
dodie you fell from heaven for everyone who's going through a breakup rn you know
Not only the lyrics, but the inflection and emotion you can just *feel* is so perfect.
my boyfriend and i had a bad argument a week or so ago. we've been on break since, but i can't help this lingering feeling of him just wanting to let go. i love him dearly- he's the first person i've been with and done a lot of firsts with. we fell in love when we were in middle school and started dating our freshman year of high school.
i don't want to let go of him, but at the same time, my heart feels really numbed by all of this.
update: we're no longer together.
update 2: it's been 3 months since the breakup, and i just revisited this song as i was going through a dodie binge. it's a really funny, bittersweet feeling, really. after we split, we tried being "best friends" because that's what we were before all of the romance came in. i realized after a month of just talking as if we were friends again, my feelings weren't going to fade. everything just felt the same way it was when we were together, just without the "i love you"s and the nicknames. i was angry, sad, and still so desperately in love with him and all the stupid things we used to do together. so i finally let go of him. i don't know exactly how long it's been since we stopped talking, but, i feel like i'm finally moving on in the way that i properly should.
hugs for you
Sorry to hear that you two are no longer together but it will get better through time, I know you are probably sad at the moment but remember a time before him ; you lived just fine without him and you can live just fine without him after your breakup, I know it may be hard at first but you will get back into your old patterns without him and everything will be okay. Don’t feel to hung up on it because your true soulmate is out there searching for you somewhere. God bless you and hope you are doing okay!
Hope youre okay
First love is really hard to leave. All of the problems get brushed off because of the bond you have from so many firsts, you wish it could just be preserved. I'm proud of you for having the courage and I hope you're doing well.
I'd like to say the first love hurts the worst, but it's so not true. Each one hurts, and re-ignites the first pain.
Starting from "oh i'd never wish this feeling on anyone" to the end represents me. Not because of a break up. But from rejection
Heartbreak from rejection can feel just as bad as heartbreak from a breakup but people expect you to pull yourself together and be fine much faster
I've been crying about a best friend breakup to dodie songs for the past 3 years. How fitting that as my feelings gentle, the music does too.
HimynameisAverie we can struggle together. a best friend breakup happened to me not too long ago and this song is so close to how i am feeling right now
1 year later and I still come back to listen to this song at least once a week! 😅
Hi it’s me again 🫠
This is a song that will be a classic and will stay at the top of billboard charts for more than 100 years.
I broke up with my boyfriend on New Year’s Eve because we wanted two different things out of the relationship. Two and a half months later I’m still heart broken about it but there’s something really comforting in knownjng that the person I love, even though he’s not in my life anymore, is happy, even if it is without me ❤️ love the song Dodie
Kendra LaFreniere I promise you will find new love again. It’s gonna get better, I promise I promise 💛
That is such a big move. I'm glad that you have come to terms with the idea of being broken up. And being bitter about it is going to do you no good, I hope you are happy sweetheart. ♡
We all needed a pandemic to realize how creative we can be. Everyone is being supportive in this time. I’ve been really productive but also very creative.
Hey I just wanted to say your profile pic is beautiful
Radiant Runaway aw thank you so much ✨have a great day/night 💛
My boyfriend just broke up with me and even tho I wanna cry while listening to this beautiful song, it helps me a lot. Thank you Dodie!
the way this song made me cry barely 1 minute in
Here are the guitar chords that I was able to figure out if anyone's curious: if youre playing on a normal guitar, just Capo on the 5th fret to match pitch. Verses go C, Em, F, C, E7, A7, D7, G.... the breakdown-ey prechorus-ey chords are Am, Am7(I think), A7 and D7. At the end of the first verse/chorus progression, at the, "and I hear he's doing just fine" shes playing an F and sliding it up a whole step to the relative note, which is a variation of a G. After the next versey part she'll do the Am breakdown over "Oh I'd never wish this feeling, on anyone but see" and then plays a C to a G over "Well I hear he's doing just fine" then back to the Am breakdown on "Perhaps the problem lies..." The big punch to the gut, "I ripped myself apart and you just stood there" is a G# bar chord down to a G... If you can figure out the mangled explanation of what I've tried to explain here, you can figure out the exact placement of the chords and where they go by listening to the song a few more times! Hope this helps! Thank you for another beautiful song Dodie!
I’m pretty sure you qualify for being a genius... all facts 🤷♀️
@@samiya5413 Haha thanks but far from it, just an admirer of great songwriting :) Dodie has a video up of exactly how to play the song that she released the day after I posted this comment if youre looking for the phrasing too🤙🏼
Thank you. You're a living legend!!
My dude you’re a god
That A7 in the verses should be an Am (or Am7 I can't tell). And that Am7 you put in the pre-chorus should be an C+ (it can also be thought of as an Am(maj7) since she's playing on a guitar and is probably still playing the open A natural below everything. The main idea is just that the A is descending chromatically to a G.) Nice work with the rest of the song though!
"I catch the daydreams before hope settles in"
dodes I'm a maladaptive daydreamer and I can't friggin stop daydreaming, teach me your ways lol
I recently went through a break up about a month ago. It was mutual and we tried to be friends.. of course, I still had feelings for him. We finally decided it was best for us to be strangers for some time so that way we can give each other space.
I hope in time we can become friends again..
This song hit me a lot harder than when I first listened to it.
dodie pls i always come back to this song i need this on all my spotify playlists